As helicopters filled the sky and sirens broke the evening's silence, I felt the world crack a little. I feel like the things I love to write about seem so small and inconsequential lately. My heart aches over all of the pain and suffering that's been associated with the horrific murder of George Floyd. I hope he finds more peace and justice in heaven than he did here. I don't know the details, but the only thing any sane person needed to see was that video. I feel so sorry for all who knew and loved him. I understand the outrage. I feel badly for the peaceful protesters' whose message seems to have been lost amid all the violence. How did we come to this and how can we move forward and heal? My prayers go out for everyone. We need to find a way to come together….somehow, some way. Hopefully, my blog can bring a little joy and be a bright spot in your day. I hope you appreciate all the nonprofits and arts organizations who still need us, friends we need to champion, successes we need to celebrate and all the good things in life. You will most certainly find that here…..
The 2020 DigitalDiscovery Ball, the American Cancer Society's first-ever, large-scale virtual gala in Chicago, was a pivot for the organization though creativity and determination paid off. Hosted by NBC's Chicago Today co-hosts Cortney Hall and Matt Rodrigues, the event raised over $1.85 million to support the Society's mission priorities of supporting the Hope Lodge COVID-19 fund and cancer research. In Illinois, over 70,000 new cancer cases are expected to be diagnosed in 2020, so the need for answers is urgent. "We were guided by our theme 'Be Bold and Rise Up', and that's exactly what we did with our
Darling event hosts Cortney Hall and Matt Rodrigues (NBC Chicago Today)
fundraising success," said Michael Ziener, executive director. In the organization's original projections, the ball was expected to take a 40-50% loss. Strong commitments from the
Adam Cayton-Holland provided comic relief.
corporate community and individual gifts reversed the trend, contributing to nearly $38 million raised since the event started 14 years ago. ACS secured funds through pre-solicited sponsorships, night-of online auction and live donations, including an IL Area Board Match. This event funds breakthrough research, advocacy and a 24/7 helpline (800-227-2345), which has contributed to a
The popular band Maggie Speaks performed.
29% decrease in cancer death rates between 1991-2017. Powerhouse tech giants Salesforce and G2 supported the society by mobilizing their companies as this year's Discovery Ball sponsors. "COVID(-19) does not stop cancer. Therefore the mission of the American Cancer Society must
Mayor Lori Lightfoot provided words of encouragement.
continue," said Tyler Prince, EVP of Salesforce, who was joined by his co-chair of the event, Godard Abel, CEO of G2. Tuxedos and gowns were traded in for virtual cocktails and a digital celebration, and many learned about the Society's mission of saving lives, celebrating lives and leading the fight for a world without cancer. Appearances included Mayor Lori Lightfoot and ACS CEO Gary Reedy.
Alexandra Billings expertly hosted this event virtually. Don't miss her closing remarks below.
It hasn't been easy watching virtual events that I would normally attend in person but I certainly admire all the great efforts. Case in point, the fabulous 50th anniversary of PRIDE hosted by The Lavender Effect, a nonprofit that celebrates LGBTQ+ heritage and culture. The event was hosted live on ZOOM by the dynamic and legendary transgender activist/actress/teacher/singer, Alexandra Billings. She is best known for her recurring role on Amazon’s award-winning show “Transparent." A virtual launch of Pride Month, the program brought together LGBTQ+ activists, political leaders and celebrities from coast to coast that included Lily Tomlin, Judith Light; Sean Hayes; Audra McDonald; Betty Buckley; Sandra Bernhard; Amy Landecker; Sally Kirkland; Lindsay Pearce; Bruce Vilanch; Michael Musto; Jason Stuart; Chad Michaels; Drew Droege; Miss Barbie-Q; Kay Sedia; Diane Anderson-Minshall; Mel England; Charles Busch; The Fruitcake Follies;
Lily Tomlin added humor and perspective.
Windy City Gay Men's Chorus, Ron Galperin & Family (LA City Controller); Lindsey Horvath (Mayor, City of West Hollywood); Evan Wolfson (Founder/ED Freedom to Marry); Chicago's own HONEY WEST and so many others. In truth, I missed the beginning but I think I caught some of the best parts. Lindsay Pearce, who took over the role of Elphaba in the Broadway musical "Wicked" in February, sang "Somewhere Over the Rainbow," moving host Alexandra (and me) to tears. Actor Chad Michaels message was succinct, "Be strong, find your voice." Charles Busch,
Singer/actress Lindsay Pearce brought viewers to tears.
playwright/activist shared, "We've survived so much, just in my own lifetime…We see things differently as a queer person and have seen things other people haven't. And, if you survive, it makes you stronger." Lily Tomlin appeared in a gaily decorated area of her home that she described as her "gay area." She said, "Cruelty and injustice are always our business…I've been around for 50 years and I realize gay people have not changed in terms of spirit and their sense of humor. I'm so grateful that I've been around to be influenced by the spirit of this community." Of all of the celebs and participants though, I was most moved by the host's parting comments.
Activist/playwright Charles Busch.
Billings said, "I'm 58 and was born in Englewood, California. I come from a middle class family, mixed race but we passed as white. I grew up believing I had privilege, just enough to get me by. Then, as people started to tell me that what I was and what I looked like was, not only different, but wrong, I began to believe it. I internalized it as the truth. So, I believed that what I wanted, what I desired, was wrong. And it wasn't until I turned to art, as most LGBTQ people do, that I realized I
It takes a village…
had a voice. We're living in a time right now of great chaos and pain, but it's not new even though it feels new. Every birth is painful and every birth requires revolution because that is how change is born. If we don't see each other, we can't honor each other. Find your voice and activate it in the way YOU understand it. There's no right way, Everyone is making it up. Nobody has a plan or the answer so we must work together. We are each other's revolutions. If you see someone beating someone with a stick, you walk over and take the stick away. We have to see each other to honor each other. So, let's take time to celebrate, not only who we are, but where we come from and where we're headed as human beings." (And, don't forget to mark your calendars for Chicago's own Pride Variety Show , see invite below, presented by Chicago House and Social Service Agency and co-hosted by Dixie Lynne Cartwright and Lucy Stoole. Enjoy performances by some of the city's top drag stars included Aunty Chan, Kelly Lauren and Joan Jullian. You'll also learn how to make a few specialty cocktails with local mixologists like David Sikora of Crystal Head Vodka. (To rsvp for this FREE event, click here!
Chuck, Rooney and I took a last-minute-planned trip to Lake Geneva on Saturday, May 23. We didn't do it to be rebellious, we just went because it's a road trip we take often and Lord knows, we were bored and ready to see something different. Even along the way, a
Lake Geneva, so peaceful.
familiar road, I saw things I never noticed before. I guess being on lockdown, with an all-over dimming of your senses, traveling in the open air with the sun on your face makes for a joyful reawakening. We stayed at a cheap hotel with clean rooms and a friendly staff. We were so
Great dinner at Anthony's Steakhouse.
looking forward to dinner at one of our favorite spots, Mars Resort, on Lake Como but, when I Googled the restaurant I THOUGHT it said it was closed. (It wasn't). BUT, a silver lining was that we tried a new spot that we also loved, Anthony's Steakhouse & Seafood, that's been around since 1978. This classic supper club was filled with respectful diners, socially distancing but sans masks. I
A rare treat, Dog n' Suds in Richmond, Wisconsin.
know this was a no-no, but we did wear our masks whenever it was appropriate so felt relatively safe. I guess I was more worried about our mental health at this point as we were both about ready to crack. The brilliant sunshine on the lake and the ability to even walk into a store definitely improved our mindsets. Rooney's too. And, just as a bonus, a magnificent thunderstorm was followed by not one, but two huge rainbows. The light was like nothing I'd ever seen before. It made me think of how the great painters must've felt while working in the South of France. I felt like it was a gift from God. In hindsight, after seeing all of the videos of people crowding into the resort town, I was glad we had arrived early and left early. Looking forward to taking more baby steps to places unknown.
La Scarola and Armando Vasquez in the New York Times.
Huge congrats to La Scarola restaurant (721 W. Grand) and its owners Joey Mondelli and Armando Vasquez! The restaurant was included in this recent New York Times article "12 Restaurants America Loves. With Recipes!" Their Chicken Vesuvio was the spotlighted dish. Other restaurants included Brennan's (New Orleans), Felix (Venice, Calif.), Hwa Huan (NYC), Canlis (Seattle), Country Club Bakery (Fairmont, W. VA.), Phoenicia (Birmingham, Mich.), Bakesale Betty (Oakland, Calif.), Millie Peartree at Stingrays (NYC), Piper Inn (Denver, Co.), Tequeria del Sol (Atlanta) and Eventide (Portland, Maine). Congrats to all!
CARMEN DELL'OREFICE. The top model in the world just celebrated her 89th birthday on June 3 (a Gemini!). She's been modeling for more than 60 years and is listed in the Guinness Book of World Records as having the "longest career on the catwalk." When she
Carmen and friend Bunky Cushing partying on Stanley Paul's rooftop terrace.
was just 15, Cecil Beaton introduced her to Salvador Dali who painted her. That portrait is owned by Queen Elizabeth. She's worked with every major photographer in the world including filmmakers Martin Scorcese and Woody Allen. Her
The oldest (and best) supermodel in the world.
remarkable career has been the subject of a documentary, Carmen: A Life in Fashion. Produced by the University of the Arts in London, which awarded her an honorary doctorate, the movie was accompanied by an exhibition which showcased Carmen’s many magazine covers as well as other highlights taken from her personal archives. Most recently, she can be seen in HBO’s documentary About Face, which premiered at the Sundance Film Festival and aired in 2012. I bow down to her greatness and her inspiring endurance. Thanks for introducing us dear Peter Martino!
Michael Caputo celebrated his Gemini birthday on May 30.
Other Gemini friends celebrating their birthdays in style include Jim Smith, Maria Pappas, Michael Caputo, Mamie Walton (who just
Birthday boy Jim Smith with partner Greg Hyder.
turned 92!), Leslie Zentner, Sheryl Dyer, Diane Hollingsworth and I'm sure a gazillion more. If you're a Gemini, you're outgoing, intelligent, impulsive, adaptable, social, talkative, indecisive and, if you're they're partner, you'll never be bored. Happy Birthday to ALL!
And on a personal birthday note, my birthday this year, despite the climate, was one of the best ever thanks to a group of friends who came together to surprise me. It was unbelievably moving and I couldn't stop the (happy) tears as they sang "happy birthday" beneath my balcony. It was so heart-warming to know that caring friends were willing to give of their time to do something like this (and in the rain at that!). Beautiful friends included planners Tissy Eggleston (who sang from afar) and Paul Iacono, along with Judy and Howard Tullman, Kathy Piccone, Mark Olley, Bonnie and Jim Spurlock, Julia Jacobs, Jennifer and Joaquin Brieva, Nikki Friar, Lori Allen and Rhonda Sanderson (with Mork). I will never forget it and will be forever grateful. Love and thanks to ALL!
Great news for the Service Club of Chicago which has been providing for those less fortunate since 1890. This year, even Covid couldn't take away their enthusiasm as they approved grant requests through their Philanthropic Grant Program for 38 local nonprofits amounting to $441,903.43! Chairs Paula Borg, Kimberly Gleeson, Marcia Northrup LaBarge and Cheri Lawrence (along with their committee), "met with" the applicants through ZOOM meetings. SC president Sherrill Bodine said, "The Service Club has survived the 1918 Spanish Flu
The Spring Luncheon will now be held virtually on September 3.
pandemic, the 1929 Crash, two World Wars and much more, Then, as now, we carry on with our mission." Mark your calendars for the organization's Day on the Terrace. This popular event is normally a sell-out at the Peninsula but, this year, like so many others, it will be a virtual event on Monday, August 3 from 11 am to 12:30 pm. Planning is in progress by the DOT committee and chairs Tracey Tarantino, Jean Antoniou, Sharyl Mackey and Jamie Thorsen. The Sept. 3 Spring Luncheon (aka Hat Luncheon) will also be held virtually Thursday, Sept. 3 (co-
Service Club members at a recent Spring Luncheon (Tina Weller, Sherry Lea Holson, Mary Lasky (R) and friend of SC Ruthann Dufkis.
chairs Cathy Bartholomay, Annette Findling and Michelle Baker). The SC Gala, tentatively scheduled (virtually) for Friday, November 6, is being planned by chairs Tina Weller, Mary Lasky, Mary Claire Moll and Kristine Kinder. And, if we can't host a real gala by the time the Christmas Luncheon rolls around on Wednesday, December 2, just shoot me. (This luncheon is chaired by Pat Maxwell, Sherry Lea Holson, Karen Peters and Kathy Piccone.) (Check the SC website here for all the details)
Hear ye! Hear ye! The one and only Leah Chavie, is opening up a SECOND location of her popular skincare boutique in picturesque Anna Maria Island (near Sarasota and Longboat Key) in a spectacular historic home, footsteps off the beach! OMG! She will open in early July at 115 3rd St., Bradenton Beach South, and offer her signature skin care services and products as well as boutique and specialty items. The space will also be perfect for bridal parties, yoga, meditation, retreats and seminars. Huge congrats Leah! You will be as popular there as you are here! (Check out her website here!)
Kudos to Maria Pappas who was recently spotlighted in Chicago Magazine's popular Backroom article written by Mike Thomas. Maria talks about managing an $18 billion operation (and I can't balance my checkbook) and how she grew up in Wheeling, West Virginia. It's a fascinating read into a life very well lived.
Everybody's favorite comedian and the "Man who Made Sinatra Laugh", Tom Dreesen, hosted a virtual event earlier this month. He reminisced about the times he and Sinatra spent together including some memorable times
Tom Dreesen during his virtual event.
drinking Jack Daniels with Gregory Peck and Kirk Douglas. He said Sinatra was nocturnal and always tipped $100 (but never showed off, he would slip the money quietly to the recipients). When asked if Sinatra
Tom Dreesen with Sinatra.
had a sense of humor, Dreesen said, "He was able to laugh at himself." Frank adored Sammy Davis Jr. and once traveled to Harlem to see his show. He asked Sammy to come see him in return but, when Davis arrived at the venue, he wasn't allowed in. Frank tore his contract up over it. He was very, very loyal to his friends. At Sinatra's funeral, Dreesen, Roger Moore and Gregory Peck eulogized him. Watch for Tom's book, "Still Standing" coming soon!
I was on a wonderful ZOOM meeting with PAWS Chicago Development Board members recently. They are busy trying to plan events to make up for the ones lost due to Covid. And even though times have been tough, they proudly reported 544 virtual adoptions with 1,655 total adoptions to date! AND, they've received over 9,000 adoption inquiries! In other PAWS news, the org has started a new temporary foster program (up to 60 days) for pet owners who are temporarily unable to care for their pets, including those recovering from the virus as well as front -line healthcare and other essential workers. Pets will be returned when the owners can get
Carolyn, 1 year-old, is looking for her forever home.
back on their feet. During this time, PAWS Chicago vans have delivered over 6,300 pounds of pet food to 1,000 pets since March. The PAWS Beach Party will now be a virtual event taking place on Thursday, July 23 at 7 pm. The event will feature pet-themed beach party fun (think a doggie bikini contest!), Second City comedians and more! The organization's 5K Walk/Run will take place on Saturday, October 31 (this is a date change). (Click here for all the details)
A smaller animal rescue in Plainfield, Illinois, can also use some help, Wags 2 Wishes Animal Rescue. Their motto is "Big or small, we save them all!" They lost their 3 biggest fundraisers due to the virus that added up to about $50,000 in funding. My friend Richard Urban says, "Our events have all been canceled but the rescue animals haven't canceled their need for us." On average, Wags saves about 450 to 500 animals a year. A fundraising page has been created here.
The Purple Tie Ball, benefiting WINGS Program (a nonprofit that supports families facing domestic violence), will take place on Saturday, October 3. Further details are still being ironed out by co-chairs Melissa Canning and Debby Jackson. Check the website here for upcoming details.
Playboy Magazine may have gone away physically, but two of my covers will live on in these brand new coffee
They work too!
mugs! LOL!! A friend sent me a link for these mugs from my Feb. 1980 and Feb. 1979 covers. To say I was surprised is an understatement. Don't look for them on Amazon though, I bought them all. (Just kidding, here's the links, https://amzn.to/2MwCGsA and https://amzn.to/3gRkisa ).
The date for the International Playboy Bunny Reunion Party has been changed to August 13-16 in Chicago. Lots of fun outings planned for this gathering that is limited to former Bunnies and employees of Playboy. For more info, email ThePlayboyBunnyReunion@gmail.com. Hope to see you there!
And the beat goes on! Don't miss Ravinia Festival's (virtual) Living Room Lawn Party with the one and only Kristin Chenoweth on Saturday, June 27 at 8 pm! The event will benefit Ravinia's Reach+Teach+Play programs which reach over 85,000 annually. (Click here for more details and, to donate, please click here)
My favorite spot for eye care needs, MyEyeDr., is now OPEN for appointments. They aren't accepting walk-ins yet as they're following social distancing protocols for the safety of patients and associates. For an appointment, please call 866.693.9336 or visit myeyedr.com
I guess in every pandemic, there is a silver lining. And, for me, it was hearing that drive-in movie theaters might be making a comeback! I remember with fondness the one near my home in Dupo, Illinois. It was in the neighboring town of Cahokia. Mind you, it wasn't all sunbeams and unicorns, it was really a sort of rough and tumble kind of place, but I still enjoyed the experience the few times we visited. I think in hindsight, I've romanticized it a bit more than warranted but I still have fond memories. So, it was with great glee that I read the news (in this Sun-Times article by Darel Jevens) that a group called the Bucket Listers are planning a venue close to
McHenry Drive-In Theater is packing them in!
downtown (location, as of yet, is undisclosed). The group produces social media event guides in Chicago and eight other North American cities, and says it has set up an outdoor movie venue that will fit 300 cars a night and show films six nights a week this summer! And while no films have been announced, Bucket Listers is accepting email votes on future titles at drivein@bucketlisters.com and promises “classic, nostalgic, American films that will transport you back in time,” citing “Back to the Future,” “The Sandlot,” “E.T.,” “Grease” and “When Harry Met Sally” as examples. Ticket prices will begin at $40 per car. Details on tickets will be sent to people who RSVP at DriveInSummer.com. Bucket Listers say more than 60,000 people already are on the wait list for the drive-in plans in its various cities. While conventional indoor movie houses have been closed since mid-March due to Covid, outdoor drive-in theaters have been given the go-ahead to operate with some adjustments in their protocols. Among those re-opening in our area in recent weeks have been the McHenry Outdoor Theater in McHenry and the Route 34 Drive-in in Earlville. Yippee! Grab the popcorn!
For the past 10 years, funds from the "Tasting Stars" event has benefited A Silver Lining Foundation's "Buy A Mom A Mammogram" program. This year, with Covid cancelling so many live events, the fundraiser will go virtual on Saturday, June 13. The live-streamed event, hosted by Paul Lisnek (of WGN-TV), will be on YouTube LIVE at 7 pm. Many women with breast screenings scheduled, have been forced to cancel because, with job loss or a furlough, comes a loss of insurance. Women are turning to ASLF in larger numbers for help as no one in need of breast health help is ever turned down and all services are free. Tickets are not required, but those who REGISTER IN ADVANCE will be entered into a drawing for a door prize – a package of premium Moet Hennessy bubbly and liquor! For more information, visit http://www.tastingstars.org/ or email champagne@tastingstars.org.
Nan Giordano Day will be celebrated virtually via a Zoom dance class on Tuesday, June 9th at 2pm. Be a part of the celebration along with famed choreographer Ray Leeper and the fabulous Giordano Dance Chicago dancers. Nan Giordano Day was initiated by former Mayor Rahm Emanuel in recognition of her “fierce, innovative, and tenacious” contributions to GDC and the dance world!" To register, a $15 fee, please click here!
I hope you can check out Instagram LIVE on Wednesday, June 10, when Tracey Tarantino DiBuono (ZZAZZ Productions) and I try it out for the first time. We'll be discussing everything under the sun–style, fashion, nonprofits and, of course, answering your questions! It will be fun and light-hearted! Hope to "see" you there! Tracey is hosting (@traceytdibuono) and I'll be guesting! (Pray for us)
At Tufano's with Michael Kutza and Chuck (Joey DiBuono in center).
It's been so encouraging to see people out on the streets again enjoying dinners, albeit socially distanced ones. As soon as the stay-at-home order was lifted, we enjoyed a great dinner at Tufano's Vernon Park Tap
Tufano's charming patio with our darling server Michelle.
(1073 W. Vernon Park Place, 312.733.3393). It was like seeing the sun after a long, hard winter. Owner Joey DiBuono greeted everyone graciously wearing chic orange gloves and, of course, the requisite face mask. But, even with the mask, you couldn't miss the twinkle in his eyes as he saw every table on his beautiful patio fill up. Here's to a lot more summertime fun for all of us.
Does anyone remember Mr. Rogers? In 1969, when African-American citizens in the US were not permitted to swim in community pools alongside whites, Fred Rogers brought a Black police officer to his TV show and invited him to cool his feet with him in a small, wading pool. Mr. Rogers then helped Officer Clemmons dry his feet. Mr. Rogers never openly preached on his show, despite being an ordained Presbyterian minister yet he preached volumes in this simple act of love. In a world where you can be anything, be a Mr. Rogers. Wish there were more like him….
Steppenwolf Theatre Company hosted its first virtual gala which replaced its popular, signature fundraiser that's usually held every year around
Ensemble member/event host Audrey Francis shows off her "Chicago Acts Together" t-shirt that is bringing in funds for the theatre community.
this time. In spite of the lack of closeness and the thrill of seeing all of Steppenwolf's celebrity ensemble members in person, the event was really, really special! People could join the virtual party for free this year which I'm
Chicago's First Family welcomed viewers.
sure attracted new supporters. AND it raised over $640,000! The "Pants Optional" event was hosted by ensemble member Audrey Francis from the Frost Chicago Broadcast Studio, where event planner extraordinaire Jeffrey Foster had worked his magic. It went off without a hitch. Mayor Lori
Steppenwolf executive director David Schmitz and artistic director Anna D. Shapiro.
Lightfoot and her family, First Lady Amy Eshleman (a longtime Steppenwolf trustee) and First Daughter Vivian, welcomed viewers. Amy said, "Investing in
Ensemble member and Steppenwolf co-founder Gary Sinise.
Steppenwolf education is now more important than ever…You're not only investing in the ensemble of art-makers and appreciators, but I believe 100% that you're investing in the future of Chicago." Then it was turned back over to host Audrey who quipped, "If it was this
Ensemble member Laurie Metcalf.
time last year, I'd be sausaged into a cocktail dress wearing heels wishing that I was wearing pajamas on my couch. So, we have made some of my dreams come true tonight." Audrey talked about the theatre company sitting on native lands and acknowledged the
Steppenwolf "Pants Optional" host Audrey Francis on the set of the Frost Chicago Broadcast Studio designed by Jeff Foster.
tribes that were members of the Council of Three Fires. She wore a "Chicago Acts Together" t-shirt, that Steppenwolf created to support the theatre community and those who had lost work. To date, the shirt has brought in over $30,000 for this initiative. Ensemble members including John Malkovich, Laurie Metcalf, Gary Sinise and others were joined by celebrity guests Claire Danes, Armie Hammer, Shonda Rhimes and Chris Rock in teen interviews, inspiring viewers from the comfort of their homes. Broadway’s Phillipa Soo
Chris Rock speaks with a teen from the Young Adult Council of Steppenwolf.
and Steven Pasquale made a surprise appearance in support of Steppenwolf and serenaded the audience. Grammy Award-winning DJ Tracy Young kept the party going by spinning music live from Miami for Steppenwolf’s expanding global community of artists, fans
Ensemble member John Malkovich gives some acting advice.
and donors to connect, engage and take a collective breath. When the first online bid came in at $10,000, it was quickly matched by longtime trustee Sarah Beardsley. Next, artistic director Anna D. Shapiro and executive director David Schmitz, addressed the audience. "Because of the Covid crisis, we had to close 3 shows that were running. We had standing room only on all of these shows and had to cancel over 200 upcoming performances…We like to be in the same room together celebrating storytelling with
Virtual gala co-chairs Sandra Marquez and ensemble members Audrey Francis, Joan Allen and Gary Cole.
people. We're figuring it out though and plan on bringing you virtual programming. Nothing
Ensemble member Caroline Neff.
replaces live theater. We will find this feeling again together however we can, " Shapiro said. (To date, the company has 20 virtual programs running for 3000+ attendees/viewers from across the country.) Members of the Young Adult Council of Steppenwolf asked ensemble members questions and for advice. Company co-founder Gary Sinise was asked, "What were you like when you were my age?" He
Pulitzer Prize winning playwright, Steppenwolf ensemble member Tracy Letts.
replied, "I discovered theater when I was 16 at Glen Ellyn Junior High. We moved to Highland Park and I was struggling academically. Music and playing in bands saved me. I stumbled into theater when a drama teacher approached me and my band-mates hanging out in the hallway and suggested we audition for a play." He continued, "Steppenwolf was started by teenagers and it always warms my heart when I think about young people walking into this [Steppenwolf] building and realizing this was all started by the passions and excitement of kids just like them." Writer/producer Shonda Rhymes was asked how she manages self-doubt while still maintaining a sense of
Ensemble member Kathryn Erbe.
dignity in her work. She said, "Growth doesn't always have
Shonda Rhimes
to be completely filled with joy. There's always a little bit of growing pains. Embrace the doubt and fear and then rise from it, it always makes you better." Other ensemble members shared their thoughts on the one piece of advice they would give their younger selves. Comments included 1) Observe and pick up stories as you go, 2) Come in with your own work and don't wait to be told what to do, 3) Own being an
Award-winning actors Phillipa Soo and Steven Pasquale (husband/wife) closed the event with a song.
artist and embrace it, 4) Balance work and play, 5) Mind your money! Start saving now!, 6) Memorize your damn lines! Of all this advice, I think Armie Hammer's was my favorite. "If I could tell myself one thing in high school, it would be it doesn't matter what anyone in H.S. f-cking thinks of you because they, also, have no idea what they're doing in life, no one does. You're a high school kid, you're an
The team behind the hit play "I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter."
idiot and the fact that you value someone else's opinion above your own is asinine. But I did, we all do it. My advice, f_ck 'em, f_ck 'em all. They're idiots." LOL! Chris Rock spoke about how he got started in comedy (by accident) and John Malkovich shared what
Claire Danes
it was like bringing character Lennie Small to life in the play "Of Mice & Men." "I think the reason that the book is still being taught is because most kids, and people, feel like an outsider…It's a book about people who can't read the signs and I think that's most people." On why live theater is important for young students, Malkovich
Armie Hammer (with a new, interesting haircut).
shared, "Theater is a great venue for the study of ourselves and others and high school is a great age to start it." Ensemble member Ian Barford, following a few comments, dropped his pants and showed his bum to the camera, taking the "Pants Optional" theme
Ensemble member/Steppenwolf co-founder Jeff Perry.
literally. LOL! The event was co-chaired by trustees Susan Berghoff and Ann Phillips. "Together, we will keep the virtual lights on." This year’s free online event opened the virtual doors to a much larger audience, including viewers from across the United States, Canada, Japan, Germany, the United Kingdom, India and New Zealand via Steppenwolf’s YouTube
Ensemble member Gary Cole.
stream. The video, which can still be viewed on Steppenwolf’s YouTube Channel, boasts over 5,500 views. Donations continue to mount via text and online. To contribute and watch the virtual event, click here! Proceeds from this event
Grammy Award-winning DJ Tracy Young.
support, in part, the remount of I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter, this season’s Steppenwolf for Young Adults’ hit world premiere based on the award-winning novel by Erika L. Sánchez, adapted by celebrated Chicago playwright Isaac Gómez and directed by ensemble member
Co-chairs/trustees Susan Berghoff and Ann Phillips.
Sandra Marquez. The extended and sold out run was cut short by the COVID-19 crisis, which inspired Steppenwolf to raise money to bring back to life this essential Chicago story for thousands of high schoolers clamoring to see it, including youth detained and incarcerated at three juvenile justice facilities that the show planned to tour to. The Steppenwolf Education program reaches over 20,000 teens and adults annually.
Living in a lockdown-weary world hasn't been easy for anyone. As I sit here feeling sorry for myself and scrolling through Instagram at all hours of the day and night, I thought it might be fun to find out how others around town (and across the country) might be coping with this stay-at-home order. So, I asked some of my friends with bold-face names a few questions. 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. and 4) What are you missing the most right now? Their answers were thoughtful, funny, moving and inspiring and told me that we are certainly not in this alone. It made me feel better to hear their thoughts and see some really adorable photos. I hope you feel the same. Thanks to all who participated. I had a zillion more people I wanted to talk to but didn't want to try your attention spans. So, in no particular order, here's what some of the city's newsmakers and difference-makers had to say:
From everybody's favorite tech genius, HOWARD TULLMAN: 1) What has saved you during lockdown? The 4000 meals prepared for me by my wonderful wife [Judy]; our dogs and having a yard to escape into and get some
Howard getting some much needed rest with a good friend.
fresh air. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Losing all the weight I gained from the 4000 wonderful meals and wearing a pair of pants that requires a belt. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without? The amazing fruit at the Cermak Fresh Market on Diversey and my Kindle and the 200 books I read. 4) What are you missing the most right now? My daughters and granddaughers. Zoom just doesn't cut it. (Amen to that Howard!) _______________________________________________________________________
Ravinia's Nick Pullia.
From Ravinia Festival's Director of Communications NICK PULLIA: "My pets have been my greatest comfort. I have three big dogs and three big birds and I am nowhere close to being the Alpha of the pack. At first it was hard to work from home because the pets assumed that, if I was home, that must mean that it was time for me to play with them. That ended the
Nick Pullia and his 30 year-old Moluccan cockatoo Elliott.
third week. Now they look at me like I'm a vagrant with no friends and no prospects. And it's especially hard to write from home because my beautiful 30-year-old cockatoo, Elliott, calls me by name, "Hi, Nick," so frequently that I'm the one about to fly over this cuckoo's nest! 2) What are you most
Nick's handsome pack.
looking forward to when this is over? You know the song, "People," the corner stone of Mount Streisand? It's about me. I'm that person who needs people. I love to go shopping on Black Friday. I love to go to opening night of a blockbuster movie. And, of course, I love the throngs
Close-up of Nick's beautiful dog, Chicago!
of concertgoers. I miss the crowds. Nothing gives off better energy and pure joy than a group of people doing what they love. 3) Name one item you couldn't live without? For the past two weeks of this quarantine, my refrigerator/freezer has been kaput. After a couple of failed service attempts, a new one is on the way. But it has been very difficult having no refrigerator at a time
Nick's fabulous sense of humor gets him through any crisis!
when you're supposed to stay in the house. I know that's a good thing in a way or else I'd be having a menage a trois with Ben and Jerry right now. 4) What are you missing the most? I am missing "light at the end of the tunnel," which for me would have been the opening of the Ravinia 2020 season. The hope of a full and fun concert season with performers from King Crimson to John Legend, and of course, the Chicago Symphony Orchestra, was keeping me bouyant. But we had to cancel for the safety of our artists, audiences, staff and neighbors. It was the right decision, but it's going to be a quiet summer. As you know, I'm not a fan of quiet.
Man-about-town, philanthropist and Chicago Dowel Company president PAUL IACONO: 1) What has been the most comforting? Cooking. Nothing comforts like
Paul's Beef Bourguignon is a specialty. He's rediscovered his cooking skills during this difficult time!
comfort food, especially when you cook it for yourself (including baking my own birthday cake); Cleaning and organizing closets. It's something I would never have had the time nor inclination to do. I'm a (former) pack rat. Who knew? 2) What are you most looking forward to? Having a flattened Covid curve and belly curve and, of course, being out on our gorgeous Lake Michigan with dear friends. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My Dutch oven, cheese and Johnnie Walker Black, not necessarily in that order. 4) What are you missing the most right now? A haircut, a hug and my cleaning lady.
Auction house maven, world traveler and woman of the world LESLIE HINDMAN: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting? Nature. I've been in Florida and am so lucky to have been able to walk a lot and spend time
Leslie Hindman with her elegant mom on her 89th birthday.
outdoors by the ocean, surrounded by beauty. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is over? Spending time with friends! Everyone feels the same. I miss my friends!!! 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. Good television and good books! (I couldn't agree more Leslie, we've been binging Netflix' Penny Dreadful, Babylon Berlin and Hollywood and are now watching The Tudors for the 2nd time!) 4) What are you missing the most right now? Human contact, hugging the people I love.
Actress, writer, director and all-around cutie Leslie Zemeckis.
Even though actress/author/ film producer LESLIE ZEMECKIS doesn't live in Chicago full time, she and filmmaker/husband Robert Zemeckis, still count since they have a home here. So, Leslie, what has saved you? Having a routine, yet remaining flexible. I divide my
Leslie, amid her vintage showgirl collection holding one of her books, "Feuding Fan Dancers."
day with exercise, writing, reading, some outdoor time and a little too much baking! I'm plotting my future work and included silly things like sketching or collaging. Yet sometimes I don't feel like it so, instead, I'll throw the routine away and listen to what my soul needs. Maybe cleaning a drawer (I know, but I like organizing) or dancing with my daughter making a stupid Tik Tok video. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is over? Travel, especially to Italy where my heart is. I miss the world and I miss my friends. Real in person connection. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without. Tequila. Or possibly vodka. (You're a girl after my own heart Leslie!)
Owner of Chicago boutique Ikram, one of fashion's most powerful retailers and designer king-maker, IKRAM GOLDMAN: 1) What has saved you Ikram during lockdown?
The Goldmans enjoying nature.
Getting to spend time with my husband and twin boys. Cooking. Reading. Watching old movies. 2) What are you looking forward to when this is over? Getting my hair colored! The outline of my grey looks like the Alps! 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without. My mask. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Being with friends whether at the store or out for dinner.
Melissa Forman checking household chores off her list.
Former co-host of WCIU's "YOU & ME'" and now superstar radio personality on 93.9 LITE FM, MELISSA FORMAN: 1) Melissa, what has been the most
Melissa's husband of 17 years, Scott, helps with the housework.
comforting? My pets, 2 dogs and a cat. I never thought I would need a snuggle so much. Plus, getting to see exactly what they do 24 hours a day has been a treat (they're really pretty lazy). 2) What are you most looking forward to? My hair stylist! I mean, that is, if she even recognizes me. I may also want to hug my dentist. 3) What couldn't you have lived without? My grey, fuzzy bathrobe. My mom wants to burn it after seeing me in 1000 FaceTime videos wearing it. 4) What are you missing the most right now? I'm missing nothing. Keeping friends, family and fellow Chicagoans safe by staying home is something that helps me stay motivated. We will get through this together. Although, a good Saturday night dinner out wouldn't be bad!
Chef Art Smith has lost 70 lbs thanks to the regimen created by his trainer/friend/chef Lucas Cancelier.
World renowned and much loved CHEF ART SMITH: 1) What has saved you during lockdown Chef Art? Being in lockdown with my best friend Lucas Cancelier, a pro rugby player (@iamdapower) from Argentina. He has mentored me and helped me regain my health with a
Chef Art and his blueberries. Cooking has helped him through this.
70 pound weight loss. He inspired and reinvented me with my virtual hit cooking show "Chef Art Smith's Healthy Comfort" on Instagram Live, Wed., 3 pm Central time. 2) What are you looking forward to after this is all over? My kids going back to school and me going back to my favorite job as a restaurant owner. 3) Name one item you couldn't live without during this time. My Oster French Door Oven and baking my heart out! 4) What are you missing the most? My restaurant teams across America and, of course, my customers.
The cutest Corporate Hippie I know, Justine Fedak.
Corporate Hippie, motivational speaker, co-founder and principal at Instant Impact and 2021 Eversight Woman of Vision JUSTINE FEDAK: 1) What has been most comforting to you during lockdown? Meditation, I've
Justine Fedak
always practiced but now it's a faithful 5:30 am ritual on my terrace with the sun coming up. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over (besides spending time with me)? Going for dinner and cocktails with friends and hearing the hustle and bustle of a restaurant again. 3) Name one thing you couldn't have lived without during this time. My virtual Pilates and Strength Training. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Hugging my best friends.
Jim Smith and Greg Hyder, looking cute in their bandana masks.
Peninsula Hotel's Director Style & Community Relations GREG HYDER and his partner JIM SMITH, Senior Project Manager for the American Hospital Association: 1) What has been the most comforting
Greg and Jim find solace in recreating family recipes.
during lockdown for you Greg? My MoMaw's recipes (his grandmother Lorena Smith) 2) What are you most looking forward to when this ends? Seeing my family in person instead of virtually. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without. Clorox wipes 4) What are you missing the most right now? Liver and onions at RL! And for you Jim? 1) Being with Greg 2) Going to Sidetrack 3) My elliptical machine 4) Our social life.
Author, philanthropist and current Service Club of Chicago president SHERRILL BODINE: 1) What has saved you during this tough time? I made a promise to help restaurants by ordering carry-out daily while we all shelter in place. It has taken on a life of its own! Now I dream about where to order from next and the tablescapes I can plan to go with the cuisine. I knew I could
Sherrill's having fun pairing her nightly carry-out cuisine with her table decor.
write books but I didn't realize I could be visually creative! 2) What are you looking forward to when this is all over? Traveling! My wanderlust is threatening a jail break? 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without? My computer! I have daily Zoom meetings with other writers and my critique group, plus meetings with chairs of Service Club plotting inventive ways to keep moving forward with our mission. I also always look forward to Friday Night Zoom Cocktail Party with three other couples, our "Night Out"! 4) What are you missing most right now? Spending time with family and friends and giving REAL hugs!
CS Mag's Man of style, philanthropist and MyEyeDr's Brand & Creative Strategist MICHAEL CAPUTO: 1) What has saved you? Watching every episode of
Michael's nightly salute to our first responders and frontline workers.
Downton Abbey, while today's world is changing rapidly, I'm enjoying the structured etiquette of Downton. 2) What are you most looking forward to? Choices and options 3) Name one item you couldn't live without during this time? I'm working from home so high-speed internet is the only game in town! 4) What are you missing the most right now? The freedom to go where I want and, of course, seeing all my friends in real-time!
Tracey Tarantino DiBuono shows off her longtime dance and work-out skills!
Special event producer, founder of ZZAZZ Productions, fashion influencer, philanthropist TRACEY TARANTINO DIBUONO: 1) Two practices have given me daily comfort. My faith has been my rock. I have used my time at home to dig deeper into my spiritual side. I am drawn to reading or listening to good meditations and affirmations along with all the
Tracey Tarantino DiBuono at Tom Kehoe's Green Market Garden pop-up.
prayers I know. The staple that teaches me to give up my fear and have faith and worry less is my yoga practice (ongoing now for 20 years). 2) What are you most looking forward to? I am looking forward to attending the things I am most committed to. First, family gatherings, and I'm going to be very grateful to be able to attend church again. Also, board meetings for philanthropic causes. And, of course, some simple haircuts would be grand too! 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without. Nail polish. My mother always said she needed to have her nails polished because they were brittle. Mine are the same. I also couldn't live without my dog. (Her nails need attention too!) 4) What are you missing right now? I miss the wisdom I get from being with others I enjoy. To be in the spirit of lively conversation is always so uplifting.
Award-winning radio show host Lisa Fielding working from home!
Reporter, writer, photographer, WBBM780 Radio star LISA FIELDING: 1) What has saved you during this lockdown Lisa? A comforting thing to me is that people now realize who the essential workers are. Not only first responders and health care workers, but grocery store clerks, public transit employees, postal carriers,
After this is all over, Lisa can't wait to get back to traveling.
fast food workers and yes, journalists, who are on the front lines as well. And, like many pet parents, my fur kids have been constant, comforting companions. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? This has been one of the most difficult mental struggles of this situation, not having anything to look forward to. I'm a big planner so, by now and under normal circumstances, I'd likely have my whole summer
We'd ALL rather be at Wrigley!
planned. I'm also looking forward to family gatherings, hugs from my nieces and nephews, my co-workers back in a bustling newsroom, warm nights at Wrigley Field, a show at the Nederlander Theater, strolls along the RiverWalk and, most of all, being able to plan that trip to somewhere I've never been. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. Two things! Books and Netflix. I talk about the pandemic all day so when I'm off the clock, I need something to escape. I've had the rare time to read and binge. 4) What are you missing the most right now? I love the bustling city. The empty, quiet downtown has been very unsettling. I can't wait until the true "energy" of Chicago returns. It's what I love best about living and working here.
Tom Kehoe surviving lockdown with his partner Abel Leon.
Entrepreneur, philanthropist, founder Kehoe Designs, The Geraghty, BlackOak Technical Productions, Floral Exhibits and the newly created Events-To-Go,TOM KEHOE: 1) Tom,
Tom Kehoe knows how to pivot!
what has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? First and foremost being with my guy, Abel [Leon] has been a godsend. Our daily workouts, keeping our routines and pivoting the business in new ways. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? A kick ass dance party (Amen to this!) 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My Peloton bike 4) What are you missing the most right now? Spending money.
Former White House Social Secretary for former President Obama's office, former CEO Johnson Publishing Company and current CEO of Black Opal, a recently launched cosmetics company, DESIREE
Desiree's Black Opal Cosmetics!
ROGERS: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? Daily check in conversations with family and friends. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Getting back into the office with my team and working on BK/OPL. We have so many new products to launch! 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. Orders from BOKA. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Freedom.
Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas, aka the Dragon Lady.
Cook County Treasurer (since 1998), champion of the people, attorney, lover of yoga, great cook, MARIA PAPPAS: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? Visiting business owners who needed help applying for loans ….nothing like human contact. 2) What are you most looking
Maria Pappas unwinds with exercise.
forward to when this is all over? Large dinner parties followed by sing-a-longs. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My Chinese doctor gave me an herbal tea and told me if I drink it every day, I will be fine. I drink it every day and I continually test negative….maybe it's psychological! 4) What are you missing the most right now? All my office events and the people I used to hug and kiss.
Sherry Lea (Fox) Holson wearing a mask by desiger SYLWIA.
Philanthropist, founder of Chicago's Mask Program for essential workers, Service Club of Chicago Board of Managers SHERRY LEA (FOX) HOLSON: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? My Faith, friends and getting involved in a charity project. I like knowing that I am giving back in some small way. Helping our local businesses and also the designers to pay their bills and feed their families
Sherry wearing a mask and T-shirt by designer Peach Carr.
feels good! Additional plus, the public is also being protected with the Face Mask Order mandated. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Looking someone directly in their eyes while having a conversation! Laughing, loving! Seeing my family and friends, Church, Charitable Events, Favorite Restaurants, Outdoor Dining, etc., etc. And… wink wink, ordering a cocktail at a “real bar”! 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. Masks ! LOL!!! TV, Netflix, books, phone and iPad. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Human contact and touch. Through the “Hello”, hugs and kisses to direct conversations. Freedom to just do whatever …
Toni Canada celebrating her BFF Dusty Stemer's birthday.
Chief Human Resources Officer, American Medical Association, fashion influencer, longtime member of the Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum, TONI CANADA: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? We have been sheltering in place in Michigan which has
Beautiful vignette with lilacs from Toni's Michigan garden.
been a treat but I have been working nonstop since we went to WFH 9 weeks ago…… I'm completely exhausted but the days have flown by. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Having someone ask me "can I start you off with drinks and an appetizer" 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My solid wi-fi connection and my husband. 4) What are you missing the most right now? My friends…and eating out!
Founder of The Chicago International Film Festival, soon-to-be-author, film consultant, MICHAEL KUTZA: 1) What has saved you during lockdown?1) Netflix. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Going back to the movies at the Archlight. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time? Real movie theaters and vodka 4) What are you missing the most right now? Hanging out with friends like you and Chuck. Isolation doesn't bother me as I have always been isolated in movie theaters all my life, alone at Festivals. It's important to respect this Pandemic and take it seriously though.
Artist, writer, historian, chef, bon vivant, THOMAS O'GORMAN: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? The most sustaining element has been painting. I have a very rigorous painting schedule each day, which means that I have paintings at all stages of progress and completion…But I know that I have to balance
Painting is Thomas' passion. Here is a work in progress of 18th century Dublin Houses.
the day with writing and some reading and study. Painting is the glue of my living. Being able to pick up a brush when I want is a great luxury. Discipline is very critical for a painter. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Quite literally just getting out of the house. My quarantine is not cosmetic. My cardio condition means I won’t get any second chances. I have to be very careful. I have not budged since March 13. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My laptop is indispensable….It's the first thing I check each morning and the last thing I see at night….I have 5,000 friends on
Thomas, a master chef: Classic French Toast with blueberry compote syrup.
Facebook and my European friends are just getting started when I’m going to bed. I don’t have a television and I rely on my lap top for connecting me to the world. It's also critical to my literary world. In addition to my column [SKYLINE], which has its own deadlines, I’m working on two books, a history of Chicago and a cookery book. Cooking has always been a mainstay of my life. With painting and writing, cooking completes me. Rounds me out. 4) What
Tom O'Gorman and his trusty Iphone!
are you missing the most right now? I really miss the sociability of my life. Holding court at RL is very natural. The staff are all my buddies. I love the freedom I have with the menu. My soul gets fed there, too. Peter Axelsen, Jesus, Christopher, Molly, Anna and others have been a part of my life for ages. I miss them terribly, and the friends who gather there. I miss my friend Rose O’Neill, Myra Reilly, Diane O’Connell and Mark O’Malley. I miss bumping into my pals, Steve Lombardo and Johnny Coletti. The food I miss the most is West Coast oysters and crispy duck. I know that eventually we will all be together again. I’ve always been impatient. But I’ve gotten better.
Do-gooder, philanthropist, father of Grayson, Chicago Financial Services Co-op Lending Manager MARK OLLEY: 1) What has saved and comforted you during this trying time? That I am not alone, I have my husband to talk and laugh with, my family and friends to ZOOM with. Learning new skills, cutting hair, and
Mark Olley with his handsome son Grayson.
cooking… wait I need to add these skill sets to my resume! But our pup GRAYSON is a delight 24/7 he's our home's "healer and chief". And of course, we are all truly in this together. 2) What are you most looking forward to? Our FREEDOM- to come and go as we please, hold those we love close. I am a HUGGER this social distancing thing is simply is not in my DNA…3) Name one item you found you couldn't live without? My daily morning Starbuck's visit. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Big picture- Travel, close to home- Personal grooming (it truly takes a village!)
Editor-in-Chief/ Publisher Chicago Magazine, mother of Gus, lover of children and animals, print genius, SUSANNA HOMAN: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? My dachshund-mix,
I'll have what she's having! You go Susanna! Wowza!
[PAWS] rescue, Gus! I have never had the chance to spend this much time with him, and our bond keeps growing stronger. In the moments where the anxiety of this time is almost too much to bear, holding him makes it all better. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? I miss my parents, so most certainly visiting them, but also just a nice dinner at one of
Susanna and her darling goddaughter.
my favorite restaurants, like Piccolo Sogno, would feel like New Year's Eve right now. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. I invested in a new iPhone a couple of weeks before the lockdown began, not realizing what a lifeline it would become. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Spending time with my godchildren, CJ (who is 10) and Gia (who just turned 2). I typically babysit a couple of times a month, so I'm definitely missing the cuteness and the hugs.
Megan McKinney– author, historian, publisher Classic Chicago magazine.
Author, historian, publisher Classic Chicago magazine MEGAN MCKINNEY: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? I’m very fortunate because my life has changed very little. For almost five years I have worked all day in my office at home. My Classic Chicago business partner, Judy Carmack Bross, does the same. We meet by telephone several mornings a week and constantly by email. It was a pleasant routine and the lack of change has been very comforting. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? I’m looking forward most to long walks through the Gold Coast and along the lakefront in beautiful warm weather. And restaurants. I so miss sinking into a banquette at RL or Tortoise Supper Club for an afternoon of talk and lunch with longtime friends. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My computer. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Second Tuesday lunches at RL.
Director of Special Events at Brian Atwood Designs, charity champion, fashionista, YOLANDA "DUSTY" STEMER: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? Having a brilliant Infectious Disease Expert sleeping next to me each night. Alex [Stemer] has been on calls and conferences with Rush, UNC and heads the Symphony system Covid response team for patients and staff. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? We are
Dusty's quarantine dinner table game is STRONG!
lucky to be in Indiana and be able to walk to the beach and the Dunes, but we are looking forward to enjoying dinner out with friends. And dare to dream of maybe being on an airplane going to a favorite vaca spot. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. Tequila and our BFF Jerry Mickelson!! 4) What are you missing the most right now? It's amazing how you miss human contact, whether it's family, friends or just seeing people in a grocery store. Zoom just doesn't replace the real thing!! I want to be normal again.
Kathy O'Malley Piccone and her friend Nikki Friar, social distancing in the park.
Managing Partner at Gibsons Restaurant Group, do-gooder, girl's girl, people lover, Hostess with the Mostest, KATHY O'MALLEY PICCONE: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? Most of all, my Faith and the Love and caring of my family and dear friends. Watching the goodness of people giving back. "Surprise" gifts, flowers and dinners being delivered. Never expected…So grateful. It warms my heart to order from local restaurants. 2) What are you most looking forward to
Kathy participating in a virtual Zoom Cocktail Party with the Service Club of Chicago.
when this is all over. My morning pilates and "Calm," taking deep breathes for the anxiety of the unknown. Music… Reading ..and some movies.. Above all Staying Positive. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Simple Joys, a walk around the block will have a new meaning…never taking things
Kathy celebrating her BFF, Cheri James, birthday recently.
for granted. Gathering of friends. The awakening of things to come, for many to return to basics and kindness we were all born to share. Also looking forward to working with people again. I am such a nurturing, giving and caring person in need of social interaction, especially being in the hospitality business most of my life. I miss my Gibsons family and customers. 3) Name one item you couldn't live without during this time. The Internet …new ways to communicate. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Hugging my family and Friends, prosperity and just being free to come and go without second guessing. And let's not forget my hair salon, manicures and pedicures…LOL!
Myra and John Reilly think #togetherisbetter during lockdown, and always!
John Reilly Photography Partner, philanthropist, Service Clubof Chicago superstar, elegant MYRA REILLY and her photog superstar husband JOHN REILLY, Principal John Reilly Photography: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? That we are doing this together–cooking together and being able to work in our garden together and, most importantly, being able to have church services online. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? John can’t wait to get back to the studio and photographing, me, I miss seeing my family and giving them a big hug. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. They both said "each other"! And, together, we thank God for this time of reflection. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Being with friends and family and socializing with our “peeps”!
Oprah delivers powerful commencement speech for the Class of 2020.
I watched Oprah's greatly anticipated commencement speech for the Class of 2020 on May 15. She sure knows how to fire up a room. During the 90 minute live-streamed ceremony (I watched it on Facebook but know it appeared on other channels too), co-hosted by Mindy Kaling and B.J. Novak, a variety of stars gave advice to the graduating seniors including Jennifer Garner, Awkwafina, Amy Schumer, Matthew
John Mayer participated.
McConaughey, Gloria Estefan, Selena Gomez, Ashley Graham, Gordon Ramsey, Marlee Matlin, Steve Harvey, Usher, Sebastian Maniscalco, Tim Tebow, Andy Cohen, Rob Lowe, musician Marshmallow, Dice Nice, Hugh Jackman, supermodel Winnie Harlow, Simone Biles, John Mayer and dozens of others. Even Cookie Monster made an appearance! The ceremony acknowledged high schools and colleges in the U.S. by name, state by state, that included photos and videos of the class of 2020 and messages from students, deans and principals from across the country. Miley Cyrus "sang" " her hit song "The Climb" although it looked more like lip-synching to me (but at least she was there).
Gloria Estefan
Jennifer Garner introduced a spectacular group of high school students called the "Intonations" that sang a capella in perfect harmony. One of the many students spotlighted was Ashley Lawrence, a senior studying education for the deaf and hard of hearing at Eastern
Usher
Kentucky University. She created face masks for the hearing impaired that has a clear plastic window in the middle for lip reading. Genius! Brava Ashley! You're already a difference-maker! Here are some comments/advice the celebs had for the class of 2020: John Mayer–"I don't have to wait on the world to change anymore because I know, more than ever, that the
The Miz, professional wrestler and actor.
generation you're in has this handled." Matthew McConaughey–"Don't worry if you're not quite sure what you want to do in life. I'm 50 and have many days where I'm still not quite sure what I want to be. But I work on it, stay the process and try to enjoy it as much as I can." Simone Biles (world's most decorated gymnast)–"As an athlete, there's nothing quite like the
Steve Harvey represented for high schools in Ohio.
bus ride home after a win. You're happy because you've nailed it. This is your bus ride home. Your victory lap. I know you're missing your medal ceremony but that ceremony doesn't change a thing. You've already won." Steve Harvey-" It's the dreams I had in high school
Alright, alright Matthew McConaughey.
that made me what I am today. I'm a major, major star. I ain't messing around man. If it happened to me, why can't it happen to you? You have to lock in on that dream and never give up." Tim Tebow (all American quarterback)–"Life is not about tomorrow, it's not about the next day. It's about this day. And every day when you show up, know that you can show up with purpose and passion, every single day." Marshmallow-"Really look at yourself and ask what do I love doing, what makes me happy?" Rob Lowe–"Right now, you all have the ability to be the greatest generation the world has ever seen." Comedian Sebastian Maniscalco–"Whatever you do, do it 150%!" And now, to watch Oprah's powerful and inspiring commencement address, click HERE! (Congrats to the Class of 2020! May you light up the world with your good work!) The Facebook Watch group for this event numbered nearly 60,000 viewers.
Former President Obama welcomed guests to this virtual gala.
Bright Futures' Youth Guidance presented a spectacular virtual gala recently, raising over $1.1 million!! The event, co-chaired by Kimberly and Jim Mills, featured a donation segment led by auctioneer extraordinaire Greg "G-Man" Dellinger" with guest
Basketball star Jimmy Butler encouraged viewers to donate.
appearances interspersed throughout that included an opener/welcome from former President Barack Obama. Young people shared the impact the organization had in their lives through its various
Michelle Morrison, CEO Youth-Guidance.org, thanked viewers for their huge support!
initiatives and basketball star Jimmy Butler shared some inspiration for the kids. At the top donor level of $25,000, donations came in from Doug Walker, Mark Gerstein, Kimberly and Jim Mills, John and Diana Raitt, Maria Green and Greg Lewis and others. Auctioneer Dellinger became very emotional as the numbers climbed calling the supporters "change-makers for the kids." The event concluded with a heartfelt thank you from Youth Guidance CEO Michelle Morrison. The event will support the nonprofit's mission of supporting elementary and high school students through its many mentoring and counseling programs. The organization directly serves about 13,000 youth while touching the lives of hundreds more parents, schools and local communities.
For all of the fans of Bob Mariano (and who isn't?), I have great news! In a breaking story by Crain's Chicago, Bob is returning to the grocery industry with a $10 million investment to create a new chain aimed at combining shopping, restaurant dining and home delivery! The article by Dalton Barker, states: "The
Bob Mariano is BACCKKKK!!!
new venture, Dom’s Market & Kitchen, is planned for a March 2021 debut at a yet-to-be announced Lincoln Park location. The small-format store will feature specialty foods and take-home and dine-in meals prepared in an open kitchen. Groceries and meal-kits will also be available for delivery, according to a statement from the new company. It plans to add Chicago locations, focusing on urban neighborhoods, once its Lincoln Park spot is up and running. Mariano is partnering with fellow industry veterans Jay Owen and Don Fitzgerald to jumpstart the venture." Huge congrats Nina and Bob! We need YOU!!!
Photographer Jeff Cohen, making memories for charity.
For all those living on the North Shore, here's a great offer from a photographer/friend of mine Jeff Cohen Photography! He says, "After two+ months of creative inactivity, TV binge watching along with eating and drinking to excess, I’ve decided to get my butt off the couch and support those on the front lines fighting Covid-19 or who have been adversely affected by the virus. For a minimum donation of $50 to a First Responder’s charity or a local food bank, I'll come to your home or
Jeff Cohen Photography.
apartment and photograph your family in the safety and comfort of your porch or backyard. We'll gather for a 15 minute session of picture taking while keeping a safe distance. Within a few days I’ll send a high resolution gallery of images you can post on social media or make into prints. You'll have a bit of fun with your family, receive a record of this strange time and most important you'll help support a worthy cause. And for me I'll know my time, energy and creativity are helping those who are fighting the good fight every day. That's enough for me." What a great idea Jeff! Contact him here for more details and to book a day and time. Jeff@JeffCohenPhotography.com This offer expires 6/30/ North Shore Area Only. (And one more thing, Jeff knows his stuff, he was a senior art director for Playboy Magazine!)
The Peninsula brings the beats to pay tribute to the city and frontline workers.
During this time of isolation, music can be an especially uplifting and powerful way to bring the community together, while still observing social distancing. I love the sounds and songs coming from the balconies around the city every night at 8 pm. And now, The Peninsula Chicago is joining in the fun by offering live, upbeat music to celebrate the city and pay tribute to frontline responders. Listen for the trio on the Z Bar's rooftop terrace every Thursday at 8 pm. They play for 15 to 20 minutes! Area residents and responders can listen and sing along from their homes, or via a LIVE streaming broadcast on Facebook @peninsulachicago and Instagram @thepeninsulachi
If you're so inclined and have the means, please consider donating to the Chicago Independent Media Alliance – CIMA's month-long fundraising initiative, Save Chicago Media, to help support local Chicago news outlets. On this website, www.savechicagomedia.org, through June 5, you can donate one amount to be shared equally by the 43 outlets, or you can select individual outlets to give funds to. All money, up to $40,000, will be matched by generous local foundations. We need local, authentic media outlets to survive to tell the stories from and for their communities. Click here to choose an outlet and to donate. Any amount will make a difference.
PAWS Chicago Beach Party 2019 with Murray Peretz, Howard Tullman and Angie DeMars!
PAWS Chicago's annual Beach Party is going virtual! Mark your calendars now for Thursday, July 23, 7 pm! Expect a doggie swimsuit contest, Second City comedians, local celebs, a silent auction and so much more! Check their website here for deets coming soon!
Thanks again Gabby Road with Hannah, Fred & Justin for having me back! Loved chatting with you about Playboy; the nonprofit community; how events will look moving forward; working (or not) during a pandemic and so much more! If you missed it, please listen here!
MARK YOUR CALENDARS! Join Dr. Sandy Goldberg and her A Silver Lining Foundation for their 16th annual Gala on Saturday, October 3 at the Hyatt Regency McCormick Place! Now, more than ever, this org needs your help in providing men and women with cost-free breast health testing. So many have lost their jobs and insurance so this year's event will be critical to support these life-saving needs. For tickets, more info, call 312.345.1322 or click here!
ULBGC champion Tiana Jackson!
Congrats Tiana Jackson! Hard work and determination pays off, just ask Union League Boys & Girls Clubs member Tiana, who has been selected to represent Illinois in the upcoming Boys & Girls Clubs of America’s Youth of the Year Midwest Regional Competition. She makes history as ULBGC's first state winner since the competition started 73 years ago!
I've been blogging on my own since 2008 but, this month, marks my 11th anniversary as a blogger/writer for ChicagoNow! The Chicago Now blogging platform is part of the Chicago Tribune. It's the home of over 300 top Chicago bloggers. If you'd like to check it out, please click here! (Thanks for bringing me on Bill Adee!) The site is masterfully helmed by Matt Schwerha!
Big thanks to Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas! Her office is waiving interest on late property tax payments for two months which will give taxpayers financial relief and more time to manage their finances. This is one politician who truly cares.
Lauren Lein with grateful frontline responders at Citadel Waterford. (Photo by Thomas P. Cavanaugh)
Kudos to designer Lauren Lein! She made and donated dozens of masks to the good folks at Citadel Waterford, a retirement home on Sheridan Road. Her good friend Julia Jacobs help facilitate this mission of mercy and now, as you can see, everyone is happier and safer! Good job Lauren!
How cool is this for Memorial Day Weekend!? Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse is offering GRILL MEAL KITS! Love this idea! Check out the menu and have a great holiday weekend! Long may you grill!
It seems my blogs get longer and longer. I don't know how there can be so much news when we can't go anywhere, but I'm happy to share! In spite of it all, there are lots of happy moments, events and successes happening all around us so I hope you've enjoyed this latest edition and I hope you tell your friends!
As for us, we're off for a little road trip to Lake Geneva for Memorial Day Weekend. I've packed all of our masks and plastic gloves and have firmly decided that this virus won't keep us down for long. We're celebrating where, when and how we can, safely and respectfully. Hope you have a wonderful holiday weekend too!
Love, as always,
Candace
P.S. This darling, bird-brained video is sure to take your mind off Covid!
Two great events for wonderful causes BOTH on the same night! What is Candid Candace to do? Go to both, of course! The first “Shine & Dine” was held at Galleria Marchetti recently to benefit Step Up Women’s Network. This event, the first of its kind, attracted more than 400 guests. Honorary Chair, ABC 7’s Valerie Warner, sparkled and inspired from the stage to the crowd consisting of local professionals and notables. The evening was a mix of philanthropy plus seasonal fare from Chicago’s hottest restaurants all to benefit the charitable programs of Step Up Women’s Network. Managing Director Gina Marotta said, “Step Up has been a fixture in Chicago for five years and this special event is the perfect way to celebrate our work with local women and girls, as well as attract new enthusiasts to our cause.” Wave Executive Chef Kristine Subido and ZED451 Executive Chef Patrick Quakenbush were on hand to offer guests their exclusive tastings as well as favorites from The Purple Pig. The event’s host committee included D.C. Crenshaw, Cameron Croft, Amalie Drury, Cassandra Gaddo, Todd Helmink, Jonny Imerman, Stacy Levy, Kim Lichtenstein, Peter Marsh, Robert McGhee, Susanna Negovan, Daphne Ortiz, Todd S. Pugh, Marcus Riley, Laura Schwartz, Erica Strama, Genevieve Theirs, Julee White and moi. This wonderful organization supports and mentors teen girls in Chicago’s most underserved communities to become confident, college-bound and career-ready! For more info on how YOU can become involved, please visit www.suwn.org. (All photos by Caitlin Saville Collins.)
This same evening, one of my favorite new spots in town, The Rooftop at Studio Paris, was the scene of a party hosted by The Women’s Auxiliary of Ronald McDonald House Near Lurie Children’s. This benefit was co-chaired by three of the most enthusiastic ladies I know – Carol Beitler, Lesley Goodman and MaryAnne Smith (Coach Lovie’s vivacious wife). Two hundred plus supporters participated in this benefit that raised more than $50,000 to support the Rooftop Retreat of the world’s largest Ronald McDonald House. Debuting in 2012 and designed to give families a chance to relax and replenish after a day at the hospital, this impressive space will be surrounded by nine-foot glass walls with both a family activity area and a meditation garden. The brick sculpture dividing the two areas will feature the city’s first skyline bricolage mosaic, a customized mural constructed from pieces of tile, mirrors, paintings and photographs which the Auxiliary is sponsoring. On this night, guests were introduced to some of the wall’s artists as well as having an opportunity to create a tile to be embedded in the structure.Another fun event is planned for September 27th. Starting at 4 PM, “Topping Off” festivities will begin on the garage rooftop across the street from the new House at 211 E. Grand. Following the official ceremony at 5 PM, Saks on Michigan Avenue (courtesy of Heather Farley) has invited everyone for an exclusive night of fashion and cocktails from 6 to 8 PM. (Photos by Caitlin Saville Collins. To view ALL images, please click here.)
Film star and Oscar winner Russell Crowe tweeted to his 250,000 followers: "Rode from Algonquin to Lake Geneva (WI). Beautiful place, my first ever visit to Wisconsin. If you are in the area, check out Baker House." Well, it just so happens my darling friend, Bethany, OWNS Baker House and this is her report: "Last night (8/25), Russell Crowe arrived (unannounced) at our new restaurant, The Baker House, in Lake Geneva, WI. He came in with two male friends and asked to be seated in our lakefront garden. They were hungry and seemed a bit tired…evidently, turns out he and his two male companions had biked from Algonquin, Illinois, to Lake Geneva, 40 miles, and then spent the day trekking around our scenic 28-mile lake! Russell said it was his FIRST VISIT EVER TO WISCONSIN and thought it was beautiful, and when he left he tweeted to his fans that if ever in the area, they should check out the Baker House! Our staff all wear costumes set in the 1890's through 1920's and Russell was amused asking our waitress if she liked dressing up when she came to work! When he and his friends left, they said they had an early day in Chicago or would have spent the night in our luxury hotel rooms that just opened. That would have been awesome!" Truth be told, this beautiful, vintage hotel with a lakefront setting has been on MY hit list for quite some time. My neighbors love it and we have been invited a few times but my schedule has never allowed us to go. Nestled in scenic beauty on Geneva Lake, this hotel was built in 1885 as a summer home for a wealthy family. Situated at 327 Wrigley Dr. in downtown Lake Geneva, this vintage, painted lady boasts 30 rooms, 13 fireplaces, nightly entertainment, a lakefront garden and is a Nationally Registered Historic property. Luxury suites begin at $340 and there are many packages available. I am sure Russell will be returning…and I hope I can meet him for cocktails in the lakefront garden! (With my husband, of course!) (Baker House, 327 Wrigley Dr., downtown Lake Geneva, Wisconsin, 262.248.4700)
I love feel-good stories, feel good movies and, of course, feel good campaigns! And this one is pretty special. Chicago Loop Alliance, along with the United Way of Metropolitan Chicago, in support of their public art initiative, created the “GO DO GOOD” campaign. (You would only miss the brightly-colored yellow signs around town if you were living in a cave, which hopefully you aren’t!) This campaign is a summer long, citywide movement to prepare Chicago’s kids to succeed in school and to also encourage good deeds around town. The theme is based on the Chicago Loop Alliance’s commissioned “Go Do Good” art installation which is a six foot story mural by Midwest based, internationally-acclaimed contemporary artist, Kay Rosen. This 30-second PSA was produced by Julee White’s Testarossa Entertainment in association wih the Illinois Center for Broadcasting (that shot and edited the spot). Check it out (campaign ends on Sept. 10th) and GO DO GOOD!!! :)
And now, here are some wonderful upcoming events that Candid Candace Recommends!
The Magnificent Mile Shopping Festival is the first of its kind in Chicago! “In-Fashion,” presented by MasterCard, will feature a two-week (August 26th through Sept. 8th) celebration of style featuring exclusive shopping offers, hotel packages, sweepstakes, culinary events and celebrities galore! Stylist Carson Kressley kicked off the event early on Aug. 26th in Pioneer Court on Michigan Avenue. There are too many events to mention here but expect to see Cubs catcher Geovany Soto, "Real Housewives'" Kyle Richards, Bill Kurtis, hunky shoe designer Brian Atwood, Chef Gale Gand and "Project Runway’s" Mondo Guerra at events around town. I will be dividing my time on Sept. 8th between Saks Fifth Avenue’s shoe salon re-opening (10022-SHOE) with Brian Atwood (6 to 9 PM) and 900 Shops VIP party featuring Bravo’s Brad Goreski (6 to 9 PM). Congrats to Carrie Lannon, In-Fashion Chairperson and National Director of PR for ULTA Beauty! For more info, please visit www.shop900.com/fno.
On Tuesday, Sept. 27th, the Goodman Theatre will present its opening benefit featuring the Tony award-winning play by John Logan, “Red,” which is described as a journey into the mind of abstract expressionist Mark Rothko, for whom paintings are “pulsating” life forces intended “to stop the heart.” The evening will begin with cocktails and dinner at the Modern Wing of the Art Institute, located at 159 E. Monroe, followed at 8 PM with the performance of “Red.” Gala and performance tickets begin at $500. Performance only tickets start at $25.
As you know, there was extensive damage to our fabulous Garfield Park Conservatory during the hail storm on June 30th. Thus, the Garfield Park Conservatory Alliance is spearheading a fundraising campaign to restore the damaged panes. Entitled, “Wine & Wildflowers,” this fundraiser will be held Thursday, Sept.1st, at the Lincoln Park Zoo from 5:30 to 8 PM and will include cocktails, hors d’oeuvres and a meet-and-greet with author Julia Bachrach. Tickets are $95 and can be purchased by visiting lpzoo.org/wine.
On Friday, September 23rd, an event very close to my heart, “Couture & Cocktails,” will be celebrating its sixth year as one of the biggest fundraisers for The Joffrey Ballet. Co-created by Helen Melchior and myself, this year’s event is being chaired by matching dynamos Kristina McGrath and Rebecca Besser. Held for the first time at this hot, new, BIG (115,000 feet.) venue, the Hudson at 2222 S. Michigan (where Ikram hosted her anniversary party!), this party/fashion show will feature the designs of David Meister (presented by our great friends at Neiman Marcus). Beginning with a VIP Party at 6 PM, there will also be a live and silent auction as well as the event’s signature “fun food.” Live auction items feature a Championship Round Masters Golf Package for four, a dream trip to British Virgin Island’s Bitter End Yacht Club, a private yacht for eight in Florida and a Ready-Made Champagne and Wine Collection. Tickets start at $275 with packages available. For more info and tickets, please visit Joffrey.org/CoutureandCocktails.
The Lynn Sage Cancer Research Foundation will host its 26th Annual Fall Benefit luncheon on Monday, Sept. 19th at the Ritz-Carlton. (Chuck’s birthday!!!!) Featuring Goldie Hawn, the event will begin at 11 AM followed by a luncheon at noon. Event chairs are Ashley Netzky and Lara Shipp Shiffman with Maggie Daley serving as the Honorary Chair. For tickets or more info, please visit www.lynnsage.org, email lynnsage@nmh.org or call 312.926.7133. And that’s this week’s lowdown on Chicago’s fabulous highlights! 🙂
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