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May 9, 2023 · 12:31 pm

SPRING IN CHICAGO: WHAT’S NOT TO LOVE?

Susanna Wickham, Alexis and Paula Fasseas and Suzanne LeMignot.

It was a night of tail-wagging fun for the nearly 700 guests at PAWS Chicago's 17^th annual Animal Magnetism party at Morgan Manufacturing. Partygoers, many with pups in tow, arrived at this popular venue in the West Loop to raise

Sylvia Perez and daughter Magali Blasdell.

funds for PAWS Chicago, the Midwest's largest no-kill shelter. Held on April 28, the event was hosted by PAWS Chicago's Professional Board and presented by Becker’s Healthcare. Co-chairs were Sarah Atkinson, Brittany Keegan and Paige Krueger. Many guests arrived with their dogs dressed in full party mode wearing frilly dresses, sunglasses,

Susanna Wickham, PAWS Chicago CEO, with adoptable dog.

tuxes and more to enjoy an evening that included a VIP dinner sponsored by Avli (Chef Nikolaos Kapernaros), dancing, a silent auction and raffle, and an award presentation. A lavish buffet was served by some of the city’s top chefs, including Cristiano Bassani (Gene & Georgetti), and so many others. Partygoers could have some fun posing on the

Avli (VIP dinner sponsor) Chef Nikolaos Kapernaros.

“glambot pup-parazzi” pedestal (hosted by PetCon and The Dog Agency) and get an illustration of their pets from well-known artists onsite. Canine guests relaxed in doggie daycare and the “pampered pooch” station and enjoyed custom buffets. Jake Hamilton (of Fox-32) and Fred (Kiss-FM) served as the evening’s emcees. CEO Susanna Wickham welcomed guests and announced the presentation of the adoptable dogs showcase and

Chuck Jordan, Chris Wickham and Gus!

the Animal Welfare Leadership Awards, a special recognition for members of the community who have gone above and beyond for animals in need. Susanna, along with co-founders Paula and Alexis Fasseas, presented the awards as the emcees shared the recipients’ remarkable stories. Suzanne LeMignot (CBS-2

Phil Brooks (aka CM Punk) was an honoree.

weekend morning anchor) was the first award recipient. She has been involved with PAWS Chicago since the very beginning, going door-to-door with Paula helping start the first humane education program in the Chicago Public School system. She would take her pit bull mix, Pixie, to school assemblies to show kids that dogs are not violent, as they might have previously learned from experiencing dog fights in their neighborhood. She now sits on PAWS Chicago’s Board of Directors

Emcees Jake Hamilton and Fred (KISS-FM).

and continues to help homeless dogs and cats each week through the PAWS Pet of the Week segment, which started in the 1990s, and still airs on CBS 2 to this day. The next award recipient, Phil Brooks, aka CM Punk (professional wrestler, actor, and author), adopted his first PAWS dog in 2015 with his

Co-chairs Paige Krueger and Sarah Atkinson.

wife AJ Mendez. Larry was a misfit dog with a scruffy look, tough underbite and a personality that required a special adopter willing to work through his challenges. In 2017, Phil brought national attention to the cause by choosing PAWS Chicago as his charity when he was a contestant on MTV’s “The Challenge: Champs vs. Pros, “ and in 2021, he partnered

Co-chair Brittany Keegan.

with PAWS to tell his story about the transformation possible once a misunderstood dog finds the right home. He and Larry became the face of the “Underdog to Wonderdog” campaign to bring much-needed awareness to forgotten dogs and inspire people to consider adopting an overlooked pet. Dr. Aaron Jackson, a

Dr. Aaron Johnson Dr. Paula Zdziarski-West Phil Brooks (CM Punk) Suzanne Le Mignot Eileen Johnson

Honorees Dr. Aaron Johnson, Dr. Paula Zdziarski-West, Phil Brooks (CM Punk), Suzanne Le Mignot, and Eileen Johnson.

veterinarian surgeon who focuses on orthopedic cases, was the next honoree. He was the very first Medical Director of MedVet and has performed more than 15,000 surgeries over the course of his career. He volunteers his time to perform these types of surgeries at the PAWS Medical Center, providing care for some of the most difficult cases that come through their doors. Dr. Jackson has also established an orthopedic program at PAWS, while mentoring future generations of surgeons to continue this important work. He advanced

Judy and Howard Tullman, longtime supporters/board members.

surgical care to animals that would never have had the

PAWS dog anyone?

opportunity to recover. The next award recipient was Dr. Paula Zdziarski-West, also a veterinary surgeon who has helped so many PAWS pets get their second chance at life. She finds surgery to be a rewarding specialty because she can literally fix problems, returning function to animals who would otherwise be disabled, or save an animal with a life-threatening illness or injury. Since starting her volunteer work in 2022, providing orthopedic surgeries to PAWS Chicago, Dr. West has performed and saved PAWS more than $60,000. Last, but not least, the final award recipient was

Cute partygoers.

Eileen Johnson, a PAWS volunteer since 2015. To date, she has put in nearly 3,800 hours. As a volunteer, Eileen has washed

Gene & Georgetti executive chef Cristiano Bassani.

thousands of dishes, done hundreds of loads of laundry, and of course, given love and enrichment to the dogs and cats. Over the last three years, she has driven over 36,000 miles traveling with the PAWS Chicago intake team, driving multiple trips to disaster areas to clear shelters, allowing lost animals an opportunity to be found by their owners, and saving thousands of those lives who were already up from adoption. Following the program, guests enjoyed dancing, dessert tasting stations, a glow bar and a photo booth. Since PAWS Chicago’s founding in 1998, over 76,000 pets have found forever homes. (pawschicago.org)

Stephanie Andre Melissa Canning Helan Kalantzis Lori Paris Shanna Nikolic

Glam partygoers Stephanie Andre, Melissa Canning (PAWS Board Development Board Chair), Helan Kalantzis, Lori Paris and Shanna Nikolic.

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Game show fun with Chicago White Sox players at the Beyond the Diamond fundraiser.

The Chicago White Sox hosted its signature fundraiser, Beyond the Diamond, presented by Peoples Gas and Wintrust, in Navy Pier’s Aon Grand Ballroom on April 19. Fans and friends of the organization came together for a gala evening of entertainment benefiting Chicago White Sox Charities (CWSC). White Sox players, coaches,

White Sox Charities ED Christine O'Reilly.

broadcasters and alumni attended the evening celebration to raise funds for youth baseball initiatives supported by CWSC. The evening began with an hour-long First Pitch Reception, presented by Modelo, followed by remarks from White Sox manager Pedro Grifol and White Sox Charities executive director Christine O’Reilly. Attendees enjoyed guest

ACE athlete Sir Jamison Jones.

appearances from fan-favorite White Sox stars and a Family Feud-style game show with players from the 2023 roster hosted by play-by-play broadcaster Jason Benetti. The game included the “Cease Family” – Dylan Cease, Andrew Vaughn, Andrew Benintendi, Gavin Sheets and Romy Gonzalez. And the “Giolito Family” – Lucas Giolito, Seby Zavala, Jimmy Lambert, Eloy

Young athletes in White Sox ACE initiatives.

Jimenez and Jake Burger. Additional highlights included a Q&A with athletes from the CWSC-supported White Sox Amateur City Elite (ACE) program and Team Teflon, a Black-owned travel youth softball program, and a conversation with White Sox ACE athlete Raised in Chicago’s Englewood neighborhood, catcher Sir Jamison Jones has been a member of the White Sox Amateur City Elite (ACE) program since 2017. The St. Rita High School junior is committed to Illinois State and has attended top MLB events, including the Breakthrough and Dream Series, Hank Aaron Invitational, MLB States Play and Area Code Team, where he was selected to compete by the White Sox scouting department. Jones had breakout performances at both the “A Dream Fulfilled” game at the MLB at Field of Dreams game in Dyersville, as well as the RBI Junior World Series, where he helped the organization win its fifth championship in Vero Beach, Fla. The gala concluded with attendees enjoying an Extra Inning Celebration, presented by NBC Sports Chicago. (whitesoxcharities.org)

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Nick Pullia Candace Jordan Greg Cameron (The Joffrey Ballet president- CEO- and Chuck Jordan. (Photo by Sean@PurplePhoto.com)

With Nick Pullia, Greg Cameron (The Joffrey Ballet president- CEO) and Chuck Jordan. (Photo by Sean@PurplePhoto.com)

Stormy skies and traffic jams didn’t keep The Joffrey Ballet’s supporters away from opening night of “The Little Mermaid.” In fact, it was a full house, filled with anticipation before the 2.5 hour performance of

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Victoria Jaiani as The Little Mermaid, Anais Bueno, Dylan Gutierrez and Stefan Goncalvez. (Photo by Cheryl Mann)

this hauntingly beautiful ballet that combined breathtaking dance with the heart-breaking story by Hans Christian Anderson. John Neumeier, longtime director and choreographer of the Hamburg Ballet, brought this story

Ken Norgan with choreographer John Neumeier.

to life through exuberant contemporary choreography, stark but effective scenery and unique costuming. And, although “The Little Mermaid” is probably better known from Disney’s 1989 animated version, do not expect any similarities. Neumeier’s production is more in keeping with the original dark fairytale from 1837. The ballet is

Young ballerina/fans before the performance.

the story of a mermaid who longs for love and desires to be human but, just as in life, we don't always get what we want. The Mermaid's story is one of pain and loss superbly performed by Victoria Jaiani, dancing the role of a lifetime. Her moves,

Artistic Director Ashley Wheater with Nichelle and William Mayberry.

mostly done while trailing voluminous material behind her as fins, was riveting to watch. She is as much a great actor as she is a superb dancer. This difficult performance calls on skills we’ve not seen before and that seem appropriately, almost inhuman. She completely inhabits the role of the Little Mermaid and

The Joffrey Ballet's Brian Smith with Pam Crutchfield and Dawn Stanislaw.

loses herself in the character before our very eyes. She’s onstage for nearly the entire ballet, demonstrating yet again, her extraordinary endurance and other-worldly capabilities. The musical

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Victoria Jaiani, in the role of a lifetime. (Photo by Cheryl Mann)

score, composed by Lera Auerbach and performed live by the Lyric Opera Orchestra, brought the production and the audience to another level, perfectly matching the intensity of what we see onstage. The addition of the theremin, an electronic instrument invented in 1928, depicts the Mermaid’s voice and her ethereal, mystical side. People may recognize the eerie sound of this

The Joffrey Ballet president/CEO Greg Cameron with Jean de St. Aubin.

instrument from sci-fi films of the 1950s. It is controlled without physical contact- the musician (thereminist) waves their hands near two antennas to create sounds associated with ominous situations, of which there were many throughout the performance. The entire cast was outstanding. Yoshihisa Arai, retiring at the end of the 2022-23 season, played the menacing Sea Witch and Dylan Guiterrez expertly performed the role of the Prince, also requiring as much acting skills as dance and succeeding wildly at both. A heart-warming tender moment occurred when the dancers were taking their many curtain calls. Jaiani’s 9-year-old son and husband, former Joffrey dancer Temur Suluashvili, both presented their shining star with flowers. The production was entrancing, unsettling and danced with skills beyond imagining. During intermission, VIP guests enjoyed mixing and mingling in the Graham Room. If you missed this production this time around, make sure to see it when it returns!

The Joffrey Ballet and Company.

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And in more The Joffrey News ! Join this amazing dance company for a weekend of surrealism and dance, celebrating President and CEO Greg Cameron on the occasion of his 10th anniversary with the organization. Unleash your imagination and unlock your subconscious at the Joffrey’s fantastical bash, "Sir Real." Expect to be mesmerized into an all-consuming surreal dreamland for the senses. With bizarre surprises and dazzling curiosities around every corner, dare to dress in your most avant-garde fashions and join the party, taking place in the Old Post Office on Friday, June 23. This event will support Joffrey for All initiatives.The Friday night gala will be followed by a free performance in Millennium Park on Sunday, June 25. The free public performances will take place in the heart of downtown Chicago in Pritzker Pavilion in Millennium Park. Created as a gift to all Chicagoans, and the first event of its kind, The Joffrey Ballet’s Joffrey for All Celebration will feature dance workshops on the lawn and performances by Joffrey Company Artists, the Joffrey Academy of Dance, and students from the Joffrey Community Engagement programs.

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Service Club Day on the Terrace co-chairs Tracey Tarantino DiBuono, Sharyl Mackey and Jean Antoniou.

Now that the Service Club of Chicago has its successful Spring (Hat) Luncheon under its belt (watch for complete coverage in next post), I want to share their next exciting event coming up Monday, August 7, at the Peninsula. Co-chaired by Jean Antoniou, Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and Sharyl Mackey, the event will feature a spectacular fashion show and luncheon. Top retailers and designers from around town will showcase their most eye-catching looks, that will be available for purchase, on the catwalk. This event always sells out so be sure to get your tickets when they become available here! (Returning exclusive hair stylist is the Charles Ifergan Salon– thank you Philippe!)

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Houndstooth ball host Elliott Bambrough with Heather Owen, One Tail at a Time executive director.

The 15^th annual Houndstooth Ball attracted more than 500 animal-loving supporters, many with their pups, to Morgan Manufacturing on March 18. Benefiting One Tail at a Time (OTAT), a no-kill animal rescue organization, the event celebrated 15 years of supporting ongoing and new

Partygoers and pup.

initiatives such as its ISO House, a quarantine location in Logan Square that creates a safe, transitional space for sick or injured dogs from Chicago shelters. During the lively evening, that celebrated a decade of lifesaving, partygoers enjoyed a whiskey tasting presented by Green Briar and made memories in a variety of animal-related photo ops. Professional doodlers created hand-drawn portraits of pets and an onsite SPAW helped them relax. The silent and live auctions featured over 100 items, including a unique OTAT “patchwork” quilt. The program was emceed by Elliott Bambrough (of Chicago’s Best), who was joined by Heather Owen, OTAT executive director. Bambrough spoke about being inspired by the dedication of the organization's volunteers and how well it functioned as a family. Owen thanked the crowd and sponsors and shared the nonprofit's ongoing success story. An all-vegan buffet was served and, on every table, were photos with short stories of OTAT's adoption successes. The event raised over $300,000 which will fund the rescue, rehabilitation and adoption of dogs, kittens, and bunnies in need. The funds will also help support adopters and grow community outreach, including humane education and assistance for disadvantaged and low-income families. Rescued animals are housed in both foster homes and at OTAT's Bucktown adoption center location. (Photos by Jeremy Lawson, onetail.org)

Pooped-out pup at Houndstooth Ball (those lil' shoes tho').

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2024 Guy Adkins Award recipient Roberta Duchak speaks at the event.

Porchlight Music Theatre’s annual signature fundraising event, Chicago Sings, returned with Chicago Sings Broadway Pop II, at the House of Blues Chicago recently. The production was directed by Porchlight’s Artistic

The company performs at Chicago Sing Broadway Pop II at the House of Blues.

Director Michael Weber and Producing Artistic Associate Frankie Leo Bennett with music direction by David Fiorello and choreography by Clayton Cross. The presentation of the 2023 Guy Adkins Award for Excellence in the Advancement of Music Theatre in Chicago went to Roberta Duchak. A Chicago cast of Porchlight favorites and students from Porchlight’s summer camps and classes delighting the audience with songs that have appeared on Broadway. The event raised over $175,000. ______________________________________________________________________

Chicago Lights Executive Director Stacy Jackson (l) and Fourth Presbyterian Church Pastor Shannon Kershner.

Chicago Lights held its annual Gala of Hope benefit at the Ritz-Carlton recently. The event attracted over 350 guests and is the organization’s biggest fundraiser. The night included an evening of dinner, dancing, live and silent

Gala Co-Chairs Pete Shannon (l) and Bill Patterson.

auctions, and so much more. Chicago Lights Executive Director Stacy Jackson welcomed guests before Shannon Kershner, pastor of Fourth Presbyterian Church, offered a blessing. The nonprofit was founded by the Fourth Presbyterian Church of Chicago, launching its tutoring program in 1964. Since its inception, the nonprofit has served more than 60,000 people. _______________________________________________________________________

DJ Casper and ABC-7 Samantha Chatman.

After School Matters celebrated its 3rd annual Sneaker Ball April 29 at the Chicago Sports Museum. More than

Adorable Sneaker Ball guests.

230 guests enjoyed performances and exhibitions by After School Matters teens, a live performance by DJ Casper—the creator of the famed Cha-Cha slide—as well as live music, food and drink, and more. The event raised over $175,000 for After School Matters fund which pays teens for their participation in their programs.

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"Chicago Chefs Cook" did it again! This time they came together to celebrate the much loved Ina Pinkney, "The Breakfast Queen of Chicago," on the occasion of her 80th birthday! The party was held at The Geraghty on April 26. The event featured tasting stations from more than 60 of the city’s most celebrated chefs and benefited the nonprofits Green City Market and Pilot Light. (Photo by George Burns)

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Big thanks to Rick Kogan for having me back on WGN Radio! We chatted for a whole hour about everything you can imagine! Please listen to the show, “The candid life of Candid Candace,” (LOL) here.

Speaking of shows, we are now on “Candid Candace: The Podcast” number TWO! As always, a big, big thanks to my steadfast co-host and producer, the one and only John St. Augustine! I’m so lucky to have this ultimate pro on my team as well as the amazing intro by Jenniffer Weigel, another a media legend. In this latest episode, I take you behind the scenes to all the best parties, share the events you need to put on your calendars and talk with one of my besties, August of 1982 Playboy Playmate, the fabulous Cathy St. George. We chat about our shared experiences, what we loved about Hugh Hefner, celebs we’ve met along the way, what life was really like at the Playboy Mansion and what Frank Sinatra shared with Cathy in confidence! John couldn’t help slipping in a little "Harry Caray" tribute on the side! Holy Cow! (Listen here!)

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2023 Annual Gala - Rob & Lara Kozak Adeline Kozak

Rob and Lara Kozak with Adeline Kozak.

The Ronald McDonald House Gala, we held at the Geraghty recently with over 650 guests. This year’s event featured the Kozak family whose lives were forever changed when their daughter Adeline, now three-years-old, was diagnosed with hypo-plastic left heart syndrome

RMHC-CNI 2023 Annual Gala - Molly Gilbride Jane & Scott Billish Holly & Kraig Buckendahl

Molly Gilbride, Jane and Scott Billish and Holly and Kraig Buckendahl.

at birth. The Gala offered a look into the Kozak family’s journey and how the Ronald McDonald House near Advocate Children’s Hospital allowed Adeline’s parents to stay just moments away from their daughter for over 200 nights while she recovered in the hospital. More than 650 guests were in attendance raising $1.3 million in critical funds to help connect thousands of families with sick children with high-quality medical care and resources. (Photos by Hilary Higgins/Ronald McDonald House Charities of Chicagoland and Northwest Indiana)

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Norman and Shirley Baugher.

On April 23, we celebrated the beautiful life of Shirley Baugher, also known as the Mayor of Old Town, at the Old Town Triangle Center. Chuck and I were lucky to know her and her artist husband Norman during the years that we

The late, great Shirley Baugher.

lived there. She was a force of nature and involved in all good deeds in the neighborhood. She was also a source for advice and inspiration if you were feeling low. She knew

this part of Chicago better than anyone else and was its biggest cheerleader. Her book, “Hidden History of Old Town” was/is a must-have in every home. She was an incredible cook, a graduate of Le Cordon Bleu, and upon her passing, had amassed over 2000 cookbooks. I loved her for her honesty, among many other reasons. You could always expect the truth from Shirley. She had a heart as big as all outdoors and she never knew a stranger. She was welcoming, funny, kind and wickedly smart. Chuck and I will always treasure our memories of her and Norman. But then, no one ever really dies. She will always live in our hearts.

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Amdur Productions gives artists, young and young-at-heart, the opportunity to showcase their original work across multiple platforms. This summer, they are inviting creative kids and teens this opportunity at the following festivals: Port Clinton Art Festival (Aug. 26-27); Deerfield Art Festival (June 3-4) and Bayshore Spring Makers Market (May 20-21). For only a $50 entry fee, kids can show and sell their works. Scholarships are also available on a need basis. (They are also looking for interns!) To enter and for more information, call 847-926-4300 or email info@amdurproductions.com

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Chicago Lighthouse 2023 FLAIR co-chairs Sheree Schimmer, Sherry Lea Fox and Sherrill Bodine.

It’s never too early to mark your calendars for a big event! On Friday, September 22, The Chicago Lighthouse will present FLAIR: An Eye on Fashion, its annual fashion show fundraiser at

Tracey Tarantino DiBuono–2023 FLAIR honoree.

the Ritz-Carlton. The afternoon event, celebrating a decade on the runway, will honor Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and feature fall looks from Chicago’s top designers and retailers. Returning co-chairs are Sherrill Bodine, Sherry Lea Holson and Sheree Schimmer. I will return as event host along with Tracey. I hope you can join us to help support the Lighthouse’s many programs for the blind, visually impaired, disabled and Veteran communities. (For info, click here!)

The Chicago Lighthouse 2023 FLAIR Planning Committee.

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CPLF Associate Board members.

After a three year-hiatus, the Chicago Public Library Foundation Associate Board brought back Night in the Stacks, a special party for library supporters, in Harold Washington Library Center’s iconic Winter Garden. The

The B Sisters, Adiat Baker and Iya Bakare.

event, which was held April 14, celebrated the Library’s 150th birthday and raised more than $125,000 for its programs. In celebration of this historic milestone, the Library transformed after dark with neon bright décor, dance floor, live music from DJ Rex Balcita, and an open bar. Nearly 400 attendees saw the Maker Lab’s 21st-century technologies in action, took a spin in a 360-photo booth, and joined the raffle for chances to win amazing prizes.

CPLF's Night in the Stacks 2023

“What a comeback for Night in the Stacks! We are so grateful to our dedicated Associate Board for creating an event that is unique, memorable and brings our community of Library supporters together,” says Brenda Langstraat Bui, President & CEO of the Chicago Public Library Foundation. Since 2014, Night in the Stacks has raised funds for free library programs such as homework help with Teacher in the Library, one-on-one digital literacy support lessons for adults, creative spaces for teens, preservation of Chicago’s history through archival collections, among many others. The evening’s Platinum Sponsors were BMO, For Good Advisory and In Memory of Barbara Lewis.

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Fleurs de Villes VOYAGE 2023 at The 900 Shops.

Fleurs de Villes, the exhibit featuring custom, floral couture made of thousands of fresh blooms (thanks the floral donations from Kennicott Brothers), returned to 900 North Michigan Shops. This year's theme, "Voyage,” took guests on a fragrant and visually arresting journey to

The 900 Shops' Alicia Skruba and Taylor Stucker.

some of the world's most iconic travel destinations. Floral exhibit standouts spotlighted the Honduras (from Bloome Floral Design, which won for Best in Show); Marrakech (created by Lucalessa Floral Design); London Guard Mannequin (also a winner, by The Roof Crop); Peru (by Vision in Bloom); Egypt Mannequin (by Dilly Lily) and many others. The preview party, held May 3, featured signature cocktails, light bites and DJ Megan Taylor. Dancers from ZZAZZ Productions entertained guests before the judging results were announced. The Honduras, Best in Show exhibit/mannequin by Bloome, was created in honor of exchange student Christi Carol Garcia Orellana, who studied here for her college degree before heading back to her home in Honduras. In addition to the exhibit, there were daily, floral workshops and a pop-up, fresh flower market.

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Artwork by Thomas O'Gorman.

Skyline columnist extraordinaire Thomas O'Gorman will be hosting an exhibit of his colorful artwork on May 13-15. The exhibit will take place at 1059 N. Winchester (corner house at Winchester and Thomas) from 11 to 3 pm. (See his Instagram page for full collection, @thomasogormanart)

Another packed edition of Candid Candace and I hope you've enjoyed every bit of it. I want to share with you how this whole concept actually

With my much loved Mom, Elsa Mae Stott.

came about. I'm an only child, as some of you know, and my mom was as much my sister as she was my mother. We were thick as thieves and did everything together–traveled, shopped, talked into the wee hours- no one knew me better than my mom Elsa Stott. When I moved to Chicago, I wanted her to see everything I saw through my eyes so I began writing very detailed letters about any event, party, dinner, etc. that I attended so she would feel like she was there. I think this style, and the reason for it, has served me well. Now, I get to take all of you around town with me –so basically, you're family too. 🙂

Have a happy Spring, until next time,

Love Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. For animal lovers only.

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June 29, 2021 · 8:11 am

WELCOME BACK CHICAGO: WE’RE READY TO PARTY!

Plus: Haute hats for the Service Club; Sable hotel's GRAND opening at Offshore; Chicago Star/Mariano's Streeterville Week kick-off party; Digestive Health Foundation's "Together on the Terrace"; "Random Acts of Kindness" with Maria and Fresh Farms; Steppenwolf's exciting plans, and a new live show; Good and bad news for Randolph Street Market; Ronald McDonald House Charities Gala; Pride done right; Gone too soon, Holocaust Survivor Fritzie Fritzshall; Adalina, chic, sexy and delish; Safety tips and tricks from a cop who knows; Chicago Children's Choir's "Red Jacket Optional"; Auditorium Theatre's devilish "Devil's Ball; Hef and the History Channel; The Chicago Lighthouse FLAIR event will honor ? (see who below!); Black Tie and Sneaker Ball; Apparel Industry Foundation's REV UP! is BACK!; Ravinia Festival Gala debuts a real winner; Navy Seal Foundation's "Evening of Tribute" with a surprise keynote speaker; Publicity Club of Chicago celebrates the best of the best; Cute videos and SOOOO much more!

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Barry Butler photo.

It's thrilling to watch Chicago's return, which I'm gauging on the strength of my events calendar. There are an enormous number of events and activities coming back bigger and better than ever and I couldn't be happier! Our streets are full, restaurants are busy, the boat tours have all returned and things are getting really exciting around here. I think after all the "you can't do thats", that people are rejoicing like it's Mardi Gras now just because they CAN! I feel like a great weight has been lifted off our shoulders. It's an honor to share some of these parties, activities and more below. I hope you have wonderful plans for summer….maybe you'll get some ideas here!

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Spring Luncheon co-chairs Cathy Bartholomay, Michelle Baker and Annette Findling.

First up, the irrepressible Service Club of Chicago hasn't missed a beat during the pandemic. In fact, most of their events have raised even more money than before. That's because their members put their money where their hearts are and it's a joy to see. Their latest

SC members Bethany Florek, SC pres Sherrill Bodine and Lauren Lein Cavanaugh.

big fundraiser was the Spring Luncheon, lovingly referred to as the Hat Luncheon. Co-chairs Cathy Bartholomay, Michelle Baker and Annette Findling, put together an exciting event that was spread across two rooms at the venerable Woman's Athletic Club (WAC).

Myra Reilly and Cheryl Coleman.

Over 200 ladies donned their finest millinery attire to attend. SC president Sherrill Bodine said, "We have all walked through a dark storm together and now here we are with our heads held high, and wearing beautiful hats, ready to take on the world again. And what a new beginning!" The guest speaker, Sandy Schreier, is the famed fashion curator and historian whose designer collections have been exhibited around the world. Sandy discussed her collection, design career, TV appearances, books and famous friendships to a rapt audience. (A VIP reception was hosted the night before at Neiman Marcus Michigan Avenue). Auctioneer Andy Baker and I conducted an open call for donations and a live auction that featured a

Peg Lombardo, Tracey DiBuono and Vonita Reescer.

package donated by Brunello Cucinelli that included a trip to Casa Cucinelli in New York, hotel and airfare, lunch and dinner, a tour and fashion presentation. At the end of the day, the event raised over $190,000 which will support the organization's Philanthropic Fund. The SC is an all-volunteer woman's organization that was founded in 1890. All proceeds raised are distributed to Chicago's worthiest nonprofits. This year that amount was over $500K! (To learn more about the SC, click here!)

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With Mariano's Amanda Puck (love the background subject!) (Cool photo prop by Kehoe Designs).

A pat on the back to Chicago Star, who hosted its first big event at Mariano's Lakeshore East (May 21) on their beautiful rooftop patio. Special thanks to Amanda Puck,

Jim Smith Chille Pepper and names coming.

Jim Smith, Chilli Pepper, Jay Frankovich and Jeremy Plummer.

Mariano's Director of Strategic Brand Development, who helped coordinate this fun effort that celebrated the kick-off of Streeterville Week, a Chicago Star initiative supporting local business. The night couldn't have been more perfect for this outdoor party–a gentle breeze, warm temps–and those jaw-droppingly beautiful views of Lake Shore East Park. The

Supporters Judy and Howard Tullman (board member), with Bonnie (board member) and Jim Spurlock.

party was for Chicago Star's supporters, friends, sponsors, board members and advertisers and, at 60+ guests, we were at capacity since the city hadn't fully opened yet. The

Giovanna Krozel and Almira Yllana with Doorstep Divas Molly Callinan and Caitlin Simone.

Giovanna Krozel and Almira Yllana (Sugar & Spice) with Doorstep Divas (Molly Callinan and Caitlin Simone).

fun-filled night featured entertainment provided by The Doorstep Divas (Molly Callinan and Caitlin Simone) and DJ World; delicious desserts from Eli's Cheesecake; cool photo props from Kehoe Designs; the awe-inspiring Magic by Keelan Wendorf; custom florals from Luxe Bloom and even a cool Marilyn Monroe impersonator courtesy of ZZAZZ Productions,

The Landan Twins (Jonathan and Andrew) with Billy Rairigh, Paul Iacono, Amanda Puck and friend.

who added a lot of pizzazz to this party. Delicious bites

Michael Kutza, Maggie Baczkowski and Curt Rose.

from Mariano's included mini fried chicken sandwiches, Oki sushi, Oki veggie rolls, individual shrimp cocktails, smoked salmon on toast and crackers, mini cheeseboards, Murray's Lemon Cheese Bites, plus wine and beer. Friends, this WAS a PARTEE UNTIL….We had decided earlier to try to shoot a cover shot for the paper and include everyone in attendance. Kristan

Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas with Chuck.

Lieb was our photog and she had clambered onto a ladder for an overview shot. The guests were grabbing copies of the paper to

Fabulous Eli's Cheesecakes and floral design by Luxe Bloom.

hold and moving into position near the railing with the park as our backdrop. Everything looked so perfect except for one annoying cast-iron garbage receptacle. Soooooo, as always, I wanted to get the perfect photo so I tried moving it (VERY BAD IDEA)…as I grabbed it, a very heavy piece pulled away and slammed directly onto my foot. Well, it swelled up as big as a football but I still gamely limped into the photo (LOL!)…Afterwards, I sat down and watched it get bigger. So many wonderful people brought ice, including Chicago Star

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Elaine Hyde, Chicago Star founder, with the Landan Twins.

founder Elaine Hyde's sweet husband Joey. I was so

With Chicago Star Team: Nuria Mathog, Elaine Hyde, Angela Gagnon and Jay Kopp.

disgusted with myself. We had been planning this party for weeks and weeks and now to have this happen. Anyway, I thought I could stay and just sit in a chair but I wasn't sure if I'd broken anything so a trip to the emergency room was in order. Thank goodness I went to Thorek, at the suggestion of a friend, because they took care of me like no one before. (Special shout-out here to staff and especially Dr. Rachel Goldstein, who was a saint!) Anyway, thanks to all our friends who came and know that I was so very sorry to have to leave half-way through! Streeterville Week was

Doorstep Diva Molly Callinan and DJ World.

created by Chicago Star in November 2020 as an initiative designed to lift community spirits, boost morale and encourage residents and visitors to shop locally during the pandemic. More

WBBM's Lisa Fielding, she's a fan.

than two dozen local businesses took part in the inaugural event, with some participants, such as Pinstripes, seeing over 40% increases in revenue. Guests in attendance included Manolis Alpogianis, Bonnie and Jim Spurlock, Howard and Judy Tullman, Jim Sharp, Sarah Tuohy, Curt Rose, Maggie Baczkowski, Greg Hyder, Jim Smith, Chilli Pepper and friends Jeremy Plummer and Jay Frankovich, Cee and Vince Reyes, Michael Caputo, Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas and Peter

Jim Smith, Marilyn, Michael Caputo and Tom Kehoe.

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Cee Reyes, Greg Hyder, Vince Reyes and CSM's Jay Kopp.

Kambreros, Andrew and Jon Landan, Giovanna Krozel and Almira Yllana, Tom Kehoe, Shelley Rosen, Tina Koegel, Paul Iacono, Tracey Tarantino, Michael Kutza, Richard Ward, Marc Schulman, Will Nifong, Sherren Leigh, Mario Hollemans, Dr. Valerie Mayuga, Geno Suarez, Lisa Fielding, Joyce Winnecke and George Houlihan, Kathleen Jenkins, Lindsay Forman, Tom Claxton and so many more! Can't wait to plan another fun event, this time at FULL CAPACITY! (Love you so much Amanda Puck!) (Video below by Kairos & Co. Film) (First published in Chicago Star)

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Rachel Holl, Phoebe Sacks and Jodi Block

The Digestive Health Foundation at Northwestern Medicine hosted its first live event in over a year at the MCA on June 5. With in-person attendance of 220 and additional supporters participating virtually via livestream, the DHF’s

Tom Swimmermaker, Nancy Payne, Karen Mandel, Zack Karmin

Together on the Terrace: An Evening of Art, Appetizers and Spirits, Al Fresco raised a whopping $1.3 million, bringing the total sum raised by DHF since its inception in 2015 to nearly $15 million! Held outdoors in the museum’s Anne and John Kern Terrace Garden, the event featured mixology demonstrations, wine tasting, light bites, live music by the TVK Orchestra, museum tours, silent and live auctions and raffle prizes. Auction highlights included Ryder Cup tickets, a trip to New York City with VIP tickets to The Late Show with Stephen Colbert, and dinner prepared by

Michael Baum (Digestive Health Foundation Board Member and Ambassador Board Champion)

Jake Dockser and Olivia Kleinman

Michelin-starred chef Soo Ahn, who helms the kitchen at the fabulous Italian restaurant Adalina in the Gold Coast. FOX 32 Chicago’s Sylvia Perez kicked off the event as well as the livestream. Event proceeds will benefit digestive disease research as well as supporting the DHF Ambassador Board’s commitment to promoting greater equity in access to medical care and education through two projects that include the new Digestive Health Foundation MCAT Prep Program created in partnership with the I Am Abel Foundation to provide funding, resources and mentoring to help under-

Dr. Leila Kia, MD

represented students prepare for medical school, and the Elizabeth Blackwell Fund for

Eric Corwin and Julie Kaviar (DHF Ambassador Board and MCA Overall Event Lead)

independent female GI researchers in honor of the first U.S. woman to earn a medical degree. Since inception six years ago, DHF has funded 67 crucial annual grants as well as ongoing research studies including the DHF BioRepository, a blood and tissue bank used for digestive disease research that is one of the few databases of its kind in the world. (For more info on DHF, click here)

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Opening party host Israel Idonije and da' Mayor.

Sable at Navy Pier hosted a grand opening party June 9. The by-invite-only affair was held on Offshore's magnificent rooftop and included notables such as American Idol's Grace

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Offshore, supposedly the world's largest rooftop bar.

Kinstler and the Mayor, who delivered a powerful, inspiring speech about the city's return. The program was hosted by the much loved Israel Idonije. Another fan favorite, David Rothstein Music, performed throughout the night against a backdrop of heart-stopping skyline views. Greeters dressed in nautical attire directed guests to the party from the check-in in Sable's lobby. Enroute, partygoers could partake of popcorn and champagne carts. Magnificent, over-sized floral

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American Idol's Grace Kinstler.

arrangements and candles were scattered throughout the space. Owners of the Sable had flown in from Switzerland and Sable's dapper GM, Laurent Boisdron, was on hand to present the hotel's very first

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Sable GM Laurent Boisdron presents bouquet to the hotel's first guest.

guest with a beautiful bouquet. The Mayor introduced Izzy as the "personification of what a good public servant is all about." She continued, "We have the lowest unemployment rate of any city in the

Darling, nautically attired greeters.

country, our buying power is second to none and our economy is already roaring back." The Sable is the only hotel in Chicago where every room has a breathtaking lake view. The hotel also features Lirica restaurant (with Latin and Iberian-inspired cuisine) and a beautiful outdoor patio. It's a perfect spot for a staycation or out-of-town visitors–friendly staff, beautiful, sleekly designed rooms and, of course, those views. (Details here)

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Carrie Coon and Namir Smallwood star in the Tracy Letts play "Bug" at Steppenwolf Theatre. (Michael Brosilow Photo)

Steppenwolf Theater Company will come roaring back on November 11 when its first live show will be the remount of BUG by Tracy Letts, starring ensemble members Carrie Coon and Namir Smallwood. Previews will begin November 11 in Steppenwolf's Downstairs Theater where you will see a whole new lobby plus a new wine bar on the second floor in the existing theater building! Steppenwolf will welcome back theater-goers to a brand new, 50,000-sq.-ft. building and education center at 1650 N. Halsted. As the world came to a pause in 2020, the walls of the state-of-the-art arts facility continued to rise, symbolizing hope for

Rendering of the new Shakespeare Theatre Company.

the entire Chicago arts community. Designed by world-renowned architect Gordon Gill of Adrian Smith + Gordon Gill Architecture (AS+GG) with theater design and acoustics

Rendering of Steppenwolf's wine bar/lobby area.

by Charcoalblue, the transformed Steppenwolf Theatre Company campus will change the way Chicagoans and visitors experience the company’s cutting-edge theater. In Fall 2021, Steppenwolf builds on the global reach and acclaim of its virtual stage (currently streaming in all 50 states and more than 20 countries) with a lineup of new virtual works by ensemble members Tina Landau, Tracy Letts and Tarell Alvin McCraney. (See full schedules and more details here).

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The Publicity Club of Chicago (PCC) celebrated the 62nd anniversary of the Golden Trumpet Awards, the most prestigious awards program in the Midwest, honoring distinguished individual achievement in public relations, marketing and communications. The awards ceremony took place on Thursday, June 17 and was PCC’s second virtual Golden Trumpet Awards ceremony. I was honored to present Cramer-

Today the 2021 Publicity Club of Chicago Trumpet Awards took place and I was thrilled to be one of the hosts along with @CandidCandace & Payal Patal.

Presenters and hosts for the 2021 Golden Trumpet Awards

Krasselt with the event's top honors, the 'Best of Show' award, for their 'Navigating Coronavirus with the Brand Name Corona’ campaign as well as deliver a tribute to the

Delivering my tribute to the late Dori Wilson.

late, great Dori Wilson who passed away earlier this year in February. Over 200 guests joined an online platform that included virtual meeting rooms and a livestream presentation emceed by WGN-9’s Ben Bradley and Lourdes Duarte, Comcast’s Maria Castro, PCC Board Members Jim O’Reilly and Payal Patel and me. In partnership with the PCC, the production was put together by Video Parachute. Other winners included: Jasculca Terman Strategic

Navy Pier's Strategic Communications Leader Payal Patel was a host.

Communications, who won the 'Edwin J. Shaughnessy Quality of Life Award' for the ‘Lakeview Pantry COVID-19 Response’ campaign; L.C. Williams & Associates won the 'Buell Patterson Technology Award'

Maria Castro, Comcast Regional Affairs Manager, presented awards.

for the 'AASM – Student Sleep Health Week' and MWW, who won the 'Elynore Dolkart Meserow Creativity Award’ for the ‘Bridging Remote Learning During COVID-19’ campaign. PCC Board Member and Metropolitan Family Services’ Bridget Hatch (love her) received PCC’s Volunteer of the Year Award. Established in 1941, the Publicity Club of Chicago (PCC) is a network of inspired Chicago- area public relations professionals and counselors who work at every type of organization and, together, compose the nation's largest independent public relations membership organization.

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Adalina, newly opened at 912 N. State.

Adalina hosted "Friends & Family" dining this week in advance of its opening at its Gold Coast location, 912 N. State. The restaurant was buzzing with activity as servers flew around the elegant space with dishes created by its talented Michelin-starred Chef Soo Ahn. Against a backdrop of midnight blue walls, plush velvet banquettes, large scale artwork and a dramatic chandelier, diners enjoyed dishes that included handmade pastas such as rigatoni with Maine lobster, Red King crab and Calabrian chile and scallions; ravioli with summer truffles, corn, ricotta, pearl onions and aged balsamic and carved tableside porterhouses and Dover sole; salmon vesuvio; veal chop parmigiana, roasted chicken, a Wagyu strip steak and so much more. Starters included charred octopus, gnocco fritto, truffled caesar (prepared tableside) and a delicious fried green tomato caprese, among others. Opening Monday, June 21, hours will be 3pm to 1 pm, Monday through Sunday, with lunch and brunch service coming soon. Partners Phil Siudak, Miles Muslin, Matt Deichl and Jonathan Gillespie, along with general manager Tee Efendija, must be very excited about their bright future here. Among the familiar faces seen on the scene were Peter and Cynthia Au, Kasia and Greg Kay, Jay and Albrey Kopp, Michael Kutza, Ryan Chiaverini and Pasquale Gianni, among others. Welcome to the 'hood Adalina! (First published in Chicago Star)

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With Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas and Dino Svigo (Fresh Farms) passing out boxes of candy to Chicago's dads.

I've been so excited to partner with Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas dispensing "Random Acts of Kindness" around the city. It was the Treasurer's

Shelley Rosen (Luxe Bloom)–Mother's Day

idea to do this to help lift people's spirits following the pandemic and also to help beautify the city. Our first event was held in collaboration with Shelley Rosen (founder of Luxe Bloom). Shelley's company put together a partnership with JC Decaux North America to install, a two-sided fresh floral display on the NW corner of Michigan and Chicago for Mother's Day and throughout the month. On

With Jay Kopp, Maria Pappas, Dino Svigos and friend on Father's Day.

May 9, we gave away more than 500 Ecuadorian roses to honor the mothers and women of Chicago, promote the beautification of the Mag Mile and support local business. We

Paul Iacono, Chuck and Bonnie Spurlock on Mother's Day.

even handed out Luxe Bloom roses to bus drivers and one under-appreciated mom who broke down in tears. It's amazing (and heart-warming) to see how a small, random act of kindness can make such a difference. So proud to be a small part of this big community effort! Love and thanks to all who came out to support us like Paul Iacono, Maria Mancuso, Suzie Glickman, Joey Majumdar, Jonathan Tam, Humberto Jimenez (Consul General

With Real Men Charities founder Yvette Moyo and Maria Pappas at Real Men Cook event, 2425 E. 75th St.

of Ecuador), Kenichi Okada (Consul General of Japan), Yvette Moyo (Chairman/CEO Real Men Charities), Marco Polo Valladolid (President Mexican Civic Society of Illinoi), Sam Ma (Honorary Chair of the

Marta Farion.

American-Asian Association), Marta Farion (President Kyiv-Mohyla Foundation of America), Kina Bagovska, (Director Magura Bulgarian Cultural Center), Nanta Buranakanchana (Asian American Coalition of Chicago) and Vandana Jhingan (Midwest Bureau Chief TV Asia) and Marta Farion. We repeated these "Random Acts of Gifting" on Father's Day at another corner on Michigan Avenue giving out boxes of truffle candies, courtesy of Fresh Farms (Dino Svigos and his sons Niko, Dean and Alex. Following this event, Maria and I went to the 32nd Real Men Cook celebration benefiting Real Men Charities (founded by Yvette Moyo) and handed out more candy! (ALL of the good photos are by Barb Levant)

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RSM debut market in Three Oaks with Sally Schwartz (R), D. Graham Kostic (2nd from R) and family.

First, the good news–Randolph Street Market's first day back after the pandemic was a slam dunk. Held for the first time in Three Oaks, Michigan, on Memorial Day Weekend (29/30), RSM founder Sally Schwartz and 40 dealers from across the country welcomed guests

Chuck congratulating Sally on her first market in Three Oaks.

back after a long, hard year. Shuttle buses were flying back and forth and police, with lights flashing, helped direct traffic. It was so good to see this award-winning and much loved market return. Sally welcomed guests who traveled from near and far to peruse the large selection of goods, socialize and

Randolph Street Market's first day in Three Oaks.

enjoy snacks from the Pigs by Pigs food truck stationed on the grounds. A portion of the ticket sales ($5 for adults with children under 12 free) supported Fernwood Botanical Garden in Niles-Buchanan. Now the bad news, Due to continuing adverse weather conditions, the Randolph Street Market in Three Oaks has canceled the rest of its summer

RSM is always an Aladdin's Cave of finds.

schedule. Here's a message from founder Sally Schwartz: "For the first time in Randolph Street Market’s 18-year history, we have to close the balance of our summer festival due to severe weather

I wish I would've bought these.

and venue conditions. Refunds will be promptly sent out this week. Most of you know our super huge antique market festival venue in Chicago’s West Loop is currently under construction, which prompted us to create a mini “taste” of Randolph with the original concept of bringing a select group of 40+ dealers on a road trip this summer. We landed in Three Oaks, Michigan, an artsy, cultural community with boutique-style retail that complemented our Antique and Vintage vibe. The show would be a fun day-trip for our Chicago customers and offer our clientele with homes up there a fun way to reconnect with us…With heavy rain happening now and predicted through next week, and our indoor venue space having size and A/C limitations, our inability to accommodate more dealers, sponsors, and entertainment make expansion and operations impossible. Unfortunately, these issues can’t be resolved for the balance of our summer program which now has forced us to shut down." We anxiously await your return dear RSM!

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The late Fritzie Fritzshall in front of her hologram in Illinois Holocaust Museum's Survivor Stories exhibit.

The late Fritzie Fritzshall in front of her hologram in the Illinois Holocaust Museum's Survivor Stories exhibit.

The world has lost a hero. As a Survivor of the Holocaust and the President of Illinois Holocaust Museum & Education Center, Fritzie Fritzshall devoted her life to combating hatred and prejudice, inspiring people to become Upstanders instead of bystanders, and speaking out to make our world a better place. Everywhere she spoke, she changed people's lives and the way they see the world. I know because I am a witness. She passed away recently at age 91, and during her lifetime, she influenced all who met her or heard her words. During the Holocaust,

Fritzie revisits a concentration camp where she and her family were held.

Nazis occupied Fritzie's hometown of Klucharky, Czechoslovakia, and deported her, her mother and two brothers to Auschwitz-Birkenau concentration camp when Fritzie was just a young teenager. Her mother, two younger brothers and other family members were murdered. “There is no way to describe what it was like to be in the rail car hungry, cold, without food, without water, watching pregnant women begging for water, watching different people dying in front of you from lack of food, air, and water,” Fritzie said. “My own grandfather died in this car going to Auschwitz. In 1946, After surviving these atrocities, Fritzie came to Skokie, Illinois, and reunited with her father, who worked for Vienna Beef and had come to America before the Holocaust to provide his family with money from abroad. Fritzie, in a 2019 interview, said, “I want the world to remember and to know to never, ever, ever, ever forget about the Holocaust. We say ‘never again,’ but we don't often mean ‘never again.’ ‘Never again’ must be ‘never again.’ It must stop.”

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Chase Garrett (R) a retired 32-year vet of the Chicago PD with friend.

Chase Garret, a retired 32-year vet with the Chicago Police Dept. and friend.

With all the crime in the city now, I felt it would be helpful to share some tips from retired policemen, Chase Garrett. Actually, his tips are part of a larger feature article I wrote for Chicago Star's July issue called "What the Pros Know". (Read all pro tips here) In it, there are tips from famed interior

Interior designer author and TV star Nate Berkus.

Interior designer Nate Berkus offers tips on designing for a small space in the next issue of Chicago Star.

designer Nate Berkus (how to decorate a small space); Chef Art Smith (how to cook the perfect fried chicken); Robert Garvey (Robert's Pizza, tips for creating the perfect pizza at home); Jason Kollar (my IT guy–KCS Computer Technology— who knows EVERYTHING about computers, gives us tips for what we should

Chef Art Smith shares his secrets for the best fried chicken.

buy); Colin Collette (Mangels Florist), gives advice on creating the perfect floral arrangement; Debi Lilly (A Perfect Event) tells us how to plan a summer party; Sugar & Spice (aka Gio Krozel and Almira Yllana) are experts on all things Disney and they share secret tips and tricks for planning that perfect trip to Disney World; Jerry Torpy, our handyman and founder of Appliance Rescue Service, shares advice for keeping cool this summer; David Lampert (Lester Lampert Jewelers); Rob Morhaim (president Morhaim Media Consulting), offers expert advice on delivering slam-dunk business presentations; and Monika Dixon (Monika Dixon PR) offers great suggestions on social media and branding).

Here's Chase's tips for keeping safe in the city. I wanted to share them in their entirety because I feel they are so important. In the paper's article, they are edited but I'm happy to be able to share his complete, very thoughtful suggestions here, for keeping safe in these difficult times. My Citizen's app is going off constantly now with reports of crime in every part of the city. Sort of feels like a war zone right now. Anyway, I hope these will be helpful for you. (And remember, to see the complete list of tips from the pros, click here!) (Published first in Chicago Star)

1) DON'T BE AN EASY TARGET–Criminals usually target easy prey. They look for those that are not paying attention to their surroundings. They know you aren't paying attention when they see you on your phone. They know you are distracted by a conversation, or listening to music, especially with your earplugs in. They usually attack you from behind, take your possessions and disappear, before you even realize what happened. This is to their advantage, because if you never see them coming, even if the police caught them, you wouldn't be able to identify them. This is why being alert is so important! If you stay alert and aware of your surroundings, you can notice when people are watching you. You can notice the same car, possibly with tinted windows, circling the block as you walk down the street. Use your phone to call a friend, or loved one and tell them where you are and what's happening. Give them the license plate number of the car, or take a picture of it. Discreetly take a photo of someone you feel is suspicious and send it to a friend. If you can't take any pictures, remember as much about that person(s), as you can, in case you have to notify "911".

2) KNOW WHAT TO DO IF YOU'RE A VICTIM OF A CRIME–If you get attacked, threatened, or robbed, you want to immediately contact "911". "911" is for emergencies and "311" is for making non emergency reports. When you call "911", you will speak with a Call Taker. That person will ask you several questions. The more of those questions that you can answer, the better. They will ask you for your name, location and what happened. They will ask when it happened, how many offenders were there, if any vehicles were involved and a description of the vehicle. They will ask you to describe your assailant. Their race, approximate age, height and weight. They will ask about the color of their eyes and hair and to describe any clothing. All of this information is then relayed to a Dispatcher, who notifies the patrol cars in the area. Several cars will immediately begin looking for the offender(s) and other vehicles will come to you. If you were able to give out a relatively good description of the assailant(s), the police may locate someone near the address of occurrence and bring them back to the scene, for a "Show Up". If you identify the person(s), they will be arrested and taken to the district. If you do not identify them, they are released and the search continues.The police will search for witnesses and video surveillance to assist in locating any offenders. Remembering as much information as possible, is vital to the arrest and prosecution of any and all offenders. If your wallet or identification is taken, or stolen, immediately contact one of the major credit reporting agencies. Trans Union, Equifax, or Experian. Give them your police report number and ask for a 7 year Fraud Alert on your credit. This means that no one can open credit in your name, without contacting the phone number that you give them. All that is needed is a police report, stating that your personal information was taken.

3) WHAT TO DO, IF YOU GET PHYSICALLY ATTACKED–If someone physically attacks you, you have no choice but to defend yourself. I suggest always keeping a weapon, such as pepper spray, in your hand while walking in isolated areas. Pepper spray is legal and its easy to hold in your hand, discreetly. It does you no good, if it's in the bottom of your purse and someone takes your purse. If you have no weapons and you're being physically assaulted, try to scratch your assailant in the face. This makes them easily identifiable, when the police begin their search. Bloody scratch marks in one's face, is usually a good clue that they were involved in something nefarious! If you scratch them on the arms, or body, you can get their DNA under your nails. Everything goes of course, if you're fighting for your life. Bite them, gouge them in the eyes, use your weapon, do whatever you can to get away and scream. Screaming will alert others, that you're being attacked and hopefully they will help you, or call the police. Don't scream fire, because you will only confuse people. Scream for help and scream to have someone call for the police!

CHASE'S TIPS FOR AVOIDING A CAR JACKING: 1) Keep your doors locked at all times, when you're in or out of vehicle; 2) Remove the keys from the ignition, when pumping gas; 3) Don't leave your purse, or other valuables in plain view when exiting the vehicle; 4) Leave plenty of space in front of you when pulling up to stop signs, or red lights, in case you have to make an evasive action.; 5) If you pull up to an intersection and someone starts approaching your vehicle and you feel threatened, run the red light, after making sure no traffic is coming. It's better to risk getting a traffic ticket, than to stay in an unsafe position.; 6) Know that most car jackings occur when you're parking and exiting the vehicle. This can be in a gas station, garage, or on the street. Be extra alert at these times.; 7) If you're surrounded, or someone approaches with a weapon and demands your car, do not resist. Give them your car and immediately contact 911, as soon as possible. Your car is insured and can always be replaced. Your life can't. (First published in Chicago Star).

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Chicago Pride Month is always filled with fun-filled celebrations to honor the LGBTQ community. One of my favorites is hosted by Tom Kehoe is his Old Town neighborhood. You never know who will show up, last year Governor Pritzker and his First Lady MK, were guests. This year, his magical home showed off the design skills that he and his companies are known for. Spray painted, Pride-colored, over-sized palm fronds filled every container throughout the space. Colorful, oversized Pride banners out front directed party-goers to the main event. In the beautifully landscaped backyard, Pride banners were used as sun shields and were draped from the roof to the back fence. A DJ standing behind a Pride-colored table kept the beats alive as servers presented tasty treats on, you guessed it, Pride colored dishes and cups. It was such a colorful day spent with colorful friends. Love you Tom.

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The Chicago Children's Choir's "Red Jacket Optional" event returns on Saturday, October 16. It hasn't been determined whether or not it will be in-person, virtual or a hybrid. Live music and exceptional dining are always hallmarks of this evening which celebrates 65 years of bringing youth and communities together for a stronger future. (Check here for details)

The Auditorium Theatre Auxiliary Board will host its annual Devil’s Ball on Friday, August 27. It's the first public event at the theatre since its temporary closure in March of 2020. All proceeds will benefit the restoration and preservation of the National Historic Landmark Auditorium Theatre. This year's event, themed Roaring Back, will be held on the theatre's stage and feature Gatsby-themed cocktails, fabulous nosh, live jazzy tunes, a photo booth, silent auction, wine raffle, behind-the-scenes tours, a surprise pop-up performance and dancing beneath the architectural brilliance of the theatre! (Tickets/details here)

Ronald McDonald House Charities will host its annual gala Saturday, August 7. Presented by HAVI and Wintrust, the nonprofit's premier fundraising event will feature gourmet cuisine, live entertainment, live and silent auctions and a one-of-a-kind experience, all to support programs that enable families with sick or injured children (worldwide) stay together and near leading hospitals and healthcare services. (More details will be announced here soon)

The Service Club of Chicago will present its annual "Day on the Terrace' fashion show/fundraiser, this year themed "Here Comes the Sun," Monday, Aug. 2, 11am at The Geraghty. The event will be chaired by SC vets Jean Antoniou, Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and Sharyl Mackey. The show, produced by ZZAZZ productions, will offer a first look at fall fashion from some of the city's top retailers and local designers. Funds raised will support its Philanthropic Grant Program, which recently donated over $500K worth of grants to deserving nonprofits. (Details/tickets here!) (Chicago Star is the proud media sponsor!)

I'm so excited the Apparel Industry Foundation will be hosting REV UP! this year on Thursday, October 21 at Joe Perillo's Bentley Gold Coast (834 N. Rush)! The event may be a combination of in-person and virtual but you can bet it will be as exciting as ever, with the in-person element at the dealership! The show will be produced by ZZAZZ Productions and will feature looks from some of Chicago's top local designers. All emerging designers, fashion students and high school hopefuls are encouraged to sign up here for the organization's Scholarship Competition! (I'm thrilled to return as host and excited that Chicago Star will be the media sponsor). (All details here!)

The Chicago Lighthouse will host its much loved FLAIR fashion show/fundraiser on Friday, October 1 at the Drake Hotel.

Jonathan Grabill and Susan Gohl at Derby.

Chicago Lighthouse FLAIR 2021 honoree Susan Gohl with Johnathan Grabill at this year's Derby.

The event will showcase the best in fall fashion produced by ZZAZZ Productions. AND, drum roll please…..This year's honoree is the much deserving SUSAN GOHL! I'm excited to return as a co-host for this event with the one and only Tracey Tarantino DiBuono. (Check here for all the details coming soon!)

The Navy Seal Foundation's 2021 Midwest Evening of Tribute will be held on Tuesday, September 14. Greg Brown, CEO Motorola Solutions) and Anna Brown will serve as co-chairs for this patriotic salute and support for our warriors. The Navy Seal Foundation provides a comprehensive set of programs specifically designed to reduce the stressors associated with life in Naval Special Warfare to both the special warfare operators and their families. This year's event will also honor David Herro (Chief Investment Officer International Equities at Harris Associates LP.) To discover who the keynote speaker is and for more details, click here).

Maryville Academy will host its second Wine Tasting and Garden Tour, to benefit Maryville's Jen School, on Saturday, August 7, at the Des Plaines campus on 1150 N. River Road. Each guest will pay $35 to sample wines, enjoy appetizers, tour the Jen School garden and more. Maryville Jen School, founded in 2007, was selected by the National Association of Special Education Teachers (NASET) as a NASET School of Excellence for eight years in a row. It is the only school in the country that offers vocational education for young children with special learning needs. It works with young people ages 10 to 21 with academic, emotional, behavioral or intellectual challenges. (Learn more here)

The American Writers Museum (AWM) is hosting its annual OnWord benefit dinner in-person for the first time since 2019 on August 31, from 6:00 pm to 9pm.The event will be hosted by award winning novelist and short story writer Rebecca Makkai at the Radisson Blu Aqua Hotel. The AWM Cultural and Civic Leadership Award will honor Dr. Malcolm O'Hagan. Since 2019, AWM has hosted the annual OnWord benefit dinner to provide important support, allowing the museum to continue to present educational exhibits and programming that celebrate freedom of thought, diversity, connection and understanding. (All details here)

The Art of Giving Foundation will host its “BLACK TIE & SNEAKER BALL” at Artifact Events, 4325 N. Ravenswood, on July 9. The Foundation, founded by Autumn Pippenburg, is dedicated to funding local art programs and artists in need of seed funding to launch or maintain social initiative programs that benefit their communities. Included in the evening’s festivities will be a live auction, a sneaker and accessory fashion show, as well as a “Best Sneaker Design” competition. Chicago fashion designer Borris J Powell will be presenting a “Best Dressed” award for the most stylish guest. General admission tickets are $175 and there are four levels of VIP sponsorships available that include various amounts of VIP tickets, table reservations, champagne and private artist meet n’ greets. (Details here!)

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Recently, I was contacted by the History Channel for a docu-series on Hugh Hefner, Playboy and other

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With the Lucky 8 TV crew in NJ.

legendary visionaries filmed by Lucky 8 TV. Chuck and I were flown to New Jersey for a taping. You all know how much I love chatting about Hef and all-things Playboy so I just can't wait! I'll share the details when it happens.

That's it for this week! As you can see, a lot of our event's are coming back in full force and I couldn't be happier. It's tough being a "social scribe" when you have nothing to write about! But all that is changing now! Special thanks to Fox 32's Sylvia Perez for welcoming me back to talk about all of our reopening excitement, see video below for more fun events and things to do. And I will see you again soon! Thanks for checking in!

Love, as always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. Lil' Snafu's rags to riches story….

THIS WAY TO THE BEACHES! SURVIVING CHICAGO’S WINTERS AND SO MUCH MORE!

Chuck at Trevini restaurant, Palm Beach.

There is no better antidote for Chicago's winters than a trip to a warm climate. Chuck and I were lucky this year to have an extended vacay in Florida, a week in Hobe Sound with my sister-in-law and then two glorious weeks in Palm Beach. The first word that comes to mind about being in

With Leslie Hindman and Chuck at Trevini restaurant, Palm Beach.

Florida is "liberating." Restaurants are open, people are walking the streets with smiles on their faces, churches are holding services and I didn't see one boarded up store.

The manicured perfection of Palm Beach.

Granted, people are still masked and practicing social distancing but it seems less fear-based than Chicago and more common sense-based there. I'm not surprised that people live longer in Florida, no dangerous icy sidewalks, more physical activity and a LOT more vitamin D! In a perfect world, I would divide my time between the two but that's not doable so I will

At Pizza al Fresco, PB, with Kim Renk, Greg Dryer, Leslie Hindman and Chuck.

just enjoy every minute we're away and keep those memories top of mind when I receive weather updates

Beauty along A1A.

from Chiberia. Hobe Sound is beautiful, quiet but lovely. You can actually hear the birds in the trees and the gentle sounds of kids playing pickleball from Loblolly Pines Golf Club. We spent time with my sister-in-law, Nancy Steinwald, who lost her husband Dr. Os Steinwald a year ago. It

Kitchy City Diner in West Palm Beach.

was bittersweet as there was really nothing we could do to ease her pain except be there for her. So, we went to dinners and had a memorable brunch at Harry and the Natives, a restaurant that seemed to be plucked

Harry & the Natives in Hobe Sound, a Jimmy Buffet inspired restaurant.

straight out of Jimmy Buffet's "Cheeseburger in Paradise" song. After the end of our stay in Hobe Sound, we rented a racy red Mustang convertible and headed for Palm Beach where our dear friend Leslie Hindman was gracious enough to invite us for a stay. Her home, in the heart of Palm Beach, had just been sold within 4 hours of being on the market! Her new home is even closer to the ocean and so beautiful. She has impeccable taste and

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At Renato's, PB, with Ken Norgan, Leslie Hindman and Chuck.

vision so we can't wait to see what she does with this latest acquisition. When we left, it was already Architectural Digest perfect. As smart as she is in her auction business, I think her true calling lies in real estate. I think it's also a passion of hers….We had so many

With Christine Schott, Palm Beach Social Diary author.

dinners at wonderful restaurants that I lost count….but, as for the extra pounds Chuck and I gained, sadly I do know that number. There is so much happening in Palm Beach now. It's not the sleepy little town I

The Breakers which, sadly, appears to now have office furniture for the lobby decor.

remember from our first visit years ago. In part, due to the influx of NYC restaurants that have recently relocated there. Our favorite, Swifty's, is also the most beautiful with old world charm combined with rich, modern touches. The hotel it lives in, The Colony (155 Hammon Ave), is steps from Worth Avenue and was established in 1947. After Andrew Wetenhall (Andrew's family were the hotel's previous

Peace and quiet in Hobe Sound.

owners) and wife Sarah purchased the hotel in 2016, Sarah discovered a mid-century postcard featuring the hotel's original lobby which was painted with a mural titled "The Early Days in Palm Beach." The mural inspired a partnership with the famed house of de Gournay, known for exquisite, hand painted

One of my favorite shops in PB, F. S. Henemader.

wallpapers. Kemble Interiors created the decor and the place is even more beautiful now with the wallpaper hiding secret meanings about the owners and its history, including a sweet drawing of the couple's King Charles Spaniel. Swifty's founder, Robert Caravaggi, has created another hit here and his presence makes the restaurant hum with excitement day and night. (The Colony contacted

Before dinner at Club Colette with Leslie Hindman, Nancy Traylor and friend.

him in 2019 asking him to open there after the NYC outpost closed in 2016.) On this visit, I was lucky to dine here on a couple of occasions, once

Chuck, dreaming on Worth Avenue.

for dinner around the pool (with its dramatic views) with Leslie and Chuck and, on another day, lunch with friends Kim Renk, Sharon Bush and Fran Weissler. Fran is 93 years young and a real hoot. She regaled us with her stories in show business with her husband Barry (they are Broadway producers with over 9 Tony Awards to their credit!–Pippin, La Cage aux Folles, Sweet Charity, Wonderful Town, Grease, Cabaret–you get the picture). Their first production on Broadway, "Othello," scored their first Tony Award and starred Christopher Plummer and James Earl Jones. The story of how she snagged Plummer for the role could be made into its own movie. Anyway, we also dined at another former NYC hotspot, Le Bilboquet (245 Worth Ave.), that's also relocated to PB. This was a slightly different story….Even though the space was heart-breakingly chic, the service and prices were not. Our waiter took my order and then walked away without even taking Chuck's! It is a new spot, but at these prices, there should be no room for errors like this.

La Goulue, Palm Beach, another NYC transplant to PB.

Anyway, I hope they can up their service game as it is a lovely spot. The third hotspot transplanted from NYC is the newly opened La Goulue at 288 S. County Rd. This restaurant

Batch, a Southern-style restaurant in Palm Beach on bustling Clematis Street.

is so true to the original that you feel like you could be at the one still located in NYC. The

Another great home decor shop in PB, Jennifer Garrigues.

French cuisine is impeccable and delicious. The Wine Channel's Jessica Altieri suggested a waiter there that she knew, Fernando, who came from the Four Seasons PB (which was entirely taken over by Ken Griffin's Citadel corp. during quarantine!) Anyway, the whole evening was a delight there and I highly recommend it. In a Palm Beach Social Diary article, "All Eyes on Palm Beach," one of my favorite writers, Christine Schott, said, "Booking a reservation in Palm Beach has now become a sport." I agree, it was difficult at times, but if you're nice

The one and only Colony Hotel with its beautiful, new de Gournay wallpaper.

on the phone, sometimes reservations do open up. Lol! And not only is the restaurant scene heating up, but the real estate market is insane. In a Palm Beach Daily News article (the "shiny sheet"), the cover story was

Le Bilboquet, looking down its tunneled entryway.

about an estate at 320 Island Road that sold in January for $26M and then was back on the market in less than a month for $45M! Miami Realtors Association stated, "Palm Beach County luxury home sales spiked 83% in Q3, of 2020." A fun note about the "shiny sheet", I was talking to the check-out lady at Green's Pharmacy and she gave me a little history about this revered newspaper that is now all plain, white paper. She

Driving A1A, the best….

said, "Back in the day, when women wore white gloves, they didn't want to get ink on them so the paper was glossy to avoid newsprint, aka the "shiny sheet." So, now you know. Some other highlights included the newly opened White Elephant Palm Beach (280 Sunset Ave.) a super-chic, super-

With Leslie Hindman and Chuck at her new PB house.

pricey luxury boutique hotel (with Lola 41 restaurant, which friends Phillip Emigh and Bruce Haas LOVED); The Ben (part of the Marriott's Autograph Collection) at 251 N. Narcissus in West Palm Beach. Its rooftop restaurant, Spruzzo, has breathtaking views of PB; Pizza al Fresco (where a famous descendant of President John Adams resides in the former Addison Mizner home with his pet pig, wife and an assortment of other pets), 14 Via Mizner; a couple of favorite design stores, F.S. Henemader, 316 S. County Road, and Jennifer Garrigues, 308 Peruvian); Batch, a fabulous Southern-style restaurant in West Palm Beach at 223 Clematis; Henry's Palm Beach (owned by The Breakers) at 229 Royal Poinciana Way is too cold and stark, we walked out; City Diner, a charming throwback diner in West Palm Beach at 3400 S. Dixie Hwy.; Trevini, a chic restaurant at 223 Sunset Ave.; Palm Beach Grill at Royal Poinciana Plaza doesn't have the pizzazz it once had; and of course Renatos, at 87 Via Mizner is perpetually elegant and chic.

Views from The Ben, a new hotel in West Palm Beach owned by the Marriott.

Our friend/designer Daniel Kinkade told us not to miss The Breakers this year. He wanted to know what I thought about its recent reno. I didn't like it at all. It looked like they replaced their plush, luxurious lobby furniture with stuff from IKEA. It was a horrible mix for this iconic, National Historic Landmark that deserves better. Thankfully, the magnificent carpet is still in place as are the luxurious floral arrangements that dot the vaulted lobby. This vacation was sorely needed. I'm sorry my blog is late because of it, but it gave us memories to last a lifetime and I hope some news you can use here. Special thanks, with love, to all of our friends (and my sister-in-law Nancy) who joined us, played with us and shared their homes. Forever grateful.

No restaurant in PB beats dining around the Colony's pool at Swifty's, our favorite hands down.

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Dori and Lori, she knew everybody and they loved her.

Still can't believe she's gone. Dori Wilson was such a powerful light, every room she walked into she made it better. I met her

Dori Wilson, one of the best kind.

when I first moved to Chicago in the early 70s. She was a Chicago star even then and she kindly took me under her wing, introducing me to all the important people. She even had me in the front row at Operation Push headquarters to meet Rev. Jesse Jackson. Everyone who knew her, loved her. We even talked about going into the public relations business together. Don't get me wrong, she wasn't all warm and fuzzy. Whatever was on her mind, she let you know. She was a "no bull-sh_t" kind of a girl for sure. And I admired that. She never pretended to be something she wasn't and didn't want her friends to be that way either. She gravitated towards people who were similar–real, honest, hard working and good-hearted–she loved Michael Kutza who she saw regularly, the late Victor Skrebneski who photographed her

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With her dear friends Michael Kutza and Victor Skrebneski.

often and her dearest friend Lee Blackwell Baur, who created a foundation (with other friends) in

Dori during her successful modeling days.

her honor, The Dori Wilson Foundation. This foundation will support some of the many charities she lent her heart and time to. She loved and raised her nephew Travis and always shared his achievements like a proud mom. We were both Chihuahua lovers and she called hers, Taco and Belle, they were her "babies." But as much as I thought I knew her, I realized after reading her obit (written lovingly by another dear friend of hers, Tarrah Cooper Wright), that there was so much I didn't know about this most remarkable woman. Here's an excerpt: "Dori Wilson was born to Fannie Brown Wilson and William Wilson on October 15, 1943, in Winona, Mississippi. She spent the earliest years of her life smelling the honeysuckle bush on the side of the house,

Beautiful Dori.

walking uphill to school each morning, developing a fondness for fishing, and listening to the crickets as she lay in bed each night. When Dori was 7, the family moved to Hyde Park, Illinois, and then to Chicago’s bustling Washington Park neighborhood. Dori loved reading, tumbling and doing double-dutch, but would later remember always working—reupholstering chairs, finishing her homework and book reports early so she could draw and create art, and earning money by doing hair for the

Dori with friends Patrick Sheehan and Cheryl Coleman.

neighborhood ladies when she was just 9. For Dori, having a keen eye for beauty and a strong work ethic always came naturally. As a high school freshman at Hyde Park High School, Dori caught the bus to the Woolworth store at 43rd & Ellis, where she—age 14, not 16—had lied about her age to get a

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Dori with former Mayor Harold Washington.

job. After high school, Dori attended Roosevelt University before working at Goldblatt’s on State Street, and then at Compton Advertising as a secretary and assistant producer. One day, while at a commercial shoot, Dori met a talent agent who suggested

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Dori, always chic, even working….

that Dori shouldn’t just be behind the camera—she should be in front of it. Tall, thin and beautiful, Dori had all the makings of a model. She later remembered that while there were few models who looked like her at the time, she didn’t see that as a roadblock—she saw her uniqueness as an asset, and she was right. Dori was motivated by her inner drive to always go after what she wanted and to not take no as a final answer. But she also knew she was breaking barriers for other Black girls and women. As a dark-skinned Black woman, Dori felt that she always had to work harder, try harder, and aim higher than many of her peers because of the way things were stacked against her; Dori was determined to succeed against any obstacle, and she did. “I first saw Dori from afar when I was a teenager working in

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Lee Blackwell Baur, Dori, Zorada Gowenlock and Deirdre Pratt.

a stock room on Oak Street,” said longtime friend and Ariel Investments Co. CEO/President Mellody Hobson. “When I raved about her to my mother, she told me that Dori was helping to change old-fashioned and highly conventional definitions of beauty. When I later met her as a young professional, we became instant friends. I often told her that when I looked at her face, I saw the face of my own mother. She was

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Dori with Pam Capitanini and Myra Reilly.

quite special to many, including me.” In 1964, Dori became the first Black runway model in Chicago. She opened shows for Bonwit Teller, Marshall Field's, I. Magnin, Carson Pirie Scott and Saks and worked with acclaimed photographer and friend Victor Skrebneski. Around this time, people in the business told her to quit advertising and model full time. But Dori had too many

With Dori, Barb Samuels and friend.

ideas to just be a canvas on which other people painted their stories. In 1968, she joined Foote, Cone & Belding to work on their advertising project with Sears, Roebuck & Co, and in 1970, she was promoted to Director of Fashion and Casting. That same year, an appearance as a contestant on TV’s “The Dating Game” won her a trip to Italy and England. Dori

continued to split her time and modeled in numerous fashion shows, advertisements and events, including Gucci’s Fall 1970 campaign and the Dress Horsemen and Trophy Board Annual Benefit Fashion Spectacular

Dori featured in "My Start Story."

in 1975. She even served as the prototype for the first Black mannequin in Marshall Field’s and hosted her own public affairs talk show called “Memorandum” on WMAQ-TV. In 1980, Dori launched Dori Wilson & Associates. For 40 years, she served clients across a broad range of industries, crafting their messages and helping them reach new audiences. Her clients included the City of Chicago, Tiffany & Co., the NAACP Legal Defense Fund, and many more. Dori never waited for the phone to ring; instead, she picked it up and asked for what she wanted. She was never scared of hearing “no.” She kept moving until she found the “yes.” Dori was committed to giving back to the community and served on the board of many organizations including the Harris Theater, The Council of Regents of Loyola University, PAWS Chicago, Chicago Workforce Board, Chicago International Film Festival, Columbia College, Brookfield Zoo, First Bank & Trust of Illinois, Board of Trustees of the Chicago Public Library, Girls Scouts of Chicago Association Board, and more. In interviews with The History Makers organization, Dori

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Dori with Helen "Helpful" Melchior.

noted that while she got her work ethic from her father, she got her kindness from her mother—a quality she prized even more. She was asked many questions, but two in particular resonate today. How would you like to be remembered? “Dori was good and kind and did her best to help others,” she said. If Travis is watching this, what would you want him to know? “That I loved him and did the best I could, and that I’m very happy to have had him in my life.” Dori departed the world on February 1, 2021. She is survived by her nephew Travis Wilson, her brother William Thomas Wilson, Sr. and his spouse Joanna; her nephew Wil Wilson and his wife

Dori and Shauna Montgomery.

Kathy, grand-nieces Laura, Brittany and Taylor Wilson; first cousins Mary Elizabeth Hunt and her husband Colle, Bettie Ann Priester and her husband John; second cousins Maria Hunt, Lisa Hunt, Colle Hunt, Jr. and wife Janice and their children Naomi

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Kate and Leslie Zentner with Dori.

and Isabel. She was preceded in death by parents Fannie Laura Brown and William (Willie) Wilson, sister Mamie Agusta Wilson, and half-sisters Georgia Jones and Dorothy Edwards. Dori's friend/philanthropist Lee Blackwell Baur, summed up her friend's remarkable life and presence, “Dori Wilson was a trailblazing woman and Chicago icon who brought a larger than life status to the many fundraising efforts and charitable organizations she touched. Her stunning beauty and unbridled energy put her in a distinctive category, touching the lives of so many including my own. Our 20-year friendship was one of mutual respect and undying love. We will honor Dori’s life with the creation of the Dori Wilson Foundation, which will support those organizations to which Dori so intimately gave her heart and soul.” You are greatly missed dear Dori.

There will never be another. RIP dear Dori.

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Sam Toia, president/CEO IRA.

Kudos to Sam Toia and the Illinois Restaurant Association for continuing to fight for our restaurants

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Restaurateur Sam Sanchez, new IRA board chair.

and also for its exciting new honorees and board of directors! First off, congrats to Sam Sanchez, the newly elected chairman of the board. Sanchez most recently served as the IRA's First Vice Chairman and is the Founder and CEO of Third Coast Hospitality Group. In the mid-80s, Sam moved from his family's hometown in Sabinas Hidalgo, Mexico to start what is now an accomplished

Restaurant critic Phil Vettel, Lifetime Achievement honoree.

hospitality career in Chicago. In addition to his

Amanda Puck, Mariano's Director of Strategic Brand Development, accepted the Sara Rowe ProStart Company of the Year award on behalf of Mariano's.

restaurants, he also owns EMC Construction, a full-service construction company that handles renos of existing properties and new construction. In other IRA news, award recipients were announced in four categories: Restaurateur of the Year to Gregory Schulson, CEO of Burrito Beach and Lunan Corporation; Vendor of the Year to Gordon Food Service, Performance Foodservice, US Foods and Sysco; the Sara Rowe ProStart Company of the Year to Mariano's (accepted by Amanda Puck, Director of Strategic Brand Development) and a special Lifetime Achievement Award went to Phil Vettel, longtime food writer for the Chicago Tribune. Congrats to ALL!

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Misericordia's Sister Rosemary Connelly and Lois Gates, Assistant Executive Director.

And, in the mean time, I'm receiving lots of encouraging event notices. I'm hopeful we'll be back in person soon at our beloved nonprofit events. On Feb.

Beloved philanthropists Diane and Richard Weinberg.

27, Cal's Angel's hosted a virtual fundraiser for pediatric cancer. The Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum hosted Norma Kamali as she discussed her new book, virtually, "I AM Invincible" on Feb. 25. Presenting sponsors were Liz Stiffel and Richard and Diane Weinberg. The Chicago Lighthouse hosted a Texas Hold 'Em poker tournament on Feb. 26 to raise funds for its mission of serving the blind, visually impaired, disabled and Veteran communities. On February 26, Misericordia hosted "Heart of Gold: A Night at the Races" to support its services for children and adults with special needs. Girls in the Game celebrated its 26th anniversary, also on Feb. 26, of empowering girls and helping them build their confidence and social skills. More to come!

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Join the dynamic ladies of The Service Club of Chicago on Monday, March 8, from 5-6 pm, CST. I'm so proud to host this tribute/Zoom party in honor of International Womens Day! Any donation of $25 or more will get you into the virtual party! Join us to help the SC carry on their 131 year mission of supporting those in need. (Click here to register/donate here)

Each spring, the Illinois Holocaust Museum & Education Center hosts its signature event, the Humanitarian Awards Dinner. Now one of the largest fundraising dinners in the city of Chicago, this high profile event pays tribute to pillars in our community, Holocaust Survivors and highlights the Museum’s achievements. This year's dinner on Wednesday, March 10, will be a hybrid event with virtual and in-person (limited) programming. Honorees include Exelon Corporation, Scott Swanson (PNC Bank, Ill.) and Zev and Shifra Karkomi (posthumously, Survivor Legacy Award). Keynote speaker will be Kareem Abdul-Jabbar, former NBA star/activist. (For tickets and more info, click here!)

Porchlight Music Theatre will host "Chicago Sings Rock & Roll Broadway" virtually on Saturday, March 20. The honoree will be Tony Award winning actress Felicia P. Fields. The event will feature a who’s-who roster of Chicago’s own music theatre and cabaret favorites with all funds raised supporting the theatre's artistic and educational programming. (For tickets/details, click here!)

St. Patrick's High School, led by friend and president Joe Schmidt, is asking for your support of its virtual Shamrock Green & Gold Gala on Thursday, March 11. Funds will support its mission to provide educational experiences of the highest quality which enables young men to develop their highest potential as lifelong learners and assets to society and the Church. (For more info, click here)

Join the Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum for some vintage, fashion fun on Tuesday, March 23 from 5:30 – 7 pm, CST! The webinar presentation will discuss the rich history of Bes-Ben hats, Chicago's Mad Hatter, alongside former costume curator of the Museum, Elizabeth Jachimowicz, and Nena Ivon.The first 40 registrants will receive a free set of Bes-Ben magnets! Details here!

And speaking of nonprofits, I was so proud to co-host,

Steak 48's Oliver Badgio and Agency H5's Kathleen Sarpy.

with Agency H5's Kathleen Sarpy, Pretty Powerful 3.0, a zoom party celebrating the city's philanthropic leaders. Nearly 70 women joined us for a virtual cocktail party sponsored by Steak 48 on February 9. Last year, we hosted the party at the restaurant but, this year, we were proud and grateful to be able to continue this tradition despite Covid. Four nonprofit

Some of the nearly 70 community leaders who joined Pretty Powerful 3.0.

leaders: Nancy Wright, CEO of Girl Scouts of Greater Chicago; Holly Buckendahl, CEO of Ronald McDonald House Charities of Chicagoland and Northwest Indiana; Lauren Schrero Levy, executive director of The Nora Project and Marilynn Gardner, CEO of Navy Pier, shared how their organizations had pivoted and adapted to the changes caused by the pandemic, as well as their hopes for the future. I was so excited to see so many familiar (powerful) faces, including Heather Owen (One Tail at a Time), Katie Law (PAWS Chicago),

More Pretty Powerful 3.0 participants.

Brenda Langstraat (Chicago Public Library), Mimi Plauche (Chicago International Film Festival), Joyce Winnecke (YWCA Metro Chicago), Lindsay Avner (Bright Pink), Shelley MacArthur (Old St. Pat's rep), Sandi Hartstein (The Joffrey Ballet), Rebecca Darr (WINGS) and SOOO many others! As a surprise at the end of the zoom party, Steak 48 (Oliver Badgio and Jeff Mastro, Steak 48 owner) provided participants with a dining gift certificate to the restaurant, located at 615 N. Wabash Ave., as a show of appreciation for their service to the Chicago community. I'm already looking forward to Pretty Powerful 4.0!! Thanks to all who participated and shared their plans for the future and told us how they coped in 2020. It was such an inspiring hour of hope and friendship! God Bless our Nonprofits!

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It's all good, dogs and inspiring stories that heal hearts! Please join me on Thursday, March 25, when I host (TPAN) Test Positive Network's launch of a new book–"When Dogs Heal: Powerful Stories of People Living with HIV and the Dogs That Saved Them." Changing the narrative surrounding life with HIV, the book is a series of deeply personal accounts that tell a story of connection, survival and the transformative

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Dr. Robert Garafalo, photo by Jan Terry.

power of a dog’s unconditional love. You’re invited to join TPAN and me on March 25 for a discussion featuring the author of "When Dogs Heal," Dr. Rob Garofalo, an HIV specialist whose practice centers on adolescents and LGBTQ youth. Join us as we discuss the book, share our life journeys—and, of course, talk about dogs! Dr. Rob will be joined by some of the people living with HIV who appear in the book, and by Julie Supple, TPAN’s programs director, who will discuss Paws N' Effect, TPAN’s program that brings together people living with HIV with a dog companion. When you purchase When Dogs Heal from Unabridged Bookstore either online or at their store, Unabridged will donate 20% of the book price to TPAN with all proceeds going directly to the Paws n’ Effect program, which helps find safe, forever homes for rescue dogs. “ Please sign up here and join us at 6 pm, CST, Thursday, March 25.

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And she can cook too, Maria Pappas, Cook County Treasurer.

Hats off, again, to Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas. She had a standing O at the Polish Museum of America recently in honor of Pulaski Day. She gave this amazing speech (without notes, see below)) that left the audience wildly applauding. She is one of our city's most active politicians, always looking for ways to help we, the people. Recently, she and her team assembled a 234 page report describing the eye-popping trends of property tax growth in Cook County. She is sharing the data as a call to action for voters who have sat on the sidelines while taxes have continued to skyrocket. "The residences and commercial owners, who do not vote have allowed this to happen because they don't hold anybody accountable. I want to inspire people to get registered," she said. Amen to that Maria! On another Maria note, catch her WVON radio show every Monday (1690 AM) when she hosts "Black Houses Matter," a talk show about helping homeowners access unclaimed property tax refunds. Mayor Pappas? Sounds good to me!

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Chicago Star- debut issue!

There is lots of exciting news on the Chicago Star Media front! First off, I'm thrilled to announce that I've been named Contributing Editor to this wonderful group of papers that I like to call "a love letter to Chicago." I love its mission, which is mine too, to deliver positive news you can use with a hyper-local bent. In other words, a paper about Chicago,

With CSM publisher/founder Elaine Hyde. (Who's also a physicist!)

for Chicago! Our first rebranded issue as Chicago Star debuted on March 1 and it's a hit, I'm proud to say! (Read it all here) We have a brand new writer, Bridget McGuire,

Gibson's Restaurant Group are Chicago Star fans! (Thank you Kathy O'Malley Piccone!)

whose story "The Pandemic, Sales and the Single Girl", will make you laugh out loud! And I'm pretty proud of my column in this new issue too, "Wedding Bell DOs", with fabulous love stories and advice and tips from couples you know from around town. They include Gibson's Restaurant Group's Peg and Steve Lombardo, Izzy Idonije and Jatnna Toribio, WGN-TV's Ana Belaval and Steve Vihon, "Windy City Live's" Val Warner and Elijah "Jobba" Maxey, The Joffrey Ballet's Victoria Jaiani and Temur Suluashvili, Kristina and Mike McGrath, Cheryl and Albert Grace, Marcus Riley and Jude Fitzgerald, Donna La Pietra and Bill Kurtis, award winning producer/director/writers Robert and Leslie Zemeckis, Agency H5's

Chicago Star Advisory Board member Howard Tullman and Gertie.

Kathleen and Chris Sarpy and more. These couples shared some great tips on making, keeping and building relationships with some surprising admissions. (Read story here!) We are building a family at Chicago Star and want you to be a part of it! Don't miss an issue, subscribe now

Chicago Star Advisory Board member Bonnie Tullman (and her Remi) are fans!

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Love and thanks to all of the romantic couples here who shared their stories with me!

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I hate sharing bad news but it doesn't look like our city's convention business is coming back, this year at least. The Chicago Dental Society has cancelled its annual February meeting. Since March, more than 200 trade shows have been scrapped according to info from the Illinois Restaurant Association. These shows were expected to generate more than 2 billion for Chicago. Other cancellations include the National Restaurant Association show, the Inspired Home show and even Macy's annual, greatly anticipated Flower Show display at the State Street store. On a brighter front, it appears that the Chicago Auto Show is still working on returning this year. Fingers crossed for better convention news coming soon.

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I Marie Kondo-ed my closets.

I started spring cleaning early this year. Saw a moth and freaked. I'm finished now with one walk-in closet and will soon be heading for the others. It was a bittersweet walk down memory lane. I'm a saver so I loathe throwing anything away, especially things with sentimental value. I had to decide what to do with a lot of pieces of clothing that had special memories for me. I have the top I wore when Chuck and I got our marriage license; the gown I wore to my first Joffrey Ballet Gala; the gown I wore when I co-chaired a Service Club Gala; the cocktail dress I wore when I was honored by the Chicago Lighthouse; the short red

I started a little early.

dress I wore to the opening of the Modern Wing, the fancy custom top, created by an Art Institute student, I wore when I was inducted into the BizBash Hall of Fame…well, you get the idea. They all hold such special memories for me and even looking at them makes all of those memories and occasions come back in a rush. But, I have to grow up and out of this habit. I got rid of them all and I feel 20 pounds lighter (kinda). I got rid of everything except the top I wore for getting our marriage license. That will stay.

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With the weather getting warmer and restaurant restrictions becoming more reasonable, I'm almost giddy with excitement. We get our second shot recently and, after that, I can't wait to go bar hopping and cram myself into crowded elevators. (Totally kidding here) But it's fun to think about reaching a better place in our city and country….(prayer hands here).

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Candace

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NEW YEAR’S EVE RESOLUTIONS, 2020 AND THE FUTURE: CHICAGO WEIGHS IN

Plus: What nonprofit fundraisers are coming back in 2021?; YWCA Metropolitan Chicago's GREAT news; Izzy "Shops with a Cop" for the kids; Silver linings for PAWS Chicago, One Tail at a Time and Young at Heart Pet Rescue; CHI-lebrities open their hearts in Chicago Star Media; Remembering Hef's HOT New Year's Eve parties; Eversight Illinois' Mystery Masquerade; Playboy's new centerfold policy; Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation's Wings to Cure; Chicago Light's Gala of Hope; Happy engagement announcements; Six Flags Holiday Drive-Thru; In the news with John and Steve; Thoughts on 2020 and what the New Year will bring; A touching video and SO MUCH MORE!

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New Year's Eve looked a little different this year. Besides Covid changing the landscape of the entire world, it also kept us from celebrating the end of one of the worst years in recent memory. Restaurants missed out on much needed revenue, friends missed traditional celebrations with family and Times Square was eerily empty. People could only peek out their windows like Jimmy Stewart in "Rear Window" trying to get a feel for what was happening outside. We are all still on lockdown, mentally and physically. Chuck and I grabbed longtime friend Michael Kutza

NYE at cozy Avli on Wells.

determined to still experience NYE, this year in a tent with heaters. Even though people were having fun we all knew this was just a (hopefully temporary) substitute for the real thing. All of this lack of freedom made me think about the wild and woolly days of NYEs past. We're so lucky

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Yurts at Swift & Sons designed by Kehoe.

to have experienced the heyday of Playboy with Hefner at his Mansion in LA. I always felt his parties rivaled Jay Gatsby's in exquisite excess and excitement. The invitations, always with beautiful pinup artwork created by Olivia De Berardinis, arrived in the mail a few weeks before the big event (I've saved them all).

LA Playboy Mansion lit up for NYE 2009.

We would RSVP immediately and then the anticipation began. You never knew what to expect at any of his

With Hef at a past NYE in LA.

parties as the guest lists were always changing to accommodate whoever was in town along with some of his celebrity friends. One year, the Village People performed, another year Three Six Mafia hit the stage that was inside a ginormous tent on the grounds of Hef's Holmby Hills estate. Another year, one of Hef's three girlfriends, Bridget Marquardt, popped out of a giant cake

Hef surrounded by admirers at a past NYE.

and did a slow strip tease as she gazed into his eyes (the crowd went wild). Hef's party guests have included John Elway, Penelope Cruz, James Caan, Nicholas Cage, astronaut Buzz Aldrin, Robert Culp, Tiffany Trump, Donald Trump, Julie Newmar, Bill Cosby (ick), Jane Russell, Quentin Tarantino, Pamela

Chuck enjoying the views at one of Hef's NYE parties.

Anderson, Jack Nicholson, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Madonna, Eddie Murphy, Warren Beatty, Justin Timberlake, Jimmy Connors, Paris and Nicky Hilton, Eddie Murphy and so many more. It was always a great

adventure wondering who you would see that night. I was lucky that Hef liked Chuck too and always included him. During the parties, guests enjoyed gourmet buffets,

With fellow PMs--all former Hef girlfriends but me--including Patti Connors

Celebrating with fellow Playmates Marcy Hanson, Hope Olson and Patti McGuire Connors.

unlimited champagne and cocktails, swimming in the pool or lounging in the grotto. Guests were encouraged to wear lingerie which definitely added to the excitement. Some girls' interpretations of the "suggested attire" left little to the imagination. Oh, those were truly the days! I'm happy to see Playboy doing so well online now too. Even though the magazines have physically disappeared, the brand's online presence is strong and growing. I'm so happy to still have them as a family too. Here's to another 68 years and to a bigger, brighter 2021 for us all!

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I quizzed some of my favorite bold-faced names to see how they were handling the pandemic, what their NYE resolutions were, their best moments of 2020, hopes for the future and any advice that might give us some inspiration. I discovered that we all have more in common than we know. I hope you enjoy these enlightening, and in some cases, surprising, comments from some of my favorite Chicago notables.

One of my favorite media peeps, Sylvia Perez (Fox-32) provided these thoughtful answers. Her

Sylvia Perez: "We are Puerto Rican and I love these shirts. We eat Pasteles and drink coquito (Puerto Rican egg nog) it’s a holiday tradition!"

favorite moment, "When they finally took Texas off the travel ban list and I was able to see my 86 year-old mother who I had not seen since last year because of the pandemic. It warmed my heart. I needed my mommy. It doesn't matter how old you are." Her NYE resolution? "To live in the moment!" Her advice? "Everyone is going through something, respect and try not to judge."

Kathy O'Malley Piccone

Kathy O'Malley Piccone, the hostess with the mostest at Gibson's Steakhouse, said her favorite moments during the pandemic were "when people started to reach out to each other, sending texts, jokes, puzzles, flowers, delicious foods from local restaurants and the wonderful 'calm app.'' She said, "Most of all, just sending love and positive vibes to each others. Touching moments that brought me to tears every evening at 8 pm throughout the city [when people serenaded the healthcare workers]." Her NYE resolution is to "spread more kindness, more love and generosity, more understanding of one another, more courage and peace and be more in the moment."

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Amanda Puck, Director Strategic Brand Development Mariano's, has worked in the food industry for a long time. She shared,

With community partner Jermaine Anderson with Corey Carr 6th Ward Alderman Roderick Sawyer Ron Baker Jr. and Otis Wilson.

Amanda Puck w/ Mariano's community partner Jermaine Anderson, Corey Carr, 6th Ward Alderman Roderick Sawyer, Ron Baker Jr. and Otis Wilson.

"Through the pandemic, it was great to see organizations and individuals step up and help the community more than ever! Both the Greater Chicago Food Depository and Northern Illinois Food Bank have worked so hard feeding the community, as well as all the local food pantries across Chicagoland." During the isolation she learned "how to make a mean arancini from Chef Tony Priolo, delicious Mac & Cheese from Chef Brian Jupiter and taste more wines with Belinda Chang all via our Mariano's meet-ups and zoom classes." Her NYE resolution? "To read more! She has started with Julia Child's "My Life in France." Amanda said, "I admire her, she started and blossomed in her career later in life. She's an epic legend in our industry." She added a quote from one of her favorite authors Morgan Harper Nichols, 'Even if the wait carries on another year, I will not get where I am going without first learning to be here.'"

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Melody Spann Cooper with former First Lady Michelle Obama.

Melody Spann Cooper, Chair and CEO Midway Broadcasting Corp., said her favorite moment of 2020 was "when Joe Biden and Kamala Harris were declared the President and VP-Elect of the United States. I didn't realize how sleep deprived I had been over the past four years." Her NYE resolution is to "remain healthy and helpful. I'm making a commitment to 365 days of giving. Every day I plan to intentionally give something that will help someone." Her hope for the future? "I hope for healing and restoration. Restoring health to those who have been impacted by the pandemic. Restoring compassion in all of humanity and restoring Chicago to the great city we love. It's not perfect, but in its imperfection, it's still home and a place that has allowed me to dream past my zip code."

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Paul Iacono, president Chicago Dowel Company, and much loved man-about-town, said his

Paul Iacono with neice Jennifer Goodwin and Tommy.

Paul Iacono with niece Jennifer and nephew Tommy.

favorite moment of 2020 was being able to squeeze in a last minute trip to Hawaii during Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day. His hopes for next year are a "quick return to normalcy, especially for my friends in the hospitality industry who truly have had a rough go of it." His words of advice, "This too shall pass."

Always stylish, Mark Olley.

Another handsome friend, Mark Olley (Co-op Lending Manager, Chicago Financial Services), said, "No matter what hand we've been dealt, we adapt, we flourish, it's who we are, it's what we do, we're CHICAGO STRONG!" Mark discovered new skills during the pandemic, as many of us did. He enjoyed learning to cook, plant and tend to a vegetable garden and credits his husband and dog Grayson for keeping him sane. Mark says, "I always lead with hope, optimism and love." His dream for 2021 is good health and an end to Covid-19. "A positive mind and outlook, no matter how trying the circumstances, helps to get us through a lot."

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Dusty Stemer with friends Peggy Martay,

May Kay Touhy-Silverman

and Toni Canada.

Yolanda "Dusty" Stemer, philanthropist, member of Service Club of Chicago, Costume Council and others, said that two of her three sons had mild cases of Covid and both recovered rapidly."Things like this makes you realize and give credit to our healthcare workers." Her NYE resolution is to "not turn that Peloton into a clothes rack!" Her hopes for 2021, "The same as everyone, to get a vaccine to all of our loved ones and free Botox for all!" Dusty is married to Dr. Alex Stemer, who is deeply involved in treatment, research and prevention of Covid. "There is light at the end of the tunnel. Recent advances will help make 2021 much better than 2020…Tomorrow is promised to no one, and the one thing Covid steals from us is time with those we love," she said.

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Justine Fedak, Corporate Hippie, motivational speaker and soon-to-be Woman of Vision

Justine Fedak, "a girl who never gives up!"

for this year's Eversight Illinois Gift of Sight Celebration told me her title should be "a girl who never gives up." She's a good friend and I can tell you I have never met anyone so tenacious and driven (in a very good way). She said 2020 was a time of total renewal for her. She regained mobility "by some miracle" [she suffered from MS for years and years] and "connected deeply" with her dearest friends. Her NYE resolution is to "cry when things make me happy or sad and to feel and live my life to the fullest, no pretending anything." Her motto? "Be in love with your life every single minute. My grandma passed away this December at age 98 and she was the strongest, toughest, most loving person who never complained about anything she had to live through. To be alive is to be in love…with your life," she said.

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Sherrill Bodine with Paula Borg and Sherry Lea Holson.

Sherrill Bodine, author, president of the Service Club of Chicago and philanthropist, said her favorite moment of the last year was "working with the dedicated women of the Service Club who worked tirelessly through these challenging times to raise money for our Philanthropic Fund which will be given out in 2021 to worthy charities all over Chicago." Sherrill recently lost her husband and said her resolution is "to seek the light and find my way on this new journey without John." She always greets each day with hope and vows to "never surrender."

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Sean Lewis, WGN News Anchor, remembers his favorite moment of 2020 very well. He

Newlyweds Sean Lewis and Trover Gray Wilson.

married the love of his life, Trover Gray Wilson, in a ceremony at City Hall. "The pandemic didn't allow us a large in-person celebration but I'm hoping 2021 will!" He said his resolution is "to realize that resolutions aren't a good idea. Usually it becomes the first disappointment of any new year for me." He hopes that when the pandemic ends, that people will treat each other better. His words of advice? "Eat well, appreciate the small things and learn one new thing a day."

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Nan Giordano (3rd from L) with Joshua Blake Carter, Beth Tarrant, her son Keenan Casey, Sophie Darley and Cesar Salinas.

An icon in the dance world, Nan Giordano, artistic director Giordano Dance Chicago, is looking forward to "launching Illuminate the Possibilities, an initiative which represents global connection, unity, positivity and possibility, all through dance." She said, "Amidst our dim world light I have chosen to focus on the many silver linings that have immersed. I hope we learn and grow and take the many challenging circumstances and make something positive out of them. Mankind and peace, front and center!" Her motto? "Today is the day! Adversity creates strength and change brings opportunity."

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Dear friend Michael Caputo, brand and creative strategist, enjoyed long walks around

Michael Caputo (R) with friend Greg Hyder at RL.

the lakefront in the warmer months. He said, "It was lots of good thinking time. The views of our beautiful city were a hopeful reminder that things will soon return to normal." His NYE resolution is to "be adept with change and related growth." He said, "This pandemic has challenged us to rethink the 'why' of our respective lives/careers." His advice: "Every storm runs out of rain. We've all had to make do and redirect energies this past year, that can be stressful. Don't let a setback define the day. Or your life."

Dionne Williams

Dionne Williams, president D. Williams PR Group, said, even though 2020 was a "rough year", she was able to spend more quality time with her family and a small group of friends, by staying in touch via phone or Zoom. She said, "2020 made me slow down, so for 2021 I will continue to not rush myself and live in the present and enjoy my surroundings. I want to focus more on fitness and travel when it's safe to do so." She added, "During these rough times, I have learned to be more patient. I also will take this time to work on things that I was too busy for previously, in life and business."

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Tracey Tarantino DiBuono, executive producer ZZAZZ Productions, said, "Having family

Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and her Joey.

close and my young granddaughters in my home has given me a foundation of great unity as a family. Work paused. My husband Joey prepared family dinners that brought us all to the table, dinners that we never dreamed would happen in our previously busy lives." She looks forward to adding a new component to her business, virtual fashion shows and events. Her NYE resolution? "Don't expect things to return to normal…make a choice to accept and then create a new normal and keep my faith in God." She hopes that "new avenues become open to us and that prayers will be answered for everyone. Open your heart to what has been given and find gratitude in every day."

Michelle Durpetti with her fab fam–dad Tony Durpetti, mom Marion and hubby Collin Pierson.

Michelle Durpetti, managing partner Turnkey Hospitality Group, chief planner Michelle Durpetti Events, said her favorite moment of 2020 was seeing her Gene & Georgetti management team come together, be more creative, more adaptive and supportive of each other. "We have even laughed while sometimes we felt like

Michelle Durpetti and her team from Gene & Georgetti restaurant.

crying and I think that is because we have each other. Yanni, Sal, Cristiano, Luis, Jessica, Nicole, Jeremy and Angelo are all such incredible human beings. My favorite moment hands down has been seeing them flourish and fight all the challenges." As far as resolutions, "I don't believe in resolutions to be honest. I live my life out loud, with empathy and compassion always and when I get something wrong, I own it. And that is year round." Her advice going forward: "I think I now live with the knowledge that life truly can change so fast. It has really affirmed for me that I need to take a moment every day to be grateful for all that I have and for making it this far." Her words of advice? "Let's stop tearing at one another and, instead, extend helpful hands and grateful hearts towards each other."

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RMHC-CNI's Holly Buckendahl.

Holly Buckendahl, CEO Ronald McDonald House Charities of Chicagoland & NW Indiana, said a silver lining, that she didn't expect, was the ability to stay connected virtually with family and friends. Her hope for the coming year? "While open through the pandemic (with many restrictions), I look forward to RMHC-CNI reinstating the full breadth of services critically ill children and their families need on their journey to heal together." Her advice during these tough times comes from professor, social worker and author Brene Brown who said, "In order to empathize with someone's experience, you must be willing to believe them as they see it and not how you imagine their experience to be."

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My PR gal pal Kathleen Sarpy, founder/CEO Agency H5, said her favorite moment of 2020,

Kathleen Sarpy and her family.

despite a tough year filled with personal losses, was being able to be "immersed" with all of her kids. She and her husband Chris discovered that "love and connectedness is truly the most important thing." She said, "I really need to find a hobby. I'm a wife, a mom to 6 awesome kids, run a company and I don't really have something that I do just for me. I might finally give meditation a try or yoga, to have a space to be mindful in body and spirit."

Pandemic baking with Jennifer Sutton Brieva and Paul Iacono.

Jennifer Sutton Brieva, felt that Christmas was one of her favorite moments of 2020. She said "it was a much needed shift in energy for everyone. We need that all year long." Her hopes for 2021? "To learn from 2020 and never take people or experiences for granted again and to get back into pre-Covid shape!" Her words of advice? "People need to be grateful and embrace the simple pleasures of life that have become so very vital." I am so grateful for a FaceTime call with my parents, happy hour Zoom with dear friends, a classic movie with my cat Zoe or even a walk in Lincoln Park or a dance party in the kitchen with my husband Joaquin–those every day opportunities for joy often overlooked become special moments of connection, never to be taken for granted again."

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WBBM Newsradio anchor/reporter Lisa Fielding, who has one of the most distinctive voices

Lisa Fielding, the Voice of WBBM.

in the business, said her favorite moment of 2020 was a mother/daughter trip to Mexico in February. "I got my travel fix, after this, by hitting the road to Michigan a couple of times to see the sunset from the other side. I'm a big "sunset" person and try to find them wherever I go," she added. Her hope for the coming year? "I hope for better days for the world, where jobs and prosperity return, where we can hug each other, sing and dance with each other while enjoying live music in our favorite venues or in that dark bar with the awesome jukebox, where we can travel the world again, enjoy a cold one and the crack of the bat at a baseball game, enjoy family gatherings, weddings, celebrations, our favorite restaurants, happy hour with friends and escape through live theater."

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Dori Wilson

Another dear friend in media is Dori Wilson, publicist/founder Dori Wilson Public Relations. Her favorite moment of 2020 was "watching a racially diverse movement develop and grow in recognition of long-standing racial inequality and injustice in this country, watching individuals and corporations commit to do better and recognition of "we're all in this together." Her NY resolution? "To actually use my Peloton!" Her hope for 2021? "I am so hopeful for a vaccination and a vacation!"…..Words of wisdom? "Laughter is the best medicine and forgiveness runs a close second!"

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Caylei Vogelzang and family.

The editor-in-chief of Cancer Wellness magazine, Caylei Vogelzang, said the best moment of 2020 was being able to spend more time with her family on the golf course. Her NYE resolutions include learning to do the splits 3 ways and a backward walkover; improve on physical fitness assessments; visit a yoga retreat; grow and expand her magazine and "become more of an essential source for those touched by cancer"; plan a family holiday to a national park; wear more pieces from local designers and sustainable fashion and practice gratitude daily and more meditation. The words she lives by is "exercise, exercise, exercise!"

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Jean de St Aubin, the executive director of the Gene Siskel Film Center, says her favorite

Jean de St. Aubin and her daughter holiday baking.

moment of 2020 was presenting the Black Harvest Film Festival. She said, "The timing could not have been better. It was so great to have a month of celebrating Black stories, the joy felt virtually was a much needed balm to a turbulent year." Her hopes for 2021? "That everyone gets vaccinated ASAP, and that we all be together again. I think I will turn into a hugging machine as soon as it is safe." Her advice? "Count your blessings and share your gifts."

Jean Antoniou and family at Chicago Botanic Garden.

Jean Antoniou, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago Board of Managers, said her favorite part of 2020 was "knowing it is almost over." Her advice moving forward? "To cherish family and friends because they will always be your biggest supporters. Glass is half full is always a good way to look at each day."

Michelle Mekky, president and founder of

Michelle Mekky

Mekky Media Relations, found silver linings in a tough year. She said spending more time with her kids and husband made her so grateful for "the little moments." She also found joy in the hiring of four new people for her 5 year-old business. In 2021, she plans on prioritizing her own health and to invest in herself in ways she never has. Her motto? "Every day is a new day. Every morning we wake up with a new chance. I truly believe the energy you give out is what comes back to you. Despite all of the negativity around us, never lose hope. We will get through this!"

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Pam Capitanini (center) with friends Simona Garcia and Cristina Montgomery.

Pamella Capitanini, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago, loved watching people's inventiveness during 2020 as many learned new ways to pivot. She said, "From drive-by birthday celebrations, mask creativity and eating in igloos, it was amazing and inspiring to see." Her NYE resolution: "To keep smiling and do my best! And remember the front line workers who have given all and those who have left us." She added, "I believe many of us have realized that nails, hair and party dresses don't make a difference, but reaching out to one another does!"

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And last but certainly not least, everyone's favorite elf, The Real Elf Tommy Holl, Head of Media for The

Tommy Holl, aka "The Real Elf."

North Pole, had much to be thankful for in 2020. "This holiday season is one for the history books that I hope we never have to repeat, but we were able to create a spark of joy for young and old." His favorite moments included: "Elfing" at 900 North Michigan Shops; Sending Elf Gram video messages with proceeds benefiting Imerman Angels (Tommy is a cancer survivor); Being hired to pop into 5 Zoom calls from around the world; Appearing on "Around Town with Ana Belaval", "Happy Hour with the Hoovers", WGN radio with Paul Lisnek, Tom Skilling's Christmas Eve and so much more. His NYE resolution is to: "Pause, reset, reorganize, reflect, be prepared, be ready, be thankful and be kind." His advice? "You can't grow from NO. It's okay to say no when it doesn't feel right, but saying no all the time will lead you nowhere. Try not to take things too seriously, none of us get out of here alive. And appreciate what you have."

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Eversight Illinois "Gift of Sight Celebration" Save-the-Date with mask included.

I'm so excited to see some events coming BACK!! Mark your calendars for Eversight Illinois' "Gift of Sight Celebration", set for Thursday, October 21 at the Peninsula. Justine Fedak will be honored as the Woman of Vision and Dr. Parag Majmudar will be the Gift of Sight honoree. This year's masquerade theme is "Fantasea" and I'm honored to return as co-chair with Michael Caputo! (For more details, click here!)

On Saturday, November 6, the Hippocratic Cancer Research

Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation wings to cure 2021 gala

Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation Save-the-Date with mask included.

Foundation, will host its 6th annual "Wings to Cure." This gala will be held at the Hilton Chicago and funds raised will help support cutting edge cancer research at the Lurie Cancer Center. For more details, click here!

Chicago Lights "Gala of Hope at Home" is still set for Friday, March 5 at 7 pm CST. This signature event will benefit the youth development and social service programs of Chicago Lights and the community support efforts of the Replogle Center for Counseling and Well-Being. (More details here!)

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Here's more happy news on the nonprofit front! YWCA Metropolitan Chicago received a $9

Philanthropist MacKenzie Scott, ex-wife of Amazon's Jeff Bezos.

million unrestricted contribution from billionaire venture philanthropist MacKenzie Scott. This major gift will help the nonprofit and its mission to empower women and families and advance racial justice. This major gift is part of more than $4 billion in philanthropic contributions made by Ms. Scott over the past four months. Board president Joyce Winnecke (just love her!) called this gift an "affirmation of YWCA Metropolitan Chicago's strategy."

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Israel "Izzy" Idonije with CPD officers from his "Shop with a Cop" initiative.

Former Chicago Bear Israel "Izzy" Idonije has lifted charitable giving to an art form. For the 6th year in a row, Izzy and his IF Charities team hosted "Shop With a Cop", a great initiative that builds trust between CPD officers and the communities they serve. On Thursday, December 17, more than 60 police officers shopped for kids in need, who had submitted a wish list "for Santa" in advance. The officers picked up items that were donated by Target with special $50 gift certificates included for family dinners donated by Jewel. (To support Izzy in his many charitable endeavors around town, click here!)

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CBS-2 Chicago's Steven Graves.

Special thanks to CBS-2 Chicago's Steven Graves and to

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John Garcia, ABC-7.

ABC-7's John Garcia for having me on their segments recently! I loved chatting about what to do for NYE with John (watch segment here) and to Steven about how our nonprofits are pivoting their fundraisers. (Watch this segment here!)

One of my favorite silver linings to this pandemic mess is the fact that our animal shelters are at their lowest point with un-adopted rescues! As a matter of fact, PAWS Chicago has reported a near record number of adoptions in 2020–4,100! Through their Holiday-Adopt-a-Thon and usual grassroots efforts, they have managed to find forever homes for 4100 DOGS AND CATS! Can I get a Woot! Woot!? PAWS Chicago also provides extensive resources to help pets make a seamless transition into their news home and also provides a lifetime safety net for every animal, ensuring that if something happens to the adopter, their PAWS pet will always be cared for. I'm hearing similar good news from One Tail at a Time and also Young at Heart Senior Pet Rescue–all my favorites and much recommended animal shelters. Please check them out if you're looking for a pet!

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I'm so loving my new home at Chicago Star Media! This group of hyper-local papers delivers, monthly, positive news you can use and I hope you're a subscriber! (Please click here for details or just leave your name and address here, info@chicagostarmedia, to receive the free online newsletter.) My latest column, "Chicago's CHI-lebrities Reflect on 2020, Share Hopes for the Coming Year" has been a hit, garnering both the front page and centerfold of the recent publication! (Read it here and get advice and discover the hopes and dreams of Chef Art Smith, rocker Jim Peterik, Bill Kurtis and Donna La Pietra, comedian Tom Dreesen, Kerry Wood and his Sarah, Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas, Leslie Hindman, Israel "Izzy" Idonije, The Joffrey Ballet's Ashley Wheater, entertainer Chilli Pepper, restaurateur RJ Melman, Alpana Singh, Michael Kutza, Aldmerman Brian Hopkins and Dr. Ian Smith. I was so moved by their honest, thoughtful answers….there is uplifting advice, inspiration for the future and their thoughts on 2020! Read it all here!

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Jatnna Toribio and Izzy Idonije are engaged!

There's a lotta love in the air right now! So many exciting betrothals to announce! First off, love and

Marcus Riley is engaged to Jude Fitzgerald!

congrats to Jatnna Toribio and her Israel Idonije, who were recently engaged. Also, congratulations to Marcus Riley and his Jude Fitzgerald who got engaged on New Year's Day and,

Val Warner is engaged to Jobba Jordan.

last but not least, to Windy City Live's Val Warner who just became engaged to Jobba Jordan. I'm thrilled for each and every one of these beautiful people who managed to not only survive during

Val and Jobba sittin' in a tree…..

this nasty year, but to thrive and find love. It's definitely easier to face any storm when you're supported by your best friend. Here's wishing them all a lifetime of health and happiness and, as Kup always said, "Long may they love!"

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We recently experienced Six Flags' Holiday in the Park Drive-Thru in Gurnee. Over 3 million lights illuminate the park as cars drive through at 3 mph. We ordered hot chocolate, a funnel cake and I bought an ornament (of course). We listened to piped in holiday music and it was sort of eerie, to be honest, and had the feel of driving through a deserted theme park in the Truman Show. However, I guess if we'd lived closer, the experience would've been a little easier and better. But, frankly, driving through the park with the Notre Dame game blasting on the radio might've had something to do with my lack of enthusiasm (although Chuck was certainly entitled to cheer on his favorite team!) This is only my POV, so please go and find out for yourselves (and let me know what you think!) The experience has been extended through Jan. 10, details here!

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Playboy's Winter 2021 Playmate Izabela Guedes.

Playboy has changed the format of its iconic centerfold. No longer will the featured Playmate be spotlighted for just a month, now she will have a whole season all to herself! There will be only 4 Playmates a year….makes me wish for a do-over! Read deets here on how Playboy is growing, and meet the Winter 2021 Playmate, Izabela Guedes.

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As I close out my first blog of 2021, I must say, I am glad to leave 2020 (far) behind. I've never had a worse year and I know many of my friends feel the same. There's was no "dashing through the snow on a one horse open sleigh, o'er the fields we go, laughing all the way"…… Not this year when everything in the world changed in the blink of a Covid eye. I couldn't even get in my usual cheery mood for Christmas, at least not in the way I used to. One minute, we're planning family gatherings, figuring out seating, who will sit at the kids' table and the next thing you know, we're all Zooming in to "celebrate" on computer screens. I found myself decorating for Christmas almost manically, trying to create much needed joy that is at a premium now. I know store

This is definitely NOT my work, beautiful gingerbread house by Jennifer and Joaquin Brieva (kit from Vanille Chicago).

shelves were shopped clean of all holiday decor long before the usual time. On social media, my friends busily shared photos of their trees, holiday cookies, DIY Christmas ideas and so much more. Hell, we even attempted building a gingerbread house for the first time but it

I'm thinking our tree will be up until Easter or beyond. (Sort of kidding?)

looked like a tornado hit it before I could even ice the roof. This year, we lost our dog, family members, I lost a job, Chuck lost his three dearest friends and had a TIA (mini-stroke). I think I was entitled to decorate as much as I wanted to try to fill this void and you can bet these decorations are gonna be here for a while. Nothing makes me happier than twinkling Christmas tree lights. It reminds me of all the GOOD years in the past when all of our family was gathered together, giving gifts and

Marshall Field's famous Chicken Pot Pie.

thanks for our good health and the fact that we were still here. Pre-Covid, you could still find Santa in all the department stores, which were decorated to the nines. I'm happy though to see that retail, despite all its setbacks, still

Marshall Field's Walnut Room at Christmas 1950.

tried to be festive. Macy's, although certainly not close to the old Marshall Field's in holiday decor, still had cheerful windows and the Great Tree in the Walnut Room. And, although families couldn't carry on life-long traditions of dining there during the season, they could still order carry-out–the famous Mrs. Hering's Chicken Pot Pie (recipe here), lobster bisque, Frango Mint

Ann Gerber's book, "Sweet Tooth," a collection of recipes by Chicago notables.

Chocolate Ice Cream Pie and more. For Chuck and me, we still tried to carry on family traditions. We baked my mom's ham (Cooks only) and I fixed Mama Mary Johnson's famous sweet potato pie (whose recipe was featured in Ann Gerber's 1985 book, "Chicago's Sweet Tooth."). I also cooked the requisite black-eyed peas for good luck on New Year's Day (I pray it works). We toasted to the loved ones we lost and prayed for a better future, one that will bring back the human element and social interaction that is necessary to the survival of a species. We can't drift apart. We need "parties for hosting, marshmallows for toasting and caroling out in the snow," now more than ever. Here's hoping this year is off to a great start for you!

Love always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. Life's short, make the most of it. Thank you Michiel for this poignant reminder.