Steppenwolf Theatre Company hosted its first virtual gala which replaced its popular, signature fundraiser that's usually held every year around
this time. In spite of the lack of closeness and the thrill of seeing all of Steppenwolf's celebrity ensemble members in person, the event was really, really special! People could join the virtual party for free this year which I'm
sure attracted new supporters. AND it raised over $640,000! The "Pants Optional" event was hosted by ensemble member Audrey Francis from the Frost Chicago Broadcast Studio, where event planner extraordinaire Jeffrey Foster had worked his magic. It went off without a hitch. Mayor Lori
Lightfoot and her family, First Lady Amy Eshleman (a longtime Steppenwolf trustee) and First Daughter Vivian, welcomed viewers. Amy said, "Investing in
Steppenwolf education is now more important than ever…You're not only investing in the ensemble of art-makers and appreciators, but I believe 100% that you're investing in the future of Chicago." Then it was turned back over to host Audrey who quipped, "If it was this
time last year, I'd be sausaged into a cocktail dress wearing heels wishing that I was wearing pajamas on my couch. So, we have made some of my dreams come true tonight." Audrey talked about the theatre company sitting on native lands and acknowledged the
tribes that were members of the Council of Three Fires. She wore a "Chicago Acts Together" t-shirt, that Steppenwolf created to support the theatre community and those who had lost work. To date, the shirt has brought in over $30,000 for this initiative. Ensemble members including John Malkovich, Laurie Metcalf, Gary Sinise and others were joined by celebrity guests Claire Danes, Armie Hammer, Shonda Rhimes and Chris Rock in teen interviews, inspiring viewers from the comfort of their homes. Broadway’s Phillipa Soo
and Steven Pasquale made a surprise appearance in support of Steppenwolf and serenaded the audience. Grammy Award-winning DJ Tracy Young kept the party going by spinning music live from Miami for Steppenwolf’s expanding global community of artists, fans
and donors to connect, engage and take a collective breath. When the first online bid came in at $10,000, it was quickly matched by longtime trustee Sarah Beardsley. Next, artistic director Anna D. Shapiro and executive director David Schmitz, addressed the audience. "Because of the Covid crisis, we had to close 3 shows that were running. We had standing room only on all of these shows and had to cancel over 200 upcoming performances…We like to be in the same room together celebrating storytelling with
people. We're figuring it out though and plan on bringing you virtual programming. Nothing
replaces live theater. We will find this feeling again together however we can, " Shapiro said. (To date, the company has 20 virtual programs running for 3000+ attendees/viewers from across the country.) Members of the Young Adult Council of Steppenwolf asked ensemble members questions and for advice. Company co-founder Gary Sinise was asked, "What were you like when you were my age?" He
replied, "I discovered theater when I was 16 at Glen Ellyn Junior High. We moved to Highland Park and I was struggling academically. Music and playing in bands saved me. I stumbled into theater when a drama teacher approached me and my band-mates hanging out in the hallway and suggested we audition for a play." He continued, "Steppenwolf was started by teenagers and it always warms my heart when I think about young people walking into this [Steppenwolf] building and realizing this was all started by the passions and excitement of kids just like them." Writer/producer Shonda Rhymes was asked how she manages self-doubt while still maintaining a sense of
dignity in her work. She said, "Growth doesn't always have
to be completely filled with joy. There's always a little bit of growing pains. Embrace the doubt and fear and then rise from it, it always makes you better." Other ensemble members shared their thoughts on the one piece of advice they would give their younger selves. Comments included 1) Observe and pick up stories as you go, 2) Come in with your own work and don't wait to be told what to do, 3) Own being an
artist and embrace it, 4) Balance work and play, 5) Mind your money! Start saving now!, 6) Memorize your damn lines! Of all this advice, I think Armie Hammer's was my favorite. "If I could tell myself one thing in high school, it would be it doesn't matter what anyone in H.S. f-cking thinks of you because they, also, have no idea what they're doing in life, no one does. You're a high school kid, you're an
idiot and the fact that you value someone else's opinion above your own is asinine. But I did, we all do it. My advice, f_ck 'em, f_ck 'em all. They're idiots." LOL! Chris Rock spoke about how he got started in comedy (by accident) and John Malkovich shared what
it was like bringing character Lennie Small to life in the play "Of Mice & Men." "I think the reason that the book is still being taught is because most kids, and people, feel like an outsider…It's a book about people who can't read the signs and I think that's most people." On why live theater is important for young students, Malkovich
shared, "Theater is a great venue for the study of ourselves and others and high school is a great age to start it." Ensemble member Ian Barford, following a few comments, dropped his pants and showed his bum to the camera, taking the "Pants Optional" theme
literally. LOL! The event was co-chaired by trustees Susan Berghoff and Ann Phillips. "Together, we will keep the virtual lights on." This year’s free online event opened the virtual doors to a much larger audience, including viewers from across the United States, Canada, Japan, Germany, the United Kingdom, India and New Zealand via Steppenwolf’s YouTube
stream. The video, which can still be viewed on Steppenwolf’s YouTube Channel, boasts over 5,500 views. Donations continue to mount via text and online. To contribute and watch the virtual event, click here! Proceeds from this event
support, in part, the remount of I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter, this season’s Steppenwolf for Young Adults’ hit world premiere based on the award-winning novel by Erika L. Sánchez, adapted by celebrated Chicago playwright Isaac Gómez and directed by ensemble member
Sandra Marquez. The extended and sold out run was cut short by the COVID-19 crisis, which inspired Steppenwolf to raise money to bring back to life this essential Chicago story for thousands of high schoolers clamoring to see it, including youth detained and incarcerated at three juvenile justice facilities that the show planned to tour to. The Steppenwolf Education program reaches over 20,000 teens and adults annually.
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Living in a lockdown-weary world hasn't been easy for anyone. As I sit here feeling sorry for myself and scrolling through Instagram at all hours of the day and night, I thought it might be fun to find out how others around town (and across the country) might be coping with this stay-at-home order. So, I asked some of my friends with bold-face names a few questions. 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. and 4) What are you missing the most right now? Their answers were thoughtful, funny, moving and inspiring and told me that we are certainly not in this alone. It made me feel better to hear their thoughts and see some really adorable photos. I hope you feel the same. Thanks to all who participated. I had a zillion more people I wanted to talk to but didn't want to try your attention spans. So, in no particular order, here's what some of the city's newsmakers and difference-makers had to say:
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From everybody's favorite tech genius, HOWARD TULLMAN: 1) What has saved you during lockdown? The 4000 meals prepared for me by my wonderful wife [Judy]; our dogs and having a yard to escape into and get some
fresh air. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Losing all the weight I gained from the 4000 wonderful meals and wearing a pair of pants that requires a belt. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without? The amazing fruit at the Cermak Fresh Market on Diversey and my Kindle and the 200 books I read. 4) What are you missing the most right now? My daughters and granddaughers. Zoom just doesn't cut it. (Amen to that Howard!)
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From Ravinia Festival's Director of Communications NICK PULLIA: "My pets have been my greatest comfort. I have three big dogs and three big birds and I am nowhere close to being the Alpha of the pack. At first it was hard to work from home because the pets assumed that, if I was home, that must mean that it was time for me to play with them. That ended the
third week. Now they look at me like I'm a vagrant with no friends and no prospects. And it's especially hard to write from home because my beautiful 30-year-old cockatoo, Elliott, calls me by name, "Hi, Nick," so frequently that I'm the one about to fly over this cuckoo's nest! 2) What are you most
looking forward to when this is over? You know the song, "People," the corner stone of Mount Streisand? It's about me. I'm that person who needs people. I love to go shopping on Black Friday. I love to go to opening night of a blockbuster movie. And, of course, I love the throngs
of concertgoers. I miss the crowds. Nothing gives off better energy and pure joy than a group of people doing what they love. 3) Name one item you couldn't live without? For the past two weeks of this quarantine, my refrigerator/freezer has been kaput. After a couple of failed service attempts, a new one is on the way. But it has been very difficult having no refrigerator at a time
when you're supposed to stay in the house. I know that's a good thing in a way or else I'd be having a menage a trois with Ben and Jerry right now. 4) What are you missing the most? I am missing "light at the end of the tunnel," which for me would have been the opening of the Ravinia 2020 season. The hope of a full and fun concert season with performers from King Crimson to John Legend, and of course, the Chicago Symphony Orchestra, was keeping me bouyant. But we had to cancel for the safety of our artists, audiences, staff and neighbors. It was the right decision, but it's going to be a quiet summer. As you know, I'm not a fan of quiet.
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Man-about-town, philanthropist and Chicago Dowel Company president PAUL IACONO: 1) What has been the most comforting? Cooking. Nothing comforts like
comfort food, especially when you cook it for yourself (including baking my own birthday cake); Cleaning and organizing closets. It's something I would never have had the time nor inclination to do. I'm a (former) pack rat. Who knew? 2) What are you most looking forward to? Having a flattened Covid curve and belly curve and, of course, being out on our gorgeous Lake Michigan with dear friends. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My Dutch oven, cheese and Johnnie Walker Black, not necessarily in that order. 4) What are you missing the most right now? A haircut, a hug and my cleaning lady.
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Auction house maven, world traveler and woman of the world LESLIE HINDMAN: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting? Nature. I've been in Florida and am so lucky to have been able to walk a lot and spend time
outdoors by the ocean, surrounded by beauty. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is over? Spending time with friends! Everyone feels the same. I miss my friends!!! 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. Good television and good books! (I couldn't agree more Leslie, we've been binging Netflix' Penny Dreadful, Babylon Berlin and Hollywood and are now watching The Tudors for the 2nd time!) 4) What are you missing the most right now? Human contact, hugging the people I love.
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Even though actress/author/ film producer LESLIE ZEMECKIS doesn't live in Chicago full time, she and filmmaker/husband Robert Zemeckis, still count since they have a home here. So, Leslie, what has saved you? Having a routine, yet remaining flexible. I divide my
day with exercise, writing, reading, some outdoor time and a little too much baking! I'm plotting my future work and included silly things like sketching or collaging. Yet sometimes I don't feel like it so, instead, I'll throw the routine away and listen to what my soul needs. Maybe cleaning a drawer (I know, but I like organizing) or dancing with my daughter making a stupid Tik Tok video. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is over? Travel, especially to Italy where my heart is. I miss the world and I miss my friends. Real in person connection. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without. Tequila. Or possibly vodka. (You're a girl after my own heart Leslie!)
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Owner of Chicago boutique Ikram, one of fashion's most powerful retailers and designer king-maker, IKRAM GOLDMAN: 1) What has saved you Ikram during lockdown?
Getting to spend time with my husband and twin boys. Cooking. Reading. Watching old movies. 2) What are you looking forward to when this is over? Getting my hair colored! The outline of my grey looks like the Alps! 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without. My mask. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Being with friends whether at the store or out for dinner.
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Former co-host of WCIU's "YOU & ME'" and now superstar radio personality on 93.9 LITE FM, MELISSA FORMAN: 1) Melissa, what has been the most
comforting? My pets, 2 dogs and a cat. I never thought I would need a snuggle so much. Plus, getting to see exactly what they do 24 hours a day has been a treat (they're really pretty lazy). 2) What are you most looking forward to? My hair stylist! I mean, that is, if she even recognizes me. I may also want to hug my dentist. 3) What couldn't you have lived without? My grey, fuzzy bathrobe. My mom wants to burn it after seeing me in 1000 FaceTime videos wearing it. 4) What are you missing the most right now? I'm missing nothing. Keeping friends, family and fellow Chicagoans safe by staying home is something that helps me stay motivated. We will get through this together. Although, a good Saturday night dinner out wouldn't be bad!
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World renowned and much loved CHEF ART SMITH: 1) What has saved you during lockdown Chef Art? Being in lockdown with my best friend Lucas Cancelier, a pro rugby player (@iamdapower) from Argentina. He has mentored me and helped me regain my health with a
70 pound weight loss. He inspired and reinvented me with my virtual hit cooking show "Chef Art Smith's Healthy Comfort" on Instagram Live, Wed., 3 pm Central time. 2) What are you looking forward to after this is all over? My kids going back to school and me going back to my favorite job as a restaurant owner. 3) Name one item you couldn't live without during this time. My Oster French Door Oven and baking my heart out! 4) What are you missing the most? My restaurant teams across America and, of course, my customers.
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Corporate Hippie, motivational speaker, co-founder and principal at Instant Impact and 2021 Eversight Woman of Vision JUSTINE FEDAK: 1) What has been most comforting to you during lockdown? Meditation, I've
always practiced but now it's a faithful 5:30 am ritual on my terrace with the sun coming up. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over (besides spending time with me)? Going for dinner and cocktails with friends and hearing the hustle and bustle of a restaurant again. 3) Name one thing you couldn't have lived without during this time. My virtual Pilates and Strength Training. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Hugging my best friends.
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Peninsula Hotel's Director Style & Community Relations GREG HYDER and his partner JIM SMITH, Senior Project Manager for the American Hospital Association: 1) What has been the most comforting
during lockdown for you Greg? My MoMaw's recipes (his grandmother Lorena Smith) 2) What are you most looking forward to when this ends? Seeing my family in person instead of virtually. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without. Clorox wipes 4) What are you missing the most right now? Liver and onions at RL! And for you Jim? 1) Being with Greg 2) Going to Sidetrack 3) My elliptical machine 4) Our social life.
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Author, philanthropist and current Service Club of Chicago president SHERRILL BODINE: 1) What has saved you during this tough time? I made a promise to help restaurants by ordering carry-out daily while we all shelter in place. It has taken on a life of its own! Now I dream about where to order from next and the tablescapes I can plan to go with the cuisine. I knew I could
write books but I didn't realize I could be visually creative! 2) What are you looking forward to when this is all over? Traveling! My wanderlust is threatening a jail break? 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without? My computer! I have daily Zoom meetings with other writers and my critique group, plus meetings with chairs of Service Club plotting inventive ways to keep moving forward with our mission. I also always look forward to Friday Night Zoom Cocktail Party with three other couples, our "Night Out"! 4) What are you missing most right now? Spending time with family and friends and giving REAL hugs!
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CS Mag's Man of style, philanthropist and MyEyeDr's Brand & Creative Strategist MICHAEL CAPUTO: 1) What has saved you? Watching every episode of
Downton Abbey, while today's world is changing rapidly, I'm enjoying the structured etiquette of Downton. 2) What are you most looking forward to? Choices and options 3) Name one item you couldn't live without during this time? I'm working from home so high-speed internet is the only game in town! 4) What are you missing the most right now? The freedom to go where I want and, of course, seeing all my friends in real-time!
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Special event producer, founder of ZZAZZ Productions, fashion influencer, philanthropist TRACEY TARANTINO DIBUONO: 1) Two practices have given me daily comfort. My faith has been my rock. I have used my time at home to dig deeper into my spiritual side. I am drawn to reading or listening to good meditations and affirmations along with all the
prayers I know. The staple that teaches me to give up my fear and have faith and worry less is my yoga practice (ongoing now for 20 years). 2) What are you most looking forward to? I am looking forward to attending the things I am most committed to. First, family gatherings, and I'm going to be very grateful to be able to attend church again. Also, board meetings for philanthropic causes. And, of course, some simple haircuts would be grand too! 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without. Nail polish. My mother always said she needed to have her nails polished because they were brittle. Mine are the same. I also couldn't live without my dog. (Her nails need attention too!) 4) What are you missing right now? I miss the wisdom I get from being with others I enjoy. To be in the spirit of lively conversation is always so uplifting.
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Reporter, writer, photographer, WBBM780 Radio star LISA FIELDING: 1) What has saved you during this lockdown Lisa? A comforting thing to me is that people now realize who the essential workers are. Not only first responders and health care workers, but grocery store clerks, public transit employees, postal carriers,
fast food workers and yes, journalists, who are on the front lines as well. And, like many pet parents, my fur kids have been constant, comforting companions. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? This has been one of the most difficult mental struggles of this situation, not having anything to look forward to. I'm a big planner so, by now and under normal circumstances, I'd likely have my whole summer
planned. I'm also looking forward to family gatherings, hugs from my nieces and nephews, my co-workers back in a bustling newsroom, warm nights at Wrigley Field, a show at the Nederlander Theater, strolls along the RiverWalk and, most of all, being able to plan that trip to somewhere I've never been. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. Two things! Books and Netflix. I talk about the pandemic all day so when I'm off the clock, I need something to escape. I've had the rare time to read and binge. 4) What are you missing the most right now? I love the bustling city. The empty, quiet downtown has been very unsettling. I can't wait until the true "energy" of Chicago returns. It's what I love best about living and working here.
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Entrepreneur, philanthropist, founder Kehoe Designs, The Geraghty, BlackOak Technical Productions, Floral Exhibits and the newly created Events-To-Go, TOM KEHOE: 1) Tom,
what has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? First and foremost being with my guy, Abel [Leon] has been a godsend. Our daily workouts, keeping our routines and pivoting the business in new ways. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? A kick ass dance party (Amen to this!) 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My Peloton bike 4) What are you missing the most right now? Spending money.
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Former White House Social Secretary for former President Obama's office, former CEO Johnson Publishing Company and current CEO of Black Opal, a recently launched cosmetics company, DESIREE
ROGERS: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? Daily check in conversations with family and friends. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Getting back into the office with my team and working on BK/OPL. We have so many new products to launch! 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. Orders from BOKA. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Freedom.
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Cook County Treasurer (since 1998), champion of the people, attorney, lover of yoga, great cook, MARIA PAPPAS: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? Visiting business owners who needed help applying for loans ….nothing like human contact. 2) What are you most looking
forward to when this is all over? Large dinner parties followed by sing-a-longs. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My Chinese doctor gave me an herbal tea and told me if I drink it every day, I will be fine. I drink it every day and I continually test negative….maybe it's psychological! 4) What are you missing the most right now? All my office events and the people I used to hug and kiss.
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Philanthropist, founder of Chicago's Mask Program for essential workers, Service Club of Chicago Board of Managers SHERRY LEA (FOX) HOLSON: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? My Faith, friends and getting involved in a charity project. I like knowing that I am giving back in some small way. Helping our local businesses and also the designers to pay their bills and feed their families
feels good! Additional plus, the public is also being protected with the Face Mask Order mandated. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Looking someone directly in their eyes while having a conversation! Laughing, loving! Seeing my family and friends, Church, Charitable Events, Favorite Restaurants, Outdoor Dining, etc., etc. And… wink wink, ordering a cocktail at a “real bar”! 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. Masks ! LOL!!! TV, Netflix, books, phone and iPad. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Human contact and touch. Through the “Hello”, hugs and kisses to direct conversations. Freedom to just do whatever …
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Chief Human Resources Officer, American Medical Association, fashion influencer, longtime member of the Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum, TONI CANADA: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? We have been sheltering in place in Michigan which has
been a treat but I have been working nonstop since we went to WFH 9 weeks ago…… I'm completely exhausted but the days have flown by. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Having someone ask me "can I start you off with drinks and an appetizer" 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My solid wi-fi connection and my husband. 4) What are you missing the most right now? My friends…and eating out!
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Founder of The Chicago International Film Festival, soon-to-be-author, film consultant, MICHAEL KUTZA: 1) What has saved you during lockdown?1) Netflix. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Going back to the movies at the Archlight. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time? Real movie theaters and vodka 4) What are you missing the most right now? Hanging out with friends like you and Chuck. Isolation doesn't bother me as I have always been isolated in movie theaters all my life, alone at Festivals. It's important to respect this Pandemic and take it seriously though.
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Artist, writer, historian, chef, bon vivant, THOMAS O'GORMAN: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? The most sustaining element has been painting. I have a very rigorous painting schedule each day, which means that I have paintings at all stages of progress and completion…But I know that I have to balance
the day with writing and some reading and study. Painting is the glue of my living. Being able to pick up a brush when I want is a great luxury. Discipline is very critical for a painter. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Quite literally just getting out of the house. My quarantine is not cosmetic. My cardio condition means I won’t get any second chances. I have to be very careful. I have not budged since March 13. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My laptop is indispensable….It's the first thing I check each morning and the last thing I see at night….I have 5,000 friends on
Facebook and my European friends are just getting started when I’m going to bed. I don’t have a television and I rely on my lap top for connecting me to the world. It's also critical to my literary world. In addition to my column [SKYLINE], which has its own deadlines, I’m working on two books, a history of Chicago and a cookery book. Cooking has always been a mainstay of my life. With painting and writing, cooking completes me. Rounds me out. 4) What
are you missing the most right now? I really miss the sociability of my life. Holding court at RL is very natural. The staff are all my buddies. I love the freedom I have with the menu. My soul gets fed there, too. Peter Axelsen, Jesus, Christopher, Molly, Anna and others have been a part of my life for ages. I miss them terribly, and the friends who gather there. I miss my friend Rose O’Neill, Myra Reilly, Diane O’Connell and Mark O’Malley. I miss bumping into my pals, Steve Lombardo and Johnny Coletti. The food I miss the most is West Coast oysters and crispy duck. I know that eventually we will all be together again. I’ve always been impatient. But I’ve gotten better.
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Do-gooder, philanthropist, father of Grayson, Chicago Financial Services Co-op Lending Manager MARK OLLEY: 1) What has saved and comforted you during this trying time? That I am not alone, I have my husband to talk and laugh with, my family and friends to ZOOM with. Learning new skills, cutting hair, and
cooking… wait I need to add these skill sets to my resume! But our pup GRAYSON is a delight 24/7 he's our home's "healer and chief". And of course, we are all truly in this together. 2) What are you most looking forward to? Our FREEDOM- to come and go as we please, hold those we love close. I am a HUGGER this social distancing thing is simply is not in my DNA…3) Name one item you found you couldn't live without? My daily morning Starbuck's visit. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Big picture- Travel, close to home- Personal grooming (it truly takes a village!)
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Editor-in-Chief/ Publisher Chicago Magazine, mother of Gus, lover of children and animals, print genius, SUSANNA HOMAN: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? My dachshund-mix,
[PAWS] rescue, Gus! I have never had the chance to spend this much time with him, and our bond keeps growing stronger. In the moments where the anxiety of this time is almost too much to bear, holding him makes it all better. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? I miss my parents, so most certainly visiting them, but also just a nice dinner at one of
my favorite restaurants, like Piccolo Sogno, would feel like New Year's Eve right now. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. I invested in a new iPhone a couple of weeks before the lockdown began, not realizing what a lifeline it would become. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Spending time with my godchildren, CJ (who is 10) and Gia (who just turned 2). I typically babysit a couple of times a month, so I'm definitely missing the cuteness and the hugs.
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Author, historian, publisher Classic Chicago magazine MEGAN MCKINNEY: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? I’m very fortunate because my life has changed very little. For almost five years I have worked all day in my office at home. My 
Classic Chicago business partner, Judy Carmack Bross, does the same. We meet by telephone several mornings a week and constantly by email. It was a pleasant routine and the lack of change has been very comforting. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? I’m looking forward most to long walks through the Gold Coast and along the lakefront in beautiful warm weather. And restaurants. I so miss sinking into a banquette at RL or Tortoise Supper Club for an afternoon of talk and lunch with longtime friends. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My computer. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Second Tuesday lunches at RL.
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Director of Special Events at Brian Atwood Designs, charity champion, fashionista, YOLANDA "DUSTY" STEMER: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? Having a brilliant Infectious Disease Expert sleeping next to me each night. Alex [Stemer] has been on calls and conferences with Rush, UNC and heads the Symphony system Covid response team for patients and staff. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? We are
lucky to be in Indiana and be able to walk to the beach and the Dunes, but we are looking forward to enjoying dinner out with friends. And dare to dream of maybe being on an airplane going to a favorite vaca spot. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. Tequila and our BFF Jerry Mickelson!! 4) What are you missing the most right now? It's amazing how you miss human contact, whether it's family, friends or just seeing people in a grocery store. Zoom just doesn't replace the real thing!! I want to be normal again.
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Managing Partner at Gibsons Restaurant Group, do-gooder, girl's girl, people lover, Hostess with the Mostest, KATHY O'MALLEY PICCONE: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? Most of all, my Faith and the Love and caring of my family and dear friends. Watching the goodness of people giving back. "Surprise" gifts, flowers and dinners being delivered. Never expected…So grateful. It warms my heart to order from local restaurants. 2) What are you most looking forward to
when this is all over. My morning pilates and "Calm," taking deep breathes for the anxiety of the unknown. Music… Reading ..and some movies.. Above all Staying Positive. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Simple Joys, a walk around the block will have a new meaning…never taking things
for granted. Gathering of friends. The awakening of things to come, for many to return to basics and kindness we were all born to share. Also looking forward to working with people again. I am such a nurturing, giving and caring person in need of social interaction, especially being in the hospitality business most of my life. I miss my Gibsons family and customers. 3) Name one item you couldn't live without during this time. The Internet …new ways to communicate. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Hugging my family and Friends, prosperity and just being free to come and go without second guessing. And let's not forget my hair salon, manicures and pedicures…LOL!
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John Reilly Photography Partner, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago superstar, elegant MYRA REILLY and her photog superstar husband JOHN REILLY, Principal John Reilly Photography: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? That we are doing this together–cooking together and being able to work in our garden together and, most importantly, being able to have church services online. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? John can’t wait to get back to the studio and photographing, me, I miss seeing my family and giving them a big hug. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. They both said "each other"! And, together, we thank God for this time of reflection. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Being with friends and family and socializing with our “peeps”!
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I watched Oprah's greatly anticipated commencement speech for the Class of 2020 on May 15. She sure knows how to fire up a room. During the 90 minute live-streamed ceremony (I watched it on Facebook but know it appeared on other channels too), co-hosted by Mindy Kaling and B.J. Novak, a variety of stars gave advice to the graduating seniors including Jennifer Garner, Awkwafina, Amy Schumer, Matthew
McConaughey, Gloria Estefan, Selena Gomez, Ashley Graham, Gordon Ramsey, Marlee Matlin, Steve Harvey, Usher, Sebastian Maniscalco, Tim Tebow, Andy Cohen, Rob Lowe, musician Marshmallow, Dice Nice, Hugh Jackman, supermodel Winnie Harlow, Simone Biles, John Mayer and dozens of others. Even Cookie Monster made an appearance! The ceremony acknowledged high schools and colleges in the U.S. by name, state by state, that included photos and videos of the class of 2020 and messages from students, deans and principals from across the country. Miley Cyrus "sang" " her hit song "The Climb" although it looked more like lip-synching to me (but at least she was there).
Jennifer Garner introduced a spectacular group of high school students called the "Intonations" that sang a capella in perfect harmony. One of the many students spotlighted was Ashley Lawrence, a senior studying education for the deaf and hard of hearing at Eastern
Kentucky University. She created face masks for the hearing impaired that has a clear plastic window in the middle for lip reading. Genius! Brava Ashley! You're already a difference-maker! Here are some comments/advice the celebs had for the class of 2020: John Mayer–"I don't have to wait on the world to change anymore because I know, more than ever, that the
generation you're in has this handled." Matthew McConaughey–"Don't worry if you're not quite sure what you want to do in life. I'm 50 and have many days where I'm still not quite sure what I want to be. But I work on it, stay the process and try to enjoy it as much as I can." Simone Biles (world's most decorated gymnast)–"As an athlete, there's nothing quite like the
bus ride home after a win. You're happy because you've nailed it. This is your bus ride home. Your victory lap. I know you're missing your medal ceremony but that ceremony doesn't change a thing. You've already won." Steve Harvey-" It's the dreams I had in high school
that made me what I am today. I'm a major, major star. I ain't messing around man. If it happened to me, why can't it happen to you? You have to lock in on that dream and never give up." Tim Tebow (all American quarterback)–"Life is not about tomorrow, it's not about the next day. It's about this day. And every day when you show up, know that you can show up with purpose and passion, every single day." Marshmallow-"Really look at yourself and ask what do I love doing, what makes me happy?" Rob Lowe–"Right now, you all have the ability to be the greatest generation the world has ever seen." Comedian Sebastian Maniscalco–"Whatever you do, do it 150%!" And now, to watch Oprah's powerful and inspiring commencement address, click HERE! (Congrats to the Class of 2020! May you light up the world with your good work!) The Facebook Watch group for this event numbered nearly 60,000 viewers.
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Bright Futures' Youth Guidance presented a spectacular virtual gala recently, raising over $1.1 million!! The event, co-chaired by Kimberly and Jim Mills, featured a donation segment led by auctioneer extraordinaire Greg "G-Man" Dellinger" with guest
appearances interspersed throughout that included an opener/welcome from former President Barack Obama. Young people shared the impact the organization had in their lives through its various
initiatives and basketball star Jimmy Butler shared some inspiration for the kids. At the top donor level of $25,000, donations came in from Doug Walker, Mark Gerstein, Kimberly and Jim Mills, John and Diana Raitt, Maria Green and Greg Lewis and others. Auctioneer Dellinger became very emotional as the numbers climbed calling the supporters "change-makers for the kids." The event concluded with a heartfelt thank you from Youth Guidance CEO Michelle Morrison. The event will support the nonprofit's mission of supporting elementary and high school students through its many mentoring and counseling programs. The organization directly serves about 13,000 youth while touching the lives of hundreds more parents, schools and local communities.
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For all of the fans of Bob Mariano (and who isn't?), I have great news! In a breaking story by Crain's Chicago, Bob is returning to the grocery industry with a $10 million investment to create a new chain aimed at combining shopping, restaurant dining and home delivery! The article by Dalton Barker, states: "The
new venture, Dom’s Market & Kitchen, is planned for a March 2021 debut at a yet-to-be announced Lincoln Park location. The small-format store will feature specialty foods and take-home and dine-in meals prepared in an open kitchen. Groceries and meal-kits will also be available for delivery, according to a statement from the new company. It plans to add Chicago locations, focusing on urban neighborhoods, once its Lincoln Park spot is up and running. Mariano is partnering with fellow industry veterans Jay Owen and Don Fitzgerald to jumpstart the venture." Huge congrats Nina and Bob! We need YOU!!!
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For all those living on the North Shore, here's a great offer from a photographer/friend of mine Jeff Cohen Photography! He says, "After two+ months of creative inactivity, TV binge watching along with eating and drinking to excess, I’ve decided to get my butt off the couch and support those on the front lines fighting Covid-19 or who have been adversely affected by the virus. For a minimum donation of $50 to a First Responder’s charity or a local food bank, I'll come to your home or
apartment and photograph your family in the safety and comfort of your porch or backyard. We'll gather for a 15 minute session of picture taking while keeping a safe distance. Within a few days I’ll send a high resolution gallery of images you can post on social media or make into prints. You'll have a bit of fun with your family, receive a record of this strange time and most important you'll help support a worthy cause. And for me I'll know my time, energy and creativity are helping those who are fighting the good fight every day. That's enough for me." What a great idea Jeff! Contact him here for more details and to book a day and time. Jeff@JeffCohenPhotography.com This offer expires 6/30/ North Shore Area Only. (And one more thing, Jeff knows his stuff, he was a senior art director for Playboy Magazine!)
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During this time of isolation, music can be an especially uplifting and powerful way to bring the community together, while still observing social distancing. I love the sounds and songs coming from the balconies around the city every night at 8 pm. And now, The Peninsula Chicago is joining in the fun by offering live, upbeat music to celebrate the city and pay tribute to frontline responders. Listen for the trio on the Z Bar's rooftop terrace every Thursday at 8 pm. They play for 15 to 20 minutes! Area residents and responders can listen and sing along from their homes, or via a LIVE streaming broadcast on Facebook @peninsulachicago and Instagram @thepeninsulachi
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If you're so inclined and have the means, please consider donating to the Chicago Independent Media Alliance – CIMA's month-long fundraising initiative, Save Chicago Media, to help support local Chicago news outlets. On this website, http://www.savechicagomedia.org, through June 5, you can donate one amount to be shared equally by the 43 outlets, or you can select individual outlets to give funds to. All money, up to $40,000, will be matched by generous local foundations. We need local, authentic media outlets to survive to tell the stories from and for their communities. Click here to choose an outlet and to donate. Any amount will make a difference.
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PAWS Chicago's annual Beach Party is going virtual! Mark your calendars now for Thursday, July 23, 7 pm! Expect a 
doggie swimsuit contest, Second City comedians, local celebs, a silent auction and so much more! Check their website here for deets coming soon!
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Thanks again Gabby Road with Hannah, Fred & Justin for having me back! Loved chatting with you about Playboy; the nonprofit community; how events will look moving forward; working (or not) during a pandemic and so much more! If you missed it, please listen here!
MARK YOUR CALENDARS! Join Dr. Sandy Goldberg and her A Silver Lining Foundation for their 16th annual Gala on Saturday, October 3 at the Hyatt Regency McCormick Place! Now, more than ever, this org needs your help in providing men and women with cost-free breast health testing. So many have lost their jobs and insurance so this year's event will be critical to support these life-saving needs. For tickets, more info, call 312.345.1322 or click here!
Congrats Tiana Jackson! Hard work and determination pays off, just ask Union League Boys & Girls Clubs member Tiana, who has been selected to represent Illinois in the upcoming Boys & Girls Clubs of America’s Youth of the Year Midwest Regional Competition. She makes history as ULBGC's first state winner since the competition started 73 years ago!
I've been blogging on my own since 2008 but, this month, marks my 11th anniversary as a blogger/writer for ChicagoNow! The Chicago Now blogging platform is part 
of the Chicago Tribune. It's the home of over 300 top Chicago bloggers. If you'd like to check it out, please click here! (Thanks for bringing me on Bill Adee!) The site is masterfully helmed by Matt Schwerha!
Big thanks to Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas! Her office is waiving interest on late property tax payments for two months which will give taxpayers financial relief and more time to manage their finances. This is one politician who truly cares.
Kudos to designer Lauren Lein! She made and donated dozens of masks to the good folks at Citadel Waterford, a retirement home on Sheridan Road. Her good friend Julia Jacobs help facilitate this mission of mercy and now, as you can see, everyone is happier and safer! Good job Lauren!
How cool is this for Memorial Day Weekend!? Gibsons Bar 
& Steakhouse is offering GRILL MEAL KITS! Love this idea! Check out the menu and have a great holiday weekend! Long may you grill!
It seems my blogs get longer and longer. I don't know how there can be so much news when we can't go anywhere, but I'm happy to share! In spite of it all, there are lots of happy moments, events and successes happening all around us so I hope you've enjoyed this latest edition and I hope you tell your friends!
As for us, we're off for a little road trip to Lake Geneva for Memorial Day Weekend. I've packed all of our masks and plastic gloves and have firmly decided that this virus won't keep us down for long. We're celebrating where, when and how we can, safely and respectfully. Hope you have a wonderful holiday weekend too!
Love, as always,
Candace
P.S. This darling, bird-brained video is sure to take your mind off Covid!
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