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PARTIES, PEOPLE AND POSITIVITY–HERE’S TO A BIGGER, BRIGHTER, HEALTHIER NEW YEAR!

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Bar Mar–a new venture from Gibsons Restaurant Group and Chef Jose Andres.

This past year has been trying but, we're still here, so there's much to be grateful for. I love seeing events cautiously return and was so happy to hug my friends again, even though this new variant is taking us back a step. Crime is off the charts with no end in sight but, I'm still hopeful this city will survive and thrive. I'm thrilled to see so many new restaurants opening up. Alex Dana just opened his 9th restaurant, this time in Millennium Park, and Gibsons Restaurant Group has partnered with Michelin starred Chef Jose Andres in some exciting new ventures which will keep our city on top of the foodie chain. On a sad note, we lost a 40-year institution, Yoshi's Cafe, in Lakeview. But, despite some

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Navy Pier's Light Up the Lake helped light up Chicago.

setbacks, this holiday season has never been brighter, literally speaking. Rosemont debuted its AMAZE Light Festival this year with over 1 million lights in Impact Field. Six Flags' Holiday in the Park returned this year with both in-person and drive-thru options and, again, millions of lights. Navy Pier hosted Light Up the Lake inside Festival Hall and the

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AMAZE–an AMAZING debut experience at Rosemont.

Botanic Garden's Lightscapes was a sell-out. Brookfield Zoo's Holiday Magic, at 40 years young, was the area's longest-running lights event. Lincoln Park Zoo's Zoolights is expected to bring in nearly $2.5 million this year for its bottom line and Morton Arboretum's Illumination surpassed 200,000 visitors this year. Yes, the city has never shined brighter, hopefully it will be a harbinger of good things to come for us next year. Shine on Chi! We're all rooting for YOU! 

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Paula Fasseas, PAWS founder, with emcees Jake Hamilton and Sylvia Perez (Fox-32)

On Saturday night, November 12, the Drake Hotel was packed with 550 party-goers and 60 of their four-legged friends, to celebrate PAWS Chicago's 20th anniversary and its triumphant Fur Ball return. After a long pandemic hiatus, guests were thrilled to be back together again to raise funds for PAWS, the area's largest No-Kill animal

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An adorable guest.

shelter. Co-chaired by Scott and Nancy Santi, the black-tie event was a sell-out with both the Gold Coast Room and the Grand Ballroom filled to the brim with guests and a lot of tail-wagging

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PAWS founder Paula Fasseas, Tinsley Mortimer, Angie DeMars and friends.

canines, many dressed to the nines. We saw pups in tuxes, tutus and sparkly coats on rhinestone-studded leashes and everyone seemed to be having a great time!

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PaWS CEO Susanna Homan and Chris Wickham and friends.

Upon arrival, supporters enjoyed cocktails in the French Room and the sounds of Guitarra Azul. Programs in both ballrooms were hosted by media personalities, Jake Hamilton and Sylvia Perez

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Strawberry and Shortcake, Tinsley Mortimers rescue poodles.

in the Gold Coast Room and Natalie Bomke in the Grand Ballroom. The program consisted of the presentation of adoptable dogs, which garnered oohs and ahhs from the crowd. Tinsley Mortimer,

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With dear friends and longtime PAWS supporters Bonnie and Jim Spurlock.

of the Real Housewives of New York City, went home with an adorable 3-pound Chihuahua which completed her family of two other rescue poodles. Paula Fasseas, PAWS founder, thanked the crowd and shared that since the organization's inception, the killing of homeless pets in Chicago has decreased by 91%, but she noted "there was still much more work to be done."  Popular auctioneer David Goodman had the crowd digging deep into their pockets for live auction prizes that included a

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Longtime PAWS supporters Howard and Judy Tullman.

countryside villa in Barcelona for a week for 8 people (sold four times at $25K each); a truffle dinner for 9 prepared by Chef Fabio Viviani (sold for $17K); box seats at Elton John's Final Tour for 10 (sold for $21K)  and 8

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Kendra Gillams, WGCI, and friend.

days in St. Barth at a private villa for 6 PLUS a fly-in on a G-7 (sold for $40K). Following a buffet dinner, the live auction and a fund-a-cause, guests returned to the French Room to enjoy live music from Maggie Speaks (the band was underwritten by longtime supporters Melissa and Michael Canning). The event was sponsored by ITW, A. Marek Fine Jewelry and Wayne and Nan Kocourek.

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SC gala co-chairs Melinda Jakovich-Lagrange, Heather Spyra, Sherrill Bodine (outgoing SC president. Congrats to new pres Jean Antoniou!) and Lyn McKeaney.

The Service Club of Chicago;s annual gala, Our Kind of Town CHICAGO….. And All That Jazz!," held on November 5th, was a successful night celebrating the organization’s 131st year of serving the greater

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Paula Borg and Cheryl Coleman.

Chicagoland community. Nearly 250 guests donned their finest black-tie attire and filled the gorgeously renovated Grand Ballroom of The Four Seasons Chicago.  Event co-chairs Melinda Jakovich-Lagrange, Lyn Z. McKeaney and Heather Spyra welcomed guests to the cocktail reception highlighted by a phenomenal silent auction featuring items such as designer handbags, stay-cations, and travel options. Guests were eager to greet the gala’s celebrity emcee, John O’Hurley, of Seinfeld and Broadway fame, who dazzled the audience

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Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and Myra Reilly.

by performing a number from the hit play CHICAGO, where he had performed as Billy Flynn. The fabulous sounds of The Gold Coast All Stars and the majestic vision from Kehoe Designs warmed up the Ballroom. In welcoming the audience, the SC president, Sherrill Bodine, heralded the return of the

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Sylvia and Kurt Muller.

“live” gala after a virtual event in 2020 and thanked all those present for truly “making a difference in the lives of others." In between courses, a live auction featured items such as Super Bowl 2022 tickets and fabulous experiences in France and Naples! An open call for donations was preceded by a knock-out video highlighting agencies that have benefited from the group’s Philanthropic Grant Fund, which is the gala's significant purpose. Raffle winners were pulled and then guests packed the dance floor. The Service Club Gala is always the largest fundraiser the group hosts every year, providing primary funding for its Philanthropic Grant program. This year’s event raised over $475,000.

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The Apparel Industry Board, Inc. (AIBI) hosted its 6th annual REV UP CHICAGO, a fashion show and scholarship award ceremony at Perillo Exotic Cars. Challenges from Covid-19 led to a hybrid in-person event and watch party of the pre-recorded fashion show. Designers included: Elda de la Rosa Couture, Lauren Lein, Ltd., Laurie Borsé, Rebellion, STAM and Swap & Strut. This IMG_3458year’s winner for the Designer in Residence Award went to

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Elaine Hyde, Chicago Star publisher center, with friends.

Blair Goldman. The 1st place tuition scholarship winner is Irving Castañeda, the 2nd place tuition scholarship winner is Adilene Villalpando. Guests enjoyed specialty cocktails from Glenfiddich while sampling appetizers from Taqueria Chingon. It was a night of pampering with hair and make-up touch ups and a nail bar provided by Tricoci Salon & Spa.  Special thanks to sponsors, Joe and Pat Perillo, who have been supporters of REV UP CHICAGO since its inception. I was so proud to serve as emcee and

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Ambar Campos (AIBI ED) and Kat Anderson, AIBI member services coordinator.

have Chicago Star Media as the media sponsor. A special thank you to Gold Sponsors: Sherrill Bodine, Lauren and Thomas Cavanaugh, Susan Gohl, Caroline and Brian Joss, Scott Schroeder, Erica and Michael Strama, Xochil and Tim Scheer, Stanley Paul Foundation and Maria

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One of Perillo's many exotic cars on display.

Vathis. This event raised $20,000 for the philanthropic arm of the Apparel Industry Foundation, Inc. (AIFI), a 501c3 charity. The Apparel Industry Board is the only official organization in Illinois specifically dedicated to the needs of the sewn products industry. AIBI nurtures and supports designers based in Greater Chicago and is constantly developing new programs to better serve and promote the industry as a whole. View the event below, which offered both live-stream and in-person viewing.

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Union League Boys & Girls Clubs, a nonprofit serving the after-school needs of over 15,000 youth from under-served neighborhoods, hosted Leaders in the Making Gala, its 44th annual

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Gala Chair Celine Fitzgerald (2nd left), ULBGC President, CEO Mary Ann Mahon Huels (center) and The Fitzgerald Family Foundation's Denise, Shannon, and Gerald Fitzgerald (l-r)

benefit, on November 6 at the Union League Club of Chicago. This black-tie gala honored the

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Connie Donnelly and John Donnelly, Union League Club Board President.

accomplishments of its young membership and raised funds for its continued youth development programs. “Traditionally, the Union League Boys & Girls Clubs gala has been a celebration of those who stand by the Clubs throughout the darkest of times, from its donors to its staff, with last year’s event honoring the individuals and corporations that assisted in distributing over 250,000 meals and providing a safe space during COVID. This year, they highlighted those who bring the most meaning to the 102-

Hector Perez (center)  Union League Boys & Girls Clubs Senior Vice President

Hector Perez (center), Union League Boys & Girls Clubs Senior Vice President.

year-old nonprofit—its 15,000 youth members,” said Gala Chairman, Union League Boys & Girls Clubs Trustee and rising philanthropist Celine Fitzgerald. “These bright and tenacious

Anastasia Hernandez  Club One Director  receiving 2021 Staff Inspirational Hero Award

Anastasia Hernandez, Club One Director, receiving 2021 Staff Inspirational Hero Award.

Chicago youth are truly the city’s Leaders in the Making.”  The gala returned to the Union League Club following a virtual version in 2020 and attracted over 300 guests, occupying three floors of this elegant private club. The evening began with cocktails and a silent auction as well as a performance by a Luminarts jazz duet. After dinner, a “Fund the Mission” paddle raise and an after party followed with DJ and desserts. Gala sponsors included The Fitzgerald Family Foundation, Bernardi Securities, BMO Harris Bank, James Gillespie, The Shade Family Foundation, Chioros Properties, Mary & Lionel Go, Lauren & Andrew Jones, Peak Construction and Rothschild. Since its founding on December 26, 1919, as a foundation of

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Principal Yashika Tippett-Eggleston of Air Force Academy High School, ULBGC's newest in-school programming site.

the Union League Club of Chicago, Union League Boys

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Celine and Shannon Fitzgerald.

& Girls Clubs have been serving youth in neighborhoods with the highest hardship index in Chicago; providing quality programming centered on academic success, good character and citizenship and healthy lifestyles. Today, Union League Boys & Girls Clubs serve over 15,000 youth members at ten well-equipped and professionally staffed inner-city Clubs that bring

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Margaret Jahn (R), of the Gala Committee and Union League Boys & Girls Clubs Associate Board, Jake Wilkoff (L).

effective after-school programming to youth in the Pilsen, West Town, Humboldt Park, Bucktown, South Lawndale and Englewood communities. In addition to its Club sites, the non-profit also serves Court-detained youth assigned to Chicago’s Juvenile Temporary Detention Program and manages its own 247-acre summer camp in southern Wisconsin where Club youth have a chance to enjoy supervised outdoor activities not easily accessible in an urban environment. ULBGC recently announced it will open seven new school-based Club sites thanks to a five-year, $1.4 million annual grant from the national Nita M. Lowey 21st Century Community Learning Centers funding organization. 

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Designer Barbara Bates with Kevin Williams and Merle Hedgepath.

Beloved fashion designer Barbara Bates celebrated her 35th anniversary with a jam-packed show spotlighting her newest collection. During the runway  presentation, live music was performed by the youth of Chicago West Side Community Music Center with

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Lorraine Miller (Burrell Advertising) and Dionne Williams (D. Williams PR).

many Chicago notables and celebs coming out to celebrate this milestone occasion. Actress Lisa Raye and gospel singer BeBe Winans were celebrity models. Throughout the years Bates has dressed many celebs including Michael Jordan, Oprah Winfrey, Steve Harvey, Bernie Mac, Whitney Houston and so many more!  Self taught designer Barbara has also been known for her fight against breast cancer and has raised over $500,000 for Mt. Sinai hospital in support of breast cancer patients. And, for over a decade, she has provided free prom gowns for Chicago's in-need high school seniors and most recently provided thousands of masks during Covid for Chicago's police officers. Congrats, with love Barbara!

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Navy Pier's Light Up the Lake, now through Jan. 2.

At Navy Pier's "Light Up the Lake" debut attraction, now through January 2, a magical wonderland awaits, all enclosed within the warm, inviting Festival Hall. First off, being enclosed is a big plus for families with kids who want to keep them comfortable and warm during our cold winters. Another plus is the carpeting, very IMG_6385thoughtful for one and all AND it provides traction for the kiddos as they dart around the sparkling exhibits–lighted ornaments, ginormous teddy bears, Christmas boxes, tunnels of lights, a 3-story Christmas tree and more. It was so heartwarming to see so many families out enjoying themselves after a long period of isolation. Couples walking hand in hand and taking photos with Santa and Mrs. Claus. Children IMG_6379squealing with delight on the mini-train tooling around Christmas cottages. Adults sipping spiked hot chocolate and enjoying a variety of delicious foods–funnel cakes, loaded latkes, smoked brisket sandwiches, cotton candy, funnel cake sundaes, beer, tequila cocktails, pastrami-spiced turkey sandwiches and so much more. There's even a cookie decorating kit for the kids!  As we wandered throughout the 170,000-square-foot space, we felt the spirit of Christmas that is alive and well here. We sat for a while by the ice-skating rink watching as skaters, with varying levels of talent, swooped around to the sounds of the holidays. Beyond the rink, picnic tables were set up for dining with large fireplaces projected on screens above the tables. Thank you Navy Pier for all you do for the city of Chicago and its vital tourism trade. You are always thinking of ways to make us smile. (www.NavyPier.org)

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Happy 150th Palmer House!

The historic Palmer House, a Hilton Hotel, celebrated its 150th anniversary December 8. A ceremony and celebration took place in the hotel's grand lobby before a crowd of fans, friends and media. The event honored both the milestone anniversary and National Brownie Day (paying homage to the original brownie recipe that was invented at the hotel). The lobby came alive with digital projections of historic photos along the walls, a gallery of never-before-seen historic artifacts and a proclamation from the Mayor Lori Lightfoot declaring today to be "Palmer House, a Hilton Hotel Day in Chicago, in celebration of 150 years of history, elegance and hospitality." The State of Illinois also issued a proclamation honoring the hotel. The Palmer House first opened on September 26, 1871. The hotel began as an extravagant wedding gift from Potter Palmer to his bride Bertha Honore and was IMG_6296immediately regarded as one of the most luxurious hotels in Chicago. Speakers included Michael Edwards, president/CEO Chicago Loop Alliance, Greg Cameron, president/CEO of The Joffrey Ballet and Chairman

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You know it's a cool event when Rosemary Fanti (and her Richard Koranda) are there!

of the State Street Commission, and Larry Horowitz, executive director of the Historic Hotels of America and Dean Lane, Palmer House General Manager, who thanked the attendees and praised his staff, who speak 25 languages. He shared some of the many firsts the hotel is known for: 1) The first fire-proof building. Potter challenged anyone to start a fire in its guest rooms. 2) The first hotel to install Alexander Graham Bell's original telephone in every guest room. 3) The first use of the "vertical steam railroad," which would later become the elevator. 4) The first

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Dean Lane, Palmer House GM.

hotel to use Edison's modern light-bulb in every guest room. 5) The birthplace of the original chocolate fudge brownie. Lane spoke about some of the many proud moments in the history of the hotel. In 1879, Bertha Palmer's sister Ida was married to President Ulysses S.

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Part of Bertha Palmer's china set.

Grant. The hotel hosted a banquet dubbed "the greatest banquet in American history" to commemorate the return of the President's trip around the world. Mark Twain, a friend of the Palmers, served as emcee. (Twain's beer stein from this event was on display on the mezzanine as was Bertha's French Haviland China that was used and is valued at $30,000 per place setting, among many other items.) (Palmer House, A Hilton Hotel, 17 E. Monroe, www.hilton.com, 312.726.7500)

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Stunning SC Holiday Luncheon co-chairs Lezley Hodes and Karen Peters.

The Service Club of Chicago's annual holiday luncheon, “A Cool Yule," was held on December 1 at The University Club. On this day, Cathedral Hall was decorated to the nines for the holidays reminding me a bit of Hogwart's

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Suzette Gilchrist, Marcia Northrup LaBarge and Stacy Ditka.

School of Witchcraft and Wizardry. No witches though, only angels donating their time and money to good causes. Under the Great Tree, guests gathered early to sing holiday carols and shop an amazing array of local vendors. Veteran co-chairs Lezley Hodes and Karen Peters welcomed all and, along with President Sherrill Bodine and songstress Denise Tomasello, led the audience in their annual “verse by table” rendition of The Twelve Days of Christmas. As her term nears an end, Bodine said “This is

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Michelle Delaney, Michelle Dietzler Dermenjian and Susie Arnold.

my last big event, and I hope you all know how proud and grateful I am for each of you – and for the work that we accomplish together." (Jean Antoniou is the incoming president). The luncheon had taken a virtual,

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Shelly Perkowski and Sharyl Mackey.

online turn in 2020, and all the guests were thrilled to be back together in-person. Every year, the luncheon chooses a charity for the guests to provide gifts for to herald the giving spirit. The crowd of nearly 200 arrived off the elevators carrying basketballs, coloring books and an assortment of toys, all to benefit Kids Above All, a nonprofit which has been caring for children in need since 1894. The Holiday Luncheon supports the valuable work of The Service Club of Chicago and allows its programs to grow and expand. This year’s event raised over $60,000 — another record high set for the year.

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Big thanks to Fox-32's Sylvia Perez for having me back to discuss fabulous things to do for the holidays! Check out the video below for my festive tips for family fun!

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With Neiman Marcus Michigan Avenue's Wendy Krimins (GM) and Tina Koegel (NM Brand Exprience Manager).

Neiman Marcus Michigan Avenue hosted the Service Club of Chicago recently for a fun-filled White Elephant Party (this is the game where you pick a number and then choose a gift, which can be stolen by another party-goer.) Let me just say Sheree Schimmer had a lot of trouble

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The SC party girls with Chicago Star.

holding on to her gifts! The intimate party was by-invite-only and consisted of past event chairs and co-chairs. I offered welcoming remarks before all the merriment began. Neiman's GM Wendy Krimins and Tina Koegel, Brand Experience Manager, both thanked the ladies for their longtime support. I think this relationship is perfect because both entities focus on giving back. It was a perfect holiday party with good friends who seem like family.

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Holiday for Hope/ Dreams for Kids do-gooders.

Dreams for Kids continued its 33rd year of giving on December 15 when community leaders met at GCE Lab School to carry on the tradition of hosting its annual toy and comfort drive, Holiday for Hope, benefiting Chicago families in need, which was in jeopardy of being discontinued amidst the COVID-19 pandemic. This year, over 1200 toys, coats, gloves, and

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Felicia Winiecki and friends supporting this wonderful cause.

blankets have been donated and will be distributed across Chicago thanks to program partners Jesse White (IL 4-IMG_3596Secretary of State); Sam Hill (Shoot Your Best Shot); Jakhil Jackson (a 14-year-old with his own nonprofit, Project I Am); Annie McAveeney (Fill a Hart for Kids). In July, GCE Lab School took on Dreams for Kids’ Holiday for Hope drive and social entrepreneurship program, Dream Leaders, a youth leadership and service-learning program. 

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With Tracey Tarantino and her beautiful ZZAZZ models at Union League Holiday Fashion Show.

The Union League Holiday Fashion Show took place on December 1, expertly produced again by ZZAZZ Productions (Tracey Tarantino & Team–Nancy Long, fashion coordinator; Natalie Roppo, production coordinator) who have been a part of this event for years.

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York Furrier's Kathy Rezny and Natalie Roppo.

The show took place in the club's elegant Grand Ballroom where 200 guests enjoyed lunch, specialty vendors (on a different floor) and one of the most beautiful backdrops I've ever seen for an event, a snow-filled, wintry scene that made the fashion segments by Neiman Marcus Michigan Avenue, Max Mara at Bloomingdale's, Anne Fontaine, York Furrier, St. John Boutique, Contessa Bottega and Mira Couture pop right off the stage. Congrats to ZZAZZ and to the philanthropic ladies of the ULCC. (Thanks for including me Tracey!)

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Union League Holiday Fashion Show produced by ZZAZZ Productions.

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Tracey Tarantino DiBuono directing her ZZAZZ Productions models before a fashion show for the Infant Welfare Society-Oak Brook at Drury Lane.

On another bright fashion note, ZZAZZ Productions also produced one of the largest shows in the Chicagoland area, Mistletoe Medley, for the Infant Welfare Society-Oakbrook Chapter on November 30. The event was a sell-out in the Drury Lane Ballroom where guests enjoyed a lengthy shopping experience

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Tina Weller (Fumee Claire Candles) was one of the many holiday vendors at the event.

from a variety of amazing vendors before sitting down to lunch. The tables were decorated with festive, glowing floral centerpieces made by Chapter volunteers that were available for sale following the event (they were a sell-out too!) Tracey Tarantino utilized her largest cast of models yet for this grand show including a very well-

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Wearing furs from York Furrier, 107 N. York St., Elmhurst.

behaved poodle named Theodore. To kick off the afternoon, Oak Brook Chapter co-presidents Linda Layland and Marge Tresley welcomed guests. Allison Rosati returned as the much-loved emcee. I was honored to walk in the show along with NBC Chicago Today co-hosts Matt Rodrigues and Cortney Hall. Fabulous runway fashions were presented by Neiman Marcus Oak Brook, York Furrier, IMG_5742Mira Couture, Max Mara, Sandro, Red E Mas, Lepa Boutique, St. John, Elda de la Rosa and Ted Baker. Since 1911, The Infant Welfare Society has been providing love and support for children and their families in under-served communities. The Angel Harvey Family Health Center of the Infant Welfare Society of Chicago provides a variety of services including prenatal care, dental, adult health, optometry, counseling services as well as The Child-Centered Health & Advanced Therapies (CHAT) program.

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Team ZZAZZ–Another smash hit fashion show for the Infant Welfare Society-Oak Brook Chapter.

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NBC Chicago Today with hosts Cortney Hall and Matt Rodrigues.

Special thanks to NBC Chicago Today show co-hosts Matt Rodrigues and Cortney Hall for having me on to chat about a few of my favorite "Gifts that Give Back"! All of the items appeared in Chicago Star's first holiday issue (read it here) and all of them donated a portion of proceeds back to a nonprofit. I presented a beautiful Chicago Lighthouse clock; a PAWS Chicago desk calendar; beautiful ornaments from Mary, Mary Gifts (706 N. Dearborn) where a portion of the sale of any musical ornament benefited Allegrezza; a Bear Necessities Pediatric Cancer Foundation stuffed teddy bear and a beautiful cookbook from Eli's Cheesecake, where a portion of the sales supported Cure Epilepsy during the month of December (Epilepsy Awareness Month). Please enjoy the segment below!

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Francesca and Adam (Mr. and Mrs. Adam Epstein!)

LOVE IS IN THE AIR! Linda Yu became the proud Mother of the Bride when her beautiful daughter Francesca Ling married Oct. 17 at the Langham Hotel in Pasadena. In attendance at this glamorous wedding were the Father of the Bride, Dr. Richard Baer, and the Chicago contingent Sylvia Perez, Tracey Tarantino and Ji Suk Yi, among others. Linda's beautiful gown was created by Peach Carr and makeup was by Chicago's Alex Galasinao. Kudos to all and long may you love! (Thanks Kup!)

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Francesca and her beautiful (proud) mom, Linda Yu.
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Mr. and Mrs. Israel Idonije–Jatnna Toribio and Izzy.

Another happy wedding occurred on November 14 in Chicago when former Chicago Bear star and full-time philanthropist Israel Idonije wed his love, Jatnna Toribio. It was an intimate ceremony with a small group of friends that culminated in a dramatic photo shoot atop the LondonHouse by Gregoire Jules. Again, love WINS!!!

 

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Alex Antoniou and Matt Silkaitas.

And it was a fabulous, surprise engagement for Alex Antoniou and her love Matt Silkaitas! He got down on one knee atop the Ever Restaurant on December 18 and popped the question. The whole family celebrated together afterwards.

And, on December, Becca Smith (darling daughter of Jim

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Alex and Becca Maas with Jim Smith and Greg Hyder. 

Smith and Greg Hyder), tied the knot with Alex Maas. The wedding was supposed to take place at the zoo but, thanks to Covid, had to be dialed back to an intimate ceremony for 22 at the groom's lavish family home in Inverness. The couple plan to celebrate with more family and friends when the pandemic is over.

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The Lodge at The Fairmont Chicago Millennium Park!

Kudos to the Fairmont Hotel, 200 N. Columbus Dr. ! Their new Lodge experience has guests and locals all abuzz! Conceived by Wayne Harth with drop-dead ski chalet decor by Tom Kehoe Designs, the hotel will be attracting eyeballs and ski bunnies for sure! It's first experience was a welcome and introduction to this new concept. The latest event was to

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Check out the Lodge experience at the Fairmont!

feature drag queen Mimi Marks and Tommy Holl, The Real Elf, but Covid changed the plans. It was still a total delight with lots of familiar faces who enjoyed flaming egg nog, a drag performance by another talented queen, hors d'oeuvres and lots of fun photo opps, including a "moose" out front. Please pop in and check out the cozy atmosphere which is just what we all need right about now. And, look for more experiences coming up that I will happily share across my social. Congrats to all and thanks for looking out for us Fairmont! _______________________________________________________________________

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Bill Rancic joined the Hoosier Ball guests during the live auction.

More than 300 guests gathered at the Four Seasons Chicago for the 4th annual Hoosier Ball to benefit the Lyon Family Foundation, a nonprofit that supports the mission of the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society. Partygoers donned extravagant masquerade masks while sipping on fabulous cocktails and noshing on

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Pretty party guests!

items from the decadent raw bar, dim sum stations and Italian inspired fare all while enjoying the beats from DJ Matt Roan. Special host Bill Rancic joined Lyon Family Foundation Executive Director, Alexandra Lyon Singer, to lead the live auction featuring exotic trips, luxury art and exclusive private dinners sponsored by Ferrari Lake Forest. A performance by Elan Artists rounded out the evening as guests took to the blackjack, roulette and poker tables and enjoyed handcrafted desserts by the Four Seasons acclaimed Chef Juan Gutierrez. The event raised nearly $500,000 for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society.

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The Great Gatsby of our Time–Paul Iacono!

Holiday parties were NOT put on hold again this year, thank goodness! Paul Iacono celebrated with his friends at the Underground Cocktail Lounge. About 60 guests enjoyed a live performance, cocktails, heavy hors d'oeuvres, Santa and, of course, SNOWgirls! The room was so festive and perfect for a holiday party (56 W. Illinois). Seen on the scene were Dr. Joaquin Brieva and his Jennifer, Kadmiel and Whitney Christmas, Diane and Quintin Primo, Rhonda Sanderson, John Amato, Julie and Brian Barrish, Julia Jacobs, Lori Allen, Sherry Lea Holson, Rochelle Trotter, April Schwartz, Patrick Sheahan, Todd Hatoff, Frank Jeffrey and so many others. On another note, our Paul will be honored with the William J. Casey Hope Award from Bear Necessities Pediatric Cancer Foundation at its Bear Tie Ball on Saturday, June 4. (This is the highest honor the nonprofit awards)(Better get your

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Pretty party host, Lisa Fielding.

tickets early as I know this will be a sell-out!) (Photo by Kristan Lieb)

Another party of note was the intimate soiree thrown by award-winning WBBM Newsradio host, Lisa Fielding. Her charming home, complete with a panoramic balcony that overlooked the skyline, was decorated to the hilt–every nook and cranny held something festive. Her fabulous vintage jukebox played every Christmas song and, as the evening wore on, I'm told karaoke reigned supreme. She is the ultimate host and we were grateful to be included.

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Leslie Hindman, Palm Beach.

Last year, her popular holiday party had to be canceled due to Covid. 

A holiday party amid the palms was thrown by the fabulous Leslie Hindman at her beautiful new home in Palm Beach. Friends traveled from near and far to join her to celebrate both her birthday AND the season. One night, guests enjoyed dinner at the oh-so exclusive Club Colette, where she is a member and on another night, Palm Beach celeb Kim Renk invited Leslie's guests to her family's palatial estate to enjoy cocktails. Traveling from Chicago were friends Mike Sneed, Bill Zwecker, Tom Gorman, Tom Hackett and Tom McGuire, Lynn Martin and so many others.

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Robert Murphy and Cheryl Larsen

Robert Murphy and Cheryl Larsen–now Mr. and Mrs.

Another love story! Robert Murphy ("Murph in the

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Morning") and his Cheryl Larsen made it official! (I will not use the phrase "finally", even though they have been together since 1986.) They tied the knot on Oct. 9 in a small private ceremony (she wore a magnificent gown by Elda de la Rosa) on the banks of the Big Sable river in NW Michigan where their cabin once stood. Murph said he "became emotional when she said those three little words, 'It's about time!" He added, "They didn't want to rush into anything."…LOL!  The perfect pair are now Mr. & Mrs.!

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CSM Jan. 2022 with newlywed/cover stars Israel Idonije and Jatnna Toribio Idonije.

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New year goodbyeI, for one, won't be sad to see 2021 in my rear-view mirror. I feel like we're living in a whole new world now, and not necessarily a better one. The headline says it all, here's hoping for a bigger, brighter year for us all! Almost everyone I know has been sick, either with a bad cold or Covid. I miss our dogs and Chuck and I were both sick during Christmas so we didn't get a chance to Resolutions really celebrate like we wanted to. This means our tree and decor will be staying up a LOT longer this year! I hope my neighbors across the street are fans of the holidays! I also felt like

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Here's to a bigger, brighter, healthier New Year!

the season just shot by–everything seemed to be over before it had even begun. Maybe I waited too long to put up my decorations. I know the paper is taking up a lot of my time now so my schedule has definitely changed but I just feel like this year has been a blur. I'm hoping to make (and keep) some New Year resolutions: Don't sweat the small stuff (and believe me, everything is "small stuff" unless it's your loved ones' health); Make yourself your number one priority (if you're not in a good place, nothing else will be either); Carve out time to read more (for fun); When the Thank youweather is nicer, make sure to get out and enjoy nature. I used to be an avid bird watcher. I'm going back to this in 2022; Get organized (magic words that I hope I can make a reality); Add more whimsy to your life (don't be so serious about things); Tell your loved ones you love them every, single day. 

And, most of all, I thank you from the bottom of my heart–for sticking with my little blog and me. Your support means the world and I plan on sharing a lot more fun and positivity in 2022 with YOU!

Love,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. And, as always, something to leave you with a smile!  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Plus: What nonprofit fundraisers are coming back in 2021?; YWCA Metropolitan Chicago's GREAT news; Izzy "Shops with a Cop" for the kids; Silver linings for PAWS Chicago, One Tail at a Time and Young at Heart Pet Rescue; CHI-lebrities open their hearts in Chicago Star Media; Remembering Hef's HOT New Year's Eve parties; Eversight Illinois' Mystery Masquerade; Playboy's new centerfold policy; Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation's Wings to Cure; Chicago Light's Gala of Hope; Happy engagement announcements; Six Flags Holiday Drive-Thru; In the news with John and Steve; Thoughts on 2020 and what the New Year will bring; A touching video and SO MUCH MORE!

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New Year's Eve looked a little different this year. Besides Covid changing the landscape of the entire world, it also kept us from celebrating the end of one of the worst years in recent memory. Restaurants missed out on much needed revenue, friends missed traditional celebrations with family and Times Square was eerily empty. People could only peek out their windows like Jimmy Stewart in "Rear Window" trying to get a feel for what was happening outside. We are all still on lockdown, mentally and physically. Chuck and I grabbed longtime friend Michael Kutza

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NYE at cozy Avli on Wells.

determined to still experience NYE, this year in a tent with heaters. Even though people were having fun we all knew this was just a (hopefully temporary) substitute for the real thing. All of this lack of freedom made me think about the wild and woolly days of NYEs past. We're so lucky

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Yurts at Swift & Sons designed by Kehoe.

to have experienced the heyday of Playboy with Hefner at his Mansion in LA. I always felt his parties rivaled Jay Gatsby's in exquisite excess and excitement. The invitations, always with beautiful pinup artwork created by Olivia De Berardinis, arrived in the mail a few weeks before the big event (I've saved them all).

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LA Playboy Mansion lit up for NYE 2009.

We would RSVP immediately and then the anticipation began. You never knew what to expect at any of his

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With Hef at a past NYE in LA.

parties as the guest lists were always changing to accommodate whoever was in town along with some of his celebrity friends. One year, the Village People performed, another year Three Six Mafia hit the stage that was inside a ginormous tent on the grounds of Hef's Holmby Hills estate. Another year, one of Hef's three girlfriends, Bridget Marquardt,  popped out of a giant cake

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Hef surrounded by admirers at a past NYE.

and did a slow strip tease as she gazed into his eyes (the crowd went wild). Hef's party guests have included John Elway, Penelope Cruz, James Caan, Nicholas Cage, astronaut Buzz Aldrin, Robert Culp, Tiffany Trump, Donald Trump,  Julie Newmar, Bill Cosby (ick), Jane Russell, Quentin Tarantino, Pamela

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Chuck enjoying the views at one of Hef's NYE parties.

Anderson, Jack Nicholson, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Madonna, Eddie Murphy, Warren Beatty, Justin Timberlake, Jimmy Connors, Paris and Nicky Hilton, Eddie Murphy and so many more. It was always a great

adventure wondering who you would see that night. I was lucky that Hef liked Chuck too and always included him. During the parties, guests enjoyed gourmet buffets,

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Celebrating with fellow Playmates Marcy Hanson, Hope Olson and Patti McGuire Connors.

unlimited champagne and cocktails, swimming in the pool or lounging in the grotto. Guests were encouraged to wear lingerie which definitely added to the excitement. Some girls' interpretations of the "suggested attire" left little to the imagination. Oh, those were truly the days! I'm happy to see Playboy doing so well online now too. Even though the magazines have physically disappeared, the brand's online presence is strong and growing. I'm so happy to still have them as a family too. Here's to another 68 years and to a bigger, brighter 2021 for us all! 

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My PostI quizzed some of my favorite bold-faced names to see how they were handling the pandemic, what their NYE resolutions were, their best moments of 2020, hopes for the future and any advice that might give us some inspiration. I discovered that we all have more in common than we know. I hope you enjoy these enlightening, and in some cases, surprising, comments from some of my favorite Chicago notables.   

One of my favorite media peeps, Sylvia Perez (Fox-32) provided these thoughtful answers. Her

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Sylvia Perez: "We are Puerto Rican and I love these shirts. We eat Pasteles and drink coquito (Puerto Rican egg nog) it’s a holiday tradition!"

favorite moment, "When they finally took Texas off the travel ban list and I was able to see my 86 year-old mother who I had not seen since last year because of the pandemic. It warmed my heart. I needed my mommy. It doesn't matter how old you are." Her NYE resolution? "To live in the moment!" Her advice? "Everyone is going through something, respect and try not to judge."

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Kathy O'Malley Piccone, the hostess with the mostest at Gibson's Steakhouse, said her favorite moments during the pandemic were "when people started to reach out to each other, sending texts, jokes, puzzles, flowers, delicious foods from local restaurants and the wonderful 'calm app.'' She said, "Most of all, just sending love and positive vibes to each others. Touching moments that brought me to tears every evening at 8 pm throughout the city [when people serenaded the healthcare workers]." Her NYE resolution is to "spread more kindness, more love and generosity, more understanding of one another, more courage and peace and be more in the moment."

 

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Amanda Puck, Director Strategic Brand Development Mariano's, has worked in the food industry for a long time. She shared,

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Amanda Puck w/ Mariano's community partner Jermaine Anderson, Corey Carr, 6th Ward Alderman Roderick Sawyer, Ron Baker Jr. and Otis Wilson.

"Through the pandemic, it was great to see organizations and individuals step up and help the community more than ever! Both the Greater Chicago Food Depository and Northern Illinois Food Bank have worked so hard feeding the community, as well as all the local food pantries across Chicagoland." During the isolation she learned "how to make a mean arancini from Chef Tony Priolo, delicious Mac & Cheese from Chef Brian Jupiter and taste more wines with Belinda Chang all via our Mariano's meet-ups and zoom classes." Her NYE resolution? "To read more! She has started with Julia Child's "My Life in France." Amanda said, "I admire her, she started and blossomed in her career later in life. She's an epic legend in our industry." She added a quote from one of her favorite authors Morgan Harper Nichols, 'Even if the wait carries on another year, I will not get where I am going without first learning to be here.'"

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Melody Spann Cooper, Chair and CEO Midway Broadcasting Corp., said her favorite moment of 2020 was "when Joe Biden and Kamala Harris were declared the President and VP-Elect of the United States. I didn't realize how sleep deprived I had been over the past four years." Her NYE resolution is to "remain healthy and helpful. I'm making a commitment to 365 days of giving. Every day I plan to intentionally give something that will help someone." Her hope for the future? "I hope for healing and restoration. Restoring health to those who have been impacted by the pandemic. Restoring compassion in all of humanity and restoring Chicago to the great city we love. It's not perfect, but in its imperfection, it's still home and a place that has allowed me to dream past my zip code."

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Paul Iacono, president Chicago Dowel Company, and much loved man-about-town, said his

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Paul Iacono with niece Jennifer and nephew Tommy.

favorite moment of 2020 was being able to squeeze in a last minute trip to Hawaii during Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day. His hopes for next year are a "quick return to normalcy, especially for my friends in the hospitality industry who truly have had a rough go of it." His words of advice, "This too shall pass."

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Always stylish, Mark Olley.

Another handsome friend, Mark Olley (Co-op Lending Manager, Chicago Financial Services), said, "No matter what hand we've been dealt, we adapt, we flourish, it's who we are, it's what we do, we're CHICAGO STRONG!" Mark discovered new skills during the pandemic, as many of us did. He enjoyed learning to cook, plant and tend to a vegetable garden and credits his husband and dog Grayson for keeping him sane. Mark says, "I always lead with hope, optimism and love." His dream for 2021 is good health and an end to Covid-19. "A positive mind and outlook, no matter how trying the circumstances, helps to get us through a lot."

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Yolanda "Dusty" Stemer, philanthropist, member of Service Club of Chicago, Costume Council and others, said that two of her three sons had mild cases of Covid and both recovered rapidly."Things like this makes you realize and give credit to our healthcare workers." Her NYE resolution is to "not turn that Peloton into a clothes rack!" Her hopes for 2021, "The same as everyone, to get a vaccine to all of our loved ones and free Botox for all!" Dusty is married to Dr. Alex Stemer, who is deeply involved in treatment, research and prevention of Covid. "There is light at the end of the tunnel. Recent advances will help make 2021 much better than 2020…Tomorrow is promised to no one, and the one thing Covid steals from us is time with those we love," she said.

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Justine Fedak, Corporate Hippie, motivational speaker and soon-to-be Woman of Vision

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Justine Fedak, "a girl who never gives up!"

for this year's Eversight Illinois Gift of Sight Celebration told me her title should be "a girl who never gives up." She's a good friend and I can tell you I have never met anyone so tenacious and driven (in a very good way). She said 2020 was a time of total renewal for her. She regained mobility "by some miracle" [she suffered from MS for years and years] and "connected deeply" with her dearest friends. Her NYE resolution is to "cry when things make me happy or sad and to feel and live my life to the fullest, no pretending anything." Her motto? "Be in love with your life every single minute. My grandma passed away this December at age 98 and she was the strongest, toughest, most loving person who never complained about anything she had to live through. To be alive is to be in love…with your life," she said.

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Sherrill Bodine with Paula Borg and Sherry Lea Holson.

Sherrill Bodine, author, president of the Service Club of Chicago and philanthropist, said her favorite moment of the last year was "working with the dedicated women of the Service Club who worked tirelessly through these challenging times to raise money for our Philanthropic Fund which will be given out in 2021 to worthy charities all over Chicago." Sherrill recently lost her husband and said her resolution is "to seek the light and find my way on this new journey without John." She always greets each day with hope and vows to "never surrender."

 

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Sean Lewis, WGN News Anchor, remembers his favorite moment of 2020 very well. He

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Newlyweds Sean Lewis and Trover Gray Wilson.

married the love of his life, Trover Gray Wilson, in a ceremony at City Hall. "The pandemic didn't allow us a large in-person celebration but I'm hoping 2021 will!" He said his resolution is "to realize that resolutions aren't a good idea. Usually it becomes the first disappointment of any new year for me." He hopes that when the pandemic ends, that people will treat each other better. His words of advice? "Eat well, appreciate the small things and learn one new thing a day."

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An icon in the dance world, Nan Giordano, artistic director Giordano Dance Chicago, is looking forward to "launching Illuminate the Possibilities, an initiative which represents global connection, unity, positivity and possibility, all through dance." She said, "Amidst our dim world light I have chosen to focus on the many silver linings that have immersed. I hope we learn and grow and take the many challenging circumstances and make something positive out of them. Mankind and peace, front and center!"  Her motto? "Today is the day! Adversity creates strength and change brings opportunity."

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Dear friend Michael Caputo, brand and creative strategist, enjoyed long walks around

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Michael Caputo (R) with friend Greg Hyder at RL.

the lakefront in the warmer months. He said, "It was lots of good thinking time. The views of our beautiful city were a hopeful reminder that things will soon return to normal." His NYE resolution is to "be adept with change and related growth." He said, "This pandemic has challenged us to rethink the 'why' of our respective lives/careers." His advice: "Every storm runs out of rain. We've all had to make do and redirect energies this past year, that can be stressful. Don't let a setback define the day. Or your life."

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Dionne Williams, president D. Williams PR Group, said, even though 2020 was a "rough year", she was able to spend more quality time with her family and a small group of friends, by staying in touch via phone or Zoom. She said, "2020 made me slow down, so for 2021 I will continue to not rush myself and live in the present and enjoy my surroundings. I want to focus more on fitness and travel when it's safe to do so." She added, "During these rough times, I have learned to be more patient. I also will take this time to work on things that I was too busy for previously, in life and business."

 

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Tracey Tarantino DiBuono, executive producer ZZAZZ Productions, said, "Having family

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Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and her Joey.

close and my young granddaughters in my home has given me a foundation of great unity as a family. Work paused. My husband Joey prepared family dinners that brought us all to the table, dinners that we never dreamed would happen in our previously busy lives." She looks forward to adding a new component to her business, virtual fashion shows and events. Her NYE resolution? "Don't expect things to return to normal…make a choice to accept and then create a new normal and keep my faith in God." She hopes that "new avenues become open to us and that prayers will be answered for everyone. Open your heart to what has been given and find gratitude in every day."

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Michelle Durpetti, managing partner Turnkey Hospitality Group, chief planner Michelle Durpetti Events, said her favorite moment of 2020 was seeing her Gene & Georgetti management team come together, be more creative, more adaptive and supportive of each other. "We have even laughed while sometimes we felt like

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Michelle Durpetti and her team from Gene & Georgetti restaurant.

crying and I think that is because we have each other. Yanni, Sal, Cristiano, Luis, Jessica, Nicole, Jeremy and Angelo are all such incredible human beings. My favorite moment hands down has been seeing them flourish and fight all the challenges." As far as resolutions, "I don't believe in resolutions to be honest. I live my life out loud, with empathy and compassion always and when I get something wrong, I own it. And that is year round." Her advice going forward: "I think I now live with the knowledge that life truly can change so fast. It has really affirmed for me that I need to take a moment every day to be grateful for all that I have and for making it this far." Her words of advice? "Let's stop tearing at one another and, instead, extend helpful hands and grateful hearts towards each other."

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RMHC-CNI's Holly Buckendahl.

Holly Buckendahl, CEO Ronald McDonald House Charities of Chicagoland & NW Indiana, said a silver lining, that she didn't expect, was the ability to stay connected virtually with family and friends. Her hope for the coming year? "While open through the pandemic (with many restrictions), I look forward to RMHC-CNI reinstating the full breadth of services critically ill children and their families need on their journey to heal together." Her advice during these tough times comes from professor, social worker and author Brene Brown who said, "In order to empathize with someone's experience, you must be willing to believe them as they see it and not how you imagine their experience to be."

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My PR gal pal Kathleen Sarpy, founder/CEO Agency H5, said her favorite moment of 2020,

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Kathleen Sarpy and her family.

despite a tough year filled with personal losses, was being able to be "immersed" with all of her kids. She and her husband Chris discovered that "love and connectedness is truly the most important thing." She said, "I really need to find a hobby. I'm a wife, a mom to 6 awesome kids, run a company and I don't really have something that I do just for me. I might finally give meditation a try or yoga, to have a space to be mindful in body and spirit."

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Jennifer Sutton Brieva, felt that Christmas was one of her favorite moments of 2020. She said "it was a much needed shift in energy for everyone. We need that all year long." Her hopes for 2021? "To learn from 2020 and never take people or experiences for granted again and to get back into pre-Covid shape!" Her words of advice? "People need to be grateful and embrace the simple pleasures of life that have become so very vital." I am so grateful for a FaceTime call with my parents, happy hour Zoom with dear friends, a classic movie with my cat Zoe or even a walk in Lincoln Park or a dance party in the kitchen with my husband Joaquin–those every day opportunities for joy often overlooked become special moments of connection, never to be taken for granted again."  

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WBBM Newsradio anchor/reporter Lisa Fielding, who has one of the most distinctive voices 

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Lisa Fielding, the Voice of WBBM.

in the business, said her favorite moment of 2020 was a mother/daughter trip to Mexico in February. "I got my travel fix, after this, by hitting the road to Michigan a couple of times to see the sunset from the other side. I'm a big "sunset" person and try to find them wherever I go," she added. Her hope for the coming year? "I hope for better days for the world, where jobs and prosperity return, where we can hug each other, sing and dance with each other while enjoying live music in our favorite venues or in that dark bar with the awesome jukebox, where we can travel the world again, enjoy a cold one and the crack of the bat at a baseball game, enjoy family gatherings, weddings, celebrations, our favorite restaurants, happy hour with friends and escape through live theater."

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Another dear friend in media is Dori Wilson, publicist/founder Dori Wilson Public Relations. Her favorite moment of 2020 was "watching a racially diverse movement develop and grow in recognition of long-standing racial inequality and injustice in this country, watching individuals and corporations commit to do better and recognition of "we're all in this together." Her NY resolution? "To actually use my Peloton!" Her hope for 2021? "I am so hopeful for a vaccination and a vacation!"…..Words of wisdom? "Laughter is the best medicine and forgiveness runs a close second!"

 

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The editor-in-chief of Cancer Wellness magazine, Caylei Vogelzang, said the best moment of 2020 was being able to spend more time with her family on the golf course. Her NYE resolutions include learning to do the splits 3 ways and a backward walkover; improve on physical fitness assessments; visit a yoga retreat; grow and expand her magazine and "become more of an essential source for those touched by cancer"; plan a family holiday to a national park; wear more pieces from local designers and sustainable fashion and practice gratitude daily and more meditation. The words she lives by is "exercise, exercise, exercise!"

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Jean de St Aubin, the executive director of the Gene Siskel Film Center, says her favorite

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Jean de St. Aubin and her daughter holiday baking.

moment of 2020 was presenting the Black Harvest Film Festival. She said, "The timing could not have been better. It was so great to have a month of celebrating Black stories, the joy felt virtually was a much needed balm to a turbulent year." Her hopes for 2021? "That everyone gets vaccinated ASAP, and that we all be together again. I think I will turn into a hugging machine as soon as it is safe." Her advice? "Count your blessings and share your gifts."

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Jean Antoniou and family at Chicago Botanic Garden.

Jean Antoniou, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago Board of Managers, said her favorite part of 2020 was "knowing it is almost over." Her advice moving forward? "To cherish family and friends because they will always be your biggest supporters. Glass is half full is always a good way to look at each day."

Michelle Mekky, president and founder of

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Michelle Mekky

Mekky Media Relations, found silver linings in a tough year. She said spending more time with her kids and husband made her so grateful for "the little moments." She also found joy in the hiring of four new people for her 5 year-old business. In 2021, she plans on prioritizing her own health and to invest in herself in ways she never has. Her motto? "Every day is a new day. Every morning we wake up with a new chance. I truly believe the energy you give out is what comes back to you. Despite all of the negativity around us, never lose hope. We will get through this!"

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Pam Capitanini (center) with friends Simona Garcia and Cristina Montgomery.

Pamella Capitanini, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago, loved watching people's inventiveness during 2020 as many learned new ways to pivot. She said, "From drive-by birthday celebrations, mask creativity and eating in igloos, it was amazing and inspiring to see." Her NYE resolution: "To keep smiling and do my best! And remember the front line workers who have given all and those who have left us." She added, "I believe many of us have realized that nails, hair and party dresses don't make a difference, but reaching out to one another does!"

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And last but certainly not least, everyone's favorite elf, The Real Elf Tommy Holl, Head of Media for The

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Tommy Holl, aka "The Real Elf."

North Pole, had much to be thankful for in 2020. "This holiday season is one for the history books that I hope we never have to repeat, but we were able to create a spark of joy for young and old." His favorite moments included: "Elfing" at 900 North Michigan Shops; Sending Elf Gram video messages with proceeds benefiting Imerman Angels (Tommy is a cancer survivor); Being hired to pop into 5 Zoom calls from around the world; Appearing on "Around Town with Ana Belaval", "Happy Hour with the Hoovers", WGN radio with Paul Lisnek, Tom Skilling's Christmas Eve and so much more. His NYE resolution is to: "Pause, reset, reorganize, reflect, be prepared, be ready, be thankful and be kind." His advice? "You can't grow from NO. It's okay to say no when it doesn't feel right, but saying no all the time will lead you nowhere. Try not to take things too seriously, none of us get out of here alive. And appreciate what you have."

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Eversight Illinois "Gift of Sight Celebration" Save-the-Date with mask included. 

I'm so excited to see some events coming BACK!! Mark your calendars for Eversight Illinois' "Gift of Sight Celebration", set for Thursday, October 21 at the Peninsula. Justine Fedak will be honored as the Woman of Vision and Dr. Parag Majmudar will be the Gift of Sight honoree. This year's masquerade theme is "Fantasea" and I'm honored to return as co-chair with Michael Caputo! (For more details, click here!)

On Saturday, November 6, the Hippocratic Cancer Research

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Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation Save-the-Date with mask included.

Foundation, will host its 6th annual "Wings to Cure." This gala will be held at the Hilton Chicago and funds raised will help support cutting edge cancer research at the Lurie Cancer Center. For more details, click here!  

Chicago Lights "Gala of Hope at Home" is still set for Friday, March 5 at 7 pm CST. This signature event will benefit the Chicago Lights Gala of Hope at Home Mar. 5youth development and social service programs of Chicago Lights and the community support efforts of the Replogle Center for Counseling and Well-Being. (More details here!)

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Here's more happy news on the nonprofit front! YWCA Metropolitan Chicago received a $9

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Philanthropist MacKenzie Scott, ex-wife of Amazon's Jeff Bezos.

million unrestricted contribution from billionaire venture philanthropist MacKenzie Scott. This major gift will help the nonprofit and its mission to empower women and families and advance racial justice. This major gift is part of more than $4 billion in philanthropic contributions made by Ms. Scott over the past four months. Board president Joyce Winnecke (just love her!) called this gift an "affirmation of YWCA Metropolitan Chicago's strategy."

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Israel "Izzy" Idonije with CPD officers from his "Shop with a Cop" initiative.

Former Chicago Bear Israel "Izzy" Idonije has lifted charitable giving to an art form. For the 6th year in a row, Izzy and his IF Charities team hosted "Shop With a Cop", a great initiative that builds trust between CPD officers and the communities they serve. On Thursday, December 17, more than 60 police officers shopped for kids in need, who had submitted a wish list "for Santa" in advance. The officers picked up items that were donated by Target with special $50 gift certificates included for family dinners donated by Jewel. (To support Izzy in his many charitable endeavors around town, click here!)

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CBS-2 Chicago's Steven Graves.

Special thanks to CBS-2 Chicago's Steven Graves and to  

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ABC-7's John Garcia for having me on their segments recently! I loved chatting about what to do for NYE with John (watch segment here) and to Steven about how our nonprofits are pivoting their fundraisers. (Watch this segment here!)

One of my favorite silver linings to this pandemic mess is the fact that our animal shelters are at their lowest point with 47345717_10155897884056272_3390432546213855232_oun-adopted rescues! As a matter of fact, PAWS Chicago has reported a near record number of adoptions in 2020–4,100! Through their Holiday-Adopt-a-Thon and usual grassroots efforts, they have managed to find forever homes for 4100 UntitledDOGS AND CATS! Can I get a Woot! Woot!? PAWS Chicago also provides extensive resources to help pets make a seamless transition into their news home and also provides a lifetime safety net for every animal, ensuring that if something happens to the adopter, their PAWS pet will always be cared for. I'm hearing similar good news from One Tail at a Time and also Young at Heart Senior Pet Rescue–all my favorites and much recommended animal shelters. Please check them out if you're looking for a pet!

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BEST IMG_0446_Facetune_30-12-2020-16-46-36I'm so loving my new home at Chicago Star Media! This group of hyper-local papers delivers, monthly, positive news you can use and I hope you're a subscriber! (Please click here for details or just leave your name and address here, info@chicagostarmedia, to receive the free online newsletter.) My latest column, "Chicago's CHI-lebrities Reflect on 2020, Share Hopes for the Coming Year" has been a hit, garnering both the front page and centerfold of the recent publication! (Read it here and get advice and discover the hopes and dreams of Chef Art Smith, rocker Jim Peterik, Bill Kurtis and Donna La Pietra, comedian Tom Dreesen, Kerry Wood and his Sarah, Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas, Leslie Hindman, Israel "Izzy" Idonije, The Joffrey  Ballet's Ashley Wheater, entertainer Chilli Pepper, restaurateur RJ Melman, Alpana Singh, Michael Kutza, Aldmerman Brian Hopkins and Dr. Ian Smith. I was so moved by their honest, thoughtful answers….there is uplifting advice, inspiration for the future and their thoughts on 2020! Read it all here!

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Jatnna Toribio and Izzy Idonije are engaged!

There's a lotta love in the air right now! So many exciting betrothals to announce! First off, love and

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Marcus Riley is engaged to Jude Fitzgerald!

congrats to Jatnna Toribio and her Israel Idonije, who were recently engaged. Also, congratulations to Marcus Riley and his Jude Fitzgerald who got engaged on New Year's Day and,

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Val Warner is engaged to Jobba Jordan.

last but not least, to Windy City Live's Val Warner who just became engaged to Jobba Jordan. I'm thrilled for each and every one of these beautiful people who managed to not only survive during

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Val and Jobba sittin' in a tree…..

this nasty year, but to thrive and find love. It's definitely easier to face any storm when you're supported by your best friend. Here's wishing them all a lifetime of health and happiness and, as Kup always said, "Long may they love!"

 

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IMG_0710We recently experienced Six Flags' Holiday in the Park Drive-Thru in Gurnee. Over 3 million lights illuminate the park as cars drive through at 3 mph. We ordered hot IMG_0714chocolate, a funnel cake and I bought an ornament (of course). We listened to piped in holiday music and it was sort of eerie, to be honest, and had the feel of driving through a deserted theme park in the Truman Show. However, I guess if we'd lived closer, the experience would've been a little easier and better. But, frankly, driving through the park with the Notre Dame game blasting on the radio might've had something to do with my lack of enthusiasm (although Chuck was certainly entitled to cheer on his favorite team!) This is only my POV, so please go and find out for yourselves (and let me know what you think!) The experience has been extended through Jan. 10, details here!

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Playboy's Winter 2021 Playmate Izabela Guedes.

Playboy has changed the format of its iconic centerfold. No longer will the featured Playmate be spotlighted for just a month, now she will have a whole season all to herself! There will be only 4 Playmates a year….makes me wish for a do-over! Read deets here on how Playboy is growing, and meet the Winter 2021 Playmate, Izabela Guedes.

 

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As I close out my first blog of 2021, I must say, I am glad to leave 2020 (far) behind. I've never had a worse Goodbye-2020-hello-2021-images-12year and I know many of my friends feel the same. There's was no  "dashing through the snow on a one horse open sleigh, o'er the fields we go, laughing all the way"…… Not this year when everything in the world changed in the blink of a Covid eye. I couldn't even get in my usual cheery mood for Christmas, at Elf on Shelfleast not in the way I used to. One minute, we're planning family gatherings, figuring out seating, who will sit at the kids' table and the next thing you know, we're all Zooming in to "celebrate" on computer screens. I found myself decorating for Christmas almost manically, trying to create much needed joy that is at a premium now. I know store

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This is definitely NOT my work, beautiful gingerbread house by Jennifer and Joaquin Brieva (kit from Vanille Chicago).

shelves were shopped clean of all holiday decor long before the usual time. On social media, my friends busily shared photos of their trees, holiday cookies, DIY Christmas ideas and so much more. Hell, we even attempted building a gingerbread house for the first time but it

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I'm thinking our tree will be up until Easter or beyond. (Sort of kidding?)

looked like a tornado hit it before I could even ice the roof. This year, we lost our dog, family members, I lost a job, Chuck lost his three dearest friends and had a TIA (mini-stroke). I think I was entitled to decorate as much as I wanted to try to fill this void and you can bet these decorations are gonna be here for a while. Nothing makes me happier than twinkling Christmas tree lights. It reminds me of all the GOOD years in the past when all of our family was gathered together, giving gifts and

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Marshall Field's famous Chicken Pot Pie.

thanks for our good health and the fact that we were still here. Pre-Covid, you could still find Santa in all the department stores, which were decorated to the nines. I'm happy though to see that retail, despite all its setbacks, still

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Marshall Field's Walnut Room at Christmas 1950.

tried to be festive. Macy's, although certainly not close to the old Marshall Field's in holiday decor, still had cheerful windows and the Great Tree in the Walnut Room. And, although families couldn't carry on life-long traditions of dining there during the season, they could still order carry-out–the famous Mrs. Hering's Chicken Pot Pie (recipe here), lobster bisque, Frango Mint

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Ann Gerber's book, "Sweet Tooth," a collection of recipes by Chicago notables.

Chocolate Ice Cream Pie and more. For Chuck and me, we still tried to carry on family traditions. We baked my mom's ham (Cooks only) and I fixed Mama Mary Johnson's famous sweet potato pie (whose recipe was featured in Ann Gerber's 1985 book, "Chicago's Sweet Tooth."). I also cooked the requisite black-eyed peas for good luck on New Year's Day (I pray it works). We toasted to the loved ones we lost and prayed for a better future, one that will bring back the human element and social interaction that is necessary to the survival of a species. We can't drift apart. We need "parties for hosting, marshmallows for toasting and caroling out in the snow," now more than ever. Here's hoping this year is off to a great start for you!

Love always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. Life's short, make the most of it. Thank you Michiel for this poignant reminder.

 

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