Plus: Tasting Stars with A Silver Lining; Misericordia's 60th Family Association Benefit raises BIG bucks; Dressing Barbie; Lake Forest Showhouse & Gardens; Doorstep Divas bring the party to YOU!; A look back and forward at Service Club's Day on the Terrace fashion show; RefuSHE's Fashion Challenge 2020; Chicago House helps "Raise Your Voices"; Carpool Concerts' exciting outdoor schedule; IG LIVE with Tracey!; Virtual Chefs Night; American Heart Association's Heart Ball; Lana's Largesse; NOBU Hotel Chicago opens in West Loop; The very latest in Mask-Wear by Elda; Dance for Life 2020; Life, Laughter, Happiness with Playmate Barbara Moore; THIS & THAT; Fun videos and so much MORE!
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this new normal will look like and it's unnerving for a control freak like me. I don't know how comfortable people will be in larger crowds so where will that leave nonprofits and their critical fundraisers? Virgil Abloh, Off-White founder and Louis Vuitton men's artistic director, spoke about the pandemic and our changing world from a fashion point of view. "I'm inspired that fashion can mean something different out of the end of this. It doesn't feel like it did a year ago. Today it seems useless, in a way: a
new handbag, a pair of shoes. Getting groceries seems more important than buying a new garment that I already have 30 of in a closet," he said. I tend to
agree. Buying more stuff won't be the answer for me either. Lots of my friends are focusing more on wellness with meditation (hello Michelle Alegria!) and yoga. The quarantine cooking group seems to be going strong with some fabulous dishes and recipes being shared there (Paul Iacono, Greg Hyder, Beth Heller, Mark Olley and Thomas O'Gorman being standouts). With the future of the newspaper industry in question, I'm focusing more on survival. Who knows what's going to happen
there? I'm so blessed to have this blog where I can still shine a spotlight on all the good things happening around town. Other friends are planning their exit strategies although I'm not sure where someone can hide from all of this. I think hunkering down with the survival mentality of a pioneer might be the way to go. I'm over hoarding food and supplies but sort of wish I had an underground bunker ready and waiting. I find myself needing to connect more with my good friends. Part of this is missing my normal socializing but another part is
just needing to be around the ones I love. All of this uncertainty and chaos makes me yearn for the normalcy of the old days back in my small
hometown of Dupo, Illinois. At the time, I felt so stifled and bored–I couldn't wait to get out and explore the world. Now, I wish I could go back home and relive it all again–helping Mary and Jim Johnson in their huge garden (that they shared with their small community); ordering snow cones from Dairyland and dancing to the songs on the jukebox; dancing
at Teen Town with my high school girlfriends in skintight jeans; enjoying the seedy drive-in in Cahokia; getting excited about shopping with my Mom at J.C. Penney's in South County; the smell of Toni York's mom's beauty shop where my Mom and all her friends went; weekends at my Dad's house in E. St. Louis where my stepmother Blanche tried to teach me to cook; buying peaches, tomatoes and corn at Eckert's farm stand in Columbia; going to church at Flat Creek Baptist Church and experiencing such joy; buying snuff for Mama Mary Johnson at the little confectionery on the corner in East Carondelet; driving to the levy to see how high the flood waters were from the Mississippi River; the fabulous donuts at the Phillip's 66 station in
town; dinner at Greenfield's in Columbia with the family; high school picnics with Mary's fried chicken in the Chain O' Lakes park; Dad and Jim both trying to teach me how to live in the world; Mom trying to get me to not worry so much…..All of these memories that are the foundation of our lives are what's important to me now. That's what I'm going to try to focus on….Hope you have something similar to help you put everything in perspective.
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Congrats to Misericordia Heart of Mercy on its first virtual fundraiser held on Saturday, June 20 that raised a whopping $1,405,000! This year marked the 60th Misericordia Family Association Benefit which still turned out to be very clever, heartwarming and fulfilling in terms of dollars raised, albeit virtually. The event had been planned and coordinated by Jim Capraro with support from the benefit committee and staff in less than 90 days! The 90 minute event, with lots of cool moving parts, opened with longtime supporter Lou Manfredini (WGN-TV home repair expert) welcoming guests. The "virtual cocktail session" from 6-7 pm, featured pianists Charlie Carpenter and Holly Jennings (co-chair) and
guitarist Jim Splithoff, who performed as silent auction items scrolled across the 
screen. The program portion of the event opened cleverly with the Star Wars theme followed by a video flyover of the U.S. Navy Blue Angels in a salute to Misericordia's essential workers. Father Jack Clair offered a blessing before
a musical salute to Sister Rosemary Connelly (Misericordia's fabulous and much loved executive director for over 50 years) was performed in the Highland Cathedral with the Shannon Rovers and organist Charlie Carpenter. (All appropriately socially distanced). Supporters appearing
in the video included Caroline Kennedy, Mike Ditka, Joe Maddon, Mayor Lori Lightfoot, co-chairs Holly Jennings and Beth Merlo (with their families), Laurie and Bill McCarthy (MFA chairs), New York Giants Saquon Barkley and Grant Haley and more. Lois Gates (assistant executive director in charge of development) and Mary Pat O'Brien (director and CFO) joined auctioneer Greg
"G-Man" Dellinger during the fundraising portion of the event. Sister Rosemary said, "Tonight is a celebration of our loving devotion to all our children and adults who call Misericordia home. We have the best family organization in the country. The reason Misericordia is the beautiful home it is today is because we are a community of dreamers. We believe that, not only do our residents have a right to life, but to one worth living. And, although our residents can't create a good life for themselves, once it is theirs, they
become the gift-givers. Our residents are being cared for tenderly and lovingly and every day our staff creatively challenges them to remain engaged in personal growth, each to the best of their abilities." To date, Misericordia cares for over 600 children and adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities with a staff of 1,000+ across a 31-acre campus, with a new drive-by Misericordia Hearts & Flour Bakery being planned now.
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I'm a big fan of Dr. Sandy Goldberg and her wonderful A Silver Lining Foundation that provides breast health support for those in need. So, when I heard that the 18th annual Tasting Stars event, which supports ASLF, was going to be virtual, I was at my computer and ready on Saturday, June 13 at 7pm. Paul Lisnek (of WGN-TV) emceed this virtual champagne event that would normally have been held at the DIRTT Environmental Solutions space (325 N. Wells) with magnificent views of the Loop and river. I'm always curious to see how the various nonprofits are able to pivot to virtual for the first time and this one, despite a few technical difficulties, went off without a hitch and was very informative and entertaining. Viewers tuned into YouTube Live for the hour long event
that opened with jazz pianist Anthony Pocetti (who performed beautiful standards intermittently throughout the presentation). Viewers were able to purchase "French Food Boxes" from the Entertaining Company (a longtime supporter) before the event in keeping
with the event's French theme. Lisnek introduced a video explaining ASLF's impact, how it came to be and the important work it's doing in the community. The video opened with one of the most dynamic singers I know, Opal Staples (of the famed Staples gospel family). Her singing always brings me to tears and this time was no exception. Her rendition of "Rise Up" is mind blowing (see video here). WGN-TV's
Micah Materre was also a contributor and spoke about the people the organization serves. Dr. Sandy spoke passionately about her nonprofit that was born in 2002 after she was 
provides research and outreach), 2) Buy A Mom A Mammogram (ASLF now funds all breast health testing, screenings through biopsies for under-insured, un-insured and undocumented women and men). 3) The Evelyn 
Goldberg Mammography Center (renamed at UI Health in honor of Sandy's late mother) 4) Keep aBreast (a program designed specifically for young people) and 5) Survive to Thrive (a support program for those already diagnosed). Dr. Sandy said, "The women and men we deal with at A Silver Lining Foundation feel like they don't matter. They feel like nobody cares and that they're alone in the world. This is NOT the premise on which this foundation is based. We turn NO ONE away! We need you to RISE UP and help us make sure no one goes unrecognized. We feel everyone deserves a chance to survive." Tasting Stars co-founder 
over $600,000 to the cause since its founding 18 years ago. The event closed with Dr. Sandy awarding the annual Evelyn Goldberg Memorial Award to the "Tasting Stars
Family." In 2019, ASLF stats showed: 15 partner hospitals; 1,487 women served; 227 zip codes served; 1,965 tests funded with 18 diagnoses discovered. ASLF's signature fundraiser, A Sterling Event, will be held on Saturday, October 3. The virtual event closed with a champagne toast and the announcement that the event has raised over $60,000! (And, as Dr. Sandy added, "with no charging for tickets and no silent and live auctions!")
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RefuSHE hosted its first virtual Fashion Challenge on June 19, in celebration of World Refugee Day, with seven talented, emerging designers: Amy Fenderson, Concetta Cipriano, Fraley Le, Lagi Nadeau, Kate VanAsten, Taylor Graves and Xochil Herrera Scheer. The concept this year consisted of a virtual fashion show inspired by Project Runway with designers showing their looks using fabrics and materials sourced from RefuSHE's Artisan Collective, a program that fosters leadership and business skills through the production of hand-dyed fabrics and scarves that are created by girls and women in the organization. The nonprofit was co-founded by Anne Sweeney and Talyn Good in East Africa to protect and support separated and orphaned girls and young women who often fell through the gaps of protection,
becoming invisible and vulnerable. They are the first and only organization dedicated to refugee girls in Kenya. The virtual event included remarks from Tamasha Rimba, Associate Director of 
Case management and Safe House in Kenya. She spoke about the wide range of services the org provides to every girl who comes into the organization with the priority being the provision of basic needs–access to food, clothing, water, shelter and medication. She said, "Most of our girls are survivors of war and sexual-based gender based violence and also young mothers." Tamasha shared the story of a young 15-year-old
girl who had been raped and was "heavily pregnant and
malnourished." She flourished under RefuSHE nurturing and programming. Geoffrey Thige, executive director, took viewers on a virtual journey to Kenya where they saw the campus through the eyes of the women there. He said, "There are more than 18 million displaced people in Sub Saharan West Africa and over half are under the age of 18." Before the runway show, final (powerful)
comments were delivered by RefuSHE alumna Chantale Zuzi who told a harrowing story of how she survived as an albino woman in the Democratic Republic of Congo. Her mother was encouraged to abort her but she refused. Chantale said albino children were used for sacrificial purposes there and not figured viable in this society. She's now living and thriving in the U.S. while getting an education that she hopes to use to help her people. Judges for the runway show included Cheryle Jackson (CEO of Grit + Grace), Kahindo Mateene (founder/designer of KAHINDO), Monica Singh
(designer and UN Women Youth Ambassador) and Travis Paul Martin (executive director of PR at Skoog). The Fashion Challenge event celebrated the power of philanthropy and fashion's ability to tell a story through art and the stories were colorful, joyful, hopeful and amazing. Each designer was paired with a RefuSHE participant who served as their muses. Viewers voted for their favorite designers donating $20 per vote with designer Concetta Cipriano taking away the win for this year's Challenge with glam model Eleanor Simon. The event raised $124,037 with 100% of proceeds going towards RefuSHE's transformational model of care for young refugee women, girls, and their children in East Africa and around the world. To learn more abut this remarkable nonprofit, click here and see all of the beautiful designs in photo below.
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With all of my nonprofit fundraisers temporarily suspended, I decided to take a look back at some of the more popular events. One of my favorites is the Service Club of Chicago's "Day on the Terrace" fashion show. It's typically hosted the first Monday in
August at the Peninsula. It's such an exciting show because so many of our local men and women (and members) participate–it's sort of like a social family reunion. This year, the event will be virtual on the same date, Monday, August 3 (11 am to 12:30 pm). Join the watch party and enjoy a fabulous production created by co-chairs Jean Antoniou, Tracey Tarantino DiBuono, Sharyl Mackey and Jamie Thorsen in collaboration with BlackOak Technical Productions! The ticket price, $100, will include a Look Book that will be mailed out prior to the show (buy a page and advertise your
business, salute your friends, etc.) (Fab illustration by Elda De la Rosa) (DOT info here! ) It won't be like being in the same room with friends but it's great that they're soldiering on, as the SC has done for the last 130 years! The SC is unique because of the fact that 100% of the funds raised goes directly to charity. This year, its Philanthropic Grant Program awarded over $440,000 to 38 nonprofits. The organization
does not give the grantees a check. Instead, they assist, improve and enlarge upon agency programs. The Albany Park Community Center requested (and received) a used van. The Apparel Industry Foundation received laptops and lockers and The Council for Jewish Elderly received security cameras. The grants are awarded across a variety of deserving nonprofits and helps recipients expand facilities, improve equipment and initiate new programs which
will better serve a large number of people in need. I served on the Philanthropic Committee one year and it was life changing. To see the needs that are so great and to know that you've helped somehow in a small or large way is rewarding beyond comprehension. I applaud all the members of this remarkable organization and can't wait till we can all be together again, celebrating another successful event. In the meantime, I hope you enjoy these photos from past events. Also, mark your calendars for another SC event, "A Very Patriotic Zoom Cocktail Party" on Thursday, July 2 in collaboration with Steak 48! Tickets are $30 and can be purchased by calling 312.220.9600.
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The Pullman Estate is set to open as The Lake Forest Showhouse & Gardens on Saturday, July 11, through Sunday, August 9. The 23-room, 11,000-square-foot, turn-of-the-century east Lake Forest estate has been transformed by over 30 interior and landscape designers. Many of the items at the Showhouse & Gardens will be for sale too! A price list
of items for sale from furnishings to accessories will be made available in each designer space with 15% of the sale benefiting Infant Welfare Society of Chicago. Following State safety guidelines, a restricted number of tickets will be sold per day,
divided by morning and afternoon sessions, Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m., Saturday and Sundays from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Tickets for $40 must be purchased in advance here. The home benefits the Angel Harvey Family Health Center of the Infant Welfare Society of Chicago, which is celebrating more than 108 years of providing healthcare to Chicago's medically under-served. The colonial-style home was originally designed by Frost & Granger in 1906 and
completely renovated by architect Stanley Anderson in the late 1920s for investment banker William Allan Pinkerton Pullman (1901-1988), the grand-nephew of George M. Pullman, the developer and 
manufacturer of Pullman cars. An avid gardener and co-founder of the Chicago Botanic Garden, William A.P. Pullman worked with New York landscape architect Annette Hoyt in 1937 to create world class gardens on the property. Some of the original plantings still exist – from a Ginkgo tree of epic proportion to rare Chinese maples and Japanese lilacs, as well as the original boxwood hedges – the same ones that inspired others to plant "Pullman boxwood" in formal gardens. Hope to see you there!
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Talk about a cool pivot! Congrats to the newly created Doorstep Divas Chicago and its stars Molly Callinan and Caitlin Simone Buffa, for turning lemons into lemonade! With their amazing voices and effervescent personalities these two renowned singers (Molly is a
lead singer in Gary Sinise's Lt. Dan Band playing at military bases for the troops as well as fronting the Chicago-based all girl cover band Catfight and Caitlin is a band leader and vocalist at Ken Arlen Music Productions) have figured out a way to survive the lack
of gigs due to the pandemic by forming their very own, social-distancing entertainment venture. The ladies will perform their hearts out at your home for any occasion. Their repertoire is two pages of single-spaced songs that include ballads (Norah Jones "Come Away With Me," etc.); Elvis; Beatles; Prince; disco (Donna Summer's "Bad Girls," etc.); Motown/R&B (Chaka Khan's "Ain't Nobody", etc.); Contemporary Rock, Swing/Standards and SO MUCH MORE! These ladies do it ALL! So, if you want to spice up a night on your lawn, check out their website here and book 'em! And see them in action here!
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Chicago House & Social Services replaced its scheduled virtual Pride Variety Show with an event titled Raise Your Voice in honor of Black Lives Matter. The one hour virtual experience was designed to affirm Black lives through the power of storytelling, spoken word and song. The event was
co-hosted in collaboration with Chicago House, Affinity Community Services, Brave Space Alliance and the Youth Empowerment Performance Project. Hosted by Chicago House trustee Kelly Saulsberry, the event featured appearances by Barbara McBee, Jakari Earl, Zola Makeda, the Honorable Angelina Nordstrom, Osiris Khepera, Cruel Valentine and Shane Calvin. Lucy Stoole, award-winning drag queen and advocate for gender non-conforming people, served as the
event's emcee. Lucy said, "Black voices need to be heard, black people need to be seen and our talents need to be celebrated
across the world, here on the eve of Juneteenth." Poet Zola Makeda delivered a powerful poem titled "Good Hope", about the disappointment, hope and hardships she's faced growing up as transgender and Black. To learn more about Chicago House & Social Services, click here. Founded in 1985, Chicago House is a social service organization that supports individuals impacted by HIV/AIDS and the broader LGBTQ+ community with housing, health, and employment support.
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Special thanks to photographer Tim Klein for including me in 
his recent project, the "pandemic portfolio." He plans on photographing Chicago "notables during this unprecedented time in history." I've been lucky to have worked with him in the past for a campaign for Burberry. I can't wait to share his photos! Check out his website here!
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Lake County Fairgrounds and Carpool Concerts have teamed up to make your summer extra special! Imagine a grandstand stage, stellar acoustics, big name local cover bands and cars of every make and model and you'll have a very cool live music concert you'll never forget, the summer drive-in Carpool Concert Tour 2020 (in Grayslake, Illinois). Fans can enjoy live music while staying safe and socially distant in their cars. The line-up includes Sixteen Candles Band, Boys Band Review, Trippin' Billies, Infinity, American English, Southern Accents and more! The 75 minute shows are at 4 pm and 7 pm daily from Thursday, June 25 through Sunday, June 28! Check out all the details here!
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Boy, the kid in me is so excited for this virtual fundraiser hosted by the Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum! "Dressing Barbie" will feature a Zoom presentation by Carol Spencer, the fashion designer who "dressed Barbie" at Mattel from 
1963 until 1998! This virtual event will also include a super fun "Barbie Box" that will feature a signed and personalized "Dressing Barbie" book; the exclusive Zoom link; a Barbie collector card; a mini Barbie Dream House–all the accoutrements you will need to have a fun Barbie-themed Zoom presentation on the history of Barbie's fashion (includes adult and kid friendly contents)!–FOR $100! The event will take place on Saturday, Aug. 15 at 11 am (CST)! To RSVP, please click here!
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Special thanks to Tracey Tarantino DiBuono for including me in her/our first INSTA LIVE! I think we nailed it! She hosted on her @ZZAZZProductions page and I guested. We had a blast talking about anything and everything–how nonprofits are faring, makeup and fashion tips, my Playboy years and so much more! We've had many requests for a do-over so watch out world, we might be BAAACCKKK!!! Lol! (Follow Tracey on Insta at @ZZAZZProductions and me (please) @CandidCandace!) And watch our segment here!
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Nobu Hospitality, the globally established lifestyle brand founded by Chef Nobu Matsuhisa, Robert De Niro and Meir Tepe, announces the preview and opening of Nobu Hotel Chicago in the West Loop (155 N. Peoria) on July 1st. Spanning 12,000 sq. ft., Nobu Hotel Chicago will feature 115 rooms, two private dining rooms, 3,000 sq. ft. of flexible event space – including The Rooftop at Nobu Hotel Chicago and first class amenities. Guests can expect the company’s 
signature aesthetic – Japanese influence with an ultra-modern design to create a zen oasis in the heart of the city. Trevor Horwell, CEO of Nobu Hospitality commented, "We are so pleased to be introducing our first Nobu Hotel in the Midwest US. Chicago is a world-class mecca of dining and entertainment and we are very proud to provide a new and exciting destination for the local community and visitors." Now accepting reservations here: Nobu Hotel Chicago. (The phase two opening will occur at a later date which will mark the opening of Nobu restaurant and bar with patio dining.)
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The American Heart Association will host a virtual Heart Ball on Thursday, June 25 from 7-8 pm. The event will be emceed by Windy City Live's Val Warner and chaired by Linda Imonti. The 2020 Heart of Gold Award recipient will be Pat Magoon, retiring CEO of Ann and Robert H. Lurie Children's Hospital of Chicago. The auction (that goes online June 23) and donation portion of the evening will be expertly handled by Greg "G-Man" Dellinger. To register, click here!
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Kudos to Lana Bramlette, fashionable founder of Lana Jewelry, who turned her Columbia education and passion for fine jewelry into a powerhouse brand. Eighteen years ago, she brought gold back into the spotlight by creating
her signature gold hoops worn by A-listers including Michelle Obama, Jennifer Lopez, Beyoncé, Madonna and Rihanna. Fast forward to today, Lana gives back to the institution that helped shape her career. In the early 2000s, she founded the Chicago Fashion Foundation with her husband Rob. The two then enlisted other Chicago-based powerhouse women and men in the fashion industry to be a part of this amazing organization. Through Bramlette’s efforts with the CFF, Columbia recently received a gift of more than $540,000 to propel future generations of designers and entrepreneurs in fashion! This gift will provide Columbia Fashion Studies students with scholarship funds and access to learning opportunities that otherwise would have been out of reach. Thank you Lana for your big, chic heart!
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Dance for Life 2020 is going virtual! Join them online from Aug. 10-14 and see works archived from past Dance for Life performances during the past 29 years! Pieces from the annual partner dance companies will be presented by Giordano Dance Chicago, Hubbard Street Dance Chicago, The Joffrey Ballet, Hanna Brictson and Dancers, Chicago Dance Crash, Ensemble Espanol Spanish Dance Theater, Joseph Holmes School of Dance, Luna Negra Dance Theater, Muntu Dance Theatre of Chicago, River North Dance Chicago, Thodos Dance Chicago, Visceral Dance Chicago, and a collaborative
work by Chicago Human Rhythm Project, Ensemble Espanol Spanish Dance Theater and Trinity Irish Dance Company. Then, on August 15, celebrate with a world premiere! This culminating event, commemorating the originally-planned date for the 29th anniversary of Dance for Life at the Auditorium Theatre, will feature a world premiere choreographed by Hanna Brictson in response to COVID-19 with dancers from throughout the Chicago area. This year's virtual event will benefit The Dancers' Fund, AIDS Foundation Chicago and Chicago Dancers United. (Details here!)
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Special thanks to my Playmate sister Barbara Moore (Miss December 1992) who interviewed me for her wonderful
podcast, Life, Laughter & Happiness." We went wayyyy back with our many memories of Hef, Playboy, the legendary parties and life at the Playboy Mansion. Barbara starred in "Baywatch" and has been an avid ballroom dancer like another beautiful PM friend of mine, Patti McGuire Connors. To listen, click here! (Thanks to her co-host/producer Jonathan Alexander for bringing me on!)
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Special thanks to all of our local designers who have made the 
pivot to mask-making! One of my favorite designs was created by Chicago's own Elda de la Rosa! Monogramming is the very latest in mask wear and one of these beauties can be yours for only $25! Contact Elda here!
That's it for this week. As always, stay safe, sane and civil. Call your friends, bake decadent desserts and read that book that's been in your drawer forever and I'll see you again soon!
Love, as always,
Candace
Candace@CandidCandace.com
P.S. Observations on life…..
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