Plus: Superstars of the Chicago Costume Council's Men's Fashion Awards; Service Club's "Day in the Country" (with apples); Gilda's Club Chicago's "Yes, And…An Improvised Gala"; TPAN's "Dining Out for Life" virtual party; Cancer Wellness Mag's "Loudest Voices" feature; Denise's "Eleanor" coming soon; The BEST Watch party for the Adler's Celestial Ball; "The Wings to Cure" for the Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation; Silver Paws Gala for Young at Heart; Luminart's "Next Begins NOW"; "Still Together at Home" for Prentice; Danica's wine passion; Road trip to Saugatuck; REV UP! honors Sherrill; Chicago Lighthouse's fabulous FLAIR is coming SOON; The Service Club's Phantom Gala; Hoda Kotb will host LSCRF benefit; USO of Illinois' patriotic Salute Gala; This & That; Charming videos and SOOO much more!
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The Holiday Heroes broke fundraising goals with its first virtual fundraiser! Congratulations to this wonderful organization, its executive director Felicia Winiecki and the whole team on its first virtual event held on September 17! The goal was $200,000 and the night raised over $277,000 (and counting!) People tuned in from all over the country to view the event on various platforms: the nonprofit's website, a custom website (HolidayHeroesTV.com), YouTube LIVE and Roku TV with an estimated viewership of 4,353. Now that IS some joyous news and, from what I've seen of recent virtual fundraisers, it seems to be the norm. Supporters of these nonprofits are steadfast and know, that in times like these, they need to step up and boy have they ever! Almost all of the virtual events I've covered
have reached their goals, gone beyond and in some cases, broke all fundraising records! Methinks, even though we all love to be together at galas, that many of these nonprofits will always have some sort of virtual component included in their fundraising plans. Anyway, back to the main event! The 90 minute "Midway MASK-erade" began with a pre-show where Felicia, along with event host Paul Konrad (WGN-TV), explained the nonprofit's noble mission, to bring joy and entertainment to hospitalized kids (and families) battling life-threatening illnesses through days of play with themed activities and parties. The pre-show included comments from sponsors and VIPS: Stuart Baum (HH
president); Lindy Antonelli (Armanino); Teresa Zagar (RSM); Josh Spencer (HH board chair); Neil Beaton (Alvarez & Marsal managing partner); Brandt Kucharski (GrubHub chief accounting officer); David Nessen (Mueller CEO/Pres); Kam Kniss (Wintrust CEO); Ted Botts (Baker McKenzie partner) and others. Mark Wagner, everyone's favorite bartender from Gibson's Steakhouse taught us all how to mix the signature drink, a Midway MASK-uerade Martini. Greg "G-Man"
Dellinger introduced the first auction item of the night, a concert for 4 with Luke Combs, the country-western superstar who was just named Country Artist of the Year at the CMAs. Jessica McClure, a volunteer who visits kids in hospitals on behalf of Holiday Heroes dressed as various super heroes during the night, and accompanied Greg in auction presentations dressed as different characters. Lucy Carapetyan, The Actors Gymnasium Special Events
Manager, introduced performers in a fabulous juggling act and contortionist Kathleen Hoil twisted her body like a pretzel before the second auction item, a trip to the Florida Keys for 10, was offered. The Heart of the Hero Award, the organization's highest honor, went to longtime supporters Nancy and Art Hudson. Their daughter Arlie and son Reed spoke lovingly about their parent's humility and how they always prefer to "fly under the radar and make positive life-altering impacts
on those around them quietly." The Hudsons donated a van that is colorfully wrapped in HH messaging for hospital visits. The auctioneer then presented a deluxe golf package that featured foursomes at courses throughout the region including Butterfield, Olympia Fields, Crystal Lake, Glen Oak, Rolling Green and Big Foot Country Clubs. Another package featured a dinner for 12 with celebrity Chef Charles Webb.
Rare bottles of Pappy Van Winkle Bourbon were donated for auction by a supporter from his own cellar. Magician Ben Seidman performed sleight of hand before a powerful impact video featuring Britta and Eric Peterman. The Petermans spoke movingly about caring for their son Eli, who was diagnosed with muscular dystrophy when he was 8
months old and how Holiday Heroes kept all of their spirits up. Mom Britta said, "Holiday Heroes brings joy and hope. I think finding things that can put smiles on kids' and family's faces is the best medicine anyone could have
when you're going through the most stressful time of your lives." Eli sadly passed away in 2020. Grammy Award-winner Jeff Tweedy, Chicago native, guitarist and lead singer for the band WILCO, performed a song he had written specially for the event, "One and a Half Stars" about a mother's love for her child. Jessica McClure, dressed in full Wonder
Woman attire, summed up the impact of the nonprofit, "The Holiday Heroes team knows exactly what these children and their families need, inside and out. It's a beautiful way to remind people that in their darkest days, there is hope and they ARE strong enough to get through it." The event was expertly produced by Scott Steele of Steele Media Group and it truly felt like a trip to the circus, with so many well-timed moving parts and top-notch entertainment. The popular cover band Sixteen Candles closed the show singing "I Think We're Alone Now." Congrats to ALL! (To learn more about The Holiday Heroes, or to donate, please click here.)
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The Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum is sure thinking on its virtual feet. The event they planned to raise awareness and funds for the Museum was so cool! The annual Chicago Men's Fashion Awards (CMFAs), typically a very chic fundraiser held at some high end retail store with Chicago's top fashionistas, went virtual this year with a digital campaign photographed by Sandro Miller. The CMFAs honors the city's best-dressed men and, this year, 10 were chosen, not only for their fashion sense but also for their philanthropy in the community. They included, in no
particular order: Kareem K.W.O.E. Wells, a Level Next Music Recording artist, CEO of Flow Entertainment and founder of the KWOE Foundation, a nonprofit that uses music to help kids reject violence. 
Gary Metzner, the 2nd honoree is the VP/head of office, Sotheby's Chicago. He said the best advice he was ever given was to switch from business school to art history. He's raised millions for charity as an auctioneer. Dr. Julius Few, a renowned plastic surgeon, gives back through his Few Initiative 
for Children. He also recently partnered with the Common Ground Foundation to aid students in need with school and after-school programming. Andrew Caruso works in luxury retail and,during the pandemic, has been rounding up his co-workers to help make donations to food banks, Black 
Lives Matter and social justice causes. Rino Burdi is a much loved fashion designer and owner of Burdi's men's store on Walton. He supports several charitable organizations (and I can vouch for this having seen his high-end donations on a regular basis), and especially those involving dogs and kids. David Sanchez, a much loved former model who is now an entrepreneur CEO, talent agent and educator, is a supporter of The Boys & Girls Clubs and The Chicago Fashion Incubator. He said, "I believe my job is to be of service to others, every day. I use my knowledge, my voice and my gifts to bring people together, and that is 
how I can go to bed happy at night knowing I'm doing 
my part to see people succeed." Mark Bundra founded ALL IN Lacrosse, a business centered around helping young athletes achieve their personal and athletic goals through private and small group lacrosse instruction. He works very closely with OWLS (Outreach with Lacrosse in Schools), a nonprofit that provides mentorship and access to scholarships, improving the academic and social outcomes of the youth it serves. Daryl Sneed has his 
feet planted firmly in both the creative and business worlds. He's a healthcare consultant as well as the founder/lead designer for the women's modern heritage brand, Ricorso, and in 
2016, he co-founded the lifestyle brand SOUNDOFF as CEO and co-creative. He's a lover and supporter of Chicago's arts and dance community, especially The Joffrey Ballet, Hubbard Street Dance Chicago and the CSO. Lee Allison is a men's accessories and clothing designer. His two best pieces of advice: Don't over-think things and don't pursue perfection when good is good enough. During the pandemic, he's been creating tailored face masks from men's Italian shirting and, with every purchase, there's a donation to Feeding America (so far, he's raised over $2,000). And last, but certainly not least, we have Joshua Blake Carter who works with Giordano Dance Chicago as the director of Giordano II. Additionally, he's an award-winning freelance choreographer and teaching artist as well as a longtime advocate and volunteer for Chicago Dancers United and Dance for Life. I know most of these exceptional men and was honored to have collaborated on the Q&A for each profile. Check them all out here and congrats to all!
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In years past, The Service Club of Chicago's Day in the Country was what we know today as Day on the Terrace, a day of fashion at a suburban estate. Well, in 2020, Service Club re-visited the Day in the Country
theme and brought it back to life with an afternoon of fundraising and apple picking! Wednesday, September 16th, was a beautiful, sunny day, perfect for a visit to Heather Spyra’s home in Spring Grove. Heather and her husband Eric greeted visitors, as well as the darling miniature horses from Mane in Heaven, a nonprofit that provides therapeutic benefits to disabled children. The horses were one of the many hits of the day! City guests arrived via shuttle bus (with
champagne, of course), and all guests enjoyed a wonderful box lunch under a tent in Heather’s yard, beautifully decorated for the Fall season. After lunch, the group set off to Stades Farm in McHenry for apple picking! Not only did they walk the orchards and pick apples to take home, but the Farm Store was also a big hit with the ladies as they oohed and ahhed over the fresh produce and delectable bakery items. The entire day from start-to-finish was socially distanced and safe per the rules of the day. During an earlier Zoom meeting discussing this event, members
challenged Service Club President Sherrill Bodine to don a pair of overalls for the event and lots of donations poured in! SC member Cheri Lawrence then offered to match every donation. Sherrill looked gorgeous as always, and all
pledges went to support the group’s Philanthropic Grant Fund for 2021. The Development Committee of Service Club, chaired by Cheryl Coleman and Bobbi Panter, is charged with developing new and innovative funding ideas. Day in the Country succeeded in that mission. As Sherrill Bodine told the audience, ”It’s a
beautiful day, and a great event. My thanks to all of you for ensuring that our mission of service continues for our city and those who need us." Roughly 40 ladies traveled to the country for the event raising nearly $15K for their mission–to assist, improve and expand upon agency programs for nonprofits in the Chicagoland area. Its grant recipients operate in the areas of social service, cultural, educational and civic fields and they serve individuals all over greater Chicagoland. The SC is an all-volunteer women's organization founded in 1890. All proceeds raised are distributed to the worthiest 501c3 agencies in the community.
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It was all about supporting local restaurants and TPAN when Dining Out for Life was held on September 24. On this day (and year-round), people are encouraged to dine out at restaurants who have supported TPAN and its mission of providing love and support for people affected by HIV across Chicagoland. A virtual event followed hosted by Bryant
Dunbar (TPAN Director of Development) and curated and hosted by Izzie Contagious, Kiki Queens' president/founder. (Kiki Queens is a live-singing charity drag troupe that
donates every dollar they raise to Chicago nonprofits.) The virtual production made you feel like you were watching a spectacular musical and, indeed, many of the participating artists have appeared on Broadway. Tom Vendafreddo, founder/director of Chicago Artists Chorale, opened the show singing "Way Ahead of My Time", a song about a cave man's son coming out. Joseph Anthony Byrd ("Kinky Boots," "Lion King") sang a duet with Austin Head, "Not My Father's Son" (from "Kinky Boots"). Juilliard trained opera singer, Michael St. Peter played the piano and sang
"Corner of the Sky" from "Pippin." He said the theme of the song, about finding your purpose in life and a sense of belonging in the world, is what TPAN is doing for so many people, specifically in the LGBTQ+ community. Co-host Briant Dunbar spoke about TPAN's impact. "We serve 100s of people affected by HIV right here in Chicago, more than 335 LGBTQ+, primarily street homeless and unstably housed young adults who come to us because they often have nowhere else to turn to for care and
services. We're also a home for healthcare and support for older adults, many long term survivors of HIV, people who have been lived with HIV for decades and are going down the path of life and need our care and support" he said. Vendafreddo returned to sing "Get Happy" with Broadway vet Marya Grandy and closed the show with, what he called, the community's
unofficial anthem about being "out" and proud of who you are, "I Am What I Am" from "La Cage aux Folles". The song's composer Jerry Herman was diagnosed with HIV in 1985 and passed away in
2019. Drag performer and co-founder of Kiki Queens, Venus Envy, sang "Everybody's Girl" in a skintight red sequined mini dress. Other artists included Heather Boehm ("Hamilton," violinist and president of Theatre Musicians Association); Michael McBride (singer, keyboardist), Trevor Perry (vocalist, performance artist "Gwendolyn Van Cartier") and others. The evening ended with Venus Envy singing a medley of dance music from the 70s that included "Hot Stuff", "She Works Hard for the Money", Toot Toot Beep Beep" and more.
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Gilda's Club Chicago presented a virtual fundraiser, "Yes, And…An Improvised Gala" on Friday, September 25. The event was produced by The Second City and included presentations from alums and present members plus a variety of other celebs and notables. Gilda's Club Chicago is a place where men, women and children whose lives have been impacted by cancer, as well as their family and friends, can find support. The Clubs were founded in 1995, after its namesake, Gilda Radner, lost her battle with ovarian cancer. Her
husband, Gene Wilder, and friends opened the first "red door" in NYC in her honor. Since then, Gilda's Clubs have sprang up across the country in collaboration with The Wellness Community. On this night, Jon Harris and Larry Wert, a true dynamic duo, teamed up as co-
emcees. The evening included impact videos and celebrity shout-outs and opened with remarks from LauraJane Hyde, GCC CEO. She spoke about how we have all been resilient, and have survived by improvising and how this year has confirmed the importance of their mission. She said, "Cancer doesn't discriminate. We have bonded as a community." Singer/songwriter Steven Page, one of the founders of Barenaked Ladies, sang his hit song, "It's All Been Done Before" and a new song he just wrote during the pandemic called
"Isolation." NBC's Al Roker sent in a video congratulating the nonprofit for serving over 50,000
members since it's opening. Joel Murray ("Mad Men", "Dharma and Greg," "Shameless") remembered how he and all his brothers fell in love with Gilda especially after a rainy night out with their mother. Gilda raced back to her apartment just to get a raincoat for their mom and they never forgot her kindness. He said, "Thanks to Gilda's Club for being there during people's hardest times and for reminding them
that they are loved." Testimonials came in from Raymond, Meghan and Aidy Bryant (of
"Saturday Night Live"). They all spoke of the impact GCC has had on their lives. Raymond, who was diagnosed with prostate cancer 6 1/2 years ago, said the "emotional benefits of the Wellness Group is profound and that the sense of community is so empowering." Actress Bonnie Hunt delivered a very heartfelt message about being an oncology nurse and having her niece go through a cancer journey. Jarrett Payton also sent a video sharing his support of GCC. The evening closed with Bradford Newquist (GCC Director of Development) performing several standards including the very timely "Don't Get Around Much Anymore" by jazz great Duke
Ellington. (I was proud to be a part of this evening too, submitting a video and speaking about my longtime support
and involvement with this great organization and how much it means to so many.) (For more info, and to support, Gilda's Club Chicago, click here). GCC is now running over 150 virtual programs per month such as support groups, lectures, healthy lifestyle activities and more, to keep the community connected, active and engaged while they're apart. (See virtual calendar here for programming).
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Many thanks to Cancer Wellness magazine (and founder Caylei Vogelzang) for including me in its "Leading Ladies of News: Loudest Voices" cover feature! The "Women's Health Issue" features one of my favorite media peeps,
ABC-7's Tracy Butler (who is a breast cancer survivor), as its beautiful cover star. Other media friends included are: NBC-5's Zoraida Sambolin (also a breast cancer survivor/advocate); NBC-5's LeeAnn Trotter (who lost her mother to breast cancer and is an advocate); ABC-7's Roz Varon (a breast cancer survivor/advocate); Whitney Reynolds (advocate) and me (Chuck was diagnosed with colon cancer in 2013 and I support many cancer related nonprofits). The article was beautifully written by Taylor Novak with photos by Katrina Wittkamp and Sarah Bell. (To read/see digital mag, click here and to order, click here!) What an honor, so grateful.
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"Eleanor's Very Merry Christmas Wish" is a book for ALL ages written by my friend Denise McGowan Tracy! It's a charming tale of a toy who's "left behind" and her journey to find happiness. I don't want to give the story away but the book is filled with all kinds of wonderful
inspiration for kids. It teaches them to never give up, have hope, remain joyful and positive and be a good friend. Actually, this is something we all need to learn! Loved it from beginning to end and the beautifully rendered illustrations by John Michael Downs make you feel like you are right there at the North Pole. It's much more than a Christmas story and would make a great gift too. Last year, this wonderful book was made into a play (where even Santa was on hand as a special treat for the kids) but, this year, due to Covid, the book's magical story will be live-streamed so you can watch it in the comfort of your own home. Perfect for a wintry night as you wait to hear hooves on the roof! (Order here ,coming soon!) and I'll share live-stream info as soon as it becomes available).
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Chuck and I were invited to the most delightful (black tie!) Watch Party for the Adler Planetarium's virtual Celestial Ball celebrating its 90th anniversary on
Saturday, Sept. 12. The party was hosted by Sugar & Spice (Almira (Sugar) Yllana and her darling twin sister Gio (Spice) Krozel) at the LondonHouse Cupola with a few of their good friends. Party people included John and Tina Nassos, Khalil Pillai, Scott Lutz, Ken Krozel, Robert App, Cindy Davidson, Ilenia Lutz, Parmita Katkar and others. Almira and Gio are Adler board members and are such an asset to this organization. Decor for the party included everything from Outer Space Barbies to Nike Limited Edition Moon Shoes! Even Rosemary Fanti and her dear Richard Koranda were on hand creating portrait keepsakes! Thanks to LondonHouse GM Homero Villarreal for a great night too! Yes, it was a STELLAR event! (To learn more about this cultural gem, click here: adlerplanetarium.org)
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The Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation will host this year's "The Wings to Cure" event virtually on November 14, at 6 pm. The Foundation was founded by Eleni Bousis, with friends, who will be chairing the event along with Dr. Leonidas Platanias (director, Robert H. Lurie Comprehensive Cancer Center of Northwestern University). The Foundation was created in 2014 by "four compassionate people who wanted to make a difference for humanity and those impacted by hearing the word cancer." (For event details, click here.)
Young at Heart Senior Pet Rescue will host its annual 
Reminders! Don't miss Luminarts "Next Begins Now" virtual event on Saturday, October 10 at 6 pm. The event will be co-chaired by Matt Olaveson, Adam Vitale and Kylie Krizek to help provide resources for young, talented artists to launch a career in the arts. (Details here!)
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Friends of Prentice's "Still Together at Home" will be held virtually on Saturday, Oct.24 at 7:30 pm to support women's healthcare. (Details here!) Misericordia will host its "Heart of Mercy Ball "virtually on Wednesday, Oct. 14 at 6 pm to support its programming and housing for children and adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities. (For details, click here).
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Planning for this year's FLAIR fashion show to benefit The Chicago Lighthouse is moving along at lightening
speed. All the models have been fitted and will be taping their segments shortly. Now all we need is YOU! Please join us on Friday, Oct. 16 at 11 am when I'll be co-hosting with show producer Tracey DiBuono (ZZAZZ Productions) to raise funds for this wonderful nonprofit that provides love, care and support for the blind, visually impaired or disabled. Co-chaired by Sherrill Bodine and Sherree Valukas, the event will be a blast for this worthy cause. (See video promo here and register here for the virtual show!)
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The Service Club of Chicago will host its "Phantom Gala" from October 12-22. This virtual on-line campaign, co-hosted by SC members Mary Lasky, Kristine Kinder, Mary Claire Moll and Tina Weller, will feature a super DELUXE Live Auction and so much more! Proceeds will support the organization's Philanthropic Grant Program which provides funds to nonprofits for items they need to serve their community. (All info here!)
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Also, please mark your calendars for REV UP! 2020! We're going virtual, of course, on Thursday, October 29, 6 pm, to support the Apparel Industry Foundation which provides scholarships, education programming, vocational training and more to Chicago's design community. This year, we will honor the one and only Sherrill Bodine with some of our city's most popular designers! Proud to host this big night with fashion show production by ZZAZZ! Join us! (All details here!)
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The Lynn Sage Cancer Research Foundation will host its virtual Fall Benefit on Thursday, Oct. 22 at noon. This year's celebrity 
keynote speaker/host will be Hoda Kotb, co-host of NBC's Today Show, a four-time Emmy winner, New York Times best-selling author and a breast cancer survivor. Another featured speaker will be Ceta Walters, founder Clark & Stone, an LSCRF board member and cancer survivor. For all the info and to register, click here!
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At the opening of Nobu, Chuck and I discovered a delightful new rosé created by world-renowned, retired race car driver Danica Patrick! Who knew?! Patrick teamed up with Nechio Novak private equity group on the product, Danica Rosé Wine, which is sourced in Provence. Her passion for wine began in her racing days which led to a purchase of a vineyard in Napa Valley, and finally to creating her own wine brand, Somnium. Now she can add this crisp and light rosé to her growing line of products. (Available online here and in retail stores nationwide in 2021).
The USO will host its virtual Salute Gala on Thursday, Oct. 
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Earlier this month, Chuck, Rooney and I took another little road trip to Michigan, this time to Saugatuck. I made plans for us to stay at a darling little retro motel called Starlite Resort at 3353 Blue Star Hwy. Believe
me, it wasn't luxurious but it was spotless and family-owned with an adorable pool, fire pits, hot tub and more, in a very charming setting off the road. It was like a step back in time to the '50s but with a cool modern vibe. I chose it because I loved the images I saw online and, more importantly, because it was very dog friendly. The weather was perfect and we toured like mad with the top
down on our convertible, visiting Oval Beach one evening to see the sunset (not there), enjoyed a root beer at the famous Douglas Root Beer Barrel (a local landmark since 1952), dinner at The Butler and Marro's, a visit to the fabulous (nearly 200 dealers) Saugatuck Antique Pavilion (2948 
Blue Star Highway), a visit to Tuck's of Saugatuck Christmas Store and so much more. We drove all along the lakefront, even down forbidden dead-end lanes which is how we discovered Lake Shore Resort. This little hidden lakefront gem, tucked away at 2885 Lakeshore Drive is the definition of peace and well-being. All you could hear were the birds and the waves lapping onto the beach below. I was told the rooms have all been redone and the landscaping is sheer perfection, it's an oasis of calm in a mad, mad world. I took all the info and, hopefully, we can try it sometime down the road. The trip, although short, was the perfect pandemic antidote.
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Sadly, this trip was the last one with our lil' boy Rooney Rules, who we lost on October 1. Even though he was old, 16, he was in great health, playing, eating, drinking, until a freak accident on September 26. He either jumped or fell off the bed and we rushed him to Medvet but it was no good. He had severe spinal cord injury that paralyzed all four of his legs. He was still there in spirit but in so much pain. It was horrible to see him suffer. He was a rescue from PAWS Chicago who we were lucky to adopt on September 27, 2006. He was the sweetest little boy–we never heard him growl, saw him snap or bark a word in anger. He loved 
everything except other dogs and vacuum sweepers. He made us smile every single day of our lives and we never went anywhere without him. He's in every family photo and I can't imagine what life is going to be without him. I know everyone goes through this kind of pain and it's just unbearable but it would've been more unbearable to have lived life without knowing him. He'll always be our baby boy and he will always be loved and missed. Our hearts are breaking…Your many messages, words of support, flowers, texts, all lifted our hearts so much knowing that Rooney was so well loved. Thank you so much.
Love, as always,
Candace
P.S. Monkey magic!
