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CHIC CHICAGO, BUNNY TALES AND IBIZA NIGHTS: CITY’S EVENT SCENE IS THRIVING

Plus: Service Club of Chicago's fab fashion show; a Playboy Reunion filled with Bunny tales; PAWS Chicago's party in the country; Ibiza Nights & Neon Lights; Chicago Star en fuego; Illinois Holocaust Museum's SOIREE; Lights, Camera, CHICAGO! for the Film Fest; SEE-worthy Fantasea; Harold Washington Library Literary Awards; Navy Seal's Midwest Evening of Tribute; Adler Planetarium's Celestial Ball; Misericordia Loves Chicago; Rev UP '21: Moving Fashion Forward; Great American Milkshake Competition; WINGS' Purple Tie Ball; Diamonds for Steak 48; Tufano's in the news; On the air with Fox 32's Sylvia and WGN Radio's Anna; Chicago Lighthouse gears up for FLAIR; Chicago Gourmet's Hamburger Hop; RNDD's Gallery Walk; Kohl Children's Museum's garden party; The Forester's surreal grand opening; Fishing off the Riverwalk; Pappas wows the Greek Parliament; Celebrating the Baton's Jim Flint; Plans for fall; Darling videos and SOOOO much more!

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My first blog, August 25, 2008.

Dearest blog readers, This month, Candid Candace celebrates 13 years of delivering the best that Chicago has to offer. Thank you for supporting me since 2008! I feel the best is yet to come for all of us. Even though the past year has been one hot mess, I see great change on the horizon. For friends who have asked if they should consider leaving town, I say no, give it another chance. Even though crime is off the charts, I think we can at least celebrate being together again, planning weddings, seeing family and friends and smothering them with hugs and kisses. Since most of us are vaccinated, we can truly celebrate summer in the city with a sense of freedom that is palpable after our 15 months of hibernation, which already seems like a thing of the past. You can feel it in every corner of the city as people stretch their wings to fly again. Here's to soaring to great new heights together, FINALLY, and also to a very memorable, fun-filled fall.

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Service Club's "Day on the Terrace" co-chairs Tracey Tarantino, Jean Antoniou and Sharyl Mackey with event sponsor/friend Tom Kehoe.

The Service Club of Chicago hosted its annual Day on the Terrace fashion show/fundraiser Monday, August 2 at The Geraghty (2520 S. Hoyne). The event, this year themed "Here Comes the Sun," is always a labor of love that culminates after a long year of planning. The committee is always so supportive as is the Service Club's vibrant Auxiliary Board who planned a first-time after-party for this year's event (more on this later). The fundraiser was co-chaired by Jean Antoniou, Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and Sharyl Mackey with the leading sponsors and event producers being The Geraghty, Kehoe Designs, Black Oak Technical Productions and, of course, the one

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Stand out Liz Teasley wearing Sylwia Designs.

and only Tom Kehoe (who always makes EVERY EVENT look so good!) The fashion show, as always, was expertly produced by ZZAZZ Productions and, so far, is

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SC Aux. Bd. members (L) Kaitlyn McMahon and Andrea Antoniou (R) dances with friends at fun-filled after-party at The Geraghty.

the largest runway presentation in the city. Nearly 300 attendees enjoyed a first look at fall fashion from retailers and designers that included Elda de la Rosa Couture, Sylwia Designs, Lauren Lein, Neiman Marcus Michigan Avenue (the finale segment), Anne Fontaine, Ted Baker, CRAM Fashion, Max Mara, alice + olivia, Contessa Bottega, Mira Couture, Maximilian Chicago, Peter Millar, Penny's from Heaven (kids) and St. John. For two years now, the Charles Ifergan

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Jennifer Sutton Brieva, Vonita Reescer and Paul Iacono.

Salon and his team (love you Phillippe!) have donated their services for the event along with Torie Conn who provided beautiful makeup again for the

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With NBC Chicago co-hosts Matt Rodrigues and Cortney Hall, all wearing Elda de la Rosa Couture.

models. This was the first time DOT was held at the Geraghty and I just loved it, plenty of parking, right off the expressway and, of course, Tom always goes all out to make the events a success. I loved seeing all of these philanthropic ladies together again and thoroughly enjoyed my views from backstage of this incredible, 45-minute long fashion show. I have to say, it was really one of my favorites….all of the women

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Sally Jo Morris Pfaff, Megan Pelino, Sherrill Bodine and Yvonne Fitzgibbon wearing Lauren Lein Ltd.

(and men) looked so chic in their outfits….Service Club president Sherrill Bodine offered welcoming remarks before the show began.

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Peninsula's Greg Hyder wearing CRAM.

Some of the standouts (in my humble opinion) included Liz Teasley, wearing a dramatic red evening gown by Sylwia Designs; Mary Lasky and Darby Hills toasting with bedazzled go-cups as they walked together down the runway; Israel Idonije wearing Peter Millar (and a killer smile); NBC Chicago co-hosts Matt Rodrigues and

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Alex Antoniou wearing Mira Couture.

Cortney Hall in beautiful Elda de la Rosa Couture; WBBM Radio's Lisa Fielding in a stylish Maximilian fur poncho; Micah Materre, live auction and open call host and WGN-TV anchor, wearing a stunning, off-the-shoulder purple, figure-hugging Neiman Marcus Michigan Avenue gown;

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Simona Garcia, Kevin Sullivan and Cristina Montgomery.

Rhonda Liesenfelt in a super-chic red coat/pants ensemble from Contessa Bottega; Alex Antoniou (who got lucky twice) wearing a dramatic black and white Anne Fontaine flowing dress as well as an elegant royal blue evening gown from Mira Couture; Laura Schwartz Santiago and Alayna Crenshaw in beautiful Mira Couture evening dresses; Greg Hyder wearing a blue jacket with

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Micah Materre, stunning in Neiman Marcus Michigan Ave.

black and white striped pants from CRAM that looked surprisingly fabulous together; Tina Weller in a fabulous

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Donna Rotunno and Lesley Prizant Goodman.

green, flowing evening gown from alice+olivia and Elaine Hyde (first time runway model and publisher/editor Chicago Star, the event's proud media sponsor) wearing a glamorous high-low, deep blue dress by Elda de la Rosa Couture. Really, everyone looked great but I really loved these looks and thought they were standouts! A wonderful luncheon was presented by J&L

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Mary Lasky and Darby Hills.

Catering which nicely satisfied the crowd's need for fuel. Attendees also enjoyed a silent auction during the cocktail portion of the afternoon as well as a raffle featuring exclusive items donated by retailers and supporters. Myra Reilly (with support from Kevin Sullivan)

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Morgan Shaner, Jessica Yust, Megan Pelino and Maria Giordano for Max Mara. 

put together a spectacular Look Book, which was handed out to every guest. The book included all the models' photos plus ads purchased by supporters, with many pages dedicated to the late, great Hazel Barr. For the first time, the SC Auxiliary Board planned a fun-filled after-party which was held on the premises. Partygoers kicked off their heels and slipped

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WBBM Radio host Lisa Fielding in Maximilian Furs.

into flip-flops, enjoyed cocktails and colorful pool toys that came in handy for photo props. A record $200,000 was raised which will support the organization's Philanthropic Grant Program. And, unlike

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Susan Regenstein and Myra Reilly.

other nonprofits which focus solely on one need, the SC fulfills needs for hundreds of deserving charities every single year. (To learn more, click here) Congrats to ALL! (All of the great photos are by John Reilly Photography)

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The International Playboy Bunny Reunion was held at The Drake with Bunnies from around the world in attendance.

As you all probably know, I owe a great deal to Playboy and Hugh Hefner, who literally brought me to Chicago and ultimately, to all of you. I am forever grateful and indebted to

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With Diana Peterson, the event organizer.

this amazing man who I still miss and always will. I IMG_9272welcome any chance to revisit my Playboy family and former Bunny Diana Petersen made it happen for so many of us recently, in very grand style. Nearly 300 Bunnies from around the world convened in Chicago for the International Playboy Bunny Reunion which also celebrated the 60th anniversary of the first Playboy Club. Diana had planned a 4-day long series of events that included a Guys & Dolls party with a Gatsby

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Former Playboy VP Dan Stone and event organizer Diana Peterson auction off original Bunny costumes.

theme, comedy club visit, jazz brunch, Lake Michigan

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With Christie Hefner and Angie Chester, Playboy Bunny of the Year 1974.

fireworks cruise and brunch at the popular Rosebud Restaurant. The celebration culminated with a dressy dinner at the Drake Hotel on Sunday. I reconnected with Bunnies I hadn't seen in nearly 50 years. I had worked first at the St. Louis Playboy Club in 1973 with friends that included Marsha Callender, Patti McGuire Connors, IMG_9283Janis Schmitt, Rhetta Penninger and so many more. I saw a few of these St. Louis Bunnies here in Chicago. From my Chicago Playboy Club days, there was a better representation that IMG_9352 included Judi Kalata Altiere, Angie Chester, Cindy Fossen Russell, Nancy Perry, Susan Stone, Candy Hockenberry, Eddie Cook, Anna D'Agata, Cheryl Carioscia, Rita……and others. The first of these events was a meet-and-greet which took place at the Knickerbocker Hotel. As you may or may not know, this was the location of the second Playboy Club following the original one at 116 E. Walton. Its final incarnation in Chicago was in Lincoln Park (in the old Four

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Early Bunny pic of me from St. Louis Playboy Club–1973.

Torches building). To be honest, I was hesitant to go. None of us are getting any younger and I really loved remembering everyone the way they were, darling faces and figures in a variety of colorful, iconic Bunny costumes 214625087_4367825173263621_1709824112094481413_n but my curiosity got the better of me and off I went. THANK GOODNESS! I felt like I'd gone home again. Yes, we were all a little older but I could still see those cute faces and dazzling personalities that got them hired at the Clubs in the first place and I was back in the "hutch" with my friends again. Organizer Diana Peterson did a great job, even offering Playboy memorabilia for sale, many items she had created herself, like pillows with the girls' Bunny photos, sparkling rhinestone Bunny necklaces, cuff-links, costume cuffs,

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 Judi Kalata Altiere (front middle), Susan Stone (R) and friends.

earrings, pins, masks and even Bunny ears of every stripe and color. She had also created "standees" of the

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With Judi Kalata Altiere, Jenna-Wade Brown and her cute mom, who drove in from Kentucky for the event.

girls' Bunny photos that were scattered throughout the room and hanging from banners from the second floor mezzanine railing. We were ensconced in all things Playboy and I couldn't have loved it more. (A friend of mine, Shelley Rosen, Luxe Bloom, even created a standing arrangement of specially treated roses with the Playboy logo which was a popular photo opp.) These ladies

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Shelley Rosen, Luxe Blooms, donated this beautiful rose plaque for the event.

were the sorority I never had and, as an only child, also IMG_9093 the sisters I never had. The final event of the weekend took place in the elegant Gold Coast Room at the Drake and boy oh boy, it was so expertly planned right down to the magnificent floral arrangements on the tables to the giant black Playboy bunny logo statue that served as the focal point of the cocktail reception. An amazing array of rare Playboy memorabilia was on display in a silent auction with the live auction featuring two original Bunny costumes. Even Christie Hefner attended and delivered such a heartfelt speech. (Watch it here). The ladies danced and mingled throughout the magical evening. Thanks, as always Hef, for giving me a forever family. And thanks to you Diana Peterson for making it all possible!

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PAWS' Tiffany Tso is ready for the auction in Three Oaks, Michigan!

PAWS Chicago hosted a joyous day in the country on July 31 for this year's (sort-of) re-imagined Beach Party. Paula

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Partygoers and longtime supporters Judy and Howard Tullman.

and Peter Fasseas generously underwrote an event at their beautiful farm in Three Oaks, Michigan. The weather gods were definitely smiling on us this day because it was one of the finest days of the entire season! The PAWS support team is one of the best of all the nonprofits and they executed a memorable day

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Phillip Emigh, Melissa Canning and Bruce Haas.

that included a little petting "zoo" complete with a miniature cow, pony rides, a farm stand (which was thoughtfully supplied with bags for guests to take their

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Renata and Bob Block with their PAWS baby.

pick), a delicious buffet from Inspired Catering (Karen Stefani), live music, a DJ and more. Guests could also tour the retreat space on the property where long-term dogs who need a break can go to relax. A program included remarks by emcee/supporter Lisa Dent, founder Paula and moi (proud event chair). I had the pleasure of introducing Una, a lively

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Chuck and Angie DeMars.

little dog who a finder saw THROWN OFF THE BACK OF A TRUCK! Thankfully, she was grabbed and brought safely to PAWS where she is now available for adoption. Another little dog, Bonnie, was born with only two legs but the PAWS people weren't about to let her slip away. She is now resting

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With Phillip Emigh, PAWS' Kayleigh Dudevoir, Chuck, Angie DeMars and Bruce Haas.

safely and comfortably with star foster/board member Angie DeMars until she has some surgery and gets a little mobility cart. I've been involved with this amazing organization for the last 20 years and have watched them grow and Grow and GROW until they are now one of the highest rated nonprofits on Charity Navigator. Since PAWS' founding in 1997, Chicago has seen a 91% decrease in the number of homeless pets killed and, last year, PAWS found forever homes for over 4,000 dogs and cats. Kudos to all who support this great rescue and to its founders, Paula and her daughter Alexis. 

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hosted a summer fundraiser at the home of Dr. Jeffrey and Tina Weller recently. The Ibiza Nights, Neon Lights event raised over $32,000

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Lauren Kavanaugh, Tina Weller and Michelle Riley.

and was attended by 150 HJWC members and guests.

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Jake and Stephanie Karstens, Aaron and Bridget Nagel.

Attendees were transported to exotic Ibiza and treated to an outdoor club-like atmosphere around the host homes’ pool. Dressed in white with neon accents, party-goers enjoyed appetizers from Hinsdale area restaurants, drinks, dancing, and a raffle. Funds raised though the evening's tickets sales and raffles will support nonprofit grants which help fund tangible items for deserving Chicagoland nonprofits. (Organizations can apply for grants up to $50,000 in value). Along with the Wellers, the event was hosted by Lauren and Brendan Kavanaugh, Michelle and Jim Riley, Julie Langdon and Mike Dudek, Sylvia and

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Thomas and Chelsea Urban, Brad and Kayla Weiss, Matthew and Stephanie Tuthill.

Sabastian Kos, Amanda and Paul Mancini, Jeni and Eric Graham, Jill and Dr. Nick Angelopoulos, Ann and Jonathan Lockhart, Jennifer and Garrett Anderson, and Katie and PJ Beuke.  The

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Julie Bouochard, Ashley Siwecki, Colleen Napleton, Lynn Loman and Marina Gastevski.

event was sponsored by Parisa London and Sam Sharp of Guaranteed Rate along with food sponsors Nabuki, Eddie Merlot, Fuller House Bar, Altamura and Walkers. The HJWC was founded in 1949, making this their 72nd year. Over the last six years, HJWC has raised over $1 million for under-served organizations. In 2018, HJWC moved to a yearly grant funding model to support more organizations in need and in 2020-2021, HJWC raised more than $300,000 that funded grants to 27 nonprofit organizations. (To learn more, click here!)

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Chicago Star August issue.

Events are coming back and this lil' social butterfly couldn't be happier! I hope you're all subscribers to the hottest paper in town too, Chicago Star. We pick up

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where others leave off, celebrating the Chic in Chicago like none other and all in a positive, uplifting, entertaining way. Regular articles include my Ask Candid Candace advice column, "Get Cookin' With…?" (the latest issue featured Steve Dolinsky, the new food expert on NBC- and one of his favorite recipes), Doormen of the Month (submit your doormen here for consideration: info@chicagostarmedia.com), a killer events column with the best things to do around town, and so much more! (Subscribe here and read our current issues here!) Thank YOU! And, speaking of events, check out my latest segment on Fox-32 below, with the one and only Sylvia Perez, and this WGN Radio interview here with Anna Davlantes!

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Holocaust soireeThe Illinois Holocaust Museum's Women’s Leadership Committee will present its signature fundraising event, Soiree, on Wednesday, September 1. This highly anticipated evening will bring together supporters for entertainment, cocktails and food, a silent auction and meaningful messages from Holocaust UntitmmedSurvivors and Museum leadership. This year's event will be in-person at the Botanic Garden, beginning at 7 pm. The Women’s Leadership Committee (WLC) increases awareness and provides fundraising support for the Museum by hosting and promoting educational and social programming in and around the Chicago area. Past events have included book and author discussions, film screenings, private exhibition openings, art discussions, exclusive shopping experiences, silent auctions and much more. Click here to register and check out the exciting raffle items! (I'm proud to return as event host!)

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1624621815928On Wednesday, September 8,  the sea will give rise to FANTASEA, the 2021 Gift of Sight Masquerade, a fundraiser for Eversight Illinois which will help raise funds to restore sight and prevent blindness. Join Eversight and

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We're working hard to make this year's celebration another success! Hope you can join us! (Honoree Justine Fedak in front)

our Gift of Sight Co-Chairs Michael Caputo and moi for this SEE-worthy night at the fabulous Peninsula Chicago to honor Justine Fedak as the 2021 Woman of Vision and Dr. Parag Majmudar as the 2021 Gift of Sight Honoree. Aquatic chic, masks, crowns and fascinators are encouraged. The evening will feature an exciting, mystical and safe evening of cocktails, dining and celebration with indoor and outdoor spaces overlooking The Magnificent Mile to allow for physical distancing as we celebrate (and big surprises too!). (Click here for tickets/more info!)

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2021 Harold Washington Library Literary Award honoree Ta-Nehisi Coates.

Hosted by the Near South Planning Board, The Harold Washington Literary Award Gala will celebrate its 31st anniversary on Friday, September 10. The Award Gala

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The gala will kick-off the Printer's Row Lit Fest that follows, Sept. 11/12, in the South Loop.

recognizes diverse and stimulating authors who address issues of contemporary life. Each spring, since 1989, they have hosted a literary gala to bestow this prestigious award on a deserving writer with this year's honoree being Ta-Nehisi Coates. Past winners have included Rabih Alameddine, Rita Dove, Barbara Ehrenreich and Scott Turow. The gala is the Library's major annual fundraising event, with proceeds benefiting its Authors in the Schools program. (Details here)

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Film Fest eventThe Chicago International Film Festival, North America's longest running, juried film fest, will present "Lights, Camera, CHICAGO" on Monday, September 13 at Bridge 410, an event space at 410 N. Paulina. The themed event will feature tastings from some of the city's most iconic restaurants and vendors (ELI'S CHEESECAKE!) and include live music, a silent auction, films, food trucks and more. Festival artistic director Mimi Plauche will be presented with the Chevalier des Arts et Lettres award. Funds raised will support the Festival's year-round programming. (For more info, click here)

The Navy Seal Foundation's 2021 Midwest Evening of Tribute will be held on Tuesday, September 14. Greg Chicago-1Brown, CEO Motorola Solutions, and Anna Brown will serve as co-chairs for this patriotic salute and support for our warriors. The Navy Seal Foundation provides a comprehensive set of programs specifically designed to reduce the stressors associated with life in Naval Special Warfare to both the special warfare operators and their families. This year's event will also honor David Herro (Chief Investment Officer International Equities at Harris Associates LP.) To discover who the keynote speaker is and for more details, click here). 

Celestial Ball 2021A virtual experience “under the stars,” the Celestial Ball will support the Adler Planetarium’s creative approach to scientific exploration on Saturday, September 18. Join the Adler and guests around the world for a celebration of community, connection, and the universe that unites us all, in the comfort of your own living room. The Adler will recognize Ulta Beauty with its Corporate Award for the tremendous impact they have made at the planetarium and in the community. Details here!  

Please join the Apparel Industry Board (and me) as we celebrate our community of Apparel Industry Board free media sponsor addesigners and sewers at the annual REV UP! Chicago: Moving Fashion Forward event on Thursday, October 21. The event will be a hybrid affair with an in-person viewing party at Perillo Gold Coast beginning at 6:30 pm. Be prepared for a fashion-forward video featuring the city's top designers, champagne and cocktails and light bites as we gather to salute our fabulous talent! (I'm proud to return as emcee)…..Since 1987, the AIBI has nurtured and supported Chicago's emerging and established designers. We hope you can join us! (Details here)

Misericordia Loves Chicago sept. 23Another one of my favorite charities, Misericordia, Heart of Mercy, is hosting in-person events again! YEAH!  Mark your calendars for Thursday, Sept. 23, for "Misericordia Loves Chicago", an event to be held at Theater On The Lake (6:30- 11pm).  Enjoy an evening of all your Chicago favorites! Dining on Chicago neighborhood delicacies, dancing the night away to the tunes of Mike & Joe, taking in spectacular views of the Chicago Skyline, ALL for the benefit of the wonderful residents and programs at Misericordia Heart of Mercy! (For details and tickets, click here!) (AND, FYI, Mis' Heart of Mercy Ball will be held at the Hilton Chicago Friday, October 1)

WINGS, Inc. will host a hybrid Purple Tie Ball this year on Saturday, October 2. The PTB-Save-the-Date-Card-2021-2-1024x683nonprofit, which supports victims of domestic violence, will offer a choice to attendees for this event–come in-person to the Westin Hotel to enjoy great music by Maggie Speaks, silent and live auctions and an award presentation OR join virtually from anywhere in the world. (Presenting sponsors are longtime supporters Rita and John Canning and Melissa and Mike Canning, with co-chairs being Melissa and Debby Jackson). (Details here!)

Chicago Lighthouse FLAIR media adJust a reminder to mark your calendars for the Chicago Lighthouse's annual FLAIR: Fun. Fashion. Philanthropy fashion show fundraiser. This year's luncheon event, co-

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Flair honoree 2021 Susan Gohl with Jonathan Grabill at this year's Kentucky Derby.

chaired again by the dynamic duo of Sheree Valukas and Sherrill Bodine, will be held at The Drake Hotel on Friday, October 1. I'm proud to co-host the event with Tracey DiBuono to honor Susan Griffiths Gohl with the Hood/Swift Woman with FLAIR Award.The Lighthouse provides vision rehabilitation services, education, employment opportunities and assistive technology for people of all ages. (For tickets/more info, please click here and join us!)

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Chicago Gourmet is heading our way!

Great news for all you foodies out there! Chicago Gourmet returns with an exciting lineup, including the uber-popular Hamburger Hop on Friday, September 24 (6-9 pm) on the Harris Theater rooftop. Organizers at the Illinois Restaurant Association, along with presenting sponsor Southern Glazer's Wine & Spirits, have curated a month-long celebration beginning Sept. 1 that champions our city's diverse culinary landscape. (All info here) 

For the second time, the much loved Tufano's Vernon Park Tap was featured on Guy Fieri's "Diners, Drive-Ins and Dives" show on the Food Network. (Watch segment here). Owner Joey DiBuono and his family are so

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Guy Fieri with Joey DiBuono at Tufano's Vernon Park Tap.

charming, on and off camera, that I think they need their own show! Here's the back-story on this great Italian restaurant located at 1073 W. Vernon Park Place. The restaurant was established in 1930 by Joseph DiBuono and his wife Teresa Tufano. In 1971,

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Tufanos takes its 2nd star turn on Guy Fieri's "Diners, Drive-Ins and Dives."

Sam the “DA” DiBuono took over the restaurant. He worked side by side with his mother. In 1980, Joe DiBuono began running the restaurant. He

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Joey and Tracey DiBuono and family, including Tracey's late mom Angie (front).

had the best cooks in the world helping him make the homemade dishes that included his mother Marie, his Aunt Rose Alecia, his other Aunt Antoinette Tufano and his grandmother, Teresa. Teresa worked in the restaurant until she was 90 years old. Now Joe has help from his sisters and daughters who will help him continue to carry on his family's traditions. In 2008, Tufano’s received the American Classics Award from the James Beard Foundation. The restaurant is still nestled in the heart of little Italy in Chicago. (312.733.3393)  _______________________________________________________________________

IMG_2834Kohl Children’s Museum celebrated the successful re-opening of the Museum recently. Presented by the Women's Sustainer Board, the event was hosted by former Women’s

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Sheila Canmann and host Sonia Esler.

Board President, Sonia Esler in her beautiful Winnetka home garden. Guests included long-time Museum supporters who have contributed their time and leadership to the Museum’s longevity: Sheila Canmann, Colleen Miczek, Grith Funk, incoming Board President Jacqueline Hill, Anika Chase , Carrie Hughes, Alison Donnelly, and Christina Kline. The summer-themed dinner of shrimp and steak kebobs, quinoa and summer salad along with refreshments were graciously provided by Apple A Day Catering. “We are so happy to be back together to break bread IMG_3230and share our most memorable Women’s Board moments,” recalled Esler. “Late night preparations for the Gala and

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Anika Chase and Colleen Miczek.

Touch a Truck events bonded us together tightly.” Through August 29, the Museum will also offer SummerBurst, its newest outdoor seasonal event with 5 STEAM-focused activity stations around the Museum campus, including a butterfly tent, insect scavenger hunt, animatronic bugs, trike track, outdoor art studio and an augmented reality math trail. Advance registration is required for both programs, available online here and here! Watch the fun video below and take the kiddies!

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Bobbi Panter, Kristine Kinder, Rose Marie Carlson, Cheryl Coleman and Myra Reilly.

The Service Club of Chicago established The Diamond Circle three years ago as an opportunity to recognize

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The fabulous Steak 48 all dressed up for the celebration!

its major Member donors. And, on July 20, in celebration of these outstanding members, Steak 48 rolled out its red carpet at a luxurious luncheon organized with the support of Kathleen Henson, her fabulous Agency H5 and Steak 48's Oliver Badgio. SC president Sherrill Bodine welcomed

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Myra Reilly, Paul Much and SC pres Sherrill Bodine.

everyone to the party,“Please know that when you sponsor an event, buy tickets, raffle tickets, auction items or answer any

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Ron Katz and Cheryl Coleman.

one of our myriad calls for help, you are making a difference to  schools, hospitals, museums and so much more." The SC, their friends and supporters work hard all year long to raise funds for their Philanthropic Grant Program and this afternoon celebrated their service. The Vice-Presidents of Development, Cheryl Coleman and Bobbi Panter, helped organize this joyous event. Everyone agreed, Steak 48 was the “icing on the cake”!

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And now for something completely different! Do you think you have a great milkshake recipe? Well, if so, you could win $1,000 from Zeal Grass Milk Creamery! The Great American Milkshake Competition is Zeal's way of "stirring up some summer fun" says Jason Henshaw, President of Zeal Grass Milk Creamery. Recipes may include any and all ingredients except alcohol. Milkshake makers should post a photo or short video of themselves with their creation using hashtag #ZealMilkshake. Submit entries by August 31. A panel of judges, led by food expert Steve Dolinsky, will moderate judging deliberations. (All details and contest rules here)

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"Fishing at the Jetty" program on the Riverwalk.

Who knew you could fish off the Riverwalk? Chicago Park District's FREE "Fishing at the Jetty" program provides fishing opportunities, weekly afternoon fishing clinics and interactive activities for everyone! Fishing rods, bait and all the supplies needed for a big catch are provided. Never tried fishing before? The Jetty is the perfect place to give it a try and especially a great place to make memories with the kiddies! The Chicago Park District will “hook” you up with guided instruction, tips and more. Matt Renfree, senior program specialist, Untitledsays, "Nearly everybody catches fish. Most days, we are at 80 or 90 fish. The first weekend we had 484 people out.” The program, on the west end of “The Jetty: Floating Gardens,” part of the 0369.3-cpp-4681_large-1800x2705Riverwalk between Wells and Franklin streets, runs Thursdays and Fridays from noon-6 p.m. and Saturday and Sunday 10 am to 4 pm, now through August 15 and again from August 21 to September 25. The program teaches fish and fishing on the Chicago River and includes species such as bluegill and gobies, sunfish, crappie, large and small mouth bass, common carp and channel catfish. Fish are released, except for gobies, which are put in clear plastic bins to become a teaching tool about invasive species. So far, the rarest fish captured has been an American eel. All species that are caught are logged. (Check out more places to fish in and around Chicago here!) Now this is REEL fun!

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Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas in Athens with the Prime Minister of Greece Kyriakos Mitsotakis.

Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas revisited her Greek homeland recently. And, along with pleasure, she made some serious inroads representing Chicago and sharing the inner workings of her well-oiled Cook

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Maria Pappas speaking before the World Hellenic Inter-Parliamentary Association at the Greek Parliament in Athens.

County Treasurer's Office. The Treasurer spoke before the World Hellenic Inter-Parliamentary Association in the Greek Parliament in Athens. Countries from around the world have invited her to speak about the success she's had in her office and how they can go about re-creating it in their own countries. In addition, she has been invited to conduct an exciting seminar twice a year (May and

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Treasurer Maria Pappas expertly twirling her baton in the Bud Billiken Parade.

September) in the Athenian Agora, where philosophers like Socrates, Plato and Aristotle held court. Pappas

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Maria Pappas supporting small business in Hyde Park–the grand opening of What's Krackin'.

would lead seminars attended by CEO's and other world leaders from 15 different global organizations which will last for five days and be designed to stimulate discussion on the kinds of thorny issues leaders face today. These seminars would highlight how crucial Ancient Greece was to the formation of modern society and how it is the birthplace of democracy. Besides being a Chicago treasure, Maria is also a world-recognized psychological counselor, political reformer and innovator. Watch her inspiring speech below:

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IMG_0001The River North Design District will host its 6th annual RNDD Fall Gallery Walk, presented by Daniel Kinkade Fine Art, on Friday, Sept. 10. For this special event, the RNDD will create pairings with Chicago's top interior designers, international artists, galleries and design showrooms to create amazing backdrops for one of the most anticipated parties of the year. The walking tour will include 20 stops in the River North neighborhood with hot opening and closing parties! The galleries will keep the vignettes on display until October 11. (For all info, click here)

Congrats to Noreen Heron and her Heron Agency for

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Stage Factor drama for The Forester's Grand Opening in Lake Forest.

executing a memorable grand opening party for The Forester, a brand new Hyatt hotel that's opened in Lake Forest at 200 N. Field Drive. There were so many exciting visuals, especially from Stage Factor. "Trees" walking on vine covered stilts, flower-adorned serving characters, music, drinks, live s'mores-making demos, and so much more! Kudos, as always, Noreen!  

Jim Flint, owner/founder of the iconic Baton Show

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Jim Flint celebrated his 80th BD at Park West surrounded by friends and family.

Lounge (4713 N. Broadway), celebrated his 80th birthday at Park West on July 27. The room was packed with friends, fans and well-wishers who all came together to honor this legend in the LGBTQ+ community (and beyond). The evening, produced as always by the talented Harrison McEldowney, included tribute performances by Maya Douglas, Tommie Ross, Dana Douglas, Angel Saez, Claire Chystalle, Stasha Sanchez, and so many more. The event closed with a performance by Dina Jacobs. Jim was teary-eyed throughout the night and mingled with every guest during the course of the evening. Seen at the event, among a crowd of about 200, was Howard and Bunnie Frum, longtime friends and supporters.

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Watch for Chicago Star's fashion issue coming in October!

I hope you're enjoying all the fun that my/our new paper is offering, Chicago Star! We've come a long way and plan on soaring to even greater heights. I hope you will join us and, if not already a subscriber, please click here! Soon, I will be featuring our nonprofits in a special section so, if you have a favorite, and would like to have them included, please contact me here:

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With CSM team–Jay Kopp,Angela Gagnon, Elaine Hyde, Nuria Mathog and Jon Cohn.

Candace@CandidCandace.com. And in another month, we will put the spotlight on fashion! Prepare for a page filled with the hottest looks of the season on some of our favorite Chicagoans as well as a feature article on do's and don't in fashion and makeup from some of our city's top experts. Currently, we are reaching 50,000+ and the paper can be found in print, online and in over 300 buildings' common areas around the city as well as in boxes in River West, River North, Gold Coast, Streeterville, the Loop, Lakeshore East, West Loop and South Loop as well as in Mariano's. If interested in advertising, please let me know! (Check out our recent editions here)

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Bengsten's Pumpkin Farm

Bengsten's Pumpkin Farm, 13341 W. 151st St., Homer Glen, IL.

Welcome to fall! I hope you have spectacular plans with family and friends and that you're looking forward to all this brand new season has to offer. I can't wait to start

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Wickwood Inn, 510 Butler St., Saugatuck, MI.

clambering through pumpkin pop-ups (hello Bengsten's, I'm comin' for you!), visit the Wickwood Inn in Saugatuck (making plans soon) and redo my tired looking summer patio with some fabulous fall colors. I'm also definitely ready for sweaters. Anyway, thanks for coming back and checking out Candid Candace!

Love, as always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. Werkin' at the car wash…..

 

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NEW YEAR’S EVE RESOLUTIONS, 2020 AND THE FUTURE: CHICAGO WEIGHS IN

Plus: What nonprofit fundraisers are coming back in 2021?; YWCA Metropolitan Chicago's GREAT news; Izzy "Shops with a Cop" for the kids; Silver linings for PAWS Chicago, One Tail at a Time and Young at Heart Pet Rescue; CHI-lebrities open their hearts in Chicago Star Media; Remembering Hef's HOT New Year's Eve parties; Eversight Illinois' Mystery Masquerade; Playboy's new centerfold policy; Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation's Wings to Cure; Chicago Light's Gala of Hope; Happy engagement announcements; Six Flags Holiday Drive-Thru; In the news with John and Steve; Thoughts on 2020 and what the New Year will bring; A touching video and SO MUCH MORE!

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New Year's Eve looked a little different this year. Besides Covid changing the landscape of the entire world, it also kept us from celebrating the end of one of the worst years in recent memory. Restaurants missed out on much needed revenue, friends missed traditional celebrations with family and Times Square was eerily empty. People could only peek out their windows like Jimmy Stewart in "Rear Window" trying to get a feel for what was happening outside. We are all still on lockdown, mentally and physically. Chuck and I grabbed longtime friend Michael Kutza

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NYE at cozy Avli on Wells.

determined to still experience NYE, this year in a tent with heaters. Even though people were having fun we all knew this was just a (hopefully temporary) substitute for the real thing. All of this lack of freedom made me think about the wild and woolly days of NYEs past. We're so lucky

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Yurts at Swift & Sons designed by Kehoe.

to have experienced the heyday of Playboy with Hefner at his Mansion in LA. I always felt his parties rivaled Jay Gatsby's in exquisite excess and excitement. The invitations, always with beautiful pinup artwork created by Olivia De Berardinis, arrived in the mail a few weeks before the big event (I've saved them all).

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LA Playboy Mansion lit up for NYE 2009.

We would RSVP immediately and then the anticipation began. You never knew what to expect at any of his

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With Hef at a past NYE in LA.

parties as the guest lists were always changing to accommodate whoever was in town along with some of his celebrity friends. One year, the Village People performed, another year Three Six Mafia hit the stage that was inside a ginormous tent on the grounds of Hef's Holmby Hills estate. Another year, one of Hef's three girlfriends, Bridget Marquardt,  popped out of a giant cake

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Hef surrounded by admirers at a past NYE.

and did a slow strip tease as she gazed into his eyes (the crowd went wild). Hef's party guests have included John Elway, Penelope Cruz, James Caan, Nicholas Cage, astronaut Buzz Aldrin, Robert Culp, Tiffany Trump, Donald Trump,  Julie Newmar, Bill Cosby (ick), Jane Russell, Quentin Tarantino, Pamela

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Chuck enjoying the views at one of Hef's NYE parties.

Anderson, Jack Nicholson, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Madonna, Eddie Murphy, Warren Beatty, Justin Timberlake, Jimmy Connors, Paris and Nicky Hilton, Eddie Murphy and so many more. It was always a great

adventure wondering who you would see that night. I was lucky that Hef liked Chuck too and always included him. During the parties, guests enjoyed gourmet buffets,

With fellow PMs--all former Hef girlfriends but me--including Patti Connors

Celebrating with fellow Playmates Marcy Hanson, Hope Olson and Patti McGuire Connors.

unlimited champagne and cocktails, swimming in the pool or lounging in the grotto. Guests were encouraged to wear lingerie which definitely added to the excitement. Some girls' interpretations of the "suggested attire" left little to the imagination. Oh, those were truly the days! I'm happy to see Playboy doing so well online now too. Even though the magazines have physically disappeared, the brand's online presence is strong and growing. I'm so happy to still have them as a family too. Here's to another 68 years and to a bigger, brighter 2021 for us all! 

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My PostI quizzed some of my favorite bold-faced names to see how they were handling the pandemic, what their NYE resolutions were, their best moments of 2020, hopes for the future and any advice that might give us some inspiration. I discovered that we all have more in common than we know. I hope you enjoy these enlightening, and in some cases, surprising, comments from some of my favorite Chicago notables.   

One of my favorite media peeps, Sylvia Perez (Fox-32) provided these thoughtful answers. Her

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Sylvia Perez: "We are Puerto Rican and I love these shirts. We eat Pasteles and drink coquito (Puerto Rican egg nog) it’s a holiday tradition!"

favorite moment, "When they finally took Texas off the travel ban list and I was able to see my 86 year-old mother who I had not seen since last year because of the pandemic. It warmed my heart. I needed my mommy. It doesn't matter how old you are." Her NYE resolution? "To live in the moment!" Her advice? "Everyone is going through something, respect and try not to judge."

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Kathy O'Malley Piccone, the hostess with the mostest at Gibson's Steakhouse, said her favorite moments during the pandemic were "when people started to reach out to each other, sending texts, jokes, puzzles, flowers, delicious foods from local restaurants and the wonderful 'calm app.'' She said, "Most of all, just sending love and positive vibes to each others. Touching moments that brought me to tears every evening at 8 pm throughout the city [when people serenaded the healthcare workers]." Her NYE resolution is to "spread more kindness, more love and generosity, more understanding of one another, more courage and peace and be more in the moment."

 

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Amanda Puck, Director Strategic Brand Development Mariano's, has worked in the food industry for a long time. She shared,

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Amanda Puck w/ Mariano's community partner Jermaine Anderson, Corey Carr, 6th Ward Alderman Roderick Sawyer, Ron Baker Jr. and Otis Wilson.

"Through the pandemic, it was great to see organizations and individuals step up and help the community more than ever! Both the Greater Chicago Food Depository and Northern Illinois Food Bank have worked so hard feeding the community, as well as all the local food pantries across Chicagoland." During the isolation she learned "how to make a mean arancini from Chef Tony Priolo, delicious Mac & Cheese from Chef Brian Jupiter and taste more wines with Belinda Chang all via our Mariano's meet-ups and zoom classes." Her NYE resolution? "To read more! She has started with Julia Child's "My Life in France." Amanda said, "I admire her, she started and blossomed in her career later in life. She's an epic legend in our industry." She added a quote from one of her favorite authors Morgan Harper Nichols, 'Even if the wait carries on another year, I will not get where I am going without first learning to be here.'"

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Melody Spann Cooper, Chair and CEO Midway Broadcasting Corp., said her favorite moment of 2020 was "when Joe Biden and Kamala Harris were declared the President and VP-Elect of the United States. I didn't realize how sleep deprived I had been over the past four years." Her NYE resolution is to "remain healthy and helpful. I'm making a commitment to 365 days of giving. Every day I plan to intentionally give something that will help someone." Her hope for the future? "I hope for healing and restoration. Restoring health to those who have been impacted by the pandemic. Restoring compassion in all of humanity and restoring Chicago to the great city we love. It's not perfect, but in its imperfection, it's still home and a place that has allowed me to dream past my zip code."

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Paul Iacono, president Chicago Dowel Company, and much loved man-about-town, said his

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Paul Iacono with niece Jennifer and nephew Tommy.

favorite moment of 2020 was being able to squeeze in a last minute trip to Hawaii during Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day. His hopes for next year are a "quick return to normalcy, especially for my friends in the hospitality industry who truly have had a rough go of it." His words of advice, "This too shall pass."

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Always stylish, Mark Olley.

Another handsome friend, Mark Olley (Co-op Lending Manager, Chicago Financial Services), said, "No matter what hand we've been dealt, we adapt, we flourish, it's who we are, it's what we do, we're CHICAGO STRONG!" Mark discovered new skills during the pandemic, as many of us did. He enjoyed learning to cook, plant and tend to a vegetable garden and credits his husband and dog Grayson for keeping him sane. Mark says, "I always lead with hope, optimism and love." His dream for 2021 is good health and an end to Covid-19. "A positive mind and outlook, no matter how trying the circumstances, helps to get us through a lot."

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Yolanda "Dusty" Stemer, philanthropist, member of Service Club of Chicago, Costume Council and others, said that two of her three sons had mild cases of Covid and both recovered rapidly."Things like this makes you realize and give credit to our healthcare workers." Her NYE resolution is to "not turn that Peloton into a clothes rack!" Her hopes for 2021, "The same as everyone, to get a vaccine to all of our loved ones and free Botox for all!" Dusty is married to Dr. Alex Stemer, who is deeply involved in treatment, research and prevention of Covid. "There is light at the end of the tunnel. Recent advances will help make 2021 much better than 2020…Tomorrow is promised to no one, and the one thing Covid steals from us is time with those we love," she said.

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Justine Fedak, Corporate Hippie, motivational speaker and soon-to-be Woman of Vision

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Justine Fedak, "a girl who never gives up!"

for this year's Eversight Illinois Gift of Sight Celebration told me her title should be "a girl who never gives up." She's a good friend and I can tell you I have never met anyone so tenacious and driven (in a very good way). She said 2020 was a time of total renewal for her. She regained mobility "by some miracle" [she suffered from MS for years and years] and "connected deeply" with her dearest friends. Her NYE resolution is to "cry when things make me happy or sad and to feel and live my life to the fullest, no pretending anything." Her motto? "Be in love with your life every single minute. My grandma passed away this December at age 98 and she was the strongest, toughest, most loving person who never complained about anything she had to live through. To be alive is to be in love…with your life," she said.

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Sherrill Bodine with Paula Borg and Sherry Lea Holson.

Sherrill Bodine, author, president of the Service Club of Chicago and philanthropist, said her favorite moment of the last year was "working with the dedicated women of the Service Club who worked tirelessly through these challenging times to raise money for our Philanthropic Fund which will be given out in 2021 to worthy charities all over Chicago." Sherrill recently lost her husband and said her resolution is "to seek the light and find my way on this new journey without John." She always greets each day with hope and vows to "never surrender."

 

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Sean Lewis, WGN News Anchor, remembers his favorite moment of 2020 very well. He

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Newlyweds Sean Lewis and Trover Gray Wilson.

married the love of his life, Trover Gray Wilson, in a ceremony at City Hall. "The pandemic didn't allow us a large in-person celebration but I'm hoping 2021 will!" He said his resolution is "to realize that resolutions aren't a good idea. Usually it becomes the first disappointment of any new year for me." He hopes that when the pandemic ends, that people will treat each other better. His words of advice? "Eat well, appreciate the small things and learn one new thing a day."

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Nan Giordano (3rd from L) with Joshua Blake Carter, Beth Tarrant, her son Keenan Casey, Sophie Darley and Cesar Salinas.

An icon in the dance world, Nan Giordano, artistic director Giordano Dance Chicago, is looking forward to "launching Illuminate the Possibilities, an initiative which represents global connection, unity, positivity and possibility, all through dance." She said, "Amidst our dim world light I have chosen to focus on the many silver linings that have immersed. I hope we learn and grow and take the many challenging circumstances and make something positive out of them. Mankind and peace, front and center!"  Her motto? "Today is the day! Adversity creates strength and change brings opportunity."

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Dear friend Michael Caputo, brand and creative strategist, enjoyed long walks around

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Michael Caputo (R) with friend Greg Hyder at RL.

the lakefront in the warmer months. He said, "It was lots of good thinking time. The views of our beautiful city were a hopeful reminder that things will soon return to normal." His NYE resolution is to "be adept with change and related growth." He said, "This pandemic has challenged us to rethink the 'why' of our respective lives/careers." His advice: "Every storm runs out of rain. We've all had to make do and redirect energies this past year, that can be stressful. Don't let a setback define the day. Or your life."

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Dionne Williams, president D. Williams PR Group, said, even though 2020 was a "rough year", she was able to spend more quality time with her family and a small group of friends, by staying in touch via phone or Zoom. She said, "2020 made me slow down, so for 2021 I will continue to not rush myself and live in the present and enjoy my surroundings. I want to focus more on fitness and travel when it's safe to do so." She added, "During these rough times, I have learned to be more patient. I also will take this time to work on things that I was too busy for previously, in life and business."

 

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Tracey Tarantino DiBuono, executive producer ZZAZZ Productions, said, "Having family

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Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and her Joey.

close and my young granddaughters in my home has given me a foundation of great unity as a family. Work paused. My husband Joey prepared family dinners that brought us all to the table, dinners that we never dreamed would happen in our previously busy lives." She looks forward to adding a new component to her business, virtual fashion shows and events. Her NYE resolution? "Don't expect things to return to normal…make a choice to accept and then create a new normal and keep my faith in God." She hopes that "new avenues become open to us and that prayers will be answered for everyone. Open your heart to what has been given and find gratitude in every day."

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Michelle Durpetti with her fab fam–dad Tony Durpetti, mom Marion and hubby Collin Pierson.

Michelle Durpetti, managing partner Turnkey Hospitality Group, chief planner Michelle Durpetti Events, said her favorite moment of 2020 was seeing her Gene & Georgetti management team come together, be more creative, more adaptive and supportive of each other. "We have even laughed while sometimes we felt like

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Michelle Durpetti and her team from Gene & Georgetti restaurant.

crying and I think that is because we have each other. Yanni, Sal, Cristiano, Luis, Jessica, Nicole, Jeremy and Angelo are all such incredible human beings. My favorite moment hands down has been seeing them flourish and fight all the challenges." As far as resolutions, "I don't believe in resolutions to be honest. I live my life out loud, with empathy and compassion always and when I get something wrong, I own it. And that is year round." Her advice going forward: "I think I now live with the knowledge that life truly can change so fast. It has really affirmed for me that I need to take a moment every day to be grateful for all that I have and for making it this far." Her words of advice? "Let's stop tearing at one another and, instead, extend helpful hands and grateful hearts towards each other."

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RMHC-CNI's Holly Buckendahl.

Holly Buckendahl, CEO Ronald McDonald House Charities of Chicagoland & NW Indiana, said a silver lining, that she didn't expect, was the ability to stay connected virtually with family and friends. Her hope for the coming year? "While open through the pandemic (with many restrictions), I look forward to RMHC-CNI reinstating the full breadth of services critically ill children and their families need on their journey to heal together." Her advice during these tough times comes from professor, social worker and author Brene Brown who said, "In order to empathize with someone's experience, you must be willing to believe them as they see it and not how you imagine their experience to be."

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My PR gal pal Kathleen Sarpy, founder/CEO Agency H5, said her favorite moment of 2020,

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Kathleen Sarpy and her family.

despite a tough year filled with personal losses, was being able to be "immersed" with all of her kids. She and her husband Chris discovered that "love and connectedness is truly the most important thing." She said, "I really need to find a hobby. I'm a wife, a mom to 6 awesome kids, run a company and I don't really have something that I do just for me. I might finally give meditation a try or yoga, to have a space to be mindful in body and spirit."

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Pandemic baking with Jennifer Sutton Brieva and Paul Iacono.

Jennifer Sutton Brieva, felt that Christmas was one of her favorite moments of 2020. She said "it was a much needed shift in energy for everyone. We need that all year long." Her hopes for 2021? "To learn from 2020 and never take people or experiences for granted again and to get back into pre-Covid shape!" Her words of advice? "People need to be grateful and embrace the simple pleasures of life that have become so very vital." I am so grateful for a FaceTime call with my parents, happy hour Zoom with dear friends, a classic movie with my cat Zoe or even a walk in Lincoln Park or a dance party in the kitchen with my husband Joaquin–those every day opportunities for joy often overlooked become special moments of connection, never to be taken for granted again."  

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WBBM Newsradio anchor/reporter Lisa Fielding, who has one of the most distinctive voices 

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Lisa Fielding, the Voice of WBBM.

in the business, said her favorite moment of 2020 was a mother/daughter trip to Mexico in February. "I got my travel fix, after this, by hitting the road to Michigan a couple of times to see the sunset from the other side. I'm a big "sunset" person and try to find them wherever I go," she added. Her hope for the coming year? "I hope for better days for the world, where jobs and prosperity return, where we can hug each other, sing and dance with each other while enjoying live music in our favorite venues or in that dark bar with the awesome jukebox, where we can travel the world again, enjoy a cold one and the crack of the bat at a baseball game, enjoy family gatherings, weddings, celebrations, our favorite restaurants, happy hour with friends and escape through live theater."

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Another dear friend in media is Dori Wilson, publicist/founder Dori Wilson Public Relations. Her favorite moment of 2020 was "watching a racially diverse movement develop and grow in recognition of long-standing racial inequality and injustice in this country, watching individuals and corporations commit to do better and recognition of "we're all in this together." Her NY resolution? "To actually use my Peloton!" Her hope for 2021? "I am so hopeful for a vaccination and a vacation!"…..Words of wisdom? "Laughter is the best medicine and forgiveness runs a close second!"

 

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Caylei Vogelzang and family.

The editor-in-chief of Cancer Wellness magazine, Caylei Vogelzang, said the best moment of 2020 was being able to spend more time with her family on the golf course. Her NYE resolutions include learning to do the splits 3 ways and a backward walkover; improve on physical fitness assessments; visit a yoga retreat; grow and expand her magazine and "become more of an essential source for those touched by cancer"; plan a family holiday to a national park; wear more pieces from local designers and sustainable fashion and practice gratitude daily and more meditation. The words she lives by is "exercise, exercise, exercise!"

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Jean de St Aubin, the executive director of the Gene Siskel Film Center, says her favorite

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Jean de St. Aubin and her daughter holiday baking.

moment of 2020 was presenting the Black Harvest Film Festival. She said, "The timing could not have been better. It was so great to have a month of celebrating Black stories, the joy felt virtually was a much needed balm to a turbulent year." Her hopes for 2021? "That everyone gets vaccinated ASAP, and that we all be together again. I think I will turn into a hugging machine as soon as it is safe." Her advice? "Count your blessings and share your gifts."

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Jean Antoniou and family at Chicago Botanic Garden.

Jean Antoniou, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago Board of Managers, said her favorite part of 2020 was "knowing it is almost over." Her advice moving forward? "To cherish family and friends because they will always be your biggest supporters. Glass is half full is always a good way to look at each day."

Michelle Mekky, president and founder of

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Mekky Media Relations, found silver linings in a tough year. She said spending more time with her kids and husband made her so grateful for "the little moments." She also found joy in the hiring of four new people for her 5 year-old business. In 2021, she plans on prioritizing her own health and to invest in herself in ways she never has. Her motto? "Every day is a new day. Every morning we wake up with a new chance. I truly believe the energy you give out is what comes back to you. Despite all of the negativity around us, never lose hope. We will get through this!"

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Pam Capitanini (center) with friends Simona Garcia and Cristina Montgomery.

Pamella Capitanini, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago, loved watching people's inventiveness during 2020 as many learned new ways to pivot. She said, "From drive-by birthday celebrations, mask creativity and eating in igloos, it was amazing and inspiring to see." Her NYE resolution: "To keep smiling and do my best! And remember the front line workers who have given all and those who have left us." She added, "I believe many of us have realized that nails, hair and party dresses don't make a difference, but reaching out to one another does!"

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And last but certainly not least, everyone's favorite elf, The Real Elf Tommy Holl, Head of Media for The

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Tommy Holl, aka "The Real Elf."

North Pole, had much to be thankful for in 2020. "This holiday season is one for the history books that I hope we never have to repeat, but we were able to create a spark of joy for young and old." His favorite moments included: "Elfing" at 900 North Michigan Shops; Sending Elf Gram video messages with proceeds benefiting Imerman Angels (Tommy is a cancer survivor); Being hired to pop into 5 Zoom calls from around the world; Appearing on "Around Town with Ana Belaval", "Happy Hour with the Hoovers", WGN radio with Paul Lisnek, Tom Skilling's Christmas Eve and so much more. His NYE resolution is to: "Pause, reset, reorganize, reflect, be prepared, be ready, be thankful and be kind." His advice? "You can't grow from NO. It's okay to say no when it doesn't feel right, but saying no all the time will lead you nowhere. Try not to take things too seriously, none of us get out of here alive. And appreciate what you have."

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Eversight Illinois "Gift of Sight Celebration" Save-the-Date with mask included. 

I'm so excited to see some events coming BACK!! Mark your calendars for Eversight Illinois' "Gift of Sight Celebration", set for Thursday, October 21 at the Peninsula. Justine Fedak will be honored as the Woman of Vision and Dr. Parag Majmudar will be the Gift of Sight honoree. This year's masquerade theme is "Fantasea" and I'm honored to return as co-chair with Michael Caputo! (For more details, click here!)

On Saturday, November 6, the Hippocratic Cancer Research

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Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation Save-the-Date with mask included.

Foundation, will host its 6th annual "Wings to Cure." This gala will be held at the Hilton Chicago and funds raised will help support cutting edge cancer research at the Lurie Cancer Center. For more details, click here!  

Chicago Lights "Gala of Hope at Home" is still set for Friday, March 5 at 7 pm CST. This signature event will benefit the Chicago Lights Gala of Hope at Home Mar. 5youth development and social service programs of Chicago Lights and the community support efforts of the Replogle Center for Counseling and Well-Being. (More details here!)

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Here's more happy news on the nonprofit front! YWCA Metropolitan Chicago received a $9

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Philanthropist MacKenzie Scott, ex-wife of Amazon's Jeff Bezos.

million unrestricted contribution from billionaire venture philanthropist MacKenzie Scott. This major gift will help the nonprofit and its mission to empower women and families and advance racial justice. This major gift is part of more than $4 billion in philanthropic contributions made by Ms. Scott over the past four months. Board president Joyce Winnecke (just love her!) called this gift an "affirmation of YWCA Metropolitan Chicago's strategy."

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Israel "Izzy" Idonije with CPD officers from his "Shop with a Cop" initiative.

Former Chicago Bear Israel "Izzy" Idonije has lifted charitable giving to an art form. For the 6th year in a row, Izzy and his IF Charities team hosted "Shop With a Cop", a great initiative that builds trust between CPD officers and the communities they serve. On Thursday, December 17, more than 60 police officers shopped for kids in need, who had submitted a wish list "for Santa" in advance. The officers picked up items that were donated by Target with special $50 gift certificates included for family dinners donated by Jewel. (To support Izzy in his many charitable endeavors around town, click here!)

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CBS-2 Chicago's Steven Graves.

Special thanks to CBS-2 Chicago's Steven Graves and to  

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ABC-7's John Garcia for having me on their segments recently! I loved chatting about what to do for NYE with John (watch segment here) and to Steven about how our nonprofits are pivoting their fundraisers. (Watch this segment here!)

One of my favorite silver linings to this pandemic mess is the fact that our animal shelters are at their lowest point with 47345717_10155897884056272_3390432546213855232_oun-adopted rescues! As a matter of fact, PAWS Chicago has reported a near record number of adoptions in 2020–4,100! Through their Holiday-Adopt-a-Thon and usual grassroots efforts, they have managed to find forever homes for 4100 UntitledDOGS AND CATS! Can I get a Woot! Woot!? PAWS Chicago also provides extensive resources to help pets make a seamless transition into their news home and also provides a lifetime safety net for every animal, ensuring that if something happens to the adopter, their PAWS pet will always be cared for. I'm hearing similar good news from One Tail at a Time and also Young at Heart Senior Pet Rescue–all my favorites and much recommended animal shelters. Please check them out if you're looking for a pet!

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BEST IMG_0446_Facetune_30-12-2020-16-46-36I'm so loving my new home at Chicago Star Media! This group of hyper-local papers delivers, monthly, positive news you can use and I hope you're a subscriber! (Please click here for details or just leave your name and address here, info@chicagostarmedia, to receive the free online newsletter.) My latest column, "Chicago's CHI-lebrities Reflect on 2020, Share Hopes for the Coming Year" has been a hit, garnering both the front page and centerfold of the recent publication! (Read it here and get advice and discover the hopes and dreams of Chef Art Smith, rocker Jim Peterik, Bill Kurtis and Donna La Pietra, comedian Tom Dreesen, Kerry Wood and his Sarah, Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas, Leslie Hindman, Israel "Izzy" Idonije, The Joffrey  Ballet's Ashley Wheater, entertainer Chilli Pepper, restaurateur RJ Melman, Alpana Singh, Michael Kutza, Aldmerman Brian Hopkins and Dr. Ian Smith. I was so moved by their honest, thoughtful answers….there is uplifting advice, inspiration for the future and their thoughts on 2020! Read it all here!

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Jatnna Toribio and Izzy Idonije are engaged!

There's a lotta love in the air right now! So many exciting betrothals to announce! First off, love and

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Marcus Riley is engaged to Jude Fitzgerald!

congrats to Jatnna Toribio and her Israel Idonije, who were recently engaged. Also, congratulations to Marcus Riley and his Jude Fitzgerald who got engaged on New Year's Day and,

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Val Warner is engaged to Jobba Jordan.

last but not least, to Windy City Live's Val Warner who just became engaged to Jobba Jordan. I'm thrilled for each and every one of these beautiful people who managed to not only survive during

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Val and Jobba sittin' in a tree…..

this nasty year, but to thrive and find love. It's definitely easier to face any storm when you're supported by your best friend. Here's wishing them all a lifetime of health and happiness and, as Kup always said, "Long may they love!"

 

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IMG_0710We recently experienced Six Flags' Holiday in the Park Drive-Thru in Gurnee. Over 3 million lights illuminate the park as cars drive through at 3 mph. We ordered hot IMG_0714chocolate, a funnel cake and I bought an ornament (of course). We listened to piped in holiday music and it was sort of eerie, to be honest, and had the feel of driving through a deserted theme park in the Truman Show. However, I guess if we'd lived closer, the experience would've been a little easier and better. But, frankly, driving through the park with the Notre Dame game blasting on the radio might've had something to do with my lack of enthusiasm (although Chuck was certainly entitled to cheer on his favorite team!) This is only my POV, so please go and find out for yourselves (and let me know what you think!) The experience has been extended through Jan. 10, details here!

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Izabela Guedes

Playboy's Winter 2021 Playmate Izabela Guedes.

Playboy has changed the format of its iconic centerfold. No longer will the featured Playmate be spotlighted for just a month, now she will have a whole season all to herself! There will be only 4 Playmates a year….makes me wish for a do-over! Read deets here on how Playboy is growing, and meet the Winter 2021 Playmate, Izabela Guedes.

 

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As I close out my first blog of 2021, I must say, I am glad to leave 2020 (far) behind. I've never had a worse Goodbye-2020-hello-2021-images-12year and I know many of my friends feel the same. There's was no  "dashing through the snow on a one horse open sleigh, o'er the fields we go, laughing all the way"…… Not this year when everything in the world changed in the blink of a Covid eye. I couldn't even get in my usual cheery mood for Christmas, at Elf on Shelfleast not in the way I used to. One minute, we're planning family gatherings, figuring out seating, who will sit at the kids' table and the next thing you know, we're all Zooming in to "celebrate" on computer screens. I found myself decorating for Christmas almost manically, trying to create much needed joy that is at a premium now. I know store

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This is definitely NOT my work, beautiful gingerbread house by Jennifer and Joaquin Brieva (kit from Vanille Chicago).

shelves were shopped clean of all holiday decor long before the usual time. On social media, my friends busily shared photos of their trees, holiday cookies, DIY Christmas ideas and so much more. Hell, we even attempted building a gingerbread house for the first time but it

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I'm thinking our tree will be up until Easter or beyond. (Sort of kidding?)

looked like a tornado hit it before I could even ice the roof. This year, we lost our dog, family members, I lost a job, Chuck lost his three dearest friends and had a TIA (mini-stroke). I think I was entitled to decorate as much as I wanted to try to fill this void and you can bet these decorations are gonna be here for a while. Nothing makes me happier than twinkling Christmas tree lights. It reminds me of all the GOOD years in the past when all of our family was gathered together, giving gifts and

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Marshall Field's famous Chicken Pot Pie.

thanks for our good health and the fact that we were still here. Pre-Covid, you could still find Santa in all the department stores, which were decorated to the nines. I'm happy though to see that retail, despite all its setbacks, still

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Marshall Field's Walnut Room at Christmas 1950.

tried to be festive. Macy's, although certainly not close to the old Marshall Field's in holiday decor, still had cheerful windows and the Great Tree in the Walnut Room. And, although families couldn't carry on life-long traditions of dining there during the season, they could still order carry-out–the famous Mrs. Hering's Chicken Pot Pie (recipe here), lobster bisque, Frango Mint

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Ann Gerber's book, "Sweet Tooth," a collection of recipes by Chicago notables.

Chocolate Ice Cream Pie and more. For Chuck and me, we still tried to carry on family traditions. We baked my mom's ham (Cooks only) and I fixed Mama Mary Johnson's famous sweet potato pie (whose recipe was featured in Ann Gerber's 1985 book, "Chicago's Sweet Tooth."). I also cooked the requisite black-eyed peas for good luck on New Year's Day (I pray it works). We toasted to the loved ones we lost and prayed for a better future, one that will bring back the human element and social interaction that is necessary to the survival of a species. We can't drift apart. We need "parties for hosting, marshmallows for toasting and caroling out in the snow," now more than ever. Here's hoping this year is off to a great start for you!

Love always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. Life's short, make the most of it. Thank you Michiel for this poignant reminder.

 

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