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ILLINOIS HOLOCAUST MUSEUM AND SERVICE CLUB OF CHICAGO: VIRTUAL SUPERSTARS

Plus: Chicagoans' MASK-querade; PorchlightPalooza; Foster Boy, a must see!; Rush Woman's Board Fall Benefit; AIDS Foundation of Chicago's Walk/Run; TPAN and Kiki Queens host Dining Out for Life; Misericordia's Heart of Mercy Ball and Artist in All; Friends of Prentice, "Still Together, at Home"; A Sterling Event with Opal; Gilda's Club Chicago's "An Improvised Gala"; WITS' Ungala; Greenhouse and Belushi team up for CBD; Playboy's new Insta App; MSI hosts virtual Columbian Ball; This & That; Darling videos and SO much MORE!

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The Illinois Holocaust Museum & Education Center in Skokie, IL.

The Women's Leadership Committee of the  Illinois Holocaust Museum and Education Center hosted its first virtual SOIREÉ on September 2, raising over $250,000 (its highest

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The Voice finalist Katie Kadan.

netting event to date). This Museum, located in Skokie, is for ALL people who want to learn about the past, combat hatred and prejudice and become better world citizens aka Upstanders. I was proud to serve as host for this hour-long event that attracted over 1,100 viewers and

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Actress Sharon Stone.

included surprise guests Sharon Stone, Bonnie Hunt and many others, plus musical guests The Voice finalist Katie

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93.9 Lite FM radio personality Melissa Forman with Dr. Ruth Westheimer.

Kadan, cantors from Northshore congregations, singers from Pastor Chris Harris' Bright Star Church of Chicago, pop artist Alexander Glantz (Alexander 23), Harold Green (poet) and many more. The live portion of the event was filmed at Frost Studios under the watchful eyes of the Museum's Lori Fagenholz

Juliet Gray--WLC president-volunteer

Juliet Gray–WLC president/volunteer.

and her amazing, dedicated team including Marcy Larson, Ken Cooper and others. Kadan kicked off the evening singing "Brave" (by Sara Bareilles) followed by remarks from WLC member/event chair Caroline Pfeffer. Caroline spoke about the Museum's scholarship program

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Fritzie Fritzshall, Survivor and IHMEC president.

that allows students from all backgrounds and faiths the opportunity to learn about the Holocaust so they can make an impact in their own communities. Susie

Susie Karkomi--WLC founding member and VP

Susie Karkomi–WLC founding member/ VP.

Karkomi, WLC founding member and daughter of a Holocaust Survivor and daughter-in-law of two Survivors, said, "With the increase of hate crimes today as well as discrimination on so many levels, the need to teach about tolerance, humanity and the lessons of the

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Katie Couric and husband John Molner.

Holocaust are more urgent than ever in order to impact positive change. It's time to show up and stand up. Acquiescence is unacceptable."

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Actress Bonnie Hunt.

Juliet Gray, WLC president, introduced other members who shared their reasons for being involved with the Women's Leadership Committee. Leslie Schaffel joined to honor the memory of her great-grandparents who perished in the Holocaust and to honor her grandparents who persevered to establish a Jewish life in America. Other WLC members/speakers included Robin Levy,

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Gospel singer Opal Staples.

Stacey Gottlieb and Sherri Schorsch. TV personality and author Katie Couric, along with

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Cantor Jay O'Brien.

her husband John Molner (who grew up on the Northshore), spoke about the book she is writing about her Jewish grandparents and how important it is to support the Museum. Nancy and Michael Reinsdorf told viewers their son had his bar mitzvah at the Museum and that Susan was a volunteer there.

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Singer/songwriter Laurie Akers.
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With Susan Abrams, IHMEC CEO.

Actress/producer Bonnie Hunt emotionally shared one of the most moving stories of the night. She said, when she was a teen, she was involved in a minor car accident and had to spend some time in the hospital. As she bemoaned the fact that she was there and complained about having to stay, her mother told her she wanted her to read the book "Night" by Elie Wiesel. Hunt said, "The book changed me as I discovered that something so horrific in our history could happen." Years later, as an oncology nurse, she had the opportunity to meet

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Preacher/songwriter/producer Carl Hearne.

Wiesel (who had been diagnosed with multiple myeloma)

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Caroline Pfeffer,WLC event chair.

at an event and thank him. When she apologized for the length of the evening (he wasn't feeling well and his wife was with him in a wheelchair), he said, "Oh, I don't believe in complaining."  She said, "Then and there, he changed me again." (I cried like a baby). I conducted a Q&A with Susan Abrams, Museum CEO, who spoke about all aspects of the Museum including what was coming up next. The "Notorious RBG"

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Rita Mathias,WLC founding member/docent.

exhibit (about the remarkable life of Justice Ruth Bader

Kelly Szany--VP Education and Exhibitions.

Kelly Szany–IHMEC VP Education & Exhibitions.

Ginsburg) has been extended through the end of the year to be followed by "Mandela: Struggle for Freedom", an exhibit on the Shanghai Ghetto and, closing out 2021, with "Rise Up" about Stonewall and the struggles of the LGBTQ+ community. Eileen Kugman, WLC member and co-entertainment chair, introduced her aunt, the one and only Fritzie

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Kerry Kennedy–President Robert F. Kennedy Human Rights.

Fritzshall, IHMEC president and Survivor. Fritzie shared, "It is important to me as a Holocaust Survivor for the Museum to exist so it can teach about the past so it can teach

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Museum supporters Nancy and Michael Reinsdorf.

about the future, about what is happening today with anti-semitism raising its head again." Kelly Szany, VP Education & Exhibitions, speaking from the Karkomi Holocaust Exhibition surrounded by images of

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Pop star Alexander Glantz aka Alexander 23.

Survivors, introduced several of them who shared words of wisdom and advice: "The purpose is not to curse the darkness of the past, but to illuminate the future.";

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Detective Marcus Shephard.

"Teach your children not to discriminate, we are all equal" and more. Survivor Magda Brown, who recently passed away, had said, "My mantra is you have to have faith, fantasy, drive, determination and hope that tomorrow will be better." A musical

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Musical artist Kenneth Lyonswright.

interlude was led by singer/songwriter Laurie Akers who wrote "Stand Strong." The song was sung by cantors from Northshore congregations and singers from Pastor Chris Harris' Bright Star Church of Chicago who included Opal Staples, Jenipher Jones, Carl Hearne, Cantor Jay

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With IHMEC's Marcy Larson and Ken Cooper during a tour.

O'Brien, Ernest Johnson, Chrystal Harris, Kenneth Lyonswright, Cantor Andrea Rae Markowicz and Cantor Susie Lewis-Friedman. Other speakers included actress Jill Kargman (star of Bravo TV

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Cantor Andrea Rae Markowicz.

series" Odd Mom Out"); Kerry Kennedy (human rights activist); Keisha Rembert (a teacher); Rita Mathias (founding Museum member/docent); Alexandria Coutinho (student at Taft High School); Melissa Forman (radio superstar of 93.9 Lite FM) and Sam Harris (Museum president emeritus). Actress/producer Sharon Stone spoke about an award-winning documentary she had produced about Harris titled "An

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Alexandria Coutinho, Student Taft High School.
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Educator Keisha Rembert.

Undeniable Voice". A segment followed about the Museum's police training program which brings together officers to teach them about balancing the rights of individuals with the needs of democracy. Detective Marcus Shephard and Officers Tom Hoskinson and Diane Shaw spoke of the training program, "Today, we learned that our uniform is bigger than us."

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What an honor and a thrill it was to host this inspiring night! Thank you IHMEC!

Popular pop artist Alexander Glantz (Alexander 23) sang an original song that he dedicated to his "bubby" who was born in a concentration camp. Katie Kadan

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Sam Harris, Survivor and IHMEC president emeritus.

closed the show with a powerful rendition of the appropriately named song "Stronger Together" (by Jessica Sanchez). The exciting, action-packed evening raised funds for the Museum's future exhibitions, in-person and virtual field trips for students in under-served communities, training for law enforcement and educational programs for college students. Trust me, if you have never visited this Museum, please take your family. It's located at 9603 Woods Drive in Skokie. It's mission and purpose is so very important for us all. (To learn more about IHMEC, or to donate, click here!) (Watch the SOIRÉE event below!)

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Event co-chairs Michelle Baker and Annette Findling w/ SC president Sherrill Bodine. (Co-chair Cathy Bartholomay missing from this pic). 

And it was another virtual home run for the Service Club of Chicago when this 130-year-old nonprofit

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Co-chair Cathy Bartholomay with SC member Marguerite Hark and SC VP Myra Reilly.

hosted "A White House Floral Affair" (aka Hat Luncheon) on September 3. This org is on a winning streak with its virtual fundraising following its successful "Day on the Terrace" event on August 3. "Floral Affair" co-chairs, SC members Cathy Bartholomay, Michelle Baker and Annette Findling, began planning the event in January when the world was young and innocent. They had hoped to host the event in May at the Drake Hotel but Covid had

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Watch Party host Kimberly Filan and friends.

other ideas. SC president Sherrill Bodine told everyone, "Everything is on the table except giving up." (Which we all know is the SC's mantra) The afternoon presentation featured the uber-talented, humble, lovely floral designer/author Laura

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With Watch Party Hosts Greg Hyder, Jim Smith and Jean Antoniou and friends.

Dowling who was the White House's chief floral designer from 2009 to 2015. After she left this position, she began writing books (her latest being "Bouquets") and participating in charity

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Watch Party Host Karen Peters and friends.

events which is where co-chair Annette Findling, luckily, discovered her. During a special VIP presentation a couple of days before the main event, Dowling shared secrets of making the perfect bouquet as she chatted about her days in the White

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SC president Sherrill Bodine wearing Lauren Lein.

House. She was filmed live from her beautiful garden behind her 19th century home in Alexandria, Virginia. She recalled a State Dinner for German Chancellor Angela Merkel where she was

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Tom Kehoe, Yvette Cusack and Sharyl Mackey.

complimented for her floral color choice, yellow, Merkel's favorite color. She spoke of moving dinners for Wounded Warriors where each of the 10,000 guests received flowers to take home. She also rubbed shoulders with many celebrities who visited the White House, including Martha Stewart, Beyonce (who sang for former First Lady Michelle Obama's 50th BD),

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Sheree Valukas at the Marchesa Watch Party.

Prince Harry, Justin Timberlake and many more. During the VIP presentation, Laura arranged bouquets of scented wild basil with dahlias, a sunflower bouquet, a sheaf of wheat with a unique

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Francisco Montiel and Marchesa's Nikki Friar.

burlap bow, a vine wreath and a massive hydrangea arrangement in an antique copper pot. She gave us a very cool tip–she mixes faux flowers with real! I loved this idea and can't wait to try it! During a particularly memorable State Dinner, Dowling was invited to meet the Governor of Washington state, Jay Inslee. He was seated next to former President Obama and asked the then-president what he would miss the most about living at the White House and he said, "The flowers." Laura, of course, will never forget THIS remark! (Another tip Laura shared is that she loves to buy basic flowers at Trader Joe's and then mix them with

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Dapper Eric Cohler.

ones from local farms.) When asked her thoughts on the new White House Rose Garden re-do by First Lady Melania Trump, Dowling said, "The White House does stay the same but the garden is a living place. I didn't

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Keynote speaker and former White House floral designer Laura Dowling.

feel like the flowers in the older garden went together very well. I thought it was a good opportunity to bring the garden up to date. It sounds like there were a lot more rose varieties planted. Each First Family has that chance to make their own changes." During

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Chic Watch Party guests at Marchesa.

the main event, on September 3, the Service Club had nearly 200 attendees who tuned in or attended "watch

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Cristina Montgomery and Pam Capitanini.

parties" for the event, which remains THE hat luncheon in Chicago! Guests viewed the presentation from Marchesa (with photos by John Reilly), the homes of The Peninsula's Greg Hyder and SC members Mrya Reilly, Kimberly Filan and Karen Peters. The emcee for the day was WGN-TV's Micah Materre, a long-time friend of SC, with expert event production, as always, by Tracey DiBuono of ZZAZZ Productions. Co-chairs opened the event thanking guests and sponsors. President Bodine

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Bobbi Panter.

said, "Despite a year in which all of us, and the entire

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Emcee Micah Materre (WGN-TV)

world, has had the most profound challenges of a century, in 2020 the SC gave 40 grants to agencies that totaled almost $450,000…SC makes magic happen, in Englewood, Pilsen, from Uptown to Cicero." During the presentation, two of the SC's grantees, Almost Home Kids and The Chicago Lighthouse, appeared on camera thanking the organization for its support. A live auction featured packages donated by Chef Charles Webb, Four Seasons Punta Mita, jeweler John Buechner and Max Mara. Over $75,000 was raised to further the SC's mission of assisting, improving and expanding on agency programs in the Chicagoland area. Its grant recipients operate in the area of social service, cultural, educational and civic fields. (To apply for an SC grant, click here) and to learn more about this nonprofit, or to donate, click here!)

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Nan Giordano and Cesar Salinas wearing multi-purpose GDC masks.

I think, sadly, that masks are here to stay for a while. And, if

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Greg Hyder wearing a beloved Cubs mask and a sentimental watch.

this proves to be true, then why not make it fun? I know a lot of chic Chicagoans have already incorporated them into their stylish wardrobes, matching masks to their outfits, wearing masks with a message or just wearing masks because they love and want to support their favorite designers and protect their fellow citizens. I wanted to feature some of my favorites in this latest blog so I asked some of my friends to share their favorite looks. Cathy Bell Bartholomay loves her mask by Sylwia Wilczynska Designs. “I love this mask mostly because it protects me and protects others. I also love

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Hair stylist Charles Ifergan.

Sylwia’s “buy one donate one” program, the brainchild of local philanthropist Sherry Lea Fox: it’s yet another way to

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MyEyeDr's Michael Caputo wearing a Versace-inspired mask.

give back and pay it forward during these challenging times. Plus, every time I wear this mask, Slywia’s graceful artistry and sublime use of fabric make me smile underneath it…I'll be wearing masks until it is safe not to, which for me means when we have an effective vaccine and COVID 19 is under control. I dearly hope that will be soon. In the meantime, and for however long it takes, I’ll be wearing a mask for myself, for my family

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Celebrity chef and Viking range spokesman Jaime Laurita.

and for my friends, as well as for everyone and anyone else,” Cathy said. Hair stylist Charles Ifergan wears a mask with a paw prints pattern, a gift from his daughter Lana who thought this would be a great way to remind him she wants a DOG! Lol! MyEyeDr's Michael Caputo paired his

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Mary Lasky wearing a fav mask by Akram Hanna.

Versace-inspired mask (a gift from his L.A. friends) with Versace glasses from, where else, MYEYEDR! Caylei Vogelzang, editor-in-chief of Cancer Wellness mag, loves her mask by Mira Couture. She said, "I think masks are here to stay for the foreseeable future. I imagine that they will become more delicate, form-fitting and functional. I think that we will witness innovations in the textiles that are being used to produce them as well as the structural and aesthetic elements that cause them to look great

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Cathy Bell Bartholomay wearing a mask by Sylwia Designs.

and feel fabulous. I am looking forward to seeing what comes down the runways (or virtual runways) this fall." Amanda Puck, Mariano's Strategic Brand Development–"My favorite masks are from Italian designer La Double J. I love them because they are bright, fun and colorful and coordinate with anything! I can also wear them for long periods of time

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Amanda Puck wearing mask by La Double J.

whether in the grocery stores, helping in the community, or out visiting local restaurants! We will be wearing masks for the foreseeable future, so let’s make it fun!! My other favorites are from Kehoe Designs and also Sylwia Designs." Sheryl Dyer Schmidt, Van Cleef & Arpels store director, loves masks made by her niece Meghan, especially the one with St. Patrick High School shamrock logo (her husband Joe Schmidt

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Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas wears a mask from her friend Joy with her nickname, Dragon Lady.

is president of the school). The Peninsula's Greg Hyder has a closet full of masks, being the style setter that he is. One of his favorites is from his beloved Chicago Cubs (but, believe me, he has one for EVERY occasion!). Giordano Dance Company's Nan Giordano and Cesar Salinas, obviously, love their Giordano masks that can be

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Sherry Lea Holson wearing a Sylwia Designs mask.

worn as a scarf or a headband too!  Master Chef Jaime Laurita doesn't have to go far for his colorful masks since his husband Rich Lane, creates them for his Etsy store (Eleven Eleven Concepts!) Maple & Ash's Mary Lasky loves her masks from Akram Hanna Custom Fitting & Alterations at the 900 North Michigan Shops. Jean Antoniou loves her "sippy" mask by Peach Carr and Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas' custom "Dragon Lady" mask was made by

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Paula Borg wears a glitzy Sylwia Designs camo mask.

her dear friend Joy. Catie Keogh, half of the popular travel doc duo "Trip Sisters" with her real-life sister Colleen Kelly, loves her mask by Gretchen Scott that she picked up at a locally owned boutique in Michigan City called Darling Boutique. Watch for Catie and Kelly's cool Trip Sisters travel show to return next year. They are also currently digital contributors for National Geographic and

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Catie Keogh wears a fav mask by Gretchen Scott.

Travel & Leisure Mag! And last but not least, philanthropist Paula Borg's favorite mask is a sequined, camouflage one by Sylwia Designs. I love the fact that so many designers were willing to pivot to mask-making, not only as an extra source of income, but also to help out essential workers like doctors and

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Sheryl Dyer Schmidt wearing a mask from her niece.

nurses. Designers Lauren Lein, Peach Carr, Borris Powell and others delivered them to hospitals and fire stations. Chicago is known as the city of Big Shoulders and nothing proves this more than these current, hard times. People are stepping up and reaching out in ways that make my heart sing. For sure, the rioting and violence can make this world seem so negative but, bright spots like this can certainly turn a frown upside down. I received a surprise

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Love my Playboy "Iconic Covers" mask!

package in the mail recently from Playboy. Inside, the silver envelope were two PB masks, one with one of my favorite covers (February 1979) on it (this mask is called "Iconic Covers"), and another pink one with Bunny logos.  The note inside showed me why Playboy has been my ride

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Jean Antoniou wearing Peach Carr's sippy mask.

or die "family" for the last 47 years. "Candace, Hope you are doing well & staying safe! Love, Playboy." Thanks to all my trend-setting friends who contributed to this segment!

Playboy will also be coming out with a really cool Instagram app! They sent the link to all the Playmates first for a test drive and I know it's going to be very popular! Take a look here and watch for it, coming soon!

Porchlight Music Theatre hosted PorchlightPalooza, a three-day

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Porchlight Icon honoree Joel Grey.

virtual festival Friday, Aug. 21 – Sunday, Aug. 23,  in lieu of its cancelled March 23 ICONS GALA. This new virtual 25th Anniversary celebration raised over $220,000 and included performances from Chicago’s best talents, highlights from its award-winning history, celebrity greetings and well wishes, the presentation of the Luminary Award to Elaine Cohen and Arlen D. Rubin and culminated on Sunday, Aug. 23, with an exclusive interview hosted by legendary newsman Bill Kurtis with Porchlight’s 2020 ICON Award recipient  Joel Grey.  (PorchlightPalooza is currently available for viewing on Porchlight’s YouTube page.)  Porchlight's Executive Director Jeannie Lukow said, “PorchlightPalooza, due to its virtual format, was able to reach our loyal Porchlight fans and expand to a national

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Much loved Bill Kurtis conducted Q&A with Joel Grey.

audience. In terms of attendance and donations, we have exceeded any previous Porchlight gala in our 25 year history.” She continued, “The response shown for PorchlightPalooza from our audience and people new to Porchlight has been unanimously positive.” Artistic Director Michael Weber added, “Trying this new format was a massive undertaking for all of us and we could not be more proud of the final result. From following social distance guidelines for filming to undertaking new technology and editing three days of one hour shows; PorchlightPalooza is something we could not be more proud of.” Event co-chairs Rick and Deann Bayless and Bill Kurtis and Donna La Pietra shared their highlights from this weekend. “We are so proud of what Porchlight has accomplished,” La Pietra said. “We have been planning the March gala for more than a year and had to change the entire format and evening due

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Michelle Lauto, Missy Aguilar and Lucy Godinez.

to COVID-19. With PorchlightPalooza, we were able to still host three nights of a great event that I was able to enjoy from home

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Lorenzo Rush Jr, lighting design by Rachel West.

with Bill and all my friends, virtually.” Deann Bayless commented, “As Rick and I watched each night, singing along to each number which would not be allowed normally, we could not prevent ourselves from smiling the entire time! Porchlight’s artists and staff provided three unforgettable nights of entertainment that I cannot get out of my head.” PorchlightPalooza artists included Brian Acker, Adrian Aguilar, Missy Aguilar, Charissa Armon, Neala Barron, Jayson Brooks, Caron Buinis, Lydia Burke, E. Faye Butler, Matt Crowle, Andres Enriquez, Erica Evans, David Girolmo, Lucy Godinez, Cory Goodrich, Frederick Harris, Jermaine Hill, Callie Johnson,

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Dancers Christopher Kelly, Erica Evans, Joey Stone and Laura Savage (Middle row, L to R) Linda Madonia, Rafe Bradford and Lior Shragg; (Lighting design by Rachel West and dancers' costumes designed by Bill Morey.)

Donterrio Johnson, James Earl Jones II, Christopher Kelley,  Heidi Kettenring, Michelle Lauto, John Marshall, Jr., Alexis J Roston, Lorenzo Rush Jr, Laura Savage, Stephanie Stockstill, Joey Stone, Bethany Thomas and Gene Weygandt. The weekend also shared well wishes and greetings from artists saluting Grey's influence on music theatre including Bob Balaban, Patrick Cassidy, Kristin Chenoweth, Raul Esparza, cast members from the recent off-Broadway revival of Fiddler on the Roof, Josh Gad, Larry Grossman, John Kander, Tom Kitt, David Mamet, Joe Mantegna, Howard McGillin, Mandy Patinkin, Benj Pasek, Tonya Pinkins, Bernadette Peters, Lonny Price, Chita Rivera, Susan Sampliner, Susan Stroman, Paul Oakley Stovall, Ben Vereen, Bruce Villanch, Stephen Wallem and Maury Yeston.

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Jim Belushi debuts his CBD product at Greenhouse opening.

GREENHOUSE celebrated the opening of its 15,000-sq-ft flagship CBD dispensary in Skokie on September 3. The afternoon had a definite Blues Brothers vibe as actor Jim Belushi (founder of Belushi's Farm) debuted his Blues Brothers X Grassroots product line to much fanfare, arriving in the famed Bluesmobile with two fellow "Blues

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Greenhouse Grand Opening in Skokie.

Brothers" (Mitch Kahn, CEO of Greenhouse and Chris Karakosta, GM of Belushi's Farm and Jim's cousin). The CBD dispensary officially opened at 1000 Skokie Blvd. with a ribbon cutting ceremony in partnership with the Skokie

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Belushi and friends arrive at the Greenhouse opening in the famous Bluesmobile that was featured in the 1980 film, "The Blues Brothers."

Chamber of Commerce that was followed by outdoor activities. Belushi's home-grown collaboration, developed at cultivation facilities owned by leading cannabis company Curaleaf, celebrates the 40th anniversary of the iconic Blues Brothers franchise. Located across from Old Orchard Mall, Greenhouse was designed by architects Peter Theodore and Stephen Coorlas, and built by Chicago based Pacific Construction. The architecturally focused exterior boasts a curtain-like facade with expansive windows, bringing natural light and warmth into the space. The two-level interior,  designed by Epoch Design Group, was deliberately configured to offer a premium,

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Mitch Kahn (Greenhouse), Chris Karakosta (Belushi's Farm) and Jim Belushi. 

curated customer experience, with a large focus on educational displays throughout the space. The second floor, accessible via a lift as well as a spectacular curved staircase, will be dedicated to in-depth consultations with trained product specialists as well as online pre-order pick up. Available products include flower, vapes, extracts/oils, topicals, concentrates and edibles. During the opening festivities, Belushi (who was scheduled to be joined by Dan Akroyd

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Linda Goldman (Skokie Chamber of Commerce), Jon Terzia (Skokie Chamber of Commerce), Talley Wettlaufer (Greenhouse) and Mitch Kahn (Greenhouse).

who couldn't come in from Canada due to Covid restrictions) played the harmonica and signed autographs for fans. Over 600 people attended over the course of the day including Christie Hefner, Rick Kogan, Mitch Kahn (CEO & Co-Founder of Greenhouse), Boris Jordan (Executive Chairman of Curaleaf), SNL alum Tim Kazurinsky, Gregg Steinberg (of Belushi’s Farm), Chris Karakosta, Akele Parnell, Khadijah Tribble and Bob Jersey. (For more info, click here!)

 

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FOSTER BOY OFFICIAL POSTER_100brightnessPut this film on your watch list! "Foster Boy" is a heart-wrenching drama about the painful, corrupt parts of the ‘for-profit’ foster care system – but also a story of

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Matthew Modine, Krystian Alexander Wyttle, Jay Paul Deratany and Shane Paul McGhie.

redemption, justice and change. Starring Matthew Modine, Louis Gossett Jr. and newcomer, Shane Paul McGhie, the movie is being released nationwide in theaters and VOD on September 25. Michael Trainer (Matthew Modine)  is a lawyer at the center of a trial in which a for-profit foster care agency puts a known sex offender into the same foster home as his young client Jamal (Shane Paul McGhie), with catastrophic results. Michael, a successful litigator with a long career in protecting corporate clients, has been blinded from recognizing the real damage they can cause. He wants nothing to do with Jamal's case until a Judge forces him to accept it. Initially he sees

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Film backer Thom Lipari, Jay Paul Deratany, producer Shaquille O’Neal, co-producer Mary Beth O’Connor.

Jamal, as a thuggish African American youth trying to get a piece of corporate profits. But when Jamal refuses to settle the case for any amount of money, Michael begins his representation in earnest. As their work together reveals the horrifying depth of the corrupt and abusive for-profit foster care agency, Michael is transformed from reluctant defender to fierce

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Matthew Modine and Louis Gossett Jr. in "Foster Boy."

warrior in the battle for justice. Dolly Parton was so moved by the film that she wrote a special song for it. The film was co-produced and written by Chicago attorney/screen writer Jay Paul Deratany. Film-

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Foster Boy's Shane Paul McGhie.

backer Shaquille O'Neal said, "Foster kids are not just someone else's kids, they're our kids. There is so much we can do to help them, but it all starts with shining a light on their circumstances. That's why I am so proud to be an

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Lex Scott Davis in "Foster Boy."

executive producer of the film, Foster Boy." Writer/producer Deratany added, "I'm honored that Shaquille is part of the team. The atrocities and abuse of power within the for-profit foster care system are real. The movie is based on several of my cases. These kids deserve so much better. It is my hope that "Foster Boy" will bring positive change." There will be a pre-premiere screening of this multi-award winning film at the Chi Town Movies Drive-In in Pilsen, Wednesday, September 16! Get tickets here! And to watch the powerful trailer, click here. (You can pre-order the movie On Demand too) Congrats to all involved with this film and thanks for bringing this important information to light.

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Rush WB Fall benefit 2020The Rush Woman's Board will host its Fall Benefit on Friday, October 2 at 6:30 pm. This year the Benefit has been re-imagined as a virtual event featuring a wine tasting and live jazz performances. Originally, it was planned as a festive cocktail party to be held at Theater on the Lake in Lincoln Park, but, of course, COVID.  The

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Fall Benefit 2020 Co-Chairs – Elizabeth Bigelow, Gwen Geller and Wendy Herb.

co-chairs, Wendy Herb, Elizabeth Bigelow, and Gwen Geller, had considered canceling the event altogether, but the need at Rush is even greater right now due to the pandemic, so they wanted to find a way to make it work virtually. Funds raised will go to the Woman's Board Transformation Fund, which supports the Rush Cancer Center. The deadline for ticket sales is September 23. (Click here for info/tickets!)

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Aids foundation run-walkThis month, the AIDS Foundation of Chicago (AFC) is inviting Chicagoans to move “Forward Together” for the 19th annual AIDS Run & Walk. For the first time, the week-long event – kicking off on Monday, Sept. 28 – will feature 5K and 10K routes throughout various Chicago neighborhoods including Hyde Park, Uptown, the Loop and more to promote safety and minimize crowds. The AIDS Run & Walk will conclude at Soldier Field on Oct. 3 and raise vital funds and awareness for AFC, in addition to more than 20 community partner organizations that provide programs and services for those living with or vulnerable to HIV, AIDS and other chronical illness. (To register, click here)

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Dining Out for Life 2020Join TPAN and Kiki Queens for DINING OUT FOR LIFE CHICAGO on Thursday, Sept. 24! Dine in, order takeout or delivery from one of the restaurant partners and make a personal gift to support TPAN’s mission to serve people affected by HIV. Tune in LIVE on Facebook to IMG_4426watch an evening hosted by the Queens on Sept. 24, 6-8 pm! Proud to be a co-chair with Sean Lewis and Amy Lawless and stand by our LGBTQ and HIV-affected communities, in one of the most important meals you’ll have all year! Here's how you can help: 1) SIGN UP as a Virtual Ambassador! Encourage your friends to get involved. 2) DINE on 9/24! Choose one of our restaurant partners and either dine in, order takeout or delivery. Then watch KiKi Queens! 3) DONATE directly to TPAN. They won’t rely on restaurant donations so individual gifts are all the more important this year! 4) SHARE your support on social media! Tag your restaurant, Dining Out for Life Chicago, and use the hashtag #DOFLChi.

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UntitledMisericordia's Heart of Mercy Ball and Artist in All events are going virtual! The venue has changed but the show must go on! Please join the Misericordia Siblings Association as they host their annual silent auction, "The Artist in All," virtually this year. Celebrate the courage and optimism of Misericordia's resident artists who Misericordia  artist in all 2020have worked hard on their masterpieces and can't wait to show them off! The online showcase will include paintings, ceramics/3D art, photography and jewelry, all available for online bidding. Congrats in advance to SIBs president Kelly Mayer, event chairs Caitlin Deptula, Bob and Jim Snediker, co-chair Sheila Canavan, Bill Meyer, Julie Sullivan and presenting sponsor The Mazza Foundation. To view the offerings (and/or to donate), click here! Also, mark your calendars for Misericordia's Heart of Mercy Ball, also going virtual this year on October 14 at 6 pm! Join the Women's Board and co-chairs Jackie Kissane and Susan Baker, as they host an enchanted evening to raise awareness and financial support for the children and adults of Misericordia Home. (Details here!)

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PrenticeFriends of Prentice will host its Annual Friends of Prentice Benefit as a virtual event - Still Together, At Home on Saturday, October 24. The event will honor our healthcare community while raising critical funds for medical research on an even greater scale to support the future of women’s healthcare. Thanks to its supporters, they have been able to provide crucial support to projects that benefit women, infants, and families in our immediate communities and across the globe. Please check out ways to give here and register for the event here!

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Gilda's Club Chicago will host "Yes, and…An Improvised Gala" on Friday, Sept. 25 at 6 pm. Hosted by Jon Harris and Larry Wert, the event will include performances by current Second City cast members, appearances by Second City alums and live musical performances and surprise guest appearances. Gilda’s Club was established in honor of Second City’s own Gilda Radner who was diagnosed with cancer in 1985 and passed away in 1989. Gilda’s Club provides free emotional and social support to anyone impacted by cancer. Funds raised at this benefit will support the creation of virtual programs that bring the service directly into the member’s home. (To register and/or donate, click here)

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WITSIt looks like some events will be virtual even moving into December! This year, WITS (Working in the Schools) will replace its large-scale Blackboard Affair gala with an Alice in Wonderland themed virtual fundraiser called The UnGala on Thursday, December 10 at 7:30 pm. The UnGala, which will be streamed into your home, is an opportunity for the Chicago community to come together to support students and teachers and to celebrate the work of WITS, ensuring that it remains a part of the Chicago education community and is there for our students and schools for future generations. (To register (for free) and/or donate, click here!)

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The Museum of Science and Industry will host a virtual gala, "Age of Invention," on Saturday, October 10. The event will support the Museum's education programs and initiatives. To register, click here!  

Kidney event

The National Kidney Foundation of Illinois (NKFI) will host its virtual 35th annual Gift of Life Gala: Coming Together As A Team on Thursday, October 29 at 6:00 pm. The evening will benefit the NKFI mission to improve the health and well-being of those at risk or affected by kidney disease through free screening programs and community health initiatives in Illinois. NKFI, along with Chicago White Sox Charities, will honor the memory of legendary broadcaster and pitcher Ed Farmer, posthumously, with the “Gift of Life Award.” Illinois Secretary of State Jesse White will present the award to Darrin Jackson, WGN radio broadcaster, who will accept the award on behalf of his late radio partner. Pat Tomasulo, sports anchor and reporter at WGN-TV, will serve as master of ceremonies and host the evening’s events. (For tickets, $150, and more info, click here!)

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IMGDon't forget, October 3 is a very special date for A Silver Lining Foundation (ASLF) as its "A Sterling Event" annual fundraiser will be going virtual! What an evening it will be too, starting with a 6:30 reception complete with special celebrity guest bartender Micah Materre and an ask-me-anything segment hosted by an internationally recognized sommelier. At 7:00, the

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Mark Roscoe directing Opal Staples and friends in music video for ASLF.

event officially kicks-off with WGN TV’s Paul Lisnek as emcee. ASLF is beyond excited to introduce the premiere performance of, "I Believe," ASLF’s anthem performed by the talented Opal Staples and produced and directed by Mark Roscoe. This will be a virtual fundraiser unlike any other – complete with celebrity toasts, videos and information about the mission and impact of the foundation. The evening will include exciting silent and live auctions with Jim Miller on hand to lead the charge! Most importantly, all proceeds will support the programs of the foundation, in particular, Buy A Mom A Mammogram, which funds cost-free breast health testing for uninsured, underinsured, undocumented women and men and for those who have lost their jobs and health insurance due to the pandemic. To register, please click here!

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Mercy HousingMercy Housing will host a virtual celebration on Wednesday, September 23. "Moving Forward Together" will feature a timely conversation on the critical impact of housing on health and help raise awareness and resources for quality affordable housing in our region for those in need. To date, thanks to community partners and supporters, Mercy Housing Lakefront is able to provide affordable housing and supportive services to more than 8,000 residents in Illinois, Indiana, and Wisconsin. To register and for more info, click here!

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9Love and thanks to all of the wonderful friends and

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supporters who kept voting for Rooney Rules in the recent PAWS Chicago's Vanity Fur Pet Contest. It was such a darling way to raise awareness for this, the largest No-Kill animal shelter in the Midwest. Rooney didn't win but he received honorable mention. (To hear/see his concession speech (lol), click here!)

I hope you're all holding up during these (still) very trying times. I worry about our dining scene when the weather becomes cooler. One popular and much loved restaurateur said he "spent 185242_500x333_500the whole morning praying for the future." I think we all feel the same. We try to dine in/out/or carry out as much as we can but we've been negatively affected by all of this too. We even spent an afternoon researching places to live in the suburbs. We don't want to move but circumstances here may cause us to do otherwise. I don't want to live in fear, nor do I want to see all the stores, restaurants and mom-and-pop shops leave the area, which was one of the reasons we loved living downtown. We took a drive around the city over the weekend and it was a ghost town. People's nerves are still frayed and everyone seems to be waiting for the next shoe to drop. My husband described it as "Berlin after WWII." I don't know when or how this is all going to change, but like the restaurateur, we pray it's soon.

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And now, on a brighter note, I'm thrilled to see the nonprofit community pivoting to virtual 78f9a998db2546dff84b6c77d7a072fd with such success! And, although it's infinitely better to gather together in person, the recent events I've been a part of have done really well financially and visually. It seems the supporters of each nonprofit know they have to step up or give up. And, as the Service Club's president Sherrill Bodine said, "Quitting is not an option."

Love, as always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. And now, something to leave you with a smile……

 

 

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VIRTUAL FUNDRAISERS: GETTING CREATIVE WITH MISERICORDIA, A SILVER LINING FOUNDATION AND OTHERS

Plus: Tasting Stars with A Silver Lining; Misericordia's 60th Family Association Benefit raises BIG bucks; Dressing Barbie; Lake Forest Showhouse & Gardens; Doorstep Divas bring the party to YOU!; A look back and forward at Service Club's Day on the Terrace fashion show; RefuSHE's Fashion Challenge 2020; Chicago House helps "Raise Your Voices"; Carpool Concerts' exciting outdoor schedule; IG LIVE with Tracey!; Virtual Chefs Night; American Heart Association's Heart Ball; Lana's Largesse; NOBU Hotel Chicago opens in West Loop; The very latest in Mask-Wear by Elda; Dance for Life 2020; Life, Laughter, Happiness with Playmate Barbara Moore; THIS & THAT; Fun videos and so much MORE!

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Db9c2ba2df64c8e8dbb60c53a923e8fa"These are the times that try men's souls." Amen to that Thomas Paine. This crisis and moment in time will be life-changing for many. In a recent (Monmouth University) poll, 61% of people say they will be making permanent changes moving forward. I don't know what

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Designer Virgil Abloh.

this new normal will look like and it's unnerving for a control freak like me. I don't know how comfortable people will be in larger crowds so where will that leave nonprofits and their critical fundraisers? Virgil Abloh, Off-White founder and Louis Vuitton men's artistic director, spoke about the pandemic and our changing world from a fashion point of view. "I'm inspired that fashion can mean something different out of the end of this. It doesn't feel like it did a year ago. Today it seems useless, in a way: a

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Michelle Alegria (Fox 32) relaxes with yoga.

new handbag, a pair of shoes. Getting groceries seems more important than buying a new garment that I already have 30 of in a closet," he said. I tend to

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Dairyland in Dupo, Illinois.

agree. Buying more stuff won't be the answer for me either. Lots of my friends are focusing more on wellness with meditation (hello Michelle Alegria!) and yoga. The quarantine cooking group seems to be going strong with some fabulous dishes and recipes being shared there (Paul Iacono, Greg Hyder, Beth Heller, Mark Olley and Thomas O'Gorman being standouts). With the future of the newspaper industry in question, I'm focusing more on survival. Who knows what's going to happen

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Small towns look pretty appealing now. (Waterloo, Illinois)
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A train runs through it. (Dupo, Illinois)

there? I'm so blessed to have this blog where I can still shine a spotlight on all the good things happening around town. Other friends are planning their exit strategies although I'm not sure where someone can hide from all of this. I think hunkering down with the survival mentality of a pioneer might be the way to go. I'm over hoarding food and supplies but sort of wish I had an underground bunker ready and waiting. I find myself needing to connect more with my good friends. Part of this is missing my normal socializing but another part is

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Flat Creek Baptist Church in E. Carondelet, Illinois.

just needing to be around the ones I love. All of this uncertainty and chaos makes me yearn for the normalcy of the old days back in my small

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How 'bout cocktails and a pizza with this view? (Sunset Overlook in Columbia, Illinois)

hometown of Dupo, Illinois. At the time, I felt so stifled and bored–I couldn't wait to get out and explore the world. Now, I wish I could go back home and relive it all again–helping Mary and Jim Johnson in their huge garden (that they shared with their small community); ordering snow cones from Dairyland and dancing to the songs on the jukebox; dancing

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Ordering a milk shake and "death burger" at Dairyland during a No Class Reunion.

at Teen Town with my high school girlfriends in skintight jeans; enjoying the seedy drive-in in Cahokia; getting excited about shopping with my Mom at J.C. Penney's in South County; the smell of Toni York's mom's beauty shop where my Mom and all her friends went; weekends at my Dad's house in E. St. Louis where my stepmother Blanche tried to teach me to cook; buying peaches, tomatoes and corn at Eckert's farm stand in Columbia; going to church at Flat Creek Baptist Church and experiencing such joy; buying snuff for Mama Mary Johnson at the little confectionery on the corner in East Carondelet; driving to the levy to see how high the flood waters were from the Mississippi River; the fabulous donuts at the Phillip's 66 station in

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Mary Johnson (and Spotty) in her and her husband Jim's beautiful garden in E. Carondelet.

town; dinner at Greenfield's in Columbia with the family; high school picnics with Mary's fried chicken in the Chain O' Lakes park; Dad and Jim both trying to teach me how to live in the world; Mom trying to get me to not worry so much…..All of these memories that are the foundation of our lives are what's important to me now. That's what I'm going to try to focus on….Hope you have something similar to help you put everything in perspective.

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Sister Rosemary Connelly, the heart of the "Heart of Mercy".

Congrats to Misericordia Heart of Mercy on its first virtual fundraiser held on Saturday, June 20 that raised a whopping $1,405,000! This year marked the 60th Misericordia Family Association Benefit which still turned out to be very clever, heartwarming and fulfilling in terms of dollars raised, albeit virtually. The event had been planned and coordinated by Jim Capraro with support from the benefit committee and staff in less than 90 days! The 90 minute event, with lots of cool moving parts, opened with longtime supporter Lou Manfredini (WGN-TV home repair expert) welcoming guests. The "virtual cocktail session" from 6-7 pm, featured pianists Charlie Carpenter and Holly Jennings (co-chair) and

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Misericordia's Lois Gates with auctioneer Greg "G-Man" Dellinger.

guitarist Jim Splithoff, who performed as silent auction items scrolled across the IMG_0402screen. The program portion of the event opened cleverly with the Star Wars theme followed by a video flyover of the U.S. Navy Blue Angels in a salute to Misericordia's essential workers. Father Jack Clair offered a blessing before

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Co-chair Holly Jennings with her son, a resident at Misericordia.

a musical salute to Sister Rosemary Connelly (Misericordia's fabulous and much loved executive director for over 50 years) was performed in the Highland Cathedral with the Shannon Rovers and organist Charlie Carpenter. (All appropriately socially distanced). Supporters appearing

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Caroline Kennedy congratulated the nonprofit via video.

in the video included Caroline Kennedy, Mike Ditka, Joe Maddon, Mayor Lori Lightfoot, co-chairs Holly Jennings and Beth Merlo (with their families), Laurie and Bill McCarthy (MFA chairs), New York Giants Saquon Barkley and Grant Haley and more. Lois Gates (assistant executive director in charge of development) and Mary Pat O'Brien (director and CFO) joined auctioneer Greg

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NY Giants' Saquon Barkley and Grant Haley.

"G-Man" Dellinger during the fundraising portion of the event.  Sister Rosemary said, "Tonight is a celebration of our loving devotion to all our children and adults who call Misericordia home. We have the best family organization in the country. The reason Misericordia is the beautiful home it is today is because we are a community of dreamers. We believe that, not only do our residents have a right to life, but to one worth living. And, although our residents can't create a  good life for themselves, once it is theirs, they

Residents from Misericordia's Walsh Slattery Home help with a raffle.

Residents from Misericordia's Walsh Slattery Home help with a raffle.

become the gift-givers. Our residents are being cared for tenderly and lovingly and every day our staff creatively challenges them to remain engaged in personal growth, each to the best of their abilities." To date, Misericordia cares for over 600 children and adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities with a staff of 1,000+ across a 31-acre campus, with a new drive-by Misericordia Hearts & Flour Bakery being planned now.

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A Silver Lining founder Dr. Sandy Goldberg and Greg Hines.

I'm a big fan of Dr. Sandy Goldberg and her wonderful A Silver Lining Foundation that provides breast health support for those in need. So, when I heard that the 18th annual Tasting Stars event, which supports ASLF, was going to be virtual, I was at my computer and ready on Saturday, June 13 at 7pm. Paul Lisnek (of WGN-TV) emceed this virtual champagne event that would normally have been held at the DIRTT Environmental Solutions space (325 N. Wells) with magnificent views of the Loop and river. I'm always curious to see how the various nonprofits are able to pivot to virtual for the first time and this one, despite a few technical difficulties, went off without a hitch and was very informative and entertaining. Viewers tuned into YouTube Live for the hour long event

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Virtual event host Paul Lisnek.

that opened with jazz pianist Anthony Pocetti (who performed beautiful standards intermittently throughout the presentation). Viewers were able to purchase "French Food Boxes" from the Entertaining Company (a longtime supporter) before the event in keeping

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Adiat Baker and Iya Bakare, longtime supporters.

with the event's French theme. Lisnek introduced a video explaining ASLF's impact, how it came to be and the important work it's doing in the community. The video opened with one of the most dynamic singers I know, Opal Staples (of the famed Staples gospel family). Her singing always brings me to tears and this time was no exception. Her rendition of "Rise Up" is mind blowing (see video here). WGN-TV's

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Sir Charles Stanfield.

Micah Materre was also a contributor and spoke about the people the organization serves. Dr. Sandy spoke passionately about her nonprofit that was born in 2002 after she was IMG_0063diagnosed with breast cancer. She recalled having access to "everything that she needed during that journey." And when she realized others weren't as fortunate, she and her husband, Greg Hines, co-founded the org at their kitchen table with one donation. The programs have grown over the last 17 years to include five programs 1) The Chicagoland Cancer Information Coalition (which

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Save the Date! A Sterling Event on Oct. 3

provides research and outreach), 2) Buy A Mom A Mammogram (ASLF now funds all breast health testing, screenings through biopsies for under-insured, un-insured and undocumented women and men). 3) The Evelyn IMG_0073Goldberg Mammography Center (renamed at UI Health in honor of Sandy's late mother) 4) Keep aBreast (a program designed specifically for young people) and 5) Survive to Thrive (a support program for those already diagnosed). Dr. Sandy said, "The women and men we deal with at A Silver Lining Foundation feel like they don't matter. They feel like nobody cares and that they're alone in the world. This is NOT the premise on which this foundation is based. We turn NO ONE away! We need you to RISE UP and help us make sure no one goes unrecognized. We feel everyone deserves a chance to survive." Tasting Stars co-founder IMG_0057(with wife Ann) Brent Carstensen spoke about the nonprofit's champagne partnership with master IMG_0079sommelier, Sir Charles Stanfield. Traditionally, at past events, Sir Charles would "saber" a cork off a bottle of champagne to start the event so, this year, a video was shown of him doing it virtually so the tradition could remain intact. Tasting Stars has raised and distributed

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Dr. Sandy Goldberg.

over $600,000 to the cause since its founding 18 years ago. The event closed with Dr. Sandy awarding the annual Evelyn Goldberg Memorial Award to the "Tasting Stars

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Ben Carstensen, co-founder Tasting Stars.

Family." In 2019, ASLF stats showed: 15 partner hospitals; 1,487 women served; 227 zip codes served; 1,965 tests funded with 18 diagnoses discovered. ASLF's signature fundraiser, A Sterling Event, will be held on Saturday, October 3. The virtual event closed with a champagne toast and the announcement that the event has raised over $60,000! (And, as Dr. Sandy added, "with no charging for tickets and no silent and live auctions!")

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RefuSHE Fashion Challenge winning designer Concetta Cipriano (lower left) with her design worn by model Eleanor Simon.

RefuSHE hosted its first virtual Fashion Challenge on June 19, in celebration of World Refugee Day, with seven talented, emerging designers: Amy Fenderson, Concetta Cipriano, Fraley Le, Lagi Nadeau,  Kate VanAsten, Taylor Graves and Xochil Herrera Scheer. The concept this year consisted of a virtual fashion show inspired by Project Runway with designers showing their looks using fabrics and materials sourced from RefuSHE's Artisan Collective, a program that fosters leadership and business skills through the production of hand-dyed fabrics and scarves that are created by girls and women in the organization. The nonprofit was co-founded by Anne Sweeney and Talyn Good in East Africa to protect and support separated and orphaned girls and young women who often fell through the gaps of protection,

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Colorful and stunning design by Fraley Le.

becoming invisible and vulnerable. They are the first and only organization dedicated to refugee girls in Kenya. The virtual event included remarks from Tamasha Rimba, Associate Director of 3fdb1b97-8794-48b0-82f4-ab51810e0f9dCase management and Safe House in Kenya. She spoke about the wide range of services the org provides to every girl who comes into the organization with the priority being the provision of basic needs–access to food, clothing, water, shelter and medication. She said, "Most of our girls are survivors of war and sexual-based gender based violence and also young mothers." Tamasha shared the story of a young 15-year-old

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Chantale Zuzi shared her moving story of survival.

girl who had been raped and was "heavily pregnant and

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Design by Amy Fenderson.

malnourished." She flourished under RefuSHE nurturing and programming. Geoffrey Thige, executive director, took viewers on a virtual journey to Kenya where they saw the campus through the eyes of the women there. He said, "There are more than 18 million displaced people in Sub Saharan West Africa and over half are under the age of 18." Before the runway show, final (powerful)

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Design by Xochil Herrera Scheer.

comments were delivered by RefuSHE alumna Chantale Zuzi who told a harrowing story of how she survived as an albino woman in the Democratic Republic of Congo. Her mother was encouraged to abort her but she refused. Chantale said albino children were used for sacrificial purposes there and not figured viable in this society. She's now living and thriving in the U.S. while getting an education that she hopes to use to help her people. Judges for the runway show included Cheryle Jackson (CEO of Grit + Grace), Kahindo Mateene (founder/designer of KAHINDO), Monica Singh

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Beautiful headpiece by Fraley Le.

(designer and UN Women Youth Ambassador) and Travis Paul Martin (executive director of PR at Skoog). The Fashion Challenge event celebrated the power of philanthropy and fashion's ability to tell a story through art and the stories were colorful, joyful, hopeful and amazing. Each designer was paired with a RefuSHE participant who served as their muses. Viewers voted for their favorite designers donating $20 per vote with designer Concetta Cipriano taking away the win for this year's Challenge with glam model Eleanor Simon. The event raised $124,037 with 100% of proceeds going towards RefuSHE's transformational model of care for young refugee women, girls, and their children in East Africa and around the world. To learn more abut this remarkable nonprofit, click here  and see all of the beautiful designs in photo below.

098c84a5-849b-4d05-a0ac-7f12f39631ce(To see the fashion show, check out the video below, the show starts at 23:06)

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The late Bunky Cushing and Hazel Barr at DOT in 2010.

With all of my nonprofit fundraisers temporarily suspended, I decided to take a look back at some of the more popular events. One of my favorites is the Service Club of Chicago's "Day on the Terrace" fashion show. It's typically hosted the first Monday in

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Kristina McGrath, Heather Farley and Nina Mariano at DOT 2010.

August at the Peninsula. It's such an exciting show because so many of our local men and women (and members) participate–it's sort of like a social family reunion. This year, the event will be virtual on the same date, Monday, August 3 (11 am to 12:30 pm). Join the watch party and enjoy a fabulous production created by co-chairs Jean Antoniou, Tracey Tarantino DiBuono, Sharyl Mackey and Jamie Thorsen in collaboration with BlackOak Technical Productions! The ticket price, $100, will include a Look Book that will be mailed out prior to the show (buy a page and advertise your

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Sheryl Schmidt, Susanna Homan, Sherill Bodine and Mary Lasky at DOT 2010.

business, salute your friends, etc.) (Fab illustration by Elda De la Rosa) (DOT info here! ) It won't be like being in the same room with friends but it's great that they're soldiering on, as the SC has done for the last 130 years! The SC is unique because of the fact that 100% of the funds raised goes directly to charity. This year, its Philanthropic Grant Program awarded over $440,000 to 38 nonprofits. The organization

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Anne Wallace and Jean Antoniou at DOT 2010.

does not give the grantees a check. Instead, they assist, improve and enlarge upon agency programs. The Albany Park Community Center requested (and received) a used van. The Apparel Industry Foundation received laptops and lockers and The Council for Jewish Elderly received security cameras. The grants are awarded across a variety of deserving nonprofits and helps recipients expand facilities, improve equipment and initiate new programs which

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DOT goes virtual in 2020 (Illustration by Elda de la Rosa).

will better serve a large number of people in need. I served on the Philanthropic Committee one year and it was life changing. To see the needs that are so great and to know that you've helped somehow in a small or large way is rewarding beyond comprehension. I applaud all the members of this remarkable organization and can't wait till we can all be together again, celebrating another successful event. In the meantime, I hope you enjoy these photos from past events. Also, mark your calendars for another SC event, "A Very Patriotic Zoom Cocktail Party" on Thursday, July 2 in collaboration with Steak 48! Tickets are $30 and can be purchased by calling 312.220.9600.  

 

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Pullman Estate in Lake Forest.

The Pullman Estate is set to open as The Lake Forest Showhouse & Gardens on Saturday, July 11, through Sunday, August 9. The 23-room, 11,000-square-foot, turn-of-the-century east Lake Forest estate has been transformed by over 30 interior and landscape designers. Many of the items at the Showhouse & Gardens will be for sale too! A price list

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Pullman Estate in Lake Forest.

of items for sale from furnishings to accessories will be made available in each designer space with 15% of the sale benefiting Infant Welfare Society of Chicago. Following State safety guidelines, a restricted number of tickets will be sold per day,

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William Allan Pinkerton Pullman (holding shovel).

divided by morning and afternoon sessions, Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m., Saturday and Sundays from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Tickets for $40 must be purchased in advance here. The home benefits the Angel Harvey Family Health Center of the Infant Welfare Society of Chicago, which is celebrating more than 108 years of providing healthcare to Chicago's medically under-served. The colonial-style home was originally designed by Frost & Granger in 1906 and

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Showhouse honorary chair Paloma Contreras.

completely renovated by architect Stanley Anderson in the late 1920s for investment banker William Allan Pinkerton Pullman (1901-1988), the grand-nephew of George M. Pullman, the developer and 16_10651026_6_1582934868manufacturer of Pullman cars. An avid gardener and co-founder of the Chicago Botanic Garden, William A.P. Pullman worked with New York landscape architect Annette Hoyt in 1937 to create world class gardens on the property. Some of the original plantings still exist – from a Ginkgo tree of epic proportion to rare Chinese maples and Japanese lilacs, as well as the original boxwood hedges – the same ones that inspired others to plant "Pullman boxwood" in formal gardens. Hope to see you there!

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Doorstep Divas

Doorstep Divas Molly Callinan and Caitlin Simone Buffa. 

Talk about a cool pivot! Congrats to the newly created Doorstep Divas Chicago and its stars Molly Callinan and Caitlin Simone Buffa, for turning lemons into lemonade! With their amazing voices and effervescent personalities these two renowned singers (Molly is a

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lead singer in Gary Sinise's Lt. Dan Band playing at military bases for the troops as well as fronting the Chicago-based all girl cover band Catfight and Caitlin is a band leader and vocalist at Ken Arlen Music Productions) have figured out a way to survive the lack

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Darling Doorstep Divas Caitlin Simone Buffa and Molly Callinan.

of gigs due to the pandemic by forming their very own, social-distancing entertainment venture. The ladies will perform their hearts out at your home for any occasion. Their repertoire is two pages of single-spaced songs that include ballads (Norah Jones "Come Away With Me," etc.); Elvis; Beatles; Prince; disco (Donna Summer's "Bad Girls," etc.); Motown/R&B (Chaka Khan's "Ain't Nobody", etc.); Contemporary Rock, Swing/Standards and SO MUCH MORE! These ladies do it ALL! So, if you want to spice up a night on your lawn, check out their website here and book 'em! And see them in action here!

 

 

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Raise Your Voice Flyer_v1 (2)Chicago House & Social Services replaced its scheduled virtual Pride Variety Show with an event titled Raise Your Voice in honor of Black Lives Matter. The one hour virtual experience was designed to affirm Black lives through the power of storytelling, spoken word and song. The event was

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Chicago House trustee Kelly Saulsberry.

co-hosted in collaboration with Chicago House, Affinity Community Services, Brave Space Alliance and the Youth Empowerment Performance Project. Hosted by Chicago House trustee Kelly Saulsberry, the event featured appearances by Barbara McBee, Jakari Earl, Zola Makeda, the Honorable Angelina Nordstrom, Osiris Khepera, Cruel Valentine and Shane Calvin. Lucy Stoole, award-winning drag queen and advocate for gender non-conforming people, served as the

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Artist Zola Makeda.

event's emcee. Lucy said, "Black voices need to be heard, black people need to be seen and our talents need to be celebrated

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Emcee Lucy Stoole.

across the world, here on the eve of Juneteenth." Poet Zola Makeda delivered a powerful poem titled "Good Hope", about the disappointment, hope and hardships she's faced growing up as transgender and Black. To learn more about Chicago House & Social Services, click here. Founded in 1985, Chicago House is a social service organization that supports individuals impacted by HIV/AIDS and the broader LGBTQ+ community with housing, health, and employment support.

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With photographer Tim Klein.

Special thanks to photographer Tim Klein for including me in Tim Klein shoot his recent project, the "pandemic portfolio." He plans on photographing Chicago "notables during this unprecedented time in history." I've been lucky to have worked with him in the past for a campaign for Burberry. I can't wait to share his photos! Check out his website here!

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8c41114d71a81de61310de0a62a3951bda85eb9242b340272d2c2d1ec3e793f6-rimg-w526-h296-gmirLake County Fairgrounds and Carpool Concerts have teamed up to make your summer extra special! Imagine a grandstand stage, stellar acoustics, big name local cover bands and cars of every make and model and you'll have a very cool live music concert you'll never forget, the summer drive-in Carpool Concert Tour 2020 (in Grayslake, Illinois). Fans can enjoy live music while staying safe and socially distant in their cars. The line-up includes Sixteen Candles Band, Boys Band Review, Trippin' Billies, Infinity, American English, Southern Accents and more! The 75 minute shows are at 4 pm and 7 pm daily from Thursday, June 25 through Sunday, June 28! Check out all the details here!

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Dressing Barbie EVITEBoy, the kid in me is so excited for this virtual fundraiser hosted by the Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum! "Dressing Barbie" will feature a Zoom presentation by Carol Spencer, the fashion designer who "dressed Barbie" at Mattel from Barbie-carol-spencer-dressing-barbie1963 until 1998! This virtual event will also include a super fun "Barbie Box" that will feature a signed and personalized "Dressing Barbie" book; the exclusive Zoom link; a Barbie collector card; a mini Barbie Dream House–all the accoutrements you will need to have a fun Barbie-themed Zoom presentation on the history of Barbie's fashion (includes adult and kid friendly contents)!–FOR $100! The event will take place on Saturday, Aug. 15 at 11 am (CST)! To RSVP, please click here!  

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Instagram Live 6-10-20Special thanks to Tracey Tarantino DiBuono for including me in her/our first INSTA LIVE! I think we nailed it! She hosted on her @ZZAZZProductions page and I guested. We had a blast talking about anything and everything–how nonprofits are faring, makeup and fashion tips, my Playboy years and so much more! We've had many requests for a do-over so watch out world, we might be BAAACCKKK!!! Lol! (Follow Tracey on Insta at @ZZAZZProductions and me (please) @CandidCandace!) And watch our segment here!

 

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Nobu Hotel Chicago opens July 1 in the West Loop!

Nobu Hospitality, the globally established lifestyle brand founded by Chef Nobu Matsuhisa, Robert De Niro and Meir Tepe, announces the preview and opening of Nobu Hotel Chicago in the West Loop (155 N. Peoria) on July 1st. Spanning 12,000 sq. ft., Nobu Hotel Chicago will feature 115 rooms, two private dining rooms, 3,000 sq. ft. of flexible event space – including The Rooftop at Nobu Hotel Chicago and first class amenities. Guests can expect the company’s IMG_6351signature aesthetic – Japanese influence with an ultra-modern design to create a zen oasis in the heart of the city. Trevor Horwell, CEO of Nobu Hospitality commented, "We are so pleased to be introducing our first Nobu Hotel in the Midwest US. Chicago is a world-class mecca of dining and entertainment and we are very proud to provide a new and exciting destination for the local community and visitors." Now accepting reservations here: Nobu Hotel Chicago.  (The phase two opening will occur at a later date which will mark the opening of Nobu restaurant and bar with patio dining.)

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CEL_ChefsNightVirtualInvite_2020_V7-page-001On Monday, June 29, join the Center for Enriched Living for its "Virtual Chefs' Night" from 7 to 8 pm! The Center is a nonprofit dedicated to supporting people with developmental disabilities. An exciting raffle (1/$100 or 3/$275) is featuring a 2020 Lexus UX25OH and only 1,299 tickets will be sold! The event is FREE to view but a suggested donation of $90 is encouraged. For all the details, click here!

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MaxresdefaultThe American Heart Association will host a virtual Heart Ball on Thursday, June 25 from 7-8 pm. The event will be emceed  by Windy City Live's Val Warner and chaired by Linda Imonti. The 2020 Heart of Gold Award recipient will be Pat Magoon, retiring CEO of Ann and Robert H. Lurie Children's Hospital of Chicago. The auction (that goes online June 23) and donation portion of the evening will be expertly handled by Greg "G-Man" Dellinger.  To register, click here!

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Kudos to Lana Bramlette, fashionable founder of Lana Jewelry, who turned her Columbia education and passion for fine jewelry into a powerhouse brand. Eighteen years ago, she brought gold back into the spotlight by creating

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Jewelry designer/philanthropist Lana Bramlette wearing her own designs.

her signature gold hoops worn by A-listers including Michelle Obama, Jennifer Lopez, Beyoncé, Madonna and Rihanna. Fast forward to today, Lana gives back to the institution that helped shape her career. In the early 2000s, she founded the Chicago Fashion Foundation with her husband Rob. The two then enlisted other Chicago-based powerhouse women and men in the fashion industry to be a part of this amazing organization. Through Bramlette’s efforts with the CFF, Columbia recently received a gift of more than $540,000 to propel future generations of designers and entrepreneurs in fashion! This gift will provide Columbia Fashion Studies students with scholarship funds and access to learning opportunities that otherwise would have been out of reach. Thank you Lana for your big, chic heart!

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Dance for Life 2019 finale choreographed by Randy Duncan. (Photo by Todd Rosenberg).

Dance for Life 2020 is going virtual! Join them online from Aug. 10-14 and see works archived from past Dance for Life performances during the past 29 years! Pieces from the annual partner dance companies will be presented by Giordano Dance Chicago, Hubbard Street Dance Chicago, The Joffrey Ballet, Hanna Brictson and Dancers, Chicago Dance Crash, Ensemble Espanol Spanish Dance Theater, Joseph Holmes School of Dance, Luna Negra Dance Theater, Muntu Dance Theatre of Chicago, River North Dance Chicago, Thodos Dance Chicago, Visceral Dance Chicago, and a collaborative

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Hubbard Street Dance, Dance for Life 2019. (Photo by Todd Rosenberg).

work by Chicago Human Rhythm Project, Ensemble Espanol Spanish Dance Theater and Trinity Irish Dance Company. Then, on August 15, celebrate with a world premiere! This culminating event, commemorating the originally-planned date for the 29th anniversary of Dance for Life at the Auditorium Theatre, will feature a world premiere choreographed by Hanna Brictson in response to COVID-19 with dancers from throughout the Chicago area. This year's virtual event will benefit The Dancers' Fund, AIDS Foundation Chicago and Chicago Dancers United. (Details here!)

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Playboy Playmate Barbara Moore, Dec. 1992.

Special thanks to my Playmate sister Barbara Moore (Miss December 1992) who interviewed me for her wonderful

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Barbara Moore starring in "Bay Watch."

podcast, Life, Laughter & Happiness." We went wayyyy back with our many memories of Hef, Playboy, the legendary parties and life at the Playboy Mansion. Barbara starred in "Baywatch" and has been an avid ballroom dancer like another beautiful PM friend of mine, Patti McGuire Connors. To listen, click here! (Thanks to her co-host/producer Jonathan Alexander for bringing me on!)

 

 

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With Leslie Hindman wearing masks created by Elda de la Rosa.

Special thanks to all of our local designers who have made the Elda pivot to mask-making! One of my favorite designs was created by Chicago's own Elda de la Rosa! Monogramming is the very latest in mask wear and one of these beauties can be yours for only $25! Contact Elda here!  

That's it for this week. As always, stay safe, sane and civil. Call your friends, bake decadent desserts and read that book that's been in your drawer forever and I'll see you again soon!

Love, as always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

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CHICAGO CELEBRATES DISCOVERY BALL, PRIDE MONTH, OPEN RESTAURANTS, SPECIAL FRIENDS AND SO MUCH MORE

IMG_9089As helicopters filled the sky and sirens broke the evening's silence, I felt the world crack a little. I feel like the things I love to write about seem so small and inconsequential lately. My heart aches over all of the pain and suffering that's been associated with the horrific murder of George Floyd. I hope he finds more peace and justice in heaven than he did here. I don't know the details, but the only thing any sane person needed to see was that video. I feel so sorry for all who knew and loved him. I understand the outrage. I feel badly for the peaceful protesters' whose message seems to have been lost amid all the violence. How did we come to this and how can we move forward and heal? My prayers go out for everyone. We need to find a way to come together….somehow, some way. Hopefully, my blog can bring a little joy and be a bright spot in your day. I hope you appreciate all the nonprofits and arts organizations who still need us, friends we need to champion, successes we need to celebrate and all the good things in life. You will most certainly find that here…..

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Db-auction (2)The 2020 Digital Discovery Ball, the American Cancer Society's first-ever, large-scale virtual gala in Chicago, was a pivot for the organization though creativity and determination paid off. Hosted by NBC's Chicago Today co-hosts Cortney Hall and Matt Rodrigues, the event raised over $1.85 million to support the Society's mission priorities of supporting the Hope Lodge COVID-19 fund and cancer research. In Illinois, over 70,000 new cancer cases are expected to be diagnosed in 2020, so the need for answers is urgent. "We were guided by our theme 'Be Bold and Rise Up', and that's exactly what we did with our

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Darling event hosts Cortney Hall and Matt Rodrigues (NBC Chicago Today)

fundraising success," said Michael Ziener, executive director. In the organization's original projections, the ball was expected to take a 40-50% loss. Strong commitments from the

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Adam Cayton-Holland provided comic relief.

corporate community and individual gifts reversed the trend, contributing to nearly $38 million raised since the event started 14 years ago. ACS secured funds through pre-solicited sponsorships, night-of online auction and live donations, including an IL Area Board Match. This event funds breakthrough research, advocacy and a 24/7 helpline (800-227-2345), which has contributed to a

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The popular band Maggie Speaks performed.

29% decrease in cancer death rates between 1991-2017. Powerhouse tech giants Salesforce and G2 supported the society by mobilizing their companies as this year's Discovery Ball sponsors. "COVID(-19) does not stop cancer. Therefore the mission of the American Cancer Society must

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Mayor Lori Lightfoot provided words of encouragement.

continue," said Tyler Prince, EVP of Salesforce, who was joined by his co-chair of the event, Godard Abel, CEO of G2. Tuxedos and gowns were traded in for virtual cocktails and a digital celebration, and many learned about the Society's mission of saving lives, celebrating lives and leading the fight for a world without cancer. Appearances included Mayor Lori Lightfoot and ACS CEO Gary Reedy.

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Alexandra Billings expertly hosted this event virtually. Don't miss her closing remarks below.

It hasn't been easy watching virtual events that I would normally attend in person but I certainly admire all the great efforts. Case in point, the fabulous 50th anniversary of PRIDE hosted by The Lavender Effect, a nonprofit that celebrates LGBTQ+  heritage and culture. The event was hosted live on ZOOM by the dynamic and legendary transgender activist/actress/teacher/singer, Alexandra Billings. She is best known for her recurring role on Amazon’s award-winning show “Transparent." A virtual launch of Pride Month, the program brought together LGBTQ+ activists, political leaders and celebrities from coast to coast that included Lily Tomlin, Judith Light; Sean Hayes; Audra McDonald; Betty Buckley; Sandra Bernhard; Amy Landecker; Sally Kirkland; Lindsay Pearce; Bruce Vilanch; Michael Musto; Jason Stuart; Chad Michaels; Drew Droege; Miss Barbie-Q; Kay Sedia; Diane Anderson-Minshall; Mel England; Charles Busch; The Fruitcake Follies;

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Lily Tomlin added humor and perspective.

Windy City Gay Men's Chorus, Ron Galperin & Family (LA City Controller); Lindsey Horvath (Mayor, City of West Hollywood); Evan Wolfson (Founder/ED Freedom to Marry); Chicago's own HONEY WEST and so many others. In truth, I missed the beginning but I think I caught some of the best parts. Lindsay Pearce, who took over the role of Elphaba in the Broadway musical "Wicked" in February, sang "Somewhere Over the Rainbow," moving host Alexandra (and me) to tears. Actor Chad Michaels message was succinct, "Be strong, find your voice." Charles Busch,

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Singer/actress Lindsay Pearce brought viewers to tears.

playwright/activist shared, "We've survived so much, just in my own lifetime…We see things differently as a queer person and have seen things other people haven't. And, if you survive, it makes you stronger." Lily Tomlin appeared in a gaily decorated area of her home that she described as her "gay area." She said, "Cruelty and injustice are always our business…I've been around for 50 years and I realize gay people have not changed in terms of spirit and their sense of humor. I'm so grateful that I've been around to be influenced by the spirit of this community." Of all of the celebs and participants though, I was most moved by the host's parting comments.

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Activist/playwright Charles Busch.

Billings said, "I'm 58 and was born in Englewood, California. I come from a middle class family, mixed race but we passed as white. I grew up believing I had privilege, just enough to get me by. Then, as people started to tell me that what I was and what I looked like was, not only different, but wrong, I began to believe it. I internalized it as the truth. So, I believed that what I wanted, what I desired, was wrong. And it wasn't until I turned to art, as most LGBTQ people do, that I realized I

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It takes a village…

had a voice. We're living in a time right now of great chaos and pain, but it's not new even though it feels new. Every birth is painful and every birth requires revolution because that is how change is born. If we don't see each other, we can't honor each other. Find your voice and activate it in the way YOU understand it. There's no right way, Everyone is making it up. Nobody has a plan or the answer so we must work together. We are each other's revolutions. If you see someone beating someone with a stick, you walk over and take the stick away. We have to see each other to honor each other. So, let's take time to celebrate, not only who we are, but where we come from and where we're headed as human beings." (And, don't forget to mark your calendars for Chicago's own Pride Variety Show  , see invite below, presented by Chicago House and Social Service Agency and co-hosted by Dixie Lynne Cartwright and Lucy Stoole. Enjoy performances by some of the city's top drag stars included Aunty Chan, Kelly Lauren and Joan Jullian. You'll also learn how to make a few specialty cocktails with local mixologists like David Sikora of Crystal Head Vodka. (To rsvp for this FREE event, click here! 

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First selfie stick photo, Lake Geneva.

Chuck, Rooney and I took a last-minute-planned trip to Lake Geneva on Saturday, May 23. We didn't do it to be rebellious, we just went because it's a road trip we take often and Lord knows, we were bored and ready to see something different. Even along the way, a

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Lake Geneva, so peaceful.

familiar road, I saw things I never noticed before. I guess being on lockdown, with an all-over dimming of your senses, traveling in the open air with the sun on your face makes for a joyful reawakening. We stayed at a cheap hotel with clean rooms and a friendly staff. We were so

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Great dinner at Anthony's Steakhouse.

looking forward to dinner at one of our favorite spots, Mars Resort, on Lake Como but, when I Googled the restaurant I THOUGHT it said it was closed. (It wasn't). BUT, a silver lining was that we tried a new spot that we also loved, Anthony's Steakhouse & Seafood, that's been around since 1978. This classic supper club was filled with respectful diners, socially distancing but sans masks. I

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A rare treat, Dog n' Suds in Richmond, Wisconsin.

know this was a no-no, but we did wear our masks whenever it was appropriate so felt relatively safe. I guess I was more worried about our mental health at this point as we were both about ready to crack. The brilliant sunshine on the lake and the ability to even walk into a store definitely improved our mindsets. Rooney's too. And, just as a bonus, a magnificent thunderstorm was followed by not one, but two huge rainbows. The light was like nothing I'd ever seen before. It made me think of how the great painters must've felt while working in the South of France. I felt like it was a gift from God. In hindsight, after seeing all of the videos of people crowding into the resort town, I was glad we had arrived early and left early. Looking forward to taking more baby steps to places unknown.

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Lake Geneva after a thunderstorm.

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La Scarola and Armando Vasquez in the New York Times.

Huge congrats to La Scarola restaurant (721 W. Grand) and its owners Joey Mondelli and Armando Vasquez! The restaurant was included in this recent New York Times article "12 Restaurants America Loves. With Recipes!" Their Chicken Vesuvio was the spotlighted dish. Other restaurants included Brennan's (New Orleans), Felix (Venice, Calif.), Hwa Huan (NYC), Canlis (Seattle), Country Club Bakery (Fairmont, W. VA.), Phoenicia (Birmingham, Mich.), Bakesale Betty (Oakland, Calif.), Millie Peartree at Stingrays (NYC), Piper Inn (Denver, Co.), Tequeria del Sol (Atlanta) and Eventide (Portland, Maine). Congrats to all!  

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Carmen Dell'Orefice, in her 80s here.

CARMEN DELL'OREFICE. The top model in the world just celebrated her 89th birthday on June 3 (a Gemini!). She's been modeling for more than 60 years and is listed in the Guinness Book of World Records as having the "longest career on the catwalk." When she

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Carmen and friend Bunky Cushing partying on Stanley Paul's rooftop terrace.

was just 15, Cecil Beaton introduced her to Salvador Dali who painted her. That portrait is owned by Queen Elizabeth. She's worked with every major photographer in the world including filmmakers Martin Scorcese and Woody Allen. Her

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The oldest (and best) supermodel in the world.

remarkable career has been the subject of a documentary, Carmen: A Life in Fashion. Produced by the University of the Arts in London, which awarded her an honorary doctorate, the movie was accompanied by an exhibition which showcased Carmen’s many magazine covers as well as other highlights taken from her personal archives. Most recently, she can be seen in HBO’s documentary About Face, which premiered at the Sundance Film Festival and aired in 2012. I bow down to her greatness and her inspiring endurance. Thanks for introducing us dear Peter Martino!

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Michael Caputo celebrated his Gemini birthday on May 30.

Other Gemini friends celebrating their birthdays in style include Jim Smith, Maria Pappas, Michael Caputo, Mamie Walton (who just

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Birthday boy Jim Smith with partner Greg Hyder.

turned 92!), Leslie Zentner, Sheryl Dyer, Diane Hollingsworth and I'm sure a gazillion more. If you're a Gemini, you're outgoing, intelligent, impulsive, adaptable, social, talkative, indecisive and, if you're they're partner, you'll never be bored. Happy Birthday to ALL!

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Such wonderful friends…

And on a personal birthday note, my birthday this year, despite the climate, was one of the best ever thanks to a group of friends who came together to surprise me. It was unbelievably moving and I couldn't IMG_8587 stop the (happy) tears as they sang "happy birthday" beneath my balcony. It was so heart-warming to know that caring friends were willing to give of their time to do something like this (and in the rain at that!). Beautiful friends included planners Tissy Eggleston (who sang from afar) and Paul Iacono, along with Judy and Howard Tullman, Kathy Piccone, Mark Olley, Bonnie and Jim Spurlock, Julia Jacobs, Jennifer and Joaquin Brieva, Nikki Friar, Lori Allen and Rhonda Sanderson (with Mork). I will never forget it and will be forever grateful. Love and thanks to ALL!

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Screen-Shot-2018-05-31-at-10.12.05-AMGreat news for the Service Club of Chicago which has been providing for those less fortunate since 1890. This year, even Covid couldn't take away their enthusiasm as they approved grant requests through their Philanthropic Grant Program for 38 local nonprofits amounting to $441,903.43! Chairs Paula Borg, Kimberly Gleeson, Marcia Northrup LaBarge and Cheri Lawrence (along with their committee), "met with" the applicants through ZOOM meetings. SC president Sherrill Bodine said, "The Service Club has survived the 1918 Spanish Flu

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The Spring Luncheon will now be held virtually on September 3.

pandemic, the 1929 Crash, two World Wars and much more, Then, as now, we carry on with our mission." Mark your calendars for the organization's Day on the Terrace. This popular event is normally a sell-out at the Peninsula but, this year, like so many others, it will be a virtual event on Monday, August 3 from 11 am to 12:30 pm. Planning is in progress by the DOT committee and chairs Tracey Tarantino, Jean Antoniou, Sharyl Mackey and Jamie Thorsen. The Sept. 3 Spring Luncheon (aka Hat Luncheon) will also be held virtually Thursday, Sept. 3 (co-

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chairs Cathy Bartholomay, Annette Findling and Michelle Baker). The SC Gala, tentatively scheduled (virtually) for Friday, November 6, is being planned by chairs Tina Weller, Mary Lasky, Mary Claire Moll and Kristine Kinder. And, if we can't host a real gala by the time the Christmas Luncheon rolls around on Wednesday, December 2, just shoot me. (This luncheon is chaired by Pat Maxwell, Sherry Lea Holson, Karen Peters and Kathy Piccone.) (Check the SC website here for all the details)

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Leah Chavie opens in Florida!

Hear ye! Hear ye! The one and only Leah Chavie, is opening up a SECOND location of her popular skincare boutique in picturesque Anna Maria Island (near IMG_6209Sarasota and Longboat Key) in a spectacular historic home, footsteps off the beach! OMG! She will open in early July at 115 3rd St., Bradenton Beach South, and offer her signature skin care services and products as well as boutique and specialty items. The space will also be perfect for bridal parties, yoga, meditation, retreats and seminars. Huge congrats Leah! You will be as popular there as you are here! (Check out her website here!)

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Pappas_ChicagoMag-page-001Kudos to Maria Pappas who was recently spotlighted in Chicago Magazine's popular Backroom article written by Mike Thomas. Maria talks about managing an $18 billion operation (and I can't balance my checkbook) and how she grew up in Wheeling, West Virginia. It's a fascinating read into a life very well lived.

Everybody's favorite comedian and the "Man who Made Sinatra Laugh", Tom Dreesen, hosted a virtual event earlier this month. He reminisced about the times he and Sinatra spent together including some memorable times

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Tom Dreesen during his virtual event.

drinking Jack Daniels with Gregory Peck and Kirk Douglas. He said Sinatra was nocturnal and always tipped $100 (but never showed off, he would slip the money quietly to the recipients). When asked if Sinatra

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Tom Dreesen with Sinatra.

had a sense of humor, Dreesen said, "He was able to laugh at himself." Frank adored Sammy Davis Jr. and once traveled to Harlem to see his show. He asked Sammy to come see him in return but, when Davis arrived at the venue, he wasn't allowed in. Frank tore his contract up over it. He was very, very loyal to his friends. At Sinatra's funeral, Dreesen, Roger Moore and Gregory Peck eulogized him. Watch for Tom's book, "Still Standing" coming soon!

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Csm_BP_WebBanner_SaveTheDate_2020_BP_SavetheDate_Left_b48d15545fI was on a wonderful ZOOM meeting with PAWS Chicago Development Board members recently. They are busy trying to plan events to make up for the ones lost due to Covid. And even though times have been tough, they proudly reported 544 virtual adoptions with 1,655 total adoptions to date! AND, they've received over 9,000 105223logo1490642234 adoption inquiries! In other PAWS news, the org has started a new temporary foster program (up to 60 days) for pet owners who are temporarily unable to care for their pets, including those recovering from the virus as well as front -line healthcare and other essential workers. Pets will be returned when the owners can get

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Carolyn, 1 year-old, is looking for her forever home.

back on their feet. During this time, PAWS Chicago vans have delivered over 6,300 pounds of pet food to 1,000 pets since March. The PAWS Beach Party will now be a virtual event taking place on Thursday, July 23 at 7 pm. The event will feature pet-themed beach party fun (think a doggie bikini contest!), Second City comedians and more! The organization's 5K Walk/Run will take place on Saturday, October 31 (this is a date change). (Click here for all the details)

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Wags 2 WishesA smaller animal rescue in Plainfield, Illinois, can also use some help, Wags 2 Wishes Animal Rescue. Their motto is "Big or small, we save them all!" They lost their 3 biggest fundraisers due to the virus that added up to about $50,000 in funding. My friend Richard Urban says, "Our events have all been canceled but the rescue animals haven't canceled their need for us." On average, Wags saves about 450 to 500 animals a year. A fundraising page has been created here.

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Wings_Purple_tie_ball_Save_the_date_2020-FINALThe Purple Tie Ball, benefiting WINGS Program (a nonprofit that supports families facing domestic violence), will take place on Saturday, October 3. Further details are still being ironed out by co-chairs Melissa Canning and Debby Jackson. Check the website here for upcoming details.

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mugs! LOL!! A friend sent me a link for these mugs from my Feb. 1980 and Feb. 1979 covers. To say I was surprised is an understatement. Don't look for them on Amazon though, I bought them all. (Just kidding, here's the links, https://amzn.to/2MwCGsA and https://amzn.to/3gRkisa ).

1 INVITEThe date for the International Playboy Bunny Reunion Party has been changed to August 13-16 in Chicago. Lots of fun outings planned for this gathering that is limited to former Bunnies and employees of Playboy. For more info, email ThePlayboyBunnyReunion@gmail.com. Hope to see you there!  

And the beat goes on! Don't miss Ravinia Festival's (virtual) Living Ravinia Lawn Party Room Lawn Party with the one and only Kristin Chenoweth on Saturday, June 27 at 8 pm! The event will benefit Ravinia's Reach+Teach+Play programs which reach over 85,000 annually. (Click here for more details and, to donate, please click here)

MED_SOCIAL-now-open_LARGE-PHONE-NUMBERMy favorite spot for eye care needs, MyEyeDr., is now OPEN for appointments. They aren't accepting walk-ins yet as they're following social distancing protocols for the safety of patients and associates. For an appointment, please call 866.693.9336 or visit myeyedr.com

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Drive ins might be making a comeback!

I guess in every pandemic, there is a silver lining. And, for me, it was hearing that drive-in movie theaters might be making a comeback! I remember with fondness the one near my home in Dupo, Illinois. It was in the neighboring town of Cahokia. Mind you, it wasn't all sunbeams and unicorns, it was really a sort of rough and tumble kind of place, but I still enjoyed the experience the few times we visited. I think in hindsight, I've romanticized it a bit more than warranted but I still have fond memories. So, it was with great glee that I read the news (in this Sun-Times article by Darel Jevens) that a group called the Bucket Listers are planning a venue close to

McHenry Drive-In Theater

McHenry Drive-In Theater is packing them in!

downtown (location, as of yet, is undisclosed). The group produces social media event guides in Chicago and eight other North American cities, and says it has set up an outdoor movie venue that will fit 300 cars a night and show films six nights a week this summer! And while no films have been announced, Bucket Listers is accepting email votes on future titles at drivein@bucketlisters.com and promises “classic, nostalgic, American films that will transport you back in time,” citing “Back to the Future,” “The Sandlot,” “E.T.,” Il_794xN.2054167097_mce3“Grease” and “When Harry Met Sally” as examples. Ticket prices will begin at $40 per car. Details on tickets will be sent to people who RSVP at DriveInSummer.com. Bucket Listers say more than 60,000 people already are on the wait list for the drive-in plans in its various cities. While conventional indoor movie houses have been closed since mid-March due to Covid, outdoor drive-in theaters have been given the go-ahead to operate with some adjustments in their protocols. Among those re-opening in our area in recent weeks have been the McHenry Outdoor Theater in McHenry and the Route 34 Drive-in in Earlville. Yippee! Grab the popcorn!

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Tasting StarsFor the past 10 years, funds from the "Tasting Stars" event has benefited A Silver Lining Foundation's "Buy A Mom A Mammogram" program. This year, with Covid cancelling so many live events, the fundraiser will go virtual on Saturday, June 13. The live-streamed event, hosted by Paul Lisnek (of WGN-TV), will be on YouTube LIVE at 7 pm. Many women with breast screenings scheduled, have been forced to cancel because, with job loss or a furlough, comes a loss of insurance. Women are turning to ASLF in larger numbers for help as no one in need of breast health help is ever turned down and all services are free. Tickets are not required, but those who REGISTER IN ADVANCE will be entered into a drawing for a door prize – a package of premium Moet Hennessy bubbly and liquor!  For more information, visit http://www.tastingstars.org/ or email champagne@tastingstars.org.

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Nan Giordano DayNan Giordano Day will be celebrated virtually via a Zoom dance class on Tuesday, June 9th at 2pm. Be a  part of the celebration along with famed choreographer Ray Leeper and the fabulous Giordano Dance Chicago dancers. Nan Giordano Day was initiated by former Mayor Rahm Emanuel in recognition of her “fierce, innovative, and tenacious” contributions to GDC and the dance world!"  To register, a $15 fee, please click here!

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CurrentI hope you can check out Instagram LIVE on Wednesday, June 10, when Tracey Tarantino DiBuono (ZZAZZ Productions) and I try it out for the first time. We'll be discussing everything under the sun–style, fashion, nonprofits and, of course, answering your questions! It will be fun and light-hearted! Hope to "see" you there! Tracey is hosting (@traceytdibuono) and I'll be guesting! (Pray for us)

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At Tufano's with Michael Kutza and Chuck (Joey DiBuono in center).

It's been so encouraging to see people out on the streets again enjoying dinners, albeit socially distanced ones. As soon as the stay-at-home order was lifted, we enjoyed a great dinner at Tufano's Vernon Park Tap

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Tufano's charming patio with our darling server Michelle.

(1073 W. Vernon Park Place, 312.733.3393). It was like seeing the sun after a long, hard winter. Owner Joey DiBuono greeted everyone graciously wearing chic orange gloves and, of course, the requisite face mask. But, even with the mask, you couldn't miss the twinkle in his eyes as he saw every table on his beautiful patio fill up. Here's to a lot more summertime fun for all of us.

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Mr. Rogers and Officer Clemmons

Mr. Rogers with Officer Clemmons.

Does anyone remember Mr. Rogers? In 1969, when African-American citizens in the US were not permitted to swim in community pools alongside whites, Fred Rogers brought a Black police officer to his TV show and invited him to cool his feet with him in a small, wading pool. Mr. Rogers then helped Officer Clemmons dry his feet. Mr. Rogers never openly preached on his show, despite being an ordained Presbyterian minister yet he preached volumes in this simple act of love. In a world where you can be anything, be a Mr. Rogers. Wish there were more like him….

Be kind to one another….

Love, as always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. Something to make you smile…..

 

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