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REUNIONS, PARTIES AND CELEBRATIONS: LIFE IS RETURNING TO CHICAGO

Plus: Chicago Lighthouse's FLAIR "Eye on Style"; Eversight's Fantasea; Cindy on the red carpet; Chicago International Film Festival hosts a new kind of party; A hometown reunion;  Printer's Row Lit Fest brings out Bunnies; A birthday bash with Neal and Marko; Illinois Holocaust Museum's SOIREE; Andrew and Bethany sittin' in a tree; Runway LatinX's sizzling Fashion Show; Navy Pier is ready to "Light Up the Lake"!; ASLF's "A Sterling Event"'; The Joffrey Ballet's "Home"; Fab fall events and what to do for Halloween; Darling video and SOOO much more!

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Long time, no see! I'm so sorry my blog is late! I had no idea of the amount of time and effort it takes to get a newspaper out! But, Chicago Star is a labor of love and I hope

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Chicago Star's first fashion and beauty issue was a great success! Thanks to all who support it!

you're reading, subscribing and enjoying this paper

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Steak 48 cover party (Photo by Erin Lyle)

filled with uplifting, fun and positive news. No "if it bleeds, it leads" sort of stuff for us! As a matter of fact, our October issue was our first Fashion & Beauty issue and I/we had a blast putting it together! From the outstanding cover photo of some of our town's most beloved designers (that I produced with the one and only Hilary Higgins and Erin Lyle Photography) to the "Secrets of Style from Industry Insiders" article to a very clever take on fashion from a completely different point of view, contributor Jon Cohn's, this issue had it ALL! Read it here and let me know what you think!

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Depositphotos_61663845-stock-photo-infinite-gratitudeEven though this has been a trying summer, I think we still have so much to be grateful for. Hopefully, we're near the tail end of this seemingly never-ending pandemic. We've been separated from our loved ones, in fear of our health, zoomed away from our jobs and discombobulated in 100s of other ways and I can still feel it, can't you? I've always loved summer, reveled in it really, but this year, I've viewed every day with caution and some discomfort, not knowing how many shootings the day might bring or if I would hear of another friend or acquaintance who's come down with Covid (like dear Former Secretary of State Colin Powell), despite being fully vaccinated. It's fear of the unknown that we're all dealing with on a regular basis now and Istockphoto-1007339180-612x612 this anxiety can be felt throughout the city and in everyone I know. Summer is supposed to be the time of joyous abandon, but this year, it's been exactly the opposite. I pray this will end soon so we can get back to being the people we're supposed to be–kind, loving, giving, helpful–and move away from all of this negativity and fear. Fall brings change and I hope it brings us more happy days filled with corn mazes, apple cider donuts, glowing fireplaces, walks in the woods, bundling up in your favorite sweaters and roadtrips with friends and family. Here's to you dear readers and to a kinder, gentler season for us all.

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Cindy Crawford and photographer David Yarrow at Hilton Asmus Contemporary gallery opening. (Photo by Justin Barbin)

Cindy Crawford and photographer David Yarrow at Hilton Asmus Contemporary gallery opening.

Picture perfect! It was the first and best red carpet experience to come back in Chicago since the pandemic so it was no wonder that the nearly 200 guests at the Hilton|Amus Contemporary art gallery opening didn't want to leave. The event, hosted by the gallery in its new Bridgeport location on October 9, celebrated the opening of its upcoming exhibition, "Changing Lanes," which featured the works of renowned photographer David Yarrow in collaboration with supermodel Cindy Crawford. The exhibition included Yarrow's stunning interpretation of Cindy's iconic Pepsi ad by Joe Pytka, simply titled "1992," which was the year the original commercial aired

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David Yarrow, Arica Hilton, Cindy Crawford and Sven Asmus in front of Yarrow's iconic recreation titled "1992."

during the Super Bowl. Both stars were in attendance, first chatting with the media and then, Cindy snapping photos with ALL of the guests before dinner. A Q&A followed led by

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Stan Wozniak (2nd from R) and friends.

Fox-32's Jake Hamilton. The event helped raise funds for the University of Wisconsin Kids Cancer Program, the same hospital that treated Cindy's late brother Jeff who passed away from leukemia as a child. The red carpet stretched all the way through the garage into the massive freight elevator and then up to the main gallery. Art enthusiasts stepped into the 5,000-square-foot

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Mancow Muller, Arica Hilton and friend.

space, done in chic shades of black, white and

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Charles Miers, head of publishing Rizzoli NYC.

grey to coordinate with the oversized photographs that adorned the walls. On this night, David Yarrow's exquisite work was on full display, many featuring Cindy, while others focused on the Wild West and animals in the wild. Cindy arrived in a stunning, sequin-studded gun-metal grey jumpsuit to greet guests. She graciously chatted with media in front of her iconic image, along with Mr. Yarrow. They shared their joy over

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Thrill of a lifetime! Watch for interview on ChicagoStarMedia.com produced by Troy Mairs.


collaborating together again, how much it meant that the funds were going to the University of Madison Kids

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Americana, another great image by David Yarrow available at this gallery.

Cancer Program (together, they raised over $1 million over the weekend for the American Family Children's Hospital there) and more. Cindy spoke about the legendary Chicago photographer, Victor Skrebneski, who discovered and mentored her. She said he taught her professionalism and to remember that the photos were about selling the product and not the model. She also spoke about her daughter Kaia, also a supermodel, and how proud she was of her and the decisions she's

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"1992", David Yarrow's recreation of the iconic Pepsi ad with Cindy, sold 3 times that night for charity.

made in the business. Dinner from Inspired Catering (Karen Stefani), consisted of a choice of filet, sea bass, ravioli or a vegetarian option. Every detail was attended to, right down to the flowers on the table

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Loretta Wilger, who modeled with Cindy, Dennis Minkel, Cindy and Jack Perno.(Photo by Perno)

which included yarrow, as a nod to the photographer. A red Cadillac Eldorado, a duplicate of the one used in the photo recreation, was displayed in the gallery as well. During dinner, Arica Hilton addressed the attentive crowd and shared the mission of her gallery. "The artwork and artists we

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A very attentive crowd.

represent are all about making the world a better place. We're not just selling art. We choose who we represent for a reason. David, over the last couple of years, has raised over $5 million for various charities–from cancer research to animal protection and conversation to ocean conservation. That's what we are about." She

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Expertly catered by An Inspired Event (Karen Stefani)

acknowledged celebs in the crowd, radio personality Mancow Muller, head of Rizzoli Publishing in NY Charles Miers and stars of Showtime's "The Chi," Yolonda Ross and Tai Davis.

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The image that started Cindy's career.

Yarrow also addressed the crowd, "Yesterday, we had an event in Madison, Wisconsin. Visiting the hospital there was one of the most humbling experiences of my life. I was meeting people who were changing and saving children's lives and it put everything into perspective for me. The UW is a trailblazer. The iconic picture we recreated of Cindy has been shown

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Even more beautiful in person.

across Europe. And everyone wants this photo! Last night, they sold $400,000 worth of that picture and every penny is going to the UW. I know the Chicago Bears can't beat the Green Bay Packers (ha, ha) but, tonight's your chance to give Wisconsin a run for its money.

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David and Cindy with Charles Miers and friend.

Cindy, who's a national treasure, will sign the photograph for you. There's only about 12 of these left."  (Three of the pieces were sold during the evening)  Dr. Paul Sondel, head of the pediatric cancer

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Karen Konyer and her cute hubby.

research program at UW, was in attendance as well. He's recognized around the world as an expert in his field. He said, "In 1950, children diagnosed with cancer had no treatment available. Almost all of those children died within a few months of their diagnose. But now, in 2021, here

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Cindy appearing in a Chicago International Film Festival poster shot by the late, great Victor Skrebneski.

in the U.S., 85% of children with cancer are cured and the cancer won't come back. That's because of research, both in the lab and in the clinic. But, in many cases, because of the cure, they

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"American Beauty", another spectacular photo by David Yarrow available at Hilton-Asmus Contemporary.

will have lasting medical problems because of the toxicity of the treatments. Our vision is to have kinder, gentler, more intelligent and more effective treatments to eliminate the cancer without harming normal tissue. And the approach we're using to help get there is the use of immunotherapy, trying to get the immune system to attack the cancer so we can use less radiation and chemo. We also know these advances will help treat

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Photo bombed by Stan Wozniak.

cancer in adults. We're convinced we can get there because we see it happening every day. Since 1992, Cindy has made childhood cancer and the UW her special focus,

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Arica's great friends, Karin Carlson and Ann-Marie Streibich.

providing major financial support, visiting the hospital and being an ambassador. And David has turned his work into protecting our earth and supporting all of its species and people to protect its future. He lives his commitment every day. Together, they are raising awareness worldwide for children and their families who are facing cancer."(Yarrow's images at the gallery run from $35,000 to $55,000. "1992", signed by both Crawford and Yarrow and measuring 47" X 63" including frame, is for sale at $35,000.)  Hilton|Asmus Contemporary, 3622 S. Morgan St. (www.hilton-asmus.com); David Yarrow, (www.davidyarrow.photography.com) (Photos by Justin Barbin and Mila Samokhina)

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Justine Fedak, Woman of Vision 2021, and Sherry Lea Fox, Woman of Vision 2020.

Eversight was FINALLY able to host its popular Gift of Sight Mystery Masquerade on September 8 at the Peninsula. It was great to see nearly 300 attendees who were anxious and

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Gift of Sight honoree Dr. Parag Majmudar and his proud family.

excited to return to in-person events! The theme for this year's party was Fantasea, which was a fun-filled, under-the-sea theme that guests were happy to embrace. I loved seeing all of the SEE-worthy outfits including outstanding looks from Sugar & Spice, Giovanna Krozel and Almira Yllana, Susan Gohl and Jonathan Grabill (Jonathan was wearing an adorable shark hat), Patty Brand Nalepa (pretty in blue), Eversight president/CEO Diane Hollingsworth (also pretty in blue) and especially our Woman of

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Proud to return as co-chair, with the always adorable Michael Caputo.

Vision, Justine Fedak, who was truly a vision enveloped

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Diane Hollingsworth, looking glam in Fantasea blue. (Eversight pres/CEO)

in a sparkly sea-blue design created by Sylwia Designs. The weather couldn't have been more perfect on this night which was a godsend since we had planned a large part of our event to be held on the patio. Beautiful lighting, magnificent sea-themed decor (by Tamar Productions with bar and support from Kehoe Designs), coral mixed with florals for the tabletops and dramatic video-mapping of a beautiful undersea world that was brought to life by last year's Woman of Vision and longtime supporter, Sherry Lea Holson. It created the perfect ambiance.

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Greg Hyder and Jim Smith.

Tamar Productions' Mary Ann Rose even donated beautiful

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Tom Dreesen with a beautiful mermaid, courtesy of ZZAZZ Productions, Caroline Koch.

rhinestone crowns for every guest. A "mermaid," courtesy of ZZAZZ Productions (Tracey Tarantino DiBuono), charmingly posed for photos with guests. A surprise guest, comedian Tom Dreesen (in from Hollywood), wowed the crowd as he shared a funny sketch before joining "G-Man" Greg Dellinger to conduct the live auction and a fund-a-need. Before dinner, which was Chilean sea bass (another nod to our theme!), an awards presentation and an inspiring impact story was presented. My co-chair, Michael Caputo, and I were honored to share the stage

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Magnificent decor by Tamar Productions with elements by Kehoe Designs.

again to welcome guests and thank our sponsors—Cornea Consultants (Visionary Sponsor), Leadership Sponsors Cheryl Coleman and Ron Katz, Sherry Lea Holson, Tony and Moira Saliba, Mamie J. Walton, Warby Parker, Gift of Hope, Illinois Eye and Ear Infirmary and MyEyeDr. Eversight pres/CEO Diane

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Tamar Productions' Mary Ann Rose donated darling crowns for each guest in a nod to our theme.

Hollingsworth spoke about the nonprofit's mission to preserve and restore sight through the healing power of donation, transplantation and research. "We honor our doctors and donor families that make the miracle of transplantation happen. We celebrate our surgeons that give people their

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Sugar & Spice (Almira Yllana and Giovanna Krozel) light up every party they attend!

lives back through transplantation. We use diseased eye tissue to help find cures for all blinding eye conditions. We exist to serve and support this amazing community, drive toward new innovations and strive to have donor families, surgeons, our Organ Procurement, and hospital partners trust in our relationship to serve this community together," Diane said. Marta Garczarczyk, Eversight Philanthropy Director, shared a special letter from one of

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Beautiful (CHAMPION!) Chicago Sky basketball players Diamond DeShields and Lexie Brown.

Dr. Parag Majmudar's recipients. The recipient has corneal dystrophy which runs in his family. Dr. Majmudar has successfully treated 3 generations of his family members. Dr. David Lubeck, 2019 Gift of Sight honoree, introduced this year's honoree, Dr. Parag Majmudar.

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Playful Susan Gohl and Jonathan Grabill get into the spirit of the party.

Lubeck ceremoniously draped a sparkly cape around Dr. Majmudar before he delivered his acceptance speech. Sherry Holson and I introduced Justine Fedak, this year's Woman of Vision. Justine lived with MS for over 20 years and miraculously regained her mobility and health. She was also a BMO C-Suite marketing exec for 20 years and left January 2020 to live out her work life as a Corporate

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Justine Fedak, honoree, Sylwia Wilczynska, Kathy Piccone and Mark Olley.

Hippie, consulting, doing motivational speaking and writing a children's book. She is committed to motivating and inspiring people to "see" their best and true selves. In short, she is a perfect WOV! Both of the honorees' speeches brought the crowd to their feet,

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Dr. Parag Majmuder, Gift of Sight honoree 2021, and Dr. David Lubeck, 2020 honoree.

as they were so moving, inspiring and thoughtful.  DJ Akib, played throughout the night and, in the end, people didn't want to leave. I think we were just all so grateful to be reunited that we didn't want the night to end. Thank you to all who attended, donated and supported this event which raised over $150,000. 

 

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With the Eversight Team: Michael Caputo, Teresa Clark, Justine Fedak (honoree), Dr. Parag Madmudar (honoree), Diane Hollingsoworth, Mary Ann Rose, Greg Hyder and Marta Garczarczyk.

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Susan Griffiths Gohl, The Chicago Lighthouse's Hood/Swift Woman with Flair honoree, with Monsignor Ken Velo and Jonathan Grabill.

The Chicago Lighthouse presented its popular FLAIR "Eye on Style" fashion show fundraiser on October 1 at the Drake. Nearly 300 supporters were thrilled to return to a live, in-person event and this one didn't miss a beat. From the deserving Hood/Swift Woman with FLAIR honoree, Susan Griffiths Gohl, to the glamorous runway models to the exciting designers and retailers, everything in the spectacular Gold Coast Room was perfect. Sherrill Bodine and Sheree Schimmer returned for their 5th year as the pro co-chairs that they are to rally support for this nonprofit that provides programming for the blind and visually

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Cheryl Bollinger, Shauna Montgomery and Sally Jo Morris.

impaired. I had the honor of returning as co-host with Tracey Tarantino DiBuono. This year's event supported the Lighthouse's children's

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Caroline Grossinger and Dr. Janet Szlyk, Chicago Lighthouse president-CEO

programming. The luncheon kicked off with a video showcasing highlights from last year's virtual show, produced by ZZAZZ Productions as was this year's presentation. Dr. Janet Szlyk spoke eloquently about the organization and I had the pleasure of introducing Susan, who couldn't have been a more perfect honoree. She's an

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Front L to R, Theresa Strnad, Vonita Reescer, top L to R, Melinda Jakovich-LaGrange and event co-host Tracey Tarantino DiBuono.

ardent philanthropist who supports so many charities, including the Service Club of Chicago as well as many animal and equestrian nonprofits both here and in Naples. She enlisted her friend Monsignor Ken Velo to deliver the blessing before lunch. During the program, models strutted looks from Mira

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Sherrill Bodine and Sheree Schimmer, fab returning co-chairs.

Couture, Anne Fontaine, redE Mas, Frances Heffernan, Al Menotti Couture, Lauren Lein Ltd., St. John, Contessa Bottega, and the finale, Macy's MyStylist. An inspiring musical performance by Nina Vargas, who was discovered in the Lighthouse's Youth Transition Program talent show, brought the house down. She sang a hit from The Greatest Showman, "A Million

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Kevin Sullivan, who makes all things possible.

Dreams." (Watch it here!) Special thanks to all who supported this wonderful cause and a big shout-out to Kevin Sullivan, who along with his team Adrienne Squires and Francisco Perez, makes all things possible. DJ Akib, as always, kept the runway rockin'! (Chicago Star was the proud media sponsor)

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CIFF artistic director Mimi Plauche delivers remarks after receiving her honor.

The Chicago International Film Festival hosted its first in-person fundraiser since the beginning of the pandemic themed, Lights, Camera, Chicago" at event space Bridge410

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CIFF founder Michael Kutza.

on September 13. This unique space at 410 N. Paulina, was the perfect spot for people still a bit cautious about venturing back into the events scene with an outdoor space that looked like something straight out of a Norman Rockwell painting. Food trucks dotted the space with yummy Eli's Cheesecake Dippers passed around on silver trays. Guests enjoyed 'tastes of Chicago,' live music, a silent auction, films and an award presentation– the Chevalier des Arts et Lettres award presentation to Artistic Director, Mimi Plauché. Proceeds from the event will benefit the year-round programs of the Chicago International Film Festival.

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Not many showed up from my year but we still had fun!

I don't agree with Thomas Wolfe, I think you can go home again and should. It was life-affirming to return to my hometown of Dupo, Illinois recently for my "No Class Reunion, " that was filled with all the faces of my childhood. Sadly, with each passing year, we lose friends and the

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Drone view by Matt Jones of the idyllic Dupo American Legion Park where the reunions are always held.

memories turn bittersweet but we are still there to commemorate them and carry on. The event is always expertly planned by Marsha Bieber English and Rose Freppon Falana and held in the American Legion Park. We usually have food vendors

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Took a side trip to Eckert's Fun Farm in Columbia, Ill. Here, Chuck pretends like he's never seen a pumpkin before.

but, this year, due to that damn Covid, we had to change plans so everyone brought their own snacks and drinks. It was no hardship–we were just all happy to see each other. Each class, going all the way back to 1946, had a group picture snapped….my class of 1972 was small but mighty (next year I'm hoping to see more classmates)

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Reunion organizers Marsha Bieber English and Rose Freppon Falana.

but every class was represented and proudly stood by the little Dupo No Class Reunion sign firmly planted in the ground outside the pavilion. We chatted, laughed, shared gossip and cherished every moment since, for some of us, it might be

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Thoughtful friend Debra Nichols Mikel had this purse designed with my Playboy cover! 

our last. Dear friend and fellow classmate Debra Nichols Mikel even had a beautiful purse created for me using one of my Playboy covers! You could've blown me over with a feather! And thank goodness Chuck always enjoys these road trips to my hometown. We both agree, this lifestyle could probably lengthen our lives–the air is fresh and there's no stress. My Aunt Lora Stott is proof positive at 90 years young! She could still be an Ivory Soap model. Not a wrinkle on her pretty face. When we were there, we made the most of our time and packed a lot

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Dear friend Tommy Hundley with Chuck and the Chicago Star!

of sightseeing into a couple of days. One day, we had dinner in Waterloo at a cute Italian spot called Frederico's. The next night, we missed the reunion kick-off party and had a quiet dinner at

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Mike Sager, and friends, celebrate part of his 1968 class.

Reifschneider's in Columbia, surrounded by Cardinal fans as they trounced the Cubs. A license plate in the parking lot said "No Cub"….okay, we get it! LOL!! One afternoon, we drove to Millstadt, an old German town where my mom, my stepfather Donald and I would always go for Friday night fish frys–and the place is still there, Ott's! We also visited Eckert's Fun Farm, that features camel rides, pig races, farm stand food (including succotash cooked in a ginormous cast iron skillet) and a packed local food store with canned

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Sign seen in Dupo American Legion Post 485.

goods made from the farm's produce. The weather couldn't have been more perfect and we never once

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A small part of the Class of 1969.

had to put the top up on our convertible (we even drove the 5 hours home with it down!)….. I drove Chuck to the edge of the Mississippi River where we could see the barges packing the waterway. From there, into East Carondelet where Mama Mary Johnson lived. She was like a second mother to me and I miss her still. Her house is torn down but I could visualize it and her sitting proudly on her porch in front of her prized forsythia bush as

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Mindy Mernick (far right) and her cute class.

husband Jim worked in their huge garden behind the house. He pulled the plow himself, that's how strong he was. Jim also worked on the railroad, where an uncle of mine also worked. My

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Fun with good friends.

uncle would tell stories of Jim's strength and how he could, single-handedly, lift an entire engine wheel. He was the original Paul Bunyon. We passed the bingo hall where Mary used to play (and always win), the community center where I hosted her 90th birthday party and the Flat Creek Baptist Church where I proudly went with her and Jim on the Sundays

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We always love stopping in at the Pink Elephant Antique Mall in Livingston, Il.

when I was in town. So many memories.  Even my childhood home in Dupo, at 325 Louisa Avenue, is still standing and looks much better than I remember it. We visited

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Chuck beside the Big Muddy, the Mississippi River.

the American Legion Post 485 where I honed my pool skills–they later become very, very useful when I became a Playboy Bunny and beat anyone who played me on the bumper pool table. LOL! Those were the days. It was such a rewarding trip and I always come back revitalized and more hopeful about mankind. My friends are the salt of the earth and I'm so proud to be from a small town. I can't wait to go back next year to celebrate our 50th class reunion! I'm already planning my wardrobe.

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Dupo No Class Reunion 2021

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Talented, charming and a great sport–author Christina Clancy, holding her latest book "Shoulder Season" set in and near the Lake Geneva Playboy Club. 

The 36th annual Printers Row Lit Fest, presented by the Near South Planning Board, returned Sept. 11-12 to the South Loop. Headlining the festival was National Book

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Panel discussion with author Christina Clancy (R) and moderator/author Christine Sneed.

Award winner Ta-Nehisi Coates ("The Water Dancer," Between the World and Me", "The Beautiful Struggle") but my favorite was the charming author of "Shoulder Season", Christina Clancy. Her latest book is one of the first books of fiction to feature the world of Playboy, in particular, the life of a small town girl (Sherri Taylor) who became a Bunny at the Lake Geneva Playboy Club. Christina invited me to discuss my experiences and compare them to the title character IMG_1531during a panel discussion on the Main Stage. There was an inquisitive audience who asked intriguing questions–it was a

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Christina Clancy with her proud agent.

joyous walk down memory lane and, thankfully, Christina had portrayed Hefner and the organization in a wonderful light, as it should be. Surprisingly, after I read the book, I thought Christina had captured my own story almost down to the names of my hometown friends. It was a bit eerie but I was very flattered and devoured the book. It was named a Best Book of Summer by Good Morning America, CNN, Parade, Travel & Leisure and others. (Order it here, you will thank me later!)

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Neal Zucker and partner Marko Iglendza celebrated double birthdays with a grand Gatsby-esque bash at the Peninsula. (Photo by Linda Alpert)

Neal Zucker and his partner Marko Iglendza hosted a double birthday celebration at the Peninsula on September 17. Neal was celebrating his 55th and Marko his 50th with nearly 300 of their closest friends. The

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Darling bookends–Eric Kicherer and Paul Iacono with ZZAZZ Productions' model.

blow-out affair had everything, exotic showgirls (from ZZAZZ Productions) dressed in "Shanghai chic" attire, guests dressed to impress, cocktails flowing in every area of the Peninsula, music and then, of course, the rain. What had been forecast for a week was clear skies but what

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Dramatic event decor by VH Designs (Vince Hart)

actually transpired was a completely different story. On the patio, beautiful decor by VH Designs (Vince Hart) was drenched but the crack team at the Pen, led by Maria Zec with support from Greg Hyder, magically and quickly transformed what could've become a mess into an evening no one will soon forget! The tables were

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Birthday fun at the Pen!

repositioned in the hotel's lobby, which was the first time this had been done. And even though guests were a bit discombobulated for a while, party

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After-party in the ballroom.

faces returned and dancing continued into the wee hours in the ballroom. No one wanted to leave. Kudos to the Pen for pulling off this difficult feat with such aplomb and, of course, to the generous birthday boys. It was a night like none other and just what we all needed. Thanks Neal and Marko!

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Arabel Alva Rosales, founder of Runway LatinX and Pivoting in Heels, welcomes the SRO crowd.

The Runway LatinX We Flourish fashion show on October 16 was SRO at Cine City Studios. The space was perfect for this spectacular fashion show that featured sizzling looks from

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One of the many beautiful designs in the show, this one by Adolfo Sanchez.

designers Delvin McCray, Andrea Salazar, Adolfo Sanchez and Fernanda Flores. The 3-day long series of events was hosted by Arabel Alva Rosales, the founder of the event's nonprofit beneficiary Pivoting in Heels, which strives to empower women in a variety of ways by hosting panel discussions, tutorials, events like this one, and more. I was proud to co-emcee alongside Univision's David Miranda, who charmed the crowd at every turn! The event was also live-streamed to Mexico and Columbia as well as several states in the U.S. DJ Raddick played throughout the evening. Special thanks to Arabel for all she does to promote women and her community. (For details on Pivoting in Heels, click here!)

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The dynamic Women's Leadership Committee of the Illinois Holocaust Museum.

It was such an honor for me to return to host the Illinois Holocaust Museum's SOIREE event at the Botanic Garden. The event, hosted by the Women's

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The beautiful setting at the Chicago Botanic Garden.

Leadership Committee, was held "under the stars" in a tent near a beautiful lake to help fund the museum's important programming. SOIREE, co-hosted by WB members Juliet Gray and Caroline Pfeffer, featured a video presentation hosted

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Fritzie Fritzshall honored in a video tribute.

by Melissa Forman of a virtual tour of the Museum and a video tribute to the late Fritzie Fritzshall, who was integral to the Museum's success. A lavish buffet, dancing, a signature donut wall, and raffle prizes followed. The Museum's next exhibition, "Rise Up: Stonewall and the LGBTQ Right Movement," will open October 17 and will explore the June 1969 police raid of the Stonewall Inn that ignited the modern gay rights movement in the U.S. (Click here for all the info!)

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Engaged! Bethany Florek and Andrew Kitick!

This n' That: Congrats to Bethany Florek and her love, Andrew Kitick, who recently became engaged! Sugar & Spice (Almira Yllana and Giovanna Krozel) recently

Giovanna Krozel and Almira Yllana.

Giovanna and Ken Krozel and Almira Yllana (Sugar & Spice) hosted a watch party for the Adler Planetarium's Celestial Ball at LondonHouse.

hosted a bash at LondonHouse Chicago to celebrate Adler Planetarium's virtual Celestial Ball. They always bring it! Their enthusiasm makes every party they attend so much better! And more kudos are in order for PAWS Chicago, which recently hosted a grand re-opening celebration for its state-of-the-art medical center at 3516 W. 26th St.

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I'm thrilled to report the event scene is still heading in the right direction! Here's a few of note and some events/experiences you might be interested in!

IiiNavy Pier will be full of fun and fright each Saturday through Oct. 30, during Slightly Spooky Saturdays, a series of themed immersive pop-up events for families in the Fifth Third Bank Family Pavilion. Each Saturday will feature interactive performances from costumed actors, acrobatic feats courtesy of the Actors Gymnasium, free Axe Throwing for guests from Axeplosion, a professional photographer with custom backgrounds and Professional VFX Make-Up Demonstrations from Faces in Focus. In addition, each themed Saturday will have their own special one-time only activities. (Details here!)

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Navy Pier Light Up the LakeAnd more big news from the People's Pier with "Light Up the Lake"–Navy Pier will brighten the winter season with Light Up the Lake, an indoor, temperature-controlled experience, featuring large-scale light-sculpture displays comprising more than 600,000 twinkling lights; a regulation-size Alpine ice rink, authentic holiday beer garden, kiddie train rides, Santa’s Village and gift market and other family-friendly events. Offering something for everyone, Light Up the Lake will run from Nov. 26 through Jan. 2, in Festival Hall at Navy Pier. Special themed events, including date nights, are also planned. Transforming more than 100,000 square feet of Navy Pier’s expansive Festival Hall, Light Up the Lake will also offer sit-down dining with holiday-themed eats, signature cocktails, and seasonal brews. Grab-and-go meals and snacks will be available throughout the event space. (All the exciting deets here!)

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Dr. Sandy Goldberg and her Greg Hines hosted another successful gala for A Silver Lining Foundation.

A Silver Lining Foundation’s 17th Annual A Sterling Event took place on Saturday, October 2 at the Hyatt Regency McCormick Place. Over 200 people were in attendance celebrating being together again and in full

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Philanthropists/ restaurateurs, Al and Pam Capitinini served as dinner co-chairs.

compliance with all COVID related guidelines and mandates. There were lively bidding wars for both the silent and live auctions – resulting in significant fundraising efforts to cover the costs of programs and services for A Silver Lining Foundation. Dr. Sandy Goldberg and Greg Hines, A Silver Lining Foundation Co-Founders, are pleased to announce that plans are underway for the 18th Annual A Sterling Event scheduled to take place on October 8, 2022.  The event promises to be fun and exciting as A Silver Lining Foundation prepares to celebrate the 20th anniversary of its founding!   

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The Joffrey Ballet's triumphant return to the stage.

The Joffrey Ballet's opening night, October 13, was a triumph, both in performance and its new venue at the Lyric Opera House. "Home: A Celebration" is an appropriate name for this night that brought together old and new Joffrey friends. The Lyric's renovations had everyone smiling and the dancers onstage received too many standing ovations to count. Now through Oct. 24! (Details here)

Arts in the Dark, a family-friendly annual event on October 30, will celebrate the artistic side of Halloween along State Street. This enchanted nighttime parade features large-scale puppets,

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Arts in the Dark, an enchanted nighttime parade coming to State St. October 30. 

costumed performers, elaborate floats, luminous lanterns, music and more. The city’s creative community, including cultural institutions like the Art Institute of Chicago and Lookingglass Theatre Company, will combine forces to create this surreal evening in downtown Chicago. The parade is not only a salute to Chicago’s cultural community, it has become a showcase for the creativity and diversity of Chicago’s neighborhoods. This must-see event is the only parade that features performers from every one of Chicago's 50 Wards! Family-friendly and free and open to the public.

Jack’s Pumpkin Pop-Up returns to Goose Island now

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Jack's Pumpkin Pop-Up going on now in Goose Island.

through Oct. 31 for an unforgettable 2-acre, 100% outdoor fall experience with Chicago’s largest corn maze, a hidden boozy bar, axe throwing, carnival games, music, fortune telling, pumpkin patch, three full-service bars, food trucks, one-of a-kind Instagram photo opps and MORE!

The Northalsted Halloween Parade, ranked one of the 10 Best Halloween Celebrations in the U.S. by Fodor’s Travel, will be held in the heart of the Northalsted

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Northalsted Halloween Parade coming Oct. 31.

(also known as Boystown) neighborhood. The procession kicks off on Sunday, Oct. 31 at 7:00 p.m. on Halsted at Belmont with the Chicago Thriller flash mob, a troupe of ghoulish zombies performing and so much more! Join in the dancing or follow the parade route north, where a panel of drag queens will award prizes for the best costumes.

Streeterville Doggie Halloween Party, will be held in the MCA's garden on October 31. Alderman Brian Hopkins and Maureen Schulman will begin judging doggie costumes beginning at 9:15 am. with treats from Eli's Cheesecake and coffee. Free to the public.

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A rendering of the Museum of Ice Cream coming to Chicago in the summer.

Museum of Ice Cream–Museum of Ice Cream (MOIC) is bringing its experiential museum to Chicago this coming summer 2022. Located at The Shops at Tribune Tower, 435 N Michigan, the one-of-its-kind space will span 13,544 square feet and encompass retail, entertainment, and a cafe and bar. The whimsical installations, imaginative tours, themed retail and more are designed under the premise that ice cream is a symbol of joy, a universal connector and a transportive vehicle for anyone’s imagination.

Howard Brown  will host its 6th annual Big Orange Ball (virtually) on Saturday, October 23 from 8-9 pm and then for one week only On Demand through Sunday, Big Orange BallOctober 31, at midnight. Kick off the 2021 Halloween season from the comfort of your couch or coffin, as this party-turned-premiere has you venture into a fright-filled night with ghostly treats, a dead-silent auction, and other spooky surprises! Prepare for a scare with spine-chilling stories that are sure to DRAG you straight to hell! The spooktacular show will be hosted by Lucy Stoole and feature ghost stories told by Wanda Screw, Coco Sho-Nell, Tenderoni, and Irregular Girl.  Your tickets and donations will benefit Howard Brown Health, making healthcare less scary for LGBTQ community. (Details here

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HCRF's Wings to Cure Gala coming Nov. 6.

Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation will host its "Wings to Cure" gala on Saturday, November 6, at the Hilton Chicago. Established in 2015, HCRF's mission is to discover, develop and implement effective new cancer therapies by supporting groundbreaking research. (Gala details here)

The Apparel Industry Foundation will host REV UP!, a fashion show fundraiser on Thursday, October 21, to support our local design community. Models will strut

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AIBI presents Rev UP! 2021, Oct. 21. 

their stuff in virtual segments showcasing local designers' looks for fall. A VIP viewing party of the fashion video will be held at Bentley Gold Coast. The AIBI nurtures and supports the sewn products industry, including designers, through programming that includes all facets of the industry–merchandising, retail, sales, marketing, etc.  (I'm emcee) Details here!

PAWS Chicago will host its annual Fur Ball on Friday, November 12 at the Drake Hotel. This year will celebrate the nonprofit's 20th anniversary. So, if you love seeing dogs in tuxes and supporting animal welfare, this event is for you! (Details here!) 

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Service Club Gala coming Nov.5 with celeb emcee John O'Hurley.

The Service Club of Chicago's annual gala is shaping

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up to be a sellout so be sure to get your tickets NOW! The black-tie event,"Our Kind of Town Chicago…And All That Jazz",  will be held on Friday, November 5, with actor John O'Hurley (Seinfeld's J. Peterman), as the event emcee. The event will be held at the Four Seasons to benefit the nonprofit's Philanthropic Grant Program. Co-chaired by Melinda Jakovich-LaGrange, Heather Spyra and Lyn McKeaney. Music will be provided by the Gold Coast All Stars. (Raffle, silent and live auctions) (Details here)

Chicago Police Foundation's True Blue event will be

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The Chicago Police Foundation's True Blue event will honor John Robak on Nov. 6.

Sat., Nov. 6. The nonprofit will honor beloved philanthropist John Robak, at the Four Seasons. Proceeds will support and fund programs that provide supplemental resources in the areas of safety equipment, advanced technology, enhanced training and officer wellness for the Chicago Police Dept. Details here!

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Fox-32's Sylvia Perez.

Special thanks to Sylvia Perez for having me back on her fabulous Fox-32 Chicago show! We always have fun and had so much to discuss! (See video below) Thanks also to Anna Davlantes for having me back to chat on her cool WGN-Radio show, always a great time with both of these iconic media personalities!

 

 

Welcome back CHICAGO! Thanks for reading and supporting, I hope you're having a great fall! We have been having a wonderful time, especially now that we have a recurring visitor, a female Cardinal, who comes when I call! Ahhh, the thrill of nature!

Love, as always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

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Plus: What nonprofit fundraisers are coming back in 2021?; YWCA Metropolitan Chicago's GREAT news; Izzy "Shops with a Cop" for the kids; Silver linings for PAWS Chicago, One Tail at a Time and Young at Heart Pet Rescue; CHI-lebrities open their hearts in Chicago Star Media; Remembering Hef's HOT New Year's Eve parties; Eversight Illinois' Mystery Masquerade; Playboy's new centerfold policy; Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation's Wings to Cure; Chicago Light's Gala of Hope; Happy engagement announcements; Six Flags Holiday Drive-Thru; In the news with John and Steve; Thoughts on 2020 and what the New Year will bring; A touching video and SO MUCH MORE!

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New Year's Eve looked a little different this year. Besides Covid changing the landscape of the entire world, it also kept us from celebrating the end of one of the worst years in recent memory. Restaurants missed out on much needed revenue, friends missed traditional celebrations with family and Times Square was eerily empty. People could only peek out their windows like Jimmy Stewart in "Rear Window" trying to get a feel for what was happening outside. We are all still on lockdown, mentally and physically. Chuck and I grabbed longtime friend Michael Kutza

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NYE at cozy Avli on Wells.

determined to still experience NYE, this year in a tent with heaters. Even though people were having fun we all knew this was just a (hopefully temporary) substitute for the real thing. All of this lack of freedom made me think about the wild and woolly days of NYEs past. We're so lucky

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Yurts at Swift & Sons designed by Kehoe.

to have experienced the heyday of Playboy with Hefner at his Mansion in LA. I always felt his parties rivaled Jay Gatsby's in exquisite excess and excitement. The invitations, always with beautiful pinup artwork created by Olivia De Berardinis, arrived in the mail a few weeks before the big event (I've saved them all).

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LA Playboy Mansion lit up for NYE 2009.

We would RSVP immediately and then the anticipation began. You never knew what to expect at any of his

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With Hef at a past NYE in LA.

parties as the guest lists were always changing to accommodate whoever was in town along with some of his celebrity friends. One year, the Village People performed, another year Three Six Mafia hit the stage that was inside a ginormous tent on the grounds of Hef's Holmby Hills estate. Another year, one of Hef's three girlfriends, Bridget Marquardt,  popped out of a giant cake

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Hef surrounded by admirers at a past NYE.

and did a slow strip tease as she gazed into his eyes (the crowd went wild). Hef's party guests have included John Elway, Penelope Cruz, James Caan, Nicholas Cage, astronaut Buzz Aldrin, Robert Culp, Tiffany Trump, Donald Trump,  Julie Newmar, Bill Cosby (ick), Jane Russell, Quentin Tarantino, Pamela

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Chuck enjoying the views at one of Hef's NYE parties.

Anderson, Jack Nicholson, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Madonna, Eddie Murphy, Warren Beatty, Justin Timberlake, Jimmy Connors, Paris and Nicky Hilton, Eddie Murphy and so many more. It was always a great

adventure wondering who you would see that night. I was lucky that Hef liked Chuck too and always included him. During the parties, guests enjoyed gourmet buffets,

With fellow PMs--all former Hef girlfriends but me--including Patti Connors

Celebrating with fellow Playmates Marcy Hanson, Hope Olson and Patti McGuire Connors.

unlimited champagne and cocktails, swimming in the pool or lounging in the grotto. Guests were encouraged to wear lingerie which definitely added to the excitement. Some girls' interpretations of the "suggested attire" left little to the imagination. Oh, those were truly the days! I'm happy to see Playboy doing so well online now too. Even though the magazines have physically disappeared, the brand's online presence is strong and growing. I'm so happy to still have them as a family too. Here's to another 68 years and to a bigger, brighter 2021 for us all! 

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My PostI quizzed some of my favorite bold-faced names to see how they were handling the pandemic, what their NYE resolutions were, their best moments of 2020, hopes for the future and any advice that might give us some inspiration. I discovered that we all have more in common than we know. I hope you enjoy these enlightening, and in some cases, surprising, comments from some of my favorite Chicago notables.   

One of my favorite media peeps, Sylvia Perez (Fox-32) provided these thoughtful answers. Her

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Sylvia Perez: "We are Puerto Rican and I love these shirts. We eat Pasteles and drink coquito (Puerto Rican egg nog) it’s a holiday tradition!"

favorite moment, "When they finally took Texas off the travel ban list and I was able to see my 86 year-old mother who I had not seen since last year because of the pandemic. It warmed my heart. I needed my mommy. It doesn't matter how old you are." Her NYE resolution? "To live in the moment!" Her advice? "Everyone is going through something, respect and try not to judge."

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Kathy O'Malley Piccone, the hostess with the mostest at Gibson's Steakhouse, said her favorite moments during the pandemic were "when people started to reach out to each other, sending texts, jokes, puzzles, flowers, delicious foods from local restaurants and the wonderful 'calm app.'' She said, "Most of all, just sending love and positive vibes to each others. Touching moments that brought me to tears every evening at 8 pm throughout the city [when people serenaded the healthcare workers]." Her NYE resolution is to "spread more kindness, more love and generosity, more understanding of one another, more courage and peace and be more in the moment."

 

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Amanda Puck, Director Strategic Brand Development Mariano's, has worked in the food industry for a long time. She shared,

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Amanda Puck w/ Mariano's community partner Jermaine Anderson, Corey Carr, 6th Ward Alderman Roderick Sawyer, Ron Baker Jr. and Otis Wilson.

"Through the pandemic, it was great to see organizations and individuals step up and help the community more than ever! Both the Greater Chicago Food Depository and Northern Illinois Food Bank have worked so hard feeding the community, as well as all the local food pantries across Chicagoland." During the isolation she learned "how to make a mean arancini from Chef Tony Priolo, delicious Mac & Cheese from Chef Brian Jupiter and taste more wines with Belinda Chang all via our Mariano's meet-ups and zoom classes." Her NYE resolution? "To read more! She has started with Julia Child's "My Life in France." Amanda said, "I admire her, she started and blossomed in her career later in life. She's an epic legend in our industry." She added a quote from one of her favorite authors Morgan Harper Nichols, 'Even if the wait carries on another year, I will not get where I am going without first learning to be here.'"

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Melody Spann Cooper with former First Lady Michelle Obama.

Melody Spann Cooper, Chair and CEO Midway Broadcasting Corp., said her favorite moment of 2020 was "when Joe Biden and Kamala Harris were declared the President and VP-Elect of the United States. I didn't realize how sleep deprived I had been over the past four years." Her NYE resolution is to "remain healthy and helpful. I'm making a commitment to 365 days of giving. Every day I plan to intentionally give something that will help someone." Her hope for the future? "I hope for healing and restoration. Restoring health to those who have been impacted by the pandemic. Restoring compassion in all of humanity and restoring Chicago to the great city we love. It's not perfect, but in its imperfection, it's still home and a place that has allowed me to dream past my zip code."

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Paul Iacono, president Chicago Dowel Company, and much loved man-about-town, said his

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Paul Iacono with niece Jennifer and nephew Tommy.

favorite moment of 2020 was being able to squeeze in a last minute trip to Hawaii during Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day. His hopes for next year are a "quick return to normalcy, especially for my friends in the hospitality industry who truly have had a rough go of it." His words of advice, "This too shall pass."

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Always stylish, Mark Olley.

Another handsome friend, Mark Olley (Co-op Lending Manager, Chicago Financial Services), said, "No matter what hand we've been dealt, we adapt, we flourish, it's who we are, it's what we do, we're CHICAGO STRONG!" Mark discovered new skills during the pandemic, as many of us did. He enjoyed learning to cook, plant and tend to a vegetable garden and credits his husband and dog Grayson for keeping him sane. Mark says, "I always lead with hope, optimism and love." His dream for 2021 is good health and an end to Covid-19. "A positive mind and outlook, no matter how trying the circumstances, helps to get us through a lot."

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Yolanda "Dusty" Stemer, philanthropist, member of Service Club of Chicago, Costume Council and others, said that two of her three sons had mild cases of Covid and both recovered rapidly."Things like this makes you realize and give credit to our healthcare workers." Her NYE resolution is to "not turn that Peloton into a clothes rack!" Her hopes for 2021, "The same as everyone, to get a vaccine to all of our loved ones and free Botox for all!" Dusty is married to Dr. Alex Stemer, who is deeply involved in treatment, research and prevention of Covid. "There is light at the end of the tunnel. Recent advances will help make 2021 much better than 2020…Tomorrow is promised to no one, and the one thing Covid steals from us is time with those we love," she said.

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Justine Fedak, Corporate Hippie, motivational speaker and soon-to-be Woman of Vision

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Justine Fedak, "a girl who never gives up!"

for this year's Eversight Illinois Gift of Sight Celebration told me her title should be "a girl who never gives up." She's a good friend and I can tell you I have never met anyone so tenacious and driven (in a very good way). She said 2020 was a time of total renewal for her. She regained mobility "by some miracle" [she suffered from MS for years and years] and "connected deeply" with her dearest friends. Her NYE resolution is to "cry when things make me happy or sad and to feel and live my life to the fullest, no pretending anything." Her motto? "Be in love with your life every single minute. My grandma passed away this December at age 98 and she was the strongest, toughest, most loving person who never complained about anything she had to live through. To be alive is to be in love…with your life," she said.

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Sherrill Bodine with Paula Borg and Sherry Lea Holson.

Sherrill Bodine, author, president of the Service Club of Chicago and philanthropist, said her favorite moment of the last year was "working with the dedicated women of the Service Club who worked tirelessly through these challenging times to raise money for our Philanthropic Fund which will be given out in 2021 to worthy charities all over Chicago." Sherrill recently lost her husband and said her resolution is "to seek the light and find my way on this new journey without John." She always greets each day with hope and vows to "never surrender."

 

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Sean Lewis, WGN News Anchor, remembers his favorite moment of 2020 very well. He

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Newlyweds Sean Lewis and Trover Gray Wilson.

married the love of his life, Trover Gray Wilson, in a ceremony at City Hall. "The pandemic didn't allow us a large in-person celebration but I'm hoping 2021 will!" He said his resolution is "to realize that resolutions aren't a good idea. Usually it becomes the first disappointment of any new year for me." He hopes that when the pandemic ends, that people will treat each other better. His words of advice? "Eat well, appreciate the small things and learn one new thing a day."

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Nan Giordano (3rd from L) with Joshua Blake Carter, Beth Tarrant, her son Keenan Casey, Sophie Darley and Cesar Salinas.

An icon in the dance world, Nan Giordano, artistic director Giordano Dance Chicago, is looking forward to "launching Illuminate the Possibilities, an initiative which represents global connection, unity, positivity and possibility, all through dance." She said, "Amidst our dim world light I have chosen to focus on the many silver linings that have immersed. I hope we learn and grow and take the many challenging circumstances and make something positive out of them. Mankind and peace, front and center!"  Her motto? "Today is the day! Adversity creates strength and change brings opportunity."

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Dear friend Michael Caputo, brand and creative strategist, enjoyed long walks around

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Michael Caputo (R) with friend Greg Hyder at RL.

the lakefront in the warmer months. He said, "It was lots of good thinking time. The views of our beautiful city were a hopeful reminder that things will soon return to normal." His NYE resolution is to "be adept with change and related growth." He said, "This pandemic has challenged us to rethink the 'why' of our respective lives/careers." His advice: "Every storm runs out of rain. We've all had to make do and redirect energies this past year, that can be stressful. Don't let a setback define the day. Or your life."

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Dionne Williams, president D. Williams PR Group, said, even though 2020 was a "rough year", she was able to spend more quality time with her family and a small group of friends, by staying in touch via phone or Zoom. She said, "2020 made me slow down, so for 2021 I will continue to not rush myself and live in the present and enjoy my surroundings. I want to focus more on fitness and travel when it's safe to do so." She added, "During these rough times, I have learned to be more patient. I also will take this time to work on things that I was too busy for previously, in life and business."

 

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Tracey Tarantino DiBuono, executive producer ZZAZZ Productions, said, "Having family

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close and my young granddaughters in my home has given me a foundation of great unity as a family. Work paused. My husband Joey prepared family dinners that brought us all to the table, dinners that we never dreamed would happen in our previously busy lives." She looks forward to adding a new component to her business, virtual fashion shows and events. Her NYE resolution? "Don't expect things to return to normal…make a choice to accept and then create a new normal and keep my faith in God." She hopes that "new avenues become open to us and that prayers will be answered for everyone. Open your heart to what has been given and find gratitude in every day."

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Michelle Durpetti with her fab fam–dad Tony Durpetti, mom Marion and hubby Collin Pierson.

Michelle Durpetti, managing partner Turnkey Hospitality Group, chief planner Michelle Durpetti Events, said her favorite moment of 2020 was seeing her Gene & Georgetti management team come together, be more creative, more adaptive and supportive of each other. "We have even laughed while sometimes we felt like

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Michelle Durpetti and her team from Gene & Georgetti restaurant.

crying and I think that is because we have each other. Yanni, Sal, Cristiano, Luis, Jessica, Nicole, Jeremy and Angelo are all such incredible human beings. My favorite moment hands down has been seeing them flourish and fight all the challenges." As far as resolutions, "I don't believe in resolutions to be honest. I live my life out loud, with empathy and compassion always and when I get something wrong, I own it. And that is year round." Her advice going forward: "I think I now live with the knowledge that life truly can change so fast. It has really affirmed for me that I need to take a moment every day to be grateful for all that I have and for making it this far." Her words of advice? "Let's stop tearing at one another and, instead, extend helpful hands and grateful hearts towards each other."

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RMHC-CNI's Holly Buckendahl.

Holly Buckendahl, CEO Ronald McDonald House Charities of Chicagoland & NW Indiana, said a silver lining, that she didn't expect, was the ability to stay connected virtually with family and friends. Her hope for the coming year? "While open through the pandemic (with many restrictions), I look forward to RMHC-CNI reinstating the full breadth of services critically ill children and their families need on their journey to heal together." Her advice during these tough times comes from professor, social worker and author Brene Brown who said, "In order to empathize with someone's experience, you must be willing to believe them as they see it and not how you imagine their experience to be."

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My PR gal pal Kathleen Sarpy, founder/CEO Agency H5, said her favorite moment of 2020,

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Kathleen Sarpy and her family.

despite a tough year filled with personal losses, was being able to be "immersed" with all of her kids. She and her husband Chris discovered that "love and connectedness is truly the most important thing." She said, "I really need to find a hobby. I'm a wife, a mom to 6 awesome kids, run a company and I don't really have something that I do just for me. I might finally give meditation a try or yoga, to have a space to be mindful in body and spirit."

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Jennifer Sutton Brieva, felt that Christmas was one of her favorite moments of 2020. She said "it was a much needed shift in energy for everyone. We need that all year long." Her hopes for 2021? "To learn from 2020 and never take people or experiences for granted again and to get back into pre-Covid shape!" Her words of advice? "People need to be grateful and embrace the simple pleasures of life that have become so very vital." I am so grateful for a FaceTime call with my parents, happy hour Zoom with dear friends, a classic movie with my cat Zoe or even a walk in Lincoln Park or a dance party in the kitchen with my husband Joaquin–those every day opportunities for joy often overlooked become special moments of connection, never to be taken for granted again."  

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WBBM Newsradio anchor/reporter Lisa Fielding, who has one of the most distinctive voices 

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Lisa Fielding, the Voice of WBBM.

in the business, said her favorite moment of 2020 was a mother/daughter trip to Mexico in February. "I got my travel fix, after this, by hitting the road to Michigan a couple of times to see the sunset from the other side. I'm a big "sunset" person and try to find them wherever I go," she added. Her hope for the coming year? "I hope for better days for the world, where jobs and prosperity return, where we can hug each other, sing and dance with each other while enjoying live music in our favorite venues or in that dark bar with the awesome jukebox, where we can travel the world again, enjoy a cold one and the crack of the bat at a baseball game, enjoy family gatherings, weddings, celebrations, our favorite restaurants, happy hour with friends and escape through live theater."

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Another dear friend in media is Dori Wilson, publicist/founder Dori Wilson Public Relations. Her favorite moment of 2020 was "watching a racially diverse movement develop and grow in recognition of long-standing racial inequality and injustice in this country, watching individuals and corporations commit to do better and recognition of "we're all in this together." Her NY resolution? "To actually use my Peloton!" Her hope for 2021? "I am so hopeful for a vaccination and a vacation!"…..Words of wisdom? "Laughter is the best medicine and forgiveness runs a close second!"

 

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Caylei Vogelzang and family.

The editor-in-chief of Cancer Wellness magazine, Caylei Vogelzang, said the best moment of 2020 was being able to spend more time with her family on the golf course. Her NYE resolutions include learning to do the splits 3 ways and a backward walkover; improve on physical fitness assessments; visit a yoga retreat; grow and expand her magazine and "become more of an essential source for those touched by cancer"; plan a family holiday to a national park; wear more pieces from local designers and sustainable fashion and practice gratitude daily and more meditation. The words she lives by is "exercise, exercise, exercise!"

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Jean de St Aubin, the executive director of the Gene Siskel Film Center, says her favorite

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Jean de St. Aubin and her daughter holiday baking.

moment of 2020 was presenting the Black Harvest Film Festival. She said, "The timing could not have been better. It was so great to have a month of celebrating Black stories, the joy felt virtually was a much needed balm to a turbulent year." Her hopes for 2021? "That everyone gets vaccinated ASAP, and that we all be together again. I think I will turn into a hugging machine as soon as it is safe." Her advice? "Count your blessings and share your gifts."

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Jean Antoniou and family at Chicago Botanic Garden.

Jean Antoniou, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago Board of Managers, said her favorite part of 2020 was "knowing it is almost over." Her advice moving forward? "To cherish family and friends because they will always be your biggest supporters. Glass is half full is always a good way to look at each day."

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Michelle Mekky

Mekky Media Relations, found silver linings in a tough year. She said spending more time with her kids and husband made her so grateful for "the little moments." She also found joy in the hiring of four new people for her 5 year-old business. In 2021, she plans on prioritizing her own health and to invest in herself in ways she never has. Her motto? "Every day is a new day. Every morning we wake up with a new chance. I truly believe the energy you give out is what comes back to you. Despite all of the negativity around us, never lose hope. We will get through this!"

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Pam Capitanini (center) with friends Simona Garcia and Cristina Montgomery.

Pamella Capitanini, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago, loved watching people's inventiveness during 2020 as many learned new ways to pivot. She said, "From drive-by birthday celebrations, mask creativity and eating in igloos, it was amazing and inspiring to see." Her NYE resolution: "To keep smiling and do my best! And remember the front line workers who have given all and those who have left us." She added, "I believe many of us have realized that nails, hair and party dresses don't make a difference, but reaching out to one another does!"

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And last but certainly not least, everyone's favorite elf, The Real Elf Tommy Holl, Head of Media for The

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Tommy Holl, aka "The Real Elf."

North Pole, had much to be thankful for in 2020. "This holiday season is one for the history books that I hope we never have to repeat, but we were able to create a spark of joy for young and old." His favorite moments included: "Elfing" at 900 North Michigan Shops; Sending Elf Gram video messages with proceeds benefiting Imerman Angels (Tommy is a cancer survivor); Being hired to pop into 5 Zoom calls from around the world; Appearing on "Around Town with Ana Belaval", "Happy Hour with the Hoovers", WGN radio with Paul Lisnek, Tom Skilling's Christmas Eve and so much more. His NYE resolution is to: "Pause, reset, reorganize, reflect, be prepared, be ready, be thankful and be kind." His advice? "You can't grow from NO. It's okay to say no when it doesn't feel right, but saying no all the time will lead you nowhere. Try not to take things too seriously, none of us get out of here alive. And appreciate what you have."

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Eversight Illinois "Gift of Sight Celebration" Save-the-Date with mask included. 

I'm so excited to see some events coming BACK!! Mark your calendars for Eversight Illinois' "Gift of Sight Celebration", set for Thursday, October 21 at the Peninsula. Justine Fedak will be honored as the Woman of Vision and Dr. Parag Majmudar will be the Gift of Sight honoree. This year's masquerade theme is "Fantasea" and I'm honored to return as co-chair with Michael Caputo! (For more details, click here!)

On Saturday, November 6, the Hippocratic Cancer Research

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Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation Save-the-Date with mask included.

Foundation, will host its 6th annual "Wings to Cure." This gala will be held at the Hilton Chicago and funds raised will help support cutting edge cancer research at the Lurie Cancer Center. For more details, click here!  

Chicago Lights "Gala of Hope at Home" is still set for Friday, March 5 at 7 pm CST. This signature event will benefit the Chicago Lights Gala of Hope at Home Mar. 5youth development and social service programs of Chicago Lights and the community support efforts of the Replogle Center for Counseling and Well-Being. (More details here!)

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Here's more happy news on the nonprofit front! YWCA Metropolitan Chicago received a $9

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Philanthropist MacKenzie Scott, ex-wife of Amazon's Jeff Bezos.

million unrestricted contribution from billionaire venture philanthropist MacKenzie Scott. This major gift will help the nonprofit and its mission to empower women and families and advance racial justice. This major gift is part of more than $4 billion in philanthropic contributions made by Ms. Scott over the past four months. Board president Joyce Winnecke (just love her!) called this gift an "affirmation of YWCA Metropolitan Chicago's strategy."

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Israel "Izzy" Idonije with CPD officers from his "Shop with a Cop" initiative.

Former Chicago Bear Israel "Izzy" Idonije has lifted charitable giving to an art form. For the 6th year in a row, Izzy and his IF Charities team hosted "Shop With a Cop", a great initiative that builds trust between CPD officers and the communities they serve. On Thursday, December 17, more than 60 police officers shopped for kids in need, who had submitted a wish list "for Santa" in advance. The officers picked up items that were donated by Target with special $50 gift certificates included for family dinners donated by Jewel. (To support Izzy in his many charitable endeavors around town, click here!)

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CBS-2 Chicago's Steven Graves.

Special thanks to CBS-2 Chicago's Steven Graves and to  

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John Garcia, ABC-7.

ABC-7's John Garcia for having me on their segments recently! I loved chatting about what to do for NYE with John (watch segment here) and to Steven about how our nonprofits are pivoting their fundraisers. (Watch this segment here!)

One of my favorite silver linings to this pandemic mess is the fact that our animal shelters are at their lowest point with 47345717_10155897884056272_3390432546213855232_oun-adopted rescues! As a matter of fact, PAWS Chicago has reported a near record number of adoptions in 2020–4,100! Through their Holiday-Adopt-a-Thon and usual grassroots efforts, they have managed to find forever homes for 4100 UntitledDOGS AND CATS! Can I get a Woot! Woot!? PAWS Chicago also provides extensive resources to help pets make a seamless transition into their news home and also provides a lifetime safety net for every animal, ensuring that if something happens to the adopter, their PAWS pet will always be cared for. I'm hearing similar good news from One Tail at a Time and also Young at Heart Senior Pet Rescue–all my favorites and much recommended animal shelters. Please check them out if you're looking for a pet!

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BEST IMG_0446_Facetune_30-12-2020-16-46-36I'm so loving my new home at Chicago Star Media! This group of hyper-local papers delivers, monthly, positive news you can use and I hope you're a subscriber! (Please click here for details or just leave your name and address here, info@chicagostarmedia, to receive the free online newsletter.) My latest column, "Chicago's CHI-lebrities Reflect on 2020, Share Hopes for the Coming Year" has been a hit, garnering both the front page and centerfold of the recent publication! (Read it here and get advice and discover the hopes and dreams of Chef Art Smith, rocker Jim Peterik, Bill Kurtis and Donna La Pietra, comedian Tom Dreesen, Kerry Wood and his Sarah, Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas, Leslie Hindman, Israel "Izzy" Idonije, The Joffrey  Ballet's Ashley Wheater, entertainer Chilli Pepper, restaurateur RJ Melman, Alpana Singh, Michael Kutza, Aldmerman Brian Hopkins and Dr. Ian Smith. I was so moved by their honest, thoughtful answers….there is uplifting advice, inspiration for the future and their thoughts on 2020! Read it all here!

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Jatnna Toribio and Izzy Idonije are engaged!

There's a lotta love in the air right now! So many exciting betrothals to announce! First off, love and

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Marcus Riley is engaged to Jude Fitzgerald!

congrats to Jatnna Toribio and her Israel Idonije, who were recently engaged. Also, congratulations to Marcus Riley and his Jude Fitzgerald who got engaged on New Year's Day and,

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Val Warner is engaged to Jobba Jordan.

last but not least, to Windy City Live's Val Warner who just became engaged to Jobba Jordan. I'm thrilled for each and every one of these beautiful people who managed to not only survive during

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Val and Jobba sittin' in a tree…..

this nasty year, but to thrive and find love. It's definitely easier to face any storm when you're supported by your best friend. Here's wishing them all a lifetime of health and happiness and, as Kup always said, "Long may they love!"

 

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IMG_0710We recently experienced Six Flags' Holiday in the Park Drive-Thru in Gurnee. Over 3 million lights illuminate the park as cars drive through at 3 mph. We ordered hot IMG_0714chocolate, a funnel cake and I bought an ornament (of course). We listened to piped in holiday music and it was sort of eerie, to be honest, and had the feel of driving through a deserted theme park in the Truman Show. However, I guess if we'd lived closer, the experience would've been a little easier and better. But, frankly, driving through the park with the Notre Dame game blasting on the radio might've had something to do with my lack of enthusiasm (although Chuck was certainly entitled to cheer on his favorite team!) This is only my POV, so please go and find out for yourselves (and let me know what you think!) The experience has been extended through Jan. 10, details here!

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Playboy's Winter 2021 Playmate Izabela Guedes.

Playboy has changed the format of its iconic centerfold. No longer will the featured Playmate be spotlighted for just a month, now she will have a whole season all to herself! There will be only 4 Playmates a year….makes me wish for a do-over! Read deets here on how Playboy is growing, and meet the Winter 2021 Playmate, Izabela Guedes.

 

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As I close out my first blog of 2021, I must say, I am glad to leave 2020 (far) behind. I've never had a worse Goodbye-2020-hello-2021-images-12year and I know many of my friends feel the same. There's was no  "dashing through the snow on a one horse open sleigh, o'er the fields we go, laughing all the way"…… Not this year when everything in the world changed in the blink of a Covid eye. I couldn't even get in my usual cheery mood for Christmas, at Elf on Shelfleast not in the way I used to. One minute, we're planning family gatherings, figuring out seating, who will sit at the kids' table and the next thing you know, we're all Zooming in to "celebrate" on computer screens. I found myself decorating for Christmas almost manically, trying to create much needed joy that is at a premium now. I know store

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This is definitely NOT my work, beautiful gingerbread house by Jennifer and Joaquin Brieva (kit from Vanille Chicago).

shelves were shopped clean of all holiday decor long before the usual time. On social media, my friends busily shared photos of their trees, holiday cookies, DIY Christmas ideas and so much more. Hell, we even attempted building a gingerbread house for the first time but it

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I'm thinking our tree will be up until Easter or beyond. (Sort of kidding?)

looked like a tornado hit it before I could even ice the roof. This year, we lost our dog, family members, I lost a job, Chuck lost his three dearest friends and had a TIA (mini-stroke). I think I was entitled to decorate as much as I wanted to try to fill this void and you can bet these decorations are gonna be here for a while. Nothing makes me happier than twinkling Christmas tree lights. It reminds me of all the GOOD years in the past when all of our family was gathered together, giving gifts and

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Marshall Field's famous Chicken Pot Pie.

thanks for our good health and the fact that we were still here. Pre-Covid, you could still find Santa in all the department stores, which were decorated to the nines. I'm happy though to see that retail, despite all its setbacks, still

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Marshall Field's Walnut Room at Christmas 1950.

tried to be festive. Macy's, although certainly not close to the old Marshall Field's in holiday decor, still had cheerful windows and the Great Tree in the Walnut Room. And, although families couldn't carry on life-long traditions of dining there during the season, they could still order carry-out–the famous Mrs. Hering's Chicken Pot Pie (recipe here), lobster bisque, Frango Mint

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Ann Gerber's book, "Sweet Tooth," a collection of recipes by Chicago notables.

Chocolate Ice Cream Pie and more. For Chuck and me, we still tried to carry on family traditions. We baked my mom's ham (Cooks only) and I fixed Mama Mary Johnson's famous sweet potato pie (whose recipe was featured in Ann Gerber's 1985 book, "Chicago's Sweet Tooth."). I also cooked the requisite black-eyed peas for good luck on New Year's Day (I pray it works). We toasted to the loved ones we lost and prayed for a better future, one that will bring back the human element and social interaction that is necessary to the survival of a species. We can't drift apart. We need "parties for hosting, marshmallows for toasting and caroling out in the snow," now more than ever. Here's hoping this year is off to a great start for you!

Love always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. Life's short, make the most of it. Thank you Michiel for this poignant reminder.

 

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