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CHICAGO’S SOCIAL SCENE COMES ROARING BACK, BIGGER AND BETTER THAN EVER!

Just when you start thinking that the two years we had to take off due to Covid would change everything (and not in a good way), something wonderful has happened. Chicago's biggest nonprofit fundraisers have returned bigger and better than ever with even more dedicated supporters, more creative planning and updates that have actually created silver linings in all this mess. I'm thrilled to share this uplifting news (AND FUN!) with you here now! ______________________________________________________________________

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Honoree Paul R. Iacono with his adoring neice Jennifer Goodwin.

Bear Necessities Pediatric Cancer Foundation hosted its annual Bear Tie Ball, this year renamed to something bigger and bolder, BEAR TIE BASH! Guests came out in force wearing their most colorful attire to help raise funds

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BNPCF's Courtney Krupa and Kathleen Casey with Greg Kosinski.

for kids with cancer. People I haven't seen in a long, long time showed up dressed to the nines for this elegant, fun-filled bash at Wintrust's Grand Banking Hall. The theme, "Magic in Bloom," attracted all sorts of creativity, from the sustainable flower arrangements that dotted all the tables created by Debi Lilly's "A Perfect Event", to the 8-foot poppies from Derrick Taylor (Taylor & Company) to the unique "flower fairy" courtesy of ZZAZZ Productions, the night was filled with wonderment and

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Julie Barrish and Sherry Lea Fox.
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Co-chair Nina Mariano with her son Pasquale Gianni and Paul.

beauty. Kids from the Bear Hug Program sold plush bears in honor of the organization's namesake, Barrett "Bear" Krupa, while guests mixed, mingled and cocktail-ed as they perused the silent auction offerings (which included an amazing dinner for 6 at the soon-to-be-opened Reunion restaurant at Navy Pier, helmed by Chef Art Smith!) Wintrust, the presenting sponsor, offered its

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Dr. Joaquin Brieva, Jennifer Sutton Brieva and Todd Hatoff.

amazing space for the party. The building was built in 1924 and still retains so many beautiful elements of the era, including 28 columns that line the hall made of light Cunard

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Dmitry and Bianca Richie.

pink marble, the Stockyard Inn Antique Clock (which dates from 1683) and the exquisite murals that line the ceiling (and took a year to complete) painted by the famous painter Jules Guerin. During the program, emceed by Fox-32's Sylvia Perez, the 2022 Bear Hug Ambassador, Samantha Gewalt, was introduced. She is a leukemia survivor who worked full time through college to become a physical education teacher. She is (almost) 9 years cancer free now. Bear Necessities founder Kathleen Casey spoke

Kathy Piccone  ZZZAZZ Productions Flower Fairy Jennifer Wycykal and Sylvia Perez (emcee).

Kathy Piccone ZZZAZZ Productions Flower Fairy Jennifer Wycykal and Sylvia Perez (emcee).

about the effect Covid had on the nonprofit. "Every difficult moment in our lives brings us the opportunity to

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Julia Jacobs, Bob and Nicki Fioretti, John Robak and Bethany Florek.

learn. Bear Necessities had to completely change our ways with no in person events and we went from 8 staff members to 3! Wow, how in the world do we survive without events, that's what we have been known for almost 30 years? With the help of a "crisis" team made up of Board members, we hired consultants who taught us how to change things all around to make it possible for us to survive…We are beyond proud to announce that we

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Tiffany and Adam Marshall, Tracy and Russ Scurto, Lanisa and Rusty Scurto.

ended our year with a surplus in the midst of it all instead of a deficit. You, our generous donors, responded to our calls for support and together we continued to meet the needs of our children and their

Mimi and Jay Goodwin with daughter Jennifer Goodwin.

Mimi and Jay Goodwin with daughter Jennifer Goodwin.

families." Kate Tillotson, who had served as one of the consultants, was recently named CEO. The evening honored legacy board member Paul R. Iacono with the nonprofit's highest honor, the William J. Casey Hope

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Jim Shriver, Barbara Hartman, Meghan and Michael Hartman.

Award (named after Bear's grandpa). Paul, a splendid dresser on every occasion, wore a pale pink Yves Saint Laurent suit with white Prada tennies. Before his presentation, a short video (created by Troy Mair's Kairos Film Co.) featured FOPs (Friends of Paul) speaking about the man they all know

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Tracey Tarantino DiBuono (R) and friend.

and love and why he is so deserving of this award. Speakers included Dr. Joaquin Brieva and Jennifer Sutton Brieva, Todd Hatoff, Donna Rotunno, Nina Mariano (co-chair) and me (co-

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Kathy Piccone, Julia Jacobs and Jennifer Brieva.

chair). Paul delivered a warm, heartfelt speech before he was told his award had been dropped and broken so no photo opps for this moment, sadly. Following Paul's speech, Father Paul White interviewed children in the Bear Hugs Program about their experiences. Nina and I welcomed the crowd and explained where the funds raised went– to programs including research programs

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Handsome men, Chuck Jordan and Greg Kosinski.

across the country, counseling for families, educational scholarships and the wonderful Bear Hugs Program that brings so much joy and happiness into the lives of

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Paul Iacono, Nicki and Bob Fioretti.

hundreds of kids courageously battling cancer. A live auction, presented by Jason Lamoreaux, included a fabulous in-home dinner cooked by world famous Chef Tony Priolo (that sold TWICE for a total of $26K!). A dinner at Paul Iacono's home sold for over 10K! A Bernedoodle puppy from Erica's Doodles sold for $$$$ to Kathleen Casey and her husband Greg! Steak 48

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Father Paul White with some of the adorable Bear Hug Kids.

donated an amazing package featuring dinner every  month at this award-winning restaurant for a YEAR, that sold for $5K!!! (Thank you Steak 48, Oliver Badgio and Kathleen Sarpy) During

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Beautiful venue at Wintrust Banking Hall.

dinner (by Blue Plate Catering), guests were delighted to see an unexpected guest, a ROBOTIC DOG! It was beyond adorable and, even though it was remote controlled, people still felt compelled to reach out and pet it! Special thanks to Dimitry Ritchie and wife

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Dmitry and Bianca Richie brought a robotic dog!

Bianca for adding even more excitement to an already thrilling night. And, on top of this, in another surprise move, they donated a magnificent Cartier diamond and gold bracelet, that brought in over $10K!

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With fellow co-chair Nina Mariano, and Tracey Tarantino DiBuono (ZZAZZ Productions)

Whew! Heads were spinning during all of this and you just didn't know what to expect next–my definition of a perfect party! The event raised over $500K and still counting! I was beyond honored to return for the 2nd time as a co-chair for this remarkable nonprofit that lightens the loads for so many families and their kids with cancer. Chicago Star was the proud media sponsor. (If you would like to donate or learn more, please click here!)

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TOP PIC--Chef Art Smith with Reunion servers.

Chef Art Smith’s Reunion restaurant was the scene for a lively gathering of Art-loving locals to celebrate the opening of his brand-new restaurant at Navy Pier. Over 150 guests

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Sherry Lea Holson, Kathy-Haines Finley, Jesus Salgueiro, Jennifer Sutton Brieva and Kathy Piccone.

were in attendance to congratulate Art, his partners Manolis and George Alpogianis and team on Reunion, a great new dining option for the Windy City. Chef Art, with his artist/husband Jesus Salgueiro, greeted partygoers and snapped pics all the while keeping a

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With Manolis Alpogianis, Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas, Cook County Clerk Karen Yarbrough, and George Alpogianis.

keen eye on the food, staff and other happy diners. Chef Hector Guerrero made sure the dishes came out of the kitchen looking and tasting good. Platters of Art’s famous fried chicken were

Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and Kathy Rezny.

Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and Kathy Rezny.

highlights but all the items on this comfort-food menu were delicious.Outside, guests gathered around the newly opened corner bar, which I predict will become a hotspot for sure at the Pier, not only because it’s a cool spot to hang out but also because of its prime location

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Jane Stephens and Sylvia Perez. (Fox 32)

at the southwest corner of the Pier. It’s also the first bar going in to grab a cocktail as you walk through the attractions. The event was co-hosted by Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas and moi. (Photos by Kelsey Goodwin)

(Chef Art Smith’s Reunion, 700 E. Grand, Navy Pier, 312.224.1415, reunionatthepier.squarespace.com)

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Event co-chairs Pat Maxwell, Dr. Stacie McClane and Sherry Lea Holson.

The Service Club’s Spring Hat Luncheon returned to a historical location for 2022, The Ritz Carlton Chicago, which also traditionally welcomes back our “snowbirds” from their Winter homes. The Grand Ballroom was full of a sea of gorgeous millinery and the flashbulbs “popped” as people were overjoyed to be all in one room together! The trio of co-chairs who raised

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Shaun Rajah, best hat overall winner.

the Spring Lunch to success a few years ago, returned this year to keep the momentum going. Sherry Lea Holson, Pat Maxwell and Dr. Stacie McClane pulled out all the stops to create a fun afternoon of camaraderie, fundraising and merriment.

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Susan Gohl, always elegant, and another Hat Award winner.

The newly renovated Ballroom was gorgeous, and the Foyer provided the perfect “meet & greet” gathering spot. Service Club President Jean Antoniou welcomed the sold-out crowd of 400 ladies and gentlemen, along with the co-chairs, by thanking them for their generosity. “I am so grateful to our co-chairs for spearheading our first major event of 2022.

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Paula Borg, a vision in pink! (And a Hat Award winner).

This audience is full of beautiful fashion and millinery, and all of you are beautiful for your inherent spirit of giving,” said Antoniou. The guest speaker of the day was Jessica Ann Pushor, the Costume

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Pam Capitanini and Dusty Stemer.

& Textile Collections Manager for The Chicago History Museum. She discussed the history of hats, beginning with Paris millinery in the late 1800’s, through to the Chicago hat experience. reviewing designers of note from the CHM Collection including Paul Poiret, Halston, Dior, Bes Ben/Benjamin Greenfield and Balenciaga. The crowd was enraptured and questions for Jessica abounded. Awards for Best Hats went to Cheryl Coleman, Shaun Rajah, Paula Borg, and Susan Gohl. Chicago media star Rob Johnson helmed a Live Auction of fantastic hotel & staycation experiences, as well

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Wendy Krimins and Tina Koegel (Neiman Marcus Michigan Avenue).

as an Open Call to benefit the organization’s Philanthropic

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Cheryl Coleman, another Best Hat Winner.

Fund for 2023. The event raised over $269K, an all-time record for the Hat Luncheon. The Service Club of Chicago's mission is to assist, improve and expand upon agency programs in the Chicagoland area. Its grant recipients operate in the areas of social service, cultural, educational, and civic fields and they serve individuals all over greater Chicagoland. The Service Club of Chicago is an all-volunteer women's organization founded in 1890. All proceeds raised are distributed to the worthiest 501c3 agencies in our community. (For more info, click here)

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Event co-chairs Tracey Tarantino DiBuono (ZZAZZ Productions), Sharyl Mackey and Jean Antoniou (SC President).

And continuing with more SC event news! The organization hosted its annual “Day on the Terrace” fashion show luncheon at The Peninsula Chicago, on

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Dawn Hasbrouck looking smashing.

August 1. Themed “Cinema Paradiso,” the much-loved event returned to the Pen after a two-year covid hiatus. Over 300 fashion-loving men and women gathered to lend their support to the SC and veteran event co-chairs Jean Antoniou, Tracey DiBuono, and Sharyl Mackey.  Models included a number of Service Club members, as well as a bevy of local celebrities

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Lezley Hodes and Karen Peters.

and media personalities. A silent auction, raffle prizes, a keepsake Look Book and a jam-packed goody bag added to the excitement of the day. Fashions showcased featured the latest trends from some of the best retailers on the Avenue: alice + olivia, Anne Fontaine, Contessa Bottega, Cram Fashion, Elda de la Rosa Couture, Lauren Lein, Ltd.,

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The handsome men of CRAM.

Max Mara, Mira Couture, Neiman Marcus Michigan Avenue, Peter Millar, St. John Boutique, Suit Supply,

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Proud to wear fashions from Neiman Marcus Michigan Avenue in the finale. (A.W.A.K.E. Mode skirt and cing a sept jacket).

SYLWIA, and York Furrier. After the show and lunch, the fun and festivities continued at a fabulous After Party on the Terrace! Dancing to the beats of DJ Akib, specialty cocktails, a “photo frame” and lots of relaxation and friendship ensued.The after party was a first at the Pen for this event and it was a great success!

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A chic Sherry Lea Holson at DOT After-Party.

Photo props by Kehoe Designs added to the merriment. Congrats to the co-chairs, the committee, ALL who so generously donated and supported, Kevin Sullivan and all the other people/businesses/designers/retailsers who helped

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Neiman Marcus Michigan Avenue finale looks.

make it such a great success! Every year, these veteran co-chairs work so hard putting this fabulous event together, and every single year, they make it better than the last! How do they do it?! Thank YOU! (John Reilly Photography photos)

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It was a very beautiful Day on the Terrace!

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Holly Buckendahl, Bill Chunowitz, Charlie Marino, Anne Baum and Jeff Cantalupo. 

More than 600 guests came together in-person for the first time since 2019 for Ronald McDonald House Charities® of

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Kiss FM's Fred, Ronald McDonald and Leon Rogers.

Chicagoland & Northwest Indiana’s (RMHC-CNI Annual Gala (on April 30) to celebrate the organization’s 45th anniversary and raise important funds to help families get better together. The Gala, titled Welcome Home and presented by Wintrust, HAVI and Tyson, was held at The Geraghty and honored the charity’s co- 2022 Gala Guests - photo by Erin Lylefounders Charlie Marino, Bill Chunowitz and Dr. Ed Baum. The event also spotlighted Dr. Cathy Humikowski, a former patient of Dr. Baum and an ICU pediatrician at Lurie Children’s, who shared her thoughts on the important role that Ronald 2022 Gala Guests - Photo by Hilary Higgins Photography (47)McDonald House has played for families in need 45 years ago, today and for the years ahead. Fred, from I HEART MEDIA, 103.5 KISS-FM’sThe Fred Show” and Leon Rogers from the WGCI Morning Show served as the evening’s emcees and Holly Buckendahl, RMHC-CNI’s CEO, and Jeff Cantalupo, RMHC-CNI’s Board Chair, took to the 2022 Gala Guests - Photo by Hilary Higgins Photography (86)stage to share remarks about the impact the organization has on families in the Chicagoland community and thanked guests for their generosity and continued support. “The gala is our largest annual Jeff Cantalupo and Guests - Photo by Hilary Higgins Photography (94)fundraising event that helps provide the care and resources needed for countless families with sick children around Chicagoland, Northwest Indiana and beyond,” says Holly Buckendahl, CEO, RMHC-CNI. “It was wonderful to all be together 2022 Gala Guests - Photo by Hilary Higgins Photography (20)again in person for this special event and I’m thrilled that we raised over $1.3 million. Every dollar will go toward programs and services that enable families to get better together, ensuring that Ronald McDonald House continues to be a beacon of hope and support 2022 Gala Guests - Photo by Hilary Higgins Photography (24) for families with sick children.”The event celebrated the tremendous impact RMHC-CNI has had over the past 45 years and raised money to support children and their families through the Ronald McDonald House®, Ronald McDonald Family Room® and GalaRonald McDonald Care Mobile® programs. Attendees were encouraged to dust off their favorite red dancing shoes, anything from stilettos to sneakers and build an ensemble around them for the festive affair.  In the exciting live and silent auctions, guests had the opportunity to bring home incredible keepsakes and experiences including an invite to Andrea Bocelli’s private, annual White Party in Tuscany, VIP Wrigley Field experience, live concerts, luxury car racing experience and a lavish trip to Cabo San Lucas.  At the conclusion of the program, guests celebrated the evening’s success by night away to the live entertainment.

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PAWS Chicago Founder & Chairman  Paula Fasseas with homeless puppy  Photo by Sparenga Photography

PAWS Chicago founder and chairman, Paula Fasseas.

Life was a beach for PAWS Chicago’s homeless pets! Dressed in Hawaiian shirts, floral sundresses and leis – and that’s just the canine guests – PAWS Chicago’s 19th

Life was a beach for PAWS Chicago’s homeless pets! Dressed in Hawaiian shirts, floral sundresses and leis – and that’s just the canine guests – PAWS Chicago’s 19th annual Beach Party brought hundreds of pet lovers to Offshore at Navy Pier on July 27 to raise lifesaving funds for homeless pets. The event, which raised $375,000, will help the city's largest No Kill humane organization continue its mission to end needless euthanasia of cats and dogs, and provide lifesaving medical treatments for homeless and at-risk pets.  The Beach Party was emceed by WGN Radio’s Lisa Dent and FOX 32 Chicago’s Jake Hamilton, and co-chaired by PAWS development board members Laura Sachs and HGTV “Windy City Rehab” star Alison Victoria. Guests participated in a spirited live auction by auctioneer David Goodman and enjoyed an up-close view of the Navy Pier fireworks from the dance floor. Live auction items included trips to Tuscany and Burgundy, and one exotic Hawaiian beachfront condo package even resulted in a bidding war between two guests.  Luckily, PAWS was able to sell the package to both, for $18,000 each. Lucky pups in attendance indulged in a doggie buffet provided by PAWS Chicago’s feeding partner Merrick Pet Care and received pampered treatments at the Dog Spa - complete with brush-outs and pawdicures. Some even danced the night away with their people on the Offshore rooftop – like Chicago the Great Dane dancing on his hind legs with his owner, Magdalena Huk. Human guests also enjoyed a beachfront dinner, photo booth and caricature artist.  Several homeless dogs were available for adoption that evening, including Disco, a 7-month-old Miniature Schnauzer PAWS rescued from Chicago Animal Care & Control, and Gunther, a 3-year-old Dachshund mix who was found dumped by the side of the road in rural Oklahoma locked inside a dirty crate. Disco and Gunther both found homes at the event! (pawschicago.org)

Jake Hamilton, Sylvia Perez, Magali Blasdell and Adina Klein (Photo by Claire Demos Photography)

annual Beach Party brought hundreds of pet lovers to Offshore at Navy Pier on July 27 to raise lifesaving funds for homeless pets. The event, which raised $375,000, will help the city's largest No Kill

Howard Tullman  Alderman Raymond Lopez & Judy Tullman  Photo by Sparenga Photography

Howard and Judy Tullman with Alderman Raymond Lopez. (Photo by Sparenga Photography)

humane organization continue its mission to end needless euthanasia of cats and dogs, and provide lifesaving medical treatments for homeless and at-risk pets.  The Beach Party was emceed by WGN Radio’s Lisa Dent and FOX 32 Chicago’s Jake Hamilton, and co-chaired by PAWS development board PAWS Chicago Adoptable Puppy Amor  Photo by Claire Demos Photography members Laura Sachs and HGTV “Windy City Rehab” star Alison Victoria. Guests participated in a spirited live auction by auctioneer David Goodman and

Beach Party Co-chairs Laura Sachs & Windy City Rehab's Alison Victoria with adoptable puppy  Photo by Sparenga Photography

Beach Party co-chairs Laura Sachs and Windy City Rehab's Alison Victoria w/ adoptable puppy. (Photo by Sparenga Photography)

enjoyed an up-close view of the Navy Pier fireworks from the dance floor. Live auction items included trips to Tuscany and Burgundy, and one exotic Hawaiian beachfront condo package even resulted in a bidding war between two

Domanique Woods holding dog  Peanut and Rebecca Silva  Photo by Sparenga Photography

Domanique Woods holding dog Peanut and Rebecca Silva. (Photo by Sparenga Photography)

guests.  Luckily, PAWS was able to sell the package to both, for $18,000 each. Lucky pups in attendance indulged in a doggie buffet provided by PAWS Chicago’s feeding partner Merrick Pet Care and

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JP Marchetti, holding Nacho, Angie DeMars, Maria Beck and Joe Panarese, (Photo by Claire Demos Photography)

received pampered treatments at the Dog Spa – complete with brush-outs and pawdicures. Some even danced the night away with their people on the Offshore rooftop – like Chicago the Great Dane dancing

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Renata Block and Michele Mistovich w/ Gigi & Isabella. (Photo by Claire Demos)

on his hind legs with his owner, Magdalena Huk. Human guests also enjoyed a beachfront dinner, photo booth and caricature artist.  Several homeless dogs were available for adoption that evening, including Disco, a 7-month-old Miniature Schnauzer PAWS rescued from Chicago Animal Care & Control, and Gunther, a 3-year-old Dachshund mix who was found dumped by the side of the road in rural Oklahoma locked inside a dirty crate. Disco and Gunther both found homes at the event! (pawschicago.org)

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With Steak 48's Oliver Badgio, Kathleen Sarpy, Nicole Robinson (CEO, YWCA Metropolitan Chicago) and Toya Garcia-Bradow (William Blair).

The 4th annual "Pretty Powerful" event was held at Steak 48 in River North and attracted over 60 of our city's most philanthropic women, those who promote and support a variety of

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Cortney Hall, Dr. Lauren Streicher, Bela Gandhi and Susanna Wickham.

local charities and nonprofits. It was founded in 2018 by Kathleen Sarpy, founder and CEO of Agency H5, a

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Part of Agency H5's Dream Team, Carmen Kramer, Addie Bazant and Kaitlyn Kennedy.

boutique, integrated marketing and PR firm Agency, and me (we also served as hosts). Guests enjoyed networking, cocktails and light bites as they toasted each other and the important work they do in Chicago. Collectively, the group assembled on this evening has raised millions

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With Sylvia Perez and Dionne Williams.

of dollars for charity. An exciting raffle took place and Oliver Badgio, Chief Brand Officer for Prime Steak Concepts, awarded the YWCA of Metropolitan Chicago and Bear Necessities Pediatric Cancer Foundation a complimentary cocktail reception for their respective networks at Steak 48. Flowers for Dreams, a local florist who makes a huge charitable impact in Chicago by giving a portion of their sales to local organizations, provided beautiful bouquets for each and every guest to take home. Next year, we hope to celebrate with even more Pretty Powerful ladies as we toast to Chicago's charities, the women who keep them funded and their continuing success! (Photos by Mila Samokhina) ______________________________________________________________________

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Dance legend, Homer Bryant, Giodano Dance Chicago's Legacy Ball honoree 2022, with the Hiplet Ballerinas.

Giordano Dance Chicago (GDC) hosted its annual Giordano Legacy Ball gala at the Ravenswood Event Center on June 2. The evening provided attendees the chance to enjoy

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Joshua Blake Carter (GDC operations director), Michael McStraw ( Exec. Dir.), Nan Giordano (Artistic Dir.) , honoree Homer Bryant and Cesar Salinas (new artistic program manager). 

pop-up performances by the GDC dancers and Hiplet

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GDC dancers Skyler Newcom, Fernando Rodriguez and Erina Ueda, in background.

Ballerinas, plus eat, drink and dance the night away surrounded by vintage cars, neon signs and music spun by world renowned DJ Madrid Perry. Homer Hans Bryant, former GDC Assistant Artistic Director, former principal dancer with the Dance Theatre of Harlem, creative director of the Chicago Multi-Cultural Dance Center (CMDC) and

Bethany Florek and John Robak.

Bethany Florek and John Robak.

the Hiplet Ballerinas, was Honorary Chair and Honoree for this event. The evening attracted more than 250 attendees and raised more than $125,000 for GDC and its ongoing operations and community outreach programs including the innovative “Jazz Dance/Science & Health” program. GDC dancers opened the evening’s program

Mat Tully  Pat Manus  Molly Manus and Steve Manus.

Mat Tully, Pat Manus, Molly Manus and Steve Manus.

with a colorful and electric number, “Illuminate." Gala attendees were treated to additional GDC pop-up performances throughout the evening, alternating between fun-filled

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Trey Gonzales, Kip Helverson (GDC board pres.) with Lisa and Jeff Jozwian.

moments of open dancing. The Hiplet Ballerinas heralded the introduction of honoree Bryant with a special performance set to "Jammin” by Black Violin. “Homer is a legendary force in Chicago’s dance community and an inspirational educator whose career is built on strength, discipline, integrity, and

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Leslie Glazier, Lee Golub, Zachary Heller, Wendy Elstein, Greg Elstein and Sandy Golub.

positivity,” says GDC Artistic Director Nan Giordano. “It is our pleasure to honor this man who, though anchored in

Michael McStraw (GDC ED)  Jacki Hydock and Ryan Jacobson.

Michael McStraw (GDC ED), Jacki Hydock and Ryan Jacobson.

Chicago, has had an impact worldwide and continues to inspire us all.” This gala event preceded GDC’s final performance of their 59th Season at the Auditorium Theater June 11; and GDC’s popular “Dancing With The Giordano Stars” benefit competition returning Oct. 6 to Park West. For more information on these and other GDC events visit giordanodance.org. 

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Doris Salomon  Nuestro Futuro Affinity Fund Co-Chair and Lorenza Taylor from Chase and LGBTQ Community Fund Steering Committee

Doris Salomon, Nuestro Futuro Affinity Fund Co-Chair, and Lorenza Taylor from Chase and LGBTQ Community Fund Steering Committee

The LGBTQ Community Fund celebrated its pandemic-postponed (2020) 10-Year Celebration recently with over 220 guests in the Hyatt Regency’s Crystal Ballroom. This Fund is an initiative of the Chicago Community trust. Since its launch in 2010, the fund has invested in 42 Chicagoland organizations through 72 grants focused on LGBTQ youth, seniors, employment, community safety, affordable housing and accessible health care. Attendees, which included grant recipients, donors and community leaders, enjoyed a panel discussion focused on the need for more funding within this community. _______________________________________________________________________________

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Catie Keogh, Bonnie Spurlock, Angela Gagnon and Cynthia and Peter Au, with son, toast Chicago Star

Party in aisle two! Chicago Star's Streeterville Week Kick-Off Party was a great success at Mariano's Lakeshore East! Thanks to our hosts, Mariano's and its team leader Amanda Puck,

Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas and Peter Kamberos with grandson.

Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas and Peter Kamberos with grandson.

store director Scott Wilson, Chris Weir, Amari Walls, Jajuan Harvey and J & L Catering who helped us

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CSM Publisher-Editor Elaine Hyde with Chef Jaymes Berry, Brian Keyes, Chris Weir and Jajuan Harvey.

create magic for this annual celebration of local (and big) businesses in Chicago. Last year's event was held on the store's magical rooftop overlooking Lakeshore East Park. This year, due to inclement weather, we brought the party inside but that certainly

Amanda Puck  Mariano's Director Strategic Brand Development.

Amanda Puck, Mariano's Director Strategic Brand Development.

didn't diminish the fun factor! As a matter of fact, with all of the colorful florals and product displays, it turned out to be a visual feast as well. Guests were greeted by Honest Abe Lincoln (Gregg Steigmeyer courtesy of ZZAZZ Productions) who

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Andy Frey, Molly Callinan (Too Much Molly Band), Ellie Kahn, Dr. Bianka Hardin.

held a bronze star which served as a great prop for photos along with many others courtesy of Kehoe Designs. A beautiful, branded cake was served with the Chicago Star logo surrounded by sugary flowers created by Mariano's pastry department. A buffet, created by Chef Jaymes Berry, included everything from sushi to truffle mac & cheese and everything in-between. Live entertainment by Molly Callinan (Too Much Molly Band) and Ellie Kahn wowed the

Michael Kutza and Lisa Fielding.

Michael Kutza and Lisa Fielding.

crowd, as they played toe-tapping covers from Moulin Rouge, Lady Gaga and other pop hits along with Mariano's DJ B-Real. The crowd was dancing in the

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Jon Landan, Giovanna Krozel, Andrew Landan and Almira Yllana.

produce aisles as they mixed and mingled and enjoyed cocktails, delicious food and a feeling of camaraderie –all in support of Chicago Star and local businesses. Publisher/editor Elaine Hyde explained the mission of the paper, building community and positivity, and I welcomed the crowd. Our former assistant editor Nuria Mathog spoke about Chicago Star's

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Kate Murray with Honest Abe (Gregg Steigmeyer from ZZAZZ Productions).

reach, over 50,000 and in nearly 400 locations across the city. Thanks to a connection from the Landan Twins (Jonathan and Andrew), guests were gifted with cool branded baseball caps created by Done Deal

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Paul Iacono, Dr. Joaquin Brieva and my Chuck.

Promotions, along with Mariano's goody bags. Special thanks to all who came out and supported Chicago Star (and us!), especially the businesses who participated in this year's Streeterville Week celebration. Drum roll please for the Fairmont Chicago, Harry Caray's, Robert's Pizza, The Hampton Social, Winter's Jazz Club, W Chicago Lakeshore, Cupitol and Carr Workplaces. A fun time was had by ALL! (Photos by Kelsy Goodwin)

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BSF Golf Classic 4More than 300 civic and corporate leaders from across the country came out to participate in the 22nd annual Big Shoulders Fund Golf Classic. The event is Big Shoulders BSF Golf Classic 3Fund’s largest annual fundraiser and, this year, raised over $830,000, for the Friends of Big Shoulders Scholarship Fund, which provides critical tuition assistance to nearly 400 students in Big Shoulders Fund’s network of Chicago schools annually. Hosted at the prestigious Olympia Fields Country Club, attendees took part in a series of golf contests – including a Hole-in-One and Closest to the Pin contests, raffles, live and silent auction, and more. Since its inception 22 years ago, the Golf Classic has raised nearly $11M for scholarships. (Congrats to Josh Hale, Team, Supporters and Donors!)

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Advisory Board President Ellen Sandor w/ event co-chairs Eda Davidman and Natalie Crawford. Robert Downey Jr. and Matt Damon onscreen behind. (Photo by Sean Su)

The Gene Siskel Film Center at the School of the Art Institute of Chicago hosted a special benefit to commemorate the organization’s 50 years of showing

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The brilliant staff of the Gene Siskel Film Center. (Photo by Sean Su)

the best of independent, international and classic film to Chicago audiences. The festive evening featured a live-screened conversation between actor, producer and screenwriter Matt Damon and Film Center board member, actor, producer and activist Robert Downey Jr. At the end of the sold-out event, which raised $200,000 to support the Film Center’s mission, Damon was presented with the Gene Siskel Film Center Renaissance Award. Congrats to all and thank you for that awesome anniversary cake Eli’s Cheesecake Company!

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Lucky guest gets up close and personal with Zoo lion Zabari, dad to new cub Pilipili.

The Women’s Board of Lincoln Park Zoo welcomed revelers to don their finest and soar to Zoo Ball, the zoo’s largest annual fundraiser. Themed “Birds of

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Jason Brett and Dr Lauren Streicher

Paradise,” this year’s black-tie event once again took place under a big tent set in the middle of the zoo’s stunning grounds and raised $1.5 million in support of the zoo for the second year in a row. Joined by nearly 700 guests, the Women’s Board curated a lively evening with music from Gentleman of Leisure that provided the

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JaCee Burnes

soundtrack as attendees enjoyed a three-course meal courtesy of Blue Plate Catering. The event’s theme was inspired by the zoo’s Puerto Rican parrot. Lincoln Park Zoo is the only place outside of Puerto Rico that’s home to this endangered bird brought back from the brink of extinction thanks to zoo scientists and partners. This incredibly unique bird and its rainforest habitat served as inspiration for the event which featured lush, tropical décor along with unique cocktails and creative cuisine. Co-chaired by Brigid Najarian and Amy Olshansky, the event raised funds to help Lincoln Park Zoo support animal care, the community, and conservation initiatives. (Photos by Kyle Flubacker)

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Ensemble Members and Artistic Directors Glenn Davis and Audrey Francis emceed the evening.

Steppenwolf Theatre Companys world-renowned ensemble was joined by more than 460 civic, cultural, and business leaders for its 2022 Gala, raising more than $1.98 million for Steppenwolf’s educational and artistic programming. The major fundraising event, held at Rockwell on the River, celebrated the

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Board Chair Eric Lefkofsky, Liz Lefkofsky, Gala Co-Chairs Bryan Traubert and Penny Pritzker, AD Glenn Davis, ED Brooke Flanagan, Gala Co-Chair Nora Daley, AD Audrey Francis, Gala Co-Chairs Keating and Caroline Crown.

company’s 46th Season – including the opening of Steppenwolf’s trailblazing new 50,000-square-foot Lefkofsky Arts and Education Center and featuring the new in-the-round Ensemble Theater in Honor of Helen Zell. The festive Gala evening was designed and produced by Frost

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Trustee Asheesh Goel with Artistic Director Glenn Davis

Chicago and hosted by new Artistic Directors Glenn Davis and Audrey Francis and Executive Director E. Brooke Flanagan alongside the theater’s acclaimed ensemble and Board of Trustees, including Chairman Eric Lefkofsky and Gala Co-Chairs Caroline and Keating Crown, Nora Daley and Sean Conroy, and Penny Pritzker and Bryan Traubert. Additional guests

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The stunning venue design was done by Jeffrey Foster for Frost Chicago and used floor-to-ceiling projections to highlight all things Steppenwolf throughout the night.

included Chicago’s First Lady Amy Eshleman, Department of Cultural Affairs and Special Events Commissioner Erin Harkey, Arts Alliance Illinois Executive Director Claire Rice and Steppenwolf ensemble members Alana Arenas, Kate Arrington, Robert Breuler, Celeste M. Cooper, Tim

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Trustee Carole Brown bidding.

Hopper, Rajiv Joseph, Sandra Marquez, Tarell Alvin McCraney, Caroline Neff, co-founder Jeff Perry, Yasen Peyankov, Karen Rodriguez, Eric Simonson, Namir Smallwood, Jim True-Frost and Alan Wilder. A cocktail reception with Steppenwolf’s ensemble kicked off the event, followed by a seated three-course gourmet dinner catered by Calihan. Throughout the evening, a dynamic display of photography and video clips played along the walls of the venue, showcasing Steppenwolf’s ensemble and the construction and unveiling of the Lefkofsky Arts and Education Center. Artistic Directors Glenn Davis and

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Members of the Steppenwolf Ensemble take the stage.

Audrey Francis and Executive Director E. Brooke Flanagan welcomed guests and spoke of the company’s

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Board Chair Eric Lefkofsky, Liz Lefkofsky, Gala Co-Chairs Bryan Traubert and Penny Pritzker, Artistic Director Glenn Davis, Executive Director Brooke Flanagan, Gala Co-Chair Nora Daley, Artistic Director Audrey Francis, Gala Co-Chairs Keating and Caroline Crown.

bold return to live performances this season as they opened their expanded campus on Halsted Street with the dedicated support and generosity of the Board and other major partners. Following dinner, auctioneer Robbie Gordy took to the stage to host a live auction featuring once-in-a-lifetime experiences with the Steppenwolf ensemble, including: a culinary adventure in Mexico City featuring a daylong walking tour and meals curated and led by Chef Rick and Deann Bayless alongside ensemble members Caroline Neff and Karen Rodriguez; a New York getaway featuring a set visit to

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Ensemble Members Karen Rodriguez and Caroline Neff join auctioneer Robbie Gordy onstage to cheer on bidders.

HBO’s The Gilded Age with ensemble member Carrie Coon, dinner with Carrie and her Gilded Age co-star Morgan Spector, and lunch with ensemble members Kathryn Erbe and Rajiv Joseph; a trip to Hollywood for brunch with Steppenwolf ensemble member and co-founder Jeff Perry and Emmy Award-winning casting director Linda Lowy in their Hollywood Hills home with ensemble members Gary Cole and Laurie Metcalf, a Warner Brothers Studio tour, dinner with ensemble

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DJ Rae Chardonnay kept the dance floor packed until the wee hours.

member and Artistic Director Glenn Davis, Sterling K. Brown (This is Us, Black Panther) and Chris Perfetti (Abbott Elementary), and an exclusive construction site tour of the Lucas Museum of Narrative Art; and access to a private workshop and reading of ensemble member Kate Arrington’s playwrighting debut Another Marriage, directed by ensemble member and co-founder Terry Kinney, followed by a progressive Boka Restaurant

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Ensemble Member Celeste M. Cooper.

Group dinner with Kate, Terry and fellow ensemble member and Artistic Director Audrey Francis. After the live auction, Academy Award-winning ensemble member Tarell Alvin McCraney took to the stage with Pulitzer Prize-nominated ensemble member Rajiv Joseph to speak about the company’s education programs. Concluding the Gala evening, guests hit the dance floor to the lively jams of DJ Rae Chardonnay and enjoyed gourmet late-night snacks from Calihan including fried chicken and waffles with mashed potatoes and red cabbage slaw, glazed with sriracha honey, and a gourmet grilled cheese with sharp cheddar and raspberry preserves. (Photos by Kyle Flubacher)

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288853031_10227762806520713_9162830789814962347_nIt felt like home at Untitled Supper Club when Playboy hosted an event in collab with Sip Spirits (RARE HARE) to announce their new product release, a rare whiskey named "1953 Anniversary Edition, so named for the first printing of Playboy mag with the iconic Marilyn cover. The spirit is rare because only 1953 bottles were produced. I was proud to host this event! (Thank you Toula Georgakopoulos!) What a great night! Loved seeing burlesque star Michelle L'amour there too (she brought two of my mags to sign). And, to top off the night, the bartender informed me of the drink choices: The Marilyn, The Pamela and THE CANDACE! I'm a drink now too! _______________________________________________________________________

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David Murga, now offering men's styling consultations at The 900 Shops!

This n' that! Kudos to David Murga on his new mens' personal styling hotspot, Galan, now at The 900 Shops! He's such a fashionable guy and it's great to be able to get advice from one who knows! (Available for appts. now at 312.915.3916)

Love and congrats to PR maven extraordinaire, Noreen Heron, on

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Noreen Heron of Heron Agency.

her fabulous new offices at 2626 N. Lincoln! Heron Agency hosted a jam-packed open house last night to celebrate! Noreen, that beautiful space must be so inspiring to all of you!

The 4th of July Grand Finale of the 16-year-old Bitter Jester Music Festival (BJMF) was canceled in the wake of the Highland Park parade tragedy. The concert has now been rescheduled for 4pm on Sunday, September 4, 2022, and will take place at Billy

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Corgan ’s Madame ZuZu's Teahouse’s, 1876 1st St, Highland Park, IL 60035. This is a free concert, open to the public. Donations are welcome at the door but are not required for entry. Proceeds will support local businesses affected by the tragic events at the town’s July 4th parade. (Donations can be made here: bit.ly/hpbenefit)

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Master photographer Barry Butler mounting his Navy Pier exhibition.
 
One of my favorite photogs, Barry Butler, is having a photo exhibit at Navy Pier starting this month, "Flow- Water Brings Life to Chicago." It will be in place for the next 16 months, so please make sure to put it on your to-do list! Each photo will have a QR code that

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Photo shoot for SVRN boutique. (Photo by Josh Ray)

activates a video he created providing info about the image. (22 beautiful images on a 60 foot wall!)

 
Werkin' at the car wash! What a fun shoot for SVRN, a super cool clothing store at 171 N. Aberdeen (svrn.com). Loved shooting this through Lily's Talent in the Bling Bling car wash with photog/editorial director Josh Ray. I can FLY!
 
So excited about this year's Eversight Gift of Sight Celebration, themed "Circus of Dreams"! Grab your top hat and expect a night filled with whimsy, surprises and two of the cutest Eversight Sept. 22honorees, Kathy O'Malley Piccone and Dr. Ali Djalilian, you've ever seen! The Peninsula will be transformed into the Big Top and you won't want to miss it! (All to benefit Eversight's efforts to provide the gift of sight for all in need, info here. Tickets are going fast (and this isn't a sales pitch). Buy by Sept. 1 to get current pricing.
 
Please join us for our “FLAIR: Eye on Style Fashion Event” Friday, September 30, to support The Chicago Chicago Lighthouse half page adLighthouse’s programs for children who are blind, visually impaired, or disabled. See the latest designer fashions in a show produced by ZZAZZ Productions, scout the latest tends at our pop-up shops, and enjoy a full-course luncheon all at a spectacular venue, The Langham Chicago. AND, best of all, help pay tribute to our beautiful honoree, Sherry Lea Holson! For details and tickets, click here
 
Paws fur ball 2022PAWS Chicago's Fur Ball, one of the city's largest pet-friendly fundraisers, will return on Friday, November 1, at The Drake Hotel. This black-tie event is the nonprofit's 21st and will include all of the popular hallmarks of this fun event–exciting live and silent auctions, a raffle, dancing, dinner buffets (for canines and humans), photo opps, an adoptable pet showcase, and so much more! Join in the fun and register now here to help support the largest no-kill shelter in the Midwest.
 

The River North Fall Gallery Walk, presented by Daniel Kinkade Fine Art, is back on September 9. The walk will be comprised of 21 locations with special events throughout River North, featuring 31 artists and 20 designer vignettes. The Gallery Walk’s philanthropic partner is St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, which will receive a portion of proceeds. The walk is free and open to the public except for opening night parties which are ticketed.  The Kick-Off party will be held at Altalia Furniture Sept. 9, 410 W. Grand (5-8 pm) and the After-Party, Sept. 9, will be held at Architectural Artifacts, 1065 N. Orleans, 8-10 pm. Showrooms will have extended hours day of and will offer food and libations. The vignettes will be on display until October 10. (All details here!) 

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Author/honoree Justine Fedak with her first children's book, "The Happy Magic Chair."

On Thursday, September 29, The National Multiple Sclerosis Society will host its annual Dinner of Champions at the Four Seasons. The event will honor its chair, Justine Fedak and raise funds to support research for a cure, advocacy, programs and services. (All details here!)

The Symphony Ball, presented by Northern Trust, returns Saturday, Sept. 24 as an elegant black-tie affair. The concert will feature CSO Zell Music Director Riccardo Muti and Yefim Bronfman, on piano. Dinner and dancing will follow at the Four Seasons for gala sponsors and patrons. (For tickets and

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Tech Sgts. Carrie Gatz, left, and Amy Morys at a past USO Salute Gala.

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The USO Salute Gala will be held at Offshore Navy Pier on Saturday, September 10. Widely acclaimed as Chicago's "premier patriotic event" that welcomes and celebrates distinguished military and civilian guests to support the USO. (For tickets and more info, click here)
 
The Green Tie Ball, benefiting Chicago Gateway Green, will be held at Chicago Sports Museum on Saturday, September 17. Join us to celebrate by buying tickets here!

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Michael Kutza with his first book, "Starstruck."

I'm so excited to report that Chicago Star is growing by leaps and bounds! We have wonderful advertisers,

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Author Joseph P. Luther (jp Little) with his first book, "Just a Minute More."

a following of over 50K and a list of contributors whose accomplishments are astounding. This month, three members of our growing team have BIG personal successes to celebrate. Contributors, Joseph Luther and Andy Frye, and Michael Kutza, a Chicago Star Board member and Chicago International Film Festival founder, have all authored their first books. Luther, writing children’s titles as “J.P. Little,” recently published “Just a Minute More,” a tender story

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Author Andy Frye holds a copy of his first book, "Ninety Days in the 90s."

with gorgeous illustrations that celebrates all the little moments we wish could last “just a minute more.” Frye, best known for his sports writing, has published his first novel, “Ninety Days in the 90s,” a fascinating rock n’ roll time travel story for CSM August 2022--COVERanyone who is a fan of pop culture and great writing. Kutza’s book, “Starstruck,” is a whirlwind trip through Movieland featuring unique photos and stories as well as an insider’s look at the cast of characters that make Chicago one-of-a-kind. (You can find all of these books on Amazon or any other notable bookstore). Congrats to ALL! And, if you've missed the latest issue of Chicago Star, please read it here now! And, join our family by subscribing here! And my last request? LOL! Please follow us on social media, @chicagostarmedia (Facebook, Twitter and Insta) THANK YOU!

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Well, now I've caught you up to date! Whew. I hope your eyeballs aren't bleeding. I know it's a lot but, as I mentioned, the social scene is busier than I've ever seen it. People are excited to see each other and support their favorite charities again and so am I. I've been writing this blog now for over 12 years and, granted, I'm not as regular as I'd like to be but I'm not going anywhere, so please subscribe here. My lists are never shared, only treasured, and we have a lot more fun ahead of us so I wouldn't want you to miss it. Thanks for sticking with me.

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THIS WAY TO THE BEACHES! SURVIVING CHICAGO’S WINTERS AND SO MUCH MORE!

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Chuck at Trevini restaurant, Palm Beach.

There is no better antidote for Chicago's winters than a trip to a warm climate. Chuck and I were lucky this year to have an extended vacay in Florida, a week in Hobe Sound with my sister-in-law and then two glorious weeks in Palm Beach. The first word that comes to mind about being in

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With Leslie Hindman and Chuck at Trevini restaurant, Palm Beach.

Florida is "liberating." Restaurants are open, people are walking the streets with smiles on their faces, churches are holding services and I didn't see one boarded up store.

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The manicured perfection of Palm Beach.

Granted, people are still masked and practicing social distancing but it seems less fear-based than Chicago and more common sense-based there. I'm not surprised that people live longer in Florida, no dangerous icy sidewalks, more physical activity and a LOT more vitamin D! In a perfect world, I would divide my time between the two but that's not doable so I will

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At Pizza al Fresco, PB, with Kim Renk, Greg Dryer, Leslie Hindman and Chuck.

just enjoy every minute we're away and keep those memories top of mind when I receive weather updates

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Beauty along A1A.

from Chiberia. Hobe Sound is beautiful, quiet but lovely. You can actually hear the birds in the trees and the gentle sounds of kids playing pickleball from Loblolly Pines Golf Club. We spent time with my sister-in-law, Nancy Steinwald, who lost her husband Dr. Os Steinwald a year ago. It

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Kitchy City Diner in West Palm Beach.

was bittersweet as there was really nothing we could do to ease her pain except be there for her. So, we went to dinners and had a memorable brunch at Harry and the Natives, a restaurant that seemed to be plucked

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Harry & the Natives in Hobe Sound, a Jimmy Buffet inspired restaurant.

straight out of Jimmy Buffet's "Cheeseburger in Paradise" song. After the end of our stay in Hobe Sound, we rented a racy red Mustang convertible and headed for Palm Beach where our dear friend Leslie Hindman was gracious enough to invite us for a stay. Her home, in the heart of Palm Beach, had just been sold within 4 hours of being on the market! Her new home is even closer to the ocean and so beautiful. She has impeccable taste and

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At Renato's, PB, with Ken Norgan, Leslie Hindman and Chuck.

vision so we can't wait to see what she does with this latest acquisition. When we left, it was already Architectural Digest perfect. As smart as she is in her auction business, I think her true calling lies in real estate. I think it's also a passion of hers….We had so many

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With Christine Schott, Palm Beach Social Diary author.

dinners at wonderful restaurants that I lost count….but, as for the extra pounds Chuck and I gained, sadly I do know that number. There is so much happening in Palm Beach now. It's not the sleepy little town I

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The Breakers which, sadly, appears to now have office furniture for the lobby decor.

remember from our first visit years ago. In part, due to the influx of NYC restaurants that have recently relocated there. Our favorite, Swifty's, is also the most beautiful with old world charm combined with rich, modern touches. The hotel it lives in, The Colony (155 Hammon Ave), is steps from Worth Avenue and was established in 1947. After Andrew Wetenhall (Andrew's family were the hotel's previous

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Peace and quiet in Hobe Sound.

owners) and wife Sarah purchased the hotel in 2016, Sarah discovered a mid-century postcard featuring the hotel's original lobby which was painted with a mural titled "The Early Days in Palm Beach." The mural inspired a partnership with the famed house of de Gournay, known for exquisite, hand painted

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One of my favorite shops in PB, F. S. Henemader.

wallpapers. Kemble Interiors created the decor and the place is even more beautiful now with the wallpaper hiding secret meanings about the owners and its history, including a sweet drawing of the couple's King Charles Spaniel. Swifty's founder, Robert Caravaggi, has created another hit here and his presence makes the restaurant hum with excitement day and night. (The Colony contacted

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Before dinner at Club Colette with Leslie Hindman, Nancy Traylor and friend.

him in 2019 asking him to open there after the NYC outpost closed in 2016.) On this visit, I was lucky to dine here on a couple of occasions, once

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Chuck, dreaming on Worth Avenue.

for dinner around the pool (with its dramatic views) with Leslie and Chuck and, on another day, lunch with friends Kim Renk, Sharon Bush and Fran Weissler. Fran is 93 years young and a real hoot. She regaled us with her stories in show business with her husband Barry (they are Broadway producers with over 9 Tony Awards to their credit!–Pippin, La Cage aux Folles, Sweet Charity, Wonderful Town, Grease, Cabaret–you get the picture). Their first production on Broadway, "Othello," scored their first Tony Award and starred Christopher Plummer and James Earl Jones. The story of how she snagged Plummer for the role could be made into its own movie. Anyway, we also dined at another former NYC hotspot, Le Bilboquet (245 Worth Ave.), that's also relocated to PB. This was a slightly different story….Even though the space was heart-breakingly chic, the service and prices were not. Our waiter took my order and then walked away without even taking Chuck's! It is a new spot, but at these prices, there should be no room for errors like this.

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La Goulue, Palm Beach, another NYC transplant to PB.

Anyway, I hope they can up their service game as it is a lovely spot. The third hotspot transplanted from NYC is the newly opened La Goulue at 288 S. County Rd. This restaurant

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Batch, a Southern-style restaurant in Palm Beach on bustling Clematis Street.

is so true to the original that you feel like you could be at the one still located in NYC. The

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Another great home decor shop in PB, Jennifer Garrigues.

French cuisine is impeccable and delicious. The Wine Channel's Jessica Altieri suggested a waiter there that she knew, Fernando, who came from the Four Seasons PB (which was entirely taken over by Ken Griffin's Citadel corp. during quarantine!) Anyway, the whole evening was a delight there and I highly recommend it. In a Palm Beach Social Diary article, "All Eyes on Palm Beach," one of my favorite writers, Christine Schott, said, "Booking a reservation in Palm Beach has now become a sport." I agree, it was difficult at times, but if you're nice

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The one and only Colony Hotel with its beautiful, new de Gournay wallpaper.

on the phone, sometimes reservations do open up. Lol! And not only is the restaurant scene heating up, but the real estate market is insane. In a Palm Beach Daily News article (the "shiny sheet"), the cover story was

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Le Bilboquet, looking down its tunneled entryway.

about an estate at 320 Island Road that sold in January for $26M and then was back on the market in less than a month for $45M! Miami Realtors Association stated, "Palm Beach County luxury home sales spiked 83% in Q3, of 2020." A fun note about the "shiny sheet", I was talking to the check-out lady at Green's Pharmacy and she gave me a little history about this revered newspaper that is now all plain, white paper. She

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Driving A1A, the best….

said, "Back in the day, when women wore white gloves, they didn't want to get ink on them so the paper was glossy to avoid newsprint, aka the "shiny sheet." So, now you know. Some other highlights included the newly opened White Elephant Palm Beach (280 Sunset Ave.) a super-chic, super-

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With Leslie Hindman and Chuck at her new PB house.

pricey luxury boutique hotel (with Lola 41 restaurant, which friends Phillip Emigh and Bruce Haas LOVED); The Ben (part of the Marriott's Autograph Collection) at 251 N. Narcissus in West Palm Beach. Its rooftop restaurant, Spruzzo, has breathtaking views of PB; Pizza al Fresco (where a famous descendant of President John Adams resides in the former Addison Mizner home with his pet pig, wife and an assortment of other pets), 14 Via Mizner; a couple of favorite design stores, F.S. Henemader, 316 S. County Road, and Jennifer Garrigues, 308 Peruvian); Batch, a fabulous Southern-style restaurant in West Palm Beach at 223 Clematis; Henry's Palm Beach (owned by The Breakers) at 229 Royal Poinciana Way is too cold and stark, we walked out; City Diner, a charming throwback diner in West Palm Beach at 3400 S. Dixie Hwy.; Trevini, a chic restaurant at 223 Sunset Ave.; Palm Beach Grill at Royal Poinciana Plaza doesn't have the pizzazz it once had; and of course Renatos, at 87 Via Mizner is perpetually elegant and chic.

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Views from The Ben, a new hotel in West Palm Beach owned by the Marriott.

Our friend/designer Daniel Kinkade told us not to miss The Breakers this year. He wanted to know what I thought about its recent reno. I didn't like it at all. It looked like they replaced their plush, luxurious lobby furniture with stuff from IKEA. It was a horrible mix for this iconic, National Historic Landmark that deserves better. Thankfully, the magnificent carpet is still in place as are the luxurious floral arrangements that dot the vaulted lobby. This vacation was sorely needed. I'm sorry my blog is late because of it, but it gave us memories to last a lifetime and I hope some news you can use here. Special thanks, with love, to all of our friends (and my sister-in-law Nancy) who joined us, played with us and shared their homes. Forever grateful.

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No restaurant in PB beats dining around the Colony's pool at Swifty's, our favorite hands down.

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Dori and Lori

Dori and Lori, she knew everybody and they loved her.

Still can't believe she's gone. Dori Wilson was such a powerful light, every room she walked into she made it better. I met her

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Dori Wilson, one of the best kind.

when I first moved to Chicago in the early 70s. She was a Chicago star even then and she kindly took me under her wing, introducing me to all the important people. She even had me in the front row at Operation Push headquarters to meet Rev. Jesse Jackson. Everyone who knew her, loved her. We even talked about going into the public relations business together. Don't get me wrong, she wasn't all warm and fuzzy. Whatever was on her mind, she let you know. She was a "no bull-sh_t" kind of a girl for sure. And I admired that. She never pretended to be something she wasn't and didn't want her friends to be that way either. She gravitated towards people who were similar–real, honest, hard working and good-hearted–she loved Michael Kutza who she saw regularly, the late Victor Skrebneski who photographed her

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With her dear friends Michael Kutza and Victor Skrebneski.

often and her dearest friend Lee Blackwell Baur, who created a foundation (with other friends) in

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Dori during her successful modeling days.

her honor, The Dori Wilson Foundation. This foundation will support some of the many charities she lent her heart and time to. She loved and raised her nephew Travis and always shared his achievements like a proud mom. We were both Chihuahua lovers and she called hers, Taco and Belle, they were her "babies." But as much as I thought I knew her, I realized after reading her obit (written lovingly by another dear friend of hers, Tarrah Cooper Wright), that there was so much I didn't know about this most remarkable woman. 0e9b49_f9b3c6082d0d4c46973b2fbcf9859c6f~mv2_d_1800_2700_s_2Here's an excerpt: "Dori Wilson was born to Fannie Brown Wilson and William Wilson on October 15, 1943, in Winona, Mississippi. She spent the earliest years of her life smelling the honeysuckle bush on the side of the house,

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Beautiful Dori.

walking uphill to school each morning, developing a fondness for fishing, and listening to the crickets as she lay in bed each night. When Dori was 7, the family moved to Hyde Park, Illinois, and then to Chicago’s bustling Washington Park neighborhood. Dori loved reading, tumbling and doing double-dutch, but would later remember always working—reupholstering chairs, finishing her homework and book reports early so she could draw and create art, and earning money by doing hair for the

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Dori with friends Patrick Sheehan and Cheryl Coleman.

neighborhood ladies when she was just 9. For Dori, having a keen eye for beauty and a strong work ethic always came naturally. As a high school freshman at Hyde Park High School, Dori caught the bus to the Woolworth store at 43rd & Ellis, where she—age 14, not 16—had lied about her age to get a

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Dori with former Mayor Harold Washington.

job.  After high school, Dori attended Roosevelt University before working at Goldblatt’s on State Street, and then at Compton Advertising as a secretary and assistant producer. One day, while at a commercial shoot, Dori met a talent agent who suggested

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Dori, always chic, even working….

that Dori shouldn’t just be behind the camera—she should be in front of it. Tall, thin and beautiful, Dori had all the makings of a model. She later remembered that while there were few models who looked like her at the time, she didn’t see that as a roadblock—she saw her uniqueness as an asset, and she was right. Dori was motivated by her inner drive to always go after what she wanted and to not take no as a final answer. But she also knew she was breaking barriers for other Black girls and women. As a Tease_doriwilson-1-500x281dark-skinned Black woman, Dori felt that she always had to work harder, try harder, and aim higher than many of her peers because of the way things were stacked against her; Dori was determined to succeed against any obstacle, and she did.  “I first saw Dori from afar when I was a teenager working in

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Lee Blackwell Baur, Dori, Zorada Gowenlock and Deirdre Pratt.

a stock room on Oak Street,” said longtime friend and Ariel Investments Co. CEO/President Mellody Hobson. “When I raved about her to my mother, she told me that Dori was helping to change old-fashioned and highly conventional definitions of beauty. When I later met her as a young professional, we became instant friends. I often told her that when I looked at her face, I saw the face of my own mother. She was

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Dori with Pam Capitanini and Myra Reilly.

quite special to many, including me.” In 1964, Dori became the first Black runway model in Chicago. She opened shows for Bonwit Teller, Marshall Field's, I. Magnin, Carson Pirie Scott and Saks and worked with acclaimed photographer and friend Victor Skrebneski. Around this time, people in the business told her to quit advertising and model full time. But Dori had too many

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With Dori, Barb Samuels and friend.

ideas to just be a canvas on which other people painted their stories. In 1968, she joined Foote, Cone & Belding to work on their advertising project with Sears, Roebuck & Co, and in 1970, she was promoted to Director of Fashion and Casting. That same year, an appearance as a contestant on TV’s “The Dating Game” won her a trip to Italy and England. Dori Merlin_38540953

continued to split her time and modeled in numerous fashion shows, advertisements and events, including Gucci’s Fall 1970 campaign and the Dress Horsemen and Trophy Board Annual Benefit Fashion Spectacular

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Dori featured in "My Start Story."

in 1975. She even served as the prototype for the first Black mannequin in Marshall Field’s and hosted her own public affairs talk show called “Memorandum” on WMAQ-TV.  In 1980, Dori launched Dori Wilson & Associates. For 40 years, she served clients across a broad range of industries, crafting their messages and helping them reach new audiences. Her clients included the City of U888ntitledChicago, Tiffany & Co., the NAACP Legal Defense Fund, and many more. Dori never waited for the phone to ring; instead, she picked it up and asked for what she wanted. She was never U77ntitledscared of hearing “no.” She kept moving until she found the “yes.” Dori was committed to giving back to the community and served on the board of many organizations including the Harris Theater, The Council of Regents of Loyola University, PAWS Chicago, Chicago Workforce Board, Chicago International Film Festival, Columbia College, Brookfield Zoo, First Bank & Trust of Illinois, Board of Trustees of the Chicago Public Library, Girls Scouts of Chicago Association Board, and more. In interviews with The History Makers organization, Dori

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Dori with Helen "Helpful" Melchior.

noted that while she got her work ethic from her father, she got her kindness from her mother—a quality she prized even more. She was asked many questions, but two in particular resonate today.  How would you like to be remembered? “Dori was good and kind and did her best to help others,” she said. If Travis is Dori_400x400watching this, what would you want him to know? “That I loved him and did the best I could, and that I’m very happy to have had him in my life.” Dori departed the world on February 1, 2021. She is survived by her nephew Travis Wilson, her brother William Thomas Wilson, Sr. and his spouse Joanna; her nephew Wil Wilson and his wife

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Kathy, grand-nieces Laura, Brittany and Taylor Wilson; first cousins Mary Elizabeth Hunt and her husband Colle, Bettie Ann Priester and her husband John; second cousins Maria Hunt, Lisa Hunt, Colle Hunt, Jr. and wife Janice and their children Naomi

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Kate and Leslie Zentner with Dori.

and Isabel. She was preceded in death by parents Fannie Laura Brown and William (Willie) Wilson, sister Mamie Agusta Wilson, and half-sisters Georgia Jones and Dorothy Edwards. Dori's friend/philanthropist Lee Blackwell Baur, summed up her friend's remarkable life and presence, “Dori Wilson was a trailblazing woman and Chicago icon who brought a larger than life status to the many fundraising efforts and charitable organizations she touched. Her stunning beauty and unbridled energy put her in a distinctive category, touching the lives of so many including my own. Our 20-year friendship was one of mutual respect and undying love. We will honor Dori’s life with the creation of the Dori Wilson Foundation, which will support those organizations to which Dori so intimately gave her heart and soul.” You are greatly missed dear Dori.

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Sam Toia, president/CEO IRA.

Kudos to Sam Toia and the Illinois Restaurant Association for continuing to fight for our restaurants

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Restaurateur Sam Sanchez, new IRA board chair.

and also for its exciting new honorees and board of directors! First off, congrats to Sam Sanchez, the newly elected chairman of the board. Sanchez most recently served as the IRA's First Vice Chairman and is the Founder and CEO of Third Coast Hospitality Group. In the mid-80s, Sam moved from his family's hometown in Sabinas Hidalgo, Mexico to start what is now an accomplished

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Restaurant critic Phil Vettel, Lifetime Achievement honoree.

hospitality career in Chicago. In addition to his

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Amanda Puck, Mariano's Director of Strategic Brand Development, accepted the Sara Rowe ProStart Company of the Year award on behalf of Mariano's.

restaurants, he also owns EMC Construction, a full-service construction company that handles renos of existing properties and new construction. In other IRA news, award recipients were announced in four categories: Restaurateur of the Year to Gregory Schulson, CEO of Burrito Beach and Lunan Corporation; Vendor of the Year to Gordon Food Service, Performance Foodservice, US Foods and Sysco; the Sara Rowe ProStart Company of the Year to Mariano's (accepted by Amanda Puck, Director of Strategic Brand Development) and a special Lifetime Achievement Award went to Phil Vettel, longtime food writer for the Chicago Tribune. Congrats to ALL!

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Misericordia's Sister Rosemary Connelly and Lois Gates, Assistant Executive Director.

And, in the mean time, I'm receiving lots of encouraging event notices. I'm hopeful we'll be back in person soon at our beloved nonprofit events. On Feb.

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Beloved philanthropists Diane and Richard Weinberg.

27, Cal's Angel's hosted a virtual fundraiser for pediatric cancer. The Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum hosted Norma Kamali as she discussed her new book, virtually, "I AM Invincible" on Feb. 25. Presenting sponsors were Liz Stiffel and Richard and Diane Weinberg. The Chicago Lighthouse hosted a Texas Hold 'Em poker tournament on Feb. 26 to raise funds for its mission of serving the blind, visually impaired, disabled and Veteran communities. On February 26, Misericordia hosted "Heart of Gold: A Night at the Races" to support its services for children and adults with special needs. Girls in the Game celebrated its 26th anniversary, also on Feb. 26, of empowering girls and helping them build their confidence and social skills. More to come!

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Womensday2Join the dynamic ladies of The Service Club of Chicago on Monday, March 8, from 5-6 pm, CST.  I'm so proud to host this tribute/Zoom party in honor of International Womens Day! Any donation of $25 or more will get you into the virtual party! Join us to help the SC carry on their 131 year mission of supporting those in need.  (Click here to register/donate here

Each spring,  the Illinois Holocaust Museum & Education Holocaust museum awards dinner--March 10Center hosts its signature event, the Humanitarian Awards Dinner. Now one of the largest fundraising dinners in the city of Chicago, this high profile event pays tribute to pillars in our community, Holocaust Survivors and highlights the Museum’s achievements. This year's dinner on Wednesday, March 10, will be a hybrid event with virtual and in-person (limited) programming. Honorees include Exelon Corporation, Scott Swanson (PNC Bank, Ill.) and Zev and Shifra Karkomi (posthumously, Survivor Legacy Award). Keynote speaker will be Kareem Abdul-Jabbar, former NBA star/activist. (For Porchlighttickets and more info, click here!)  

Porchlight Music Theatre will host "Chicago Sings Rock &  Roll Broadway" virtually on Saturday, March 20. The honoree will be Tony Award winning actress Felicia P. Fields. The event will feature a who’s-who roster of Chicago’s own music theatre and cabaret favorites with all funds raised supporting the theatre's artistic and educational programming. (For tickets/details, click here!)  

St. Patrick's High School, led by friend and president Joe Green and Gold Gala  2021--March 11 Schmidt, is asking for your support of its virtual Shamrock Green & Gold Gala on Thursday, March 11. Funds will support its mission to provide educational experiences of the highest quality which enables young men to develop their highest potential as lifelong learners and assets to society and the Church. (For more info, click here)

Bes Ben costume councilJoin the Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum for some vintage, fashion fun on Tuesday, March 23 from 5:30 – 7 pm, CST! The webinar presentation will discuss the rich history of Bes-Ben hats, Chicago's Mad Hatter, alongside former costume curator of the Museum, Elizabeth Jachimowicz, and Nena Ivon.The first 40 registrants will receive a free set of Bes-Ben magnets! Details here!

And speaking of nonprofits, I was so proud to co-host,

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with Agency H5's Kathleen Sarpy, Pretty Powerful 3.0, a zoom party celebrating the city's philanthropic leaders. Nearly 70 women joined us for a virtual cocktail party sponsored by Steak 48 on February 9. Last year, we hosted the party at the restaurant but, this year, we were proud and grateful to be able to continue this tradition despite Covid. Four nonprofit

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Some of the nearly 70 community leaders who joined Pretty Powerful 3.0.

leaders: Nancy Wright, CEO of Girl Scouts of Greater Chicago; Holly Buckendahl, CEO of Ronald McDonald House Charities of Chicagoland and Northwest Indiana; Lauren Schrero Levy, executive director of The Nora Project and Marilynn Gardner, CEO of Navy Pier, shared how their organizations had pivoted and adapted to the changes caused by the pandemic, as well as their hopes for the future. I was so excited to see so many familiar (powerful) faces, including Heather Owen (One Tail at a Time), Katie Law (PAWS Chicago),

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More Pretty Powerful 3.0 participants.

Brenda Langstraat (Chicago Public Library), Mimi Plauche (Chicago International Film Festival), Joyce Winnecke (YWCA Metro Chicago), Lindsay Avner (Bright Pink), Shelley MacArthur (Old St. Pat's rep), Sandi Hartstein (The Joffrey Ballet), Rebecca Darr (WINGS) and SOOO many others! As a surprise at the end of the zoom party, Steak 48 (Oliver Badgio and Jeff Mastro, Steak 48 owner) provided participants with a dining gift certificate to the restaurant, located at 615 N. Wabash Ave., as a show of appreciation for their service to the Chicago community. I'm already looking forward to Pretty Powerful 4.0!! Thanks to all who participated and shared their plans for the future and told us how they coped in 2020. It was such an inspiring hour of hope and friendship! God Bless our Nonprofits!

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BEST--TPAN--When-Dogs-Heal CandaceIt's all good, dogs and inspiring stories that heal hearts! Please join me on Thursday, March 25, when I host (TPAN) Test Positive Network's launch of a new book–"When Dogs Heal: Powerful Stories of People Living with HIV and the Dogs That Saved Them." Changing the narrative surrounding life with HIV, the book is a series of deeply personal accounts that tell a story of connection, survival and the transformative

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Dr. Robert Garafalo, photo by Jan Terry.

power of a dog’s unconditional love. You’re invited to join TPAN and me on March 25 for a discussion featuring the author of "When Dogs Heal," Dr. Rob Garofalo, an HIV specialist whose practice centers on adolescents and LGBTQ youth. Join us as we discuss the book, share our life journeys—and, of course, talk about dogs! Dr. Rob will be joined by some of the people living with HIV who appear in the book, and by Julie Supple, TPAN’s programs director, who will discuss Paws N' Effect, TPAN’s program that brings together people living with HIV with a dog companion. When you purchase When Dogs Heal from Unabridged Bookstore either online or at their store, Unabridged will donate 20% of the book price to TPAN with all proceeds going directly to the Paws n’ Effect program, which helps find safe, forever homes for rescue dogs. “ Please sign up here and join us at 6 pm, CST, Thursday, March 25.

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And she can cook too, Maria Pappas, Cook County Treasurer.

Hats off, again, to Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas. She had a standing O at the Polish Museum of America recently in honor of Pulaski Day. She gave this amazing speech (without notes, see below)) that left the audience wildly applauding. She is one of our city's most active politicians, always looking for ways to help we, the people. Recently, she and her team assembled a 234 page report describing the eye-popping trends of property tax growth in Cook County. She is sharing the data as a call to action for voters who have sat on the sidelines while taxes have continued to skyrocket. "The residences and commercial owners, who do not vote have allowed this to happen because they don't hold anybody accountable. I want to inspire people to get registered," she said. Amen to that Maria! On another Maria note, catch her WVON radio show every Monday (1690 AM) when she hosts "Black Houses Matter," a talk show about helping homeowners access unclaimed property tax refunds. Mayor Pappas? Sounds good to me!

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Chicago Star- debut issue!

There is lots of exciting news on the Chicago Star Media front! First off, I'm thrilled to announce that I've been named Contributing Editor to this wonderful group of papers that I like to call "a love letter to Chicago." I love its mission, which is mine too, to deliver positive news you can use with a hyper-local bent. In other words, a paper about Chicago,

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With CSM publisher/founder Elaine Hyde. (Who's also a physicist!)

for Chicago! Our first rebranded issue as Chicago Star debuted on March 1 and it's a hit, I'm proud to say! (Read it all here) We have a brand new writer, Bridget McGuire,

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whose story "The Pandemic, Sales and the Single Girl", will make you laugh out loud! And I'm pretty proud of my column in this new issue too, "Wedding Bell DOs", with fabulous love stories and advice and tips from couples you know from around town. They include Gibson's Restaurant Group's Peg and Steve Lombardo, Izzy Idonije and Jatnna Toribio, WGN-TV's Ana Belaval and Steve Vihon, "Windy City Live's" Val Warner and Elijah "Jobba" Maxey, The Joffrey Ballet's Victoria Jaiani and Temur Suluashvili, Kristina and Mike McGrath, Cheryl and Albert Grace, Marcus Riley and Jude Fitzgerald, Donna La Pietra and Bill Kurtis, award winning producer/director/writers Robert and Leslie Zemeckis, Agency H5's

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Chicago Star Advisory Board member Howard Tullman and Gertie.

Kathleen and Chris Sarpy and more. These couples shared some great tips on making, keeping and building relationships with some surprising admissions. (Read story here!) We are building a family at Chicago Star and want you to be a part of it! Don't miss an issue, subscribe now

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Chicago Star Advisory Board member Bonnie Tullman (and her Remi) are fans!

here! Special thanks to our exciting, STELLAR new Advisory Board members too: Howard Tullman, Sargent McCormick, Bonnie Spurlock, Sherren Leigh, Paul Iacono, Leslie Hindman, Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas, Michael Kutza, Robert Zentner, Alex Pissios and Tom Kehoe. We are SOOOO grateful for your support! In more exciting news, Chicago Star was the featured article in this week's must-read Robert Feder's column. (Read it here

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04-RS_McCormickWintrust_45I hate sharing bad news but it doesn't look like our city's convention business is coming back, this year at least. The Chicago Dental Society has cancelled its annual February meeting. Since March, more than 200 trade shows have been scrapped according to info from the Illinois Restaurant Association. These shows were expected to generate more than 2 billion for Chicago. Other cancellations include the National Restaurant Association show, the Inspired Home show and even Macy's annual, greatly anticipated Flower Show display at the State Street store. On a brighter front, it appears that the Chicago Auto Show is still working on returning this year. Fingers crossed for better convention news coming soon.

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I Marie Kondo-ed my closets.

I started spring cleaning early this year. Saw a moth and freaked. I'm finished now with one walk-in closet and will soon be heading for the others. It was a bittersweet walk down memory lane. I'm a saver so I loathe throwing anything away, especially things with sentimental value. I had to decide what to do with a lot of pieces of clothing that had special memories for me. I have the top I wore when Chuck and I got our marriage license; the gown I wore to my first Joffrey Ballet Gala; the gown I wore when I co-chaired a Service Club Gala; the cocktail dress I wore when I was honored by the Chicago Lighthouse; the short red

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dress I wore to the opening of the Modern Wing, the fancy custom top, created by an Art Institute student, I wore when I was inducted into the BizBash Hall of Fame…well, you get the idea. They all hold such special memories for me and even looking at them makes all of those memories and occasions come back in a rush. But, I have to grow up and out of this habit. I got rid of them all and I feel 20 pounds lighter (kinda). I got rid of everything except the top I wore for getting our marriage license. That will stay.

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IMG_3158_Facetune_03-03-2021-15-15-08With the weather getting warmer and restaurant restrictions becoming more reasonable, I'm almost giddy with excitement. We get our second shot recently and, after that, I can't wait to go bar hopping and cram myself into crowded elevators. (Totally kidding here) But it's fun to think about reaching a better place in our city and country….(prayer hands here).

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Love, as always,

Candace

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NEW YEAR’S EVE RESOLUTIONS, 2020 AND THE FUTURE: CHICAGO WEIGHS IN

Plus: What nonprofit fundraisers are coming back in 2021?; YWCA Metropolitan Chicago's GREAT news; Izzy "Shops with a Cop" for the kids; Silver linings for PAWS Chicago, One Tail at a Time and Young at Heart Pet Rescue; CHI-lebrities open their hearts in Chicago Star Media; Remembering Hef's HOT New Year's Eve parties; Eversight Illinois' Mystery Masquerade; Playboy's new centerfold policy; Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation's Wings to Cure; Chicago Light's Gala of Hope; Happy engagement announcements; Six Flags Holiday Drive-Thru; In the news with John and Steve; Thoughts on 2020 and what the New Year will bring; A touching video and SO MUCH MORE!

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New Year's Eve looked a little different this year. Besides Covid changing the landscape of the entire world, it also kept us from celebrating the end of one of the worst years in recent memory. Restaurants missed out on much needed revenue, friends missed traditional celebrations with family and Times Square was eerily empty. People could only peek out their windows like Jimmy Stewart in "Rear Window" trying to get a feel for what was happening outside. We are all still on lockdown, mentally and physically. Chuck and I grabbed longtime friend Michael Kutza

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NYE at cozy Avli on Wells.

determined to still experience NYE, this year in a tent with heaters. Even though people were having fun we all knew this was just a (hopefully temporary) substitute for the real thing. All of this lack of freedom made me think about the wild and woolly days of NYEs past. We're so lucky

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Yurts at Swift & Sons designed by Kehoe.

to have experienced the heyday of Playboy with Hefner at his Mansion in LA. I always felt his parties rivaled Jay Gatsby's in exquisite excess and excitement. The invitations, always with beautiful pinup artwork created by Olivia De Berardinis, arrived in the mail a few weeks before the big event (I've saved them all).

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LA Playboy Mansion lit up for NYE 2009.

We would RSVP immediately and then the anticipation began. You never knew what to expect at any of his

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parties as the guest lists were always changing to accommodate whoever was in town along with some of his celebrity friends. One year, the Village People performed, another year Three Six Mafia hit the stage that was inside a ginormous tent on the grounds of Hef's Holmby Hills estate. Another year, one of Hef's three girlfriends, Bridget Marquardt,  popped out of a giant cake

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Hef surrounded by admirers at a past NYE.

and did a slow strip tease as she gazed into his eyes (the crowd went wild). Hef's party guests have included John Elway, Penelope Cruz, James Caan, Nicholas Cage, astronaut Buzz Aldrin, Robert Culp, Tiffany Trump, Donald Trump,  Julie Newmar, Bill Cosby (ick), Jane Russell, Quentin Tarantino, Pamela

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Chuck enjoying the views at one of Hef's NYE parties.

Anderson, Jack Nicholson, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Madonna, Eddie Murphy, Warren Beatty, Justin Timberlake, Jimmy Connors, Paris and Nicky Hilton, Eddie Murphy and so many more. It was always a great

adventure wondering who you would see that night. I was lucky that Hef liked Chuck too and always included him. During the parties, guests enjoyed gourmet buffets,

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Celebrating with fellow Playmates Marcy Hanson, Hope Olson and Patti McGuire Connors.

unlimited champagne and cocktails, swimming in the pool or lounging in the grotto. Guests were encouraged to wear lingerie which definitely added to the excitement. Some girls' interpretations of the "suggested attire" left little to the imagination. Oh, those were truly the days! I'm happy to see Playboy doing so well online now too. Even though the magazines have physically disappeared, the brand's online presence is strong and growing. I'm so happy to still have them as a family too. Here's to another 68 years and to a bigger, brighter 2021 for us all! 

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My PostI quizzed some of my favorite bold-faced names to see how they were handling the pandemic, what their NYE resolutions were, their best moments of 2020, hopes for the future and any advice that might give us some inspiration. I discovered that we all have more in common than we know. I hope you enjoy these enlightening, and in some cases, surprising, comments from some of my favorite Chicago notables.   

One of my favorite media peeps, Sylvia Perez (Fox-32) provided these thoughtful answers. Her

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Sylvia Perez: "We are Puerto Rican and I love these shirts. We eat Pasteles and drink coquito (Puerto Rican egg nog) it’s a holiday tradition!"

favorite moment, "When they finally took Texas off the travel ban list and I was able to see my 86 year-old mother who I had not seen since last year because of the pandemic. It warmed my heart. I needed my mommy. It doesn't matter how old you are." Her NYE resolution? "To live in the moment!" Her advice? "Everyone is going through something, respect and try not to judge."

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Kathy O'Malley Piccone, the hostess with the mostest at Gibson's Steakhouse, said her favorite moments during the pandemic were "when people started to reach out to each other, sending texts, jokes, puzzles, flowers, delicious foods from local restaurants and the wonderful 'calm app.'' She said, "Most of all, just sending love and positive vibes to each others. Touching moments that brought me to tears every evening at 8 pm throughout the city [when people serenaded the healthcare workers]." Her NYE resolution is to "spread more kindness, more love and generosity, more understanding of one another, more courage and peace and be more in the moment."

 

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Amanda Puck, Director Strategic Brand Development Mariano's, has worked in the food industry for a long time. She shared,

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Amanda Puck w/ Mariano's community partner Jermaine Anderson, Corey Carr, 6th Ward Alderman Roderick Sawyer, Ron Baker Jr. and Otis Wilson.

"Through the pandemic, it was great to see organizations and individuals step up and help the community more than ever! Both the Greater Chicago Food Depository and Northern Illinois Food Bank have worked so hard feeding the community, as well as all the local food pantries across Chicagoland." During the isolation she learned "how to make a mean arancini from Chef Tony Priolo, delicious Mac & Cheese from Chef Brian Jupiter and taste more wines with Belinda Chang all via our Mariano's meet-ups and zoom classes." Her NYE resolution? "To read more! She has started with Julia Child's "My Life in France." Amanda said, "I admire her, she started and blossomed in her career later in life. She's an epic legend in our industry." She added a quote from one of her favorite authors Morgan Harper Nichols, 'Even if the wait carries on another year, I will not get where I am going without first learning to be here.'"

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Melody Spann Cooper with former First Lady Michelle Obama.

Melody Spann Cooper, Chair and CEO Midway Broadcasting Corp., said her favorite moment of 2020 was "when Joe Biden and Kamala Harris were declared the President and VP-Elect of the United States. I didn't realize how sleep deprived I had been over the past four years." Her NYE resolution is to "remain healthy and helpful. I'm making a commitment to 365 days of giving. Every day I plan to intentionally give something that will help someone." Her hope for the future? "I hope for healing and restoration. Restoring health to those who have been impacted by the pandemic. Restoring compassion in all of humanity and restoring Chicago to the great city we love. It's not perfect, but in its imperfection, it's still home and a place that has allowed me to dream past my zip code."

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Paul Iacono, president Chicago Dowel Company, and much loved man-about-town, said his

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Paul Iacono with niece Jennifer and nephew Tommy.

favorite moment of 2020 was being able to squeeze in a last minute trip to Hawaii during Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day. His hopes for next year are a "quick return to normalcy, especially for my friends in the hospitality industry who truly have had a rough go of it." His words of advice, "This too shall pass."

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Always stylish, Mark Olley.

Another handsome friend, Mark Olley (Co-op Lending Manager, Chicago Financial Services), said, "No matter what hand we've been dealt, we adapt, we flourish, it's who we are, it's what we do, we're CHICAGO STRONG!" Mark discovered new skills during the pandemic, as many of us did. He enjoyed learning to cook, plant and tend to a vegetable garden and credits his husband and dog Grayson for keeping him sane. Mark says, "I always lead with hope, optimism and love." His dream for 2021 is good health and an end to Covid-19. "A positive mind and outlook, no matter how trying the circumstances, helps to get us through a lot."

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Yolanda "Dusty" Stemer, philanthropist, member of Service Club of Chicago, Costume Council and others, said that two of her three sons had mild cases of Covid and both recovered rapidly."Things like this makes you realize and give credit to our healthcare workers." Her NYE resolution is to "not turn that Peloton into a clothes rack!" Her hopes for 2021, "The same as everyone, to get a vaccine to all of our loved ones and free Botox for all!" Dusty is married to Dr. Alex Stemer, who is deeply involved in treatment, research and prevention of Covid. "There is light at the end of the tunnel. Recent advances will help make 2021 much better than 2020…Tomorrow is promised to no one, and the one thing Covid steals from us is time with those we love," she said.

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Justine Fedak, Corporate Hippie, motivational speaker and soon-to-be Woman of Vision

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Justine Fedak, "a girl who never gives up!"

for this year's Eversight Illinois Gift of Sight Celebration told me her title should be "a girl who never gives up." She's a good friend and I can tell you I have never met anyone so tenacious and driven (in a very good way). She said 2020 was a time of total renewal for her. She regained mobility "by some miracle" [she suffered from MS for years and years] and "connected deeply" with her dearest friends. Her NYE resolution is to "cry when things make me happy or sad and to feel and live my life to the fullest, no pretending anything." Her motto? "Be in love with your life every single minute. My grandma passed away this December at age 98 and she was the strongest, toughest, most loving person who never complained about anything she had to live through. To be alive is to be in love…with your life," she said.

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Sherrill Bodine with Paula Borg and Sherry Lea Holson.

Sherrill Bodine, author, president of the Service Club of Chicago and philanthropist, said her favorite moment of the last year was "working with the dedicated women of the Service Club who worked tirelessly through these challenging times to raise money for our Philanthropic Fund which will be given out in 2021 to worthy charities all over Chicago." Sherrill recently lost her husband and said her resolution is "to seek the light and find my way on this new journey without John." She always greets each day with hope and vows to "never surrender."

 

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Sean Lewis, WGN News Anchor, remembers his favorite moment of 2020 very well. He

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Newlyweds Sean Lewis and Trover Gray Wilson.

married the love of his life, Trover Gray Wilson, in a ceremony at City Hall. "The pandemic didn't allow us a large in-person celebration but I'm hoping 2021 will!" He said his resolution is "to realize that resolutions aren't a good idea. Usually it becomes the first disappointment of any new year for me." He hopes that when the pandemic ends, that people will treat each other better. His words of advice? "Eat well, appreciate the small things and learn one new thing a day."

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Nan Giordano (3rd from L) with Joshua Blake Carter, Beth Tarrant, her son Keenan Casey, Sophie Darley and Cesar Salinas.

An icon in the dance world, Nan Giordano, artistic director Giordano Dance Chicago, is looking forward to "launching Illuminate the Possibilities, an initiative which represents global connection, unity, positivity and possibility, all through dance." She said, "Amidst our dim world light I have chosen to focus on the many silver linings that have immersed. I hope we learn and grow and take the many challenging circumstances and make something positive out of them. Mankind and peace, front and center!"  Her motto? "Today is the day! Adversity creates strength and change brings opportunity."

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Dear friend Michael Caputo, brand and creative strategist, enjoyed long walks around

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Michael Caputo (R) with friend Greg Hyder at RL.

the lakefront in the warmer months. He said, "It was lots of good thinking time. The views of our beautiful city were a hopeful reminder that things will soon return to normal." His NYE resolution is to "be adept with change and related growth." He said, "This pandemic has challenged us to rethink the 'why' of our respective lives/careers." His advice: "Every storm runs out of rain. We've all had to make do and redirect energies this past year, that can be stressful. Don't let a setback define the day. Or your life."

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Dionne Williams, president D. Williams PR Group, said, even though 2020 was a "rough year", she was able to spend more quality time with her family and a small group of friends, by staying in touch via phone or Zoom. She said, "2020 made me slow down, so for 2021 I will continue to not rush myself and live in the present and enjoy my surroundings. I want to focus more on fitness and travel when it's safe to do so." She added, "During these rough times, I have learned to be more patient. I also will take this time to work on things that I was too busy for previously, in life and business."

 

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Tracey Tarantino DiBuono, executive producer ZZAZZ Productions, said, "Having family

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Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and her Joey.

close and my young granddaughters in my home has given me a foundation of great unity as a family. Work paused. My husband Joey prepared family dinners that brought us all to the table, dinners that we never dreamed would happen in our previously busy lives." She looks forward to adding a new component to her business, virtual fashion shows and events. Her NYE resolution? "Don't expect things to return to normal…make a choice to accept and then create a new normal and keep my faith in God." She hopes that "new avenues become open to us and that prayers will be answered for everyone. Open your heart to what has been given and find gratitude in every day."

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Michelle Durpetti with her fab fam–dad Tony Durpetti, mom Marion and hubby Collin Pierson.

Michelle Durpetti, managing partner Turnkey Hospitality Group, chief planner Michelle Durpetti Events, said her favorite moment of 2020 was seeing her Gene & Georgetti management team come together, be more creative, more adaptive and supportive of each other. "We have even laughed while sometimes we felt like

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Michelle Durpetti and her team from Gene & Georgetti restaurant.

crying and I think that is because we have each other. Yanni, Sal, Cristiano, Luis, Jessica, Nicole, Jeremy and Angelo are all such incredible human beings. My favorite moment hands down has been seeing them flourish and fight all the challenges." As far as resolutions, "I don't believe in resolutions to be honest. I live my life out loud, with empathy and compassion always and when I get something wrong, I own it. And that is year round." Her advice going forward: "I think I now live with the knowledge that life truly can change so fast. It has really affirmed for me that I need to take a moment every day to be grateful for all that I have and for making it this far." Her words of advice? "Let's stop tearing at one another and, instead, extend helpful hands and grateful hearts towards each other."

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RMHC-CNI's Holly Buckendahl.

Holly Buckendahl, CEO Ronald McDonald House Charities of Chicagoland & NW Indiana, said a silver lining, that she didn't expect, was the ability to stay connected virtually with family and friends. Her hope for the coming year? "While open through the pandemic (with many restrictions), I look forward to RMHC-CNI reinstating the full breadth of services critically ill children and their families need on their journey to heal together." Her advice during these tough times comes from professor, social worker and author Brene Brown who said, "In order to empathize with someone's experience, you must be willing to believe them as they see it and not how you imagine their experience to be."

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My PR gal pal Kathleen Sarpy, founder/CEO Agency H5, said her favorite moment of 2020,

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Kathleen Sarpy and her family.

despite a tough year filled with personal losses, was being able to be "immersed" with all of her kids. She and her husband Chris discovered that "love and connectedness is truly the most important thing." She said, "I really need to find a hobby. I'm a wife, a mom to 6 awesome kids, run a company and I don't really have something that I do just for me. I might finally give meditation a try or yoga, to have a space to be mindful in body and spirit."

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Pandemic baking with Jennifer Sutton Brieva and Paul Iacono.

Jennifer Sutton Brieva, felt that Christmas was one of her favorite moments of 2020. She said "it was a much needed shift in energy for everyone. We need that all year long." Her hopes for 2021? "To learn from 2020 and never take people or experiences for granted again and to get back into pre-Covid shape!" Her words of advice? "People need to be grateful and embrace the simple pleasures of life that have become so very vital." I am so grateful for a FaceTime call with my parents, happy hour Zoom with dear friends, a classic movie with my cat Zoe or even a walk in Lincoln Park or a dance party in the kitchen with my husband Joaquin–those every day opportunities for joy often overlooked become special moments of connection, never to be taken for granted again."  

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WBBM Newsradio anchor/reporter Lisa Fielding, who has one of the most distinctive voices 

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Lisa Fielding, the Voice of WBBM.

in the business, said her favorite moment of 2020 was a mother/daughter trip to Mexico in February. "I got my travel fix, after this, by hitting the road to Michigan a couple of times to see the sunset from the other side. I'm a big "sunset" person and try to find them wherever I go," she added. Her hope for the coming year? "I hope for better days for the world, where jobs and prosperity return, where we can hug each other, sing and dance with each other while enjoying live music in our favorite venues or in that dark bar with the awesome jukebox, where we can travel the world again, enjoy a cold one and the crack of the bat at a baseball game, enjoy family gatherings, weddings, celebrations, our favorite restaurants, happy hour with friends and escape through live theater."

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Another dear friend in media is Dori Wilson, publicist/founder Dori Wilson Public Relations. Her favorite moment of 2020 was "watching a racially diverse movement develop and grow in recognition of long-standing racial inequality and injustice in this country, watching individuals and corporations commit to do better and recognition of "we're all in this together." Her NY resolution? "To actually use my Peloton!" Her hope for 2021? "I am so hopeful for a vaccination and a vacation!"…..Words of wisdom? "Laughter is the best medicine and forgiveness runs a close second!"

 

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The editor-in-chief of Cancer Wellness magazine, Caylei Vogelzang, said the best moment of 2020 was being able to spend more time with her family on the golf course. Her NYE resolutions include learning to do the splits 3 ways and a backward walkover; improve on physical fitness assessments; visit a yoga retreat; grow and expand her magazine and "become more of an essential source for those touched by cancer"; plan a family holiday to a national park; wear more pieces from local designers and sustainable fashion and practice gratitude daily and more meditation. The words she lives by is "exercise, exercise, exercise!"

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Jean de St Aubin, the executive director of the Gene Siskel Film Center, says her favorite

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Jean de St. Aubin and her daughter holiday baking.

moment of 2020 was presenting the Black Harvest Film Festival. She said, "The timing could not have been better. It was so great to have a month of celebrating Black stories, the joy felt virtually was a much needed balm to a turbulent year." Her hopes for 2021? "That everyone gets vaccinated ASAP, and that we all be together again. I think I will turn into a hugging machine as soon as it is safe." Her advice? "Count your blessings and share your gifts."

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Jean Antoniou and family at Chicago Botanic Garden.

Jean Antoniou, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago Board of Managers, said her favorite part of 2020 was "knowing it is almost over." Her advice moving forward? "To cherish family and friends because they will always be your biggest supporters. Glass is half full is always a good way to look at each day."

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Mekky Media Relations, found silver linings in a tough year. She said spending more time with her kids and husband made her so grateful for "the little moments." She also found joy in the hiring of four new people for her 5 year-old business. In 2021, she plans on prioritizing her own health and to invest in herself in ways she never has. Her motto? "Every day is a new day. Every morning we wake up with a new chance. I truly believe the energy you give out is what comes back to you. Despite all of the negativity around us, never lose hope. We will get through this!"

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Pam Capitanini (center) with friends Simona Garcia and Cristina Montgomery.

Pamella Capitanini, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago, loved watching people's inventiveness during 2020 as many learned new ways to pivot. She said, "From drive-by birthday celebrations, mask creativity and eating in igloos, it was amazing and inspiring to see." Her NYE resolution: "To keep smiling and do my best! And remember the front line workers who have given all and those who have left us." She added, "I believe many of us have realized that nails, hair and party dresses don't make a difference, but reaching out to one another does!"

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And last but certainly not least, everyone's favorite elf, The Real Elf Tommy Holl, Head of Media for The

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Tommy Holl, aka "The Real Elf."

North Pole, had much to be thankful for in 2020. "This holiday season is one for the history books that I hope we never have to repeat, but we were able to create a spark of joy for young and old." His favorite moments included: "Elfing" at 900 North Michigan Shops; Sending Elf Gram video messages with proceeds benefiting Imerman Angels (Tommy is a cancer survivor); Being hired to pop into 5 Zoom calls from around the world; Appearing on "Around Town with Ana Belaval", "Happy Hour with the Hoovers", WGN radio with Paul Lisnek, Tom Skilling's Christmas Eve and so much more. His NYE resolution is to: "Pause, reset, reorganize, reflect, be prepared, be ready, be thankful and be kind." His advice? "You can't grow from NO. It's okay to say no when it doesn't feel right, but saying no all the time will lead you nowhere. Try not to take things too seriously, none of us get out of here alive. And appreciate what you have."

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Eversight Illinois "Gift of Sight Celebration" Save-the-Date with mask included. 

I'm so excited to see some events coming BACK!! Mark your calendars for Eversight Illinois' "Gift of Sight Celebration", set for Thursday, October 21 at the Peninsula. Justine Fedak will be honored as the Woman of Vision and Dr. Parag Majmudar will be the Gift of Sight honoree. This year's masquerade theme is "Fantasea" and I'm honored to return as co-chair with Michael Caputo! (For more details, click here!)

On Saturday, November 6, the Hippocratic Cancer Research

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Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation Save-the-Date with mask included.

Foundation, will host its 6th annual "Wings to Cure." This gala will be held at the Hilton Chicago and funds raised will help support cutting edge cancer research at the Lurie Cancer Center. For more details, click here!  

Chicago Lights "Gala of Hope at Home" is still set for Friday, March 5 at 7 pm CST. This signature event will benefit the Chicago Lights Gala of Hope at Home Mar. 5youth development and social service programs of Chicago Lights and the community support efforts of the Replogle Center for Counseling and Well-Being. (More details here!)

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Here's more happy news on the nonprofit front! YWCA Metropolitan Chicago received a $9

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Philanthropist MacKenzie Scott, ex-wife of Amazon's Jeff Bezos.

million unrestricted contribution from billionaire venture philanthropist MacKenzie Scott. This major gift will help the nonprofit and its mission to empower women and families and advance racial justice. This major gift is part of more than $4 billion in philanthropic contributions made by Ms. Scott over the past four months. Board president Joyce Winnecke (just love her!) called this gift an "affirmation of YWCA Metropolitan Chicago's strategy."

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Israel "Izzy" Idonije with CPD officers from his "Shop with a Cop" initiative.

Former Chicago Bear Israel "Izzy" Idonije has lifted charitable giving to an art form. For the 6th year in a row, Izzy and his IF Charities team hosted "Shop With a Cop", a great initiative that builds trust between CPD officers and the communities they serve. On Thursday, December 17, more than 60 police officers shopped for kids in need, who had submitted a wish list "for Santa" in advance. The officers picked up items that were donated by Target with special $50 gift certificates included for family dinners donated by Jewel. (To support Izzy in his many charitable endeavors around town, click here!)

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CBS-2 Chicago's Steven Graves.

Special thanks to CBS-2 Chicago's Steven Graves and to  

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ABC-7's John Garcia for having me on their segments recently! I loved chatting about what to do for NYE with John (watch segment here) and to Steven about how our nonprofits are pivoting their fundraisers. (Watch this segment here!)

One of my favorite silver linings to this pandemic mess is the fact that our animal shelters are at their lowest point with 47345717_10155897884056272_3390432546213855232_oun-adopted rescues! As a matter of fact, PAWS Chicago has reported a near record number of adoptions in 2020–4,100! Through their Holiday-Adopt-a-Thon and usual grassroots efforts, they have managed to find forever homes for 4100 UntitledDOGS AND CATS! Can I get a Woot! Woot!? PAWS Chicago also provides extensive resources to help pets make a seamless transition into their news home and also provides a lifetime safety net for every animal, ensuring that if something happens to the adopter, their PAWS pet will always be cared for. I'm hearing similar good news from One Tail at a Time and also Young at Heart Senior Pet Rescue–all my favorites and much recommended animal shelters. Please check them out if you're looking for a pet!

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BEST IMG_0446_Facetune_30-12-2020-16-46-36I'm so loving my new home at Chicago Star Media! This group of hyper-local papers delivers, monthly, positive news you can use and I hope you're a subscriber! (Please click here for details or just leave your name and address here, info@chicagostarmedia, to receive the free online newsletter.) My latest column, "Chicago's CHI-lebrities Reflect on 2020, Share Hopes for the Coming Year" has been a hit, garnering both the front page and centerfold of the recent publication! (Read it here and get advice and discover the hopes and dreams of Chef Art Smith, rocker Jim Peterik, Bill Kurtis and Donna La Pietra, comedian Tom Dreesen, Kerry Wood and his Sarah, Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas, Leslie Hindman, Israel "Izzy" Idonije, The Joffrey  Ballet's Ashley Wheater, entertainer Chilli Pepper, restaurateur RJ Melman, Alpana Singh, Michael Kutza, Aldmerman Brian Hopkins and Dr. Ian Smith. I was so moved by their honest, thoughtful answers….there is uplifting advice, inspiration for the future and their thoughts on 2020! Read it all here!

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Jatnna Toribio and Izzy Idonije are engaged!

There's a lotta love in the air right now! So many exciting betrothals to announce! First off, love and

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Marcus Riley is engaged to Jude Fitzgerald!

congrats to Jatnna Toribio and her Israel Idonije, who were recently engaged. Also, congratulations to Marcus Riley and his Jude Fitzgerald who got engaged on New Year's Day and,

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Val Warner is engaged to Jobba Jordan.

last but not least, to Windy City Live's Val Warner who just became engaged to Jobba Jordan. I'm thrilled for each and every one of these beautiful people who managed to not only survive during

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Val and Jobba sittin' in a tree…..

this nasty year, but to thrive and find love. It's definitely easier to face any storm when you're supported by your best friend. Here's wishing them all a lifetime of health and happiness and, as Kup always said, "Long may they love!"

 

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Playboy's Winter 2021 Playmate Izabela Guedes.

Playboy has changed the format of its iconic centerfold. No longer will the featured Playmate be spotlighted for just a month, now she will have a whole season all to herself! There will be only 4 Playmates a year….makes me wish for a do-over! Read deets here on how Playboy is growing, and meet the Winter 2021 Playmate, Izabela Guedes.

 

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As I close out my first blog of 2021, I must say, I am glad to leave 2020 (far) behind. I've never had a worse Goodbye-2020-hello-2021-images-12year and I know many of my friends feel the same. There's was no  "dashing through the snow on a one horse open sleigh, o'er the fields we go, laughing all the way"…… Not this year when everything in the world changed in the blink of a Covid eye. I couldn't even get in my usual cheery mood for Christmas, at Elf on Shelfleast not in the way I used to. One minute, we're planning family gatherings, figuring out seating, who will sit at the kids' table and the next thing you know, we're all Zooming in to "celebrate" on computer screens. I found myself decorating for Christmas almost manically, trying to create much needed joy that is at a premium now. I know store

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This is definitely NOT my work, beautiful gingerbread house by Jennifer and Joaquin Brieva (kit from Vanille Chicago).

shelves were shopped clean of all holiday decor long before the usual time. On social media, my friends busily shared photos of their trees, holiday cookies, DIY Christmas ideas and so much more. Hell, we even attempted building a gingerbread house for the first time but it

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I'm thinking our tree will be up until Easter or beyond. (Sort of kidding?)

looked like a tornado hit it before I could even ice the roof. This year, we lost our dog, family members, I lost a job, Chuck lost his three dearest friends and had a TIA (mini-stroke). I think I was entitled to decorate as much as I wanted to try to fill this void and you can bet these decorations are gonna be here for a while. Nothing makes me happier than twinkling Christmas tree lights. It reminds me of all the GOOD years in the past when all of our family was gathered together, giving gifts and

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Marshall Field's famous Chicken Pot Pie.

thanks for our good health and the fact that we were still here. Pre-Covid, you could still find Santa in all the department stores, which were decorated to the nines. I'm happy though to see that retail, despite all its setbacks, still

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Marshall Field's Walnut Room at Christmas 1950.

tried to be festive. Macy's, although certainly not close to the old Marshall Field's in holiday decor, still had cheerful windows and the Great Tree in the Walnut Room. And, although families couldn't carry on life-long traditions of dining there during the season, they could still order carry-out–the famous Mrs. Hering's Chicken Pot Pie (recipe here), lobster bisque, Frango Mint

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Ann Gerber's book, "Sweet Tooth," a collection of recipes by Chicago notables.

Chocolate Ice Cream Pie and more. For Chuck and me, we still tried to carry on family traditions. We baked my mom's ham (Cooks only) and I fixed Mama Mary Johnson's famous sweet potato pie (whose recipe was featured in Ann Gerber's 1985 book, "Chicago's Sweet Tooth."). I also cooked the requisite black-eyed peas for good luck on New Year's Day (I pray it works). We toasted to the loved ones we lost and prayed for a better future, one that will bring back the human element and social interaction that is necessary to the survival of a species. We can't drift apart. We need "parties for hosting, marshmallows for toasting and caroling out in the snow," now more than ever. Here's hoping this year is off to a great start for you!

Love always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. Life's short, make the most of it. Thank you Michiel for this poignant reminder.

 

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GALAS GOING VIRTUAL: HOW SHAKESPEARE THEATRE COMPANY CELEBRATED THE BARD’S BIRTHDAY IN STYLE ONLINE

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Sign seen on Covid car ride. We believe.

Welcome back for my second blog under covid. Like everyone else in the world, I feel like this thing has me by the throat. I understand the frustration of people trying to gain back some freedom. In the beginning, believe it or not, I thought this was sort of fun–at least I had an excuse to stay home with Chuck and Rooney. I even got in some very creative cooking, thanks to Chef Art Smith and his great Insta videos. The stay-at-home order was like having permission to take a staycation. Little did I, or anyone else,

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We miss shooting the breeze with Joey.

realize how long this would last and the horrible loss of life, sickness and personal sacrifice (on behalf of the front line workers

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Gibson's with Kathy Piccone–such a sweet memory that I hope will return soon.

and others) it would cost. I understand the safety precautions we all need to take but I'm definitely ready to get back to work, get out of the house and have a reason to get dressed and earn a paycheck again. Zoom meetings are not for me. I'm a Gemini, I need social interaction like I need air to breathe. I know this will end but then what? What will the new normal look like? We all see how the world changed following 9/11. I

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Pizano's, festive at Christmastime and always.

can't imagine flying with plastic panels between seats, nor can I imagine what dining in restaurants will look like. How in

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Armando Vasquez, La Scarola. We're waiting to do this again!

the world will Armando Vasquez, from La Scarola, share tequila shooters with us? How will I handle not getting a hug from Kathy Piccone at Gibson's and how sad would it be not to be able to sit at Tufano's with Joey DiBuono or at the bar at Pizano's with Brian shooting the breeze. Times will change but I pray memories like these will return for us all, and soon.

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Fundraising-organizations-nonprofit-charityOur fabulous gala-going days have been cut short too, for now. Thank you Rona. However, that doesn't mean nonprofits aren't getting creative with their fundraising, ergo virtual galas! Now, we all know this isn't nearly as gratifying as rubbing shoulders with friends, comparing new outfits or toasting a successful night, but it is a vital effort for the organizations to stay afloat and keep revenue streams open. I've come to realize that if supporters have their heart set on your nonprofit, they will find a way to help and this gives them a perfect opportunity during this crisis. Case in point, I recently "attended/watched" Chicago Shakespeare Theatre's online event, "Toast to Shakespeare's Birthday." It's lucky for them that they have such a deep arsenal of performing and creative talent, which helped move along the 1/2 hour free celebration. It was joyous and thoughtfully produced with nearly 2000 households tuning in and several thousand more on-demand. The organization was really ahead of the game though as they've been producing "tons" of online content as part of their ongoing Shakes@Home initiative. The recent birthday celebration for the bard was the first virtual event of this kind that they have produced. The event was part of its Brave New World campaign which brought in more than $10,000 in new and first time gifts toward the $900,000 raised to date. Read details below:

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Shakespeare Theater Company's virtual gala was a great success!

Chicago Shakespeare Theater presented a one-night-only streaming event Toast to Shakespeare’s Birthday! on April 23. On the occasion of the Bard’s 456th birthday, a line-up of special guests—including the Queens of SIX on Broadway, Chicago Theater legend Larry Yando, hip-hop sensations the Q Brothers Collective, actor/author John Tufts, as well as T.R. Knight, Heather Headley, Peter Sagal, Chef Rick

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A 456th BD celebration!

Bayless, Harry Hadden-Paton and Rebecca Night, James Vincent Meredith, E. Faye Butler, and more–all offered toasts to the Bard during the 1/2 hour virtual event that opened with a welcome from artistic director Barbara Gaines and creative producer Rick Boynton. The fun-filled event featured a special musical performance from the

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The virtual event was hosted by Rick Boynton and Barbara Gaines.

SIX Queens—Adrianna Hicks, Andrea Macasaet, Abby Mueller, Brittney Mack, Samantha Pauly, and Anna Uzele—who headlined the North American Premiere production of the hit show at Chicago Shakespeare in Spring 2019 and now await their return to the Broadway stage. Legendary Chicago theater actor Larry Yando joined online to discuss Shakespeare after appearing onstage in some of the Bard’s most storied roles. The evening also featured Chicago hip hop sensations, the Q Brothers Collective – GQ, JQ, Jax and Pos, who have created award-winning “ad-rap-tations” of Shakespeare including Othello: The Remix. Actor

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Beautiful stars from the "Queens of Six"

and author John Tufts, along with his son, shared a birthday-themed recipe from his newly released book, Fat Rascals: Dining at Shakespeare’s Table. Making special appearances throughout the event were T.R. Knight (Grey’s Anatomy, Chicago Shakespeare’s A IMG_7132Midsummer Night’s Dream), Heather Headley (Broadway’s The Color Purple, Aida, The Lion King), NPR’s Peter Sagal (Wait, Wait, Don’t Tell Me), Chef Rick Bayless, Harry Hadden-Paton (Downton Abbey, Broadway’s My Fair Lady) and Rebecca Night (Chicago Shakespeare’s The King’s Speech), James Vincent Meredith (The Book of Mormon National Tour), award-winning vocalist E. Faye Butler, as well as Heidi Kettenring, Laura Rook and Nate Burger, Jennifer Latimore, and Sean

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The theater company's design department is hard at work helping create masks during the crisis.

and Linda Fortunato. The event highlighted Chicago Shakespeare’s current initiatives to serve audiences, artists and the community and covered Chicago

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John Tufts, and his son, cooked on the show and "shamelessly" touted his new cookbook.

Shakespeare’s new free educational initiative, Stream and Study, which provides educators with a digital stream of the Theater’s 2017 abridged production of Romeo and Juliet, adapted and directed by Marti Lyons and a wide array of teaching materials and activities, tailored for the now-virtual classroom. Hundreds of teachers have already signed up to implement the program in their digital curriculum. The

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Actor Greg Vinkler offered a virtual toast.

Theater’s "Masks for faces and for Noses" project, in partnership with University of Illinois – Chicago, was also spotlighted.

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Actors Rebecca Night and Harry Hadden-Paton.

The project workers have completed more than 18,000 patient face masks for UI Health hospitals and other healthcare facilities across the state, all while providing a source of income to more than 100 theater-makers across the city, many of whom are out of work due to the COVID-19-releated theater closures. The virtual event closed with cast members and other theater VIPs thanking the viewers and the front line workers. Gaines ended with, "Stay safe, be well and let's all take care of each other."

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GDC April 25Congrats to Giordano Dance Chicago for its first ever virtual Zoom jazz dance experience that was held on Gus Giordano Day April 25 with renowned choreographer Ray Leeper. The

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GDC's Nan Giordano and Cesar Salinas welcomed viewers from Nan's living room.

energetic and inspiring online event opened with a welcome from artistic director Nan Giordano and artistic programs manager, Cesar Salinas, from Nan's beautiful living room. Nan introduced Leeper who appeared from his Los Angeles home. This was followed by 20-minute combo sessions conducted by Giordano and Leeper with appearances by the

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Choreographer Ray Leeper led us all in dance from his home in LA.

dancers at various intervals. Everyone was encouraged to follow along for this intermediate level online dance celebration. Over 300 viewers tuned in from 12 countries and 31 states, raising $3000 for America's original jazz dance company, now in its 57th year. At the conclusion, a full screen

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The entire GDC company participated and joined together at the conclusion to thank supporters.

of all of the dancers appeared with Nan, Cesar, Ray and Michael McStraw, executive director. GDC is one of the longest running professional dance companies in America. The event will be held again on June 9 led by Leeper, this time on NAN GIORDANO DAY! Congrats to all and I'll "see" you on June 9! (To follow along, click here!)

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Pants Optional, a virtual gala for Steppenwolf Theatre Company and Saturday, May 9.

And you won't want to miss THIS virtual gala! Steppenwolf Theatre Company will replace its 2020 Gala with a special (FREE) online event, Pants Optional: A Steppenwolf Soirée. The event will celebrate the power of theatre and raise critical funds to keep the company alive during a time of necessary social-distancing. Ensemble member Audrey Francis will emcee this festive virtual gathering on Saturday, May 9, at 6:30 pm CST, with special appearances by Steppenwolf ensemble members Joan Allen, Gary Cole, John Malkovich, Sandra Marquez and Laurie Metcalf, along with celebrity guests who will be announced on

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STC ensemble member John Malkovich will participate in the virtual event.

Steppenwolf’s social media channels and website. Steppenwolf ensemble members and esteemed celebrity guests will make special appearances in this

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Ensemble member Tracy Young.

virtual soirée, uniting with Steppenwolf supporters, audiences and fans viewing the event from the comfort of their homes. Throughout the evening, guests will be able to give online, by phone or by text to help raise funds to bring back to the stage I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter, this season’s Steppenwolf for Young Adults hit world premiere based on the award-winning novel by

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Ensemble member Audrey Francis will emcee.

Erika L. Sánchez, adapted by celebrated Chicago playwright Isaac Gómez. The extended and sold out run was cut short by the COVID-19 crisis and remounting the production in the Spring of 2021 would bring back to life this essential Chicago story for those who were unable to see it and others who want to see it again. Wrapping up Steppenwolf’s spectacular online bash, attendees can participate in a virtual dance party with the talented DJ Tracy Young, who won a 2020 Grammy for her remix of Madonna’s I Rise. “Although our traditional gala is always a wonderful night that we look forward to, I know that this year’s event will be truly special. Being able to come together online with a greater swath of Steppenwolf artists, audiences and supporters for a collective

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Beloved ensemble member Joan Allen will also participate.

moment of joy during these difficult times is just what we need to support live theatre and each other,” shares artistic director Anna D. Shapiro.

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Ensemble member Gary Cole.

Pants Optional: A Steppenwolf Soirée co-chairs include ensemble member Joan Allen; trustee Susan Berghoef; ensemble members Gary Cole and Sandra Marquez; and trustee Anne Phillips and Don Phillips. “Every year we look forward to a fun celebration with artists, ensemble, trustees and guests in support of the incredible work that Steppenwolf

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Ensemble member Sandra Marquez.

Education does season after season. We’re thrilled that this year’s virtual platform allows us to expand our reach by making it free and open to all. What better way to uplift the power of live theatre than raising funds to bring back a production that was so meaningful to our teen and public audiences. We are looking forward to reuniting with our Steppenwolf community online with this event and at our theatre again in the future,” shared executive director David Schmitz. Pants Optional: A Steppenwolf Soirée lead sponsors are Anne and Don Phillips with additional support from Innovators Allstate, The Bluhm Family Charitable Foundation, Exelon, Grosvenor Capital Management, Liz and Eric Lefkofsky, The Orlebeke Foundation and The Pritzker Traubert Family Foundation, among others. For more details on how to stream this exciting event, click here!

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Holly Buckendahl, RMHC CEO

Ronald McDonald House Charities of Chicagoland and Northwest Indiana hosted its first virtual UNGala on May 2. Hosted by Fred (of KISS 103.5 FM) and Holly Buckendahl, the nonprofit's CEO, the 40 minute event featured a performance by Sixteen Candles (that was introduced by lead singer Adam LeBlanc). The group sang "Chains of Love." Nick Lynch, 3-time

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Fred, of KISS 103.5 FM) hosted the show.

American Idol contestant sang "Best Days" by Graham Colton. In between performances, RMHC ambassador families shared their stories of staying at the Houses when their children were sick. The Donnelly family's daughter Olivia, was born with a rare heart condition

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Baby Olivia before her first heart transplant.

that required hospitalization that eventually led to heart transplant surgery, not once, but twice. Every year, the family leads a Walk for Hope and Olivia is doing great now! Throughout the event, Holly shared info about the 5 Houses spread across Chicagoland (along with three Family Rooms). She said, "We

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Sixteen Candles' Adam LeBlanc.

exist so families can get better together." The Houses served around 18,000 kids last year. It costs about $85 per night to house a family but they are asked to donate only $10, if they can. If they can't, no family is ever turned away. There was a Q&A with Ronald McDonald introduced by franchise

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owner/operator Derrick Lott. Ronald led the viewers in a dance and told some cute jokes. Mardelle Gundlach, program director, gave supporters a tour of the House near Comer Children's Hospital. Fred spoke about his own family's experiences staying in various

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Houses when he had meningitis as a kid. In conclusion, the band Spoken Four sang Stevie Wonder's "Signed, Sealed, Delivered, I'm Yours." Pete Bensen, RMHCCNI board chair, thanked everyone for viewing and donating. "While the world around us is on pause, childhood illness doesn't take a break." The event

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Spoken Four performed.

raised over $760,000 towards a $1 million goal with donations pouring in online from the Benson Family ($10K); McGonigal Family ($5K); True Group ($10K); Koerner Family ($2500); Hammock Family ($2500); Caitlin Griffin ($1K); Capgemini Family ($10K); Red Shoes Society ($5K) and the Chicago Bulls and White Sox ($5K) and so many more. Donations for the UnGala are continuing through the end of the month (and anytime, of course). To donate or bid on silent auction items, click here!   

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the return of previously cancelled galas! Please mark your calendars for the following big events that will be live and in person (for now anyway). Make sure you check each nonprofit's website though as the event draws closer in case there have been changes.

Chicago House & Social Service's 34th annual Brunch & Fashion Show has been rescheduled  for September 13. I will be front and center for this hotly anticipated, fun-filled, joyous event to benefit this nonprofit that, since 1985, has provided support for those living with and vulnerable to HIV/AIDS. For tickets, more info, please click here!

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Josh Hale, pres/CEO Big Shoulders Fund, and friends.

The Big Shoulders Fund will host its annual "Reach for the Stars" gala on Friday, September 23 at the Hilton Chicago. Here's what Josh Hale, president/CEO, had to say about BSF which provides support to Catholic Schools in the neediest areas of inner-city Chicago. "We are actively working to keep our mission strong and vibrant. Our 95 schools are providing e-learning to some 26,000 children in under-resourced communities. Also, we are listening to the needs of these schools and children and are providing them with what they need – chromebooks, social-emotional supports, food, and caring – love!  While all of these are critical, ensuring these children, their families and communities have access to food has been the most critical and uplifting!  With the support of generous supporters, we have initiated U77ntitledan innovative partnerships with small community-based restaurants to deliver food/meals to our students, families, and others in the community facing food instability. Currently, we have 20 sites set up – our schools – located in some of Chicago’s lowest income communities.  We have partnered with just over 30 local, family owned

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restaurants in these communities to provide meals.  We pay the restaurants to prepare the meals which are either distributed at our schools or picked-up from the restaurant. They are fresh, hot and restaurant quality. We see this as a win-win in that we help local community-based organizations – restaurants and our schools – to remain open, vibrant and fulfilling a great need in their community. This program has grown significantly and, thus far, we have served nearly 20,000 meals and counting." Keep up the great work Josh and BSF! (For gala tickets, more info about this amazing nonprofit, and/or to support, click here!)

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After School Matters, a nonprofit that provides Chicago high school teens with after-school and summer opportunities, had to cancel its Sneaker Ball this year that was scheduled for May 2. It will be reset for Spring 2021.

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Bright Futures virtual gala is set for Thursday, May 14.

Bright Futures has changed its event to a virtual gala set for Thursday, May 14. The event will support its Youth Guidance initiative that mentors and counsels 13,000 youth.

The National Museum of Mexican Art had to cancel its May 8th fundraiser that would've presented the Arthur R. Velasquez Award to Adela Cepeda for her significant contributions and support. She will now be honored at next year's gala. In the meantime, the Museum asks if you can donate, please do so here. The Museum is the only one dedicated to Mexican art and accredited by the American Alliance of Museums.

The Chicago Flower & Garden Show had to cancel its always anticipated event this year but they are offering new content every week online through its Get Growing channel on YouTube. Please check it out and donate if you can here.

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Victory Gardens Theater will honor actor Andre De Shields at its October24 Chicago Stories Gala.

Victory Gardens Theater's "Chicago Stories" gala will be held on Saturday, October 24 at the Four Seasons. The event will honor the very talented actor/legend Andre De Shields with guest playwright and MSNBC legal analyst Jill Wine-Banks. For tickets and more info, click here!

The Chicago Symphony Orchestra is offering a variety of digital content online on its CSO From Home channel. Check it out and support, if you can.

The Harris Theatre for Music & Dance, in association with the Lyric Opera, will livestream Beyond the Aria on May 11. Artistic director Craig Terry will be joined by three Lyric artists for an evening of uplifting music. Click here for more info and to watch.

The Second City, the famed comedy institution, has adapted its improvisation-based shows to create real- CfUOkHY7_400x400time, interactive and socially "together" virtual experiences available to audiences world-wide. The events are streamed for free but donations will be accepted to The Second City Alumni Fund, a resource for performers and other members of The Second City community experiencing critical health and financial challenges. Register for shows here.

The National Hellenic Museum in Chicago offers a free digital museum archive that features a rich repository of 20,000+ Greek American artifacts, photos, historic newspapers, books and more than 450 recorded oral histories to explore. This is the largest collection of its kind in the world and it's right here at your fingertips!

WTTW-WFMT's annual gala scheduled for May 6 was cancelled. It would've celebrated women on the 100th anniversary of us getting the right to vote. The theme was Trailblazers: Women Who Change the World. No info is available yet as for a new date. I'll be waiting to hear Julia!

The Adler Planetarium Women's Board had to cancel its WISS (Women in Space Science) Luncheon and is now focusing on the Celestial Ball set for September 12 at the Planetarium. Mark your calendars and check out more info here! See video of last year's spectacular Ball below!

The Boys & Girls Clubs of Chicago has made the decision to reschedule the 71st Annual Woman's Board Ball to Saturday, November 14 at the Four Seasons Chicago. They will hold the ball as originally planned by honoring two Woman's Board Visionaries, Karen Gray-Krehbiel and the late Kim White. For more info, click here.

Ryp1s4qZSVSt. Jude's Four Stars Restaurant Extravaganza has a tentative hold on Tuesday, September 29 to hold its event, this year at a new venue The Field Museum! And the always exciting  St. Jude Fashion Show, this year chaired by dear friend Ann Danner Dwyer, will be held on Saturday, May 8, 2021! Mark your calendars for both and follow along here for details.

Nothing deters The Service Club of Chicago! The annual Spring Luncheon (the hat luncheon) will now be held on Thursday, September 3, at the Drake Hotel. Co-chaired by Cathy Bartholomay, Annette Findling and Michelle Baker, the event will feature the same speaker as originally planned, Laura Dowling, who

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The SC Spring Luncheon has been moved to Thursday, September 3.

served as the Chief Floral Designer at The White House. SC president Sherrill Bodine said, "These are uncharted waters but SC does have plans to continue our mission. We have survived the 1918 Spanish flu pandemic, the '29 Crash, two World Wars and much more because we keep doing our job!" The nonprofit also is conducting virtual philanthropic grant sessions so help in the community will still be ongoing to those organizations who need it the most. The Day on the

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SC's virtual cocktail party will be held on Thursday, May 7.

Terrace Fashion Show, produced by ZZAZZ Productions and co-chaired by Jean Antoniou, Sharyl Mackey, Tracey DiBuono and Jamie Thorsen is still scheduled for Monday, August 3 at the Peninsula. (For more info, click here!)  Also, mark your calendars for Thursday, May 7 when the SC presents its first Zoom Cocktail Party! Hosted by Nikki Friar at Marchesa Chicago, the event helps the SC support nonprofits throughout Chicagoland. There will be much camaraderie, cocktail recipes, mixology tips and, I'm sure, a lot of laughs! Click the link for more info and to purchase your ticket ($25) here! Boy, these ladies are BUSY!

89356a_19669d1df02c491aa8c09d9da3cc4c76~mv2Another great women's organization is hard at work making a difference in Hinsdale. The Hinsdale Junior Woman's Club (HJWC) is comprised of generous, dedicated, diligent women always asking, "How can we help?", and in unprecedented times like these, that question is coming up even more frequently. Recently, Hinsdale Hospital reached out for HJWC’s help in relation to its COVID-19 needs. The hospital shared a wish list of various medical items they desperately needed and HJWC came through to support them. Thanks to efforts from its philanthropy co-chairs Tina Weller, Dee Bauer, Ruta Brigden, Colleen Whitehead and Liz Weir, along with its executive board, HJWC was able to donate a grant of $19,210 to help purchase three handheld Echo Cardiology Machines and a Portable Patient Monitor. Kudos to all involved in this remarkable effort!

Https _cdn.evbuc.com_images_89799697_161306808570_1_original.20200128-182244The Chicago Lighthouse will now host its "Seeing What's Possible" gala, chaired by Anida "Cookie" Cohen, on Wednesday, September 23. The event, with a Roaring '20s theme, will be held at the Four Seasons with dinner, a program and dancing to the Becca Kaufman Orchestra. It will honor David and Nancy Huber and the University of Illinois Hospital & Health Sciences Systems. For more info, click here!  

JourneyCare's "Allstars of Project Runway" event will be held on Saturday, September 26

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JourneyCare's Allstars of Project Runway event is set for Saturday, Sept. 26.

at the Arlington International Racecourse. The event will raise funds and shine a spotlight on care for children and adults living with serious illness. FYI, the runway show is spectacular. Last year it was led by Chicago's own Peach Carr! For more info, click here!

The Holiday Heroes Foundation, a nonprofit led by executive director Felicia Winiecki, provides joy and entertainment to children who are seriously ill by hosting themed hospital parties. Their annual event has been pushed to September but a date hasn't yet been decided. To check details when they become available, please click here!  

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The thrill of a lifetime, riding in the Pride Parade on the Baton Show Lounge float.

Sadly, the much loved Pride Parade has been postponed from its June 28th date. Tim Frye, coordinator of the 2020 parade, said he hopes the event can be held in late summer or early fall and that, if it can't be rescheduled then, it will be back in 2021. Boystown's annual Pride Fest, which was planned for June 20/21, was also postponed. It has been rescheduled for Sept. 5 and 6. Yeah!!!! (Watch for updates here).

Besides the ones mentioned above, all of these following arts, dance and theater companies will provide a virtual stage for programming. They include the Joffrey Ballet, Paramount Theatre, Porchlight Music Theatre, The House Theatre of Chicago, Chicago Children's Theatre, The Neo-Futurist Theater, Lookingglass Theatre, Sideshow Theatre, Black Button Eyes Productions, Hubbard Street Dance Chicago, Lucky Plush Productions, Deeply Rooted Dance Theater and Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater. 

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95352751_10222070677541046_6829140224187039744_nCongrats to TPAN (Test Positive Aware Network)! The organization's Dining Out For Life campaign, that raised funds for community-based organizations serving U99ntitledpeople living with or impacted by HIV, had to be re-imagined this year due to the Covid crisis. Bryant Dunbar (TPAN director of development), Michael Murphy (board chair), Charlie Jungwirth Untit99led(manager of events and community engagement) and other team members. decided the nonprofit would still show its support for the restaurant community that has supported it for so long. TPAN encouraged supporters to take part in a Solidarity Dinner on April 30 as a way of giving back. Chuck and I ordered a

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Wilde Bar & Restaurant Solidarity Dinner carry out.

delicious dinner from Wilde Bar & Restaurant. As an added bonus, inside the carry-out bag, were two laminated cards. One had a quote from Victor Hugo, "Even the darkest night will end, and the sun will rise." And on another

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Thoughtful inserts in carry out bag from Wilde Bar & Restaurant.

card, there was the most beautiful poem by Donna Ashworth which read, in part, "History will remember when the people sang on their balconies, in isolation but so very much together in courage and song…History will remember when the virus left and the houses opened and the people came out and hugged and kissed and started again. Kinder than before." Just beautiful!

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Cancer and CareersCancer and Careers helps cancer patients and survivors who are navigating the job market, Beauty with Benefitsreturning to work and/or looking for work. This nonprofit has a relationship with QVC and The Home Shopping Network and are offering an incredible sale for a contribution. The annual event, called "Beauty with Benefits," will take place on May 28 and run for 4 hours. With each purchase, regardless of how much is spent, the customer will receive a free gift valued at $230. All the brands who participate will donate the products to be sold with 80% of each purchase supporting CAC. Click here for all the details! (Thanks for the heads-up Christie Hefner!)

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Fifty-50 raffleWin virtual happy hours with Tom Ricketts, Rahm and ESPN’s Sarah Spain; a very rare 1973 Old Fitzgerald's 1849 8-Year bourbon; experiences at Utopian Tailgate, The Second City, Roots, Steadfast and more when you purchase a raffle ticket to benefit The Fifty/50 Restaurant Group's charity initiatives. The Food Drive Raffle will help feed those in need and, to date, has produced over 25,000 meals. Raffle tickets start at $20 (which will provide two meals for those in need), and the raffle ends at 11pm CST on Tuesday, May 12. Winners of each prize will be chosen via an online random winner selector, and winners will be notified on May 13. To see all of the items available and to purchase raffle tickets, click here!

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Designer Phil Cooper's new event planning idea, High-minded Events.

Designer Phil Cooper is on a real "high" with his new event planning idea. He has created High-minded Events, "Illinois' premiere cannabis concierge"! This new concept will take events to a whole new level! "From infused dining to creative explorations, High-minded Events will offer elevated experiences that harness the cannabis plant's ability to foster togetherness and fortify relationships," Phil shared. "Whether guests are connoisseurs or curious, we provide a tailored, smoke-free way to enhance the occasion." Good luck Phil! (For details, click here!)

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Steve and Marjorie Harvey fashionably masked.

The Chicago Sun-Times shared a very important article about face masks. Basically, it's everything you need to know about wearing them, caring for them and what types are the best for safety. The article, by Stephanie Zimmermann, states that there are three kinds of masks–N95 masks, medical or surgical masks and cloth masks. N95s block 95% of particles and medical/surgical masks filter out about 60-80% of particles. Any of these types of masks work better than a bandana. Read article here for all the details. #StaySafe #StayMasked

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Leave it to the Rolling Stones, they never miss an opportunity to stay relevant. They have released a very cool song perfectly describing the weird times we're all living through. "Living in a Ghost Town," the song and accompanying video, was written and created by Jagger and Keith Richards in London and L.A. (in isolation).  Mick said, ‘‘So the Stones were in the studio recording some new material before the lockdown and there was one song we thought would resonate through the times that we’re living in right now. We’ve worked on it in isolation. And here it is – It’s called ‘Living in a Ghost Town’ – I hope you like it” Keith said, “So, let's cut a long story short. We cut this track well over a year ago in L.A. for part of a new album, an ongoing thing, and then shit hit the fan. Mick and I decided this one really needed to go to work right now and so here you have it, "Living in a Ghost Town." Stay safe!” Watch it below…..so cool!

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Happy 31st anniversary GIBSONS!

Happy 31st anniversary to Gibson's Bar & Restaurant! Chuck and I got married the same year this wonderful hotspot opened,

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Frank with Tom Dreesen.

1989, and we always celebrate our anniversaries "together"! We even had our rehearsal dinner at the brand new Gibsons! Mark your calendars for Saturday, May 9 when everybody's favorite comedian, Tom Dreesen, will livestream a Zoom event, in collab with the restaurant! “The Man Who Made Sinatra Laugh” will share never-before-told stories from his friendship with the legendary Frank Sinatra! For Zoom tickets, $25, click here!

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Facetune_02-05-2020-16-21-37On Saturday, when the temps reached 70 and the sun came out, Chuck, Rooney and I made a break for it. We took our old Sebring convertible north on Lake Shore Drive and we didn't stop until we reached a beach. We were careful to stay outside the I am sooo blogging about thispolice barricade but we could still feel the breeze on our faces and hear the gentle lapping of the waves on the shore. It felt like we had taken a long trip but it was only 20 minutes away. It's true that this virus has forced us to stop and smell the roses. I guess out of everything bad, comes something good. For us, that trip rejuvenated us beyond belief. We had sand in our shoes and grateful hearts. I hope you get a chance to do the same.

Love, as always,

Candace

P.S. And now, a bed time story of how it started and why hindsight’s 2020.

 

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BEFORE THE VIRUS, THERE WAS GLITZ & GLAMOUR, A CHIC AND SWEET FASHION SHOW TO BENEFIT A SILVER LINING FOUNDATION

Plus: Celebrating Chicago's "Pretty Powerful Women"; Amita Health Gala "Leaping Forward Together"; Gift Gala 2020: "An Intimate Evening"; Meet the newest Legendary Landmarks!; Michelle and Brittney team up for a great cause; Hadley's Centennial Celebration; Luminarts Cultural Foundation's "The Gala"; Harry Caray's "Worldwide Toast to Harry" goes virtual; Old Town School of Music features Robert Plant at Blue Jean Gala 2020; A cool way to support our hospitality industry; Playboy magazine, another victim of Covid-19; Giordano Dance Chicago's "Dancing with the Giordano Stars"; Stork is on the way for the Hefners; SAIC alumnus Geoffrey Mac is WINNING!; Driehaus Design Initiative's fashion awards show; Retrospect and Randolph Street Market have a new date; Chatting with Anna Davlantes; Daily Mail TV's Playboy video; Queen Latifah, Mary J. Blige and Missy Elliott are all on Team Sylvia; This & That; Inspiring videos and SO MUCH MORE!

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I'm pretty sure that most, if not all of the events I'm going to keep posting about might be cancelled, but that won't keep me from spreading awareness about them. So please bear with me, you just might find a new org you hadn't heard of before and then be able to support it when the new event date is set. During this awful time, if you have the means, please consider supporting whichever nonprofits touch your heart. They, along with all of our wonderful arts organizations and cultural institutions, need our help now more than ever. Also, for our restaurant community, please consider carry-out, curb service or delivery, if offered. Hopefully soon, the news cycle will look a little different but, until then, I hope everyone stays safe and follows the guidelines (that seem to change hourly) Fingers crossed and prayers up……  

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Dr. Sandy Goldberg, the beloved founder of A Silver Lining Foundation, show producer Tracey Tarantino (ZZAZZ Productions) and Gregory Hines.

A Silver Lining Foundation did it again with another blockbuster "Glitz & Glamour" fashion show and another sellout on March 4 at the Peninsula. Every

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year, for the past 6 years, this remarkable event has been a sell out to benefit ASLF which was founded in 2006 by the beloved and respected Dr. Sandy Goldberg (with much love and support from her devoted husband Gregory N. Hines). The Glitz & Glamour

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A. Marek Fine Jewelry's Robert Sherman and Barbara Bradford (presenting sponsor)

event, conceived by Dr. Sandy and Mark Roscoe, fashion designer extraordinaire, brought together the brightest local fashion designers with celebrity models and runway stars from ZZAZZ Productions (Tracey

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Tarantino), who also produced the show (with support from Dana Nolan, production manager). There were so many highlights I don't know where to begin! For the first

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time, celebrity models were photographed by the legendary lensman Ernest Collins. An invite into his studio is like winning Willy Wonka's Golden Ticket so everyone felt very, very lucky with this cool perk (arranged by Ernest's longtime friend Mark!) In a stroke of pure

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The fabulous Opal Staples, who brought the house down with her voice (Photo by Ernest Collins, design by Mark Roscoe)

genius, Mark and Ernest combined everyone's photos (we all posed with our designers)

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Micah Materre (WGN-TV) served as emcee.

into one magnificent collage that was used as a ginormous backdrop for the show. It brought gasps from the crowd and models when they saw it for the first time. In a beautifully written thank you note to all the participants, Roscoe wrote, "It takes a village to raise awareness and money for any cause and yesterday's show was no exception. Sandy and I never imagined the impact it would have on bringing a community together to fight a disease that has affected so many of our families." He thanked all of the participating designers—Mira and Julie Mersine from Mira Couture; Sylwia Designs; Elda de la Rosa; Tamra Ellingson; Ann Everette; Ricorso and Contessa--as well as the VIP models, Tracy Butler, Zoraida

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Dori Wilson, Jeanne Sparrow, Nika Clark, Brenda Arelano and friends.

Sambolin, Rozalyn Varon, Maria Castro, Laurette

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Sharyl Mackey, Greg Hyder and Jean Antoniou.

Micah, LeeAnn Trotter, Whitney Reynolds, Caylei Vogelzang, Micah Materre, Susanna Homan and yours truly (I was so honored to open the show surrounded by gorgeous ZZAZZ models!) As Mark said, it takes a village so, on hand, were A- list hair and makeup experts that included

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Brenda Arelano, Marcus Geeter, Zazu Salon & Day Spa and

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ZZAZZ Productions models Sydney Cross, Sierra Smith, Christina Wiltijer Eenigenburg & Juni Park wearing Mira Couture.

Jordyn Olawumi. A big note of thanks went out to Mark's design partner Eli Soto and the true stars of the show, Dr. Sandy's longtime supporters and lead sponsors, Barbara Bradford and Robert Sherman from A. Marek Fine Jewelry. Before the show began, guests enjoyed a reception where pianist Ani Gogova played beautiful music. During the show, DJ Akib matched hot mixes to each models' walk creating special moments for every segment. Eli/Roscoe Design Labels created an elegant bridal look worn by Micah Materre's gorgeous daughter

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McKenzie Jackson, who floated down the runway

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Adiat Baker and her sister Iya Bakare.

flanked by Roscoe and Soto. (See video here) The finale had everyone crying happy tears when iconic singing sensation (and actress), of the famed Staple Singers gospel family, Opal Staples (wearing a golden Roscoe Design gown), brought the house down singing "I'm Gonna Love You Through It" (by Martina McBride). All of the celeb and ZZAZZ models stood behind her lifting their arms at the refrain. Opal's voice was filled with emotion and strength as she filled the room

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Tracy Butler, Zoraida Sambolin, Dr. Sandy and Caylei Vogelzang.

with love….everyone there felt it. It was one of the most amazing moments in a fashion show that I've ever been a part of. To top it all off, I was thrilled to wear an oh-so-chic design by Mark Roscoe Couture that consisted

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LeeAnn Trotter, Maria Castro and Eliana Mockler.

of a silk, black organza blouse shot through with silver threads with black onyx and "diamond" buttons over a tuxedo slack (perfection!). And, of course, the jools by A. Marek Fine Jewelry was like wearing a party in my ears! Thank you for making me feel so special. All the ladies felt the same thanks to the expertise of our fantastic design/fashion

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Roz Varon, LeeAnn Trotter, Zoraida Sambolin and Susanna Homan.

community. The event, as you may or may not know, is the signature fundraiser for A Silver Lining Foundation that funds cost-free breast health testing for women and men who are uninsured, under-insured and/or ineligible for

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other breast health testing programs. Through its "Buy a Mom a Mammogram (BAMAM) program, nearly 18,000 women have received cost-free screening mammograms and diagnostic testing, which includes diagnostic mammograms, breast ultrasounds, MRIs and biopsies. ASLF works with 15 partner hospitals throughout Chicagoland, Rockford, Elgin, Evanston and Des Plaines.  (For more info about this deserving nonprofit, and to check out its upcoming events, click here!) (The good photos are by Kevin Detrick).

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Kathleen Sarpy and Steak 48's Jeff Mastro.

The 2nd Annual Pretty Powerful Women celebration was held at the chic River North hotspot, Steak 48, on

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February 24. The event gathered together some of our city's most philanthropic women to thank them for their dedication to the numerous non-profits and charities in our city. I had the privilege of co-chairing the event with Kathleen Sarpy. She and her fabulous Agency H5 team put together our best event yet with the largest turn-out thus far too! The event was initially created to celebrate all of the amazing women who help make Chicago great and, this year, it grew by leaps

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and bounds! Over 100 women from some of Chicago most respected non-profits were in attendance

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including Diane Hollingsworth (Eversight Vision), Dr. Sandy

Goldberg (A Silver Lining Foundation), Jackie O'Connor and Vivian Teng (Chicago International Film Festival), Kathleen Casey and Courtney Krupa (Bear Necessities Pediatric Cancer Foundation), Jean de St. Aubin (Gene Siskel Film Center), Helen Melchior (Joffrey Ballet and Auditorium Theatre), Julie Lampert (Lynn Sage Cancer Research Foundation), Cheryle Jackson, Holly Buckendahl

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With Linda Johnson Rice and Dionne Williams.

(Ronald McDonald House Charities), Shelley Patenaude, Arloa Sutter, Sally Lou Loveman, Bennetta Kelly, Beth Silverman, Ellie Forman (Joffrey Ballet), Linda Johnson Rice (philanthropist) and so many more! The women in the room alone helped to fundraise hundreds of millions

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Kathleen Sarpy with Liz Sharp and Holly Buckendahl.

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dollars for a variety of top organizations in 2019 and were toasted for their philanthropic efforts. On hand were Steak 48's Jeff Mastro and Oliver Badgio, who graciously hosted the event for us. The women enjoyed passed apps and

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cocktails while connecting

with old friends and networking with new ones. Kathleen offered a lovely takeaway gift to all the attendees, the book "Gather as You Go", an inspirational collection of

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stories written by Alberto Culver exec Carol Lavin Bernick

with all proceeds going to the nonprofit, Enchanted Backpack.

Thanks to all who attended! Kathleen and I, along with Agency H5, are already looking forward to next year! (Photos by Mila Samokhina)

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Keith A. Parrott, AMITA Health Pres/CEO, and Kristy Parrott w/ Melanie Furlan, AMITA Health Senior VP & Chief Philanthropy Officer and John Furlan.

Eight hundred twenty-five guests gathered on leap day, Saturday, February 29, for the first system-wide gala for AMITA Health Foundations, raising more than $1.5 million to benefit people in need across all

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Dr. Reinhold Llerena, Dr. Kalisha Hill  and Stuart Marcus, Executive VP/ Chief Clinical Officer, AMITA Health

communities served by AMITA Health. The Inaugural AMITA Health Gala, “Leaping Forward Together,” celebrated AH's coming together as one unified health system to carry on the faith-based mission that has always guided its legacy Adventist, Alexian Brothers and Presence Health ministries. It also marked the first philanthropic event

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Elder Maurice Valentine and Sharon Valentine with Dianne and Bruce Christian.

with AH president/CEO Keith A. Parrott. “The foundations play a critical role in supporting the success of AMITA Health,” said Parrott, in opening remarks. “In 2019, donors contributed nearly $22 million to support the people we serve. Tonight, all contributions will be invested in programs and services from all AMITA Health ministries that would not exist without

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Dina Morris, AMITA Health Gala co-chair, Susie Cassidy, David Hoppe and Jim Wienold, AMITA Health Gala co-chair and President of Bear Construction.

philanthropy.” AH Foundation co-chairs Kenneth Bauwens and Michael Benoit joined Parrott in welcoming guests to the black-tie celebration presented by Superior Ambulance Service and hosted at the Chicago Marriott Downtown

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Kristy Parrott and Keith A. Parrott, pres/CEO, AMITA Health, with Brother Daniel McCormick, C.F.A., Provincial Superior of the Alexian Brothers.

Magnificent Mile. The evening featured a three-course gourmet menu, silent, live and reverse auctions that collectively raised more than $400,000, and dancing until midnight with the popular band Dr. Bombay. AH executive VP/COO Thor Thordarson introduced a video featuring stories representing each of AH’s legacy organizations of people whose lives have been saved or changed through the exceptional care they received, including neonatal care, cancer care and supportive housing. In addition to the auctions, well-known abstract expressionist performance artist Elliott From (ArtBeat Live) created Chicago themed canvas paintings on stage.

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Ensemble Member Jay Worthington, Jesse Frageman, Olivia Toriumi, Joseph Boozell and Ensemble Member Hannah Toriumi. 

The Gift Theatre’s 18th annual benefit, "GIFT GALA 2020: An Intimate Evening," took place on February 15 at Chicago’s contemporary-chic Greenhouse Loft with 140 guests. The event raised $70,000 for

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programming and new play development at the Jefferson Park institution on Chicago’s northwest side. The elegant evening kicked off with a cocktail reception featuring hors d’oeuvres, a signature cocktail by The Gift Alchemist Shane Hassler and music by Style Matters DJ Ryan Norsworthy. During the main event, guests enjoyed dinner, a musical performance by

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Courtney Williams, Artistic Director Michael Patrick Thornton and Danni James. 

Darci Nalepa and Jessie Fisher, plus silent and live auctions featuring dozens of items including a 15-day European cruise. The festive evening concluded with dessert and dancing. Congrats to gala committee members, Michael Patrick Thornton, John Gawlik,

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Marketing Director Claire Demos and Shane Hassler

Claire Demos, Becky Wright, Laura Gale and Ashley Sliva, on a job well done! Since 2001 and over 70 productions, The Gift Theatre has pioneered the frontiers of the American theatre via one of the most intimate professional Equity theatres in the country, leading to national acclaim and a cultural revolution on Chicago’s northwest side. (Photos by Claire Demos) Check it all out here!

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Legendary Landmarks Daniel Walsh and Timuel Black Jr., Landmarks Illinois President & CEO Bonnie McDonald, Legendary Landmarks Joseph P. Gromacki and Matthew Walsh.

Landmarks Illinois hosted its 15th annual Legendary Landmarks Celebration March 5  at the Hilton Chicago with nearly 700 supporters in attendance. The event, chaired by Cherryl Thomas and Erika Block, honored 2020 Legendary Landmarks Timuel D. Black Jr., Joseph P. Gromacki and Matthew & Daniel Walsh of The Walsh Group. Guests at the annual event helped raise $840,000 for

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Legendary Landmarks Leslie Hindman and Michael Kutza with Kim Coventry.

Landmarks Illinois – $135,000 of which came directly from the evening’s paddle raise! Funds raised will provide critical funding for Landmarks Illinois’ advocacy programs across the state which save historic and special places in our communities. Since 2006, Landmarks Illinois has honored more than 40 individuals, families and corporations at its annual fundraiser including Leslie Hindman, Michael Kutza, Victor Skrebneski, Fred Eychaner, Jennifer Pritzker, Rocky Wirtz, Theaster Gates, Father Jack Wall, Ernie Banks and many more.  (For more info, click here!) (Photos by Pivot Photography)

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Michelle Alegria–Fox 32 Chicago.

Two of my favorite media stars, Michelle Alegria and Brittney Payton (of Fox 32 Chicago) are trying to raise funds and awareness for a cause close to their hearts.

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Brittney Payton–Fox 32 Chicago.

They were set to host an event on March 25 at the BOSS Store at the Shops at North Bridge but, as we all know, all social gatherings have been halted. The event was intended to raise funds to build a youth center for children coping with grief after losing a loved one. Sadly, both ladies have experience with this type of grief. Brittney, as you know, lost her father Walter Payton when she was very young and Michelle's 3 children recently lost their dad. Michelle said, "There are not enough services dealing with grief other than the therapist that the Chicago Psychoanalytic Institute has on board. We want to change that, " she said. (The center will be a part of the Institute). Please watch for a new date and I hope you can all join us then!

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Winnetka-based Hadley.

I had never heard of this very worthwhile nonprofit until a friend brought it to my attention and it's been

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Didrill Neal, a happy benefiicary of Hadley's programs.

around for 100 years! Congrats to Winnetka-based Hadley, that bills itself as the "world's oldest and largest educator of braille and provider of distance education for people who are blind or visually impaired." Last year, Hadley reached more than 172,000 learners from all 50 states and in 65 countries! To celebrate this anniversary milestone, the Hadley Women's Board and the Board of Trustees are hosting "Centennial Celebration" on Friday, October 2 (this date was recently changed from April 4) at The Dalcy, 302 N. Green Street in the Fulton Market District. For tickets/more info, click here!

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Giordano's "Dancing with the Giordano Stars" 2019.

Giordano Dance Chicago will host its popular "Dancing with the Giordano Stars" event on Thursday, October 1. Come join the 15th anniversary party at Park West and cheer on your favorite "stars" who are paired with Giordano dancers for a night you'll never forget. This high energy dance competition is inspired by the hot ABC series "Dancing with the Stars" with funds supporting GDC programming and outreach. For tickets/more info, please click here! _______________________________________________________________________

Hat2020THIS EVENT IS CANCELLED BUT MAKE NOTE OF THE DETAILS SO YOU WON'T MISS IT WHEN IT'S RESCHEDULED! The Service Club of Chicago will host its annual Spring Luncheon, this year themed "A White House Floral Affair." Co-chaired by Cathy Bartholomay, Annette

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Special guest Laura Dowling.

Findling and Michelle Baker, the event will take place (fingers crossed) on Friday, May 15 at the Drake Hotel. The very special guest will be Laura Dowling, who served as the Chief Floral Designer at the White House from 2009-2015, handling thousands of events with her special brand of floral diplomacy. Don't forget your HAT!!! For tickets/more info, click here!  

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Matt Olaveson, event co-chair along with Adam Vitale and Kylie Krizek.

Gala" will still be held on Saturday, April 18 (if it's safe) at the Union League Club of Chicago (65 W. Jackson Blvd). Co-chaired by Matt Olaveson, Adam Vitale and Kylie Krizek, the event will support young artists through programs that offer financial awards, artistic opportunities and mentoring that bridge the gap between education and career. Guests will enjoy performances by soprano Nicole Cabell, pianists Tian Tang and Chen-Shen Fan and Pascal Pahl, among many others! Please check the website for updates and let's keep our fingers crossed. Even if it's postponed, perhaps you'll make note of this wonderful nonprofit?! (For info, click here!)

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Harry Caray's 22nd annual Worldwide Toast to Harry Caray will now be virtual instead of the blow-out that was initially planned at Navy Pier on Thursday, March 19. You can now join in by listening live on WGN 720 AM from 3- 7 pm. #toastoharry

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The Old Town School of Music will, hopefully, host its annual Blue Jean Gala on Friday, May 15. The event will include a unique roaming feast with teaching artists from the School entertaining guests as they make their way along Lincoln Avenue. An intimate concert performance will follow from musical guest Saving Grace, featuring Robert Plant and Suzi Dian. The evening will conclude with an after-party featuring dessert, late-night bites and, of course, music! Proceeds will support Old Town School's mission of providing arts access to all including community outreach, financial aid and education programs. For tickets/more info, click here! (Please check the website for possible cancellation and new date info).

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3_Infinite_SlideShowThe Driehaus Design Initiative will (hopefully) host its Driehaus Awards for Fashion Excellence fashion show on Friday, April 24 at Chicago Vintage Motor Carriage, (700 S. Desplaines St.). The nonprofit was established to promote and encourage design education and to foster public appreciation and understanding of all aspects of fashion design and history. DDI contributes proceeds from this event to support fashion and design endeavors in Chicago. Local designers will face off for the coveted prize and check! For tickets/more info, click here!

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Scarlett and Cooper Hefner are expecting their first child.

In a very sweet social media post, Scarlett Byrne, the darling wife of Cooper Hefner (son of 'da man),

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Scarlett and her "baby bump." Aww….

announced that they are expecting their first child. Cooper, as you may or may not know, has joined the United States Air Force and is "proud to be an Airman." His dad, Hugh Hefner, was in the Army so the apple doesn't fall far from the tree in terms of military service. I wish Coop and Scarley and the soon-to-be Baby Hef, a lifetime of love, health and happiness. So sorry Grandpa isn't here….

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I88ndexThe press just keeps on coming from the epic pictorial I was proud to be a part of for Playboy, its recent Equality issue! Daily Mail TV interviewed me for this segment and Fox News interviewed me for this article. Below is a video created by an entity I don't have a clue about, Top Trending. A friend passed it along to me and, apart from a few mistakes (I wasn't PMOY), I think it's pretty good! Lol! Watch here! 

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Geoffrey Mac, Project Runway winner Season18!

CONGRATS GEOFFREY! School of the Art Institute of Chicago alumnus Geoffrey Mac was named the winner of "Project Runway" Season 18 in the recent episode, two decades after graduating! Mac beat out three other finalists with a 10-look collection inspired by his father’s military service that featured over-sized puffy coats and futuristic evening wear. His prize includes $250,000 from Bluprint; $50,000 from Pilot; a feature in Elle magazine; and a mentorship with the Council of Fashion Designers of America. Mac told the Tribune (read story here) that he is trying to figure out what’s next, but he is leaning toward creating a unisex collection that can be worn in any season and is slated to launch a fragrance called “G” around April 1 (“The coronavirus can’t stop that,” he said).

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The tee-shirts will support the hospitality industry workers.

Here's a cool, inexpensive way to help our friends in the hospitality industry! 100% of the sales from these cool Chicago Hospitality United t-shirts go to the people who don't have a voice or the means to survive without work in the hospitality industry. The government shutdown of bars and restaurants has put thousands out of work for the foreseeable future. Chef Tony Priolo said, "Just as we rely on them to keep Chicago one of the most vibrant dining cities in the world, they rely on us to support them through good times and bad. 100% of the net proceeds from these tees go directly towards financial relief for hourly employees affected by the necessary precautions Governor Pritzker and Mayor Lightfoot have implemented." (Please purchase a black or white T-shirt here for only $25! www.stockmfgco.com. (And please share this info if you're so inclined!)

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RSM.pngRETROSPECT & Randolph Street Market's date has been changed! Mark your calendars for May 23 + 24 (new date) when  Randolph Street Market  returns with TWO BIG shows under one roof! Retrospect, the

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finely curated vintage fashion show with 50 top vintage sellers of wearables, jewelry, handbags and accessories AND, on the lower level, home goods, furnishings, gardening items and general vintage and maker goods! A portion of the weekend's ticket sales will benefit the Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum. (10 am to 5 pm both days) Also, the March 28 Time Out Market Pop-Up has been pushed back to June 20. (For tickets, more info, click here! Hope to see you EVERYWHERE!)

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Thank you Anna Davlantes!

And a special thanks to Anna Davlantes who had me on her awesome WGN Radio show recently! (Listen here for my segment that begins at 26:17)! Anna's show is informative and fun and not-to-be-missed from 1-3 pm Monday through Friday! (Click here for more info!) Love her! Beauty, brains, empathy and so much more….:-)

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Screenwriter Sylvia L. Jones!

Congrats to Chicago screenwriter and native Sylvia L. Jones! For two decades, Sylvia spent her days and nights 73C1E6B3-04B0-4C22-8EA7-0053CEEA8CF0-515x630 covering local Chicago news as a television journalist. Now, this graduate of Providence St. Mel School finds herself making news thanks to her work as a writer in the entertainment industry. In April, she will add Lifetime Television to her long list of credits as she wrote the script for the highly anticipated biopic "The Clark Sisters: The First Ladies of Gospel" executive produced by QUEEN LATIFAH, MISSY ELLIOTT and MARY J. BLIGE! Sylvia says, "I grew up listening to the Clark Sisters so to get the opportunity to write the story of their lives was truly remarkable." (See official trailer below!)

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Tribune nonprofit article 3-14-20Thanks to the Chicago Tribune for running my article titled "A letter of support to my friends in the nonprofit community." Read it here and here: I feel your pain. I've watched with dismay as one after another of the events I planned on covering in my Chicago Tribune "Candid Candace" column was cancelled due to the coronavirus outbreak. At first I was angry that they would succumb to this panic but, as more and more organizations, governments, countries and even Broadway cancel events, close their borders, restrict air travel, limit gatherings and close down the Great White Way, I have to admit the obvious….that my way of thinking, to soldier on, could be tempting fate. I applaud businesses who have the courage to keep their doors open in the face of all of this though. Many have sent sensible messages letting their clients know they are taking extra sanitary precautions and checking their workers more closely and encouraging both to stay home if feeling sick in accordance with recent guidelines. In my opinion, this is a common sense response. I believe it's a time for preparation, not panic. Here's a thought. Many of these nonprofits and arts organizations have had to cancel their biggest fundraisers for the year. If you've already purchased a ticket to one of these events, and CAN afford it, please let the donation ride. Right now, they need it more than you know…

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Kyle Bolton illustration.

I woke up to such sad news today. My beloved Playboy magazine may well have published its last print issue due to complications from Covid-19. When I shot my cover pictorial in the last Equality issue on October 22, everyone at the mag seemed so upbeat and positive about

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Final print edition–The Speech Issue

the future of Playboy and then, in the blink of an eye–everything changed (for everyone). Here's an excerpt from an open letter on March 18 from the magazine's editor-in-chief, Ben Kohn "Last week, as the disruption of the coronavirus pandemic to content production and the

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supply chain became clearer and clearer, we were forced to accelerate a conversation we’ve been having internally: the question of how to transform our U.S. print product to better suit what consumers want today, and how to utilize our industry-leading content production capabilities to engage in a cultural conversation each and every day, rather than just every three months.

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2nd to the last of the PB print editions, The Equality Issue.

With all of this in mind, we have decided that our Spring 2020 Issue, which arrives on U.S. newsstands and as a digital download this week, will be our final printed publication for the year in the U.S. We will move to a digital-first publishing schedule for all of our content."

Playboy has been my family for the last 40 years and I have no plans to let them go now. Even if it's only on a digital platform, my Bunny ears will still be attuned to its always timely, diverse and informative articles and photos. Keep it up Playboy and I'll catch you on the digital ride soon! Your Biggest Fan–"Candid" Candace Jordan

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Stats from Johns Hopkins University as of March 16.

These are crazy, surreal times right now, along with you, and I'm not quite sure how to process it yet. I've always worked from home so this wasn't anything new but who knew that I've been tele-commuting all along?! The funny thing is, once you're forced to do something, you start to rebel. I'm so grateful we went out to

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dinner recently (please don't judge, local businesses need help too and this was before the ALL OUT CLOSING of bars and restaurants! Gallucci Pizzeria Napoletana was great, btw, at 1551 N. Wells. Please try it when it reopens!) Some people still think some of this might be rather excessive but, I for one, know it's better to be safe than sorry. I just wish I'd stocked up on necessities sooner. Chuck always said I was a hoarder but definitely not in the areas of food or drink, sadly. Luckily, as much as I love my social life, I've also always been a bit of a homebody. I want this thing to end and I hope there's not more loss of life. I feel like I'm in a bad horror movie, like "Outbreak," that's now coming true! I love the way the Italians are handling isolation, singing on their balconies to let their neighbors know they're in it together. Here's praying it doesn't come to that here though….I have a horrible voice.

Love, as always,

Candace

P.S. Stay strong Italy (and the world)…..

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