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December 30, 2021 · 3:35 pm

PARTIES, PEOPLE AND POSITIVITY–HERE’S TO A BIGGER, BRIGHTER, HEALTHIER NEW YEAR!

Bar Mar–a new venture from Gibsons Restaurant Group and Chef Jose Andres.

This past year has been trying but, we're still here, so there's much to be grateful for. I love seeing events cautiously return and was so happy to hug my friends again, even though this new variant is taking us back a step. Crime is off the charts with no end in sight but, I'm still hopeful this city will survive and thrive. I'm thrilled to see so many new restaurants opening up. Alex Dana just opened his 9th restaurant, this time in Millennium Park, and Gibsons Restaurant Group has partnered with Michelin starred Chef Jose Andres in some exciting new ventures which will keep our city on top of the foodie chain. On a sad note, we lost a 40-year institution, Yoshi's Cafe, in Lakeview. But, despite some

Navy Pier's Light Up the Lake helped light up Chicago.

setbacks, this holiday season has never been brighter, literally speaking. Rosemont debuted its AMAZE Light Festival this year with over 1 million lights in Impact Field. Six Flags' Holiday in the Park returned this year with both in-person and drive-thru options and, again, millions of lights. Navy Pier hosted Light Up the Lake inside Festival Hall and the

AMAZE–an AMAZING debut experience at Rosemont.

Botanic Garden's Lightscapes was a sell-out. Brookfield Zoo's Holiday Magic, at 40 years young, was the area's longest-running lights event. Lincoln Park Zoo's Zoolights is expected to bring in nearly $2.5 million this year for its bottom line and Morton Arboretum's Illumination surpassed 200,000 visitors this year. Yes, the city has never shined brighter, hopefully it will be a harbinger of good things to come for us next year. Shine on Chi! We're all rooting for YOU!

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2021 PAWS Chicago Founder Paula Fasseas with Randy and Fur Ball Emcees FOX 32's Jake Hamilton and Sylvia Perez photo by Sparenga Photograhy

Paula Fasseas, PAWS founder, with emcees Jake Hamilton and Sylvia Perez (Fox-32)

On Saturday night, November 12, the Drake Hotel was packed with 550 party-goers and 60 of their four-legged friends, to celebrate PAWS Chicago's 20th anniversary and its triumphant Fur Ball return. After a long pandemic hiatus, guests were thrilled to be back together again to raise funds for PAWS, the area's largest No-Kill animal

Canine guest in Gold Coast Room photo by Claire Demos

An adorable guest.

shelter. Co-chaired by Scott and Nancy Santi, the black-tie event was a sell-out with both the Gold Coast Room and the Grand Ballroom filled to the brim with guests and a lot of tail-wagging

PAWS Founder Paula Fasseas Tinsley Mortimer with Strawberry and Shortcake and Angie DeMars with Grace photo by Sparenga Photography

PAWS founder Paula Fasseas, Tinsley Mortimer, Angie DeMars and friends.

canines, many dressed to the nines. We saw pups in tuxes, tutus and sparkly coats on rhinestone-studded leashes and everyone seemed to be having a great time!

PAWS CEO Susanna Homan with Avi & Chris Wickham with Gus photo by Claire Demos (1)

PaWS CEO Susanna Homan and Chris Wickham and friends.

Upon arrival, supporters enjoyed cocktails in the French Room and the sounds of Guitarra Azul. Programs in both ballrooms were hosted by media personalities, Jake Hamilton and Sylvia Perez

Strawberry and Shortcake, Tinsley Mortimers rescue poodles.

in the Gold Coast Room and Natalie Bomke in the Grand Ballroom. The program consisted of the presentation of adoptable dogs, which garnered oohs and ahhs from the crowd. Tinsley Mortimer,

With dear friends and longtime PAWS supporters Bonnie and Jim Spurlock.

of the Real Housewives of New York City, went home with an adorable 3-pound Chihuahua which completed her family of two other rescue poodles. Paula Fasseas, PAWS founder, thanked the crowd and shared that since the organization's inception, the killing of homeless pets in Chicago has decreased by 91%, but she noted "there was still much more work to be done." Popular auctioneer David Goodman had the crowd digging deep into their pockets for live auction prizes that included a

Howard & Judy Tullman photo by Sparenga Photography

Longtime PAWS supporters Howard and Judy Tullman.

countryside villa in Barcelona for a week for 8 people (sold four times at $25K each); a truffle dinner for 9 prepared by Chef Fabio Viviani (sold for $17K); box seats at Elton John's Final Tour for 10 (sold for $21K) and 8

Kendra Gillams of WGCI with Philidelphia photo by Sparenga Photography

Kendra Gillams, WGCI, and friend.

days in St. Barth at a private villa for 6 PLUS a fly-in on a G-7 (sold for $40K). Following a buffet dinner, the live auction and a fund-a-cause, guests returned to the French Room to enjoy live music from Maggie Speaks (the band was underwritten by longtime supporters Melissa and Michael Canning). The event was sponsored by ITW, A. Marek Fine Jewelry and Wayne and Nan Kocourek.

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SC gala co-chairs Melinda Jakovich-Lagrange, Heather Spyra, Sherrill Bodine (outgoing SC president. Congrats to new pres Jean Antoniou!) and Lyn McKeaney.

The Service Club of Chicago;s annual gala, “Our Kind of Town CHICAGO….. And All That Jazz!," held on November 5th, was a successful night celebrating the organization’s 131st year of serving the greater

Paula Borg and Cheryl Coleman.

Chicagoland community. Nearly 250 guests donned their finest black-tie attire and filled the gorgeously renovated Grand Ballroom of The Four Seasons Chicago. Event co-chairs Melinda Jakovich-Lagrange, Lyn Z. McKeaney and Heather Spyra welcomed guests to the cocktail reception highlighted by a phenomenal silent auction featuring items such as designer handbags, stay-cations, and travel options. Guests were eager to greet the gala’s celebrity emcee, John O’Hurley, of Seinfeld and Broadway fame, who dazzled the audience

Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and Myra Reilly.

by performing a number from the hit play CHICAGO, where he had performed as Billy Flynn. The fabulous sounds of The Gold Coast All Stars and the majestic vision from Kehoe Designs warmed up the Ballroom. In welcoming the audience, the SC president, Sherrill Bodine, heralded the return of the

Sylvia and Kurt Muller.

“live” gala after a virtual event in 2020 and thanked all those present for truly “making a difference in the lives of others." In between courses, a live auction featured items such as Super Bowl 2022 tickets and fabulous experiences in France and Naples! An open call for donations was preceded by a knock-out video highlighting agencies that have benefited from the group’s Philanthropic Grant Fund, which is the gala's significant purpose. Raffle winners were pulled and then guests packed the dance floor. The Service Club Gala is always the largest fundraiser the group hosts every year, providing primary funding for its Philanthropic Grant program. This year’s event raised over $475,000.

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The Apparel Industry Board, Inc. (AIBI) hosted its 6th annual REV UP CHICAGO, a fashion show and scholarship award ceremony at Perillo Exotic Cars. Challenges from Covid-19 led to a hybrid in-person event and watch party of the pre-recorded fashion show. Designers included: Elda de la Rosa Couture, Lauren Lein, Ltd., Laurie Borsé, Rebellion, STAM and Swap & Strut. This year’s winner for the Designer in Residence Award went to

Elaine Hyde, Chicago Star publisher center, with friends.

Blair Goldman. The 1st place tuition scholarship winner is Irving Castañeda, the 2nd place tuition scholarship winner is Adilene Villalpando. Guests enjoyed specialty cocktails from Glenfiddich while sampling appetizers from Taqueria Chingon. It was a night of pampering with hair and make-up touch ups and a nail bar provided by Tricoci Salon & Spa. Special thanks to sponsors, Joe and Pat Perillo, who have been supporters of REV UP CHICAGO since its inception. I was so proud to serve as emcee and

Ambar Campos (AIBI ED) and Kat Anderson, AIBI member services coordinator.

have Chicago Star Media as the media sponsor. A special thank you to Gold Sponsors: Sherrill Bodine, Lauren and Thomas Cavanaugh, Susan Gohl, Caroline and Brian Joss, Scott Schroeder, Erica and Michael Strama, Xochil and Tim Scheer, Stanley Paul Foundation and Maria

One of Perillo's many exotic cars on display.

Vathis. This event raised $20,000 for the philanthropic arm of the Apparel Industry Foundation, Inc. (AIFI), a 501c3 charity. The Apparel Industry Board is the only official organization in Illinois specifically dedicated to the needs of the sewn products industry. AIBI nurtures and supports designers based in Greater Chicago and is constantly developing new programs to better serve and promote the industry as a whole. View the event below, which offered both live-stream and in-person viewing.

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Union League Boys & Girls Clubs, a nonprofit serving the after-school needs of over 15,000 youth from under-served neighborhoods, hosted Leaders in the Making Gala, its 44^th annual

Gala Chair Celine Fitzgerald (2nd left) ULBGC President and CEO Mary Ann Mahon Huels (center) and The Fitzgerald Family Foundation's Denise Shannon and Gerald Fitzgerald (l-r)

Gala Chair Celine Fitzgerald (2nd left), ULBGC President, CEO Mary Ann Mahon Huels (center) and The Fitzgerald Family Foundation's Denise, Shannon, and Gerald Fitzgerald (l-r)

benefit, on November 6 at the Union League Club of Chicago. This black-tie gala honored the

John Donnelly Union League Club Board President and Connie Donnelly

Connie Donnelly and John Donnelly, Union League Club Board President.

accomplishments of its young membership and raised funds for its continued youth development programs. “Traditionally, the Union League Boys & Girls Clubs gala has been a celebration of those who stand by the Clubs throughout the darkest of times, from its donors to its staff, with last year’s event honoring the individuals and corporations that assisted in distributing over 250,000 meals and providing a safe space during COVID. This year, they highlighted those who bring the most meaning to the 102-

Hector Perez (center), Union League Boys & Girls Clubs Senior Vice President.

year-old nonprofit—its 15,000 youth members,” said Gala Chairman, Union League Boys & Girls Clubs Trustee and rising philanthropist Celine Fitzgerald. “These bright and tenacious

Anastasia Hernandez, Club One Director, receiving 2021 Staff Inspirational Hero Award.

Chicago youth are truly the city’s Leaders in the Making.” The gala returned to the Union League Club following a virtual version in 2020 and attracted over 300 guests, occupying three floors of this elegant private club. The evening began with cocktails and a silent auction as well as a performance by a Luminarts jazz duet. After dinner, a “Fund the Mission” paddle raise and an after party followed with DJ and desserts. Gala sponsors included The Fitzgerald Family Foundation, Bernardi Securities, BMO Harris Bank, James Gillespie, The Shade Family Foundation, Chioros Properties, Mary & Lionel Go, Lauren & Andrew Jones, Peak Construction and Rothschild. Since its founding on December 26, 1919, as a foundation of

Principal Yashika Tippett-Eggleston of Air Force Academy High School, ULBGC's newest in-school programming site.

the Union League Club of Chicago, Union League Boys

Celine Fitzgerald (l) and Shannon Fitzgerald (r)

Celine and Shannon Fitzgerald.

& Girls Clubs have been serving youth in neighborhoods with the highest hardship index in Chicago; providing quality programming centered on academic success, good character and citizenship and healthy lifestyles. Today, Union League Boys & Girls Clubs serve over 15,000 youth members at ten well-equipped and professionally staffed inner-city Clubs that bring

Margaret Jahn (R), of the Gala Committee and Union League Boys & Girls Clubs Associate Board, Jake Wilkoff (L).

effective after-school programming to youth in the Pilsen, West Town, Humboldt Park, Bucktown, South Lawndale and Englewood communities. In addition to its Club sites, the non-profit also serves Court-detained youth assigned to Chicago’s Juvenile Temporary Detention Program and manages its own 247-acre summer camp in southern Wisconsin where Club youth have a chance to enjoy supervised outdoor activities not easily accessible in an urban environment. ULBGC recently announced it will open seven new school-based Club sites thanks to a five-year, $1.4 million annual grant from the national Nita M. Lowey 21^st Century Community Learning Centers funding organization.

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Designer Barbara Bates with Kevin Williams and Merle Hedgepath.

Beloved fashion designer Barbara Bates celebrated her 35th anniversary with a jam-packed show spotlighting her newest collection. During the runway presentation, live music was performed by the youth of Chicago West Side Community Music Center with

Lorraine Miller (Burrell Advertising) Dionne Williams

Lorraine Miller (Burrell Advertising) and Dionne Williams (D. Williams PR).

many Chicago notables and celebs coming out to celebrate this milestone occasion. Actress Lisa Raye and gospel singer BeBe Winans were celebrity models. Throughout the years Bates has dressed many celebs including Michael Jordan, Oprah Winfrey, Steve Harvey, Bernie Mac, Whitney Houston and so many more! Self taught designer Barbara has also been known for her fight against breast cancer and has raised over $500,000 for Mt. Sinai hospital in support of breast cancer patients. And, for over a decade, she has provided free prom gowns for Chicago's in-need high school seniors and most recently provided thousands of masks during Covid for Chicago's police officers. Congrats, with love Barbara!

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Navy Pier's Light Up the Lake, now through Jan. 2.

At Navy Pier's "Light Up the Lake" debut attraction, now through January 2, a magical wonderland awaits, all enclosed within the warm, inviting Festival Hall. First off, being enclosed is a big plus for families with kids who want to keep them comfortable and warm during our cold winters. Another plus is the carpeting, very thoughtful for one and all AND it provides traction for the kiddos as they dart around the sparkling exhibits–lighted ornaments, ginormous teddy bears, Christmas boxes, tunnels of lights, a 3-story Christmas tree and more. It was so heartwarming to see so many families out enjoying themselves after a long period of isolation. Couples walking hand in hand and taking photos with Santa and Mrs. Claus. Children squealing with delight on the mini-train tooling around Christmas cottages. Adults sipping spiked hot chocolate and enjoying a variety of delicious foods–funnel cakes, loaded latkes, smoked brisket sandwiches, cotton candy, funnel cake sundaes, beer, tequila cocktails, pastrami-spiced turkey sandwiches and so much more. There's even a cookie decorating kit for the kids! As we wandered throughout the 170,000-square-foot space, we felt the spirit of Christmas that is alive and well here. We sat for a while by the ice-skating rink watching as skaters, with varying levels of talent, swooped around to the sounds of the holidays. Beyond the rink, picnic tables were set up for dining with large fireplaces projected on screens above the tables. Thank you Navy Pier for all you do for the city of Chicago and its vital tourism trade. You are always thinking of ways to make us smile. (www.NavyPier.org)

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Happy 150th Palmer House!

The historic Palmer House, a Hilton Hotel, celebrated its 150^th anniversary December 8. A ceremony and celebration took place in the hotel's grand lobby before a crowd of fans, friends and media. The event honored both the milestone anniversary and National Brownie Day (paying homage to the original brownie recipe that was invented at the hotel). The lobby came alive with digital projections of historic photos along the walls, a gallery of never-before-seen historic artifacts and a proclamation from the Mayor Lori Lightfoot declaring today to be "Palmer House, a Hilton Hotel Day in Chicago, in celebration of 150 years of history, elegance and hospitality." The State of Illinois also issued a proclamation honoring the hotel. The Palmer House first opened on September 26, 1871. The hotel began as an extravagant wedding gift from Potter Palmer to his bride Bertha Honore and was immediately regarded as one of the most luxurious hotels in Chicago. Speakers included Michael Edwards, president/CEO Chicago Loop Alliance, Greg Cameron, president/CEO of The Joffrey Ballet and Chairman

You know it's a cool event when Rosemary Fanti (and her Richard Koranda) are there!

of the State Street Commission, and Larry Horowitz, executive director of the Historic Hotels of America and Dean Lane, Palmer House General Manager, who thanked the attendees and praised his staff, who speak 25 languages. He shared some of the many firsts the hotel is known for: 1) The first fire-proof building. Potter challenged anyone to start a fire in its guest rooms. 2) The first hotel to install Alexander Graham Bell's original telephone in every guest room. 3) The first use of the "vertical steam railroad," which would later become the elevator. 4) The first

Dean Lane, Palmer House GM.

hotel to use Edison's modern light-bulb in every guest room. 5) The birthplace of the original chocolate fudge brownie. Lane spoke about some of the many proud moments in the history of the hotel. In 1879, Bertha Palmer's sister Ida was married to President Ulysses S.

Part of Bertha Palmer's china set.

Grant. The hotel hosted a banquet dubbed "the greatest banquet in American history" to commemorate the return of the President's trip around the world. Mark Twain, a friend of the Palmers, served as emcee. (Twain's beer stein from this event was on display on the mezzanine as was Bertha's French Haviland China that was used and is valued at $30,000 per place setting, among many other items.) (Palmer House, A Hilton Hotel, 17 E. Monroe, www.hilton.com, 312.726.7500)

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Stunning SC Holiday Luncheon co-chairs Lezley Hodes and Karen Peters.

The Service Club of Chicago's annual holiday luncheon, “A Cool Yule," was held on December 1 at The University Club. On this day, Cathedral Hall was decorated to the nines for the holidays reminding me a bit of Hogwart's

Suzette Gilchrist, Marcia Northrup LaBarge and Stacy Ditka.

School of Witchcraft and Wizardry. No witches though, only angels donating their time and money to good causes. Under the Great Tree, guests gathered early to sing holiday carols and shop an amazing array of local vendors. Veteran co-chairs Lezley Hodes and Karen Peters welcomed all and, along with President Sherrill Bodine and songstress Denise Tomasello, led the audience in their annual “verse by table” rendition of The Twelve Days of Christmas. As her term nears an end, Bodine said “This is

Michelle Delaney, Michelle Dietzler Dermenjian and Susie Arnold.

my last big event, and I hope you all know how proud and grateful I am for each of you – and for the work that we accomplish together." (Jean Antoniou is the incoming president). The luncheon had taken a virtual,

Shelly Perkowski and Sharyl Mackey.

online turn in 2020, and all the guests were thrilled to be back together in-person. Every year, the luncheon chooses a charity for the guests to provide gifts for to herald the giving spirit. The crowd of nearly 200 arrived off the elevators carrying basketballs, coloring books and an assortment of toys, all to benefit Kids Above All, a nonprofit which has been caring for children in need since 1894. The Holiday Luncheon supports the valuable work of The Service Club of Chicago and allows its programs to grow and expand. This year’s event raised over $60,000 — another record high set for the year.

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Big thanks to Fox-32's Sylvia Perez for having me back to discuss fabulous things to do for the holidays! Check out the video below for my festive tips for family fun!

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With Neiman Marcus Michigan Avenue's Wendy Krimins (GM) and Tina Koegel (NM Brand Exprience Manager).

Neiman Marcus Michigan Avenue hosted the Service Club of Chicago recently for a fun-filled White Elephant Party (this is the game where you pick a number and then choose a gift, which can be stolen by another party-goer.) Let me just say Sheree Schimmer had a lot of trouble

The SC party girls with Chicago Star.

holding on to her gifts! The intimate party was by-invite-only and consisted of past event chairs and co-chairs. I offered welcoming remarks before all the merriment began. Neiman's GM Wendy Krimins and Tina Koegel, Brand Experience Manager, both thanked the ladies for their longtime support. I think this relationship is perfect because both entities focus on giving back. It was a perfect holiday party with good friends who seem like family.

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Holiday for Hope/ Dreams for Kids do-gooders.

Dreams for Kids continued its 33rd year of giving on December 15 when community leaders met at GCE Lab School to carry on the tradition of hosting its annual toy and comfort drive, Holiday for Hope, benefiting Chicago families in need, which was in jeopardy of being discontinued amidst the COVID-19 pandemic. This year, over 1200 toys, coats, gloves, and

Felicia Winiecki and friends supporting this wonderful cause.

blankets have been donated and will be distributed across Chicago thanks to program partners Jesse White (IL Secretary of State); Sam Hill (Shoot Your Best Shot); Jakhil Jackson (a 14-year-old with his own nonprofit, Project I Am); Annie McAveeney (Fill a Hart for Kids). In July, GCE Lab School took on Dreams for Kids’ Holiday for Hope drive and social entrepreneurship program, Dream Leaders, a youth leadership and service-learning program.

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With Tracey Tarantino and her beautiful ZZAZZ models at Union League Holiday Fashion Show.

The Union League Holiday Fashion Show took place on December 1, expertly produced again by ZZAZZ Productions (Tracey Tarantino & Team–Nancy Long, fashion coordinator; Natalie Roppo, production coordinator) who have been a part of this event for years.

York Furrier's Kathy Rezny and Natalie Roppo.

The show took place in the club's elegant Grand Ballroom where 200 guests enjoyed lunch, specialty vendors (on a different floor) and one of the most beautiful backdrops I've ever seen for an event, a snow-filled, wintry scene that made the fashion segments by Neiman Marcus Michigan Avenue, Max Mara at Bloomingdale's, Anne Fontaine, York Furrier, St. John Boutique, Contessa Bottega and Mira Couture pop right off the stage. Congrats to ZZAZZ and to the philanthropic ladies of the ULCC. (Thanks for including me Tracey!)

Union League Holiday Fashion Show produced by ZZAZZ Productions.

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Tracey Tarantino DiBuono directing her ZZAZZ Productions models before a fashion show for the Infant Welfare Society-Oak Brook at Drury Lane.

On another bright fashion note, ZZAZZ Productions also produced one of the largest shows in the Chicagoland area, Mistletoe Medley, for the Infant Welfare Society-Oakbrook Chapter on November 30. The event was a sell-out in the Drury Lane Ballroom where guests enjoyed a lengthy shopping experience

Tina Weller (Fumee Claire Candles) was one of the many holiday vendors at the event.

from a variety of amazing vendors before sitting down to lunch. The tables were decorated with festive, glowing floral centerpieces made by Chapter volunteers that were available for sale following the event (they were a sell-out too!) Tracey Tarantino utilized her largest cast of models yet for this grand show including a very well-

Wearing furs from York Furrier, 107 N. York St., Elmhurst.

behaved poodle named Theodore. To kick off the afternoon, Oak Brook Chapter co-presidents Linda Layland and Marge Tresley welcomed guests. Allison Rosati returned as the much-loved emcee. I was honored to walk in the show along with NBC Chicago Today co-hosts Matt Rodrigues and Cortney Hall. Fabulous runway fashions were presented by Neiman Marcus Oak Brook, York Furrier, Mira Couture, Max Mara, Sandro, Red E Mas, Lepa Boutique, St. John, Elda de la Rosa and Ted Baker. Since 1911, The Infant Welfare Society has been providing love and support for children and their families in under-served communities. The Angel Harvey Family Health Center of the Infant Welfare Society of Chicago provides a variety of services including prenatal care, dental, adult health, optometry, counseling services as well as The Child-Centered Health & Advanced Therapies (CHAT) program.

Team ZZAZZ–Another smash hit fashion show for the Infant Welfare Society-Oak Brook Chapter.

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NBC Chicago Today with hosts Cortney Hall and Matt Rodrigues.

Special thanks to NBC Chicago Today show co-hosts Matt Rodrigues and Cortney Hall for having me on to chat about a few of my favorite "Gifts that Give Back"! All of the items appeared in Chicago Star's first holiday issue (read it here) and all of them donated a portion of proceeds back to a nonprofit. I presented a beautiful Chicago Lighthouse clock; a PAWS Chicago desk calendar; beautiful ornaments from Mary, Mary Gifts (706 N. Dearborn) where a portion of the sale of any musical ornament benefited Allegrezza; a Bear Necessities Pediatric Cancer Foundation stuffed teddy bear and a beautiful cookbook from Eli's Cheesecake, where a portion of the sales supported Cure Epilepsy during the month of December (Epilepsy Awareness Month). Please enjoy the segment below!

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Francesca and Adam (Mr. and Mrs. Adam Epstein!)

LOVE IS IN THE AIR! Linda Yu became the proud Mother of the Bride when her beautiful daughter Francesca Ling married Oct. 17 at the Langham Hotel in Pasadena. In attendance at this glamorous wedding were the Father of the Bride, Dr. Richard Baer, and the Chicago contingent Sylvia Perez, Tracey Tarantino and Ji Suk Yi, among others. Linda's beautiful gown was created by Peach Carr and makeup was by Chicago's Alex Galasinao. Kudos to all and long may you love! (Thanks Kup!)

Francesca and her beautiful (proud) mom, Linda Yu.

Mr. and Mrs. Israel Idonije–Jatnna Toribio and Izzy.

Another happy wedding occurred on November 14 in Chicago when former Chicago Bear star and full-time philanthropist Israel Idonije wed his love, Jatnna Toribio. It was an intimate ceremony with a small group of friends that culminated in a dramatic photo shoot atop the LondonHouse by Gregoire Jules. Again, love WINS!!!

Alex Antoniou and Matt Silkaitas.

And it was a fabulous, surprise engagement for Alex Antoniou and her love Matt Silkaitas! He got down on one knee atop the Ever Restaurant on December 18 and popped the question. The whole family celebrated together afterwards.

And, on December, Becca Smith (darling daughter of Jim

Alex and Becca Maas with Jim Smith and Greg Hyder.

Smith and Greg Hyder), tied the knot with Alex Maas. The wedding was supposed to take place at the zoo but, thanks to Covid, had to be dialed back to an intimate ceremony for 22 at the groom's lavish family home in Inverness. The couple plan to celebrate with more family and friends when the pandemic is over.

The Lodge at The Fairmont Chicago Millennium Park!

Kudos to the Fairmont Hotel, 200 N. Columbus Dr. ! Their new Lodge experience has guests and locals all abuzz! Conceived by Wayne Harth with drop-dead ski chalet decor by Tom Kehoe Designs, the hotel will be attracting eyeballs and ski bunnies for sure! It's first experience was a welcome and introduction to this new concept. The latest event was to

Check out the Lodge experience at the Fairmont!

feature drag queen Mimi Marks and Tommy Holl, The Real Elf, but Covid changed the plans. It was still a total delight with lots of familiar faces who enjoyed flaming egg nog, a drag performance by another talented queen, hors d'oeuvres and lots of fun photo opps, including a "moose" out front. Please pop in and check out the cozy atmosphere which is just what we all need right about now. And, look for more experiences coming up that I will happily share across my social. Congrats to all and thanks for looking out for us Fairmont! _______________________________________________________________________

Bill Rancic joined the Hoosier Ball guests during the live auction.

More than 300 guests gathered at the Four Seasons Chicago for the 4th annual Hoosier Ball to benefit the Lyon Family Foundation, a nonprofit that supports the mission of the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society. Partygoers donned extravagant masquerade masks while sipping on fabulous cocktails and noshing on

Pretty party guests!

items from the decadent raw bar, dim sum stations and Italian inspired fare all while enjoying the beats from DJ Matt Roan. Special host Bill Rancic joined Lyon Family Foundation Executive Director, Alexandra Lyon Singer, to lead the live auction featuring exotic trips, luxury art and exclusive private dinners sponsored by Ferrari Lake Forest. A performance by Elan Artists rounded out the evening as guests took to the blackjack, roulette and poker tables and enjoyed handcrafted desserts by the Four Seasons acclaimed Chef Juan Gutierrez. The event raised nearly $500,000 for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society.

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The Great Gatsby of our Time–Paul Iacono!

Holiday parties were NOT put on hold again this year, thank goodness! Paul Iacono celebrated with his friends at the Underground Cocktail Lounge. About 60 guests enjoyed a live performance, cocktails, heavy hors d'oeuvres, Santa and, of course, SNOWgirls! The room was so festive and perfect for a holiday party (56 W. Illinois). Seen on the scene were Dr. Joaquin Brieva and his Jennifer, Kadmiel and Whitney Christmas, Diane and Quintin Primo, Rhonda Sanderson, John Amato, Julie and Brian Barrish, Julia Jacobs, Lori Allen, Sherry Lea Holson, Rochelle Trotter, April Schwartz, Patrick Sheahan, Todd Hatoff, Frank Jeffrey and so many others. On another note, our Paul will be honored with the William J. Casey Hope Award from Bear Necessities Pediatric Cancer Foundation at its Bear Tie Ball on Saturday, June 4. (This is the highest honor the nonprofit awards)(Better get your

Pretty party host, Lisa Fielding.

tickets early as I know this will be a sell-out!) (Photo by Kristan Lieb)

Another party of note was the intimate soiree thrown by award-winning WBBM Newsradio host, Lisa Fielding. Her charming home, complete with a panoramic balcony that overlooked the skyline, was decorated to the hilt–every nook and cranny held something festive. Her fabulous vintage jukebox played every Christmas song and, as the evening wore on, I'm told karaoke reigned supreme. She is the ultimate host and we were grateful to be included.

Leslie Hindman, Palm Beach.

Last year, her popular holiday party had to be canceled due to Covid.

A holiday party amid the palms was thrown by the fabulous Leslie Hindman at her beautiful new home in Palm Beach. Friends traveled from near and far to join her to celebrate both her birthday AND the season. One night, guests enjoyed dinner at the oh-so exclusive Club Colette, where she is a member and on another night, Palm Beach celeb Kim Renk invited Leslie's guests to her family's palatial estate to enjoy cocktails. Traveling from Chicago were friends Mike Sneed, Bill Zwecker, Tom Gorman, Tom Hackett and Tom McGuire, Lynn Martin and so many others.

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Robert Murphy and Cheryl Larsen–now Mr. and Mrs.

Another love story! Robert Murphy ("Murph in the

Mrs. Robert Murphy (Cheryl Larsen) wearing Elda de la Rosa.

Morning") and his Cheryl Larsen made it official! (I will not use the phrase "finally", even though they have been together since 1986.) They tied the knot on Oct. 9 in a small private ceremony (she wore a magnificent gown by Elda de la Rosa) on the banks of the Big Sable river in NW Michigan where their cabin once stood. Murph said he "became emotional when she said those three little words, 'It's about time!" He added, "They didn't want to rush into anything."…LOL! The perfect pair are now Mr. & Mrs.!

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CSM Jan. 2022 with newlywed/cover stars Israel Idonije and Jatnna Toribio Idonije.

I hope you're reading, enjoying, subscribing, advertising and sharing the exciting Chicago Star! If I say so myself, we are en fuego! So much exciting content that is inspiring and uplifting as well as news

Chicago Star's Staycation Week coming in February!

you can use! AND, I've been promoted to Associate Publisher and am grateful to Robert Feder for sharing the news (read it here)! In our latest January issue, we share "Words of Wisdom" to move you into the New Year with some hope; Get Cookin' With…La Scarola's Joey and Armando; Ask Candid Candace advice column; Jon Cohn's "new year,

City Seen featuring PAWS Chicago

new attitude" column; Bridget McGuire's thoughtful "greatest generation" article, our top picks for things to do/where to go/what to see; City Seen spotlighting PAWS Chicago's elegant Fur Ball; safety tips you need to know amid our crime surge; pandemic learning how to's; changes for home design in 2022 and SOOOO much more! I hope you're a subscriber (if not, please sign up here!) We can't wait to share all the fun we have planned for 2022 with you, including Staycation Week in February to help promote all of our top hotels and their latest offerings! (For more info, click here). Join the family!

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I, for one, won't be sad to see 2021 in my rear-view mirror. I feel like we're living in a whole new world now, and not necessarily a better one. The headline says it all, here's hoping for a bigger, brighter year for us all! Almost everyone I know has been sick, either with a bad cold or Covid. I miss our dogs and Chuck and I were both sick during Christmas so we didn't get a chance to really celebrate like we wanted to. This means our tree and decor will be staying up a LOT longer this year! I hope my neighbors across the street are fans of the holidays! I also felt like

Here's to a bigger, brighter, healthier New Year!

the season just shot by–everything seemed to be over before it had even begun. Maybe I waited too long to put up my decorations. I know the paper is taking up a lot of my time now so my schedule has definitely changed but I just feel like this year has been a blur. I'm hoping to make (and keep) some New Year resolutions: Don't sweat the small stuff (and believe me, everything is "small stuff" unless it's your loved ones' health); Make yourself your number one priority (if you're not in a good place, nothing else will be either); Carve out time to read more (for fun); When the weather is nicer, make sure to get out and enjoy nature. I used to be an avid bird watcher. I'm going back to this in 2022; Get organized (magic words that I hope I can make a reality); Add more whimsy to your life (don't be so serious about things); Tell your loved ones you love them every, single day.

And, most of all, I thank you from the bottom of my heart–for sticking with my little blog and me. Your support means the world and I plan on sharing a lot more fun and positivity in 2022 with YOU!

Love,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. And, as always, something to leave you with a smile!

IN-PERSON EVENTS ARE BACK: THE JOFFREY BALLET AND NEIMAN MARCUS CELEBRATE “FASHION FOR A PASSION”

Plus: Brookfield Zoo's "Whirl"; Hard Rock Casino's grand opening party; Tina's FAB Fumee Claire candles; A tribute to Bernie; Blooms on the Mag Mile; Deborah's "Journey to Joshua"; What's happening in Chicago NOW?; "Wonders of the Park" auction for Lincoln Park; Banksy art fans on pins and needles; Schulman Felix Mag; AVLI on the Park; Chicago Pride Fest; Pendry Chicago's, Chicago Star releases June issue!; elegant, grand opening; Birthday joy at La Scarola; Northalsted Market Days; Randolph Street Market updates; Imerman Angels' Angels Spirit Week; Maria Pappas, why we need her; Sweet video, and SOOO much more!

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Neiman Marcus Michigan Ave. GM Wendy Krimins, Joffrey pres/CEO Greg Cameron and Joffrey WB member Noren Ungaretti.

Neiman Marcus Michigan Avenue, Northbrook and Oakbrook joined in partnership to support The Joffrey Ballet for their FIRST in-person event following the Covid outbreak, "Fashion for a Passion." The event combined an in-person luncheon with a video-taped fashion show

Beautiful decor for this first in-person event!

featuring spring trends. Guests were welcomed by the GMs at each store, Wendy Krimins (Michigan Ave.), Linda Piepho (Northbrook) and Michelle Distasio-Flinn (Oakbrook). Around 70 guests were in attendance at all three

Valeria Gerber, Casey Carey, Geeta Nagpal, WB pres. Sandi Hartstein and Farissa Knox.

locations with over 30 more zooming in for viewing. Tina Koegel, Brand Experience manager at the Neiman Marcus Chicago location, said, "I’m proud of our longstanding support [a 12 year partnership] of the Joffrey Ballet and our wonderful relationship with their incredibly

Noren Ungaretti holding a beautiful gift box courtesy of Neiman Marcus.

successful Women’s Board. The three Chicago Metro stores donated 10% of all eligible sales over the course of 5 days from April 15^th through the 19^th." I was thrilled to attend this first in-person event for these two Chicago icons and I can tell you, it was so

With Neiman's Tina Koegel.

refreshing to see people in real time as opposed to yet another zoom call. Everyone was dressed in their finest and the table decor took my breath away. All the colors of spring with bright yellow tablescapes, florals of yellow roses and snapdragons and exquisitely boxed lunches (pink and white striped boxes tied with yellow ribbons). Lunch, catered from Food for Thought, consisted of roasted chicken salad tea sandwiches, a spring greens salad and strawberry panna cotta with berries for dessert. Each guest was also treated to a custom-made gift box that included a darling

Melissa Babcock and Leslie Logsdon.

toe-shoe shaped cookie, a notebook and product samplings. The virtual fashion

Even a toe shoe-shaped cookie in the goodie bag!

show was presented by contemporary buyer Lori Caplin from the company's Northpark Mall in Dallas. Four fabulous models showcased 20 looks ranging from casual to daytime and concluded with glamorous evening looks. Some highlights of the show included a stunning Oscar de la Renta red satin dress and a Dries van Noten metallic foil jacket. One of the things I loved most was how so many of the looks were paired with tennis shoes, a

Even the Joffrey WB members are fans of Chicago Star! Lol! (Wink! Wink!)

nod to our pandemic past, no doubt! Following the show, Greg Cameron, Joffrey president/CEO, addressed the crowd. He commented on the 12 year-long partnership between The Joffrey Ballet, its Women's Board and Neiman

Overview of the beautiful space at Neiman Marcus Michigan Ave.

Marcus and talked about the Joffrey's Crisis Stabilization Fund, created to ensure the Company's long term health with support going directly to support the Company artists, students and education programs during the pandemic. The group applauded when they heard that they reached $11 million dollars, towards their goal of $12 million. Greg also expressed excitement over returning to the Lyric stage in October for live performances. In attendance at the Michigan Avenue location were Joffrey Women’s Board President Sandi

Joffrey's Brian Smith Sandi Hartstein (JWB pres) and .

Joffrey's Brian Smith and Chris Jabin with WB president Sandi Hartstein.

Hartstein, Cameron, Farissa Knox (WB 2^nd Vice President), Melissa Babcock, Dana Treister, Casey Carey, Geeta Nagpal, Nancy Berman, Valerie Gerber, Bonnie Fong, Kelly Rosen LaGrange, Ellie Forman, Karen Zupko, Jennifer Fabian, Johanna Ferguson and Liz Sharp and others. The Michigan Avenue luncheon was hosted by Noren Ungaretti, immediate past WB President. The Oakbrook luncheon was hosted by Marcie Wright. In attendance at the Oakbrook location was Julia Doherty, Director of Principal Gifts at the Joffrey. The Northbrook event was hosted by Camille Rudy, Heather Martin, Joan Malliband and Jenelle Chalmers. (Shared first in Chicago Star's "City Seen" debut column!)

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Maria Pappas on her WVON radio show set.

WHY CHICAGO NEEDS MARIA PAPPAS: Maria Pappas is our Cook County Treasurer, has been since 1998. But oh, she is so much more. She has been a cheerleader for Chicago for as far back as I can remember and is a

Maria the Mayor and Amy rule with Lori's 92 year old mom.

Maria with Mayor Lightfoot, Lightfoot's mother and wife First Lady Amy Eshleman.

force in every community throughout the city. You can see her at a ceremony commemorating the Polish plane crash in Russia 11 years ago; singing Gregorian chants in her church; honoring and speaking for friends who have passed in the Filipino community; celebrating the first donors at the

Zooming with Telemundo for property tax issues.

Illinois Holocaust Museum; visiting friends and speaking at the Ukrainian Cultural Heritage Village; celebrating Greek Independence Day; attending events at Univision Mexico; cooking in church halls; doing Serbian TV interviews; being the honored guest and

Maria being interviewed by the Serbian Times.

speaker at the Polish Museum; touring bakeries; being featured on zoom calls for R.A.G.E. (Resident Association of Greater Englewood); zooming with the

Maria at a Ukranian picnic.

Finance Ministry from Madrid (who asked her to teach them her methods); presenting her Christmas Trees Around the World exhibit at her Cook County Treasurer's offices (every year); zooming with Telemundo about property tax payments; zooming with the State Department about property tax collections for foreign countries; trying

Maria supporting the cops in Greektown.

her skills at an axe-throwing contest; saluting veterans at a variety of events around town; appearing at Bronzeville dedications; celebrating mass at Holy Trinity Church; appearing on Hispanic Talk Radio; appearing on the cover of the Filipino VIA Times, Korean Television, Chinese News, etc.; taping infomercials at Graham Methodist; writing a children's book, "Me and My Iguana," to help them cope during the pandemic; baking for St. Joseph's Day; celebrating Bulgarian Independence Day; honoring African American history in Englewood; playing a

Maria in the pulpit!

mean piano during office holidays and so much MORE!….I think you get the picture. Maria is

Maria saluting our vets.

on top of whatever is happening in the city and, more importantly, she's making appearances that matter in our communities. Besides being talented at writing, playing the piano and cooking, she clearly loves and cares about people. And they love her right back, connecting with her from every ethnicity. She has friends in high, low and everything-in-between places. We all want to be her best friend. Some of her latest triumphs include hosting her own show on WVON 1690 AM

Speaking at the Polish National Alliance.

radio, "Black Houses Matter." On the show, she lets viewers know the many ways they can collect property tax refunds that they might not be aware of. (Her Cook County Treasurer's website is in 24 different

Baking for St. Joseph's Day.

languages!) She expanded this property tax refund idea to a live phone bank telethon that's appeared on ABC-7 several times. To date, this telethon has generated nearly $13 million in refunds to Illinois property owners! Her "20 Year Tax Bill Study" rattled a lot of cages around town when she discovered and disclosed that the county's tax bills virtually doubled

Maria participating in an axe throwing contest.

over the past 20 years, an increase that is nearly triple the rise in the cost of living index. Her latest efforts involve a re-beautification of the Magnificent Mile which, as we all know, has suffered greatly following the rioting with many stores still boarded up. Her Instagram and Facebook posts ask

Maria on Hispanic Talk Radio.

Alderman Brian Hopkins, "What is magnificent about this?" as she shares photos of crumbling sidewalks, trash and other unsightly scenes. She clearly feels our pain. And I will admit, I'm also speaking as a friend. I've had the privilege of knowing her for many years now and I can tell you, what you see is what you get. There is not a phony bone in her body and her empathy for others knows no bounds. Personally, I think she would make a great mayor. I know she says no, but I think Mayor Maria has a great ring to it. (Follow her on Facebook and Instagram, www.cookcountytreasurer.com )

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Whirl raised over $1M for Brookfield Zoo and its programs.

I'm so excited for Brookfield Zoo! This year, the Chicago Zoological Society (CZS) celebrated its 40^th anniversary of the Whirl, its largest annual fundraiser. The event, co-hosted by the Society’s Board of Trustees and Women’s Board, was held virtually on May 1. Hundreds of guests tuned in during the virtual

Michael and Melissa Canning, WHIRL co-chairs.

fundraiser, which grossed over $1.1 million for the animals at Brookfield Zoo as well as the Society’s conservation, education, and research programs. The evening featured welcoming

Dr. Stuart Strahl, president and CEO of the Chicago Zoological Society

comments from Dr. Stuart Strahl, president and CEO of CZS, who recognized the 100^th anniversary of the founding of the Chicago Zoological Society, the nonprofit organization that manages Brookfield Zoo. Additional remarks were given by Michael and Melissa Canning, Whirl co-chairs; Toni Preckwinkle, president of the Forest Preserves of Cook County; John Grube, chairman of the Society’s Board

Sasha Gerritson, president of the Women’s Board of the Chicago Zoological Society

of Trustees; and Sasha Gerritson, president of the Women’s Board of CZS. Auctioneer Jonathan Kraft announced the fundraiser’s virtual paddle raise and live auction. Additionally, videos

The band Maggie Speaks performed via Zoom.

featuring many of Brookfield Zoo’s charismatic animals were highlighted throughout the evening and Maggie Speaks, one of Chicago’s most popular bands, entertained the viewing audience with several songs. During the event, attendees were able to bid on dozens of

John Grube, chairman of the Chicago Zoological Society’s Board of Trustees

amazing silent auction items that included a stunning piece of jewelry courtesy of A. Marek Fine Jewelry; a

Toni Preckwinkle, president of the Forest Preserves of Cook County

Kate Spade exotic tote; sports memorabilia, including a signed football by Green Bay Packers legendary quarterback Bart Starr; an exquisite elephant brooch; an array of gift basket packages from local venues; and animal-themed opportunities from Brookfield Zoo such as VIP tours and naming one of the zoo’s Bennett’s wallaby joeys and a black-footed cat.

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Lezley Hodes Sherry Abrahams Heather Spyra host) Sherrill Bodine Bonnie Rickard and Lauren Lein Cavanaugh.

A day in the country was just what we all needed, especially when it was our first-time trip to Richardson's Adventure Farm. Arranged by Service Club of Chicago leader Heather Spyra, in Spring Grove, IL. (909 English Prairie Rd.), the event was an opportunity for a few Service Club members to experience this adventure that included a

Chuck got into the bloomin' spirit too!

delightful box lunch. Heather put her own touch on everything, including a tulip shaped cookie! This was the farm's first time Tulip Festival and the turnout, despite inclement weather, was terrific. The festival ended May 9, but, believe me, this place ALWAYS has something going on!

The SC gang is all here!

When we visited, there were 300,000 tulips popping up in 30 different varieties, with many guests picking their own bouquets in a specially designated area. The venue is on a private lakefront location with food trucks scattered here and there. There was plentiful free parking, dogs were welcome on leashes and, throughout the year, they also offer live music on

Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and Sapna Rathi.

Saturday and Sunday afternoons, a corn maze, a Christmas event with trees and lights, a Halloween Festival, a great gift shop with fresh donuts, kettle corn, etc. and so much more. I loved seeing so many familiar faces that day like Sherrill Bodine, Liz

They have a great gift shop there too!

Teasley, Kathy Mondelli, Tracey Tarantino DiBuono, Sherry Abrahams, Bonnie Rickard, Sapna Rathi, Lezley Hodes, Lauren Lein Cavanaugh and so many others. Since Lake Geneva is only 20 minutes away, Chuck and I decided to make a weekend of it. We stayed, for the first time, at the Geneva Inn. We tried to stay here previously

Such beauty there! Richardson's has something going on year-round so be sure and check it out!

but they don't accept pets, so I doubt we'll return, but it was a lovely spot situated right on the lake. The dining room has beautiful views of the sunset but, our top choice for dining is always Mars Resort–it has live piano music, a lively bar and a mean Friday night fish fry. We also love Anthony's Steakhouse and I always get a kick out of the grizzled old men doing the seating. They seem like they could care less if anyone was there or not but, even this was charming and I always love a good relish tray. Lake Geneva will never lose its charm for us. (On the way back, we stopped at a wonderful grocery store in Antioch, the Old Mill Creek Country Store–loaded with items we'd never seen before….wish it was closer!)

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Marlon and Tito Jackson accept plaque declaring "The Jackson Family Day" in Gary at the opening of the Hard Rock Casino.

It was a Windex-blue sky for the grand opening of The Hard Rock Casino Northern Indiana that opened with much fanfare and a guitar smash on Friday, May 14. An untold number of city officials were proudly in attendance as was Gary Mayor Jerome Prince and his wife, former Senator Earline Rogers (known as "the Queen of Gaming" as she's responsible for the legalization of gaming in Indiana), Tito and Marlon Jackson, Deniece Williams (4-time Grammy Award winner, "Let's Hear it for the Boy"), Kym Mazelle (the "First Lady of House Music"), Marshall Thompson (member of the Grammy Award-winning group,

Kym Mazelle, the "first lady of house music".

the Chi-Lites), Pete Wentz (Fallout Boy), Mark Sayers McGrath (lead singer for rock band Sugar Ray), Crystal Taliefero (singer/songwriter), Donald and Ken Kinsey (Big Daddy Kinsey and the Kinsey Report), members of The Seminole Tribe of Florida (who own the HRI brand), and so

Rockers Pete Wentz and Mark McGrath.

many others. Mayor Prince welcomed the crowd, including dozens of press outlets, to the event. He proclaimed it "The Jackson Family Day" in the city and presented Marlon and Tito with a plaque. Dozens of pieces of memorabilia are on display from the Jackson family including Joe Jackson’s original guitar, that started it all (a 37-foot replica is the centerpiece of the complex located at the entrance), outfits worn on stage by the Jacksons, Michael’s famous Swarovski crystal

Lots of Jackson Family memorabilia at the Hard Rock Casino Northern Indiana.

glove and Florsheim Imperial shoes from his "Thriller" video, THE red leather jacket from the "Beat It" video, Janet Jackson’s suit from her "Velvet Rope" tour as well as objects from other artists that have connections to the Jacksons – including Elvis, Lady Gaga, Eddie Van Halen, Justin

Kym Mazelle, Mayor Justin Prince, Deniece Williams, and Regina Smith.

Timberlake, Madonna, Mariah Carey, Pharrel, Shakira and Fergie. Marlon said, "I want to thank the Hard Rock Hotel for being the first to take a step and see Gary's vision and wanting to be a part of it, creating so many jobs. So, Gary, a diamond in the rough–you're ready to get polished baby!" He and Tito also thanked city officials for making

The Jackson Family Home, soon to be landmarked, at 2300 Jackson St.

the Jackson Family Home, at 2300 Jackson St., a historical landmark. "It was about a city called Gary, a school called Roosevelt, but most of all it was about a little house on a little street filled with noise and

Earline Rogers, known as the "Queen of Gaming" for her efforts at bringing gaming to Indiana.

music, and most of all, love, " Tito said. A customary Hard Rock guitar smash followed many speeches and signaled the opening of the Casino as all the dignitaries onstage smashed guitars emblazoned with the HR logo following a countdown. Fireworks went off

Michael's GLOVE on display at Hard Rock Casino Northern Indiana.

behind the stand as the crowd rose for a standing ovation. A bank of press, stationed in the rear, captured every moment. The Casino is easily accessible from Chicago (just 45 minutes away) and is located on 29th Street just off Interstate 80/94 at the Burr Street exit in Gary. The $300 million, 200,000 square-foot entertainment complex has nearly 1,600

Members of The Seminole Tribe of Florida, who owns the HRI brand.

gaming tales, 5 restaurants, a theater and a 1,954 seat live performance venue. The new casino is the result of the relocation of the two Majestic Star Riverboat Casinos that are owned by The Seminole Tribe of Florida, into one land-based facility. Since the groundbreaking for the new facility in 2020, Gary officials hope it will provide the economic boost that the struggling Northwest Indiana city needs. (Open 24 hours daily, all details here) (First published in Chicago Star)

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Bernarda "Bernie" Wong, a champion for the Chinese American community and so many others.

The Chinese American Community has lost one of its biggest champions in Bernarda "Bernie" Wong who passed away at age 77 on April 27. She was beyond a dynamo and, when I first met her, I just couldn't believe how much love, spirit, laughter, caring and empathy for others she carried in that small frame of hers. Former Mayor Rahm Emanuel joked that "no one ever says no to Bernie" and he was so right. She was always on a mission to improve her community and

Bernie Wong in her award-laden office at CASL.

mankind in general and it was an honor to know her and a pure joy to see her in action. I was invited to her Senior Center in Chinatown once to receive a little plaque and Bernie beamed from ear to ear the entire time and was so joyous introducing me to each and every one of the members,

With Bernie Wong and her beloved seniors.

acknowledging their families and relating all of their many histories, which she knew by heart. Her office was filled to over-flowing with every kind of award imaginable. She was such a beloved individual and I know, anyone who knew her or of her, will have a deep hole in their hearts with her passing. Please sign the Bernie Wong memorial page here and save-the-date for the next Chinese American Service League (CASL) Gala which will be held in her memory on October 21. Details here.

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With Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas and Luxe Bloom's Shelley Rosen on Mother's Day.

Luxe Blooms' Shelley Rosen wanted to cheer up Chicago so she enlisted two of its biggest cheerleaders, Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas and me! On a

Paul Iacono, Chuck Jordan and Bonnie Spurlock.

rainy Sunday, we, along with loyal supporters, gathered around the JC Decaux bustop at the corner of Michigan and Chicago Avenues and handed out over 500 long-stemmed Ecuadorian roses. The bus stop had been bedecked with a spectacular floral wall, courtesy of Luxe Blooms, that will last until the end of May. This Mother's Day event was a celebration of all mothers and women of Chicago and intended to bring the community together as a reminder to take care of our city and neighborhoods. We jumped on buses to hand out roses and stopped people in the street. One woman broke

Marie Mancuso (R) and her goddaughter Judith Kenny.

down in tears after Bonnie Spurlock handed her a flower. Other do-gooders included Paul Iacono, Paul Kawa,

Luxe Bloom's Shelley Rosen, R, and friend in front of her JC Decaux floral wall.

Humberto Jimenez (Consul General of Ecuador), Kenichi Okada (Consul General of Japan), Sam Ma (Honorary Chair of the American-Asian Society), Kina Bagovska (Director Magura Bulgarian Cultural Center), Nanta Buranakanchana (Asian American Coalition of Chicago), Vandana Jhingan (Midwest Bureau Chief TV Asia), Suzie Glickman, Kate Murray, Joey Majumdar, Marie Mancuso (and friend) and others. It was a "Random Act of Kindness" that brightened peoples' day. We need more of this, right? (Check out Luxe Blooms' amazing (miracle) roses here and thanks for all you do in our communities Maria and Shelley!

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Deborah Farmer author of Journey to Joshua with her adopted son.

Deborah Farmer, author "My Journey With Joshua" w/ her adopted son.

Media veteran, communications agency owner and friend, Deborah Farmer, has written a new book, "My Journey with Joshua", which chronicles her experiences in adoption. She says, "Much of what people know about foster care and

Deborah Farmer and her son Joshua.

adoption turns out to be very little or they know misinformation." Farmer grew up in Chicago, where she worked in newsrooms for two decades before launching Brown Farmer Media Group, a full-service communications firm with nonprofit, small business, corporate and government clients. She adds, "Choosing to adopt is just as valid a route to having kids as is biological birth. I truly never understood the stigma it can have." Her book answers a lot of probing questions about the process as well as describes her joy with motherhood. (More details, purchase the book here!

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I'm so excited to see so many events and festivals coming back! Following Mayor Lightfoot and the Governor's comments about Chicago opening up by July, I decided to check to see exactly what was returning and when. Here's what I found: Riot Fest will return to the Douglas Park Golf Course, Sept. 17 thru Sun. Sept. 19. And the debut of the ARC Music Festival (electronic, dance and house music, etc.) is set for Sept 4/5 in Union Park, Chicago. The Gold Coast Art Fair returns August 21-22 to Grant Park, Butler Field with 200 juried artists and food. The Windy City Smokeout will kick off Chicago's summer festival season in July. The four-day event is scheduled to take place from July 8 through 11 in the parking lot

Pride Fest returns June 19/20.

by the United Center, featuring headlining sets from country artists Brett Eldredge, Jon Pardi, Darius Rucker and Dierks Bentley. Windy City Smokeout will also feature world-class Q provided by pit-masters from across the country, including Truth BBQ (Houston, Texas) and Peg Leg Porker (Nashville). Tickets, on sale now, range from $35 for a single-day ticket to $625 for a four-day VIP pass. The Chicago Park District's Night Out in the Parks is set for July 6-11, bringing more than 100 outdoor screenings of family-friendly films to neighborhood parks this summer. The series will kick off July 6 at Oakdale Park. Details here! And this is just a very few of the events that I've found! Looks like Chicago is coming back bigger and better than EVER! Woot! Woot!

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Situated in the former III Forks restaurant space in Lakeshore East, at the corner of Field Blvd. and Benton Place, Avli is far removed from the ghost of this old, dark restaurant. In fact, it's the polar opposite with everything artfully designed in sparkling shades of cream, beige and

With partners LouieAlexakis, designer Nike Demacopoulos and Lou Canellis.

white by the talented Nike (pronounced Nicki) Demacopoulos. The two-level, 13,000-square-foot restaurant, owned by Louie Alexakis, Bill Glastris and Lou Canellis (Fox-32 sports anchor), in partnership with the Magellan Development Group, is draw-droppingly beautiful from the moment you walk through the door. A birch-lined cocktail area, and I suspect a soon-to-be holding "pen," is on the right, before you reach the

The not-yet-complete roof deck will feature gauzy curtains, a long bar and a fire-pit lounge.

hostess station. Then, the room opens up with a direct view of the long, elegant U-shaped bar, a brightly lit wine cellar and wrap-around seating. An outdoor, rooftop deck will offer dazzling views of the city and Lake Shore East Park, a variety of seating options as well as a fireplace lounge. Every single server and worker there were all smiles as well as the principals, including GM Stefanos Lemonis, who table-hopped

Dazzling city views from Avli's soon-to-be-open roofdeck.

throughout the night. That's the way you win friends although with the high level of food service and a delicious menu by Chef Nikolaos Kapernaros, I think they already have it made. Chef Kapernaros has selected dishes for the menu that include his own family's recipes. This is the 4th restaurant in Avli's dining empire with locations in Lincoln Park, River North and suburban Winnetka. Avli on the Park, 180 N. Field Blvd., is open 7 days a week for dinner from 5-11 pm, with reservations via Tock. The restaurant seats 180 in the main dining room, 120 on the rooftop (when it opens), with party and event spaces for 8-100. The restaurant will soon launch a lunch service and a weekend brunch. The venue will also host live music on occasion (think popular Mykonos singers and more). (For more info/ reservations, click here) (First published in Chicago Star here)

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The Lincoln Park Conservancy will host a virtual auction, "Wonders of the Park," June 18-20 to benefit Lincoln Park and specifically, the restoration of North Pond. Last year, due to Covid, the Conservancy transformed its annual in-person gala to a virtual auction which raised more than $85,000. This year's virtual auction will offer one-of-a-kind park experiences; uniquely Lincoln Park and Chicago items; hospitality packages showcasing all our great city has to offer; opportunities to purchase benches, trees, gardening supplies, and so much more. Established in 1984 as a nonprofit partner of the Chicago Park District, the Lincoln Park Conservancy has supported Chicago’s largest and most visited park for over 35 years.Proceeds will support the Conservancy’s stewardship and programming across the Park and will help close the last remaining funding gap for the restoration of North Pond beginning this fall.

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Maureen and Marc Schulman and family celebrate the reopening of the Eli M. Schulman Playground.

Congrats to the much loved Schulman Family on the grand reopening of The Eli M. Schulman Playground & Seneca Park on May 18. Top political leaders, ranking members of the Chicago Fire Department, local notables, friends and family came together to honor the memory of

Alderman Brian Hopkins presided over the proceedings.

the late, great Eli Schulman in a ceremony at the park created in his honor. Located just east of Chicago's historic Water Tower, Seneca Park and the Schulman Playground provide a peaceful oasis and a welcome touch of green amid an increasingly concrete-heavy city. Not since 1990 has the playground been renovated, Now, updates to

A little superhero in attendance.

the play area include a 16% increase in space and softer surfaces for safety. One area mom, Sharyl Mackey, pointed out that it was nice to see some installations created for older children there too.

CFD Commissioner Annette Holt.

The ribbon-cutting ceremony was led by Alderman Brian Hopkins, whose young daughter presented the countdown. Other speakers included Maureen and Marc Schulman, son of Eli and Chair, Seneca Park & Eli M. Schulman Playground Advisory Council; Michael Kelly, CEO Chicago Park District; Annette Holt, Commissioner, Chicago Fire Department; Grant DePorter, Magnificent

Grant DePorter.

Mile Association and Harry Carays; Brian Butler, SOAR VP; Jack Guthman, attorney & trustee, MCA, and others. Recognition was given for Jim

The beautiful Eli M. Schulman Playground is now open!

Letchinger, CEO, JDL & developer, One Chicago. Notables seen in the crowd included Abra Prentice Wilkin and Jim Wilkin, Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas, Mickey Siegel, Sharyl and Mike Mackey, Maria Smithburg, Kate Murray, Rick Kogan and Willa Lang, among others. The event concluded with a poem by Sally Park, read by Andy White of the Lookingglass Theatre. Alderman Hopkins said the playground will see more upgrades in the near future. (First published here in Chicago Star)

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Image of Flag Wall Room at _The Art of Banksy_ exhibition in Toronto. Courtesy of The Art of Banksy.

Image of Flag Wall Room at The Art of Banksy exhibit in Toronto.

Whoa! Check this out! $35 million worth of Banksy art is coming to Chicago's West Loop this summer, opening July 1! The world's largest collection of privately- owned Banksy art is coming to the Windy City and will feature prints, canvasses, screen-prints, sculptures and limited-edition pieces dated between 1997 and 2008, including his iconic works "Girl with Balloon (shown in image)," "Flower Thrower" and "Rude Copper.' The event will be held at a yet-to-be-disclosed location in the West Loop (btw, this is getting pretty old already). Tickets on sale here with prices starting at $40 for adults and $30 for children age 16 and younger.

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Northalsted Market Days, one of the Midwest's largest street festival, will return August 6-8, adding a Friday night edition, the first in its 38-year history, according to the Northalsted Business Alliance. First held in August 1982, Market Days has grown to a half-mile long, annual summer ritual on Chicago's north side, featuring all-day lineups of live music and international DJs on 5 stages, 300 vendors, arts, crafts, wares, summer food and drinks, dancing in the street, and more. Market Days, along with Chicago Pride Fest, was canceled in 2020 due to the pandemic.

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With CSM publisher Elaine Hyde, Jay Kopp and Jon Cohn.

And, as a part of Chicago Star's many offerings to the community, we will be providing video updates of coming events on a regular basis. Here's our first effort, moderated by Elaine Hyde (publisher/editor) and my colleagues Jay Kopp (CSM Director of Brand Development) and columnist Jon Cohn. Watch here!

We're getting pretty excited about our road trip to Three Oaks, Michigan, to enjoy the new, temporary location for Randolph Street Market (while it's Chicago venue undergoes renovation), opening Memorial Day Weekend, May 29/30. Entrance fee is $5 per adult with children under 12 free. One dollar of every tickets purchased will support Fernwood Botanical Garden in Niles-Buchanan, Michigan. Market dates: June 19/20; July 3/4; August 7/8; Sept. 4/5. Can't wait to see YOU Sally Schwartz! (All details here)

Jonny Imerman and his Imerman Angels will be hosting Angels Spirit Week, now through May 27. Each day will offer a different theme, all to benefit and celebrate this wonderful nonprofit that provides 24/7, 365 comfort and understanding for all cancer fighters, survivors, previvors and caregivers through a personalized, one-on-one connection with someone who has been there. (For all info, click here!)

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Fumee Claire Candles by Tina Weller.

Kudos to Tina Weller, besides being a glam-girl-around-town, she also is one of the most philanthropic people I know. Her most recent project, Fumee Claire Candles (clean smoke), came about following a health scare. Many candles give off a number of known toxins so I think her timing for this couldn't be better. Each product purchased will help contribute to a yearly philanthropy fund awarded to a variety of charities that make a difference to those in need. Tina and her team select agencies that provide services to women and children, the food insecure, the disabled, medically challenged, elderly, the arts, preservation and the homeless as well as education enrichment programs for the underprivileged. Not only are they beautiful and smell good but they're also good for your health and the environment. (For more info, click here!)

Tina Weller and her Fumee Claire Candle products, healthy for you and the environment.

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Thank you Felix Magazine!

Thank you so very much to Felix Magazine, for profiling

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me in its cover feature! It's especially nice as I was given the opportunity to highlight one of my favorite nonprofits, PAWS Chicago. The feature was shot on location at the adoption center (1997 N. Clybourn), with a passel of adorable pups. It took all the will power I had not to go home with all of them! This luxury lifestyle magazine serves Chicago, NYC and LA covering the latest trends in fashion, fine dining, nightlife, arts and cultures. 100% of the net proceeds benefit The Aparecio Foundation, a nonprofit that raises funds for educational grants and programs for low-income, high potential women in public high schools. (Read article here and, to order/subscribe, click here).(Article by Courtney Simich, photos by Hope Sayre)

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Pendry Chicago opened May 26.

It's like comparing apples and oranges but there are a lot of similarities between the newly opened Greek restaurant Avli in

Venteaux restaurant inside Pendry Chicago.

Lakeshore East and the recently opened, May 26, Pendry Chicago. Located in the loop (230 N. Michigan), the Pendry is a re-imagination of the iconic 1920s era Carbide and Carbon Building. This hotel was formerly the St. James and the differences between then and now are stark. Where the St. James was dark, the Pendry is all light with sparkling brass touches. In its 364 guest rooms and suites, beautiful parquet floors were discovered under the old carpeting. In the grand ballroom, which seats 500+, an enormous window, that was previously covered over, was revealed with great views of Michigan Avenue. And on and on. As the world opens up following the pandemic, restaurants, hotels and bars seem to be following suit, offering guests a more airy feel after the heaviness of isolation. (Read full story here in Chicago Star!)

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Love and thanks to all my friends and supporters who

With La Scarola's Joey Mondelli.

reached out to me on my birthday on May 26! The messages and photos took me down memory lane and I'm so grateful. Thanks also to special friends Maria Pappas, Jennifer Sutton Brieva, Peter Kamberos, Paul Iacono, Michael Kutza who made my BD so perfect at La Scarola! And especially big, big love to Joey Mondelli. What a gift you all are!

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Chicago Star June 2021, with twins Giovanna Krozel and Almira Yllana (Sugar & Spice) and Landan Twins (Jon and Andrew).

I'm so very exciting to share the newly released June issue of Chicago Star! Read all the fun including my first CSM social column, "City Seen" (if you like what you see, please let my

The debut of "City Seen" with The Joffrey Ballet and Neiman Marcus.

publisher know at ainfo@chicagostarmedia.com. I want to make sure our nonprofit and event communities have an outlet here so please let them hear you!). Also, I hope you enjoy my Ask Candid Candace advice column, my feature about where Chicagoan's want to go next now that travel restrictions are being lessened, Cooking with Amanda Puck and so much more!. All the news you need to make you love where you live, work and play! (Read issue here and please join our family here!) (Don't we have the cutest cover stars too, twins Sugar & Spice (Giovanna Krozel and Almira Yllana) and the Landan Twins (Jon and Andrew)?!

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I know this is a lot to take in but I don't want to miss sharing with you! If you have an event, a happening, know of some inspiring person, or have info you would like to see here, please send it to candace@candidcandace.com. And don't forget to send any questions for my Chicago Star monthly Candid Candace Advice Column along too! I love hearing from you!

And, if I've forgotten to include anything you sent previously, please forgive me and give me another chance. With Chicago opening up again, events, restaurants, bars, cultural events and more are exploding with business, not enough yet to make up for their losses, but it's so good to see the buzz in the city again.

And, if not a blog subscriber, please do so now here and follow along with all the fun!

Love, as always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. And, of course, something to leave you with a smile……

THIS WAY TO THE BEACHES! SURVIVING CHICAGO’S WINTERS AND SO MUCH MORE!

Chuck at Trevini restaurant, Palm Beach.

There is no better antidote for Chicago's winters than a trip to a warm climate. Chuck and I were lucky this year to have an extended vacay in Florida, a week in Hobe Sound with my sister-in-law and then two glorious weeks in Palm Beach. The first word that comes to mind about being in

With Leslie Hindman and Chuck at Trevini restaurant, Palm Beach.

Florida is "liberating." Restaurants are open, people are walking the streets with smiles on their faces, churches are holding services and I didn't see one boarded up store.

The manicured perfection of Palm Beach.

Granted, people are still masked and practicing social distancing but it seems less fear-based than Chicago and more common sense-based there. I'm not surprised that people live longer in Florida, no dangerous icy sidewalks, more physical activity and a LOT more vitamin D! In a perfect world, I would divide my time between the two but that's not doable so I will

At Pizza al Fresco, PB, with Kim Renk, Greg Dryer, Leslie Hindman and Chuck.

just enjoy every minute we're away and keep those memories top of mind when I receive weather updates

Beauty along A1A.

from Chiberia. Hobe Sound is beautiful, quiet but lovely. You can actually hear the birds in the trees and the gentle sounds of kids playing pickleball from Loblolly Pines Golf Club. We spent time with my sister-in-law, Nancy Steinwald, who lost her husband Dr. Os Steinwald a year ago. It

Kitchy City Diner in West Palm Beach.

was bittersweet as there was really nothing we could do to ease her pain except be there for her. So, we went to dinners and had a memorable brunch at Harry and the Natives, a restaurant that seemed to be plucked

Harry & the Natives in Hobe Sound, a Jimmy Buffet inspired restaurant.

straight out of Jimmy Buffet's "Cheeseburger in Paradise" song. After the end of our stay in Hobe Sound, we rented a racy red Mustang convertible and headed for Palm Beach where our dear friend Leslie Hindman was gracious enough to invite us for a stay. Her home, in the heart of Palm Beach, had just been sold within 4 hours of being on the market! Her new home is even closer to the ocean and so beautiful. She has impeccable taste and

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At Renato's, PB, with Ken Norgan, Leslie Hindman and Chuck.

vision so we can't wait to see what she does with this latest acquisition. When we left, it was already Architectural Digest perfect. As smart as she is in her auction business, I think her true calling lies in real estate. I think it's also a passion of hers….We had so many

With Christine Schott, Palm Beach Social Diary author.

dinners at wonderful restaurants that I lost count….but, as for the extra pounds Chuck and I gained, sadly I do know that number. There is so much happening in Palm Beach now. It's not the sleepy little town I

The Breakers which, sadly, appears to now have office furniture for the lobby decor.

remember from our first visit years ago. In part, due to the influx of NYC restaurants that have recently relocated there. Our favorite, Swifty's, is also the most beautiful with old world charm combined with rich, modern touches. The hotel it lives in, The Colony (155 Hammon Ave), is steps from Worth Avenue and was established in 1947. After Andrew Wetenhall (Andrew's family were the hotel's previous

Peace and quiet in Hobe Sound.

owners) and wife Sarah purchased the hotel in 2016, Sarah discovered a mid-century postcard featuring the hotel's original lobby which was painted with a mural titled "The Early Days in Palm Beach." The mural inspired a partnership with the famed house of de Gournay, known for exquisite, hand painted

One of my favorite shops in PB, F. S. Henemader.

wallpapers. Kemble Interiors created the decor and the place is even more beautiful now with the wallpaper hiding secret meanings about the owners and its history, including a sweet drawing of the couple's King Charles Spaniel. Swifty's founder, Robert Caravaggi, has created another hit here and his presence makes the restaurant hum with excitement day and night. (The Colony contacted

Before dinner at Club Colette with Leslie Hindman, Nancy Traylor and friend.

him in 2019 asking him to open there after the NYC outpost closed in 2016.) On this visit, I was lucky to dine here on a couple of occasions, once

Chuck, dreaming on Worth Avenue.

for dinner around the pool (with its dramatic views) with Leslie and Chuck and, on another day, lunch with friends Kim Renk, Sharon Bush and Fran Weissler. Fran is 93 years young and a real hoot. She regaled us with her stories in show business with her husband Barry (they are Broadway producers with over 9 Tony Awards to their credit!–Pippin, La Cage aux Folles, Sweet Charity, Wonderful Town, Grease, Cabaret–you get the picture). Their first production on Broadway, "Othello," scored their first Tony Award and starred Christopher Plummer and James Earl Jones. The story of how she snagged Plummer for the role could be made into its own movie. Anyway, we also dined at another former NYC hotspot, Le Bilboquet (245 Worth Ave.), that's also relocated to PB. This was a slightly different story….Even though the space was heart-breakingly chic, the service and prices were not. Our waiter took my order and then walked away without even taking Chuck's! It is a new spot, but at these prices, there should be no room for errors like this.

La Goulue, Palm Beach, another NYC transplant to PB.

Anyway, I hope they can up their service game as it is a lovely spot. The third hotspot transplanted from NYC is the newly opened La Goulue at 288 S. County Rd. This restaurant

Batch, a Southern-style restaurant in Palm Beach on bustling Clematis Street.

is so true to the original that you feel like you could be at the one still located in NYC. The

Another great home decor shop in PB, Jennifer Garrigues.

French cuisine is impeccable and delicious. The Wine Channel's Jessica Altieri suggested a waiter there that she knew, Fernando, who came from the Four Seasons PB (which was entirely taken over by Ken Griffin's Citadel corp. during quarantine!) Anyway, the whole evening was a delight there and I highly recommend it. In a Palm Beach Social Diary article, "All Eyes on Palm Beach," one of my favorite writers, Christine Schott, said, "Booking a reservation in Palm Beach has now become a sport." I agree, it was difficult at times, but if you're nice

The one and only Colony Hotel with its beautiful, new de Gournay wallpaper.

on the phone, sometimes reservations do open up. Lol! And not only is the restaurant scene heating up, but the real estate market is insane. In a Palm Beach Daily News article (the "shiny sheet"), the cover story was

Le Bilboquet, looking down its tunneled entryway.

about an estate at 320 Island Road that sold in January for $26M and then was back on the market in less than a month for $45M! Miami Realtors Association stated, "Palm Beach County luxury home sales spiked 83% in Q3, of 2020." A fun note about the "shiny sheet", I was talking to the check-out lady at Green's Pharmacy and she gave me a little history about this revered newspaper that is now all plain, white paper. She

Driving A1A, the best….

said, "Back in the day, when women wore white gloves, they didn't want to get ink on them so the paper was glossy to avoid newsprint, aka the "shiny sheet." So, now you know. Some other highlights included the newly opened White Elephant Palm Beach (280 Sunset Ave.) a super-chic, super-

With Leslie Hindman and Chuck at her new PB house.

pricey luxury boutique hotel (with Lola 41 restaurant, which friends Phillip Emigh and Bruce Haas LOVED); The Ben (part of the Marriott's Autograph Collection) at 251 N. Narcissus in West Palm Beach. Its rooftop restaurant, Spruzzo, has breathtaking views of PB; Pizza al Fresco (where a famous descendant of President John Adams resides in the former Addison Mizner home with his pet pig, wife and an assortment of other pets), 14 Via Mizner; a couple of favorite design stores, F.S. Henemader, 316 S. County Road, and Jennifer Garrigues, 308 Peruvian); Batch, a fabulous Southern-style restaurant in West Palm Beach at 223 Clematis; Henry's Palm Beach (owned by The Breakers) at 229 Royal Poinciana Way is too cold and stark, we walked out; City Diner, a charming throwback diner in West Palm Beach at 3400 S. Dixie Hwy.; Trevini, a chic restaurant at 223 Sunset Ave.; Palm Beach Grill at Royal Poinciana Plaza doesn't have the pizzazz it once had; and of course Renatos, at 87 Via Mizner is perpetually elegant and chic.

Views from The Ben, a new hotel in West Palm Beach owned by the Marriott.

Our friend/designer Daniel Kinkade told us not to miss The Breakers this year. He wanted to know what I thought about its recent reno. I didn't like it at all. It looked like they replaced their plush, luxurious lobby furniture with stuff from IKEA. It was a horrible mix for this iconic, National Historic Landmark that deserves better. Thankfully, the magnificent carpet is still in place as are the luxurious floral arrangements that dot the vaulted lobby. This vacation was sorely needed. I'm sorry my blog is late because of it, but it gave us memories to last a lifetime and I hope some news you can use here. Special thanks, with love, to all of our friends (and my sister-in-law Nancy) who joined us, played with us and shared their homes. Forever grateful.

No restaurant in PB beats dining around the Colony's pool at Swifty's, our favorite hands down.

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Dori and Lori, she knew everybody and they loved her.

Still can't believe she's gone. Dori Wilson was such a powerful light, every room she walked into she made it better. I met her

Dori Wilson, one of the best kind.

when I first moved to Chicago in the early 70s. She was a Chicago star even then and she kindly took me under her wing, introducing me to all the important people. She even had me in the front row at Operation Push headquarters to meet Rev. Jesse Jackson. Everyone who knew her, loved her. We even talked about going into the public relations business together. Don't get me wrong, she wasn't all warm and fuzzy. Whatever was on her mind, she let you know. She was a "no bull-sh_t" kind of a girl for sure. And I admired that. She never pretended to be something she wasn't and didn't want her friends to be that way either. She gravitated towards people who were similar–real, honest, hard working and good-hearted–she loved Michael Kutza who she saw regularly, the late Victor Skrebneski who photographed her

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With her dear friends Michael Kutza and Victor Skrebneski.

often and her dearest friend Lee Blackwell Baur, who created a foundation (with other friends) in

Dori during her successful modeling days.

her honor, The Dori Wilson Foundation. This foundation will support some of the many charities she lent her heart and time to. She loved and raised her nephew Travis and always shared his achievements like a proud mom. We were both Chihuahua lovers and she called hers, Taco and Belle, they were her "babies." But as much as I thought I knew her, I realized after reading her obit (written lovingly by another dear friend of hers, Tarrah Cooper Wright), that there was so much I didn't know about this most remarkable woman. Here's an excerpt: "Dori Wilson was born to Fannie Brown Wilson and William Wilson on October 15, 1943, in Winona, Mississippi. She spent the earliest years of her life smelling the honeysuckle bush on the side of the house,

Beautiful Dori.

walking uphill to school each morning, developing a fondness for fishing, and listening to the crickets as she lay in bed each night. When Dori was 7, the family moved to Hyde Park, Illinois, and then to Chicago’s bustling Washington Park neighborhood. Dori loved reading, tumbling and doing double-dutch, but would later remember always working—reupholstering chairs, finishing her homework and book reports early so she could draw and create art, and earning money by doing hair for the

Dori with friends Patrick Sheehan and Cheryl Coleman.

neighborhood ladies when she was just 9. For Dori, having a keen eye for beauty and a strong work ethic always came naturally. As a high school freshman at Hyde Park High School, Dori caught the bus to the Woolworth store at 43rd & Ellis, where she—age 14, not 16—had lied about her age to get a

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Dori with former Mayor Harold Washington.

job. After high school, Dori attended Roosevelt University before working at Goldblatt’s on State Street, and then at Compton Advertising as a secretary and assistant producer. One day, while at a commercial shoot, Dori met a talent agent who suggested

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Dori, always chic, even working….

that Dori shouldn’t just be behind the camera—she should be in front of it. Tall, thin and beautiful, Dori had all the makings of a model. She later remembered that while there were few models who looked like her at the time, she didn’t see that as a roadblock—she saw her uniqueness as an asset, and she was right. Dori was motivated by her inner drive to always go after what she wanted and to not take no as a final answer. But she also knew she was breaking barriers for other Black girls and women. As a dark-skinned Black woman, Dori felt that she always had to work harder, try harder, and aim higher than many of her peers because of the way things were stacked against her; Dori was determined to succeed against any obstacle, and she did. “I first saw Dori from afar when I was a teenager working in

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Lee Blackwell Baur, Dori, Zorada Gowenlock and Deirdre Pratt.

a stock room on Oak Street,” said longtime friend and Ariel Investments Co. CEO/President Mellody Hobson. “When I raved about her to my mother, she told me that Dori was helping to change old-fashioned and highly conventional definitions of beauty. When I later met her as a young professional, we became instant friends. I often told her that when I looked at her face, I saw the face of my own mother. She was

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Dori with Pam Capitanini and Myra Reilly.

quite special to many, including me.” In 1964, Dori became the first Black runway model in Chicago. She opened shows for Bonwit Teller, Marshall Field's, I. Magnin, Carson Pirie Scott and Saks and worked with acclaimed photographer and friend Victor Skrebneski. Around this time, people in the business told her to quit advertising and model full time. But Dori had too many

With Dori, Barb Samuels and friend.

ideas to just be a canvas on which other people painted their stories. In 1968, she joined Foote, Cone & Belding to work on their advertising project with Sears, Roebuck & Co, and in 1970, she was promoted to Director of Fashion and Casting. That same year, an appearance as a contestant on TV’s “The Dating Game” won her a trip to Italy and England. Dori

continued to split her time and modeled in numerous fashion shows, advertisements and events, including Gucci’s Fall 1970 campaign and the Dress Horsemen and Trophy Board Annual Benefit Fashion Spectacular

Dori featured in "My Start Story."

in 1975. She even served as the prototype for the first Black mannequin in Marshall Field’s and hosted her own public affairs talk show called “Memorandum” on WMAQ-TV. In 1980, Dori launched Dori Wilson & Associates. For 40 years, she served clients across a broad range of industries, crafting their messages and helping them reach new audiences. Her clients included the City of Chicago, Tiffany & Co., the NAACP Legal Defense Fund, and many more. Dori never waited for the phone to ring; instead, she picked it up and asked for what she wanted. She was never scared of hearing “no.” She kept moving until she found the “yes.” Dori was committed to giving back to the community and served on the board of many organizations including the Harris Theater, The Council of Regents of Loyola University, PAWS Chicago, Chicago Workforce Board, Chicago International Film Festival, Columbia College, Brookfield Zoo, First Bank & Trust of Illinois, Board of Trustees of the Chicago Public Library, Girls Scouts of Chicago Association Board, and more. In interviews with The History Makers organization, Dori

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Dori with Helen "Helpful" Melchior.

noted that while she got her work ethic from her father, she got her kindness from her mother—a quality she prized even more. She was asked many questions, but two in particular resonate today. How would you like to be remembered? “Dori was good and kind and did her best to help others,” she said. If Travis is watching this, what would you want him to know? “That I loved him and did the best I could, and that I’m very happy to have had him in my life.” Dori departed the world on February 1, 2021. She is survived by her nephew Travis Wilson, her brother William Thomas Wilson, Sr. and his spouse Joanna; her nephew Wil Wilson and his wife

Dori and Shauna Montgomery.

Kathy, grand-nieces Laura, Brittany and Taylor Wilson; first cousins Mary Elizabeth Hunt and her husband Colle, Bettie Ann Priester and her husband John; second cousins Maria Hunt, Lisa Hunt, Colle Hunt, Jr. and wife Janice and their children Naomi

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Kate and Leslie Zentner with Dori.

and Isabel. She was preceded in death by parents Fannie Laura Brown and William (Willie) Wilson, sister Mamie Agusta Wilson, and half-sisters Georgia Jones and Dorothy Edwards. Dori's friend/philanthropist Lee Blackwell Baur, summed up her friend's remarkable life and presence, “Dori Wilson was a trailblazing woman and Chicago icon who brought a larger than life status to the many fundraising efforts and charitable organizations she touched. Her stunning beauty and unbridled energy put her in a distinctive category, touching the lives of so many including my own. Our 20-year friendship was one of mutual respect and undying love. We will honor Dori’s life with the creation of the Dori Wilson Foundation, which will support those organizations to which Dori so intimately gave her heart and soul.” You are greatly missed dear Dori.

There will never be another. RIP dear Dori.

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Sam Toia, president/CEO IRA.

Kudos to Sam Toia and the Illinois Restaurant Association for continuing to fight for our restaurants

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Restaurateur Sam Sanchez, new IRA board chair.

and also for its exciting new honorees and board of directors! First off, congrats to Sam Sanchez, the newly elected chairman of the board. Sanchez most recently served as the IRA's First Vice Chairman and is the Founder and CEO of Third Coast Hospitality Group. In the mid-80s, Sam moved from his family's hometown in Sabinas Hidalgo, Mexico to start what is now an accomplished

Restaurant critic Phil Vettel, Lifetime Achievement honoree.

hospitality career in Chicago. In addition to his

Amanda Puck, Mariano's Director of Strategic Brand Development, accepted the Sara Rowe ProStart Company of the Year award on behalf of Mariano's.

restaurants, he also owns EMC Construction, a full-service construction company that handles renos of existing properties and new construction. In other IRA news, award recipients were announced in four categories: Restaurateur of the Year to Gregory Schulson, CEO of Burrito Beach and Lunan Corporation; Vendor of the Year to Gordon Food Service, Performance Foodservice, US Foods and Sysco; the Sara Rowe ProStart Company of the Year to Mariano's (accepted by Amanda Puck, Director of Strategic Brand Development) and a special Lifetime Achievement Award went to Phil Vettel, longtime food writer for the Chicago Tribune. Congrats to ALL!

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Misericordia's Sister Rosemary Connelly and Lois Gates, Assistant Executive Director.

And, in the mean time, I'm receiving lots of encouraging event notices. I'm hopeful we'll be back in person soon at our beloved nonprofit events. On Feb.

Beloved philanthropists Diane and Richard Weinberg.

27, Cal's Angel's hosted a virtual fundraiser for pediatric cancer. The Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum hosted Norma Kamali as she discussed her new book, virtually, "I AM Invincible" on Feb. 25. Presenting sponsors were Liz Stiffel and Richard and Diane Weinberg. The Chicago Lighthouse hosted a Texas Hold 'Em poker tournament on Feb. 26 to raise funds for its mission of serving the blind, visually impaired, disabled and Veteran communities. On February 26, Misericordia hosted "Heart of Gold: A Night at the Races" to support its services for children and adults with special needs. Girls in the Game celebrated its 26th anniversary, also on Feb. 26, of empowering girls and helping them build their confidence and social skills. More to come!

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Join the dynamic ladies of The Service Club of Chicago on Monday, March 8, from 5-6 pm, CST. I'm so proud to host this tribute/Zoom party in honor of International Womens Day! Any donation of $25 or more will get you into the virtual party! Join us to help the SC carry on their 131 year mission of supporting those in need. (Click here to register/donate here)

Each spring, the Illinois Holocaust Museum & Education Center hosts its signature event, the Humanitarian Awards Dinner. Now one of the largest fundraising dinners in the city of Chicago, this high profile event pays tribute to pillars in our community, Holocaust Survivors and highlights the Museum’s achievements. This year's dinner on Wednesday, March 10, will be a hybrid event with virtual and in-person (limited) programming. Honorees include Exelon Corporation, Scott Swanson (PNC Bank, Ill.) and Zev and Shifra Karkomi (posthumously, Survivor Legacy Award). Keynote speaker will be Kareem Abdul-Jabbar, former NBA star/activist. (For tickets and more info, click here!)

Porchlight Music Theatre will host "Chicago Sings Rock & Roll Broadway" virtually on Saturday, March 20. The honoree will be Tony Award winning actress Felicia P. Fields. The event will feature a who’s-who roster of Chicago’s own music theatre and cabaret favorites with all funds raised supporting the theatre's artistic and educational programming. (For tickets/details, click here!)

St. Patrick's High School, led by friend and president Joe Schmidt, is asking for your support of its virtual Shamrock Green & Gold Gala on Thursday, March 11. Funds will support its mission to provide educational experiences of the highest quality which enables young men to develop their highest potential as lifelong learners and assets to society and the Church. (For more info, click here)

Join the Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum for some vintage, fashion fun on Tuesday, March 23 from 5:30 – 7 pm, CST! The webinar presentation will discuss the rich history of Bes-Ben hats, Chicago's Mad Hatter, alongside former costume curator of the Museum, Elizabeth Jachimowicz, and Nena Ivon.The first 40 registrants will receive a free set of Bes-Ben magnets! Details here!

And speaking of nonprofits, I was so proud to co-host,

Steak 48's Oliver Badgio and Agency H5's Kathleen Sarpy.

with Agency H5's Kathleen Sarpy, Pretty Powerful 3.0, a zoom party celebrating the city's philanthropic leaders. Nearly 70 women joined us for a virtual cocktail party sponsored by Steak 48 on February 9. Last year, we hosted the party at the restaurant but, this year, we were proud and grateful to be able to continue this tradition despite Covid. Four nonprofit

Some of the nearly 70 community leaders who joined Pretty Powerful 3.0.

leaders: Nancy Wright, CEO of Girl Scouts of Greater Chicago; Holly Buckendahl, CEO of Ronald McDonald House Charities of Chicagoland and Northwest Indiana; Lauren Schrero Levy, executive director of The Nora Project and Marilynn Gardner, CEO of Navy Pier, shared how their organizations had pivoted and adapted to the changes caused by the pandemic, as well as their hopes for the future. I was so excited to see so many familiar (powerful) faces, including Heather Owen (One Tail at a Time), Katie Law (PAWS Chicago),

More Pretty Powerful 3.0 participants.

Brenda Langstraat (Chicago Public Library), Mimi Plauche (Chicago International Film Festival), Joyce Winnecke (YWCA Metro Chicago), Lindsay Avner (Bright Pink), Shelley MacArthur (Old St. Pat's rep), Sandi Hartstein (The Joffrey Ballet), Rebecca Darr (WINGS) and SOOO many others! As a surprise at the end of the zoom party, Steak 48 (Oliver Badgio and Jeff Mastro, Steak 48 owner) provided participants with a dining gift certificate to the restaurant, located at 615 N. Wabash Ave., as a show of appreciation for their service to the Chicago community. I'm already looking forward to Pretty Powerful 4.0!! Thanks to all who participated and shared their plans for the future and told us how they coped in 2020. It was such an inspiring hour of hope and friendship! God Bless our Nonprofits!

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It's all good, dogs and inspiring stories that heal hearts! Please join me on Thursday, March 25, when I host (TPAN) Test Positive Network's launch of a new book–"When Dogs Heal: Powerful Stories of People Living with HIV and the Dogs That Saved Them." Changing the narrative surrounding life with HIV, the book is a series of deeply personal accounts that tell a story of connection, survival and the transformative

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Dr. Robert Garafalo, photo by Jan Terry.

power of a dog’s unconditional love. You’re invited to join TPAN and me on March 25 for a discussion featuring the author of "When Dogs Heal," Dr. Rob Garofalo, an HIV specialist whose practice centers on adolescents and LGBTQ youth. Join us as we discuss the book, share our life journeys—and, of course, talk about dogs! Dr. Rob will be joined by some of the people living with HIV who appear in the book, and by Julie Supple, TPAN’s programs director, who will discuss Paws N' Effect, TPAN’s program that brings together people living with HIV with a dog companion. When you purchase When Dogs Heal from Unabridged Bookstore either online or at their store, Unabridged will donate 20% of the book price to TPAN with all proceeds going directly to the Paws n’ Effect program, which helps find safe, forever homes for rescue dogs. “ Please sign up here and join us at 6 pm, CST, Thursday, March 25.

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And she can cook too, Maria Pappas, Cook County Treasurer.

Hats off, again, to Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas. She had a standing O at the Polish Museum of America recently in honor of Pulaski Day. She gave this amazing speech (without notes, see below)) that left the audience wildly applauding. She is one of our city's most active politicians, always looking for ways to help we, the people. Recently, she and her team assembled a 234 page report describing the eye-popping trends of property tax growth in Cook County. She is sharing the data as a call to action for voters who have sat on the sidelines while taxes have continued to skyrocket. "The residences and commercial owners, who do not vote have allowed this to happen because they don't hold anybody accountable. I want to inspire people to get registered," she said. Amen to that Maria! On another Maria note, catch her WVON radio show every Monday (1690 AM) when she hosts "Black Houses Matter," a talk show about helping homeowners access unclaimed property tax refunds. Mayor Pappas? Sounds good to me!

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Chicago Star- debut issue!

There is lots of exciting news on the Chicago Star Media front! First off, I'm thrilled to announce that I've been named Contributing Editor to this wonderful group of papers that I like to call "a love letter to Chicago." I love its mission, which is mine too, to deliver positive news you can use with a hyper-local bent. In other words, a paper about Chicago,

With CSM publisher/founder Elaine Hyde. (Who's also a physicist!)

for Chicago! Our first rebranded issue as Chicago Star debuted on March 1 and it's a hit, I'm proud to say! (Read it all here) We have a brand new writer, Bridget McGuire,

Gibson's Restaurant Group are Chicago Star fans! (Thank you Kathy O'Malley Piccone!)

whose story "The Pandemic, Sales and the Single Girl", will make you laugh out loud! And I'm pretty proud of my column in this new issue too, "Wedding Bell DOs", with fabulous love stories and advice and tips from couples you know from around town. They include Gibson's Restaurant Group's Peg and Steve Lombardo, Izzy Idonije and Jatnna Toribio, WGN-TV's Ana Belaval and Steve Vihon, "Windy City Live's" Val Warner and Elijah "Jobba" Maxey, The Joffrey Ballet's Victoria Jaiani and Temur Suluashvili, Kristina and Mike McGrath, Cheryl and Albert Grace, Marcus Riley and Jude Fitzgerald, Donna La Pietra and Bill Kurtis, award winning producer/director/writers Robert and Leslie Zemeckis, Agency H5's

Chicago Star Advisory Board member Howard Tullman and Gertie.

Kathleen and Chris Sarpy and more. These couples shared some great tips on making, keeping and building relationships with some surprising admissions. (Read story here!) We are building a family at Chicago Star and want you to be a part of it! Don't miss an issue, subscribe now

Chicago Star Advisory Board member Bonnie Tullman (and her Remi) are fans!

here! Special thanks to our exciting, STELLAR new Advisory Board members too: Howard Tullman, Sargent McCormick, Bonnie Spurlock, Sherren Leigh, Paul Iacono, Leslie Hindman, Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas, Michael Kutza, Robert Zentner, Alex Pissios and Tom Kehoe. We are SOOOO grateful for your support! In more exciting news, Chicago Star was the featured article in this week's must-read Robert Feder's column. (Read it here)

Love and thanks to all of the romantic couples here who shared their stories with me!

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I hate sharing bad news but it doesn't look like our city's convention business is coming back, this year at least. The Chicago Dental Society has cancelled its annual February meeting. Since March, more than 200 trade shows have been scrapped according to info from the Illinois Restaurant Association. These shows were expected to generate more than 2 billion for Chicago. Other cancellations include the National Restaurant Association show, the Inspired Home show and even Macy's annual, greatly anticipated Flower Show display at the State Street store. On a brighter front, it appears that the Chicago Auto Show is still working on returning this year. Fingers crossed for better convention news coming soon.

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I Marie Kondo-ed my closets.

I started spring cleaning early this year. Saw a moth and freaked. I'm finished now with one walk-in closet and will soon be heading for the others. It was a bittersweet walk down memory lane. I'm a saver so I loathe throwing anything away, especially things with sentimental value. I had to decide what to do with a lot of pieces of clothing that had special memories for me. I have the top I wore when Chuck and I got our marriage license; the gown I wore to my first Joffrey Ballet Gala; the gown I wore when I co-chaired a Service Club Gala; the cocktail dress I wore when I was honored by the Chicago Lighthouse; the short red

I started a little early.

dress I wore to the opening of the Modern Wing, the fancy custom top, created by an Art Institute student, I wore when I was inducted into the BizBash Hall of Fame…well, you get the idea. They all hold such special memories for me and even looking at them makes all of those memories and occasions come back in a rush. But, I have to grow up and out of this habit. I got rid of them all and I feel 20 pounds lighter (kinda). I got rid of everything except the top I wore for getting our marriage license. That will stay.

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With the weather getting warmer and restaurant restrictions becoming more reasonable, I'm almost giddy with excitement. We get our second shot recently and, after that, I can't wait to go bar hopping and cram myself into crowded elevators. (Totally kidding here) But it's fun to think about reaching a better place in our city and country….(prayer hands here).

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Candace

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NEW YEAR’S EVE RESOLUTIONS, 2020 AND THE FUTURE: CHICAGO WEIGHS IN

Plus: What nonprofit fundraisers are coming back in 2021?; YWCA Metropolitan Chicago's GREAT news; Izzy "Shops with a Cop" for the kids; Silver linings for PAWS Chicago, One Tail at a Time and Young at Heart Pet Rescue; CHI-lebrities open their hearts in Chicago Star Media; Remembering Hef's HOT New Year's Eve parties; Eversight Illinois' Mystery Masquerade; Playboy's new centerfold policy; Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation's Wings to Cure; Chicago Light's Gala of Hope; Happy engagement announcements; Six Flags Holiday Drive-Thru; In the news with John and Steve; Thoughts on 2020 and what the New Year will bring; A touching video and SO MUCH MORE!

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Londonhouse Rooftop igloos

New Year's Eve looked a little different this year. Besides Covid changing the landscape of the entire world, it also kept us from celebrating the end of one of the worst years in recent memory. Restaurants missed out on much needed revenue, friends missed traditional celebrations with family and Times Square was eerily empty. People could only peek out their windows like Jimmy Stewart in "Rear Window" trying to get a feel for what was happening outside. We are all still on lockdown, mentally and physically. Chuck and I grabbed longtime friend Michael Kutza

NYE at cozy Avli on Wells.

determined to still experience NYE, this year in a tent with heaters. Even though people were having fun we all knew this was just a (hopefully temporary) substitute for the real thing. All of this lack of freedom made me think about the wild and woolly days of NYEs past. We're so lucky

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Yurts at Swift & Sons designed by Kehoe.

to have experienced the heyday of Playboy with Hefner at his Mansion in LA. I always felt his parties rivaled Jay Gatsby's in exquisite excess and excitement. The invitations, always with beautiful pinup artwork created by Olivia De Berardinis, arrived in the mail a few weeks before the big event (I've saved them all).

LA Playboy Mansion lit up for NYE 2009.

We would RSVP immediately and then the anticipation began. You never knew what to expect at any of his

With Hef at a past NYE in LA.

parties as the guest lists were always changing to accommodate whoever was in town along with some of his celebrity friends. One year, the Village People performed, another year Three Six Mafia hit the stage that was inside a ginormous tent on the grounds of Hef's Holmby Hills estate. Another year, one of Hef's three girlfriends, Bridget Marquardt, popped out of a giant cake

Hef surrounded by admirers at a past NYE.

and did a slow strip tease as she gazed into his eyes (the crowd went wild). Hef's party guests have included John Elway, Penelope Cruz, James Caan, Nicholas Cage, astronaut Buzz Aldrin, Robert Culp, Tiffany Trump, Donald Trump, Julie Newmar, Bill Cosby (ick), Jane Russell, Quentin Tarantino, Pamela

Chuck enjoying the views at one of Hef's NYE parties.

Anderson, Jack Nicholson, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Madonna, Eddie Murphy, Warren Beatty, Justin Timberlake, Jimmy Connors, Paris and Nicky Hilton, Eddie Murphy and so many more. It was always a great

adventure wondering who you would see that night. I was lucky that Hef liked Chuck too and always included him. During the parties, guests enjoyed gourmet buffets,

With fellow PMs--all former Hef girlfriends but me--including Patti Connors

Celebrating with fellow Playmates Marcy Hanson, Hope Olson and Patti McGuire Connors.

unlimited champagne and cocktails, swimming in the pool or lounging in the grotto. Guests were encouraged to wear lingerie which definitely added to the excitement. Some girls' interpretations of the "suggested attire" left little to the imagination. Oh, those were truly the days! I'm happy to see Playboy doing so well online now too. Even though the magazines have physically disappeared, the brand's online presence is strong and growing. I'm so happy to still have them as a family too. Here's to another 68 years and to a bigger, brighter 2021 for us all!

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I quizzed some of my favorite bold-faced names to see how they were handling the pandemic, what their NYE resolutions were, their best moments of 2020, hopes for the future and any advice that might give us some inspiration. I discovered that we all have more in common than we know. I hope you enjoy these enlightening, and in some cases, surprising, comments from some of my favorite Chicago notables.

One of my favorite media peeps, Sylvia Perez (Fox-32) provided these thoughtful answers. Her

Sylvia Perez: "We are Puerto Rican and I love these shirts. We eat Pasteles and drink coquito (Puerto Rican egg nog) it’s a holiday tradition!"

favorite moment, "When they finally took Texas off the travel ban list and I was able to see my 86 year-old mother who I had not seen since last year because of the pandemic. It warmed my heart. I needed my mommy. It doesn't matter how old you are." Her NYE resolution? "To live in the moment!" Her advice? "Everyone is going through something, respect and try not to judge."

Kathy O'Malley Piccone

Kathy O'Malley Piccone, the hostess with the mostest at Gibson's Steakhouse, said her favorite moments during the pandemic were "when people started to reach out to each other, sending texts, jokes, puzzles, flowers, delicious foods from local restaurants and the wonderful 'calm app.'' She said, "Most of all, just sending love and positive vibes to each others. Touching moments that brought me to tears every evening at 8 pm throughout the city [when people serenaded the healthcare workers]." Her NYE resolution is to "spread more kindness, more love and generosity, more understanding of one another, more courage and peace and be more in the moment."

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Amanda Puck, Director Strategic Brand Development Mariano's, has worked in the food industry for a long time. She shared,

With community partner Jermaine Anderson with Corey Carr 6th Ward Alderman Roderick Sawyer Ron Baker Jr. and Otis Wilson.

Amanda Puck w/ Mariano's community partner Jermaine Anderson, Corey Carr, 6th Ward Alderman Roderick Sawyer, Ron Baker Jr. and Otis Wilson.

"Through the pandemic, it was great to see organizations and individuals step up and help the community more than ever! Both the Greater Chicago Food Depository and Northern Illinois Food Bank have worked so hard feeding the community, as well as all the local food pantries across Chicagoland." During the isolation she learned "how to make a mean arancini from Chef Tony Priolo, delicious Mac & Cheese from Chef Brian Jupiter and taste more wines with Belinda Chang all via our Mariano's meet-ups and zoom classes." Her NYE resolution? "To read more! She has started with Julia Child's "My Life in France." Amanda said, "I admire her, she started and blossomed in her career later in life. She's an epic legend in our industry." She added a quote from one of her favorite authors Morgan Harper Nichols, 'Even if the wait carries on another year, I will not get where I am going without first learning to be here.'"

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Melody Spann Cooper with former First Lady Michelle Obama.

Melody Spann Cooper, Chair and CEO Midway Broadcasting Corp., said her favorite moment of 2020 was "when Joe Biden and Kamala Harris were declared the President and VP-Elect of the United States. I didn't realize how sleep deprived I had been over the past four years." Her NYE resolution is to "remain healthy and helpful. I'm making a commitment to 365 days of giving. Every day I plan to intentionally give something that will help someone." Her hope for the future? "I hope for healing and restoration. Restoring health to those who have been impacted by the pandemic. Restoring compassion in all of humanity and restoring Chicago to the great city we love. It's not perfect, but in its imperfection, it's still home and a place that has allowed me to dream past my zip code."

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Paul Iacono, president Chicago Dowel Company, and much loved man-about-town, said his

Paul Iacono with neice Jennifer Goodwin and Tommy.

Paul Iacono with niece Jennifer and nephew Tommy.

favorite moment of 2020 was being able to squeeze in a last minute trip to Hawaii during Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day. His hopes for next year are a "quick return to normalcy, especially for my friends in the hospitality industry who truly have had a rough go of it." His words of advice, "This too shall pass."

Always stylish, Mark Olley.

Another handsome friend, Mark Olley (Co-op Lending Manager, Chicago Financial Services), said, "No matter what hand we've been dealt, we adapt, we flourish, it's who we are, it's what we do, we're CHICAGO STRONG!" Mark discovered new skills during the pandemic, as many of us did. He enjoyed learning to cook, plant and tend to a vegetable garden and credits his husband and dog Grayson for keeping him sane. Mark says, "I always lead with hope, optimism and love." His dream for 2021 is good health and an end to Covid-19. "A positive mind and outlook, no matter how trying the circumstances, helps to get us through a lot."

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Dusty Stemer with friends Peggy Martay,

May Kay Touhy-Silverman

and Toni Canada.

Yolanda "Dusty" Stemer, philanthropist, member of Service Club of Chicago, Costume Council and others, said that two of her three sons had mild cases of Covid and both recovered rapidly."Things like this makes you realize and give credit to our healthcare workers." Her NYE resolution is to "not turn that Peloton into a clothes rack!" Her hopes for 2021, "The same as everyone, to get a vaccine to all of our loved ones and free Botox for all!" Dusty is married to Dr. Alex Stemer, who is deeply involved in treatment, research and prevention of Covid. "There is light at the end of the tunnel. Recent advances will help make 2021 much better than 2020…Tomorrow is promised to no one, and the one thing Covid steals from us is time with those we love," she said.

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Justine Fedak, Corporate Hippie, motivational speaker and soon-to-be Woman of Vision

Justine Fedak, "a girl who never gives up!"

for this year's Eversight Illinois Gift of Sight Celebration told me her title should be "a girl who never gives up." She's a good friend and I can tell you I have never met anyone so tenacious and driven (in a very good way). She said 2020 was a time of total renewal for her. She regained mobility "by some miracle" [she suffered from MS for years and years] and "connected deeply" with her dearest friends. Her NYE resolution is to "cry when things make me happy or sad and to feel and live my life to the fullest, no pretending anything." Her motto? "Be in love with your life every single minute. My grandma passed away this December at age 98 and she was the strongest, toughest, most loving person who never complained about anything she had to live through. To be alive is to be in love…with your life," she said.

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Sherrill Bodine with Paula Borg and Sherry Lea Holson.

Sherrill Bodine, author, president of the Service Club of Chicago and philanthropist, said her favorite moment of the last year was "working with the dedicated women of the Service Club who worked tirelessly through these challenging times to raise money for our Philanthropic Fund which will be given out in 2021 to worthy charities all over Chicago." Sherrill recently lost her husband and said her resolution is "to seek the light and find my way on this new journey without John." She always greets each day with hope and vows to "never surrender."

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Sean Lewis, WGN News Anchor, remembers his favorite moment of 2020 very well. He

Newlyweds Sean Lewis and Trover Gray Wilson.

married the love of his life, Trover Gray Wilson, in a ceremony at City Hall. "The pandemic didn't allow us a large in-person celebration but I'm hoping 2021 will!" He said his resolution is "to realize that resolutions aren't a good idea. Usually it becomes the first disappointment of any new year for me." He hopes that when the pandemic ends, that people will treat each other better. His words of advice? "Eat well, appreciate the small things and learn one new thing a day."

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Nan Giordano (3rd from L) with Joshua Blake Carter, Beth Tarrant, her son Keenan Casey, Sophie Darley and Cesar Salinas.

An icon in the dance world, Nan Giordano, artistic director Giordano Dance Chicago, is looking forward to "launching Illuminate the Possibilities, an initiative which represents global connection, unity, positivity and possibility, all through dance." She said, "Amidst our dim world light I have chosen to focus on the many silver linings that have immersed. I hope we learn and grow and take the many challenging circumstances and make something positive out of them. Mankind and peace, front and center!" Her motto? "Today is the day! Adversity creates strength and change brings opportunity."

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Dear friend Michael Caputo, brand and creative strategist, enjoyed long walks around

Michael Caputo (R) with friend Greg Hyder at RL.

the lakefront in the warmer months. He said, "It was lots of good thinking time. The views of our beautiful city were a hopeful reminder that things will soon return to normal." His NYE resolution is to "be adept with change and related growth." He said, "This pandemic has challenged us to rethink the 'why' of our respective lives/careers." His advice: "Every storm runs out of rain. We've all had to make do and redirect energies this past year, that can be stressful. Don't let a setback define the day. Or your life."

Dionne Williams

Dionne Williams, president D. Williams PR Group, said, even though 2020 was a "rough year", she was able to spend more quality time with her family and a small group of friends, by staying in touch via phone or Zoom. She said, "2020 made me slow down, so for 2021 I will continue to not rush myself and live in the present and enjoy my surroundings. I want to focus more on fitness and travel when it's safe to do so." She added, "During these rough times, I have learned to be more patient. I also will take this time to work on things that I was too busy for previously, in life and business."

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Tracey Tarantino DiBuono, executive producer ZZAZZ Productions, said, "Having family

Tracey Tarantino DiBuono and her Joey.

close and my young granddaughters in my home has given me a foundation of great unity as a family. Work paused. My husband Joey prepared family dinners that brought us all to the table, dinners that we never dreamed would happen in our previously busy lives." She looks forward to adding a new component to her business, virtual fashion shows and events. Her NYE resolution? "Don't expect things to return to normal…make a choice to accept and then create a new normal and keep my faith in God." She hopes that "new avenues become open to us and that prayers will be answered for everyone. Open your heart to what has been given and find gratitude in every day."

Michelle Durpetti with her fab fam–dad Tony Durpetti, mom Marion and hubby Collin Pierson.

Michelle Durpetti, managing partner Turnkey Hospitality Group, chief planner Michelle Durpetti Events, said her favorite moment of 2020 was seeing her Gene & Georgetti management team come together, be more creative, more adaptive and supportive of each other. "We have even laughed while sometimes we felt like

Michelle Durpetti and her team from Gene & Georgetti restaurant.

crying and I think that is because we have each other. Yanni, Sal, Cristiano, Luis, Jessica, Nicole, Jeremy and Angelo are all such incredible human beings. My favorite moment hands down has been seeing them flourish and fight all the challenges." As far as resolutions, "I don't believe in resolutions to be honest. I live my life out loud, with empathy and compassion always and when I get something wrong, I own it. And that is year round." Her advice going forward: "I think I now live with the knowledge that life truly can change so fast. It has really affirmed for me that I need to take a moment every day to be grateful for all that I have and for making it this far." Her words of advice? "Let's stop tearing at one another and, instead, extend helpful hands and grateful hearts towards each other."

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RMHC-CNI's Holly Buckendahl.

Holly Buckendahl, CEO Ronald McDonald House Charities of Chicagoland & NW Indiana, said a silver lining, that she didn't expect, was the ability to stay connected virtually with family and friends. Her hope for the coming year? "While open through the pandemic (with many restrictions), I look forward to RMHC-CNI reinstating the full breadth of services critically ill children and their families need on their journey to heal together." Her advice during these tough times comes from professor, social worker and author Brene Brown who said, "In order to empathize with someone's experience, you must be willing to believe them as they see it and not how you imagine their experience to be."

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My PR gal pal Kathleen Sarpy, founder/CEO Agency H5, said her favorite moment of 2020,

Kathleen Sarpy and her family.

despite a tough year filled with personal losses, was being able to be "immersed" with all of her kids. She and her husband Chris discovered that "love and connectedness is truly the most important thing." She said, "I really need to find a hobby. I'm a wife, a mom to 6 awesome kids, run a company and I don't really have something that I do just for me. I might finally give meditation a try or yoga, to have a space to be mindful in body and spirit."

Pandemic baking with Jennifer Sutton Brieva and Paul Iacono.

Jennifer Sutton Brieva, felt that Christmas was one of her favorite moments of 2020. She said "it was a much needed shift in energy for everyone. We need that all year long." Her hopes for 2021? "To learn from 2020 and never take people or experiences for granted again and to get back into pre-Covid shape!" Her words of advice? "People need to be grateful and embrace the simple pleasures of life that have become so very vital." I am so grateful for a FaceTime call with my parents, happy hour Zoom with dear friends, a classic movie with my cat Zoe or even a walk in Lincoln Park or a dance party in the kitchen with my husband Joaquin–those every day opportunities for joy often overlooked become special moments of connection, never to be taken for granted again."

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WBBM Newsradio anchor/reporter Lisa Fielding, who has one of the most distinctive voices

Lisa Fielding, the Voice of WBBM.

in the business, said her favorite moment of 2020 was a mother/daughter trip to Mexico in February. "I got my travel fix, after this, by hitting the road to Michigan a couple of times to see the sunset from the other side. I'm a big "sunset" person and try to find them wherever I go," she added. Her hope for the coming year? "I hope for better days for the world, where jobs and prosperity return, where we can hug each other, sing and dance with each other while enjoying live music in our favorite venues or in that dark bar with the awesome jukebox, where we can travel the world again, enjoy a cold one and the crack of the bat at a baseball game, enjoy family gatherings, weddings, celebrations, our favorite restaurants, happy hour with friends and escape through live theater."

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Dori Wilson

Another dear friend in media is Dori Wilson, publicist/founder Dori Wilson Public Relations. Her favorite moment of 2020 was "watching a racially diverse movement develop and grow in recognition of long-standing racial inequality and injustice in this country, watching individuals and corporations commit to do better and recognition of "we're all in this together." Her NY resolution? "To actually use my Peloton!" Her hope for 2021? "I am so hopeful for a vaccination and a vacation!"…..Words of wisdom? "Laughter is the best medicine and forgiveness runs a close second!"

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Caylei Vogelzang and family.

The editor-in-chief of Cancer Wellness magazine, Caylei Vogelzang, said the best moment of 2020 was being able to spend more time with her family on the golf course. Her NYE resolutions include learning to do the splits 3 ways and a backward walkover; improve on physical fitness assessments; visit a yoga retreat; grow and expand her magazine and "become more of an essential source for those touched by cancer"; plan a family holiday to a national park; wear more pieces from local designers and sustainable fashion and practice gratitude daily and more meditation. The words she lives by is "exercise, exercise, exercise!"

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Jean de St Aubin, the executive director of the Gene Siskel Film Center, says her favorite

Jean de St. Aubin and her daughter holiday baking.

moment of 2020 was presenting the Black Harvest Film Festival. She said, "The timing could not have been better. It was so great to have a month of celebrating Black stories, the joy felt virtually was a much needed balm to a turbulent year." Her hopes for 2021? "That everyone gets vaccinated ASAP, and that we all be together again. I think I will turn into a hugging machine as soon as it is safe." Her advice? "Count your blessings and share your gifts."

Jean Antoniou and family at Chicago Botanic Garden.

Jean Antoniou, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago Board of Managers, said her favorite part of 2020 was "knowing it is almost over." Her advice moving forward? "To cherish family and friends because they will always be your biggest supporters. Glass is half full is always a good way to look at each day."

Michelle Mekky, president and founder of

Michelle Mekky

Mekky Media Relations, found silver linings in a tough year. She said spending more time with her kids and husband made her so grateful for "the little moments." She also found joy in the hiring of four new people for her 5 year-old business. In 2021, she plans on prioritizing her own health and to invest in herself in ways she never has. Her motto? "Every day is a new day. Every morning we wake up with a new chance. I truly believe the energy you give out is what comes back to you. Despite all of the negativity around us, never lose hope. We will get through this!"

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Pam Capitanini (center) with friends Simona Garcia and Cristina Montgomery.

Pamella Capitanini, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago, loved watching people's inventiveness during 2020 as many learned new ways to pivot. She said, "From drive-by birthday celebrations, mask creativity and eating in igloos, it was amazing and inspiring to see." Her NYE resolution: "To keep smiling and do my best! And remember the front line workers who have given all and those who have left us." She added, "I believe many of us have realized that nails, hair and party dresses don't make a difference, but reaching out to one another does!"

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And last but certainly not least, everyone's favorite elf, The Real Elf Tommy Holl, Head of Media for The

Tommy Holl, aka "The Real Elf."

North Pole, had much to be thankful for in 2020. "This holiday season is one for the history books that I hope we never have to repeat, but we were able to create a spark of joy for young and old." His favorite moments included: "Elfing" at 900 North Michigan Shops; Sending Elf Gram video messages with proceeds benefiting Imerman Angels (Tommy is a cancer survivor); Being hired to pop into 5 Zoom calls from around the world; Appearing on "Around Town with Ana Belaval", "Happy Hour with the Hoovers", WGN radio with Paul Lisnek, Tom Skilling's Christmas Eve and so much more. His NYE resolution is to: "Pause, reset, reorganize, reflect, be prepared, be ready, be thankful and be kind." His advice? "You can't grow from NO. It's okay to say no when it doesn't feel right, but saying no all the time will lead you nowhere. Try not to take things too seriously, none of us get out of here alive. And appreciate what you have."

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Eversight Illinois "Gift of Sight Celebration" Save-the-Date with mask included.

I'm so excited to see some events coming BACK!! Mark your calendars for Eversight Illinois' "Gift of Sight Celebration", set for Thursday, October 21 at the Peninsula. Justine Fedak will be honored as the Woman of Vision and Dr. Parag Majmudar will be the Gift of Sight honoree. This year's masquerade theme is "Fantasea" and I'm honored to return as co-chair with Michael Caputo! (For more details, click here!)

On Saturday, November 6, the Hippocratic Cancer Research

Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation wings to cure 2021 gala

Hippocratic Cancer Research Foundation Save-the-Date with mask included.

Foundation, will host its 6th annual "Wings to Cure." This gala will be held at the Hilton Chicago and funds raised will help support cutting edge cancer research at the Lurie Cancer Center. For more details, click here!

Chicago Lights "Gala of Hope at Home" is still set for Friday, March 5 at 7 pm CST. This signature event will benefit the youth development and social service programs of Chicago Lights and the community support efforts of the Replogle Center for Counseling and Well-Being. (More details here!)

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Here's more happy news on the nonprofit front! YWCA Metropolitan Chicago received a $9

Philanthropist MacKenzie Scott, ex-wife of Amazon's Jeff Bezos.

million unrestricted contribution from billionaire venture philanthropist MacKenzie Scott. This major gift will help the nonprofit and its mission to empower women and families and advance racial justice. This major gift is part of more than $4 billion in philanthropic contributions made by Ms. Scott over the past four months. Board president Joyce Winnecke (just love her!) called this gift an "affirmation of YWCA Metropolitan Chicago's strategy."

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Israel "Izzy" Idonije with CPD officers from his "Shop with a Cop" initiative.

Former Chicago Bear Israel "Izzy" Idonije has lifted charitable giving to an art form. For the 6th year in a row, Izzy and his IF Charities team hosted "Shop With a Cop", a great initiative that builds trust between CPD officers and the communities they serve. On Thursday, December 17, more than 60 police officers shopped for kids in need, who had submitted a wish list "for Santa" in advance. The officers picked up items that were donated by Target with special $50 gift certificates included for family dinners donated by Jewel. (To support Izzy in his many charitable endeavors around town, click here!)

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CBS-2 Chicago's Steven Graves.

Special thanks to CBS-2 Chicago's Steven Graves and to

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John Garcia, ABC-7.

ABC-7's John Garcia for having me on their segments recently! I loved chatting about what to do for NYE with John (watch segment here) and to Steven about how our nonprofits are pivoting their fundraisers. (Watch this segment here!)

One of my favorite silver linings to this pandemic mess is the fact that our animal shelters are at their lowest point with un-adopted rescues! As a matter of fact, PAWS Chicago has reported a near record number of adoptions in 2020–4,100! Through their Holiday-Adopt-a-Thon and usual grassroots efforts, they have managed to find forever homes for 4100 DOGS AND CATS! Can I get a Woot! Woot!? PAWS Chicago also provides extensive resources to help pets make a seamless transition into their news home and also provides a lifetime safety net for every animal, ensuring that if something happens to the adopter, their PAWS pet will always be cared for. I'm hearing similar good news from One Tail at a Time and also Young at Heart Senior Pet Rescue–all my favorites and much recommended animal shelters. Please check them out if you're looking for a pet!

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I'm so loving my new home at Chicago Star Media! This group of hyper-local papers delivers, monthly, positive news you can use and I hope you're a subscriber! (Please click here for details or just leave your name and address here, info@chicagostarmedia, to receive the free online newsletter.) My latest column, "Chicago's CHI-lebrities Reflect on 2020, Share Hopes for the Coming Year" has been a hit, garnering both the front page and centerfold of the recent publication! (Read it here and get advice and discover the hopes and dreams of Chef Art Smith, rocker Jim Peterik, Bill Kurtis and Donna La Pietra, comedian Tom Dreesen, Kerry Wood and his Sarah, Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas, Leslie Hindman, Israel "Izzy" Idonije, The Joffrey Ballet's Ashley Wheater, entertainer Chilli Pepper, restaurateur RJ Melman, Alpana Singh, Michael Kutza, Aldmerman Brian Hopkins and Dr. Ian Smith. I was so moved by their honest, thoughtful answers….there is uplifting advice, inspiration for the future and their thoughts on 2020! Read it all here!

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Jatnna Toribio and Izzy Idonije are engaged!

There's a lotta love in the air right now! So many exciting betrothals to announce! First off, love and

Marcus Riley is engaged to Jude Fitzgerald!

congrats to Jatnna Toribio and her Israel Idonije, who were recently engaged. Also, congratulations to Marcus Riley and his Jude Fitzgerald who got engaged on New Year's Day and,

Val Warner is engaged to Jobba Jordan.

last but not least, to Windy City Live's Val Warner who just became engaged to Jobba Jordan. I'm thrilled for each and every one of these beautiful people who managed to not only survive during

Val and Jobba sittin' in a tree…..

this nasty year, but to thrive and find love. It's definitely easier to face any storm when you're supported by your best friend. Here's wishing them all a lifetime of health and happiness and, as Kup always said, "Long may they love!"

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We recently experienced Six Flags' Holiday in the Park Drive-Thru in Gurnee. Over 3 million lights illuminate the park as cars drive through at 3 mph. We ordered hot chocolate, a funnel cake and I bought an ornament (of course). We listened to piped in holiday music and it was sort of eerie, to be honest, and had the feel of driving through a deserted theme park in the Truman Show. However, I guess if we'd lived closer, the experience would've been a little easier and better. But, frankly, driving through the park with the Notre Dame game blasting on the radio might've had something to do with my lack of enthusiasm (although Chuck was certainly entitled to cheer on his favorite team!) This is only my POV, so please go and find out for yourselves (and let me know what you think!) The experience has been extended through Jan. 10, details here!

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Playboy's Winter 2021 Playmate Izabela Guedes.

Playboy has changed the format of its iconic centerfold. No longer will the featured Playmate be spotlighted for just a month, now she will have a whole season all to herself! There will be only 4 Playmates a year….makes me wish for a do-over! Read deets here on how Playboy is growing, and meet the Winter 2021 Playmate, Izabela Guedes.

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As I close out my first blog of 2021, I must say, I am glad to leave 2020 (far) behind. I've never had a worse year and I know many of my friends feel the same. There's was no "dashing through the snow on a one horse open sleigh, o'er the fields we go, laughing all the way"…… Not this year when everything in the world changed in the blink of a Covid eye. I couldn't even get in my usual cheery mood for Christmas, at least not in the way I used to. One minute, we're planning family gatherings, figuring out seating, who will sit at the kids' table and the next thing you know, we're all Zooming in to "celebrate" on computer screens. I found myself decorating for Christmas almost manically, trying to create much needed joy that is at a premium now. I know store

This is definitely NOT my work, beautiful gingerbread house by Jennifer and Joaquin Brieva (kit from Vanille Chicago).

shelves were shopped clean of all holiday decor long before the usual time. On social media, my friends busily shared photos of their trees, holiday cookies, DIY Christmas ideas and so much more. Hell, we even attempted building a gingerbread house for the first time but it

I'm thinking our tree will be up until Easter or beyond. (Sort of kidding?)

looked like a tornado hit it before I could even ice the roof. This year, we lost our dog, family members, I lost a job, Chuck lost his three dearest friends and had a TIA (mini-stroke). I think I was entitled to decorate as much as I wanted to try to fill this void and you can bet these decorations are gonna be here for a while. Nothing makes me happier than twinkling Christmas tree lights. It reminds me of all the GOOD years in the past when all of our family was gathered together, giving gifts and

Marshall Field's famous Chicken Pot Pie.

thanks for our good health and the fact that we were still here. Pre-Covid, you could still find Santa in all the department stores, which were decorated to the nines. I'm happy though to see that retail, despite all its setbacks, still

Marshall Field's Walnut Room at Christmas 1950.

tried to be festive. Macy's, although certainly not close to the old Marshall Field's in holiday decor, still had cheerful windows and the Great Tree in the Walnut Room. And, although families couldn't carry on life-long traditions of dining there during the season, they could still order carry-out–the famous Mrs. Hering's Chicken Pot Pie (recipe here), lobster bisque, Frango Mint

Ann Gerber's book, "Sweet Tooth," a collection of recipes by Chicago notables.

Chocolate Ice Cream Pie and more. For Chuck and me, we still tried to carry on family traditions. We baked my mom's ham (Cooks only) and I fixed Mama Mary Johnson's famous sweet potato pie (whose recipe was featured in Ann Gerber's 1985 book, "Chicago's Sweet Tooth."). I also cooked the requisite black-eyed peas for good luck on New Year's Day (I pray it works). We toasted to the loved ones we lost and prayed for a better future, one that will bring back the human element and social interaction that is necessary to the survival of a species. We can't drift apart. We need "parties for hosting, marshmallows for toasting and caroling out in the snow," now more than ever. Here's hoping this year is off to a great start for you!

Love always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. Life's short, make the most of it. Thank you Michiel for this poignant reminder.

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VIRTUAL FUNDRAISERS: GETTING CREATIVE WITH MISERICORDIA, A SILVER LINING FOUNDATION AND OTHERS

Plus: Tasting Stars with A Silver Lining; Misericordia's 60th Family Association Benefit raises BIG bucks; Dressing Barbie; Lake Forest Showhouse & Gardens; Doorstep Divas bring the party to YOU!; A look back and forward at Service Club's Day on the Terrace fashion show; RefuSHE's Fashion Challenge 2020; Chicago House helps "Raise Your Voices"; Carpool Concerts' exciting outdoor schedule; IG LIVE with Tracey!; Virtual Chefs Night; American Heart Association's Heart Ball; Lana's Largesse; NOBU Hotel Chicago opens in West Loop; The very latest in Mask-Wear by Elda; Dance for Life 2020; Life, Laughter, Happiness with Playmate Barbara Moore; THIS & THAT; Fun videos and so much MORE!

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"These are the times that try men's souls." Amen to that Thomas Paine. This crisis and moment in time will be life-changing for many. In a recent (Monmouth University) poll, 61% of people say they will be making permanent changes moving forward. I don't know what

Designer Virgil Abloh.

this new normal will look like and it's unnerving for a control freak like me. I don't know how comfortable people will be in larger crowds so where will that leave nonprofits and their critical fundraisers? Virgil Abloh, Off-White founder and Louis Vuitton men's artistic director, spoke about the pandemic and our changing world from a fashion point of view. "I'm inspired that fashion can mean something different out of the end of this. It doesn't feel like it did a year ago. Today it seems useless, in a way: a

Michelle Alegria (Fox 32) relaxes with yoga.

new handbag, a pair of shoes. Getting groceries seems more important than buying a new garment that I already have 30 of in a closet," he said. I tend to

Dairyland in Dupo, Illinois.

agree. Buying more stuff won't be the answer for me either. Lots of my friends are focusing more on wellness with meditation (hello Michelle Alegria!) and yoga. The quarantine cooking group seems to be going strong with some fabulous dishes and recipes being shared there (Paul Iacono, Greg Hyder, Beth Heller, Mark Olley and Thomas O'Gorman being standouts). With the future of the newspaper industry in question, I'm focusing more on survival. Who knows what's going to happen

Small towns look pretty appealing now. (Waterloo, Illinois)

A train runs through it. (Dupo, Illinois)

there? I'm so blessed to have this blog where I can still shine a spotlight on all the good things happening around town. Other friends are planning their exit strategies although I'm not sure where someone can hide from all of this. I think hunkering down with the survival mentality of a pioneer might be the way to go. I'm over hoarding food and supplies but sort of wish I had an underground bunker ready and waiting. I find myself needing to connect more with my good friends. Part of this is missing my normal socializing but another part is

Flat Creek Baptist Church in E. Carondelet, Illinois.

just needing to be around the ones I love. All of this uncertainty and chaos makes me yearn for the normalcy of the old days back in my small

How 'bout cocktails and a pizza with this view? (Sunset Overlook in Columbia, Illinois)

hometown of Dupo, Illinois. At the time, I felt so stifled and bored–I couldn't wait to get out and explore the world. Now, I wish I could go back home and relive it all again–helping Mary and Jim Johnson in their huge garden (that they shared with their small community); ordering snow cones from Dairyland and dancing to the songs on the jukebox; dancing

Ordering a milk shake and "death burger" at Dairyland during a No Class Reunion.

at Teen Town with my high school girlfriends in skintight jeans; enjoying the seedy drive-in in Cahokia; getting excited about shopping with my Mom at J.C. Penney's in South County; the smell of Toni York's mom's beauty shop where my Mom and all her friends went; weekends at my Dad's house in E. St. Louis where my stepmother Blanche tried to teach me to cook; buying peaches, tomatoes and corn at Eckert's farm stand in Columbia; going to church at Flat Creek Baptist Church and experiencing such joy; buying snuff for Mama Mary Johnson at the little confectionery on the corner in East Carondelet; driving to the levy to see how high the flood waters were from the Mississippi River; the fabulous donuts at the Phillip's 66 station in

Mary Johnson (and Spotty) in her and her husband Jim's beautiful garden in E. Carondelet.

town; dinner at Greenfield's in Columbia with the family; high school picnics with Mary's fried chicken in the Chain O' Lakes park; Dad and Jim both trying to teach me how to live in the world; Mom trying to get me to not worry so much…..All of these memories that are the foundation of our lives are what's important to me now. That's what I'm going to try to focus on….Hope you have something similar to help you put everything in perspective.

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Sister Rosemary Connelly, the heart of the "Heart of Mercy".

Congrats to Misericordia Heart of Mercy on its first virtual fundraiser held on Saturday, June 20 that raised a whopping $1,405,000! This year marked the 60th Misericordia Family Association Benefit which still turned out to be very clever, heartwarming and fulfilling in terms of dollars raised, albeit virtually. The event had been planned and coordinated by Jim Capraro with support from the benefit committee and staff in less than 90 days! The 90 minute event, with lots of cool moving parts, opened with longtime supporter Lou Manfredini (WGN-TV home repair expert) welcoming guests. The "virtual cocktail session" from 6-7 pm, featured pianists Charlie Carpenter and Holly Jennings (co-chair) and

Misericordia's Lois Gates with auctioneer Greg "G-Man" Dellinger.

guitarist Jim Splithoff, who performed as silent auction items scrolled across the screen. The program portion of the event opened cleverly with the Star Wars theme followed by a video flyover of the U.S. Navy Blue Angels in a salute to Misericordia's essential workers. Father Jack Clair offered a blessing before

Co-chair Holly Jennings with her son, a resident at Misericordia.

a musical salute to Sister Rosemary Connelly (Misericordia's fabulous and much loved executive director for over 50 years) was performed in the Highland Cathedral with the Shannon Rovers and organist Charlie Carpenter. (All appropriately socially distanced). Supporters appearing

Caroline Kennedy congratulated the nonprofit via video.

in the video included Caroline Kennedy, Mike Ditka, Joe Maddon, Mayor Lori Lightfoot, co-chairs Holly Jennings and Beth Merlo (with their families), Laurie and Bill McCarthy (MFA chairs), New York Giants Saquon Barkley and Grant Haley and more. Lois Gates (assistant executive director in charge of development) and Mary Pat O'Brien (director and CFO) joined auctioneer Greg

NY Giants' Saquon Barkley and Grant Haley.

"G-Man" Dellinger during the fundraising portion of the event. Sister Rosemary said, "Tonight is a celebration of our loving devotion to all our children and adults who call Misericordia home. We have the best family organization in the country. The reason Misericordia is the beautiful home it is today is because we are a community of dreamers. We believe that, not only do our residents have a right to life, but to one worth living. And, although our residents can't create a good life for themselves, once it is theirs, they

Residents from Misericordia's Walsh Slattery Home help with a raffle.

become the gift-givers. Our residents are being cared for tenderly and lovingly and every day our staff creatively challenges them to remain engaged in personal growth, each to the best of their abilities." To date, Misericordia cares for over 600 children and adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities with a staff of 1,000+ across a 31-acre campus, with a new drive-by Misericordia Hearts & Flour Bakery being planned now.

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A Silver Lining founder Dr. Sandy Goldberg and Greg Hines.

I'm a big fan of Dr. Sandy Goldberg and her wonderful A Silver Lining Foundation that provides breast health support for those in need. So, when I heard that the 18th annual Tasting Stars event, which supports ASLF, was going to be virtual, I was at my computer and ready on Saturday, June 13 at 7pm. Paul Lisnek (of WGN-TV) emceed this virtual champagne event that would normally have been held at the DIRTT Environmental Solutions space (325 N. Wells) with magnificent views of the Loop and river. I'm always curious to see how the various nonprofits are able to pivot to virtual for the first time and this one, despite a few technical difficulties, went off without a hitch and was very informative and entertaining. Viewers tuned into YouTube Live for the hour long event

Virtual event host Paul Lisnek.

that opened with jazz pianist Anthony Pocetti (who performed beautiful standards intermittently throughout the presentation). Viewers were able to purchase "French Food Boxes" from the Entertaining Company (a longtime supporter) before the event in keeping

Adiat Baker and Iya Bakare, longtime supporters.

with the event's French theme. Lisnek introduced a video explaining ASLF's impact, how it came to be and the important work it's doing in the community. The video opened with one of the most dynamic singers I know, Opal Staples (of the famed Staples gospel family). Her singing always brings me to tears and this time was no exception. Her rendition of "Rise Up" is mind blowing (see video here). WGN-TV's

Sir Charles Stanfield.

Micah Materre was also a contributor and spoke about the people the organization serves. Dr. Sandy spoke passionately about her nonprofit that was born in 2002 after she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She recalled having access to "everything that she needed during that journey." And when she realized others weren't as fortunate, she and her husband, Greg Hines, co-founded the org at their kitchen table with one donation. The programs have grown over the last 17 years to include five programs 1) The Chicagoland Cancer Information Coalition (which

Save the Date! A Sterling Event on Oct. 3

provides research and outreach), 2) Buy A Mom A Mammogram (ASLF now funds all breast health testing, screenings through biopsies for under-insured, un-insured and undocumented women and men). 3) The Evelyn Goldberg Mammography Center (renamed at UI Health in honor of Sandy's late mother) 4) Keep aBreast (a program designed specifically for young people) and 5) Survive to Thrive (a support program for those already diagnosed). Dr. Sandy said, "The women and men we deal with at A Silver Lining Foundation feel like they don't matter. They feel like nobody cares and that they're alone in the world. This is NOT the premise on which this foundation is based. We turn NO ONE away! We need you to RISE UP and help us make sure no one goes unrecognized. We feel everyone deserves a chance to survive." Tasting Stars co-founder (with wife Ann) Brent Carstensen spoke about the nonprofit's champagne partnership with master sommelier, Sir Charles Stanfield. Traditionally, at past events, Sir Charles would "saber" a cork off a bottle of champagne to start the event so, this year, a video was shown of him doing it virtually so the tradition could remain intact. Tasting Stars has raised and distributed

Dr. Sandy Goldberg.

over $600,000 to the cause since its founding 18 years ago. The event closed with Dr. Sandy awarding the annual Evelyn Goldberg Memorial Award to the "Tasting Stars

Ben Carstensen, co-founder Tasting Stars.

Family." In 2019, ASLF stats showed: 15 partner hospitals; 1,487 women served; 227 zip codes served; 1,965 tests funded with 18 diagnoses discovered. ASLF's signature fundraiser, A Sterling Event, will be held on Saturday, October 3. The virtual event closed with a champagne toast and the announcement that the event has raised over $60,000! (And, as Dr. Sandy added, "with no charging for tickets and no silent and live auctions!")

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RefuSHE Fashion Challenge winning designer Concetta Cipriano (lower left) with her design worn by model Eleanor Simon.

RefuSHE hosted its first virtual Fashion Challenge on June 19, in celebration of World Refugee Day, with seven talented, emerging designers: Amy Fenderson, Concetta Cipriano, Fraley Le, Lagi Nadeau, Kate VanAsten, Taylor Graves and Xochil Herrera Scheer. The concept this year consisted of a virtual fashion show inspired by Project Runway with designers showing their looks using fabrics and materials sourced from RefuSHE's Artisan Collective, a program that fosters leadership and business skills through the production of hand-dyed fabrics and scarves that are created by girls and women in the organization. The nonprofit was co-founded by Anne Sweeney and Talyn Good in East Africa to protect and support separated and orphaned girls and young women who often fell through the gaps of protection,

Colorful and stunning design by Fraley Le.

becoming invisible and vulnerable. They are the first and only organization dedicated to refugee girls in Kenya. The virtual event included remarks from Tamasha Rimba, Associate Director of Case management and Safe House in Kenya. She spoke about the wide range of services the org provides to every girl who comes into the organization with the priority being the provision of basic needs–access to food, clothing, water, shelter and medication. She said, "Most of our girls are survivors of war and sexual-based gender based violence and also young mothers." Tamasha shared the story of a young 15-year-old

Chantale Zuzi shared her moving story of survival.

girl who had been raped and was "heavily pregnant and

Design by Amy Fenderson.

malnourished." She flourished under RefuSHE nurturing and programming. Geoffrey Thige, executive director, took viewers on a virtual journey to Kenya where they saw the campus through the eyes of the women there. He said, "There are more than 18 million displaced people in Sub Saharan West Africa and over half are under the age of 18." Before the runway show, final (powerful)

Design by Xochil Herrera Scheer.

comments were delivered by RefuSHE alumna Chantale Zuzi who told a harrowing story of how she survived as an albino woman in the Democratic Republic of Congo. Her mother was encouraged to abort her but she refused. Chantale said albino children were used for sacrificial purposes there and not figured viable in this society. She's now living and thriving in the U.S. while getting an education that she hopes to use to help her people. Judges for the runway show included Cheryle Jackson (CEO of Grit + Grace), Kahindo Mateene (founder/designer of KAHINDO), Monica Singh

Beautiful headpiece by Fraley Le.

(designer and UN Women Youth Ambassador) and Travis Paul Martin (executive director of PR at Skoog). The Fashion Challenge event celebrated the power of philanthropy and fashion's ability to tell a story through art and the stories were colorful, joyful, hopeful and amazing. Each designer was paired with a RefuSHE participant who served as their muses. Viewers voted for their favorite designers donating $20 per vote with designer Concetta Cipriano taking away the win for this year's Challenge with glam model Eleanor Simon. The event raised $124,037 with 100% of proceeds going towards RefuSHE's transformational model of care for young refugee women, girls, and their children in East Africa and around the world. To learn more abut this remarkable nonprofit, click here and see all of the beautiful designs in photo below.

(To see the fashion show, check out the video below, the show starts at 23:06)

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The late Bunky Cushing and Hazel Barr at DOT in 2010.

With all of my nonprofit fundraisers temporarily suspended, I decided to take a look back at some of the more popular events. One of my favorites is the Service Club of Chicago's "Day on the Terrace" fashion show. It's typically hosted the first Monday in

Kristina McGrath, Heather Farley and Nina Mariano at DOT 2010.

August at the Peninsula. It's such an exciting show because so many of our local men and women (and members) participate–it's sort of like a social family reunion. This year, the event will be virtual on the same date, Monday, August 3 (11 am to 12:30 pm). Join the watch party and enjoy a fabulous production created by co-chairs Jean Antoniou, Tracey Tarantino DiBuono, Sharyl Mackey and Jamie Thorsen in collaboration with BlackOak Technical Productions! The ticket price, $100, will include a Look Book that will be mailed out prior to the show (buy a page and advertise your

Sheryl Schmidt, Susanna Homan, Sherill Bodine and Mary Lasky at DOT 2010.

business, salute your friends, etc.) (Fab illustration by Elda De la Rosa) (DOT info here! ) It won't be like being in the same room with friends but it's great that they're soldiering on, as the SC has done for the last 130 years! The SC is unique because of the fact that 100% of the funds raised goes directly to charity. This year, its Philanthropic Grant Program awarded over $440,000 to 38 nonprofits. The organization

Anne Wallace and Jean Antoniou at DOT 2010.

does not give the grantees a check. Instead, they assist, improve and enlarge upon agency programs. The Albany Park Community Center requested (and received) a used van. The Apparel Industry Foundation received laptops and lockers and The Council for Jewish Elderly received security cameras. The grants are awarded across a variety of deserving nonprofits and helps recipients expand facilities, improve equipment and initiate new programs which

DOT goes virtual in 2020 (Illustration by Elda de la Rosa).

will better serve a large number of people in need. I served on the Philanthropic Committee one year and it was life changing. To see the needs that are so great and to know that you've helped somehow in a small or large way is rewarding beyond comprehension. I applaud all the members of this remarkable organization and can't wait till we can all be together again, celebrating another successful event. In the meantime, I hope you enjoy these photos from past events. Also, mark your calendars for another SC event, "A Very Patriotic Zoom Cocktail Party" on Thursday, July 2 in collaboration with Steak 48! Tickets are $30 and can be purchased by calling 312.220.9600.

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Pullman Estate in Lake Forest.

The Pullman Estate is set to open as The Lake Forest Showhouse & Gardens on Saturday, July 11, through Sunday, August 9. The 23-room, 11,000-square-foot, turn-of-the-century east Lake Forest estate has been transformed by over 30 interior and landscape designers. Many of the items at the Showhouse & Gardens will be for sale too! A price list

Pullman Estate in Lake Forest.

of items for sale from furnishings to accessories will be made available in each designer space with 15% of the sale benefiting Infant Welfare Society of Chicago. Following State safety guidelines, a restricted number of tickets will be sold per day,

William Allan Pinkerton Pullman 1901-1988

William Allan Pinkerton Pullman (holding shovel).

divided by morning and afternoon sessions, Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m., Saturday and Sundays from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Tickets for $40 must be purchased in advance here. The home benefits the Angel Harvey Family Health Center of the Infant Welfare Society of Chicago, which is celebrating more than 108 years of providing healthcare to Chicago's medically under-served. The colonial-style home was originally designed by Frost & Granger in 1906 and

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Showhouse honorary chair Paloma Contreras.

completely renovated by architect Stanley Anderson in the late 1920s for investment banker William Allan Pinkerton Pullman (1901-1988), the grand-nephew of George M. Pullman, the developer and manufacturer of Pullman cars. An avid gardener and co-founder of the Chicago Botanic Garden, William A.P. Pullman worked with New York landscape architect Annette Hoyt in 1937 to create world class gardens on the property. Some of the original plantings still exist – from a Ginkgo tree of epic proportion to rare Chinese maples and Japanese lilacs, as well as the original boxwood hedges – the same ones that inspired others to plant "Pullman boxwood" in formal gardens. Hope to see you there!

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Doorstep Divas Molly Callinan and Caitlin Simone Buffa.

Talk about a cool pivot! Congrats to the newly created Doorstep Divas Chicago and its stars Molly Callinan and Caitlin Simone Buffa, for turning lemons into lemonade! With their amazing voices and effervescent personalities these two renowned singers (Molly is a

Molly singing with Gary Sinise and his Lt. Dan Band.

lead singer in Gary Sinise's Lt. Dan Band playing at military bases for the troops as well as fronting the Chicago-based all girl cover band Catfight and Caitlin is a band leader and vocalist at Ken Arlen Music Productions) have figured out a way to survive the lack

Darling Doorstep Divas Caitlin Simone Buffa and Molly Callinan.

of gigs due to the pandemic by forming their very own, social-distancing entertainment venture. The ladies will perform their hearts out at your home for any occasion. Their repertoire is two pages of single-spaced songs that include ballads (Norah Jones "Come Away With Me," etc.); Elvis; Beatles; Prince; disco (Donna Summer's "Bad Girls," etc.); Motown/R&B (Chaka Khan's "Ain't Nobody", etc.); Contemporary Rock, Swing/Standards and SO MUCH MORE! These ladies do it ALL! So, if you want to spice up a night on your lawn, check out their website here and book 'em! And see them in action here!

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Chicago House & Social Services replaced its scheduled virtual Pride Variety Show with an event titled Raise Your Voice in honor of Black Lives Matter. The one hour virtual experience was designed to affirm Black lives through the power of storytelling, spoken word and song. The event was

Chicago House trustee Kelly Saulsberry.

co-hosted in collaboration with Chicago House, Affinity Community Services, Brave Space Alliance and the Youth Empowerment Performance Project. Hosted by Chicago House trustee Kelly Saulsberry, the event featured appearances by Barbara McBee, Jakari Earl, Zola Makeda, the Honorable Angelina Nordstrom, Osiris Khepera, Cruel Valentine and Shane Calvin. Lucy Stoole, award-winning drag queen and advocate for gender non-conforming people, served as the

Artist Zola Makeda.

event's emcee. Lucy said, "Black voices need to be heard, black people need to be seen and our talents need to be celebrated

Emcee Lucy Stoole.

across the world, here on the eve of Juneteenth." Poet Zola Makeda delivered a powerful poem titled "Good Hope", about the disappointment, hope and hardships she's faced growing up as transgender and Black. To learn more about Chicago House & Social Services, click here. Founded in 1985, Chicago House is a social service organization that supports individuals impacted by HIV/AIDS and the broader LGBTQ+ community with housing, health, and employment support.

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With photographer Tim Klein.

Special thanks to photographer Tim Klein for including me in his recent project, the "pandemic portfolio." He plans on photographing Chicago "notables during this unprecedented time in history." I've been lucky to have worked with him in the past for a campaign for Burberry. I can't wait to share his photos! Check out his website here!

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Lake County Fairgrounds and Carpool Concerts have teamed up to make your summer extra special! Imagine a grandstand stage, stellar acoustics, big name local cover bands and cars of every make and model and you'll have a very cool live music concert you'll never forget, the summer drive-in Carpool Concert Tour 2020 (in Grayslake, Illinois). Fans can enjoy live music while staying safe and socially distant in their cars. The line-up includes Sixteen Candles Band, Boys Band Review, Trippin' Billies, Infinity, American English, Southern Accents and more! The 75 minute shows are at 4 pm and 7 pm daily from Thursday, June 25 through Sunday, June 28! Check out all the details here!

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Boy, the kid in me is so excited for this virtual fundraiser hosted by the Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum! "Dressing Barbie" will feature a Zoom presentation by Carol Spencer, the fashion designer who "dressed Barbie" at Mattel from 1963 until 1998! This virtual event will also include a super fun "Barbie Box" that will feature a signed and personalized "Dressing Barbie" book; the exclusive Zoom link; a Barbie collector card; a mini Barbie Dream House–all the accoutrements you will need to have a fun Barbie-themed Zoom presentation on the history of Barbie's fashion (includes adult and kid friendly contents)!–FOR $100! The event will take place on Saturday, Aug. 15 at 11 am (CST)! To RSVP, please click here!

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Special thanks to Tracey Tarantino DiBuono for including me in her/our first INSTA LIVE! I think we nailed it! She hosted on her @ZZAZZProductions page and I guested. We had a blast talking about anything and everything–how nonprofits are faring, makeup and fashion tips, my Playboy years and so much more! We've had many requests for a do-over so watch out world, we might be BAAACCKKK!!! Lol! (Follow Tracey on Insta at @ZZAZZProductions and me (please) @CandidCandace!) And watch our segment here!

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Nobu Hotel Chicago opens July 1 in the West Loop!

Nobu Hospitality, the globally established lifestyle brand founded by Chef Nobu Matsuhisa, Robert De Niro and Meir Tepe, announces the preview and opening of Nobu Hotel Chicago in the West Loop (155 N. Peoria) on July 1st. Spanning 12,000 sq. ft., Nobu Hotel Chicago will feature 115 rooms, two private dining rooms, 3,000 sq. ft. of flexible event space – including The Rooftop at Nobu Hotel Chicago and first class amenities. Guests can expect the company’s signature aesthetic – Japanese influence with an ultra-modern design to create a zen oasis in the heart of the city. Trevor Horwell, CEO of Nobu Hospitality commented, "We are so pleased to be introducing our first Nobu Hotel in the Midwest US. Chicago is a world-class mecca of dining and entertainment and we are very proud to provide a new and exciting destination for the local community and visitors." Now accepting reservations here: Nobu Hotel Chicago. (The phase two opening will occur at a later date which will mark the opening of Nobu restaurant and bar with patio dining.)

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On Monday, June 29, join the Center for Enriched Living for its "Virtual Chefs' Night" from 7 to 8 pm! The Center is a nonprofit dedicated to supporting people with developmental disabilities. An exciting raffle (1/$100 or 3/$275) is featuring a 2020 Lexus UX25OH and only 1,299 tickets will be sold! The event is FREE to view but a suggested donation of $90 is encouraged. For all the details, click here!

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The American Heart Association will host a virtual Heart Ball on Thursday, June 25 from 7-8 pm. The event will be emceed by Windy City Live's Val Warner and chaired by Linda Imonti. The 2020 Heart of Gold Award recipient will be Pat Magoon, retiring CEO of Ann and Robert H. Lurie Children's Hospital of Chicago. The auction (that goes online June 23) and donation portion of the evening will be expertly handled by Greg "G-Man" Dellinger. To register, click here!

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lana Bramlette, center, with students.

Kudos to Lana Bramlette, fashionable founder of Lana Jewelry, who turned her Columbia education and passion for fine jewelry into a powerhouse brand. Eighteen years ago, she brought gold back into the spotlight by creating

Jewelry designer/philanthropist Lana Bramlette wearing her own designs.

her signature gold hoops worn by A-listers including Michelle Obama, Jennifer Lopez, Beyoncé, Madonna and Rihanna. Fast forward to today, Lana gives back to the institution that helped shape her career. In the early 2000s, she founded the Chicago Fashion Foundation with her husband Rob. The two then enlisted other Chicago-based powerhouse women and men in the fashion industry to be a part of this amazing organization. Through Bramlette’s efforts with the CFF, Columbia recently received a gift of more than $540,000 to propel future generations of designers and entrepreneurs in fashion! This gift will provide Columbia Fashion Studies students with scholarship funds and access to learning opportunities that otherwise would have been out of reach. Thank you Lana for your big, chic heart!

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Dance for Life 2019 finale2 choreographed by Randy Duncan_by Todd Rosenberg

Dance for Life 2019 finale choreographed by Randy Duncan. (Photo by Todd Rosenberg).

Dance for Life 2020 is going virtual! Join them online from Aug. 10-14 and see works archived from past Dance for Life performances during the past 29 years! Pieces from the annual partner dance companies will be presented by Giordano Dance Chicago, Hubbard Street Dance Chicago, The Joffrey Ballet, Hanna Brictson and Dancers, Chicago Dance Crash, Ensemble Espanol Spanish Dance Theater, Joseph Holmes School of Dance, Luna Negra Dance Theater, Muntu Dance Theatre of Chicago, River North Dance Chicago, Thodos Dance Chicago, Visceral Dance Chicago, and a collaborative

Dance for Life 2019_Hubbard Street Dance Chicago_by Todd Rosenberg

Hubbard Street Dance, Dance for Life 2019. (Photo by Todd Rosenberg).

work by Chicago Human Rhythm Project, Ensemble Espanol Spanish Dance Theater and Trinity Irish Dance Company. Then, on August 15, celebrate with a world premiere! This culminating event, commemorating the originally-planned date for the 29th anniversary of Dance for Life at the Auditorium Theatre, will feature a world premiere choreographed by Hanna Brictson in response to COVID-19 with dancers from throughout the Chicago area. This year's virtual event will benefit The Dancers' Fund, AIDS Foundation Chicago and Chicago Dancers United. (Details here!)

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Playboy Playmate Barbara Moore, Dec. 1992.

Special thanks to my Playmate sister Barbara Moore (Miss December 1992) who interviewed me for her wonderful

Barbara Moore starring in "Bay Watch."

podcast, Life, Laughter & Happiness." We went wayyyy back with our many memories of Hef, Playboy, the legendary parties and life at the Playboy Mansion. Barbara starred in "Baywatch" and has been an avid ballroom dancer like another beautiful PM friend of mine, Patti McGuire Connors. To listen, click here! (Thanks to her co-host/producer Jonathan Alexander for bringing me on!)

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With Leslie Hindman wearing masks created by Elda de la Rosa.

Special thanks to all of our local designers who have made the pivot to mask-making! One of my favorite designs was created by Chicago's own Elda de la Rosa! Monogramming is the very latest in mask wear and one of these beauties can be yours for only $25! Contact Elda here!

That's it for this week. As always, stay safe, sane and civil. Call your friends, bake decadent desserts and read that book that's been in your drawer forever and I'll see you again soon!

Love, as always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

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June 8, 2020 · 10:10 am

CHICAGO CELEBRATES DISCOVERY BALL, PRIDE MONTH, OPEN RESTAURANTS, SPECIAL FRIENDS AND SO MUCH MORE

As helicopters filled the sky and sirens broke the evening's silence, I felt the world crack a little. I feel like the things I love to write about seem so small and inconsequential lately. My heart aches over all of the pain and suffering that's been associated with the horrific murder of George Floyd. I hope he finds more peace and justice in heaven than he did here. I don't know the details, but the only thing any sane person needed to see was that video. I feel so sorry for all who knew and loved him. I understand the outrage. I feel badly for the peaceful protesters' whose message seems to have been lost amid all the violence. How did we come to this and how can we move forward and heal? My prayers go out for everyone. We need to find a way to come together….somehow, some way. Hopefully, my blog can bring a little joy and be a bright spot in your day. I hope you appreciate all the nonprofits and arts organizations who still need us, friends we need to champion, successes we need to celebrate and all the good things in life. You will most certainly find that here…..

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The 2020 Digital Discovery Ball, the American Cancer Society's first-ever, large-scale virtual gala in Chicago, was a pivot for the organization though creativity and determination paid off. Hosted by NBC's Chicago Today co-hosts Cortney Hall and Matt Rodrigues, the event raised over $1.85 million to support the Society's mission priorities of supporting the Hope Lodge COVID-19 fund and cancer research. In Illinois, over 70,000 new cancer cases are expected to be diagnosed in 2020, so the need for answers is urgent. "We were guided by our theme 'Be Bold and Rise Up', and that's exactly what we did with our

Darling event hosts Cortney Hall and Matt Rodrigues (NBC Chicago Today)

fundraising success," said Michael Ziener, executive director. In the organization's original projections, the ball was expected to take a 40-50% loss. Strong commitments from the

Adam Cayton-Holland provided comic relief.

corporate community and individual gifts reversed the trend, contributing to nearly $38 million raised since the event started 14 years ago. ACS secured funds through pre-solicited sponsorships, night-of online auction and live donations, including an IL Area Board Match. This event funds breakthrough research, advocacy and a 24/7 helpline (800-227-2345), which has contributed to a

The popular band Maggie Speaks performed.

29% decrease in cancer death rates between 1991-2017. Powerhouse tech giants Salesforce and G2 supported the society by mobilizing their companies as this year's Discovery Ball sponsors. "COVID(-19) does not stop cancer. Therefore the mission of the American Cancer Society must

Mayor Lori Lightfoot provided words of encouragement.

continue," said Tyler Prince, EVP of Salesforce, who was joined by his co-chair of the event, Godard Abel, CEO of G2. Tuxedos and gowns were traded in for virtual cocktails and a digital celebration, and many learned about the Society's mission of saving lives, celebrating lives and leading the fight for a world without cancer. Appearances included Mayor Lori Lightfoot and ACS CEO Gary Reedy.

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Alexandra Billings expertly hosted this event virtually. Don't miss her closing remarks below.

It hasn't been easy watching virtual events that I would normally attend in person but I certainly admire all the great efforts. Case in point, the fabulous 50th anniversary of PRIDE hosted by The Lavender Effect, a nonprofit that celebrates LGBTQ+ heritage and culture. The event was hosted live on ZOOM by the dynamic and legendary transgender activist/actress/teacher/singer, Alexandra Billings. She is best known for her recurring role on Amazon’s award-winning show “Transparent." A virtual launch of Pride Month, the program brought together LGBTQ+ activists, political leaders and celebrities from coast to coast that included Lily Tomlin, Judith Light; Sean Hayes; Audra McDonald; Betty Buckley; Sandra Bernhard; Amy Landecker; Sally Kirkland; Lindsay Pearce; Bruce Vilanch; Michael Musto; Jason Stuart; Chad Michaels; Drew Droege; Miss Barbie-Q; Kay Sedia; Diane Anderson-Minshall; Mel England; Charles Busch; The Fruitcake Follies;

Lily Tomlin added humor and perspective.

Windy City Gay Men's Chorus, Ron Galperin & Family (LA City Controller); Lindsey Horvath (Mayor, City of West Hollywood); Evan Wolfson (Founder/ED Freedom to Marry); Chicago's own HONEY WEST and so many others. In truth, I missed the beginning but I think I caught some of the best parts. Lindsay Pearce, who took over the role of Elphaba in the Broadway musical "Wicked" in February, sang "Somewhere Over the Rainbow," moving host Alexandra (and me) to tears. Actor Chad Michaels message was succinct, "Be strong, find your voice." Charles Busch,

Singer/actress Lindsay Pearce brought viewers to tears.

playwright/activist shared, "We've survived so much, just in my own lifetime…We see things differently as a queer person and have seen things other people haven't. And, if you survive, it makes you stronger." Lily Tomlin appeared in a gaily decorated area of her home that she described as her "gay area." She said, "Cruelty and injustice are always our business…I've been around for 50 years and I realize gay people have not changed in terms of spirit and their sense of humor. I'm so grateful that I've been around to be influenced by the spirit of this community." Of all of the celebs and participants though, I was most moved by the host's parting comments.

Activist/playwright Charles Busch.

Billings said, "I'm 58 and was born in Englewood, California. I come from a middle class family, mixed race but we passed as white. I grew up believing I had privilege, just enough to get me by. Then, as people started to tell me that what I was and what I looked like was, not only different, but wrong, I began to believe it. I internalized it as the truth. So, I believed that what I wanted, what I desired, was wrong. And it wasn't until I turned to art, as most LGBTQ people do, that I realized I

It takes a village…

had a voice. We're living in a time right now of great chaos and pain, but it's not new even though it feels new. Every birth is painful and every birth requires revolution because that is how change is born. If we don't see each other, we can't honor each other. Find your voice and activate it in the way YOU understand it. There's no right way, Everyone is making it up. Nobody has a plan or the answer so we must work together. We are each other's revolutions. If you see someone beating someone with a stick, you walk over and take the stick away. We have to see each other to honor each other. So, let's take time to celebrate, not only who we are, but where we come from and where we're headed as human beings." (And, don't forget to mark your calendars for Chicago's own Pride Variety Show , see invite below, presented by Chicago House and Social Service Agency and co-hosted by Dixie Lynne Cartwright and Lucy Stoole. Enjoy performances by some of the city's top drag stars included Aunty Chan, Kelly Lauren and Joan Jullian. You'll also learn how to make a few specialty cocktails with local mixologists like David Sikora of Crystal Head Vodka. (To rsvp for this FREE event, click here!

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First selfie stick photo, Lake Geneva.

Chuck, Rooney and I took a last-minute-planned trip to Lake Geneva on Saturday, May 23. We didn't do it to be rebellious, we just went because it's a road trip we take often and Lord knows, we were bored and ready to see something different. Even along the way, a

Lake Geneva, so peaceful.

familiar road, I saw things I never noticed before. I guess being on lockdown, with an all-over dimming of your senses, traveling in the open air with the sun on your face makes for a joyful reawakening. We stayed at a cheap hotel with clean rooms and a friendly staff. We were so

Great dinner at Anthony's Steakhouse.

looking forward to dinner at one of our favorite spots, Mars Resort, on Lake Como but, when I Googled the restaurant I THOUGHT it said it was closed. (It wasn't). BUT, a silver lining was that we tried a new spot that we also loved, Anthony's Steakhouse & Seafood, that's been around since 1978. This classic supper club was filled with respectful diners, socially distancing but sans masks. I

A rare treat, Dog n' Suds in Richmond, Wisconsin.

know this was a no-no, but we did wear our masks whenever it was appropriate so felt relatively safe. I guess I was more worried about our mental health at this point as we were both about ready to crack. The brilliant sunshine on the lake and the ability to even walk into a store definitely improved our mindsets. Rooney's too. And, just as a bonus, a magnificent thunderstorm was followed by not one, but two huge rainbows. The light was like nothing I'd ever seen before. It made me think of how the great painters must've felt while working in the South of France. I felt like it was a gift from God. In hindsight, after seeing all of the videos of people crowding into the resort town, I was glad we had arrived early and left early. Looking forward to taking more baby steps to places unknown.

Lake Geneva after a thunderstorm.

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La Scarola and Armando Vasquez in the New York Times.

Huge congrats to La Scarola restaurant (721 W. Grand) and its owners Joey Mondelli and Armando Vasquez! The restaurant was included in this recent New York Times article "12 Restaurants America Loves. With Recipes!" Their Chicken Vesuvio was the spotlighted dish. Other restaurants included Brennan's (New Orleans), Felix (Venice, Calif.), Hwa Huan (NYC), Canlis (Seattle), Country Club Bakery (Fairmont, W. VA.), Phoenicia (Birmingham, Mich.), Bakesale Betty (Oakland, Calif.), Millie Peartree at Stingrays (NYC), Piper Inn (Denver, Co.), Tequeria del Sol (Atlanta) and Eventide (Portland, Maine). Congrats to all!

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Carmen Dell'Orefice, in her 80s here.

CARMEN DELL'OREFICE. The top model in the world just celebrated her 89th birthday on June 3 (a Gemini!). She's been modeling for more than 60 years and is listed in the Guinness Book of World Records as having the "longest career on the catwalk." When she

Carmen and friend Bunky Cushing partying on Stanley Paul's rooftop terrace.

was just 15, Cecil Beaton introduced her to Salvador Dali who painted her. That portrait is owned by Queen Elizabeth. She's worked with every major photographer in the world including filmmakers Martin Scorcese and Woody Allen. Her

The oldest (and best) supermodel in the world.

remarkable career has been the subject of a documentary, Carmen: A Life in Fashion. Produced by the University of the Arts in London, which awarded her an honorary doctorate, the movie was accompanied by an exhibition which showcased Carmen’s many magazine covers as well as other highlights taken from her personal archives. Most recently, she can be seen in HBO’s documentary About Face, which premiered at the Sundance Film Festival and aired in 2012. I bow down to her greatness and her inspiring endurance. Thanks for introducing us dear Peter Martino!

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Michael Caputo celebrated his Gemini birthday on May 30.

Other Gemini friends celebrating their birthdays in style include Jim Smith, Maria Pappas, Michael Caputo, Mamie Walton (who just

Birthday boy Jim Smith with partner Greg Hyder.

turned 92!), Leslie Zentner, Sheryl Dyer, Diane Hollingsworth and I'm sure a gazillion more. If you're a Gemini, you're outgoing, intelligent, impulsive, adaptable, social, talkative, indecisive and, if you're they're partner, you'll never be bored. Happy Birthday to ALL!

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Such wonderful friends…

And on a personal birthday note, my birthday this year, despite the climate, was one of the best ever thanks to a group of friends who came together to surprise me. It was unbelievably moving and I couldn't stop the (happy) tears as they sang "happy birthday" beneath my balcony. It was so heart-warming to know that caring friends were willing to give of their time to do something like this (and in the rain at that!). Beautiful friends included planners Tissy Eggleston (who sang from afar) and Paul Iacono, along with Judy and Howard Tullman, Kathy Piccone, Mark Olley, Bonnie and Jim Spurlock, Julia Jacobs, Jennifer and Joaquin Brieva, Nikki Friar, Lori Allen and Rhonda Sanderson (with Mork). I will never forget it and will be forever grateful. Love and thanks to ALL!

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Great news for the Service Club of Chicago which has been providing for those less fortunate since 1890. This year, even Covid couldn't take away their enthusiasm as they approved grant requests through their Philanthropic Grant Program for 38 local nonprofits amounting to $441,903.43! Chairs Paula Borg, Kimberly Gleeson, Marcia Northrup LaBarge and Cheri Lawrence (along with their committee), "met with" the applicants through ZOOM meetings. SC president Sherrill Bodine said, "The Service Club has survived the 1918 Spanish Flu

The Spring Luncheon will now be held virtually on September 3.

pandemic, the 1929 Crash, two World Wars and much more, Then, as now, we carry on with our mission." Mark your calendars for the organization's Day on the Terrace. This popular event is normally a sell-out at the Peninsula but, this year, like so many others, it will be a virtual event on Monday, August 3 from 11 am to 12:30 pm. Planning is in progress by the DOT committee and chairs Tracey Tarantino, Jean Antoniou, Sharyl Mackey and Jamie Thorsen. The Sept. 3 Spring Luncheon (aka Hat Luncheon) will also be held virtually Thursday, Sept. 3 (co-

Service Club members at a recent Spring Luncheon (Tina Weller, Sherry Lea Holson, Mary Lasky (R) and friend of SC Ruthann Dufkis.

chairs Cathy Bartholomay, Annette Findling and Michelle Baker). The SC Gala, tentatively scheduled (virtually) for Friday, November 6, is being planned by chairs Tina Weller, Mary Lasky, Mary Claire Moll and Kristine Kinder. And, if we can't host a real gala by the time the Christmas Luncheon rolls around on Wednesday, December 2, just shoot me. (This luncheon is chaired by Pat Maxwell, Sherry Lea Holson, Karen Peters and Kathy Piccone.) (Check the SC website here for all the details)

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Leah Chavie opens in Florida!

Hear ye! Hear ye! The one and only Leah Chavie, is opening up a SECOND location of her popular skincare boutique in picturesque Anna Maria Island (near Sarasota and Longboat Key) in a spectacular historic home, footsteps off the beach! OMG! She will open in early July at 115 3rd St., Bradenton Beach South, and offer her signature skin care services and products as well as boutique and specialty items. The space will also be perfect for bridal parties, yoga, meditation, retreats and seminars. Huge congrats Leah! You will be as popular there as you are here! (Check out her website here!)

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Kudos to Maria Pappas who was recently spotlighted in Chicago Magazine's popular Backroom article written by Mike Thomas. Maria talks about managing an $18 billion operation (and I can't balance my checkbook) and how she grew up in Wheeling, West Virginia. It's a fascinating read into a life very well lived.

Everybody's favorite comedian and the "Man who Made Sinatra Laugh", Tom Dreesen, hosted a virtual event earlier this month. He reminisced about the times he and Sinatra spent together including some memorable times

Tom Dreesen during his virtual event.

drinking Jack Daniels with Gregory Peck and Kirk Douglas. He said Sinatra was nocturnal and always tipped $100 (but never showed off, he would slip the money quietly to the recipients). When asked if Sinatra

Tom Dreesen with Sinatra.

had a sense of humor, Dreesen said, "He was able to laugh at himself." Frank adored Sammy Davis Jr. and once traveled to Harlem to see his show. He asked Sammy to come see him in return but, when Davis arrived at the venue, he wasn't allowed in. Frank tore his contract up over it. He was very, very loyal to his friends. At Sinatra's funeral, Dreesen, Roger Moore and Gregory Peck eulogized him. Watch for Tom's book, "Still Standing" coming soon!

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I was on a wonderful ZOOM meeting with PAWS Chicago Development Board members recently. They are busy trying to plan events to make up for the ones lost due to Covid. And even though times have been tough, they proudly reported 544 virtual adoptions with 1,655 total adoptions to date! AND, they've received over 9,000 adoption inquiries! In other PAWS news, the org has started a new temporary foster program (up to 60 days) for pet owners who are temporarily unable to care for their pets, including those recovering from the virus as well as front -line healthcare and other essential workers. Pets will be returned when the owners can get

Carolyn, 1 year-old, is looking for her forever home.

back on their feet. During this time, PAWS Chicago vans have delivered over 6,300 pounds of pet food to 1,000 pets since March. The PAWS Beach Party will now be a virtual event taking place on Thursday, July 23 at 7 pm. The event will feature pet-themed beach party fun (think a doggie bikini contest!), Second City comedians and more! The organization's 5K Walk/Run will take place on Saturday, October 31 (this is a date change). (Click here for all the details)

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A smaller animal rescue in Plainfield, Illinois, can also use some help, Wags 2 Wishes Animal Rescue. Their motto is "Big or small, we save them all!" They lost their 3 biggest fundraisers due to the virus that added up to about $50,000 in funding. My friend Richard Urban says, "Our events have all been canceled but the rescue animals haven't canceled their need for us." On average, Wags saves about 450 to 500 animals a year. A fundraising page has been created here.

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The Purple Tie Ball, benefiting WINGS Program (a nonprofit that supports families facing domestic violence), will take place on Saturday, October 3. Further details are still being ironed out by co-chairs Melissa Canning and Debby Jackson. Check the website here for upcoming details.

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Playboy Magazine may have gone away physically, but two of my covers will live on in these brand new coffee

They work too!

mugs! LOL!! A friend sent me a link for these mugs from my Feb. 1980 and Feb. 1979 covers. To say I was surprised is an understatement. Don't look for them on Amazon though, I bought them all. (Just kidding, here's the links, https://amzn.to/2MwCGsA and https://amzn.to/3gRkisa ).

The date for the International Playboy Bunny Reunion Party has been changed to August 13-16 in Chicago. Lots of fun outings planned for this gathering that is limited to former Bunnies and employees of Playboy. For more info, email ThePlayboyBunnyReunion@gmail.com. Hope to see you there!

And the beat goes on! Don't miss Ravinia Festival's (virtual) Living Room Lawn Party with the one and only Kristin Chenoweth on Saturday, June 27 at 8 pm! The event will benefit Ravinia's Reach+Teach+Play programs which reach over 85,000 annually. (Click here for more details and, to donate, please click here)

My favorite spot for eye care needs, MyEyeDr., is now OPEN for appointments. They aren't accepting walk-ins yet as they're following social distancing protocols for the safety of patients and associates. For an appointment, please call 866.693.9336 or visit myeyedr.com

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Drive ins might be making a comeback!

I guess in every pandemic, there is a silver lining. And, for me, it was hearing that drive-in movie theaters might be making a comeback! I remember with fondness the one near my home in Dupo, Illinois. It was in the neighboring town of Cahokia. Mind you, it wasn't all sunbeams and unicorns, it was really a sort of rough and tumble kind of place, but I still enjoyed the experience the few times we visited. I think in hindsight, I've romanticized it a bit more than warranted but I still have fond memories. So, it was with great glee that I read the news (in this Sun-Times article by Darel Jevens) that a group called the Bucket Listers are planning a venue close to

McHenry Drive-In Theater is packing them in!

downtown (location, as of yet, is undisclosed). The group produces social media event guides in Chicago and eight other North American cities, and says it has set up an outdoor movie venue that will fit 300 cars a night and show films six nights a week this summer! And while no films have been announced, Bucket Listers is accepting email votes on future titles at drivein@bucketlisters.com and promises “classic, nostalgic, American films that will transport you back in time,” citing “Back to the Future,” “The Sandlot,” “E.T.,” “Grease” and “When Harry Met Sally” as examples. Ticket prices will begin at $40 per car. Details on tickets will be sent to people who RSVP at DriveInSummer.com. Bucket Listers say more than 60,000 people already are on the wait list for the drive-in plans in its various cities. While conventional indoor movie houses have been closed since mid-March due to Covid, outdoor drive-in theaters have been given the go-ahead to operate with some adjustments in their protocols. Among those re-opening in our area in recent weeks have been the McHenry Outdoor Theater in McHenry and the Route 34 Drive-in in Earlville. Yippee! Grab the popcorn!

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For the past 10 years, funds from the "Tasting Stars" event has benefited A Silver Lining Foundation's "Buy A Mom A Mammogram" program. This year, with Covid cancelling so many live events, the fundraiser will go virtual on Saturday, June 13. The live-streamed event, hosted by Paul Lisnek (of WGN-TV), will be on YouTube LIVE at 7 pm. Many women with breast screenings scheduled, have been forced to cancel because, with job loss or a furlough, comes a loss of insurance. Women are turning to ASLF in larger numbers for help as no one in need of breast health help is ever turned down and all services are free. Tickets are not required, but those who REGISTER IN ADVANCE will be entered into a drawing for a door prize – a package of premium Moet Hennessy bubbly and liquor! For more information, visit http://www.tastingstars.org/ or email champagne@tastingstars.org.

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Nan Giordano Day will be celebrated virtually via a Zoom dance class on Tuesday, June 9th at 2pm. Be a part of the celebration along with famed choreographer Ray Leeper and the fabulous Giordano Dance Chicago dancers. Nan Giordano Day was initiated by former Mayor Rahm Emanuel in recognition of her “fierce, innovative, and tenacious” contributions to GDC and the dance world!" To register, a $15 fee, please click here!

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I hope you can check out Instagram LIVE on Wednesday, June 10, when Tracey Tarantino DiBuono (ZZAZZ Productions) and I try it out for the first time. We'll be discussing everything under the sun–style, fashion, nonprofits and, of course, answering your questions! It will be fun and light-hearted! Hope to "see" you there! Tracey is hosting (@traceytdibuono) and I'll be guesting! (Pray for us)

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At Tufano's with Michael Kutza and Chuck (Joey DiBuono in center).

It's been so encouraging to see people out on the streets again enjoying dinners, albeit socially distanced ones. As soon as the stay-at-home order was lifted, we enjoyed a great dinner at Tufano's Vernon Park Tap

Tufano's charming patio with our darling server Michelle.

(1073 W. Vernon Park Place, 312.733.3393). It was like seeing the sun after a long, hard winter. Owner Joey DiBuono greeted everyone graciously wearing chic orange gloves and, of course, the requisite face mask. But, even with the mask, you couldn't miss the twinkle in his eyes as he saw every table on his beautiful patio fill up. Here's to a lot more summertime fun for all of us.

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Mr. Rogers with Officer Clemmons.

Does anyone remember Mr. Rogers? In 1969, when African-American citizens in the US were not permitted to swim in community pools alongside whites, Fred Rogers brought a Black police officer to his TV show and invited him to cool his feet with him in a small, wading pool. Mr. Rogers then helped Officer Clemmons dry his feet. Mr. Rogers never openly preached on his show, despite being an ordained Presbyterian minister yet he preached volumes in this simple act of love. In a world where you can be anything, be a Mr. Rogers. Wish there were more like him….

Be kind to one another….

Love, as always,

Candace

Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. Something to make you smile…..

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May 22, 2020 · 9:47 am

STEPPENWOLF’S VIRTUAL VICTORY, HOW FRIENDS ARE SURVIVING LOCKDOWN AND SO MUCH MORE!

Steppenwolf Theatre Company hosted its first virtual gala which replaced its popular, signature fundraiser that's usually held every year around

Ensemble member/event host Audrey Francis shows off her "Chicago Acts Together" t-shirt that is bringing in funds for the theatre community.

this time. In spite of the lack of closeness and the thrill of seeing all of Steppenwolf's celebrity ensemble members in person, the event was really, really special! People could join the virtual party for free this year which I'm

Chicago's First Family welcomed viewers.

sure attracted new supporters. AND it raised over $640,000! The "Pants Optional" event was hosted by ensemble member Audrey Francis from the Frost Chicago Broadcast Studio, where event planner extraordinaire Jeffrey Foster had worked his magic. It went off without a hitch. Mayor Lori

Steppenwolf executive director David Schmitz and artistic director Anna D. Shapiro.

Lightfoot and her family, First Lady Amy Eshleman (a longtime Steppenwolf trustee) and First Daughter Vivian, welcomed viewers. Amy said, "Investing in

Ensemble member and Steppenwolf co-founder Gary Sinise.

Steppenwolf education is now more important than ever…You're not only investing in the ensemble of art-makers and appreciators, but I believe 100% that you're investing in the future of Chicago." Then it was turned back over to host Audrey who quipped, "If it was this

Ensemble member Laurie Metcalf.

time last year, I'd be sausaged into a cocktail dress wearing heels wishing that I was wearing pajamas on my couch. So, we have made some of my dreams come true tonight." Audrey talked about the theatre company sitting on native lands and acknowledged the

Steppenwolf "Pants Optional" host Audrey Francis on the set of the Frost Chicago Broadcast Studio designed by Jeff Foster.

tribes that were members of the Council of Three Fires. She wore a "Chicago Acts Together" t-shirt, that Steppenwolf created to support the theatre community and those who had lost work. To date, the shirt has brought in over $30,000 for this initiative. Ensemble members including John Malkovich, Laurie Metcalf, Gary Sinise and others were joined by celebrity guests Claire Danes, Armie Hammer, Shonda Rhimes and Chris Rock in teen interviews, inspiring viewers from the comfort of their homes. Broadway’s Phillipa Soo

Chris Rock speaks with a teen from the Young Adult Council of Steppenwolf.

and Steven Pasquale made a surprise appearance in support of Steppenwolf and serenaded the audience. Grammy Award-winning DJ Tracy Young kept the party going by spinning music live from Miami for Steppenwolf’s expanding global community of artists, fans

Ensemble member John Malkovich gives some acting advice.

and donors to connect, engage and take a collective breath. When the first online bid came in at $10,000, it was quickly matched by longtime trustee Sarah Beardsley. Next, artistic director Anna D. Shapiro and executive director David Schmitz, addressed the audience. "Because of the Covid crisis, we had to close 3 shows that were running. We had standing room only on all of these shows and had to cancel over 200 upcoming performances…We like to be in the same room together celebrating storytelling with

Co-chairs Sandra Marquez and ensemble member and event emcee Audrey Francis Joan Allen and Gary Cole.

Virtual gala co-chairs Sandra Marquez and ensemble members Audrey Francis, Joan Allen and Gary Cole.

people. We're figuring it out though and plan on bringing you virtual programming. Nothing

Ensemble member Caroline Neff.

replaces live theater. We will find this feeling again together however we can, " Shapiro said. (To date, the company has 20 virtual programs running for 3000+ attendees/viewers from across the country.) Members of the Young Adult Council of Steppenwolf asked ensemble members questions and for advice. Company co-founder Gary Sinise was asked, "What were you like when you were my age?" He

Pulitzer Prize winning playwright, Steppenwolf ensemble member Tracy Letts.

replied, "I discovered theater when I was 16 at Glen Ellyn Junior High. We moved to Highland Park and I was struggling academically. Music and playing in bands saved me. I stumbled into theater when a drama teacher approached me and my band-mates hanging out in the hallway and suggested we audition for a play." He continued, "Steppenwolf was started by teenagers and it always warms my heart when I think about young people walking into this [Steppenwolf] building and realizing this was all started by the passions and excitement of kids just like them." Writer/producer Shonda Rhymes was asked how she manages self-doubt while still maintaining a sense of

Ensemble member Kathryn Erbe.

dignity in her work. She said, "Growth doesn't always have

Shonda Rhimes

to be completely filled with joy. There's always a little bit of growing pains. Embrace the doubt and fear and then rise from it, it always makes you better." Other ensemble members shared their thoughts on the one piece of advice they would give their younger selves. Comments included 1) Observe and pick up stories as you go, 2) Come in with your own work and don't wait to be told what to do, 3) Own being an

Award-winning actors Phillipa Soo and Steven Pasquale (husband/wife) closed the event with a song.

artist and embrace it, 4) Balance work and play, 5) Mind your money! Start saving now!, 6) Memorize your damn lines! Of all this advice, I think Armie Hammer's was my favorite. "If I could tell myself one thing in high school, it would be it doesn't matter what anyone in H.S. f-cking thinks of you because they, also, have no idea what they're doing in life, no one does. You're a high school kid, you're an

The team behind the hit play "I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter."

idiot and the fact that you value someone else's opinion above your own is asinine. But I did, we all do it. My advice, f_ck 'em, f_ck 'em all. They're idiots." LOL! Chris Rock spoke about how he got started in comedy (by accident) and John Malkovich shared what

Claire Danes

it was like bringing character Lennie Small to life in the play "Of Mice & Men." "I think the reason that the book is still being taught is because most kids, and people, feel like an outsider…It's a book about people who can't read the signs and I think that's most people." On why live theater is important for young students, Malkovich

Armie Hammer (with a new, interesting haircut).

shared, "Theater is a great venue for the study of ourselves and others and high school is a great age to start it." Ensemble member Ian Barford, following a few comments, dropped his pants and showed his bum to the camera, taking the "Pants Optional" theme

Ensemble member/Steppenwolf co-founder Jeff Perry.

literally. LOL! The event was co-chaired by trustees Susan Berghoff and Ann Phillips. "Together, we will keep the virtual lights on." This year’s free online event opened the virtual doors to a much larger audience, including viewers from across the United States, Canada, Japan, Germany, the United Kingdom, India and New Zealand via Steppenwolf’s YouTube

Ensemble member Gary Cole.

stream. The video, which can still be viewed on Steppenwolf’s YouTube Channel, boasts over 5,500 views. Donations continue to mount via text and online. To contribute and watch the virtual event, click here! Proceeds from this event

Grammy Award-winning DJ Tracy Young.

support, in part, the remount of I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter, this season’s Steppenwolf for Young Adults’ hit world premiere based on the award-winning novel by Erika L. Sánchez, adapted by celebrated Chicago playwright Isaac Gómez and directed by ensemble member

Co-chairs/trustees Susan Berghoff and Ann Phillips.

Sandra Marquez. The extended and sold out run was cut short by the COVID-19 crisis, which inspired Steppenwolf to raise money to bring back to life this essential Chicago story for thousands of high schoolers clamoring to see it, including youth detained and incarcerated at three juvenile justice facilities that the show planned to tour to. The Steppenwolf Education program reaches over 20,000 teens and adults annually.

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Living in a lockdown-weary world hasn't been easy for anyone. As I sit here feeling sorry for myself and scrolling through Instagram at all hours of the day and night, I thought it might be fun to find out how others around town (and across the country) might be coping with this stay-at-home order. So, I asked some of my friends with bold-face names a few questions. 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. and 4) What are you missing the most right now? Their answers were thoughtful, funny, moving and inspiring and told me that we are certainly not in this alone. It made me feel better to hear their thoughts and see some really adorable photos. I hope you feel the same. Thanks to all who participated. I had a zillion more people I wanted to talk to but didn't want to try your attention spans. So, in no particular order, here's what some of the city's newsmakers and difference-makers had to say:

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Howard Tullman with one of his lockdown buddies.

From everybody's favorite tech genius, HOWARD TULLMAN: 1) What has saved you during lockdown? The 4000 meals prepared for me by my wonderful wife [Judy]; our dogs and having a yard to escape into and get some

Howard getting some much needed rest with a good friend.

fresh air. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Losing all the weight I gained from the 4000 wonderful meals and wearing a pair of pants that requires a belt. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without? The amazing fruit at the Cermak Fresh Market on Diversey and my Kindle and the 200 books I read. 4) What are you missing the most right now? My daughters and granddaughers. Zoom just doesn't cut it. (Amen to that Howard!)
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Ravinia's Nick Pullia.

From Ravinia Festival's Director of Communications NICK PULLIA: "My pets have been my greatest comfort. I have three big dogs and three big birds and I am nowhere close to being the Alpha of the pack. At first it was hard to work from home because the pets assumed that, if I was home, that must mean that it was time for me to play with them. That ended the

Nick Pullia and his 30 year-old Moluccan cockatoo Elliott.

third week. Now they look at me like I'm a vagrant with no friends and no prospects. And it's especially hard to write from home because my beautiful 30-year-old cockatoo, Elliott, calls me by name, "Hi, Nick," so frequently that I'm the one about to fly over this cuckoo's nest! 2) What are you most

Nick's handsome pack.

looking forward to when this is over? You know the song, "People," the corner stone of Mount Streisand? It's about me. I'm that person who needs people. I love to go shopping on Black Friday. I love to go to opening night of a blockbuster movie. And, of course, I love the throngs

Close-up of Nick's beautiful dog, Chicago!

of concertgoers. I miss the crowds. Nothing gives off better energy and pure joy than a group of people doing what they love. 3) Name one item you couldn't live without? For the past two weeks of this quarantine, my refrigerator/freezer has been kaput. After a couple of failed service attempts, a new one is on the way. But it has been very difficult having no refrigerator at a time

Nick's fabulous sense of humor gets him through any crisis!

when you're supposed to stay in the house. I know that's a good thing in a way or else I'd be having a menage a trois with Ben and Jerry right now. 4) What are you missing the most? I am missing "light at the end of the tunnel," which for me would have been the opening of the Ravinia 2020 season. The hope of a full and fun concert season with performers from King Crimson to John Legend, and of course, the Chicago Symphony Orchestra, was keeping me bouyant. But we had to cancel for the safety of our artists, audiences, staff and neighbors. It was the right decision, but it's going to be a quiet summer. As you know, I'm not a fan of quiet.

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Paul Iacono has some fun with pal Lori Allen.

Man-about-town, philanthropist and Chicago Dowel Company president PAUL IACONO: 1) What has been the most comforting? Cooking. Nothing comforts like

Paul's Beef Bourguignon is a specialty. He's rediscovered his cooking skills during this difficult time!

comfort food, especially when you cook it for yourself (including baking my own birthday cake); Cleaning and organizing closets. It's something I would never have had the time nor inclination to do. I'm a (former) pack rat. Who knew? 2) What are you most looking forward to? Having a flattened Covid curve and belly curve and, of course, being out on our gorgeous Lake Michigan with dear friends. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My Dutch oven, cheese and Johnnie Walker Black, not necessarily in that order. 4) What are you missing the most right now? A haircut, a hug and my cleaning lady.

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Leslie Hindman, so chic in lockdown.

Auction house maven, world traveler and woman of the world LESLIE HINDMAN: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting? Nature. I've been in Florida and am so lucky to have been able to walk a lot and spend time

Leslie Hindman with her elegant mom on her 89th birthday.

outdoors by the ocean, surrounded by beauty. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is over? Spending time with friends! Everyone feels the same. I miss my friends!!! 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. Good television and good books! (I couldn't agree more Leslie, we've been binging Netflix' Penny Dreadful, Babylon Berlin and Hollywood and are now watching The Tudors for the 2nd time!) 4) What are you missing the most right now? Human contact, hugging the people I love.

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Actress, writer, director and all-around cutie Leslie Zemeckis.

Even though actress/author/ film producer LESLIE ZEMECKIS doesn't live in Chicago full time, she and filmmaker/husband Robert Zemeckis, still count since they have a home here. So, Leslie, what has saved you? Having a routine, yet remaining flexible. I divide my

Leslie, amid her vintage showgirl collection holding one of her books, "Feuding Fan Dancers."

day with exercise, writing, reading, some outdoor time and a little too much baking! I'm plotting my future work and included silly things like sketching or collaging. Yet sometimes I don't feel like it so, instead, I'll throw the routine away and listen to what my soul needs. Maybe cleaning a drawer (I know, but I like organizing) or dancing with my daughter making a stupid Tik Tok video. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is over? Travel, especially to Italy where my heart is. I miss the world and I miss my friends. Real in person connection. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without. Tequila. Or possibly vodka. (You're a girl after my own heart Leslie!)

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Ikram and her beautiful family.

Owner of Chicago boutique Ikram, one of fashion's most powerful retailers and designer king-maker, IKRAM GOLDMAN: 1) What has saved you Ikram during lockdown?

The Goldmans enjoying nature.

Getting to spend time with my husband and twin boys. Cooking. Reading. Watching old movies. 2) What are you looking forward to when this is over? Getting my hair colored! The outline of my grey looks like the Alps! 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without. My mask. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Being with friends whether at the store or out for dinner.

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Melissa Forman checking household chores off her list.

Former co-host of WCIU's "YOU & ME'" and now superstar radio personality on 93.9 LITE FM, MELISSA FORMAN: 1) Melissa, what has been the most

Melissa's husband of 17 years, Scott, helps with the housework.

comforting? My pets, 2 dogs and a cat. I never thought I would need a snuggle so much. Plus, getting to see exactly what they do 24 hours a day has been a treat (they're really pretty lazy). 2) What are you most looking forward to? My hair stylist! I mean, that is, if she even recognizes me. I may also want to hug my dentist. 3) What couldn't you have lived without? My grey, fuzzy bathrobe. My mom wants to burn it after seeing me in 1000 FaceTime videos wearing it. 4) What are you missing the most right now? I'm missing nothing. Keeping friends, family and fellow Chicagoans safe by staying home is something that helps me stay motivated. We will get through this together. Although, a good Saturday night dinner out wouldn't be bad!

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Chef Art Smith has lost 70 lbs thanks to the regimen created by his trainer/friend/chef Lucas Cancelier.

World renowned and much loved CHEF ART SMITH: 1) What has saved you during lockdown Chef Art? Being in lockdown with my best friend Lucas Cancelier, a pro rugby player (@iamdapower) from Argentina. He has mentored me and helped me regain my health with a

Chef Art and his blueberries. Cooking has helped him through this.

70 pound weight loss. He inspired and reinvented me with my virtual hit cooking show "Chef Art Smith's Healthy Comfort" on Instagram Live, Wed., 3 pm Central time. 2) What are you looking forward to after this is all over? My kids going back to school and me going back to my favorite job as a restaurant owner. 3) Name one item you couldn't live without during this time. My Oster French Door Oven and baking my heart out! 4) What are you missing the most? My restaurant teams across America and, of course, my customers.

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The cutest Corporate Hippie I know, Justine Fedak.

Corporate Hippie, motivational speaker, co-founder and principal at Instant Impact and 2021 Eversight Woman of Vision JUSTINE FEDAK: 1) What has been most comforting to you during lockdown? Meditation, I've

Justine Fedak

always practiced but now it's a faithful 5:30 am ritual on my terrace with the sun coming up. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over (besides spending time with me)? Going for dinner and cocktails with friends and hearing the hustle and bustle of a restaurant again. 3) Name one thing you couldn't have lived without during this time. My virtual Pilates and Strength Training. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Hugging my best friends.

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Jim Smith and Greg Hyder, looking cute in their bandana masks.

Peninsula Hotel's Director Style & Community Relations GREG HYDER and his partner JIM SMITH, Senior Project Manager for the American Hospital Association: 1) What has been the most comforting

Greg and Jim find solace in recreating family recipes.

during lockdown for you Greg? My MoMaw's recipes (his grandmother Lorena Smith) 2) What are you most looking forward to when this ends? Seeing my family in person instead of virtually. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without. Clorox wipes 4) What are you missing the most right now? Liver and onions at RL! And for you Jim? 1) Being with Greg 2) Going to Sidetrack 3) My elliptical machine 4) Our social life.

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The irrepressible Sherrill Bodine!

Author, philanthropist and current Service Club of Chicago president SHERRILL BODINE: 1) What has saved you during this tough time? I made a promise to help restaurants by ordering carry-out daily while we all shelter in place. It has taken on a life of its own! Now I dream about where to order from next and the tablescapes I can plan to go with the cuisine. I knew I could

Sherrill's having fun pairing her nightly carry-out cuisine with her table decor.

write books but I didn't realize I could be visually creative! 2) What are you looking forward to when this is all over? Traveling! My wanderlust is threatening a jail break? 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without? My computer! I have daily Zoom meetings with other writers and my critique group, plus meetings with chairs of Service Club plotting inventive ways to keep moving forward with our mission. I also always look forward to Friday Night Zoom Cocktail Party with three other couples, our "Night Out"! 4) What are you missing most right now? Spending time with family and friends and giving REAL hugs!

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MyEyeDr's Michael Caputo.

CS Mag's Man of style, philanthropist and MyEyeDr's Brand & Creative Strategist MICHAEL CAPUTO: 1) What has saved you? Watching every episode of

Michael's nightly salute to our first responders and frontline workers.

Downton Abbey, while today's world is changing rapidly, I'm enjoying the structured etiquette of Downton. 2) What are you most looking forward to? Choices and options 3) Name one item you couldn't live without during this time? I'm working from home so high-speed internet is the only game in town! 4) What are you missing the most right now? The freedom to go where I want and, of course, seeing all my friends in real-time!

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Tracey Tarantino DiBuono shows off her longtime dance and work-out skills!

Special event producer, founder of ZZAZZ Productions, fashion influencer, philanthropist TRACEY TARANTINO DIBUONO: 1) Two practices have given me daily comfort. My faith has been my rock. I have used my time at home to dig deeper into my spiritual side. I am drawn to reading or listening to good meditations and affirmations along with all the

Tracey Tarantino DiBuono at Tom Kehoe's Green Market Garden pop-up.

prayers I know. The staple that teaches me to give up my fear and have faith and worry less is my yoga practice (ongoing now for 20 years). 2) What are you most looking forward to? I am looking forward to attending the things I am most committed to. First, family gatherings, and I'm going to be very grateful to be able to attend church again. Also, board meetings for philanthropic causes. And, of course, some simple haircuts would be grand too! 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without. Nail polish. My mother always said she needed to have her nails polished because they were brittle. Mine are the same. I also couldn't live without my dog. (Her nails need attention too!) 4) What are you missing right now? I miss the wisdom I get from being with others I enjoy. To be in the spirit of lively conversation is always so uplifting.

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Award-winning radio show host Lisa Fielding working from home!

Reporter, writer, photographer, WBBM780 Radio star LISA FIELDING: 1) What has saved you during this lockdown Lisa? A comforting thing to me is that people now realize who the essential workers are. Not only first responders and health care workers, but grocery store clerks, public transit employees, postal carriers,

After this is all over, Lisa can't wait to get back to traveling.

fast food workers and yes, journalists, who are on the front lines as well. And, like many pet parents, my fur kids have been constant, comforting companions. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? This has been one of the most difficult mental struggles of this situation, not having anything to look forward to. I'm a big planner so, by now and under normal circumstances, I'd likely have my whole summer

We'd ALL rather be at Wrigley!

planned. I'm also looking forward to family gatherings, hugs from my nieces and nephews, my co-workers back in a bustling newsroom, warm nights at Wrigley Field, a show at the Nederlander Theater, strolls along the RiverWalk and, most of all, being able to plan that trip to somewhere I've never been. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. Two things! Books and Netflix. I talk about the pandemic all day so when I'm off the clock, I need something to escape. I've had the rare time to read and binge. 4) What are you missing the most right now? I love the bustling city. The empty, quiet downtown has been very unsettling. I can't wait until the true "energy" of Chicago returns. It's what I love best about living and working here.

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Tom Kehoe surviving lockdown with his partner Abel Leon.

Entrepreneur, philanthropist, founder Kehoe Designs, The Geraghty, BlackOak Technical Productions, Floral Exhibits and the newly created Events-To-Go, TOM KEHOE: 1) Tom,

Tom Kehoe knows how to pivot!

what has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? First and foremost being with my guy, Abel [Leon] has been a godsend. Our daily workouts, keeping our routines and pivoting the business in new ways. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? A kick ass dance party (Amen to this!) 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My Peloton bike 4) What are you missing the most right now? Spending money.

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Desiree Rogers with her cute mom.

Former White House Social Secretary for former President Obama's office, former CEO Johnson Publishing Company and current CEO of Black Opal, a recently launched cosmetics company, DESIREE

Desiree's Black Opal Cosmetics!

ROGERS: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? Daily check in conversations with family and friends. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Getting back into the office with my team and working on BK/OPL. We have so many new products to launch! 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. Orders from BOKA. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Freedom.

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Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas, aka the Dragon Lady.

Cook County Treasurer (since 1998), champion of the people, attorney, lover of yoga, great cook, MARIA PAPPAS: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? Visiting business owners who needed help applying for loans ….nothing like human contact. 2) What are you most looking

Maria Pappas unwinds with exercise.

forward to when this is all over? Large dinner parties followed by sing-a-longs. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My Chinese doctor gave me an herbal tea and told me if I drink it every day, I will be fine. I drink it every day and I continually test negative….maybe it's psychological! 4) What are you missing the most right now? All my office events and the people I used to hug and kiss.

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Sherry Lea (Fox) Holson wearing a mask by desiger SYLWIA.

Philanthropist, founder of Chicago's Mask Program for essential workers, Service Club of Chicago Board of Managers SHERRY LEA (FOX) HOLSON: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? My Faith, friends and getting involved in a charity project. I like knowing that I am giving back in some small way. Helping our local businesses and also the designers to pay their bills and feed their families

Sherry wearing a mask and T-shirt by designer Peach Carr.

feels good! Additional plus, the public is also being protected with the Face Mask Order mandated. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Looking someone directly in their eyes while having a conversation! Laughing, loving! Seeing my family and friends, Church, Charitable Events, Favorite Restaurants, Outdoor Dining, etc., etc. And… wink wink, ordering a cocktail at a “real bar”! 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. Masks ! LOL!!! TV, Netflix, books, phone and iPad. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Human contact and touch. Through the “Hello”, hugs and kisses to direct conversations. Freedom to just do whatever …

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Toni Canada celebrating her BFF Dusty Stemer's birthday.

Chief Human Resources Officer, American Medical Association, fashion influencer, longtime member of the Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum, TONI CANADA: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? We have been sheltering in place in Michigan which has

Beautiful vignette with lilacs from Toni's Michigan garden.

been a treat but I have been working nonstop since we went to WFH 9 weeks ago…… I'm completely exhausted but the days have flown by. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Having someone ask me "can I start you off with drinks and an appetizer" 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My solid wi-fi connection and my husband. 4) What are you missing the most right now? My friends…and eating out!

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Michael Kutza on a film project in Hong Kong.

Founder of The Chicago International Film Festival, soon-to-be-author, film consultant, MICHAEL KUTZA: 1) What has saved you during lockdown?1) Netflix. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Going back to the movies at the Archlight. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time? Real movie theaters and vodka 4) What are you missing the most right now? Hanging out with friends like you and Chuck. Isolation doesn't bother me as I have always been isolated in movie theaters all my life, alone at Festivals. It's important to respect this Pandemic and take it seriously though.

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Thomas O'Gorman

Artist, writer, historian, chef, bon vivant, THOMAS O'GORMAN: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? The most sustaining element has been painting. I have a very rigorous painting schedule each day, which means that I have paintings at all stages of progress and completion…But I know that I have to balance

Painting is Thomas' passion. Here is a work in progress of 18th century Dublin Houses.

the day with writing and some reading and study. Painting is the glue of my living. Being able to pick up a brush when I want is a great luxury. Discipline is very critical for a painter. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Quite literally just getting out of the house. My quarantine is not cosmetic. My cardio condition means I won’t get any second chances. I have to be very careful. I have not budged since March 13. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My laptop is indispensable….It's the first thing I check each morning and the last thing I see at night….I have 5,000 friends on

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Thomas, a master chef: Classic French Toast with blueberry compote syrup.

Facebook and my European friends are just getting started when I’m going to bed. I don’t have a television and I rely on my lap top for connecting me to the world. It's also critical to my literary world. In addition to my column [SKYLINE], which has its own deadlines, I’m working on two books, a history of Chicago and a cookery book. Cooking has always been a mainstay of my life. With painting and writing, cooking completes me. Rounds me out. 4) What

Tom O'Gorman and his trusty Iphone!

are you missing the most right now? I really miss the sociability of my life. Holding court at RL is very natural. The staff are all my buddies. I love the freedom I have with the menu. My soul gets fed there, too. Peter Axelsen, Jesus, Christopher, Molly, Anna and others have been a part of my life for ages. I miss them terribly, and the friends who gather there. I miss my friend Rose O’Neill, Myra Reilly, Diane O’Connell and Mark O’Malley. I miss bumping into my pals, Steve Lombardo and Johnny Coletti. The food I miss the most is West Coast oysters and crispy duck. I know that eventually we will all be together again. I’ve always been impatient. But I’ve gotten better.

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Masked Mark Olley

Do-gooder, philanthropist, father of Grayson, Chicago Financial Services Co-op Lending Manager MARK OLLEY: 1) What has saved and comforted you during this trying time? That I am not alone, I have my husband to talk and laugh with, my family and friends to ZOOM with. Learning new skills, cutting hair, and

Mark Olley with his handsome son Grayson.

cooking… wait I need to add these skill sets to my resume! But our pup GRAYSON is a delight 24/7 he's our home's "healer and chief". And of course, we are all truly in this together. 2) What are you most looking forward to? Our FREEDOM- to come and go as we please, hold those we love close. I am a HUGGER this social distancing thing is simply is not in my DNA…3) Name one item you found you couldn't live without? My daily morning Starbuck's visit. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Big picture- Travel, close to home- Personal grooming (it truly takes a village!)

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Susanna Homan and her adorable PAWS rescue Gus.

Editor-in-Chief/ Publisher Chicago Magazine, mother of Gus, lover of children and animals, print genius, SUSANNA HOMAN: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? My dachshund-mix,

I'll have what she's having! You go Susanna! Wowza!

[PAWS] rescue, Gus! I have never had the chance to spend this much time with him, and our bond keeps growing stronger. In the moments where the anxiety of this time is almost too much to bear, holding him makes it all better. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? I miss my parents, so most certainly visiting them, but also just a nice dinner at one of

Susanna and her darling goddaughter.

my favorite restaurants, like Piccolo Sogno, would feel like New Year's Eve right now. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. I invested in a new iPhone a couple of weeks before the lockdown began, not realizing what a lifeline it would become. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Spending time with my godchildren, CJ (who is 10) and Gia (who just turned 2). I typically babysit a couple of times a month, so I'm definitely missing the cuteness and the hugs.

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Megan McKinney– author, historian, publisher Classic Chicago magazine.

Author, historian, publisher Classic Chicago magazine MEGAN MCKINNEY: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? I’m very fortunate because my life has changed very little. For almost five years I have worked all day in my office at home. My Classic Chicago business partner, Judy Carmack Bross, does the same. We meet by telephone several mornings a week and constantly by email. It was a pleasant routine and the lack of change has been very comforting. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? I’m looking forward most to long walks through the Gold Coast and along the lakefront in beautiful warm weather. And restaurants. I so miss sinking into a banquette at RL or Tortoise Supper Club for an afternoon of talk and lunch with longtime friends. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. My computer. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Second Tuesday lunches at RL.

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Yolanda "Dusty" Stemer and her husband Alex.

Director of Special Events at Brian Atwood Designs, charity champion, fashionista, YOLANDA "DUSTY" STEMER: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? Having a brilliant Infectious Disease Expert sleeping next to me each night. Alex [Stemer] has been on calls and conferences with Rush, UNC and heads the Symphony system Covid response team for patients and staff. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? We are

Dusty's quarantine dinner table game is STRONG!

lucky to be in Indiana and be able to walk to the beach and the Dunes, but we are looking forward to enjoying dinner out with friends. And dare to dream of maybe being on an airplane going to a favorite vaca spot. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. Tequila and our BFF Jerry Mickelson!! 4) What are you missing the most right now? It's amazing how you miss human contact, whether it's family, friends or just seeing people in a grocery store. Zoom just doesn't replace the real thing!! I want to be normal again.

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Kathy O'Malley Piccone and her friend Nikki Friar, social distancing in the park.

Managing Partner at Gibsons Restaurant Group, do-gooder, girl's girl, people lover, Hostess with the Mostest, KATHY O'MALLEY PICCONE: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? Most of all, my Faith and the Love and caring of my family and dear friends. Watching the goodness of people giving back. "Surprise" gifts, flowers and dinners being delivered. Never expected…So grateful. It warms my heart to order from local restaurants. 2) What are you most looking forward to

Kathy participating in a virtual Zoom Cocktail Party with the Service Club of Chicago.

when this is all over. My morning pilates and "Calm," taking deep breathes for the anxiety of the unknown. Music… Reading ..and some movies.. Above all Staying Positive. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? Simple Joys, a walk around the block will have a new meaning…never taking things

Kathy celebrating her BFF, Cheri James, birthday recently.

for granted. Gathering of friends. The awakening of things to come, for many to return to basics and kindness we were all born to share. Also looking forward to working with people again. I am such a nurturing, giving and caring person in need of social interaction, especially being in the hospitality business most of my life. I miss my Gibsons family and customers. 3) Name one item you couldn't live without during this time. The Internet …new ways to communicate. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Hugging my family and Friends, prosperity and just being free to come and go without second guessing. And let's not forget my hair salon, manicures and pedicures…LOL!

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Myra and John Reilly think #togetherisbetter during lockdown, and always!

John Reilly Photography Partner, philanthropist, Service Club of Chicago superstar, elegant MYRA REILLY and her photog superstar husband JOHN REILLY, Principal John Reilly Photography: 1) What has saved you, been the most comforting, during lockdown? That we are doing this together–cooking together and being able to work in our garden together and, most importantly, being able to have church services online. 2) What are you most looking forward to when this is all over? John can’t wait to get back to the studio and photographing, me, I miss seeing my family and giving them a big hug. 3) Name one item you couldn't have lived without during this time. They both said "each other"! And, together, we thank God for this time of reflection. 4) What are you missing the most right now? Being with friends and family and socializing with our “peeps”!

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Oprah delivers powerful commencement speech for the Class of 2020.

I watched Oprah's greatly anticipated commencement speech for the Class of 2020 on May 15. She sure knows how to fire up a room. During the 90 minute live-streamed ceremony (I watched it on Facebook but know it appeared on other channels too), co-hosted by Mindy Kaling and B.J. Novak, a variety of stars gave advice to the graduating seniors including Jennifer Garner, Awkwafina, Amy Schumer, Matthew

John Mayer participated.

McConaughey, Gloria Estefan, Selena Gomez, Ashley Graham, Gordon Ramsey, Marlee Matlin, Steve Harvey, Usher, Sebastian Maniscalco, Tim Tebow, Andy Cohen, Rob Lowe, musician Marshmallow, Dice Nice, Hugh Jackman, supermodel Winnie Harlow, Simone Biles, John Mayer and dozens of others. Even Cookie Monster made an appearance! The ceremony acknowledged high schools and colleges in the U.S. by name, state by state, that included photos and videos of the class of 2020 and messages from students, deans and principals from across the country. Miley Cyrus "sang" " her hit song "The Climb" although it looked more like lip-synching to me (but at least she was there).

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Jennifer Garner introduced a spectacular group of high school students called the "Intonations" that sang a capella in perfect harmony. One of the many students spotlighted was Ashley Lawrence, a senior studying education for the deaf and hard of hearing at Eastern

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Kentucky University. She created face masks for the hearing impaired that has a clear plastic window in the middle for lip reading. Genius! Brava Ashley! You're already a difference-maker! Here are some comments/advice the celebs had for the class of 2020: John Mayer–"I don't have to wait on the world to change anymore because I know, more than ever, that the

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The Miz, professional wrestler and actor.

generation you're in has this handled." Matthew McConaughey–"Don't worry if you're not quite sure what you want to do in life. I'm 50 and have many days where I'm still not quite sure what I want to be. But I work on it, stay the process and try to enjoy it as much as I can." Simone Biles (world's most decorated gymnast)–"As an athlete, there's nothing quite like the

Steve Harvey represented for high schools in Ohio.

bus ride home after a win. You're happy because you've nailed it. This is your bus ride home. Your victory lap. I know you're missing your medal ceremony but that ceremony doesn't change a thing. You've already won." Steve Harvey-" It's the dreams I had in high school

Alright, alright Matthew McConaughey.

that made me what I am today. I'm a major, major star. I ain't messing around man. If it happened to me, why can't it happen to you? You have to lock in on that dream and never give up." Tim Tebow (all American quarterback)–"Life is not about tomorrow, it's not about the next day. It's about this day. And every day when you show up, know that you can show up with purpose and passion, every single day." Marshmallow-"Really look at yourself and ask what do I love doing, what makes me happy?" Rob Lowe–"Right now, you all have the ability to be the greatest generation the world has ever seen." Comedian Sebastian Maniscalco–"Whatever you do, do it 150%!" And now, to watch Oprah's powerful and inspiring commencement address, click HERE! (Congrats to the Class of 2020! May you light up the world with your good work!) The Facebook Watch group for this event numbered nearly 60,000 viewers.

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Former President Obama welcomed guests to this virtual gala.

Bright Futures' Youth Guidance presented a spectacular virtual gala recently, raising over $1.1 million!! The event, co-chaired by Kimberly and Jim Mills, featured a donation segment led by auctioneer extraordinaire Greg "G-Man" Dellinger" with guest

Basketball star Jimmy Butler encouraged viewers to donate.

appearances interspersed throughout that included an opener/welcome from former President Barack Obama. Young people shared the impact the organization had in their lives through its various

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Michelle Morrison, CEO Youth-Guidance.org, thanked viewers for their huge support!

initiatives and basketball star Jimmy Butler shared some inspiration for the kids. At the top donor level of $25,000, donations came in from Doug Walker, Mark Gerstein, Kimberly and Jim Mills, John and Diana Raitt, Maria Green and Greg Lewis and others. Auctioneer Dellinger became very emotional as the numbers climbed calling the supporters "change-makers for the kids." The event concluded with a heartfelt thank you from Youth Guidance CEO Michelle Morrison. The event will support the nonprofit's mission of supporting elementary and high school students through its many mentoring and counseling programs. The organization directly serves about 13,000 youth while touching the lives of hundreds more parents, schools and local communities.

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Nina and Bob Mariano.

For all of the fans of Bob Mariano (and who isn't?), I have great news! In a breaking story by Crain's Chicago, Bob is returning to the grocery industry with a $10 million investment to create a new chain aimed at combining shopping, restaurant dining and home delivery! The article by Dalton Barker, states: "The

Bob Mariano is BACCKKKK!!!

new venture, Dom’s Market & Kitchen, is planned for a March 2021 debut at a yet-to-be announced Lincoln Park location. The small-format store will feature specialty foods and take-home and dine-in meals prepared in an open kitchen. Groceries and meal-kits will also be available for delivery, according to a statement from the new company. It plans to add Chicago locations, focusing on urban neighborhoods, once its Lincoln Park spot is up and running. Mariano is partnering with fellow industry veterans Jay Owen and Don Fitzgerald to jumpstart the venture." Huge congrats Nina and Bob! We need YOU!!!

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Photographer Jeff Cohen, making memories for charity.

For all those living on the North Shore, here's a great offer from a photographer/friend of mine Jeff Cohen Photography! He says, "After two+ months of creative inactivity, TV binge watching along with eating and drinking to excess, I’ve decided to get my butt off the couch and support those on the front lines fighting Covid-19 or who have been adversely affected by the virus. For a minimum donation of $50 to a First Responder’s charity or a local food bank, I'll come to your home or

Jeff Cohen Photography.

apartment and photograph your family in the safety and comfort of your porch or backyard. We'll gather for a 15 minute session of picture taking while keeping a safe distance. Within a few days I’ll send a high resolution gallery of images you can post on social media or make into prints. You'll have a bit of fun with your family, receive a record of this strange time and most important you'll help support a worthy cause. And for me I'll know my time, energy and creativity are helping those who are fighting the good fight every day. That's enough for me." What a great idea Jeff! Contact him here for more details and to book a day and time. Jeff@JeffCohenPhotography.com This offer expires 6/30/ North Shore Area Only. (And one more thing, Jeff knows his stuff, he was a senior art director for Playboy Magazine!)

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The Peninsula brings the beats to pay tribute to the city and frontline workers.

During this time of isolation, music can be an especially uplifting and powerful way to bring the community together, while still observing social distancing. I love the sounds and songs coming from the balconies around the city every night at 8 pm. And now, The Peninsula Chicago is joining in the fun by offering live, upbeat music to celebrate the city and pay tribute to frontline responders. Listen for the trio on the Z Bar's rooftop terrace every Thursday at 8 pm. They play for 15 to 20 minutes! Area residents and responders can listen and sing along from their homes, or via a LIVE streaming broadcast on Facebook @peninsulachicago and Instagram @thepeninsulachi

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#SAVECHICAGOMEDIA

If you're so inclined and have the means, please consider donating to the Chicago Independent Media Alliance – CIMA's month-long fundraising initiative, Save Chicago Media, to help support local Chicago news outlets. On this website, www.savechicagomedia.org, through June 5, you can donate one amount to be shared equally by the 43 outlets, or you can select individual outlets to give funds to. All money, up to $40,000, will be matched by generous local foundations. We need local, authentic media outlets to survive to tell the stories from and for their communities. Click here to choose an outlet and to donate. Any amount will make a difference.

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PAWS Chicago Beach Party 2019 with Murray Peretz, Howard Tullman and Angie DeMars!

PAWS Chicago's annual Beach Party is going virtual! Mark your calendars now for Thursday, July 23, 7 pm! Expect a doggie swimsuit contest, Second City comedians, local celebs, a silent auction and so much more! Check their website here for deets coming soon!

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Thanks again Gabby Road with Hannah, Fred & Justin for having me back! Loved chatting with you about Playboy; the nonprofit community; how events will look moving forward; working (or not) during a pandemic and so much more! If you missed it, please listen here!

MARK YOUR CALENDARS! Join Dr. Sandy Goldberg and her A Silver Lining Foundation for their 16th annual Gala on Saturday, October 3 at the Hyatt Regency McCormick Place! Now, more than ever, this org needs your help in providing men and women with cost-free breast health testing. So many have lost their jobs and insurance so this year's event will be critical to support these life-saving needs. For tickets, more info, call 312.345.1322 or click here!

ULBGC champion Tiana Jackson!

Congrats Tiana Jackson! Hard work and determination pays off, just ask Union League Boys & Girls Clubs member Tiana, who has been selected to represent Illinois in the upcoming Boys & Girls Clubs of America’s Youth of the Year Midwest Regional Competition. She makes history as ULBGC's first state winner since the competition started 73 years ago!

I've been blogging on my own since 2008 but, this month, marks my 11th anniversary as a blogger/writer for ChicagoNow! The Chicago Now blogging platform is part of the Chicago Tribune. It's the home of over 300 top Chicago bloggers. If you'd like to check it out, please click here! (Thanks for bringing me on Bill Adee!) The site is masterfully helmed by Matt Schwerha!

Big thanks to Cook County Treasurer Maria Pappas! Her office is waiving interest on late property tax payments for two months which will give taxpayers financial relief and more time to manage their finances. This is one politician who truly cares.

Lauren Lein with grateful frontline responders at Citadel Waterford. (Photo by Thomas P. Cavanaugh)

Kudos to designer Lauren Lein! She made and donated dozens of masks to the good folks at Citadel Waterford, a retirement home on Sheridan Road. Her good friend Julia Jacobs help facilitate this mission of mercy and now, as you can see, everyone is happier and safer! Good job Lauren!

How cool is this for Memorial Day Weekend!? Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse is offering GRILL MEAL KITS! Love this idea! Check out the menu and have a great holiday weekend! Long may you grill!

It seems my blogs get longer and longer. I don't know how there can be so much news when we can't go anywhere, but I'm happy to share! In spite of it all, there are lots of happy moments, events and successes happening all around us so I hope you've enjoyed this latest edition and I hope you tell your friends!

As for us, we're off for a little road trip to Lake Geneva for Memorial Day Weekend. I've packed all of our masks and plastic gloves and have firmly decided that this virus won't keep us down for long. We're celebrating where, when and how we can, safely and respectfully. Hope you have a wonderful holiday weekend too!

Love, as always,

Candace

P.S. This darling, bird-brained video is sure to take your mind off Covid!

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October 31, 2019 · 10:37 am

THE APPAREL INDUSTRY BOARD REVS UP FOR CHICAGO FASHION

PLUS: The Joffrey Ballet's Jane Eyre Luncheon; JUMP SHOT doc celebrates Sailors with superfan Jesse; The Price was Wrong for Paul; Lyric Opera's Grand Ball; Porchlight Music Theatre launches 25th season; A (Costume) Walk for the Bear; World's oldest (and best) supermodel; Eisenberg Foundation Dinner; Murphy Scholars' 30th anniversary party; Chicago Costume Council's Men's Fashion Awards; Haute Dog LA; A Toast to Tutoring for Chicago Lights; Tails in the City's Doggie Halloween Parade; Hell in a Handbag's "Rip Nelson's Celebrity Roast"; 900 Shops' Illuminate the Holidays; Camp One Step's (sort of ) Park City Gala; "Arctic Dogs" cute premiere with kids and a supermodel; Jack's Pumpkin Pop-Up (right here in the city!); Executive Club hosts Diane Von Furstenberg and Kristina O'Neill (special ticket coupon!); Hebru's Nevermore Park; Friends of Prentice's "Evening in Oz"; "A Night of Magic & Wonder: Celebrating the Spirit of Youth"; "Lights UP" for DePaul Theatre School; This & That; Darling videos and SO much MORE!

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Designer Peach Carr with models Sylvia Perez and Linda Yu.

Chicago fashion lovers Rev'd UP! for our local designers at the fashion show fundraiser presented by and benefiting the Apparel Industry Board Foundation on October 10.

Stanley Paul-Raelene Mittelman Scholarship winner Claire Groppe (R) with models Arabel Rosales and Erica Strama.

Held at Perillo Rolls Royce Gold Coast, the event attracted nearly 300 guests for a runway presentation produced by ZZAZZ Productions that featured top local designers Elda de la Rosa, Mark Roscoe, Peach Carr, Tamra Ellingson, Ann Everett, Laurie Borse, Rebellion, Model Atelier and Lauren Lein. Ji Suk Yi

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Emcee Ji Suk Yi and fashion show producer Tracey Tarantino (ZZAZZ Productions).

graciously emceed (and we were so thrilled to have her since she's one helluva busy lady on WGN Radio, co-hosting The Steve Cochran Show, sharing the culinary news in the Sun-Times' The Grid and so much more!) She dressed

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With committee chair Frances Renk.

the part wearing a chic feathered skirt and sparkly top. The night also paid tribute to two remarkable women who shaped the organization, Dorothy Fuller and Marsha Brenner. Their absence was sorely felt by all who knew them. They gave their hearts and worked tirelessly to advocate for and support our local design community for over 32 years. The show was dedicated in their memory. Lauren Lein, AIBI president/fashion designer,

AIBI president/designer Lauren Lein with models Mary Lasky, Melinda LaGrange, Dr. Stacie McClane, Sherrill Bodine and Bethany Florek.

shared the history of the organization. She said, "AIBI remains the only official organization in Illinois dedicated to the apparel design and manufacturing community. It works with

Designer Mark Roscoe with his model Opal Staples of the famed Staples singers.

dreamers to help make their dreams a reality and to help educate, inform and nurture them into tomorrow's successful entrepreneurs." The night also showcased the student designers who were finalists for the coveted Stanley Paul-Raelene Mittelman Foundation Scholarship. (Stanley was out of the country and couldn't attend). Tracey Tarantino, ZZAZZ Productions founder, introduced the

Designer Elda de la Rosa with model Erica Strama.

students who presented outstanding, cutting edge looks. They were Claire Groppe, Shaylin Thurston and Evelin Zermeno (the VIP models wearing these designs were Arabel Rosales, Nicole

Longtime event/AIBI supporters and 2018 honorees Joe and Pat Perillo.

Zwerican, Kristin Kinder, Erica Strama, Eliana Mockler, Mary Lasky and Felicia Winiecki). Each design brought rousing applause from the standing-room-only crowd but, in the end, the winner of the $5000 scholarship was Claire Groppe! (Congrats Claire!) The fashion show opened with thrilling and playful designs by Peach Carr (of Project Runway fame). Peach brought out the big guns

New designer Laurie Borse with her model Cheri Lawrence.

for her models–Linda Yu, Sylvia Perez, Dr. Stacie McClane, Eliana Mockler and Nicole Zwerican! Next up, was the sleek, fashion-forward designs by Tamra Ellingson (worn by Felicia Winiecki, Mary Lasky, Arabel Rosales, Kristine Kinder and

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With models/friends Sherry Abrahams, Bobbi Panter, Cheri Lawrence, Kim Gleeson, Whitney Reynolds and Melinda LaGrange.

Nicole Zwerican). I especially loved her vibrant, strapless red column dress with the words "Je t'aime" written all over it that Kristine wore (and bought). Designer Ann Everett was up next with models Melissa Canning, Laura Dantuma, Sheree

Jennifer Popish holding Rebellion handbags and Melissa Canning wearing Ann Everett.

Valukas, Erica Strama and Andrea Antoniou. All of the models rocked these designs but my favorite was the black puffy-type jacket worn by Melissa (who also bought the chic

Designer Tamra Ellingson, friend, Patricia Suszka and Kristine Kinder.

piece). Designer Laurie Borse, a talented new designer, showcased her looks on beautiful models Cheri Lawrence, Patricia Suszka, Kim Gleeson, Sherrill Bodine and Whitney Reynolds. Rebellion was up next with super chic, fuzzy bags of every size and color draped on models April Schwartz, Bobbi Panter, Melissa Babcock, Jennifer Popish and Erica Strama.

AIBI executive director Ambar Campos presents Candace Jordan with her award at Rev Up! 2019.

AIBI executive director Ambar Campos presents me with my Rev Up Award.

Model Atelier's models Jean Antoniou, Cheyenne Parker, Elise Spencer, Eliana Mockler and Felicia Winiecki rocked these chic, classic looks too. Lauren Lein, AIBI president and designer, always showcases

With Robin Harris (L), CEO/Creative Director Model Atelier, and friends.

her playful side and, for this collection, she was inspired by the streets of Chicago with bricks from the streets captured on the clothing with handwritten graffiti. Model Melinda Jakovich-LaGrange loved her look so much, she bought it. Other glam models in this segment were Mary Lasky, Bethany Florek (who closed the segment with Lauren), Dr. Stacie McClane, and

Julie Barrish, Paul Iacono and Jennifer Sutton.

Sherrill Bodine. Elda de la Rosa (one of my faves and whose look I proudly wore on this night), created elegant evening looks worn by Laura Dantuma, Sheree Valukas, Erica Strama, Andrea Antoniou and Bobbi Panter.

With Andrea and Jean Antoniou and Felicia Winiecki.

Mark Roscoe closed the show with models Whitney Reynolds, Sherry Abrahams, Kim Gleeson, Kristine Kinder and a member of the famed Staples family singers, Opal Staples (who closed the show in a stunning strapless gown that shimmered like moonlight on the runway). After the

Thank you Kevin Sullivan for all you do for so many!

event, guests stayed to mingle, filled with "champagne wishes and caviar dreams." Thanks AIBI executive director Ambar

Michael Caputo and Michael Kutza.

Campos, Kevin Sullivan, Marsha and Dorothy for all the great things you do and have done for our design community! It was an honor to be recognized by YOU! (For more info on how you can become involved, click here!) (Photos by MILA SAMOKHINA) Sorry I couldn't include all of the great photos/friends but check my Chicago Now site where I will post them all soon!

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Chrissie Walker Marcie Wright. Photo by Sean Su

Co-chairs Chrissie Walker and Marcie Wright.

The Women’s Board of The Joffrey Ballet hosted more than 300 guests at the Hilton Chicago on October 8 in celebration of the

Liz Sharp Sandi Hartstein and Janet Anixter. Photo by Sean Su.

Liz Sharp, Sandi Harstein, Janet Anixter.

Chicago premiere of Jane Eyre by choreographer Cathy Marston. The event, co-chaired by Women’s Board members Chrissie Walker and Marcie Wright, also served as a fundraising opportunity, raising more than $129,000 to support upcoming productions and educational programming at the Joffrey. Joffrey board chair Anne Kaplan and Joffrey president/CEO Greg Cameron were also in attendance. The afternoon featured a panel conversation with members of the Jane Eyre creative team, including Marston, The Mary B.

Anne Kaplan Amanda Assucena Marcie Wright Chrissie Walker Cathy Marston. Photo by Sean Su

Anne Kaplan, Amanda Assucena, Marcie Wright, Chrissie Walker and Cathy Marston.

Galvin Artistic Director of The Joffrey Ballet, Ashley

Diana E Harris Dr. Linda Curtis O'Bannon Deana Hayes. Photo by Sean Su

Diana E Harris, Dr. Linda Curtis O'Bannon and Deana Hayes.

Wheater, Joffrey artist and lead dancer Amanda Assucena and moderator Linda Murray, curator of the Jerome Robbins Dance Division at the New York Public Library. Guests enjoyed a sit-down lunch and a behind-the-scenes glimpse into the process of bringing Jane Eyre to life on stage. (The production received raved reviews from the press). Presented in partnership with American Ballet Theatre and set to music by Philip Feeney, Marston’s celebrated adaptation of Charlotte Brontë’s classic novel combines

Linda Murray Ashley Wheater Cathy Marston. Photo by Sean Su

Linda Murray, Joffrey artistic director Ashley Wheater and Cathy Marston.

theater and dance to tell the coming-of-age story of one of literature’s most iconic

Erica Attanasio Lisa Katz Lauren Fine Emily Rubinstein. Photo by Sean Su

Erica Attanasio, Lisa Katz, Lauren Fine and Emily Rubinstein.

characters. This production of Jane Eyre challenged the idea of a classic ballet heroine. After a difficult upbringing, Jane becomes the Governess for the mysterious Mr. Rochester, discovering the struggles of society’s expectations. With stirring choreography and a captivating Victorian design, this avant-garde ballet showed that love can conquer any obstacle. Jane Eyre features live music performed by the Chicago Philharmonic, conducted by Scott Speck, Music Director of The Joffrey Ballet. (Fabulous Chicago farm flowers, American grown, were donated by Debi Lilly of A Perfect Event, who contributes to so many charities! Vintage book covers are tucked into British azalea blooms. So sweet!) (Photos by Sean Su)

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He invented something everyone loves, but you've probably never heard of him. The new documentary JUMP SHOT

Brenda Robinson executive producer Rev. Jesse Jackson basketball super fan and Mary Beth Minnis proucer

Brenda Robinson, exec. producer, with her uncle Rev. Jesse Jackson and producer Mary Beth Minnis

chronicles the larger than life story of one basketball's greatest innovators, the legend you've never heard of, Kenny Sailors, who is credited with inventing the jump shot in the 1940s. It also tells another tale of how the "zenith of our lives doesn't end in our athletic prime." The doc was executive produced by Warriors star Steph Curry and had its world premiere at

Producer Ty Clark, ED Melissa Neugebauer, ED Brenda Robinson, producer Mary Beth Minnis, director Jake Hamilton and Rev. Jesse Jackson.

SXSW in March 2019. The doc recently made its Chicago premiere at the Chicago International Film Festival. Brenda Robinson, an executive producer, brought her uncle, the Reverend Jesse Jackson to the Chicago premiere where he offered some remarks. Jackson is a close friend of both Curry and Kevin Durant and considers himself a major basketball fanatic! The film will return to Chicago during the 2020 NBA All-Star Weekend where players will be in attendance. Check out the amazing clip below:

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Paul Iacono with Price is Right host Drew Caray.

The Price was Wrong for our very own Paul Iacono who appeared on the 9,000th episode of the popular CBS show "The Price is Right"! He was an animated contestant

Paul Iacono and his partner in LA crime, Jennifer Sutton Brieva.

which is one of the reasons he was probably chosen. Everyone who knows him knows how charismatic he is! He won the first round, correctly guessing the cost of a bunch of designer goods (no surprise there) but missed out on a fabulous trip to Lake Como–of the two price choices, he chose the higher one which was incorrect. Maybe he needs a new travel agent?! Also, in the audience with him was Jennifer Sutton Brieva–who should've also been onstage! Love and congrats Paul–thanks for spreading your joy across the country!

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Craig and Rebeca Huffman (Chicago) Patrick and Shirley Ryan (Winnetka) Chaz Ebert (Chicago) and George Lepauw. Dan Rest.

Craig and Rebeca Huffman, Patrick and Shirley Ryan, Chaz Ebert and George Lepauw. (Photo by Dan Rest.)

Elegantly dressed guests made red-carpet entrances amidst paparazzi at the Lyric Opera House for the opening night of The Barber of Seville, which launched Lyric Opera of Chicago’s 65th season, on September 28. Doors opened at 4:30 with

Women's Board member Amelia Silva (Chicago) with her daughters. Jeff Ellis.

WB member Amelia Silva with her beautiful family. (Photo by Jeff Ellis).

guests arriving for a private pre-performance reception in the William B. and Catherine Graham Room. There, elegant decor by HMR Designs matched the space as black-tie attired attendees

Sir Andrew Davis William and Faye Dunbar and Lawrence Brownlee in the Grand Ballroom at the Hilton. Jaclyn Simpson.

Sir Andrew Davis, William and Faye Dunbar and Lawrence Brownlee. (Photo by Jaclyn Simpson).

enjoyed hors d'oeuvres by Calihan Catering. The Daniel F. and Ada L. Rice Grand Foyer was also festively lit and decorated, and filled with patrons excited for the new season to begin. Sir Andrew Davis began his 20th season as Lyric’s beloved music

Lyric Young Professionals gather around a table in the Normandie Lounge at the Hilton. Jeff Ellis.

Lyric Young Professional members.

director conducting Rossini’s sparkling score in an original Lyric production. The over 3 hour performance was followed by the Opera Ball at the Hilton Chicago. Mother-daughter duo Mrs. James J. O’Connor (Ellen) and Elizabeth O’Connor

Anthony Freud Nancy Searle Ellen O'Connor (Chicago) Elizabeth O'Connor Cole (Chicago) and David Ormesher at the opera house. Jaclyn Simpson.

Anthony Freud, Nancy Searle, co-chair Ellen O'Connor, co-chair Elizabeth O'Connor Cole and David Ormesher. (Photo by Jaclyn Simpson.)

Cole were co-chairs of the Opening Night Gala Performance and Opera Ball. The Opening Night Gala was sponsored by Aon for the 35th consecutive year, by ITW for its 17th year and by Northern Trust for its

Kara Killmer from Chicago Fire with husband Andrew Cheney on the red carpet. Jeff Ellis.

Kara Killmer (from Chicago Fire) with husband Andrew Cheney. (Photo by Jeff Ellis.)

21st year. Following the cocktail reception, guests were welcomed by Lyric Board of Directors Chair David T. Ormesher. As dinner commenced, the opening-night artists were presented by Lyric during the Grand March of the Stars led by General Director Anthony Freud. The Stu Hirsh Orchestra provided dinner and dancing music with guests lingering well into the wee hours. Opera Ball decor, again created by HMR Designs, evoked an evening in Seville. Funds raised will support opera performances at the Lyric. (For more info about the Lyric Opera of Chicago, and performance updates, click here!)

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(L to R) Hollis Resnik and Billy Rude at the Opening Night of SUNSET BOULEVARD from Porchlight Music Theatre

Hollis Resnik and Billy Rude from Sunset Boulevard/Porchlight Theatre opening night.

Porchlight Music Theatre launched its 25th anniversary season with Andrew Lloyd Webber’s SUNSET BOULEVARD starring Hollis Resnik. The production has been receiving rave reviews and is now extended through December 8 at the Ruth Page Center for the Arts in the Gold Coast. The opening night celebrations were held at the Palette and Chisel, next to the Ruth Page Center with a great mix of performers from Sunset Boulevard and previous performances, board members and VIPS. (Photo by Austin Packard)

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Bear Necessities Founder and CEO Kathleen A. Casey with Top Fundraising Team "Team Reagan"

Bear Necessities Pediatric Cancer Foundation hosted its 6^th annual A Walk for the Bear Costume Walk on Sunday, October 20, in Lincoln Park. A Walk for the Bear brought together family, friends and supporters of Bear Necessities to honor the children who are

Mimi Bajagich, Amy LeMay, Courtney Krupa, A Walk for the Bear emcee Whitney Reynolds, Bear Necessities Founder and CEO Kathleen A. Casey.

currently fighting and those who have lost their battle to cancer. With 733 participants in attendance, including Child Ambassadors being treated for cancer, the event successfully raised more than $95,000 for

Jim Sykora, A Walk for the Bear Ambassador Bryce Sykora, Lilah Sykora and Michelle Sykora.

pediatric cancer research and programs for those affected and was the nonprofit's largest walk to date! The fang-tastic event was emceed by Emmy-nominated talk show host Whitney Reynolds with a warm-up led by Mike Jimenez, professional boxer and WBC Continental Americas 2017 Champion. Friends and families walked the 3-mile trail dressed in their favorite costumes and trick-or-treated along the way. Following the walk, attendees enjoyed a boxed lunch provided by Mariano’s and grabbed their broomsticks for festive activities including pumpkin decorating, face painting, Halloween scratch art and a bounce house in the Kids Tent. Presenting Sponsor of A Walk for the Bear was Donlen, A Hertz Company. Event proceeds benefited pediatric cancer research grants through Bear Discoveries, that are awarded to fellows and junior investigative researchers nationwide, and customized experiences through Bear Hugs. Mark your calendars now for the event's signature fundraiser, the 27th annual Bear Tie Ball on February 22, 2020! (Details here!)

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Co-Chairs Kevin Wolfberg Elizabeth O_Brien

Co-chairs Kevin Wolfberg and Elizabeth O'Brien.

Seven hundred of Chicago’s business and civic leaders gathered at the Hilton Chicago on October 15 for the Harold E. Eisenberg Foundation’s 21st annual Dinner. The event raised $490,000 to benefit the foundation’s two-pronged mission of funding gastrointestinal (GI) cancer research and advancing real estate education. The Foundation celebrated GI cancer survivors who

Buzz Ruttenberg, Dylan Er and Savas Er

have benefited from the Foundation’s $1.5M commitment to fund the Harold E. Eisenberg Foundation GI Cancer OncoSET program and other research initiatives at the Robert H. Lurie Comprehensive Cancer Center at Northwestern University. The OncoSET program is

Scholarship winners!

an unprecedented initiative to deliver personalized cancer treatments to patients with very limited options. One of these survivors, Kyle Davis, shared his personal journey with GI cancer. Nearly one year ago, Kyle was

Danny Spitz, Jason St. John, Trisha Connolly, Eric Helfand and Peter Weitz.

diagnosed with stage IV pancreatic cancer that had spread to his liver. Working with the doctors at Lurie Comprehensive Cancer Center at Northwestern and learning about the genetic makeup of his specific tumor, Kyle was able to discover a treatment plan that has given him

Jenna Goebig Claudia Sadowicz Kim Curschaman Brooke Jaenson

Jenna Goebig, Claudia Sadowicz, Kim Curschaman and Brooke Jaenson.

options that were never before possible. On the real estate education side, the Eisenberg Foundation offers 15 education programs that has impacted thousands of students, and invested nearly $500,000 in scholarships and programming to advance

Board president Peter Eisenberg.

the careers of young real estate talent. This year’s deserving student scholarship winners were recognized and congratulated by the Foundation’s first ever scholarship recipient 19 years ago. “We are so grateful for the support of our

Brad Emanuel and Katie Hurley Wales.

board members, sponsors and the commercial real estate industry who continue to push us forward in our work to fight GI cancer through cutting-edge personalized medicine,” says executive director, Katie Wales. “The reality is that one in five people who receive a cancer diagnosis will learn that it is categorized as a GI cancer. This means that there is still so much work to do. The Harold E. Eisenberg Foundation and its supporters are determined to push forward in the world of cancer research, providing patients with new and more effective treatment options.” The event was co-chaired by Kevin Wolfberg Elizabeth O-Brien. The evening’s presenting sponsor was Wintrust with premier sponsors, NARE and Old Second Bank.

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The one and only CARMEN!

My favorite model in the world, Carmen Dell'Orefice, shot her first Vogue cover at age 15. She was born in 1931 and still reigns as a supermodel at age 88. At a luncheon once, she told us one of the secrets of her longevity and beauty–she never goes in the sun. It's too late for me for this advice but I have been her fangirl forever. Special thanks to my friend Peter Martino who is also very dear friend of hers. Recently, at lunch in NYC, he asked her to sign a photo for me that I will always treasure. Watch the video below and stand in awe…..

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Dennericka Brooks Murphy Alum Class of 2000 Supervisory Attorney in Ho...

Dennericka Brooks, Murphy Alum Class of 2000, Legal Aid attorney.

Revel Fulton Market in the West Loop was filled with more than 650 Murphy Scholars, Murphy Scholar alumni, partnership high schools, founders, donors, families and friends who came out to celebrate the Daniel Murphy Scholarship Foundation's 30th anniversary on Sept. 28. The event raised more than $1.5 million to support the organization’s mission to give financial assistance and

Olivia Carberry Murphy Alum Class of 1998 Exelon; Victor Cerda Murphy...

Murphy alums Olivia Carberry and Victor Cerda.

educational support to Chicago students from under-resourced neighborhoods, starting with a scholarship to college prep high schools throughout the city and country. It was chaired by Mike and Lindy Keiser and honored Loretta and Bob Cooney, longtime advocates and supporters of DMSF. “Murphy Scholars are graduating from Chicago’s most selective high schools, the country’s top boarding

Maria Barnett, Murphy Alum Class of 2000, Hatfield Medical Group.

schools and from many of the nation’s leading universities at rates that far surpass the national average for all students in the U.S.,” said Jose Rodriguez, executive director of DMSF. In Chicago and its suburbs, Murphy Scholars attend and have graduated from most of the prestigious

Murphy Alumni celebrating DMSF's 30th anniversary.

college prep high schools including Brother Rice, The Chicago Academy of the Arts, DePaul College Prep, Ida Crown Jewish Academy, The Latin School, Loyola Academy, St. Ignatius College Prep and Willows Academy. Rodriguez shared highlights of the three decades of the city's largest high school scholarship program that was founded in February of 1989 by Jim Murphy, Bob Murphy, Betsy Murphy and their close friends and family.

Justin Foley DMSF Past President with his wife Erin Foley; Brian and Co...

Justin Foley, DMSF Past President, with his wife Erin Foley and friends.

Fast-forward 30 years and, today, more than 460 Murphy Scholars from Englewood , Little Village, Uptown, North Lawndale and more than forty

Manny Hodzic Murphy Alum Class of 2015 Institutional Equity Associate ...

Manny Hodzic, Murphy Alum Class of 2015, an Institutional Equity Associate.

communities in the Chicagoland area are benefiting from this scholarship program at more than 80 partner high schools throughout the city and at boarding schools around the country. More than 3,000 scholarships have been awarded in the last 30 years.

Lindy and Mike Keiser, event chairs and longtime advocates of DMSF.

“Murphy Scholars are some of the most driven, hard-working, thoughtful and courageous leaders we know, and over the next 30 years, we are excited to see how they take on key roles in education, business and policy to move our city forward,” said Rodriguez. Murphy Scholar Dennericka Brooks said, “DMSF changed the course of my life." She has graduated from Grinnell College and Loyola University School of Law and, today, she mentors DMSF Scholars and is a supervisory attorney at Legal Aid Chicago.

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CMFA Awardees 2019: Tony Stavish, Michael Tedeschi, Duke Alden, Daryl Sneed, Kareen (K.W.O.E.) Wells, Christopher Kent, John Weldt, Blake Alexander and Gary Metzner.

The Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum hosted its 4th annual Men’s Fashion Awards to honor Chicago’s men of style. The event took place on September 17 at Louis

Sheree Valukas, Paula Borg, CC member Dr. Jennifer Glover, Heather Jane Johnston and Candace Tyndall.

Vuitton Michigan Avenue. The event, emceed by Zak Stemer, Agency H5 creative director and Fox Chicago contributor, drew over 200 guests dressed in their best interpretation of elevated personal style to honor

Emcee Zak Stemer with CMFA Awardee Rino Burdi.

Chicago's most fashionable men. Honorees included Duke Alden, Blake Alexander, Rino Burdi, John Weldt, Christopher Kent, Gary Metzner, Daryl Sneed, Tony Stavish, Michael Tedeschi and Kareem Wells. Besides LV, event partners were Limelight and Perillo Auto Group. Models from

Darnell Robinson and pretty guest.

10MGMT showcased the latest in Louis Vuitton’s menswear. Co-chairs David Mordini and Courtney Hopkins led a committee that included Michael Anderson, Thierry Roger, John Rogers, Pawel Drozda, Dustin Erkstrup, Peggy Martay and

Holly Twardak (R) and friend.

Karen Zupko. “The Men’s Fashion Awards have grown tremendously over the past four years, both in size and recognition,” said Hopkins. “We are thrilled to present this event to showcase Chicago’s most fashionable men while increasing awareness of the Costume Council’s mission.” The Costume Council supports the preservation, interpretation, and documentation of the Chicago History Museum’s costume collection, which has grown to be one of the world’s premier collections with over 50,000 pieces.

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Julie Chen-Moonves with Haute Dog LA co-chairs Bobbi Panter (top R) and Annette Ramirez.

Chicagoans have very big, philanthropic hearts! Not only did they come out in force to support Haute Dog Chicago, a recent fundraiser benefiting Canine Companions for Independence, but they also FLEW OUT to support the 8^th Annual HAUTE DOG LA, another

Chicagoans who are Haute Dog LA supporters: Mary Lasky, Heather Johnston, Sherry Abrahams, Sherrill Bodine, Sheree Valukas, Tina Weller, April Schwartz, Sally Jo Morris and Sherry Lea Fox.

fundraiser benefiting CCI at the Skirball Cultural Center in Los Angeles on Sunday, October 20^th. Celebrities and a large Chicago contingent lent their star power and support in a big way to

LA co-chair Annette Ramirez with her beloved CCI dog Patch.

this life changing national organization that provides assistance dogs to those in need, free of charge. Chicago based co-chair Bobbi Panter and her LA co-chair, Annette Ramirez, a quadruple amputee, (along with her darling Canine Companions dog, Patch) hosted an amazing event filled

Celebrity supporter Paul Schaffer (L) and friends.

with love, excitement and celebrities that included Paul Shaffer, Julie Chen-Moonves, John O’Hurley, Tom Kenny (Spongebob), Michael McDonald, Tony Dow, Laraine Newman, Tai Babilonia, Ed Begley Jr., Joanne Worley, Peter Marshall and more. The Hollywood-themed doggie runway fashion show drew over 430 guests and raised nearly $400,000, making this year's event a record-breaker! The event honored Tommy Lasorda and his family with the Paws of Distinction Award for their years of support and generosity to Haute Dog LA and CCI. Chicago

Matt Arnoux Bebe and Cece

notables lending their support included Sherry Abrahams, Sherrill Bodine, Sherry Lea Fox, Heather Jane Johnston, Mary Lasky, Sally Jo Morris, April Schwartz, Sheree

Co-chairs Annette Ramirez and Bobbi Panter recognize Sheree Valukas in the crowd for her support.

Schimmer Valukas, Tina Weller, Rhonda Sanderson, Patrick Parkey, Karin Carlson, Ann-Marie Streibich, Stephen DiPadua, Michael Rosenblum,Jim Jacobsen, Felicia Ferguson Winiecki, Julee White and Jill Talley (former Chicagoans) and Matthew Arnoux, among others. CCI provides highly trained assistance dogs to children, adults and veterans with disabilities at no cost. Haute Dog LA has helped them do that, thanks in large part to its great Chicago support!

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Stacy Jackson (Chicago Lights exec. dir.) and Chad Tischer (board pres.)

Chicago Lights, a leading organization that creates opportunities for Chicagoans to overcome economic and social barriers, raised over $95,000 during its annual

Cynthia Joho, Kathryn Bates (Toast to Tutoring co-chairs).

fundraising event, A Toast to Tutoring. The party took place on October 15 at Dance Studio, a club at 59 W. Hubbard in River North. The event celebrated the one-on-one, student-tutor relationships created through the Chicago Lights Tutoring program. Chad Tischer, Chicago Lights Board president, spoke of the organization’s impactful work and shared moving stories of students who benefited

Liz Patterson and Xavier Reed (tutoring pair)

from the mentoring relationships. Stacy Jackson, executive director of Chicago Lights, introduced Xavier Reed, a recent Tutoring student alumnus, and Liz Patterson, a Tutoring volunteer and Xavier’s mentor, who spoke about their close relationship throughout their 7-year mentoring program. This year’s event was not only a

Kellie O'Connell, C. Rodrigo Carrillo and Michelle Mekky.

successful fundraiser, but a celebration of the high-quality tutoring Chicago Lights has been providing for students living in the Near West, Near North, and South Side neighborhoods of Chicago for the past 55 years at Fourth Presbyterian Church. The Chicago Lights Tutoring program is based on wraparound care. Every

Ray and Larry Guess.

session begins with a healthy dinner followed by enrichment classes. More than 600 Chicago volunteers serve as mentors, substitute tutors and enrichment class instructors to 440 first through twelfth grade students. Each mentoring partnership fosters academic and personal growth and increases the likelihood that the students will pursue higher education and thrive in meaningful careers.“Chicago Lights believes every young person deserves the resources and support they need. We know that access to one-to-one mentorship with a caring adult plus educational resources helps students to thrive,” said Jackson. The event was co-chaired by Chicago Lights board members Kathryn Bates and Cynthia Joho.

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Ed Jones as Rip Nelson.

Hell in a Handbag Productions will present its annual benefit, THE RIP NELSON CELEBRITY ROAST on Saturday, November 9, from 6 – 11 pm at Ebenezer Lutheran Church, 1650 W. Foster Ave. in Chicago’s Andersonville neighborhood. Tickets ($75 in advance) are currently available here or by calling (800) 838-3006. The stars – dead and alive – are coming out in droves to roast everyone’s favorite Hollywood has-been, Rip Nelson (Ed Jones), described as a mash-up of Paul Lynde, Charles Nelson Reilly and Rip Taylor. The celebrity line-up includes Lucille Ball (David Cerda), Bette Midler (Caitlin Jackson), Liza Minnelli (Alexa Castelvecchi), Doug Henning (David Lipschutz) and Dame Maggie Smith (Danne Taylor). The star-studded evening also includes a full course of your favorite TV dinner-style comfort foods by Chef’s Joey Chiapetta and Adam Ordish with hearty helpings of Salisbury steak, mashed potatoes and other favorites with desserts from Bubbie’s Kitchen (Nancy Lipschutz) and refreshments, plus games, raffles, silent auctions and a few surprises. All proceeds benefit the nonprofit, Hell in a Handbag Productions, Chicago’s leading camp and parody theater company.

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Winner of Best Duo–Raggedy Ann and Andy!

Tails in the City hosted their 16th annual Halloween Pet Parade and Party on Sunday, October 27th. Over 150 dogs who arrived in costume, along with their owners, paraded to Washington Square Park to raise money for PAWS Chicago, one of the largest No Kill shelters in the country. Prizes were awarded for the Scariest Costume, Funniest Costume, Best Duo or Group, Most Glamorous, and Best In Show. Best in Show honors went to a Mary Poppins pup look-a-like. This popular event was sponsored by Leslie Struthers and Guaranteed Rate, The Talbott Hotel, K9 University, D/Vision Optical and Big Shoulders Coffee.

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Escape (virtually) to Park City and do some good at the same time on November 8th! You won’t need your skis to enjoy An Evening In Park City, Utah with Camp One Step by Children’s Oncology Services at The Ritz-Carlton Chicago. In 2019, Camp One Step is refocusing the “destination” meaning of flight from a culturally-themed gala to that of the journey of the campers. Guests will receive and embrace the true meaning of camp through this virtual trip to the home of Camp One Step’s Utah Ski Program in Park City. While the Utah Ski Program will be featured throughout the event, the evening benefits Camp One Step’s multiple programs including the nonprofit’s popular Summer Camp, Winter, Family or Dude Ranch camp programs–all provided to families at no cost. The evening will support childhood cancer awareness and help send more kids to Camp One Step programs. Guests of FLIGHT will enjoy lodge-inspired decor and dancing to music provided by the Becca Kaufman Orchestra. The Hospira Foundation Award will honor The National Ability Center, that empowers individuals of all abilities by building self-esteem, confidence and lifetime skills through sport, recreation and educational programs. The Richard Schwebel Family Award will be presented to The Richard A. Perritt Foundation, which funds numerous initiatives in ophthalmology research, education, children’s health care, and senior programs.

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The Midwest Region of the American Committee for the Weizmann Institute of Science (ACWIS) celebrates the Institute’s 70 years of making advancements in scientific innovation at its annual Gala, which takes place this Saturday, November 2 at The Geraghty, 2520 S. Hoyne. This year’s theme is “Celebrating Chaim, An Ambitious Vision for Science and Humanity.” The Gala celebrates the Weizmann Institute’s achievements in fighting cancer, protecting our planet, advancing technology, enriching education, improving health and medicine and exploring the physical world. For tickets/more info, contact Marilyn Tamayo, 312-861-7755 or m.tamayo@acwis.org.

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Heidi Klum adds to the excitement for the unique premiere of Arctic Dogs.

In lieu of a typical red-carpet movie premiere for the animated motion picture ARCTIC DOGS (from Entertainment Studios), Byron Allen (philanthropist/founder Entertainment Studios) opted to create a very special moment for deserving kids! Byron, along with supermodel Heidi Klum, introduced the movie to a roomful of kids at Children’s Hospital Los Angeles recently. ARCTIC DOGS was created for kids, so there was no better audience to premiere the movie than with the kids at this hospital through its partnership with Holiday Heroes, a nonprofit that provides joy and normalcy to

Paul Viviano--CEO of Children’s Hospital Los Angeles

Heidi Klum with Paul Viviano, CEO Children's Hospital of LA.

hospitalized children who are critically, chronically or terminally ill. Holiday Heroes created 100 boxes that were distributed to the kids themed around the movie that included craft projects, movie branded merchandise, gift cards and more. The room was decorated in an Arctic theme with a 10-ft-long standee of the characters of the movie that the kids happily posed beside. Over the last decade, Holiday Heroes has become an established partner for children’s hospitals across the country with a growing national footprint. (For more info on this very worthy charity, click here!) Congrats to its Chicago executive director Felicia Winiecki and PR whiz Julee White for sharing this wonderful story with me!)

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Chuck lost in the corn maze!

Finally! We didn't have to drive to the suburbs to get our pumpkin/Halloween fix! It came to us at 1467 N. Elston! Jack's Pumpkin Pop-Up offered over 2 acres of fun in Goose Island. We even got lost in the corn maze that was so cleverly constructed on the grounds. It's a larger than life, multi-sensory adventure in the heart of Chicago that

Michelle Durpetti during a nighttime visit to the Pop-Up, which is what I suggest.

includes axe throwing, four full service bars, food trucks and stations, carnival games, gypsy caravans, music and a zillion Instagrammable moments. You can lounge inside a

Fun for all ages!

giant daisy, sit on an oversized cutely branded chair, enjoy thousands of artfully carved pumpkins and so much more! Sadly, the experience only lasts through November 3 so catch it while you can! We went in the afternoon but I suggest going when the lights are glowing at dusk or later. Click here for times, tickets and more info!

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The one, the only, Diane Von Furstenberg.

Fashion icon/designer/mogul Diane Von Furstenberg will be a keynote speaker for the Executive's Club of Chicago's Women's Leadership luncheon on Thursday, November 14 at

WSJ Mag editor-in-chief Kristina O'Neill.

the Radisson Blu Aqua. Von Furstenberg will appear with Kristina O'Neill, WSJ Magazine editor-in-chief. Diana and Kristina will discuss "the importance of utilizing one's voice, knowledge and connections to uplift liberties and freedoms in this country." I sure hope they talk about fashion too! (For tickets and more info, click here. And use this special Candid Candace code for $20 off–DVF20!)

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Illuminate 900, 2018

I know it might be a bit early to be sharing holiday festivities but I don't want you to miss the 900 Shops' Illuminate 900, a city-wide holiday celebration for all ages, to be held on Thursday, November 21 at the shops on Michigan Avenue. Food, fun, Santa, performances and so much more! Hope to see you there!

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The PAWS Fur Ball is always a sellout so snag your tickets now for the

#03--PAWS founder Paula Fasseas with Alexis Fasseas and PAWS dog Loretta.

PAWS Chicago co-founders Paula and Alexis Fasseas.

black-tie event on Friday, November 15 at the Drake Hotel. With this year's co-chairs Frances and Chris Renk and Melissa and Michael Canning, you know the event will be a record-breaker! For tickets/more info, please click here!

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Authors/self-help gurus Bob Roth and Saudia Davis invite you to join them on Thursday, Nov 7 for a unique recharging luxury breakfast retreat at Cindy's Rooftop. Every detail has been carefully curated for you to experience self-care. Your breakfast will be delightfully decadent with author Bob Roth of Strength In Stillness. Bob is known for teaching meditation to Ellen Degeneres, Arianna Huffington and others. Saudia is writing a book called Power Up to Power Down inspired by a "desire to shine a warm informed light on a silent serge of successful women burning out nationally." (For tickets/more info, click here: bit.ly/2ldb1CS)

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Hebru Brantley at Nevermore Park.

Nevermore Park, a 6,000-sq-foot art experience, will transport you into an exciting alternate reality filled with new sights and sounds. Powered by the imagination of artist Hebru Brantley, visitors will get the chance to

Hebru Brantley at his Nevermore Park.

spend a day in the life of his iconic characters, Flyboy and Lil Mama. You won't want to miss exploring this vibrant community filled with joy, hope and wonder! Expect the unexpected around every corner. Take as many photos as you like–fun for ALL ages! It's a place that encourages everyone to be creative, activating the senses with story elements waiting to be discovered and art you can touch, interact with and share. It will allow you to experience a story-world through art that everyone can participate in! (For details, click here!)

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(FOP) Board President Mike Borders Gala Committee Chair Elect Shannon Flavin Gala Committee Chairs Erica Goldman and Donna Socol are pictured w honoree Dr. Michael Socol

FOP board pres. Mike Borders, gala committee chair elect Shannon Flavin, committee co-chairs Erica Goldman and Donna Socol w/ honoree Dr. Michael Socol (R).

The 34th annual Friends of Prentice "An Evening in Oz" benefit raised more than $750,000 for research of women's health. FOP board member Dr. Michael Socol was honored for his distinguished service to Prentice Women’s Hospital over the past 40 years, including the training of over 350 obstetric residents and 40 fellows and for delivering over 6,000 babies over his long career. The event was chaired by Shannon Flavin with committee chairs Erica Goldman and Donna Socol. Congrats to Taylor & Co. (Derrick Taylor) for always making the event so special with your brilliant decor and spectacular themed characters–that were perfect for photo opps!

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The National Runaway Safeline (NRS) will present "A Night of Magic & Wonder: Celebrating the Spirit of Youth" on Saturday, November 2 at Revel Fulton Market. The event, emceed by B96 DJ Gabe Ramirez, will raise funds for NRS' mission to keep America's runaway, homeless and at-risk youth safe and off the streets. LaRoyce Hawkins (of Chicago P.D.) will accept the Spotlight Award on behalf of the cast and crew of the police drama, that through many of its storylines, helps raise awareness of these issues. Bryan Samuels, executive director of Chapin Hall, will also be honored. For tickets/more info, click here.

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The Theatre School at DePaul University will present "Lights UP!", a fundraiser to support the school's scholarship fund. Join them on Thursday, November 14 at Theater on the Lake where the festivities will begin at 6 pm with P.J. Byrne (MFA Acting '99), best known for appearing in The Wolf of Wall Street (2013), Rampage (2018), and Big Little Lies (2017-2019), as the evening's host. (For tickets/more info, click here!)

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I can't wait to share details of an exciting L.A. photo shoot! One of

With bestie Tissy Eggleston at the Ivy.

the best parts was getting to visit with my bestie Tissy Eggleston who helped me get my first spray tan! Lol! More fun to come!

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NOTE: The Randolph Street Market ad on the blog is incorrect. The next Holiday Markets will be on November 23/24 and December 14/15. Over 125 vendors will be waiting for YOU with the best in vintage including holiday items, fashions, furniture, cool collectibles, gifts, food, fun and so much more! My favorite market is not to be missed! Hope to see you there! Click here for tickets and all the cool details!

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Love, as always,

Candace

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COOL SUMMER PARTIES, POP-UPS, CHEESECAKE AND CHAKA!

Plus: SPARK! for Shirley Ryan AbilityLab; Happy birthday Eli's and Taste of Chicago; JHud takes Ravinia; 29Rooms pops-up in Chicago; Bonnie Hunt and the Digestive Health Foundation Gala; Chaka KHAN!; Tina and the ladies host Miami-style White Party; Share Your Soles Foundation benefit; Toasting Sheree; Patrick Lives On with casts of NBC's "One Chicago"; Rare books on Collector's Call finale; Mad about Marian-The Music Man at the Goodman; Happy BD Madame Counselor!; The GLOW-A pumpkin wonderland; Teatro ZinZanni's "Love, Chaos and Dinner"; Giordano Dance Chicago's "Dancing with the Giordano Stars"!; Joffrey Ballet's Jane Eyre; Art Van Furniture's Charity Challenge; Videos and SOOOO much MORE!

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Dr. Joanne Smith, pres/CEO SRAL, with Pat and Shirley Ryan.

Spark!, Shirley Ryan AbilityLab’s annual signature event, was attended by 450 people on May 30 at the Four Seasons Hotel. The ballroom was transformed into an immersive environment that put guests in the

Natalie Sacchetti, Menecis Garriga, Brody Roybal and Jennifer Tengelsen.

middle of the patient experience while highlighting the hospital’s research, clinical care and the incredible patient stories that have resulted. As guests dined, animation played on screens surrounding the room that showed figures and equations pulled from its scientists’ white boards,

Brendan James performs.

computers, patents and minds! Another captivating video was played giving guests a birds-eye view into the Shirley Ryan AbilityLab model of care and research breakthroughs.18-year-old Eva Saseen, who sustained a traumatic brain injury in a car accident last year, was in attendance along with

Ron Katz, Cheryl Coleman, Myra and John Reilly.

her mother and interdisciplinary care team. Dr. Joanne Smith, AbilityLab president/ CEO, and Dr. James Sliwa, chief medical officer, led the discussion about Eva’s journey and how best-in-class care and science helped aid her recovery. Singer-songwriter Brendan James closed the evening with a riveting performance of his song Nothing for Granted. Spark! generated $3.3 million in support of Shirley Ryan AbilityLab — the largest amount ever raised at one of the hospital’s annual galas! Kudos!

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Cutting the Eli's Cheesecake with Miguel Cervantes, Maureen and Marc Schulman at the 39th Taste of Chicago.

Eli's Cheesecake (Maureen and Marc Schulman) and Taste of Chicago celebrated 39 years of togetherness on Saturday, July 13! Executive pastry chef Laurel Boger was cool as a cucumber even as her 1,000 lb. cake was fork-lifted out of a truck to prepare for serving the overflow crowd. This special occasion

Eli's Cheesecake company celebrates 39th BD at Taste of Chicago!

brought out Hamilton star Miguel Cervantes who led the crowd in singing "happy birthday" following a highly competitive (Lol!) trivia contest. The questions to the attendees came from Paul Kendrick (the Schulmans' son-in-

Eli's Executive Pastry Chef Laurel Boger puts the finishing touches on the 1,000 lb. cake!

law), a rabid Hamilton fan who knows the entire score by heart! Attending VIPs included Sam Toia, Ill. Restaurant Assoc. president, Neal Heitz, Taste of Chicago manager and, of course one of the Schulmans darling daughters, Kori Schulman. Eli's is the only original vendor at Taste and, according to Maureen, "We still love it

Eli's first cake at Taste in 1987 with founder Eli Schulman.

after 39 years! It's like summer camp for food!" Eli's first big cake was for Chicago's 150th birthday in 1987. Founder Eli Schulman was in attendance along with familiar media personalities including Rick Kogan, Linda Yu, Diane Burns, Linda MacLennan, Bobbi Goldblatt, Merri Dee, Lois Weisberg and even Bozo the Clown, who

Miguel Cervantes helps Marc Schulman deliver the cake.

read the Mayoral Proclamation declaring Eli's Cheesecake as Chicago's official 150th Birthday Cake! Mayor Harold Washington was supposed to be there to read it but, due to impending lightning, he wasn't allowed to come. This year, as in year's past, the entire crew from Eli's was in attendance, all wearing t-shirts emblazoned with "It's a helluva cake," Eli's famous

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words upon seeing the big cake for the first time. Just for fun, consider this, the big cake uses 450 lbs. of cream cheese, 70 lbs. of sugar, 50 lbs. of sour cream, 65 lbs. of eggs, 125 lbs. of cookie dough, 25 lbs. of cherry glaze and more. (Now you can make one at home!) Marc and Maureen are also co-chairs for the upcoming The Happiness Club benefit on Sunday, August 11, at Park West. Miguel Cervantes will receive the Artist of the Year award and I will be honored with the Legacy Award. The nonprofit positively influences kids through the arts. This signature fundraiser will feature a "Best of Chicago" buffet and performances. Miguel will sing with the kids and I will be dancing, God help me. Please join us! For tickets/more info, click here!

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JHud mingles with crowd before her performance. (Photo by Melissa Forman)

It was one of the most successful gala benefit's in Ravinia's 53 year history! And it was no surprise with Jennifer Hudson as the headliner! The Oscar and

Ravinia's PR director Nick Pullia having some fun with his media darlings.(Photo by Patrick Gipson)

Grammy-winning artist wowed the crowd in a skin-tight purple catsuit, her favorite color, singing a wide-ranging variety of songs with her 4 back-up singers, the Hudsonettes. This was her first time performing with the Chicago Symphony Orchestra but not her first time at Ravinia–that debut was in 2011. The sellout crowd was electrified from the start, when she made her entrance, appearing as if by magic at the back of the Pavilion.

Joe Coan and Julie Ettelson, wearing one of the top dresses of the night–Giambattista Valli for H&M from By:Fashionaholic!

The only thing the audience heard at first was that astonishing voice singing "How Great Thou Art." It sent

Stunning gala decor by Kehoe Designs, of course!

chills through my body and it never stopped. She was in full control of, not only her vocals, but her loving interaction with the crowd and many of her family members who came out to support her. Her hair, makeup and figure were flawless. Her hour long set featured tributes to Prince and Whitney Houston and included her big song from her Oscar-winning role in Dreamgirls, "And I Am Telling You I'm Not Going." Hudson will soon sing the Andrew Lloyd Webber classic "Memory"

JHud makes her dramatic appearance.(Photo by Patrick Gipson)

as Grizabella in the film adaptation of the Broadway mainstay "Cats" as well as star in the big-screen biopic "Respect" about Aretha Franklin, who personally asked her to do it. (Aretha's final concert occurred at Ravinia in 2017). Nearly 800 gala guests and 7,000 concert goers were treated to this amazing performance. Welz Kauffman, Ravinia president/CEO, who booked this gala and all Ravinia concerts, said, "It's that love of music that makes her connect so beautifully with an audience. This was an event people will be

With Melissa Forman, Jeanne Sparrow, Dina Bair, Brittney Payton and Connie Payton. (Photo by Patrick Gipson)

talking about for years." Hudson often goes to Ravinia as an audience member and was in the crowd for the recent Lionel Richie concert. On this night, Hudson's charm was shining brightly. She came offstage and danced and mingled with guests–even calling several onstage to sing along with her. After the concert and gala, a few of us

JHud and Cheryl Burton. (Photo by Patrick Gipson).

were invited backstage, thanks to Ravinia's PR whiz Nick Pullia, for a meet-and-greet that included several popular media peeps like Brittney and Connie Payton, Dina Bair, Jeanne Sparrow, Melissa Forman, Sylvia Perez and Cheryl Burton. There were about 25 guests in the small green room and she chatted and took photos with each and every one–never once losing that beautiful smile on her face. (Read all about this exciting night here in the Chicago Tribune!) I've had the pleasure of meeting Jennifer before and she has always been incredibly nice and genuine–even as her star climbs ever higher, she will always be a our "hometown Jenny." Fly, fly FLY Miss Hudson! (Check out my past interview with Jennifer below when she was a cover star for Michigan Avenue Magazine!)

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Tamron Hall and Piera Gelardi, executive creative director and co-founder of Refinery29.

You know how much I love a good pop-up! Well, 29Rooms marked the first event at the iconic Chicago Board of Trade Building at 141 W. Jackson as re-imagined by creative venue agency, Skylight. Refinery29, the leading digital media and entertainment company for young women, unveiled

29Rooms entrance

immersive new interactive experiences and collaborations in the space when its 29Rooms: Expand Your Reality Experience took over on opening night, July 17. The intrigue began outside as guests were instructed to wend their way up escalators and down hallways until reaching the unique space. As I stood at the top of the stairway, I couldn't wait to try all of the artistic experiences in this groundbreaking festival of culture, cause and creativity. The exhibit marks the company’s commitment to "supporting innovative creative talent and driving conversation,

One of the colorful vignettes at 29Rooms

inspiration and positive change." As the first stop of its five-city Expand Your Reality tour, Chicago’s curtain-raising event brought together a diverse group of both local and national, emerging and established creatives, influencers and collaborators. Seen on the scene were Tamron Hall (whose new show "The Tamron Hall

Galina Petrova Tamron Hall (wearing Azeeza) me and Meiling Jin.

With fellow Tamron Hall fangirls Galina Petrova and Meiling Jin. (Tamron is wearing beloved local designer Azeeza!)

Show" will debut on Disney/ABC on September 9), Monika Dixon and her darling daughter Nadia, Meiling Jin, Galina Petrova and so many others. The opening night event debuted The Art Park, 29Rooms' new artist collective initiative which invited a local artist from each of the 2019 tour stops to transform a geometric playground into a canvas for creativity. Representing Chicago in the Art Park is installation-based artist Yvette Mayorga, who is known for her use of confection and industrial materials as a conceptual framework. Also new for the tour is The Traveling Billboard – a full scale billboard mural by locally-based artists, created in collaboration with artist O.J. Hays and the children of SocialWorks, an organization founded by Grammy-award-winning musician and humanitarian, Chance the Rapper, that empowers youth through arts, education and civic engagement.(Now through July 28) And while you're out there poppin' around, don't miss my favorite, Bixbee Imagnination Station at 915 W. North Ave.!)

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Bonnie Hunt, Michael and Becky Elrad with Mike McCready.

The Digestive Health Foundation Gala: Celebrating the Power of Family was held on June 8 at the Four Seasons with 600 supporters. Emceed by beloved actress Bonnie Hunt, the event raised more than $2.47 million for medical research at the Northwestern Medicine Digestive Health Center to improve quality of life for digestive disease patients and their families. Highlights of the evening included

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Elrad Family–Sam, Max, Michael, Becky and Jack.

moving testimonials from families affected by hereditary digestive disorders and the launch of the new Deborah and Martin Elrad Research Fund for Hereditary Digestive Diseases. The

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Nicholas Meister, Sarah Zegart, Victoria Salmon and Josh Meister.

Elrad Research Fund announced a $300,000 contribution to the DHF BioRepository, a DHF-supported blood and tissue bank used for digestive disease research that is one of a few medical database resources of its kind in the world. The Elrad Research Fund was established by gala co-chairs Becky and Michael Elrad in honor of Michael’s parents, who have dedicated their fund-raising and advocacy energies to

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Dr. Scott Strong, Mary Strong, Mallory Vander Kolk and Patrick Vander Kolk.

helping people with digestive diseases since their daughter Amy was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease 40 years ago. The evening also featured special guest Mike McCready, lead guitarist of Pearl Jam. McCready spoke powerfully about his personal journey with Crohn’s disease that

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Karen Malkin, Amber Jimerson, James Litinsky and Stephen Malkin.

led him to become an inspiring advocate for other patients and families. One in five people will be diagnosed with digestive health disorders, ranging from colorectal and pancreatic cancers to esophageal disorders, Crohn’s disease, ulcerative colitis, celiac disease, liver diseases, such as hepatitis, and others. The Digestive Health Foundation generates critical resources to advance research that transforms digestive disease into digestive health for patients around the world. Funds have underwritten 40 research studies and two advanced physician fellowships, as well as the Digestive Health Foundation BioRepository.

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Chaka Khan at private event at the Dalcy during a Q&A with her manager/stylist/friend George Fuller.

The living legend and hometown girl, Chaka Khan, was in town recently taping her homecoming performance for PBS at the Harris Theater on July 20. Before the taping, ten time Grammy-winner Chaka made an appearance

Chaka performs at the Harris.

Friday night at the Dalcy, at an intimate party hosted by Mesirow's Les Coney and Chaka's friend/manager/stylist George Fuller. Guests at this private meet-and-greet enjoyed a Q&A conducted by Fuller where she discussed, among many topics, how she got her start. (See video here). She looked better than ever wearing one of my favorite designers, Shernett Swaby. (To see highlights of her long career, check out the video below!) She played the Hollywood Bowl following her Chicago appearance. SHE is EVERY WOMAN!

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Julie Bouchard, host Tina Weller and Jill Angelopoulos.

Hinsdale is abuzz over the recent "white party" hosted by the Hinsdale Junior Woman's Club at the home of host member Tina (and Jeff) Weller on July 13 at their newly renovated 1927 Spanish/California-inspired manor. The Miami style party was a sellout attracting 185 guests and raising $35,000 (and lots of

Juhl Patterson and Lauren Kavanagh.

good will) for this venerable organization that is recognized nationally for its outstanding children's programs, leadership, membership and fundraising. For 70 years, the HJWC has continued its founding mission to bring women together in the spirit of volunteerism, service and a helluva lot of fun! Tina shared, "We have a fun time socializing and meeting others while making a difference to local Chicago charities." White attire-clad guests included Jill and Dr. Nick Angelopoulos, Kirsten and Paul Douglass, Eva

Dr. Jeff and Tina Weller.

and David Andalcio, January and Dr. John Pawluk, Julie and Justin Bouchard, Julie Langdon Dudek and Mike Dudek, Courtney (co-chair for the Social Committee) and Dr. Kevin Casey, Ruta and Charlie Brigden, Michelle and Jim Riley, Liz and Mark Oliviero and Christy and Mitch Hernandez. The afternoon-

Hinsdale Junior Woman's Club (glam!) Host Committee

into-evening party happened mostly around the beautiful pool where white balloon decor and twinkling lanterns created a sexy ambiance. The appetizers were Cuban-inspired and included sushi from Roka Akor. A DJ spinned the latest tunes while Codigo tequila, Prosecco, desserts by Molly Pops, Buzz Pops and the Ferrara bakery were served. Event proceeds will be directed to the 2019 benefit revenue to use in awarding grants for the coming year. To learn more about the HJWC, click here!

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Children's Place Assn. Junior Board.

The Children’s Place Association’s Jr. Board gathered more than 150 supporters for “Enchantment Under the Sea," a fundraiser to support Chicago's most vulnerable children, on June 13. Hosted at one of the city's unique galleries, Ignite Glass Studio, the event, raised $57,000 for the nonprofit. During the evening, guests

Hannah Slowey, Cameron and Jessica Valdes

enjoyed themed cocktails, sushi stations, a raffle, silent auction and a live DJ. A program highlighted the critical work Children’s Place Association does in Chicago’s impoverished communities, including early

Maggie Ryan and Maureen McClusky (co-chair).

education, health care, foster care and supportive housing. Kloie McCann and Maureen McCluskey served as co-chairs of the event with lead sponsors CIBC, CNA, Duane Morris, MB Financial, Fifth Third and Keystone Capital. For 28 years, Children’s Place Association has developed innovative programs that help vulnerable children break the cycle of adversity. Children’s Place has helped more 6,000 people since opening in 1991 and currently provides services for 350-400 Chicago-area children and parents, helping them overcome significant challenges so they can reach their full potential. (Photos by Gale-We are Loftus)

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Fortunately, most of us never have to experience what it feels like to go without shoes. Did you know that globally, 300 million children are denied education for the simple reason that they do not own a single pair of shoes OR that women and children who walk miles for clean water, risk illness and amputation from infections caused by living in unsanitary conditions? For 20 years, the Share Your Soles Foundation has responded to

Mona Purdy, founder of Share Your Soles Foundation, during a shoe drive.

this need by distributing shoes to people living in underdeveloped communities across the globe.

A touching shoe drive photo by SYS Photo.

The nonprofit was founded by Mona Purdy in 1999 following a trip to Guatemala where she saw little kids applying tar to the soles of their feet because their families couldn't afford shoes. Please join us on Friday, August 23 when this deserving organization celebrates its 20th anniversary (of doing good) at a Masquerade Party at Carnivale. Event details here! (And please check website here for information on how to donate shoes, you know we all have too many!)

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Birthday girl Sheree Valukas with husband Jim.

Much loved philanthropist and dear friend Sheree Valukas celebrated a big birthday on July 19 at Edgewood Valley Country Club in LaGrange. She was surrounded by 40 admiring girlfriends who toasted, danced and celebrated this wonderful woman who gives back to so many. (Sheree is

Heather Jane Johnston, Sally Jo Morris, Sherry Abrahams, Kathy Piccone, Sheree, Sherrill Bodine, April Schwartz and Rhonda Liesenfelt.

involved with the Service Club of Chicago, The Lighthouse for the Blind (board of directors), the Costume Council, Canine Companions for Independence (LA and Chicago) and so many others.) Sheree's darling husband Jim Valukas was on hand to welcome guests and share his thoughts about his bride of 14 years. "She has a passion for life. My toast to Sheree is 'may this be the beginning of many more years

With Marci Holzer, Kathy Piccone, April Schwartz, Sheree, Sherrill Bodine and Bonnie Rickard.

of health, happiness and sharing a good time and love with your friends, family and your husband.'" Toasts were also offered by Sherrill Bodine, Sherry Lea

Sheree Valukas celebrating her BD at the Edgewood Valley Country Club. (Table decor enhanced by Cheryl Bollinger).

Holson and Sherry Abrahams. A delicious lunch of watermelon gazpacho, chicken and asparagus crepes preceded the beautiful birthday cake. Dancing broke out throughout the afternoon! Partygoers seen on the scene included Kathy Piccone, Mary Lasky, Bonnie Rickard, Cheryl Bollinger, Marci Holzer, April Schwartz, Tracey Tarantino, Pam Capitanini, Tina Weller, Sally Jo Morris, Bobbi Panter, Holly Barr, Heather Jane Johnston, Kristina McGrath, Lezley Hodes, Karen Peters and so many others. Even Sheree's childhood friends from Mendota were in attendance. Happy birthday dear Sheree and here's to a 100 more!

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The 4th annual Variety Show & Fundraiser for Patrick Lives On will be held on Saturday, Sept. 7 at the Chop Shop (2033 W. North Avenue). Mingle with cast members from CHICAGO PD, CHICAGO FIRE, and CHICAGO MED to raise awareness against gun violence and funds to keep at-risk teens safe and engaged. The evening will include singing, dancing, stand-up, improv, music, food, drinks, a live auction and MORE!

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If you're not watching Collector's Call (hosted by Lisa Whelchel) on Sunday nights on MeTV, you are missing one cool show! Each week, it spotlights a unique, private collection that has included a Winnie-the-Pooh Guinness Book of World Records holder, an entire KISS collection, firemen memorabilia, an incredible Wizard of Oz collection and so much more! As I mentioned in an earlier edition, our rare book collection was featured in the season finale. Special thanks to the show's parent company Weigel Broadcasting, my friend/expert Leslie Hindman and local book appraiser Thomas Joyce. See segment below:

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I am MAD about Marian!! The Music Man, running now at the Goodman Theatre (thru August 18) is a nostalgic look back at small town America and reminded me just how much I miss my own little town of Dupo, Illinois. I went in expecting Robert Preston and I came out with a deep appreciation of this hard working cast led by Geoff Packard as Harold Hill and expertly directed by Mary Zimmerman. The choreography, the songs, the staging all took us back to a kinder, gentler time and we loved every minute of it. And even though I knew the story, I still cried when the marching band appeared. You shouldn't miss it! For tickets, $25-$142, click here!

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With Chuck, Donna Rotunno, Gayle Anthony, Kirk Williams, Jim Anthony and Paul Iacono.

It was a lovefest for Madame Counselor, Donna Rotunno, during her birthday party at Le Colonial July 19. Hosted by Gayle Anthony and Paul Iacono, the party in the private Monkey Room was intimate and

Celebrating D-Ro!

celebratory on more levels than one. Not only was it a BD celebration but we also toasted Donna for getting the nod to defend Harvey Weinstein in New York. Jury selection begins Sept. 9 and the trial is expected to last 4 to 6 weeks. As one of the top defense attorneys in the land, I'm happy to know this homegrown talent is being recognized further afield for her formidable skills in the courtroom. This party followed a week of celebrations for a much loved friend. Party on D-RO!

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The GLOW in Lisle

THE GLOW: A Pumpkin Wonderland, is coming to the Chicago suburbs this October! Prepare your family for a brand new autumn experience that will feature over 5,000 hand-carved pumpkins, life-sized sculptures, classic Halloween characters, seasonal food and so much more! Located in the Sensory Garden Playground (2751 Navistar Drive, Lisle, IL), the event will donate a portion of its proceeds to Don't Be A Monster, a nonprofit that teaches kids how to combat bullying. For tickets/more info, click here! (Video below!)

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Teatro ZinZanni's "Love, Chaos and Dinner" is happening NOW in the heart of the Chicago Theatre District! This critically acclaimed show combines the best of cirque, cabaret, spectacle, live music, comedy and fine dining with a menu created by top local caterer, The Green Goddess" Debbie Sharpe! The production takes place on the 14th floor of the newly opened Cambria Hotel (32 W. Randolph) inside a rare spiegeltent, the Speigeltent ZaZou, a Belgian mirror tent filled with unique, historic touches. Individual tickets, which include a four-course meal, are on sale through September 29 and range in price from $99 to $189. For more info, click here!

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Giordano Dance Chicago will host its wildly popular "Dancing with the Giordano Stars 2019" on Thursday, October 3 at the Park West. Chicago's A-listers will shine onstage with their Giordano dance partners in the liveliest fundraiser of the year! Who will impress the celebrity judges to secure the coveted disco ball? Support your favorite star and stay to dance the night away with this much loved dance company that's ALL heart! All proceeds benefit CPS outreach, Giordano Dance company operations and jazz dance advocacy and mentorship! For tickets/more info, click here!

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The Joffrey Ballet will host a Jane Eyre Luncheon on Tuesday, October 8 at the Hilton Chicago. The event will celebrate women in the arts and the Chicago premiere of Jane Eyre with a behind-the-scenes look at the production with choreographer Cathy Marston. For tickets/more info, click here!

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Great news for local nonprofits! Art Van Furniture is celebrating more than a decade of giving back with the company’s 11th Annual Charity Challenge, which allows nonprofit organizations committed to women, children and human services to vie for 10 grants totaling $250,000, ranging from $5,000 to $100,000. Applications are open now through Aug. 19. Participating charities will compete to raise the most money from September 9 through 27. The top 10 fundraising nonprofits will be honored and receive their grants at Art Van Furniture’s 60th anniversary gala on October 24. See details here and please share with any nonprofits that might be interested/eligible. A great opportunity!

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Hope you're making the most of our fabulous summer days! Don't forget this weekend is the Randolph Street Market (July 27/28), always a great idea with over 125 vendors, music, food, fun and SALLY! And, if not a subscriber, please sign up here! I would love to have you!

Love, as always,

Candace, Candace@CandidCandace.com

P.S. And something to leave you with a smile! That laugh tho'……

“UNDER THE BIG TOP” WITH FACE THE FUTURE FOUNDATION

Plus CHANEL's perfect, private opening party; Costume Council's "Shall We Dance"; Borris' touching #TRAPPED show; "Hope Through Caring" Gala; Alzheimer Association's "Key to the Future"; Ravinia's cover boy; CS/Modern Luxury Datebook launch; Celebrating Paul; Collector's Call debuts; Sabrina's "Adventures of Kameron"; Chicago Fashion Week with FashionBar; UNICEF at the Geraghty; BEST event listings; Darling videos and so much MORE! _____________________________________________________________________________________________________________

President Award recipient John Robak, Myrna Farmer, Cynthia Calk, Stephen Cattouse and Bethany Florek

Face the Future Foundation (FFF) held its annual gala at the Four Seasons Hotel Chicago on March 23. This year’s event, themed "Under the Big Top," attracted 370 people and raised nearly $600,000 (including a generous $50,000 donation from the Chicago Title Bowl-a-thon fundraiser.) Gala proceeds benefit the UI Health Craniofacial Center for the care and treatment of children with cleft lip, cleft palate and other craniofacial conditions, for research and education and

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Aerialist artist Bobbi Reed amid decor by Tamar Productions.

support other Foundation initiatives. The black-tie affair began with a lively pre-dinner reception and a silent auction that featured nearly 100 items. The ballroom was draped in billowy red and white sheer fabric

Scholarship recipient Emily Cihla with parents Karen Olenski and David Cihla

tented across the ceiling for a “big top” effect (by Tamar Productions). In the center of the room, the Ringmaster lead circus-style acts that entertained guests before dinner. John C. Robak, president of Greeley and Hansen, received the President’s Award for his ongoing commitment to help change the lives of Chicago-area children and for his ardent support of the Foundation and its mission. Board member Mary Ann Rose introduced Robak, who said,

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Emcee Lourdes Duarte and Matt McGrath.

“Face the Future Foundation is truly a worthy cause, because of the incredibly profound way that it helps to make a better life for children with craniofacial differences, as well as their families.” Foundation president Rob Grant introduced the Adrienne L. Green scholarship recipient Emily Cihla who was born with Treacher

Kimberly and Christopher Gosell.

Collins Syndrome, an uncommon genetic condition. A few weeks after her birth, Dr Pravin Patel saw her for the first time, and performed emergency surgery to help her breathe. Emily, who has undergone multiple reconstructive procedures, will need treatment for the rest of her life. She attends the University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign, where she is currently a freshman, and plans to use the $5,000 scholarship award for continuing education. During her acceptance speech, Emily remarked, “I am very grateful for the care I've received from all my medical professionals at the Center who have helped get me where I am today. I'd also like to thank Face the

Lois Pike and daughter Abby Pike.

Future Foundation whose support has made many of my treatments possible and now, with this scholarship award, my educational endeavors. They have been an integral part of my past and now are a part my

Regina Rice, Florence Mussat MD, Aline Delpierre and Joy Degani.

future.” (Read more of Emily’s story here.) The appeal video featured Abigail Pike, who was born with cleft lip and palate and adopted from China as an infant. It touched on her personal struggles with accepting her appearance, her feelings of insecurity and inferiority and an unwillingness to smile. With the help of her team of doctors and medical professionals, and the additional surgeries she has undergone to correct the issues, she has blossomed into a smiling 16-year-old. (Click here for the appeal video.) The Craniofacial Center’s director, Mimis Cohen MD, expressed his gratitude to the Foundation. (Photos by David Turner)

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Designer Borris Powell bares his soul at his "Trapped" fashion show.

On March 24 at the Drake Hotel one of Chicago's most beloved fashion designers bared his soul through his #TRAPPED collection. It was an exciting fashion moment, as all of Borris Powell's' runway shows are, but it also came with a touchingly honest revelation on the life he's led. As a sellout crowd enjoyed his latest looks, a new line that transcends seasons and instead embraces them all (his Trans Season Collection), no one was aware of the pain Borris had kept from even his closest friends. In Borris' own words, "I feel that while this is my most favorite collection that I've ever designed, it was the most hurtful at the same time. I personally was going through a lot of disappointment, heartache, shame, feeling of loneliness, and so much more that started to lead to a bit of depression. For way too long I would hide these feelings out of shame, or the fact that I thought I would scare friends and clients away. Going to different events and being out, I got very good at acting as if I was on top of the world and I was living the

Borris and makeup artist Kim prepare for the show.

most amazing life. You know what they say. 'Fake it until you make it' or 'Keeping up with the Jones.' Living the constant lie and then coming back to my reality became unbearable for me. Before too long, I was living a #trapped life. Pretending to be what everyone had come to expect me to be based on the type of garments that I make and the events that I attend, was eating at me. Because that was far from the life that I was truly living. There was a time that I was living out of a car that my

The collection was for all sexes and spanned all seasons.

dad had given me. See, I didn't even have an address, but yet I was attending lavish events and brushing shoulders with some of the most wealthiest. At times, at these events, it could have been my only true meal that day. It was 8 months living like this before I was able to climb my way out of the darkness. But the damage had

Borris promoting his fashion show on TV and smiling through the pain.

already been done. It would take me some time to be able to direct this hurt and pain that almost took me down a path of no return and make it into a message. I have to give credit to music once again for saving my life. One day I heard a song that grabbed me. Then that song led me to two more. Ultimately, these three songs started to give me a sense of purpose. From there, visions. Then it started to make more and more sense. I was feeling trapped within a life that I worked so hard to build." He added, " I just hope that by me telling my truth, I can help take some of the shame away and save someone else that might

The "Borris" bag–GIMME!

not see a way out, and or, make more of us aware of the hurt that our loved ones are going through. If we pay closer attention, maybe we can save someone that isn't as strong in that moment, or doesn't have an outlet to work out the darkness." (For 24 hour depression helpline, click here) The collection and Borris received multiple standing ovations. There were lots of tears but Borris is coming out of the darkness and taking his true place in the world–a place where love is more important than money and the truth will always set you free. Love and thank you for your honesty Borris. I bet there are more people living like this than you know. You are never alone. (Save October 19 for Borris' next big show!)

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The exhibit!

The Costume Council of the Chicago History Museum hosted "Shall We Dance," the opening night gala of the Museum's new fashion exhibition, Silver Screen to Mainstream: American Fashion in the 1930’s and 40’s. More than 150 guests attended the event on April 5 which included an elegant ballroom dance performance by the popular Megan and Igor Afonkin. Guests also enjoyed music

Kathleen Haines-Finley– a vision of style.

by Michael Lerich and His Orchestra. The event raised over $100,000 in support of the Costume Council’s commitment to the Chicago History Museum and was co-chaired by Pamella Capitanini, Karen Peters and Richard and Diane Weinberg. The fashionable event included a champagne

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Co-chair Richard Weinberg and his dance partner.

reception and a first-look at the exhibit. The Costume Council supports the Museum’s world-renowned costume collection, which contains over 50,000 pieces dating from the 1750s to the present and, if you haven't visited, you're really missing out. Its holdings encompass garments worn by prominent Chicagoans and Americans. Unique pieces include personal items belonging to Abraham and Mary Todd Lincoln, Michael Jordan's basketball uniform and Mahalia Jackson's choir robe. The earliest pieces

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Always handsome guest Mark Olley!

include suits worn by George Washington and John Adams. The Museum's extensive couture holdings, ranging from Charles Worth gowns to the innovative designs of Yohji Yamamoto, have earned an international reputation. (All

Beautiful co-chair Pam Capitanini (center) and friends.

FAB photos by Mark Olley!)

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Lin Brehmer with the Browns.

The Les Turner ALS Foundation hosted its annual Hope Through Caring Gala on March 9 at Rockwell on the River in Chicago. Nearly 450 people helped honor Mindy Evans-Williams and Robert L. Sufit, MD, raising $617,000 for the foundation. The gala featured a video presentation, paddle raise, balloon raffle, award presentations and music by The Chicago Players. Emcee Paul Lisnek (of WGN-TV) opened the evening’s program followed by heartfelt remarks from Les Turner ALS Foundation’s CEO Andrea Pauls Backman and board chair Ken Hoffman. Andrea and Ken spoke of the

Josh Newsome, Andy Jordan and cute friend.

Foundation’s role in the lives of those affected by ALS and thanked the 21 men and women living with ALS who were in attendance. “We were honored to be joined by so many people living with ALS and are grateful to everyone we serve for trusting us with their care,” said Backman. “People living with ALS and their families are the spirit of what we do, and every decision we make and step forward we take is informed by and because of them. They are our constant motivation to put an end to this devastating disease.” Auctioneer Wade Leist led the crowd in an exciting and highly successful paddle raise that realized over $243,000. Mindy was diagnosed with ALS in September of 1992 and has received support

Laurie Fieldman, Mindy Evans-Williams (honoree) and friend.

and resources from the Foundation. To show her

Paul Lisnek (R) and friends.

appreciation and to help others facing their own unique experiences with ALS, Mindy generously pays it forward with gifts and donations to the Foundation. She was presented with the Hope Through Caring Award by her longtime friend and social worker with the Foundation, Laurie B. Fieldman, LCSW. The program included an additional award presentation, the first-ever Harvey and Bonny Gaffen Advancements in ALS, which was given to Robert Sufit, MD. Throughout his 27 years as a neurologist at the Les Turner ALS Center at Northwestern Medicine, Rob has helped thousands of families affected by ALS and has demonstrated a commitment to creating individualized treatments and furthering research through more than 90 scientific publications.

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Blending in at Chanel's private party.

On April 9, Oak Street was abuzz as Chanel hosted an official private party to celebrate its gorgeous new location at 65 E. Oak Street. I suspect this Tuesday night event was the first of many for the store but it was a thrill to be included for this one that attracted a lot of familiar faces. Black-clad name checkers made sure no one who wasn't invited slipped inside the door. Inside, Champagne on silver

Chanel Takeover at Le Colonial.

trays and caviar topped hors d'oeuvres were passed through the well-heeled throng. Designed by Peter Marino, the space is a work of art–all black, white and silver sleekness with a restroom that belongs in the Louvre, pink slabs of marble on all four walls

Chuck enjoying Le Colonial's exquisite bar.

with not a seam in sight. Oh my. A dinner followed next door at Le Colonial–Chicago's newest hotspot–where the always darling Nate Berkus and his husband were seen dining earlier in the week. The entire restaurant was a "Chanel Takeover” with gorgeous white flowers topping the tables. It was a beautiful space that I had only seen packed on a regular, open-to-the-public night. With less people, I was

Julianna Zobrist wearing light-up Chanel sandals.

able to truly appreciate how magnificent this restaurant is from the cherry wood and zinc bars that had to be airlifted through the windows to the exquisite

Beautiful mother/daughter tablemates.

coffered ceiling. And, in true Chanel-perfection-form, the takeaway gift was a 7 ounce bottle of "1957" cologne! To die. Seen on the scene were Toni Canada, clad in a magnificent bejeweled vintage Chanel jacket, Susanna Homan, Liza Schweitzer, Paula Borg, Julianna Zobrist (wearing Chanel light-up sandals), Liz Ryan, Hanah Jubeh, Whitley Bouma-Herbert, Gregg Zgonena and Shaun Moselik and so many others! Huge congrats to owner Joe King–customers who loved the old Le Colonial spot needn't have worried about the change–it's even better than the original!

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Dan Murphy, gala chair, and Dr. Maria Carrillo, Chief Science Officer, Alzheimer's Assn.

The Alzheimer’s Association’s top supporters and committee members gathered at the Conrad Hilton Suite at the Hilton Chicago on March 19 for their annual Kick-Off for an intimate research update and conversation with Alzheimer’s Association Chief Science Officer, Maria Carrillo, PHD. The event was held in honor of the 32^nd Annual Chicago Rita Hayworth Gala, which is taking place on May 4^th at the Hilton Chicago. Guests discussed the upcoming

Joan and Paul Rubschlager (2019 Legacy Award recipients, center) with Betsy and Dave Goltermann.

gala event and its theme of “The Key to the Future” – inspired by Paris’ world-famous Pont des Arts (the Love Lock Bridge), bringing together advocates passionate about unlocking a world without Alzheimer’s disease. Joan and Paul Rubschlager, Zenith Society members, were recognized with the Legacy

Philanthropists Joan and Paul Rubschlager (2019 Gala Legacy Award recipients) and valued members of the community.

Award for their ongoing support of the Association's global research program. In 2012, they generously donated $1 million for the efforts and in 2018, they made a second Zenith Society-level investment to support the nutritional counseling and modification component of the U.S. Study to Protect Brain Health. The Rubschlagers are much loved members of the community and their support spans across many fields of medical research and the arts. (For gala info, click here!) (Photos by Bill Richert)

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Congrats to much loved Nick Pullia, Ravinia's adorable award-winning Director of Communications,

Nick Pullia, Ravinia's Director of Communications, is a cover star!

who was recently featured in the cover story of the Highland Park Neighbors Magazine! The wide ranging article by Paul Clements (with photos by Scott McDougall) covered everything

With Shelita Shaw, Jennifer Schulze, Nick Pullia, Dina Bair and Cheryl Burton.

from Nick's enthusiasm for the arts to his successful "side job" as a screen writer (he's sold two screenplays, including one to Ralph Lauren's producer/son Andrew Lauren). Nick's interests are wide and varied and includes a menagerie of beloved furry friends–a Moluccan Cockatoo, a rescued Scarlet Macaw and Sun Conure. Rescue dogs include a Pyrenees mix, Redtick Coonhound and a harlequin-coated Great Dane. His creativity and joie de vivre are limitless and contagious. It's an honor to call him a friend. Congrats with love Nick!

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Co-hosting CS Datebook Launch with David Zivan, Modern Luxury Group Editor/Editor-in-Chief CS Mag and Men's Book Chicago.

Thanks to David Zivan (Modern Luxury Group Editor/ Editor-in-Chief CS Mag and Men's Book Chicago) and Dan Uslan (Modern Luxury Market President) for the privilege of co-hosting your fabulous CS Datebook 2019 Launch Party on March 26. It was a packed house at Truluck's (41 E. Chestnut) for this celebration of Chicago's "charity Bible"! It's

Truluck's managing partner Andrea Gentry and Dan Uslan, Modern Luxury Market President.

my go-to source (after CandidCandace.com, of course!) for all the latest and best event news with fab photos from past charity events. The "source" is a great guide for what's happening around town and it actually serves as a vetting process too so, if your event isn't listed, make sure you contact CS for next year! I co-hosted with David

Hot singer Molly Callinan.

who gave me such an incredible introduction that I wished I'd been wearing waterproof mascara. The entertainment couldn't have been better as the incredible and beautiful Molly Callinan (who also serves as the lead singer for Gary Sinise & Lt. Dan Band!!) sang her heart out onstage. There were welcoming remarks from Dan as well as the managing partner of Truluck's Andrea Gentry. The spring decor and magnificent ice sculpture made the event even more special as we mixed and mingled with friends that included Paul Iacono, Andrea Schwartz, Laura Schwartz (who is soon to be Laura Schwartz Santiago), Michael Caputo, Ken Norgan, Matt Olaveson,

Michael Caputo

Michael Kutza, John Robak and Bethany, Jennifer Kiefer, Tom Ward, Beth Silverman, Joanna Slusky, Geoff Burton, Adrienne Squires, the Landan Twins, Laurie Dimakos,

With the fab staff of Truluck's, 41 E. Chestnut. (Photo by Jan Salazar)

Jennifer and Dr. Joaquin Brieva, Jackie O'Connor, Mila Samokhina and daughter Elena, Heather Farley Ingram, Rhonda Sanderson, Simona Garcia, Nan Giordano, Joshua Blake Carter, Victor Mitchell, Peter Au, Kyle Curry and so many others! It was a great night with friends celebrating the wealth of nonprofits we are lucky to have here in the Windy City! A special shout-out and thanks to Sam Tobias (Modern Luxury Director of Marketing) and her team for making the evening simply perfect!

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Popular Paul Iacono celebrates his BD with friends.

I don't know anyone who celebrates birthdays like Chicago's own Paul Iacono (president Chicago Dowel Company) And, it's through no fault of his own, he just has so damn many friends who want to celebrate with him! I bet he goes out every night for a month or more. For this year's fete, Frances Renk and Todd Hatoff planned a very memorable evening that began at Todd's elegant condo on Lake Shore

Party hosts with the most Frances Renk and Todd Hatoff.

Drive. It was all old world elegance combined with modern touches. Multiple views of the lake and the city could be seem from every room that was decorated Art Deco-style with the original moldings and 1920s limestone fireplace intact. Everywhere Todd went, his beloved dog

With Frances Renk, Monica Canellis, Sherry Lea Holson and Lou Canellis at AVLI.

Lucy followed, even placing herself perfectly for the group photo. Lucky guests included Jennifer and Dr. Joaquin Brieva, Jeff Shea and his wife Melissa, Chris Renk, Chuck, Sherry Lea Holson, Kadmiel Christmas and Dede Lubeznik. Following cocktails at Todd's, we headed over to the new Lincoln Park hotspot, Avli Taverna(1335 W. Wrightwood). This Greek restaurant is an offshoot of the one in suburban Winnetka, both owned

BD boy Paul Iacono with Jennifer Sutton and Dr. Joaquin Brieva.

by Louie Alexakis. The Lincoln Park spot includes sportscaster Lou Canellis as part of the crew. He greeted us warmly, along with his glam wife Monica (with baby in tow). It's a family spot for sure with delicious dishes that include great small plates and mains like moussaka tselementes (a 1910 casserole recipe of roasted lamb, bechamel, eggplant and potatoes). A Greek Feast BBQ Lamb requires a 24 hour pre-order. Everything was DELICIOUS with a capital D! Happy BD Paul and thanks for Avli, Louis and Lou!

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Collector's Call on Me-TV!

Watch out Antiques Roadshow, a new show debuted Sunday night on Me-TV! "Collector's Call" showcases people with unique collections with a surprising twist at the end! Check it

Our segment will be the season finale on June 23 with Leslie Hindman and Thomas Joyce.

out every Sunday at 9 pm central. (Listings here!) (The show is on RCN channel 14 in Chicago.) AND, mark your calendar for June 23, when my segment is featured as the season finale with Leslie Hindman as a trusty advisor and book appraiser Thomas Joyce!

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Best wishes and good luck to my friend/fellow Chicago Now blogger Sabrina Nixon on her latest children's book, "The Adventures of Kameron." This beautifully illustrated book follows the journey of Kameron, a young boy with autism, that is based on the story of her real life son. It helps provide an understanding of this often misunderstood disorder in a fun and colorful manner. (To order, click here) April is Autism Awareness Month!

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FashionBar Chicago (Tony Long and team) presented a series of well-attended fashion

With FashionBar's Tony Long and friend.

shows to spotlight Chicago Fashion Week recently. The week started with an Evening Wear collection previewed at Joy District. The following shows were held at Water Tower Place and included

Design by Jackie Holloway-The Jackie O Experience.

a Trans, Media & Fashion, Modern Minimalist, Beautiful Business, Urban Ready Wear and Resort & Swimwear shows. We attended the Trans, Media & Fashion Show that benefited Howard Brown Health Center. Models from the Broadway Youth Center captivated attendees presenting looks from some of Chicago's hottest designers. (Jackie Holloway –Jackie O Experience- was a personal favorite!) Don't miss this event next year as FashionBar Chicago "raises the bar" for Windy City style!

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Former President George Bush receives the Leadership Prize from ALPLF. (Photo by Ana Miyares)

The Abraham Lincoln Presidential Library Foundation (ALPLF) presented former President George W. Bush with ALPLF’s Lincoln Leadership Prize at the Mariott Marquis Chicago on April 1. While the event was closed to media, you know Candid Candace has her sources! Congrats to former President Bush and thanks RJ Bruce!

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Emma Kathleen Hepburn Ferrer, Audrey Hepburn's granddaughter, with James Gourley.

It was such an incredible night at the Geraghty for UNICEF's 12th annual gala. From the interactive installations to the sexy Moroccan vide to the keynote speaker, the event drove the point home about the need to support humanity (children in particular) in crises throughout the world. Speaker Emma Kathleen Hepburn Ferrer, Audrey Hepburn's granddaughter, spoke about her iconic relative and the impact she had helping children in her role as UNICEF ambassador. See this moving video here and check my Chicago Tribune column for details coming soon!

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There are so many worthwhile charities that are hosting yearly fundraisers. Please check out some of my favorites: On Thursday, September 19 (Chuck's birthday), Haute Dog Chicago returns for the 4th year to the Peninsula. Benefiting Canine Companions for Independence, the evening will feature a doggie runway show, produced by ZZAZZ Productions, with lots of local notables! Click here for tickets/more info!

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Holiday Heroes' annual gala returns on Thursday, June 13, at Theater on the Lake (2401 N. Lake Shore Drive). This is the largest fundraiser for the nonprofit that benefits hospitalized children in the Chicagoland area and, this year, the Heart of a Hero honoree will be Kristina McGrath. For tickets, more info, click here!

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The Ingalls Development Foundation will host its annual benefit on Saturday, June 1, at the Tinley Park Convention Center. The event will raise funds to help improve the health of the Chicago Southland communities served by Ingalls and feature legendary entertainer Smokey Robinson. The night will include a VIP reception, dinner and program. For tickets, $125, and more info, click here!

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On Saturday, May 4, the Howard Brown Health Center will present ChiQ, a fundraiser that raises money for the Center's women's services, at the South Shore Cultural Center (7059 S. South Shore Drive). HBH was founded in 1974 and is now one of the largest lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) organizations in the country serving more than 35,000 adults and youth each year. For tickets/more info, click here!

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The Goodman Theatre will host its annual gala, "Starstruck," on Saturday, May 18, at the Fairmont. The event will benefit the theatre's programming and outreach and feature Tony Award nominee Megan Hilty. (For tickets/info, click here!) Also, mark your calendars for Monday, July 8, the opening night of their big musical revival of "The Music Man"!

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The Commercial Finance Association (CFA) will present its "CFA Cares Spring Gala" on Friday, May 10 at the Ivy Room (12 E. Ohio). This year's event will benefit Imerman Angels, a nonprofit that provides one-on-one free cancer support. (For tickets/more info, click here!)

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The Chinese American Service League will host its 40th anniversary Spring Gala on Thursday, May 9, at Morgan Manufacturing. This year's event will honor Michael Tang with the Golden Lion award. Thanks CASL for all the good you do in the community! For tickets/more info, click here! (Proud to be a host committee member along with Judy Hsu, Linda Yu, Joanie Lum and others!)

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Pulitzer Prize-winning author Marilynne Robinson.

The 2019 Newberry Library Awards Dinner will be held on Monday, May 6. The evening will bid a fond farewell to David Spadafora, president and librarian, and honor Pulitzer Prize-winning author Marilynne Robinson for her outstanding achievements and support. For tickets, more info, click here!

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The Music Institute of Chicago will honor acclaimed trumpet player, bandleader, composer and educator Wynton Marsalis with the prestigious Dushkin Award at the Four Seasons on Monday, May 20. The celebration will also recognize philanthropic and civic leaders Caryn and King Harris and Susan Charles. For tickets/more info, click here!

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The 14th Award for Excellence in Sports Journalism benefit will support the work of the Union League Boys & Girls Clubs on Thursday, April 18, at the Club. The Ring Lardner Award, that honors excellence in sports journalism, will be presented to Peggy Kusinski (NBC 5), Mike Downey and Lacy Banks (posthumously). Presenters will include Linda Yu (ABC-7/Sun-Times) and former Chicago Bull Bill Cartwright. For tickets, $200, and more info, click here!

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The "Art of Caring: Compassionate with Purpose" benefit will celebrate 30 years of support by the Catholic Charities of Lake County. The event will be held on Saturday, April 6 at the Armour House Mansion and Gardens and include a gourmet dinner, dancing, music by LFC Entertainment and more! This fundraiser has raised more than $5.8 million and supports 28 lake county programs including Meals on Wheels and Diaper Depot. For tickets/more info, click here!

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Olympian Michael Phelps will host a star-studded benefit on May 19.

Olympian Michael Phelps will host "Golf. Give. Gala," an event to benefit his Michael Phelps Foundation on Sunday, May 19, at the Hotel Baker in St. Charles, Illinois. Influential guests will include Patrick Sharp (Blackhawks), Tim Tebow (NFL), Taylor Kinney ("Chicago Fire"), Kerry Wood (Cubs), David Ross (Cubs), Ben Higgins and Colton Underwood ("The Bachelor"), Jeremy Piven (actor), Drew Scott ("Property Brothers") and more! A surprise musical performance is scheduled too! The Foundation supports water-safety, wellness, and goal-setting programs for Boys & Girls Clubs of America members and Special Olympics International athletes. The following day, May 20, Phelps will also host a golf tourney. (For tickets/more info, click here!)

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The Driehaus Design Initiative will present the Driehaus Awards for Fashion Excellence runway show competition on Friday, April 26, at Chicago Vintage Motor Carriage (700 S. Desplaines St.) Produced by ZZAZZ Productions, the designers will be judged by a celebrity panel to determine the winner, who will receive a check for $7,500, the production of a look book and an apparel display at Neiman Marcus Michigan Avenue. Neiman's Wendy Krimins will select one designer to receive the Neiman Marcus Distinguished Designer Award that will include a window display at the Michigan Avenue store as well. For tickets/more info, click here!

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The Ryan Licht Sang Bipolar Foundation will host its 13th annual medical briefing luncheon, "Unlocking the Secrets & the Silence" on Wednesday, May 8 at the Casino (195 E. Delaware Pl.) This year's Shining Star Award will be presented to Mary Ellen McGrath in recognition of her support, leadership and commitment to the Foundation. For tickets, $250, and more info click here!

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On Friday, May 3, High Jump Chicago (HJC) will present its annual Spring Opportunity Benefit at the Four Seasons Chicago. This is the organization's signature fundraising event to raise funds for tuition-free programs for Chicago middle school students from families with limited financial means. Notable guests will include Meredith Bluhm-Wolf, Priscilla Kersten, Jack Ferro and Michael Episcope. For tickets/more info, click here!

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F.A.M.E. (Foundation of Artists Mentored in Entertainment) will host its annual benefit at the Chicago Yacht Club (Monroe harbor) on Saturday, April 13. The evening will feature local artists competing and displaying their extraordinary skills through song and dance, a buffet, dancing and more. For tickets/more info, click here! (This wonderful benefit was founded by Lily Liu of Lily's Talent Agency, of which I'm proudly registered! Kudos Lily!)

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And last but not least, please join Michael Caputo and me when we return as co-chairs for Eversight Illinois' Gift of Sight Gala set for Thursday, October 24, back at the Peninsula! We'll be honoring Sherry Lea Holson as the Woman of Vision. We are planning LOTS of surprises so prepare to expect the unexpected at this creative black-tie masquerade party to benefit sight restoration. For tickets/more info, please click here!

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