Today, I find myself wrapped in a flurry of nostalgia, joy, and a deep sense of gratitude for the magic of Christmas. For me, the holiday isn’t merely about twinkling lights or perfectly wrapped presents (although I love this too), but rather a time to reflect, connect and celebrate the stories and traditions that make life so rich.
Growing up in Dupo, Illinois, a small town just outside St. Louis, my early memories of Christmas are shaped by the complexities of family. When my parents divorced when I was two years old, my life became a balancing act between two homes. Despite the challenges, the love and care I received from both my Mom and Dad and Mary and Jim Johnson, who played a significant role in helping to raise me, ensured that Christmas
Meeting Santa with my cousin Steve Lowry.
was always magical.
Now I’m taking a moment to remember what this holiday has always meant to me. My
family wasn’t very religious although I was baptized an Episcopalian. My trips to church were few and far between and only occurred when my aunt forced my dad to take me. I am still deeply spiritual though, so there’s that.
My Christmases weren’t centered around honoring the night Baby Jesus was born but rather about decorating, baking and receiving and giving gifts. I know this isn’t a very well-balanced way to experience the holidays, but this was my reality.
Decorating the tree is the highlight for me. You see, each and every ornament we put on that tree holds very special memories. I have a crocheted ornament of Santa that my second-grade teacher (Mrs. Lackey ) made for me; I have 3 ornaments related to my life with Playboy (two plastic Bunnies, thank you Diana Peterson, and also a silver Bunny head). We have ornaments from most all of our travels and a very special one from NYC’s now defunct “21 Club.” I have a tiny plastic Barbie doll in her original striped bathing suit that was a gift from my late mom. (This ornament holds pride of place). My late half-sister made a post office building out of popsicle sticks that I cherish (our dad was a third-generation mail carrier).
We have loads of Chihuahua ornaments too- in honor of our late pups Daisy, Mickey and
Willing to make a fool of myself for Christmas.
Rooney, as well as a few dedicated to our current dog Penny the Pencil Neck. I could stare at our tree for hours as it takes me back to so many beautiful moments in time.
When my parents divorced, God Bless them, they never let any anger or frustration spill over on me. As a matter of fact, they made sure I had two perfect Christmases, one at each house. At my dad’s, my stepmom and I would bake cookies and decorate the tree with tinsel. There was always a load of gifts under the tree, and I remember always being happy there.
At my mom’s house, she was more progressive putting up one of the newer silver trees (which wasn’t my favorite), but she tried. Decorating was not my mom’s strong suit although she loved Christmas. My mom’s workdays started at 4 am for as long as I can remember so I’m sure exhaustion was a factor here. She retired as a teletypist from TWA (Trans World Airlines) after decades of hard work. We still had fun until my stepdad came home drunk. That’s when the parties always stopped. But this never diminished my love for Christmas. If anything, it made me cherish it even more.
When my stepfather passed, Chuck was kind enough to invite my mom to live with us.
Every ornament tells a story.
That’s when the real parties began! We had a tree over 12-ft-tall with presents stacked sky- high around it every year. We also had a big chili party for family and friends at Christmastime which was always so much fun! The house was decorated inside, front, back and on our deck. I think you could see it from the International Space Station.
But these days, I realize Christmas isn’t just about nostalgia or beauty—it’s about giving back too. Through my involvement with our city’s nonprofit community, I’ve seen firsthand how the spirit of the season inspires generosity. Whether it’s supporting causes close to my heart or sharing stories of others’ kindness, Christmas magnifies the power of coming together to make a difference.
This holiday is a reminder of the joy found in both the
Happy times with my mom during Christmas in Chicago.
smallest acts of kindness and the grandest displays of love. It’s in the handwritten notes, the laughter shared over a holiday meal and the sparkle of snowflakes on a winter’s night.
As I reflect on the Christmases of my childhood, I’m reminded of the lessons they taught me: that love, even when divided, is still abundant. That family extends beyond bloodlines. And that the magic of Christmas lies not in the gifts under the tree but in the memories we make and the connections we cherish.
Wishing you and yours a Christmas and New Year filled with wonder, joy and the warmth of those you hold dear.
Plus: Chicago Lighthouse's FLAIR "Eye on Style"; Eversight's Fantasea; Cindy on the red carpet; Chicago International Film Festival hosts a new kind of party; A hometown reunion; Printer's Row Lit Fest brings out Bunnies; A birthday bash with Neal and Marko; Illinois Holocaust Museum's SOIREE; Andrew and Bethany sittin' in a tree; Runway LatinX's sizzling Fashion Show; Navy Pier is ready to "Light Up the Lake"!; ASLF's "A Sterling Event"'; The Joffrey Ballet's "Home"; Fab fall events and what to do for Halloween; Darling video and SOOO much more!
Long time, no see! I'm so sorry my blog is late! I had no idea of the amount of time and effort it takes to get a newspaper out! But, Chicago Staris a labor of love and I hope
Chicago Star's first fashion and beauty issue was a great success! Thanks to all who support it!
filled with uplifting, fun and positive news. No "if it bleeds, it leads" sort of stuff for us! As a matter of fact, our October issue was our first Fashion & Beauty issue and I/we had a blast putting it together! From the outstanding cover photo of some of our town's most beloved designers (that I produced with the one and only Hilary Higgins and Erin Lyle Photography) to the "Secrets of Style from Industry Insiders" article to a very clever take on fashion from a completely different point of view, contributor Jon Cohn's, this issue had it ALL! Read it here and let me know what you think!
Even though this has been a trying summer, I think we still have so much to be grateful for. Hopefully, we're near the tail end of this seemingly never-ending pandemic. We've been separated from our loved ones, in fear of our health, zoomed away from our jobs and discombobulated in 100s of other ways and I can still feel it, can't you? I've always loved summer, reveled in it really, but this year, I've viewed every day with caution and some discomfort, not knowing how many shootings the day might bring or if I would hear of another friend or acquaintance who's come down with Covid (like dear Former Secretary of State Colin Powell), despite being fully vaccinated. It's fear of the unknown that we're all dealing with on a regular basis now and this anxiety can be felt throughout the city and in everyone I know. Summer is supposed to be the time of joyous abandon, but this year, it's been exactly the opposite. I pray this will end soon so we can get back to being the people we're supposed to be–kind, loving, giving, helpful–and move away from all of this negativity and fear. Fall brings change and I hope it brings us more happy days filled with corn mazes, apple cider donuts, glowing fireplaces, walks in the woods, bundling up in your favorite sweaters and roadtrips with friends and family. Here's to you dear readers and to a kinder, gentler season for us all.
Cindy Crawford and photographer David Yarrow at Hilton Asmus Contemporary gallery opening.
Picture perfect! It was the first and best red carpet experience to come back in Chicago since the pandemic so it was no wonder that the nearly 200 guests at the Hilton|Amus Contemporary art gallery opening didn't want to leave. The event, hosted by the gallery in its new Bridgeport location on October 9, celebrated the opening of its upcoming exhibition, "Changing Lanes," which featured the works of renowned photographer David Yarrow in collaboration with supermodel Cindy Crawford. The exhibition included Yarrow's stunning interpretation of Cindy's iconic Pepsi ad by Joe Pytka, simply titled "1992," which was the year the original commercial aired
David Yarrow, Arica Hilton, Cindy Crawford and Sven Asmus in front of Yarrow's iconic recreation titled "1992."
during the Super Bowl. Both stars were in attendance, first chatting with the media and then, Cindy snapping photos with ALL of the guests before dinner. A Q&A followed led by
Stan Wozniak (2nd from R) and friends.
Fox-32's Jake Hamilton. The event helped raise funds for the University of Wisconsin Kids Cancer Program, the same hospital that treated Cindy's late brother Jeff who passed away from leukemia as a child. The red carpet stretched all the way through the garage into the massive freight elevator and then up to the main gallery. Art enthusiasts stepped into the 5,000-square-foot
Mancow Muller, Arica Hilton and friend.
space, done in chic shades of black, white and
Charles Miers, head of publishing Rizzoli NYC.
grey to coordinate with the oversized photographs that adorned the walls. On this night, David Yarrow's exquisite work was on full display, many featuring Cindy, while others focused on the Wild West and animals in the wild. Cindy arrived in a stunning, sequin-studded gun-metal grey jumpsuit to greet guests. She graciously chatted with media in front of her iconic image, along with Mr. Yarrow. They shared their joy over
Thrill of a lifetime! Watch for interview on ChicagoStarMedia.com produced by Troy Mairs.
collaborating together again, how much it meant that the funds were going to the University of Madison Kids
Americana, another great image by David Yarrow available at this gallery.
Cancer Program (together, they raised over $1 million over the weekend for the American Family Children's Hospital there) and more. Cindy spoke about the legendary Chicago photographer, Victor Skrebneski, who discovered and mentored her. She said he taught her professionalism and to remember that the photos were about selling the product and not the model. She also spoke about her daughter Kaia, also a supermodel, and how proud she was of her and the decisions she's
"1992", David Yarrow's recreation of the iconic Pepsi ad with Cindy, sold 3 times that night for charity.
made in the business. Dinner from Inspired Catering (Karen Stefani), consisted of a choice of filet, sea bass, ravioli or a vegetarian option. Every detail was attended to, right down to the flowers on the table
Loretta Wilger, who modeled with Cindy, Dennis Minkel, Cindy and Jack Perno.(Photo by Perno)
which included yarrow, as a nod to the photographer. A red Cadillac Eldorado, a duplicate of the one used in the photo recreation, was displayed in the gallery as well. During dinner, Arica Hilton addressed the attentive crowd and shared the mission of her gallery. "The artwork and artists we
A very attentive crowd.
represent are all about making the world a better place. We're not just selling art. We choose who we represent for a reason. David, over the last couple of years, has raised over $5 million for various charities–from cancer research to animal protection and conversation to ocean conservation. That's what we are about." She
Expertly catered by An Inspired Event (Karen Stefani)
acknowledged celebs in the crowd, radio personality Mancow Muller, head of Rizzoli Publishing in NY Charles Miers and stars of Showtime's "The Chi," Yolonda Ross and Tai Davis.
The image that started Cindy's career.
Yarrow also addressed the crowd, "Yesterday, we had an event in Madison, Wisconsin. Visiting the hospital there was one of the most humbling experiences of my life. I was meeting people who were changing and saving children's lives and it put everything into perspective for me. The UW is a trailblazer. The iconic picture we recreated of Cindy has been shown
Even more beautiful in person.
across Europe. And everyone wants this photo! Last night, they sold $400,000 worth of that picture and every penny is going to the UW. I know the Chicago Bears can't beat the Green Bay Packers (ha, ha) but, tonight's your chance to give Wisconsin a run for its money.
David and Cindy with Charles Miers and friend.
Cindy, who's a national treasure, will sign the photograph for you. There's only about 12 of these left." (Three of the pieces were sold during the evening) Dr. Paul Sondel, head of the pediatric cancer
Karen Konyer and her cute hubby.
research program at UW, was in attendance as well. He's recognized around the world as an expert in his field. He said, "In 1950, children diagnosed with cancer had no treatment available. Almost all of those children died within a few months of their diagnose. But now, in 2021, here
Cindy appearing in a Chicago International Film Festival poster shot by the late, great Victor Skrebneski.
in the U.S., 85% of children with cancer are cured and the cancer won't come back. That's because of research, both in the lab and in the clinic. But, in many cases, because of the cure, they
"American Beauty", another spectacular photo by David Yarrow available at Hilton-Asmus Contemporary.
will have lasting medical problems because of the toxicity of the treatments. Our vision is to have kinder, gentler, more intelligent and more effective treatments to eliminate the cancer without harming normal tissue. And the approach we're using to help get there is the use of immunotherapy, trying to get the immune system to attack the cancer so we can use less radiation and chemo. We also know these advances will help treat
Photo bombed by Stan Wozniak.
cancer in adults. We're convinced we can get there because we see it happening every day. Since 1992, Cindy has made childhood cancer and the UW her special focus,
Arica's great friends, Karin Carlson and Ann-Marie Streibich.
providing major financial support, visiting the hospital and being an ambassador. And David has turned his work into protecting our earth and supporting all of its species and people to protect its future. He lives his commitment every day. Together, they are raising awareness worldwide for children and their families who are facing cancer."(Yarrow's images at the gallery run from $35,000 to $55,000. "1992", signed by both Crawford and Yarrow and measuring 47" X 63" including frame, is for sale at $35,000.) Hilton|Asmus Contemporary, 3622 S. Morgan St. (www.hilton-asmus.com); David Yarrow, (www.davidyarrow.photography.com) (Photos by Justin Barbin and Mila Samokhina)
Justine Fedak, Woman of Vision 2021, and Sherry Lea Fox, Woman of Vision 2020.
Eversight was FINALLY able to host its popular Gift of Sight Mystery Masquerade on September 8 at the Peninsula. It was great to see nearly 300 attendees who were anxious and
Gift of Sight honoree Dr. Parag Majmudar and his proud family.
excited to return to in-person events! The theme for this year's party was Fantasea, which was a fun-filled, under-the-sea theme that guests were happy to embrace. I loved seeing all of the SEE-worthy outfits including outstanding looks from Sugar & Spice, Giovanna Krozel and Almira Yllana, Susan Gohl and Jonathan Grabill (Jonathan was wearing an adorable shark hat), Patty Brand Nalepa (pretty in blue), Eversight president/CEO Diane Hollingsworth (also pretty in blue) and especially our Woman of
Proud to return as co-chair, with the always adorable Michael Caputo.
Vision, Justine Fedak, who was truly a vision enveloped
Diane Hollingsworth, looking glam in Fantasea blue. (Eversight pres/CEO)
in a sparkly sea-blue design created by Sylwia Designs. The weather couldn't have been more perfect on this night which was a godsend since we had planned a large part of our event to be held on the patio. Beautiful lighting, magnificent sea-themed decor (by Tamar Productions with bar and support from Kehoe Designs), coral mixed with florals for the tabletops and dramatic video-mapping of a beautiful undersea world that was brought to life by last year's Woman of Vision and longtime supporter, Sherry Lea Holson. It created the perfect ambiance.
Greg Hyder and Jim Smith.
Tamar Productions' Mary Ann Rose even donated beautiful
Tom Dreesen with a beautiful mermaid, courtesy of ZZAZZ Productions, Caroline Koch.
rhinestone crowns for every guest. A "mermaid," courtesy of ZZAZZ Productions (Tracey Tarantino DiBuono), charmingly posed for photos with guests. A surprise guest, comedian Tom Dreesen (in from Hollywood), wowed the crowd as he shared a funny sketch before joining "G-Man" Greg Dellinger to conduct the live auction and a fund-a-need. Before dinner, which was Chilean sea bass (another nod to our theme!), an awards presentation and an inspiring impact story was presented. My co-chair, Michael Caputo, and I were honored to share the stage
Magnificent decor by Tamar Productions with elements by Kehoe Designs.
again to welcome guests and thank our sponsors—Cornea Consultants (Visionary Sponsor), Leadership Sponsors Cheryl Coleman and Ron Katz, Sherry Lea Holson, Tony and Moira Saliba, Mamie J. Walton, Warby Parker, Gift of Hope, Illinois Eye and Ear Infirmary and MyEyeDr. Eversight pres/CEO Diane
Tamar Productions' Mary Ann Rose donated darling crowns for each guest in a nod to our theme.
Hollingsworth spoke about the nonprofit's mission to preserve and restore sight through the healing power of donation, transplantation and research. "We honor our doctors and donor families that make the miracle of transplantation happen. We celebrate our surgeons that give people their
Sugar & Spice (Almira Yllana and Giovanna Krozel) light up every party they attend!
lives back through transplantation. We use diseased eye tissue to help find cures for all blinding eye conditions. We exist to serve and support this amazing community, drive toward new innovations and strive to have donor families, surgeons, our Organ Procurement, and hospital partners trust in our relationship to serve this community together," Diane said. Marta Garczarczyk, Eversight Philanthropy Director, shared a special letter from one of
Beautiful (CHAMPION!) Chicago Sky basketball players Diamond DeShields and Lexie Brown.
Dr. Parag Majmudar's recipients. The recipient has corneal dystrophy which runs in his family. Dr. Majmudar has successfully treated 3 generations of his family members. Dr. David Lubeck, 2019 Gift of Sight honoree, introduced this year's honoree, Dr. Parag Majmudar.
Playful Susan Gohl and Jonathan Grabill get into the spirit of the party.
Lubeck ceremoniously draped a sparkly cape around Dr. Majmudar before he delivered his acceptance speech. Sherry Holson and I introduced Justine Fedak, this year's Woman of Vision. Justine lived with MS for over 20 years and miraculously regained her mobility and health. She was also a BMO C-Suite marketing exec for 20 years and left January 2020 to live out her work life as a Corporate
Justine Fedak, honoree, Sylwia Wilczynska, Kathy Piccone and Mark Olley.
Hippie, consulting, doing motivational speaking and writing a children's book. She is committed to motivating and inspiring people to "see" their best and true selves. In short, she is a perfect WOV! Both of the honorees' speeches brought the crowd to their feet,
Dr. Parag Majmuder, Gift of Sight honoree 2021, and Dr. David Lubeck, 2020 honoree.
as they were so moving, inspiring and thoughtful. DJ Akib, played throughout the night and, in the end, people didn't want to leave. I think we were just all so grateful to be reunited that we didn't want the night to end. Thank you to all who attended, donated and supported this event which raised over $150,000.
With the Eversight Team: Michael Caputo, Teresa Clark, Justine Fedak (honoree), Dr. Parag Madmudar (honoree), Diane Hollingsoworth, Mary Ann Rose, Greg Hyder and Marta Garczarczyk.
Susan Griffiths Gohl, The Chicago Lighthouse's Hood/Swift Woman with Flair honoree, with Monsignor Ken Velo and Jonathan Grabill.
The Chicago Lighthouse presented its popular FLAIR "Eye on Style" fashion show fundraiser on October 1 at the Drake. Nearly 300 supporters were thrilled to return to a live, in-person event and this one didn't miss a beat. From the deserving Hood/Swift Woman with FLAIR honoree, Susan Griffiths Gohl, to the glamorous runway models to the exciting designers and retailers, everything in the spectacular Gold Coast Room was perfect. Sherrill Bodine and Sheree Schimmer returned for their 5th year as the pro co-chairs that they are to rally support for this nonprofit that provides programming for the blind and visually
Cheryl Bollinger, Shauna Montgomery and Sally Jo Morris.
impaired. I had the honor of returning as co-host with Tracey Tarantino DiBuono. This year's event supported the Lighthouse's children's
Caroline Grossinger and Dr. Janet Szlyk, Chicago Lighthouse president-CEO
programming. The luncheon kicked off with a video showcasing highlights from last year's virtual show, produced by ZZAZZ Productions as was this year's presentation. Dr. Janet Szlyk spoke eloquently about the organization and I had the pleasure of introducing Susan, who couldn't have been a more perfect honoree. She's an
Front L to R, Theresa Strnad, Vonita Reescer, top L to R, Melinda Jakovich-LaGrange and event co-host Tracey Tarantino DiBuono.
ardent philanthropist who supports so many charities, including the Service Club of Chicago as well as many animal and equestrian nonprofits both here and in Naples. She enlisted her friend Monsignor Ken Velo to deliver the blessing before lunch. During the program, models strutted looks from Mira
Sherrill Bodine and Sheree Schimmer, fab returning co-chairs.
Couture, Anne Fontaine, redE Mas, Frances Heffernan, Al Menotti Couture, Lauren Lein Ltd., St. John, Contessa Bottega, and the finale, Macy's MyStylist. An inspiring musical performance by Nina Vargas, who was discovered in the Lighthouse's Youth Transition Program talent show, brought the house down. She sang a hit from The Greatest Showman, "A Million
Kevin Sullivan, who makes all things possible.
Dreams." (Watch it here!) Special thanks to all who supported this wonderful cause and a big shout-out to Kevin Sullivan, who along with his team Adrienne Squires and Francisco Perez, makes all things possible. DJ Akib, as always, kept the runway rockin'! (Chicago Star was the proud media sponsor)
CIFF artistic director Mimi Plauche delivers remarks after receiving her honor.
The Chicago International Film Festival hosted its first in-person fundraiser since the beginning of the pandemic themed, Lights, Camera, Chicago" at event space Bridge410
CIFF founder Michael Kutza.
on September 13. This unique space at 410 N. Paulina, was the perfect spot for people still a bit cautious about venturing back into the events scene with an outdoor space that looked like something straight out of a Norman Rockwell painting. Food trucks dotted the space with yummy Eli's Cheesecake Dippers passed around on silver trays. Guests enjoyed 'tastes of Chicago,' live music, a silent auction, films and an award presentation– the Chevalier des Arts et Lettres award presentation to Artistic Director, Mimi Plauché. Proceeds from the event will benefit the year-round programs of the Chicago International Film Festival.
Not many showed up from my year but we still had fun!
I don't agree with Thomas Wolfe, I think you can go home again and should. It was life-affirming to return to my hometown of Dupo, Illinois recently for my "No Class Reunion, " that was filled with all the faces of my childhood. Sadly, with each passing year, we lose friends and the
Drone view by Matt Jones of the idyllic Dupo American Legion Park where the reunions are always held.
memories turn bittersweet but we are still there to commemorate them and carry on. The event is always expertly planned by Marsha Bieber English and Rose Freppon Falana and held in the American Legion Park. We usually have food vendors
Took a side trip to Eckert's Fun Farm in Columbia, Ill. Here, Chuck pretends like he's never seen a pumpkin before.
but, this year, due to that damn Covid, we had to change plans so everyone brought their own snacks and drinks. It was no hardship–we were just all happy to see each other. Each class, going all the way back to 1946, had a group picture snapped….my class of 1972 was small but mighty (next year I'm hoping to see more classmates)
Reunion organizers Marsha Bieber English and Rose Freppon Falana.
but every class was represented and proudly stood by the little Dupo No Class Reunion sign firmly planted in the ground outside the pavilion. We chatted, laughed, shared gossip and cherished every moment since, for some of us, it might be
Thoughtful friend Debra Nichols Mikel had this purse designed with my Playboy cover!
our last. Dear friend and fellow classmate Debra Nichols Mikel even had a beautiful purse created for me using one of my Playboy covers! You could've blown me over with a feather! And thank goodness Chuck always enjoys these road trips to my hometown. We both agree, this lifestyle could probably lengthen our lives–the air is fresh and there's no stress. My Aunt Lora Stott is proof positive at 90 years young! She could still be an Ivory Soap model. Not a wrinkle on her pretty face. When we were there, we made the most of our time and packed a lot
Dear friend Tommy Hundley with Chuck and the Chicago Star!
of sightseeing into a couple of days. One day, we had dinner in Waterloo at a cute Italian spot called Frederico's. The next night, we missed the reunion kick-off party and had a quiet dinner at
Mike Sager, and friends, celebrate part of his 1968 class.
Reifschneider's in Columbia, surrounded by Cardinal fans as they trounced the Cubs. A license plate in the parking lot said "No Cub"….okay, we get it! LOL!! One afternoon, we drove to Millstadt, an old German town where my mom, my stepfather Donald and I would always go for Friday night fish frys–and the place is still there, Ott's! We also visited Eckert's Fun Farm, that features camel rides, pig races, farm stand food (including succotash cooked in a ginormous cast iron skillet) and a packed local food store with canned
Sign seen in Dupo American Legion Post 485.
goods made from the farm's produce. The weather couldn't have been more perfect and we never once
A small part of the Class of 1969.
had to put the top up on our convertible (we even drove the 5 hours home with it down!)….. I drove Chuck to the edge of the Mississippi River where we could see the barges packing the waterway. From there, into East Carondelet where Mama Mary Johnson lived. She was like a second mother to me and I miss her still. Her house is torn down but I could visualize it and her sitting proudly on her porch in front of her prized forsythia bush as
Mindy Mernick (far right) and her cute class.
husband Jim worked in their huge garden behind the house. He pulled the plow himself, that's how strong he was. Jim also worked on the railroad, where an uncle of mine also worked. My
Fun with good friends.
uncle would tell stories of Jim's strength and how he could, single-handedly, lift an entire engine wheel. He was the original Paul Bunyon. We passed the bingo hall where Mary used to play (and always win), the community center where I hosted her 90th birthday party and the Flat Creek Baptist Church where I proudly went with her and Jim on the Sundays
We always love stopping in at the Pink Elephant Antique Mall in Livingston, Il.
when I was in town. So many memories. Even my childhood home in Dupo, at 325 Louisa Avenue, is still standing and looks much better than I remember it. We visited
Chuck beside the Big Muddy, the Mississippi River.
the American Legion Post 485 where I honed my pool skills–they later become very, very useful when I became a Playboy Bunny and beat anyone who played me on the bumper pool table. LOL! Those were the days. It was such a rewarding trip and I always come back revitalized and more hopeful about mankind. My friends are the salt of the earth and I'm so proud to be from a small town. I can't wait to go back next year to celebrate our 50th class reunion! I'm already planning my wardrobe.
Talented, charming and a great sport–author Christina Clancy, holding her latest book "Shoulder Season" set in and near the Lake Geneva Playboy Club.
The 36th annual Printers Row Lit Fest, presented by the Near South Planning Board, returned Sept. 11-12 to the South Loop. Headlining the festival was National Book
Panel discussion with author Christina Clancy (R) and moderator/author Christine Sneed.
Award winner Ta-Nehisi Coates ("The Water Dancer," Between the World and Me", "The Beautiful Struggle") but my favorite was the charming author of "Shoulder Season", Christina Clancy. Her latest book is one of the first books of fiction to feature the world of Playboy, in particular, the life of a small town girl (Sherri Taylor) who became a Bunny at the Lake Geneva Playboy Club. Christina invited me to discuss my experiences and compare them to the title character during a panel discussion on the Main Stage. There was an inquisitive audience who asked intriguing questions–it was a
Christina Clancy with her proud agent.
joyous walk down memory lane and, thankfully, Christina had portrayed Hefner and the organization in a wonderful light, as it should be. Surprisingly, after I read the book, I thought Christina had captured my own story almost down to the names of my hometown friends. It was a bit eerie but I was very flattered and devoured the book. It was named a Best Book of Summer by Good Morning America, CNN, Parade, Travel & Leisure and others. (Order it here, you will thank me later!)
Neal Zucker and partner Marko Iglendza celebrated double birthdays with a grand Gatsby-esque bash at the Peninsula. (Photo by Linda Alpert)
Neal Zucker and his partner Marko Iglendza hosted a double birthday celebration at the Peninsula on September 17. Neal was celebrating his 55th and Marko his 50th with nearly 300 of their closest friends. The
Darling bookends–Eric Kicherer and Paul Iacono with ZZAZZ Productions' model.
blow-out affair had everything, exotic showgirls (from ZZAZZ Productions) dressed in "Shanghai chic" attire, guests dressed to impress, cocktails flowing in every area of the Peninsula, music and then, of course, the rain. What had been forecast for a week was clear skies but what
Dramatic event decor by VH Designs (Vince Hart)
actually transpired was a completely different story. On the patio, beautiful decor by VH Designs (Vince Hart) was drenched but the crack team at the Pen, led by Maria Zec with support from Greg Hyder, magically and quickly transformed what could've become a mess into an evening no one will soon forget! The tables were
Birthday fun at the Pen!
repositioned in the hotel's lobby, which was the first time this had been done. And even though guests were a bit discombobulated for a while, party
After-party in the ballroom.
faces returned and dancing continued into the wee hours in the ballroom. No one wanted to leave. Kudos to the Pen for pulling off this difficult feat with such aplomb and, of course, to the generous birthday boys. It was a night like none other and just what we all needed. Thanks Neal and Marko!
Arabel Alva Rosales, founder of Runway LatinX and Pivoting in Heels, welcomes the SRO crowd.
The Runway LatinX We Flourish fashion show on October 16 was SRO at Cine City Studios. The space was perfect for this spectacular fashion show that featured sizzling looks from
One of the many beautiful designs in the show, this one by Adolfo Sanchez.
designers Delvin McCray, Andrea Salazar, Adolfo Sanchez and Fernanda Flores. The 3-day long series of events was hosted by Arabel Alva Rosales, the founder of the event's nonprofit beneficiary Pivoting in Heels, which strives to empower women in a variety of ways by hosting panel discussions, tutorials, events like this one, and more. I was proud to co-emcee alongside Univision's David Miranda, who charmed the crowd at every turn! The event was also live-streamed to Mexico and Columbia as well as several states in the U.S. DJ Raddick played throughout the evening. Special thanks to Arabel for all she does to promote women and her community. (For details on Pivoting in Heels, click here!)
The dynamic Women's Leadership Committee of the Illinois Holocaust Museum.
It was such an honor for me to return to host the Illinois Holocaust Museum's SOIREE event at the Botanic Garden. The event, hosted by the Women's
The beautiful setting at the Chicago Botanic Garden.
Leadership Committee, was held "under the stars" in a tent near a beautiful lake to help fund the museum's important programming. SOIREE, co-hosted by WB members Juliet Gray and Caroline Pfeffer, featured a video presentation hosted
Fritzie Fritzshall honored in a video tribute.
by Melissa Forman of a virtual tour of the Museum and a video tribute to the late Fritzie Fritzshall, who was integral to the Museum's success. A lavish buffet, dancing, a signature donut wall, and raffle prizes followed. The Museum's next exhibition, "Rise Up: Stonewall and the LGBTQ Right Movement," will open October 17 and will explore the June 1969 police raid of the Stonewall Inn that ignited the modern gay rights movement in the U.S. (Click here for all the info!)
This n' That: Congrats to Bethany Florek and her love, Andrew Kitick, who recently became engaged! Sugar & Spice (Almira Yllana and Giovanna Krozel) recently
Giovanna and Ken Krozel and Almira Yllana (Sugar & Spice) hosted a watch party for the Adler Planetarium's Celestial Ball at LondonHouse.
hosted a bash at LondonHouse Chicago to celebrate Adler Planetarium's virtual Celestial Ball. They always bring it! Their enthusiasm makes every party they attend so much better! And more kudos are in order for PAWS Chicago, which recently hosted a grand re-opening celebration for its state-of-the-art medical center at 3516 W. 26th St.
I'm thrilled to report the event scene is still heading in the right direction! Here's a few of note and some events/experiences you might be interested in!
Navy Pier will be full of fun and fright each Saturday through Oct. 30, during Slightly Spooky Saturdays, a series of themed immersive pop-up events for families in the Fifth Third Bank Family Pavilion. Each Saturday will feature interactive performances from costumed actors, acrobatic feats courtesy of the Actors Gymnasium, free Axe Throwing for guests from Axeplosion, a professional photographer with custom backgrounds and Professional VFX Make-Up Demonstrations from Faces in Focus. In addition, each themed Saturday will have their own special one-time only activities. (Details here!)
And more big news from the People's Pier with "Light Up the Lake"–Navy Pier will brighten the winter season with Light Up the Lake, an indoor, temperature-controlled experience, featuring large-scale light-sculpture displays comprising more than 600,000 twinkling lights; a regulation-size Alpine ice rink, authentic holiday beer garden, kiddie train rides, Santa’s Village and gift market and other family-friendly events. Offering something for everyone, Light Up the Lake will run from Nov. 26 through Jan. 2, in Festival Hall at Navy Pier. Special themed events, including date nights, are also planned. Transforming more than 100,000 square feet of Navy Pier’s expansive Festival Hall, Light Up the Lake will also offer sit-down dining with holiday-themed eats, signature cocktails, and seasonal brews. Grab-and-go meals and snacks will be available throughout the event space. (All the exciting deets here!)
Dr. Sandy Goldberg and her Greg Hines hosted another successful gala for A Silver Lining Foundation.
A Silver Lining Foundation’s 17th Annual A Sterling Event took place on Saturday, October 2 at the Hyatt Regency McCormick Place. Over 200 people were in attendance celebrating being together again and in full
Philanthropists/ restaurateurs, Al and Pam Capitinini served as dinner co-chairs.
compliance with all COVID related guidelines and mandates. There were lively bidding wars for both the silent and live auctions – resulting in significant fundraising efforts to cover the costs of programs and services for A Silver Lining Foundation. Dr. Sandy Goldberg and Greg Hines, A Silver Lining Foundation Co-Founders, are pleased to announce that plans are underway for the 18th Annual A Sterling Event scheduled to take place on October 8, 2022. The event promises to be fun and exciting as A Silver Lining Foundation prepares to celebrate the 20th anniversary of its founding!
The Joffrey Ballet's triumphant return to the stage.
The Joffrey Ballet's opening night, October 13, was a triumph, both in performance and its new venue at the Lyric Opera House. "Home: A Celebration" is an appropriate name for this night that brought together old and new Joffrey friends. The Lyric's renovations had everyone smiling and the dancers onstage received too many standing ovations to count. Now through Oct. 24! (Details here)
Arts in the Dark, a family-friendly annual event on October 30, will celebrate the artistic side of Halloween along State Street. This enchanted nighttime parade features large-scale puppets,
Arts in the Dark, an enchanted nighttime parade coming to State St. October 30.
costumed performers, elaborate floats, luminous lanterns, music and more. The city’s creative community, including cultural institutions like the Art Institute of Chicago and Lookingglass Theatre Company, will combine forces to create this surreal evening in downtown Chicago. The parade is not only a salute to Chicago’s cultural community, it has become a showcase for the creativity and diversity of Chicago’s neighborhoods. This must-see event is the only parade that features performers from every one of Chicago's 50 Wards! Family-friendly and free and open to the public.
Jack's Pumpkin Pop-Up going on now in Goose Island.
through Oct. 31 for an unforgettable 2-acre, 100% outdoor fall experience with Chicago’s largest corn maze, a hidden boozy bar, axe throwing, carnival games, music, fortune telling, pumpkin patch, three full-service bars, food trucks, one-of a-kind Instagram photo opps and MORE!
The Northalsted Halloween Parade, ranked one of the 10 Best Halloween Celebrations in the U.S. by Fodor’s Travel, will be held in the heart of the Northalsted
Northalsted Halloween Parade coming Oct. 31.
(also known as Boystown) neighborhood. The procession kicks off on Sunday, Oct. 31 at 7:00 p.m. on Halsted at Belmont with the Chicago Thriller flash mob, a troupe of ghoulish zombies performing and so much more! Join in the dancing or follow the parade route north, where a panel of drag queens will award prizes for the best costumes.
Streeterville Doggie Halloween Party, will be held in the MCA's garden on October 31. Alderman Brian Hopkins and Maureen Schulman will begin judging doggie costumes beginning at 9:15 am. with treats from Eli's Cheesecake and coffee. Free to the public.
A rendering of the Museum of Ice Cream coming to Chicago in the summer.
Museum of Ice Cream–Museum of Ice Cream (MOIC) is bringing its experiential museum to Chicago this coming summer 2022. Located at The Shops at Tribune Tower, 435 N Michigan, the one-of-its-kind space will span 13,544 square feet and encompass retail, entertainment, and a cafe and bar. The whimsical installations, imaginative tours, themed retail and more are designed under the premise that ice cream is a symbol of joy, a universal connector and a transportive vehicle for anyone’s imagination.
Howard Brown will host its 6th annual Big Orange Ball (virtually) on Saturday, October 23 from 8-9 pm and then for one week only On Demand through Sunday, October 31, at midnight. Kick off the 2021 Halloween season from the comfort of your couch or coffin, as this party-turned-premiere has you venture into a fright-filled night with ghostly treats, a dead-silent auction, and other spooky surprises! Prepare for a scare with spine-chilling stories that are sure to DRAG you straight to hell! The spooktacular show will be hosted by Lucy Stoole and featureghost stories told by Wanda Screw, Coco Sho-Nell, Tenderoni, and Irregular Girl. Your tickets and donations will benefit Howard Brown Health, making healthcare less scary for LGBTQ community. (Details here)
HCRF's Wings to Cure Gala coming Nov. 6.
Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation will host its "Wings to Cure" gala on Saturday, November 6, at the Hilton Chicago. Established in 2015, HCRF's mission is to discover, develop and implement effective new cancer therapies by supporting groundbreaking research. (Gala details here)
The Apparel Industry Foundation will host REV UP!, a fashion show fundraiser on Thursday, October 21, to support our local design community. Models will strut
AIBI presents Rev UP! 2021, Oct. 21.
their stuff in virtual segments showcasing local designers' looks for fall. A VIP viewing party of the fashion video will be held at Bentley Gold Coast. The AIBI nurtures and supports the sewn products industry, including designers, through programming that includes all facets of the industry–merchandising, retail, sales, marketing, etc. (I'm emcee) Details here!
PAWS Chicago will host its annual Fur Ball on Friday, November 12 at the Drake Hotel. This year will celebrate the nonprofit's 20th anniversary. So, if you love seeing dogs in tuxes and supporting animal welfare, this event is for you! (Details here!)
Service Club Gala coming Nov.5 with celeb emcee John O'Hurley.
up to be a sellout so be sure to get your tickets NOW! The black-tie event,"Our Kind of Town Chicago…And All That Jazz", will be held on Friday, November 5, with actor John O'Hurley (Seinfeld's J. Peterman), as the event emcee. The event will be held at the Four Seasons to benefit the nonprofit's Philanthropic Grant Program. Co-chaired by Melinda Jakovich-LaGrange, Heather Spyra and Lyn McKeaney. Music will be provided by the Gold Coast All Stars. (Raffle, silent and live auctions) (Details here)
The Chicago Police Foundation's True Blue event will honor John Robak on Nov. 6.
Sat., Nov. 6. The nonprofit will honor beloved philanthropist John Robak, at the Four Seasons. Proceeds will support and fund programs that provide supplemental resources in the areas of safety equipment, advanced technology, enhanced training and officer wellness for the Chicago Police Dept. Details here!
Fox-32's Sylvia Perez.
Special thanks to Sylvia Perez for having me back on her fabulous Fox-32 Chicago show! We always have fun and had so much to discuss! (See video below) Thanks also to Anna Davlantes for having me back to chat on her cool WGN-Radio show, always a great time with both of these iconic media personalities!
Welcome back CHICAGO! Thanks for reading and supporting, I hope you're having a great fall! We have been having a wonderful time, especially now that we have a recurring visitor, a female Cardinal, who comes when I call! Ahhh, the thrill of nature!
Plus: Tasting Stars with A Silver Lining; Misericordia's 60th Family Association Benefit raises BIG bucks; Dressing Barbie; Lake Forest Showhouse & Gardens; Doorstep Divas bring the party to YOU!; A look back and forward at Service Club's Day on the Terrace fashion show; RefuSHE's Fashion Challenge 2020; Chicago House helps "Raise Your Voices"; Carpool Concerts' exciting outdoor schedule; IG LIVE with Tracey!; Virtual Chefs Night; American Heart Association's Heart Ball; Lana's Largesse; NOBU Hotel Chicago opens in West Loop; The very latest in Mask-Wear by Elda; Dance for Life 2020; Life, Laughter, Happiness with Playmate Barbara Moore; THIS & THAT; Fun videos and so much MORE!
"These are the times that try men's souls." Amen to that Thomas Paine. This crisis and moment in time will be life-changing for many. In a recent (Monmouth University) poll, 61% of people say they will be making permanent changes moving forward. I don't know what
Designer Virgil Abloh.
this new normal will look like and it's unnerving for a control freak like me. I don't know how comfortable people will be in larger crowds so where will that leave nonprofits and their critical fundraisers? Virgil Abloh, Off-White founder and Louis Vuitton men's artistic director, spoke about the pandemic and our changing world from a fashion point of view. "I'm inspired that fashion can mean something different out of the end of this. It doesn't feel like it did a year ago. Today it seems useless, in a way: a
Michelle Alegria (Fox 32) relaxes with yoga.
new handbag, a pair of shoes. Getting groceries seems more important than buying a new garment that I already have 30 of in a closet," he said. I tend to
Dairyland in Dupo, Illinois.
agree. Buying more stuff won't be the answer for me either. Lots of my friends are focusing more on wellness with meditation (hello Michelle Alegria!) and yoga. The quarantine cooking group seems to be going strong with some fabulous dishes and recipes being shared there (Paul Iacono, Greg Hyder, Beth Heller, Mark Olley and Thomas O'Gorman being standouts). With the future of the newspaper industry in question, I'm focusing more on survival. Who knows what's going to happen
Small towns look pretty appealing now. (Waterloo, Illinois)
A train runs through it. (Dupo, Illinois)
there? I'm so blessed to have this blog where I can still shine a spotlight on all the good things happening around town. Other friends are planning their exit strategies although I'm not sure where someone can hide from all of this. I think hunkering down with the survival mentality of a pioneer might be the way to go. I'm over hoarding food and supplies but sort of wish I had an underground bunker ready and waiting. I find myself needing to connect more with my good friends. Part of this is missing my normal socializing but another part is
Flat Creek Baptist Church in E. Carondelet, Illinois.
just needing to be around the ones I love. All of this uncertainty and chaos makes me yearn for the normalcy of the old days back in my small
How 'bout cocktails and a pizza with this view? (Sunset Overlook in Columbia, Illinois)
hometown of Dupo, Illinois. At the time, I felt so stifled and bored–I couldn't wait to get out and explore the world. Now, I wish I could go back home and relive it all again–helping Mary and Jim Johnson in their huge garden (that they shared with their small community); ordering snow cones from Dairyland and dancing to the songs on the jukebox; dancing
Ordering a milk shake and "death burger" at Dairyland during a No Class Reunion.
at Teen Town with my high school girlfriends in skintight jeans; enjoying the seedy drive-in in Cahokia; getting excited about shopping with my Mom at J.C. Penney's in South County; the smell of Toni York's mom's beauty shop where my Mom and all her friends went; weekends at my Dad's house in E. St. Louis where my stepmother Blanche tried to teach me to cook; buying peaches, tomatoes and corn at Eckert's farm stand in Columbia; going to church at Flat Creek Baptist Church and experiencing such joy; buying snuff for Mama Mary Johnson at the little confectionery on the corner in East Carondelet; driving to the levy to see how high the flood waters were from the Mississippi River; the fabulous donuts at the Phillip's 66 station in
Mary Johnson (and Spotty) in her and her husband Jim's beautiful garden in E. Carondelet.
town; dinner at Greenfield's in Columbia with the family; high school picnics with Mary's fried chicken in the Chain O' Lakes park; Dad and Jim both trying to teach me how to live in the world; Mom trying to get me to not worry so much…..All of these memories that are the foundation of our lives are what's important to me now. That's what I'm going to try to focus on….Hope you have something similar to help you put everything in perspective.
Sister Rosemary Connelly, the heart of the "Heart of Mercy".
Congrats to Misericordia Heart of Mercy on its first virtual fundraiser held on Saturday, June 20 that raised a whopping $1,405,000! This year marked the 60th Misericordia Family Association Benefit which still turned out to be very clever, heartwarming and fulfilling in terms of dollars raised, albeit virtually. The event had been planned and coordinated by Jim Capraro with support from the benefit committee and staff in less than 90 days! The 90 minute event, with lots of cool moving parts, opened with longtime supporter Lou Manfredini (WGN-TV home repair expert) welcoming guests. The "virtual cocktail session" from 6-7 pm, featured pianists Charlie Carpenter and Holly Jennings (co-chair) and
Misericordia's Lois Gates with auctioneer Greg "G-Man" Dellinger.
guitarist Jim Splithoff, who performed as silent auction items scrolled across the screen. The program portion of the event opened cleverly with the Star Wars theme followed by a video flyover of the U.S. Navy Blue Angels in a salute to Misericordia's essential workers. Father Jack Clair offered a blessing before
Co-chair Holly Jennings with her son, a resident at Misericordia.
a musical salute to Sister Rosemary Connelly (Misericordia's fabulous and much loved executive director for over 50 years) was performed in the Highland Cathedral with the Shannon Rovers and organist Charlie Carpenter. (All appropriately socially distanced). Supporters appearing
Caroline Kennedy congratulated the nonprofit via video.
in the video included Caroline Kennedy, Mike Ditka, JoeMaddon, Mayor Lori Lightfoot, co-chairs Holly Jennings and Beth Merlo (with their families), Laurie and Bill McCarthy (MFA chairs), New York Giants Saquon Barkley and Grant Haley and more. Lois Gates (assistant executive director in charge of development) and Mary Pat O'Brien (director and CFO) joined auctioneer Greg
NY Giants' Saquon Barkley and Grant Haley.
"G-Man" Dellinger during the fundraising portion of the event. Sister Rosemary said, "Tonight is a celebration of our loving devotion to all our children and adults who call Misericordia home. We have the best family organization in the country. The reason Misericordia is the beautiful home it is today is because we are a community of dreamers. We believe that, not only do our residents have a right to life, but to one worth living. And, although our residents can't create a good life for themselves, once it is theirs, they
Residents from Misericordia's Walsh Slattery Home help with a raffle.
become the gift-givers. Our residents are being cared for tenderly and lovingly and every day our staff creatively challenges them to remain engaged in personal growth, each to the best of their abilities." To date, Misericordia cares for over 600 children and adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities with a staff of 1,000+ across a 31-acre campus, with a new drive-by Misericordia Hearts & Flour Bakery being planned now.
A Silver Lining founder Dr. Sandy Goldberg and Greg Hines.
I'm a big fan of Dr. Sandy Goldberg and her wonderful A Silver Lining Foundation that provides breast health support for those in need. So, when I heard that the 18th annual Tasting Stars event, which supports ASLF, was going to be virtual, I was at my computer and ready on Saturday, June 13 at 7pm. Paul Lisnek (of WGN-TV) emceed this virtual champagne event that would normally have been held at the DIRTT Environmental Solutions space (325 N. Wells) with magnificent views of the Loop and river. I'm always curious to see how the various nonprofits are able to pivot to virtual for the first time and this one, despite a few technical difficulties, went off without a hitch and was very informative and entertaining. Viewers tuned into YouTube Live for the hour long event
Virtual event host Paul Lisnek.
that opened with jazz pianist Anthony Pocetti (who performed beautiful standards intermittently throughout the presentation). Viewers were able to purchase "French Food Boxes" from the Entertaining Company (a longtime supporter) before the event in keeping
Adiat Baker and Iya Bakare, longtime supporters.
with the event's French theme. Lisnek introduced a video explaining ASLF's impact, how it came to be and the important work it's doing in the community. The video opened with one of the most dynamic singers I know, Opal Staples (of the famed Staples gospel family). Her singing always brings me to tears and this time was no exception. Her rendition of "Rise Up" is mind blowing (see video here). WGN-TV's
Sir Charles Stanfield.
Micah Materre was also a contributor and spoke about the people the organization serves. Dr. Sandy spoke passionately about her nonprofit that was born in 2002 after she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She recalled having access to "everything that she needed during that journey." And when she realized others weren't as fortunate, she and her husband, Greg Hines, co-founded the org at their kitchen table with one donation. The programs have grown over the last 17 years to include five programs 1) The Chicagoland Cancer Information Coalition (which
Save the Date! A Sterling Event on Oct. 3
provides research and outreach), 2) Buy A Mom A Mammogram (ASLF now funds all breast health testing, screenings through biopsies for under-insured, un-insured and undocumented women and men). 3) The Evelyn Goldberg Mammography Center (renamed at UI Health in honor of Sandy's late mother) 4) Keep aBreast (a program designed specifically for young people) and 5) Survive to Thrive (a support program for those already diagnosed). Dr. Sandy said, "The women and men we deal with at A Silver Lining Foundation feel like they don't matter. They feel like nobody cares and that they're alone in the world. This is NOT the premise on which this foundation is based. We turn NO ONE away! We need you to RISE UP and help us make sure no one goes unrecognized. We feel everyone deserves a chance to survive." Tasting Stars co-founder (with wife Ann) Brent Carstensen spoke about the nonprofit's champagne partnership with master sommelier, Sir Charles Stanfield. Traditionally, at past events, Sir Charles would "saber" a cork off a bottle of champagne to start the event so, this year, a video was shown of him doing it virtually so the tradition could remain intact. Tasting Stars has raised and distributed
Dr. Sandy Goldberg.
over $600,000 to the cause since its founding 18 years ago. The event closed with Dr. Sandy awarding the annual Evelyn Goldberg Memorial Award to the "Tasting Stars
Ben Carstensen, co-founder Tasting Stars.
Family." In 2019, ASLF stats showed: 15 partner hospitals; 1,487 women served; 227 zip codes served; 1,965 tests funded with 18 diagnoses discovered. ASLF's signature fundraiser, A Sterling Event, will be held on Saturday, October 3. The virtual event closed with a champagne toast and the announcement that the event has raised over $60,000! (And, as Dr. Sandy added, "with no charging for tickets and no silent and live auctions!")
RefuSHE Fashion Challenge winning designer Concetta Cipriano (lower left) with her design worn by model Eleanor Simon.
RefuSHEhosted its first virtual Fashion Challenge on June 19, in celebration of World Refugee Day, with seven talented, emerging designers: Amy Fenderson, Concetta Cipriano, Fraley Le, Lagi Nadeau, Kate VanAsten, Taylor Graves and Xochil Herrera Scheer. The concept this year consisted of a virtual fashion show inspired by Project Runway with designers showing their looks using fabrics and materials sourced from RefuSHE's Artisan Collective, a program that fosters leadership and business skills through the production of hand-dyed fabrics and scarves that are created by girls and women in the organization. The nonprofit was co-founded by Anne Sweeney and Talyn Good in East Africa to protect and support separated and orphaned girls and young women who often fell through the gaps of protection,
Colorful and stunning design by Fraley Le.
becoming invisible and vulnerable. They are the first and only organization dedicated to refugee girls in Kenya. The virtual event included remarks from Tamasha Rimba, Associate Director of Case management and Safe House in Kenya. She spoke about the wide range of services the org provides to every girl who comes into the organization with the priority being the provision of basic needs–access to food, clothing, water, shelter and medication. She said, "Most of our girls are survivors of war and sexual-based gender based violence and also young mothers." Tamasha shared the story of a young 15-year-old
Chantale Zuzi shared her moving story of survival.
girl who had been raped and was "heavily pregnant and
Design by Amy Fenderson.
malnourished." She flourished under RefuSHE nurturing and programming. Geoffrey Thige, executive director, took viewers on a virtual journey to Kenya where they saw the campus through the eyes of the women there. He said, "There are more than 18 million displaced people in Sub Saharan West Africa and over half are under the age of 18." Before the runway show, final (powerful)
Design by Xochil Herrera Scheer.
comments were delivered by RefuSHE alumna Chantale Zuzi who told a harrowing story of how she survived as an albino woman in the Democratic Republic of Congo. Her mother was encouraged to abort her but she refused. Chantale said albino children were used for sacrificial purposes there and not figured viable in this society. She's now living and thriving in the U.S. while getting an education that she hopes to use to help her people. Judges for the runway show included Cheryle Jackson (CEO of Grit + Grace), Kahindo Mateene (founder/designer of KAHINDO), Monica Singh
Beautiful headpiece by Fraley Le.
(designer and UN Women Youth Ambassador) and Travis Paul Martin (executive director of PR at Skoog). The Fashion Challenge event celebrated the power of philanthropy and fashion's ability to tell a story through art and the stories were colorful, joyful, hopeful and amazing. Each designer was paired with a RefuSHE participant who served as their muses. Viewers voted for their favorite designers donating $20 per vote with designer Concetta Cipriano taking away the win for this year's Challenge with glam model Eleanor Simon. The event raised $124,037 with 100% of proceeds going towards RefuSHE's transformational model of care for young refugee women, girls, and their children in East Africa and around the world. To learn more abut this remarkable nonprofit, click here and see all of the beautiful designs in photo below.
(To see the fashion show, check out the video below, the show starts at 23:06)
The late Bunky Cushing and Hazel Barr at DOT in 2010.
With all of my nonprofit fundraisers temporarily suspended, I decided to take a look back at some of the more popular events. One of my favorites is the Service Club of Chicago's "Day on the Terrace" fashion show. It's typically hosted the first Monday in
Kristina McGrath, Heather Farley and Nina Mariano at DOT 2010.
August at the Peninsula. It's such an exciting show because so many of our local men and women (and members) participate–it's sort of like a social family reunion. This year, the event will be virtual on the same date, Monday, August 3 (11 am to 12:30 pm). Join the watch party and enjoy a fabulous production created by co-chairs Jean Antoniou, Tracey Tarantino DiBuono, Sharyl Mackey and Jamie Thorsen in collaboration with BlackOak Technical Productions! The ticket price, $100, will include a Look Book that will be mailed out prior to the show (buy a page and advertise your
Sheryl Schmidt, Susanna Homan, Sherill Bodine and Mary Lasky at DOT 2010.
business, salute your friends, etc.) (Fab illustration by Elda De la Rosa) (DOT info here! ) It won't be like being in the same room with friends but it's great that they're soldiering on, as the SC has done for the last 130 years! The SC is unique because of the fact that 100% of the funds raised goes directly to charity. This year, its Philanthropic Grant Program awarded over $440,000 to 38 nonprofits. The organization
Anne Wallace and Jean Antoniou at DOT 2010.
does not give the grantees a check. Instead, they assist, improve and enlarge upon agency programs. The Albany Park Community Center requested (and received) a used van. The Apparel Industry Foundation received laptops and lockers and The Council for Jewish Elderly received security cameras. The grants are awarded across a variety of deserving nonprofits and helps recipients expand facilities, improve equipment and initiate new programs which
DOT goes virtual in 2020 (Illustration by Elda de la Rosa).
will better serve a large number of people in need. I served on the Philanthropic Committee one year and it was life changing. To see the needs that are so great and to know that you've helped somehow in a small or large way is rewarding beyond comprehension. I applaud all the members of this remarkable organization and can't wait till we can all be together again, celebrating another successful event. In the meantime, I hope you enjoy these photos from past events. Also, mark your calendars for another SC event, "A Very Patriotic Zoom Cocktail Party" on Thursday, July 2 in collaboration with Steak 48! Tickets are $30 and can be purchased by calling 312.220.9600.
The Pullman Estate is set to open as The Lake Forest Showhouse & Gardenson Saturday, July 11, through Sunday, August 9. The 23-room, 11,000-square-foot, turn-of-the-century east Lake Forest estate has been transformed by over 30 interior and landscape designers. Many of the items at the Showhouse & Gardens will be for sale too! A price list
Pullman Estate in Lake Forest.
of items for sale from furnishings to accessories will be made available in each designer space with 15% of the sale benefiting Infant Welfare Society of Chicago. Following State safety guidelines, a restricted number of tickets will be sold per day,
William Allan Pinkerton Pullman (holding shovel).
divided by morning and afternoon sessions, Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m., Saturday and Sundays from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Tickets for $40 must be purchased in advance here. The home benefits the Angel Harvey Family Health Center of the Infant Welfare Society of Chicago, which is celebrating more than 108 years of providing healthcare to Chicago's medically under-served. The colonial-style home was originally designed by Frost & Granger in 1906 and
Showhouse honorary chair Paloma Contreras.
completely renovated by architect Stanley Anderson in the late 1920s for investment banker William Allan Pinkerton Pullman (1901-1988), the grand-nephew of George M. Pullman, the developer and manufacturer of Pullman cars. An avid gardener and co-founder of the Chicago Botanic Garden, William A.P. Pullman worked with New York landscape architect Annette Hoyt in 1937 to create world class gardens on the property. Some of the original plantings still exist – from a Ginkgo tree of epic proportion to rare Chinese maples and Japanese lilacs, as well as the original boxwood hedges – the same ones that inspired others to plant "Pullman boxwood" in formal gardens. Hope to see you there!
Doorstep Divas Molly Callinan and Caitlin Simone Buffa.
Talk about a cool pivot! Congrats to the newly created Doorstep Divas Chicago and its stars Molly Callinan and Caitlin Simone Buffa, for turning lemons into lemonade! With their amazing voices and effervescent personalities these two renowned singers (Molly is a
Molly singing with Gary Sinise and his Lt. Dan Band.
lead singer in Gary Sinise's Lt. Dan Band playing at military bases for the troops as well as fronting the Chicago-based all girl cover band Catfight and Caitlin is a band leader and vocalist at Ken Arlen Music Productions) have figured out a way to survive the lack
Darling Doorstep Divas Caitlin Simone Buffa and Molly Callinan.
of gigs due to the pandemic by forming their very own, social-distancing entertainment venture. The ladies will perform their hearts out at your home for any occasion. Their repertoire is two pages of single-spaced songs that include ballads (Norah Jones "Come Away With Me," etc.); Elvis; Beatles; Prince; disco (Donna Summer's "Bad Girls," etc.); Motown/R&B (Chaka Khan's "Ain't Nobody", etc.); Contemporary Rock, Swing/Standards and SO MUCH MORE! These ladies do it ALL! So, if you want to spice up a night on your lawn, check out their website here and book 'em! And see them in action here!
Chicago House & Social Services replaced its scheduled virtual Pride Variety Show with an event titled Raise Your Voice in honor of Black Lives Matter. The one hour virtual experience was designed to affirm Black lives through the power of storytelling, spoken word and song. The event was
Chicago House trustee Kelly Saulsberry.
co-hosted in collaboration with Chicago House, AffinityCommunity Services, Brave Space Alliance and the Youth Empowerment Performance Project. Hosted by Chicago House trustee Kelly Saulsberry, the event featured appearances by Barbara McBee, Jakari Earl, Zola Makeda, the Honorable Angelina Nordstrom, Osiris Khepera, Cruel Valentine and Shane Calvin. Lucy Stoole, award-winning drag queen and advocate for gender non-conforming people, served as the
Artist Zola Makeda.
event's emcee. Lucy said, "Black voices need to be heard, black people need to be seen and our talents need to be celebrated
Emcee Lucy Stoole.
across the world, here on the eve of Juneteenth." Poet Zola Makeda delivered a powerful poem titled "Good Hope", about the disappointment, hope and hardships she's faced growing up as transgender and Black. To learn more about Chicago House & Social Services, click here. Founded in 1985, Chicago House is a social service organization that supports individuals impacted by HIV/AIDS and the broader LGBTQ+ community with housing, health, and employment support.
Special thanks to photographer Tim Klein for including me in his recent project, the "pandemic portfolio." He plans on photographing Chicago "notables during this unprecedented time in history." I've been lucky to have worked with him in the past for a campaign for Burberry. I can't wait to share his photos! Check out his website here!
Lake County Fairgrounds and Carpool Concerts have teamed up to make your summer extra special! Imagine a grandstand stage, stellar acoustics, big name local cover bands and cars of every make and model and you'll have a very cool live music concert you'll never forget, the summer drive-in Carpool Concert Tour 2020 (in Grayslake, Illinois). Fans can enjoy live music while staying safe and socially distant in their cars. The line-up includes Sixteen Candles Band, Boys Band Review, Trippin' Billies, Infinity, American English, Southern Accents and more! The 75 minute shows are at 4 pm and 7 pm daily from Thursday, June 25 through Sunday, June 28! Check out all the details here!
Boy, the kid in me is so excited for this virtual fundraiser hosted by the Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum! "Dressing Barbie" will feature a Zoom presentation by Carol Spencer, the fashion designer who "dressed Barbie" at Mattel from 1963 until 1998! This virtual event will also include a super fun "Barbie Box" that will feature a signed and personalized "Dressing Barbie" book; the exclusive Zoom link; a Barbie collector card; a mini Barbie Dream House–all the accoutrements you will need to have a fun Barbie-themed Zoom presentation on the history of Barbie's fashion (includes adult and kid friendly contents)!–FOR $100! The event will take place on Saturday, Aug. 15 at 11 am (CST)! To RSVP, please click here!
Special thanks to Tracey Tarantino DiBuono for including me in her/our first INSTA LIVE! I think we nailed it! She hosted on her @ZZAZZProductions page and I guested. We had a blast talking about anything and everything–how nonprofits are faring, makeup and fashion tips, my Playboy years and so much more! We've had many requests for a do-over so watch out world, we might be BAAACCKKK!!! Lol! (Follow Tracey on Insta at @ZZAZZProductions and me (please) @CandidCandace!) And watch our segment here!
Nobu Hospitality, the globally established lifestyle brand founded by Chef Nobu Matsuhisa, Robert De Niro and Meir Tepe, announces the preview and opening of Nobu Hotel Chicago in the West Loop (155 N. Peoria) on July 1st. Spanning 12,000 sq. ft., Nobu Hotel Chicago will feature 115 rooms, two private dining rooms, 3,000 sq. ft. of flexible event space – including The Rooftop at Nobu Hotel Chicago and first class amenities. Guests can expect the company’s signature aesthetic – Japanese influence with an ultra-modern design to create a zen oasis in the heart of the city. Trevor Horwell, CEO of Nobu Hospitality commented, "We are so pleased to be introducing our first Nobu Hotel in the Midwest US. Chicago is a world-class mecca of dining and entertainment and we are very proud to provide a new and exciting destination for the local community and visitors." Now accepting reservations here: Nobu Hotel Chicago. (The phase two opening will occur at a later date which will mark the opening of Nobu restaurant and bar with patio dining.)
On Monday, June 29, join the Center for Enriched Living for its "Virtual Chefs' Night" from 7 to 8 pm! The Center is a nonprofit dedicated to supporting people with developmental disabilities. An exciting raffle (1/$100 or 3/$275) is featuring a 2020 Lexus UX25OH and only 1,299 tickets will be sold! The event is FREE to view but a suggested donation of $90 is encouraged. For all the details, click here!
The American Heart Association will host a virtual Heart Ball on Thursday, June 25 from 7-8 pm. The event will be emceed by Windy City Live's Val Warner and chaired by Linda Imonti. The 2020 Heart of Gold Award recipient will be Pat Magoon, retiring CEO of Ann and Robert H. Lurie Children's Hospital of Chicago. The auction (that goes online June 23) and donation portion of the evening will be expertly handled by Greg "G-Man" Dellinger. To register, click here!
Kudos to Lana Bramlette, fashionable founder of Lana Jewelry, who turned her Columbia education and passion for fine jewelry into a powerhouse brand. Eighteen years ago, she brought gold back into the spotlight by creating
Jewelry designer/philanthropist Lana Bramlette wearing her own designs.
her signature gold hoops worn by A-listers including Michelle Obama, Jennifer Lopez, Beyoncé, Madonna and Rihanna. Fast forward to today, Lana gives back to the institution that helped shape her career. In the early 2000s, she founded the Chicago Fashion Foundation with her husband Rob. The two then enlisted other Chicago-based powerhouse women and men in the fashion industry to be a part of this amazing organization. Through Bramlette’s efforts with the CFF, Columbia recently received a gift of more than $540,000 to propel future generations of designers and entrepreneurs in fashion! This gift will provide Columbia Fashion Studies students with scholarship funds and access to learning opportunities that otherwise would have been out of reach. Thank you Lana for your big, chic heart!
Dance for Life 2019 finale choreographed by Randy Duncan. (Photo by Todd Rosenberg).
Dance for Life 2020 is going virtual! Join them online from Aug. 10-14 and see works archived from past Dance for Life performances during the past 29 years! Pieces from the annual partner dance companies will be presented by Giordano Dance Chicago, Hubbard Street Dance Chicago, The Joffrey Ballet, Hanna Brictson and Dancers, Chicago Dance Crash, Ensemble Espanol Spanish Dance Theater, Joseph Holmes School of Dance, Luna Negra Dance Theater, Muntu Dance Theatre of Chicago, River North Dance Chicago, Thodos Dance Chicago, Visceral Dance Chicago, and a collaborative
Hubbard Street Dance, Dance for Life 2019. (Photo by Todd Rosenberg).
work by Chicago Human Rhythm Project, Ensemble Espanol Spanish Dance Theater and Trinity Irish Dance Company. Then, on August 15, celebrate with a world premiere! This culminating event, commemorating the originally-planned date for the 29th anniversary of Dance for Life at the Auditorium Theatre, will feature a world premiere choreographed by Hanna Brictson in response to COVID-19 with dancers from throughout the Chicago area. This year's virtual event will benefit The Dancers' Fund, AIDS Foundation Chicago and Chicago Dancers United. (Details here!)
Special thanks to my Playmate sister Barbara Moore (Miss December 1992) who interviewed me for her wonderful
Barbara Moore starring in "Bay Watch."
podcast, Life, Laughter & Happiness." We went wayyyy back with our many memories of Hef, Playboy, the legendary parties and life at the Playboy Mansion. Barbara starred in "Baywatch" and has been an avid ballroom dancer like another beautiful PM friend of mine, Patti McGuire Connors. To listen, click here! (Thanks to her co-host/producer Jonathan Alexander for bringing me on!)
With Leslie Hindman wearing masks created by Elda de la Rosa.
Special thanks to all of our local designers who have made the pivot to mask-making! One of my favorite designs was created by Chicago's own Elda de la Rosa! Monogramming is the very latest in mask wear and one of these beauties can be yours for only $25! Contact Elda here!
That's it for this week. As always, stay safe, sane and civil. Call your friends, bake decadent desserts and read that book that's been in your drawer forever and I'll see you again soon!
Decorating the tree is the highlight for me. You see, each and every ornament we put on that tree holds very special memories. I have a crocheted ornament of Santa that my second-grade teacher (Mrs. Lackey ) made for me; I have 3 ornaments related to my life with Playboy (two plastic Bunnies, thank you Diana Peterson, and also a silver Bunny head). We have ornaments from most all of our travels and a very special one from NYC’s now defunct “21 Club.” I have a tiny plastic Barbie doll in her original striped bathing suit that was a gift from my late mom. (This ornament holds pride of place). My late half-sister made a post office building out of popsicle sticks that I cherish (our dad was a third-generation mail carrier).
although she loved Christmas. My mom’s workdays started at 4 am for as long as I can remember so I’m sure exhaustion was a factor here. She retired as a teletypist from TWA (Trans World Airlines) after decades of hard work. We still had fun until my stepdad came home drunk. That’s when the parties always stopped. But this never diminished my love for Christmas. If anything, it made me cherish it even more.
